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rib_bay_row/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:40 PM
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OYS #3 21/12/21 Stats: 25 yo 190cm 81.5kg 12%BF (Navy) Single – No plates Lifts: SL 5X5: SQ: 105 kg OHP: 42.5 kg BP:65 kg Deadlift: 110 kg (1x5) Went to the gym 4 times, ate around 200g of protein a day, and did yoga/stretching 3 times. Reading NMMNG, AMS book, WISNIFG, Rational Male, MAP, How to win friends and influence people TWOTSM, 48 LoP Reading: TRM 60% Objectives: Short term: Find a job abroad. Started contacting companies in my country for kind of a different field job that I hopefully …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 05:11 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 10:39 AM
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I 100% agree with what you say, and maybe you can tell me if i'm bs'ing myself, but I think until I can look inward for validation, approaching will not really help, because everything will be framed from the wrong premisse. I believe that once I can be my own source on validation (I'm noticing a lot of improvement here), I will be able to be ask girls out because I actually want to, and face rejection with indiference, because right now, rejection would mean I'm worthless, and acceptance would …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/21 03:07 PM
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I've aproached and made out with a couple girls in the past two weeks, but i don't see it as progress so I don´t feel the need to post it. I need to work on approaching girls when I want to, but because I still see girls as a huge source of validation, I frame it as the woman having all the control over my value, and that is scary as shit, so I only aproach when I'm drunk out of my mind. I'm working on reframing my mindset, and being able to be the one who defines my own value. I see already som…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/21 06:53 PM
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Right now, the gym is my main source of joy, I love working hard on something, the feeling I get imediately after a good workout, but also the feeling that comes with being disciplined and seeing progress, I guess this might work in other areas of my life. I also like to go out and dance with friends. In terms of being proud, mostly the fact that i'm being more and more disciplined, I've been doing more and more thing that I used to tell myself I would do but end up not doing, basically I'm bs'i…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/21 06:47 PM
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OYS #2 14/12/21 Stats: 25 yo 190cm 81kg 12%BF (Navy) Single – No plates Lifts: SL 5X5: SQ: 100 kg OHP: 42.5 kg BP:65kg Deadlift: 100 kg (1x5) Went to the gym 4 times, ate around 200g of protein a day, and did yoga/stretching 3 times. Reading NMMNG, AMS book, WISNIFG, Rational Male, MAP, How to win friends and influence people TWOTSM, 48 LoP Reading: TRM 40% Objectives: Short term: Find a job abroad. Sent more CV’s on linkedIn, nothing came to fruition yet. Mental Models: Still trying to understa…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 06:36 PM
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Thank you for the reply! In terms of the money, I think it was more of an unconcious belief I had since I was a child but I didn´t know I had, and When I realized it, I rationalized what would be the worst case scenario. I get fired, in my country we have social security, so I'd recieve money for some months, I also have an emergency fund that would last me 6 months to a year, fortunately I have a lot of family that I could stay with, I'd be fine. In terms of the me not approving myself, that's …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/21 07:50 PM
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OYS #1 7/12/21 I’m single so I guess I’m not the demographic of this sub, but I really see value on some of the discussions I see here, and I want to fix myself. Stats: 25 yo 190cm 80kg 12%BF (Navy) Single – No plates Lifts: SL 5X5: SQ: 95 kg OHP: 42.5 kg BP:62.5kg Rack Pulls: 90 kg Bought a scale, went to the gym 4 times, ate around 200g of protein a day, and did yoga/stretching 3 times. Reading NMMNG, AMS book, WISNIFG, Rational Male, MAP, How to win friends and influence people TWOTSM, 48 LoP…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/21 03:25 PM
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Isnt this post a bit redundant? If you want to 'friend' your way into pussy, she will know this and realize you dont have the balls to be direct with your intentions therefore seeing you as a bitch. If you are legit just friends with her, why the fuck do you care? If you confide with her and she starts treating you differently, shes a shit friend and you should kick her to the curb (like you would do with a male friend). So I dont see the point of this post.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 10:26 PM
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First point I personally disagree, to me they dont feel as bad as expected and I like the visual stimulation (I guess it's still the effects of porn) but your other points are great, fwb at most.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:56 PM
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OYS #8 13/04/21 Stats: 24 yo 190cm 82,8kg 11%BF (Navy) Single Lifts: SL 5X5: SQ: 100 kg OHP:35 kg BP:60kg DL:100kg Reading NMMNG, AMS book, WISNIFG, Rational Male, MAP, How to win friends and influence people (TWOTSM, 48 LoP) – These last two are way above my pay grade This week: The intelligent investor (20%) Physical Lifted 4 times, yoga 4. Ate around 200 g of protein 6/7 days, managed to gain around 0.5 kg. Tried deadlifting again and it hurt my lower back quite a bit, I’m a lanky guy with no…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 04:58 PM
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I used to do it as a procrastination tool, and it would give me a false sense of progression, I would neglet the basics and use my mental models reflections to tell myself "see i'm owning my shit" I want to have a solid foundation of behaviours before diving deeper into those thoughts.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 08:39 PM
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OYS #7 6/04/21 Stats: 24 yo 190cm 82,3kg 11%BF (Navy) Single Lifts: Gyms finally opened yesterday. SL 5X5: SQ: 90 kg Reading NMMNG, AMS book, WISNIFG, Rational Male, MAP, How to win friends and influence people (TWOTSM, 48 LoP) – These last two are way above my pay grade This week: The intelligent investor (15%) Physical Lifted 4 times, yoga two Ate around 200 g of protein 4/7 days, managed to gain around 0.5 kg Goal – 90kg Mental Meditated 5 days and read also 5 days. Goal: be an avid reader an…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 12:00 PM
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Thanks for the feedback, I will try this.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 11:58 AM
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OYS #6 30/03/21 Stats: 24 yo 190cm 81,8kg 11%BF (Navy) Single Lifts: Gyms have been closed for over two and a half months. Lifting weights at home. Reading NMMNG, AMS book, WISNIFG, Rational Male, MAP, How to win friends and influence people (TWOTSM, 48 LoP) – These last two are way above my pay grade This week: The intelligent investor Physical Lifted 4 times, yoga t wo Ate around 200 g of protein 4/7 days, managed to gain around 0.8 kg Goal – 90kg Mental Meditated 4 days and read also 4 days. …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/21 12:44 PM
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OYS #5 23/03/21 Stats: 24 yo 190cm 80kg 11%BF (Navy) Single Lifts: Gyms have been closed for over two months. Lifting weights at home. Reading NMMNG, AMS book, WISNIFG, Rational Male, MAP, How to win friends and influence people (TWOTSM, 48 LoP) – These last two are way above my pay grade This week: The intelligent investor Physical Lifted 5 times, yoga 3. Ate around 200g protein daily which equates to a gain of give or take 1 kg Goal is 90 kg Mental Read 5 times, still made some excuses two day…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 01:13 PM
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OYS #4 16/02/21 Stats: 24 yo 190cm 80kg 11%BF (Navy) Single Lifts: Gyms have been closed for two months. Lifting weights at home. Reading NMMNG, AMS book, WISNIFG, Rational Male, MAP, How to win friends and influence people (TWOTSM, 48 LoP) – These last two are way above my pay grade What happened Stopped owning my shit, I can make a lot of excuses but it all comes to lack of discipline. This time I want to make things simpler in the beginning. It’s easier to ignore the basics and to start think…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/21 01:23 PM
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Yep very much a pussy. I think i grasp the difference between those two, but i think my problem is not necessarily lack of either, maybe it is and I'm bullshitting myself. The way I see it, this fear of rejection and failure hinders me, not only in the amount of work i put in, but specially in the quality, it doesn't allow me to take risks or think "freely" because everytime i do, the fear of it not working and me failing overpowers it. I physically feel like a notch in my stomach (pseudo ansiet…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 12:33 PM
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OYS #3 10/11/20 After not getting feedback in my last OYS (3 weeks ago) I felt very demotivated and slacked really bad. Realized I was doing it to get validation from internet strangers. I’m back to actually own my shit. Stats: 24 yo 190cm (6’3) 83kg (182,6 lbs) 11%BF (Navy) Single Lifts: SL 5X5: BP: 70 kg (154 lbs) DL: 120 kg (264 lbs) [RP: 110kg (242 lbs)] SQ: 125 kg (275 lbs) OHP 45 kg (99 lbs) Why am I here? BP’d my whole life, nice guy and emotional intelligence of a 5yo. I have a very hard…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 02:23 PM
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OYS #2 20/10/20 Stats: 24 yo 190cm (6’3) 82,5kg (181,5 lbs) 11%BF (Navy) Single Lifts: SL 5X5: BP: 67.5 kg (148.5 lbs) DL: 110 kg (242 lbs) [RP: 100kg (220 lbs)] SQ: 115 kg (253 lbs) OHP 40 kg (88 lbs) Why am I here? BP’d my whole life, nice guy and emotional intelligence of a 5yo. I have a very hard time owning my shit and understanding myself, I’m here to change that. My Mission? Be the best version of myself, while deeply understanding myself. Reading NMMNG, AMS book, WISNIFG, Rational Male, …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 10:00 AM
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Ahah thank you, I will try that next time
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 08:41 PM
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Yeah I agree I'm still in the beginning, so i think the reason I'm weak as shit is because, well, im weak as shit. Im working on my diet yeah, aiming for 200g protein a day. It is what work best for me i think, i used to be 140 pounds with the same height so I think I know fairily well what i need to eat to gain those 1to 2 lbs a week. And thanks for the advice on the deadlift, to be honest my back is starting to become a bit too sore, so I will try the 1x5 as i try to perfect my form.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 08:40 PM
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Oh I see, yeah like this its easier to visualize and prioritize what i want to work on. Will do! Thank you, i really apreciate the help.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 08:35 PM
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OYS #1 13/10/20 Stats: 24 yo 190cm (6’3) 82kg (176 lbs) 11%BF (Navy) Single Lifts: SL 5X5: BP: 65 kg (143 lbs) DL: 105 kg (231 lbs) SQ: 110 kg (242 lbs) OHP 40 kg (88 lbs) Why am I here? I didn’t get here after a breakup or a sexless marriage, I’ve actually never had a serious LTR and have had a hard time with women for the better part of my life, but I really like the idea of journaling and the stuff discussed here. A friend of mine introduced me to the red pill after talks about women, and it …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 09:02 AM
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