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With Graf spellers like U?!! Damn!
/r/seduction05/07/15 12:58 PM
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Based on my post, why would you think I'd feel okay having sex with someone the first night I meet them? I think I was on the wrong subreddit, but I got good advice here about exposure and explanation and understanding that most guys won't be okay with this, so I'm okay.
/r/seduction05/07/15 03:10 AM
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I didn't mind it. I know it's a problem I must work through. But in the meantime, I was looking for advice. It might take a while and I'm not young forever.
/r/seduction05/07/15 02:53 AM
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The guys who approach at a bar or club aren't gonna be the 'I looove your cat, let's wear sweaters and talk about cis privilege' type. Ew! Who wants that type! I don't own a cat. I don't even think I own a sweater. Also, I'm really white. I'm probably the whitest you will ever meet, even though you haven't met me.
/r/seduction05/07/15 12:48 AM
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How many women in their early 20s would call Brad Pitt a creep if he started hitting on them? Virtually fucking none. So my friend's cousin is a model, and she was at a show, and apparently Leonardo diCaprio hit on her and she shut him down with a "do you know how old I am? Why are you talking to me?" That sounds very like /r/thathappened, and I don't know if it did, but I wouldn't want to go out with someone about twice my age, no matter how good-looking they were. That's too weird. It's fine n…
/r/seduction04/07/15 11:54 PM
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Though if you tell them you aren't touchy then they keep doing, I don't know what to say... :P I immediately say it and then the attractive guys wait like five minutes and then do it again and it's like no, that won't work this time I think that's creepy.
/r/seduction04/07/15 11:47 PM
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It's like this: Growing up, my mother never hugged me or touched me unless it was to hit me. My father was not around. You can imagine what this did to my psyche. There's no need to go into it, but I have worked hard to get past much of the pain and trauma, and I have begun to go on dates and see guys more. I have gotten so, so far. However, it will honestly likely be a long time before hugs or general physical touch feel normal and not like they're something to only share with a person I trust.…
/r/seduction04/07/15 11:41 PM
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I like that too. Yoga with male instructors helped me too, because they put their hands on my body in adjustments but I never felt like my space was invaded.
/r/seduction04/07/15 11:23 PM
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95% of the time creepy is a term used to shame unattractive men. hahaha no it is not Something I've noticed: The guys who touch me who are the most creepy are attractive men who don't ... I don't know if they're not picking up on cues, or what, but they keep touching me way, way past my social boundaries. That is creepy. Unattractive guys generally touch me once and then stop. That is not creepy. I know a lot of girls use "creepy" to talk about unattractive guys, but I only think of men in gener…
/r/seduction04/07/15 11:22 PM
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I am seeing one. In the meantime, what can I do?
/r/seduction04/07/15 10:49 PM
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Oh, I love it! I love it so much! Now that I've been kissed, all I want to do is get held. But I have to know the person first, and touching them first is great advice. I was worried that I might seem creepy, putting my hands all over someone, but I think it's a little different for girls.
/r/seduction04/07/15 10:48 PM
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One time a guy who was alone asked me if I was married. It was 11:15 PM, we were at a bar, and I was a good eleven years younger than him. As long as you don't do that, I am sure you'll be okay. I'm a girl and I don't care if a guy is alone. Maybe I should because you could possibly be like a sex offender, but I think those guys travel in packs, don't they? But I digress –– I wouldn't go to bars alone if you want to pick up a lot of girls. Maybe try a cafe?
/r/seduction04/07/15 07:42 PM
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Now don't get me wrong, I'm all for being money conscious. But asking someone out on a date and expecting them to pay just seems rude to me. I don't want to ask a guy out unless he's really shy –– my mother always told me not to, and it seems like good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 10:50 AM
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That said, as a girl, I don't want to marry someone who's had sex with a ginormous number like 15 people! Crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/15 11:23 PM
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I make sure we pick a place I can afford, I bring my wallet, and I'm certainly not going to make a scene if he accepts my offer. For real. I have always offered to pay, and the one time I was accepted –– "sure, that would be great." He didn't seem very feminist, which made me wonder –– what the heck? Not interested. Something about that date left me dry. Second and on, I'll go on dutch!
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/15 10:05 PM
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One who is taken over by emotional issues isn't capable of stepping outside of yourself to observe your own behavior or you wouldn't be so caught up in them, which makes understanding how you are impacting others in the moment nearly impossible. All I ever do is listen to others. I think that it's always better to give more than you take. I didn't mention them in the post because I don't think to tell people about them -- you can't see them, they're not on the surface, so why bother? I have many…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/15 02:03 PM
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One mistake I see you making is that you are not communicating your expectations clearly and openly. You should make it clear that you are only looking for a relationship, and sex will ONLY happen in that context. "I wasn't interested in having sex with him" does not send this message at all. That's a good idea. I think three months would be better. Also, something tells me I won't be very sexually compatible with this person anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/15 07:50 PM
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Many BP women want to continue to talk about their emotional illnesses, with an expectation that a man should just accept it and deal with it for the prize of getting to date her. Better yet, he should be her substitute-counselor, and he should play Captain SaveAHo. I wonder where you are on this, since your original post emphasizes all you have going for you, yet it leaves out this important detail of the package that you have to offer men. No, I go to see a counselor regularly and I don't talk…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/15 06:15 PM
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this is a great response! Thanks. It's hard to ask Red Pill guys this (tried and deleted), because they're coming from their perspective -- wanting to have lots of sex with as many girls as possible. But then they want to marry someone who hasn't, so how is that fair? It's not. I like the last question you left off on. If I'm dating someone for a while and feel comfortable with them, then why not have sex?
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/15 03:37 PM
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That's okay. I know dating as a virgin will be hard.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/15 03:04 PM
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I understand why. You explained it. But if you don't talk to him and explain yourself he's going to get up and leave soon. Isn't me not wanting to reason enough? I don't owe anyone sex, just like he doesn't owe me companionship.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/15 02:49 PM
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People here seem really bitter and angry. I'm not lying about being fairly pretty, or thin, or a virgin, and I wasn't trying to suggest I don't have flaws –– of course I do. I have lots, most to do with anxiety, but I try not to show them to other people. Thanks for your response! I'll try that.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 02:38 PM
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So basically, you're saying you're perfect. Ok. Maybe what you're saying is completely true without any exaggeration, but think hard about it. Because if you aren't honest about what your flaws are, you can't work on them. I spent six months in a dermatologist's office to take care of severe scarring caused by an allergic reaction to a medication. It is almost completely gone now, which I'm grateful for, and I'm not trolling. It's weird to go on dates and hear things like "you're pretty." I'm su…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/15 02:36 PM
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I am both of those things, and I am seeing a therapist to work through them.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 02:36 PM
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I know guys need sex more than girls do (even though I think girls can get more pleasure from it), but I'd like to think that the person I truly love –– the one I want to give my virginity to –– would be willing to wait for as long as I need. I'm sure there's someone in the world.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 02:21 PM
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The United States Someone who is strong, who can take care of me (though I'm fully capable of taking care of myself and am not dependent), and who genuinely cares for and loves me.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 02:12 PM
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I'm saying you should realise that SAYING you're not going to... Won't mean much when everyone else lies. It might not in the moment, but it will when I don't do it. I'm not someone who gets easily pressured.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 02:03 PM
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I know that's how sex is typically viewed, but I see it a little differently –– I need to fully trust the person and feel very in love with them. If I don't, then I won't respect myself. I know most guys don't feel that way (and most girls don't, either), and so I might have to wait a little while. That's okay.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 02:02 PM
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