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I am neutral to violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:15 PM
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It's more than that. Take ESG rating Blackrock uses it to "justify" who gets financing and who doesn't. So tesla has lower ESG scores than oil companies for example despite being better for environment because it has lots of white people etc. So it facilitates lots of insider trading and backroom deals. Same is with metoo, it was a tool to arbitrarily ruin anyone's life because sure they can go to court and prove their innocence but by that time their career will be finished. This way you can ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:14 PM
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It gives them arbitrary power. So if they can accuse anyone without evidence then they can ruin anyone That's why Larry fink supports Feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:04 PM
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I am definitely not pro-making men fight for the women's rights in Afghanistan because we are too scared to do it ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:03 PM
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Feminism is the reason female on male rape is not recognised in UK. Only way to change that is for feminism to not exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:59 PM
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Lol, so they are cowards who hide behind pacficism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:56 PM
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I didn't say that. I said they are willing to give their lives for good of their country
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:55 PM
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Point of my argument is, feminists are perfectly willing to trample over rights of men. They also talk about not letting accused have the right to cross examine the accuser, they talk about restricting jury trials. They tried to implement "compelled speech" as well. Feminists are currently being blocked from doing evil because founding fathers gave the power of individual to challenge the might of state in court of law. They ensure that there is rule of law, not rule by law or rule of the state.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:53 PM
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Larry fink is a supporter of feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:47 PM
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Taliban has unrestricted state power. Feminists are restricted by constitutional protections. Take Yale student case, feminists succeeding in taking away right for him to have a lawyer, and present evidence to defend himself in college hearings by lobbying to change the title 9 rules. Connecticut Supreme court came down heavy on the procedural lapses of the college. It's not that they are not trying to be like taliban, they are up against the founding fathers who valued individual rights and rul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:45 PM
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There is no way Afghanistna would be commie, it's too diverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:38 PM
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Feminism is the reason female on male rape is not recognised in UK and other places. Because they oppose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:37 PM
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So if your kitchen is on fire and firemen refuse to come to your house because amazon fires need more attention. Would that feel good to you? In grand scheme of things, you are not relevant sure. Your house burnt down but why are you complaining, you are statistically insignificant. But thats not how western societies are build. A man, can approach the court and challenge the might of federal government and fucking win. That's what rule of law is. Every one has the right to approach courts, so e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:34 PM
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Feminism is alienating men and you need corporation of men to have a system where equal rights exist. So no, you don't need feminism because feminism is actually hurting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:29 PM
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No. You can't isolate rights from its mechanism of enforcement. Rights are not inherent, they are imposed by force or possibility of force.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:27 PM
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Women are more likely to use social manipulation defamation emotional abuse and harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:25 PM
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Praise them? No. I am just saying the reality in Afghanistan is because of the factors of geography so survival depends on men shedding their blood for the good of their country. That's not a trivial things to ask from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:24 PM
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Because if doesn't benefit them to stop men from leaving house unattended. They have tried to stop men from speaking in public, they protest every MRA meetings, one time they illegally pulled a fire alarm to block a conference. They have used censorship, coercion, cancel culture to silence men with varying degree of success. With taliban, violence is used. With feminism, defamation, coercion, insults, mental harassment and emotional abuse is used.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:22 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:17 PM
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Frame the question in form of yes or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:16 PM
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What will actually happen is another faction will emerge that is willing to use violence or there will be another civil war.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:16 PM
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https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2020/10/22/taliban-isis-drones-afghanistan/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:15 PM
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Okay so let's say you right is violated, you approach the court, court rule in your favor. Then court orders some compensation, who is gonna enforce that compensation? State will. If state is not willing to, then tough luck Trail of tears is an example, when president just ignored the supreme court. So it's not enough to say you have right, you have to ask if there is mechanism for those rights to be enforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:14 PM
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That's incorrect, women are better at social manipulation and coercion. So when violence is restricted, women become the predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:12 PM
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Are you fucking serious? You can look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:09 PM
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That's you steamrolling the conversation about false accusations. How men being more likely to be raped reduce the severity of false accusations? Trump is not a convicted rapist, he was found liable in civil court and state of NY specifically changed the law so that he could get sued even after limitation had ended. There is no way he could have effectively defended his side after all those years. That's why statute limitations exist, so that defendent can make a good defense. It has always been…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:08 PM
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Sure a small percentage of men did come out and it didn't go anywhere to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:04 PM
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You know that US airforce provide air support to taliban govt right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:03 PM
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Incorrect, you have rights because it's mutually beneficial for both men and women that you have rights In a stable western society, it benefits men for women to have equal rights so they can participate in workforce and contribute to the formal economy. When you are not in stable society, and men are expected to give their lives, then you bet your ass there ain't gonna be no incentive for men to support equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:02 PM
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So if taliban gives up violence, what's gonna happen to that country?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:59 PM
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It's the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:58 PM
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Explain more
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:58 PM
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It's commensurate with balance of power. Weak always suffer. When women came up with metoo, they steamrolled any conversation about evidence or truth or false accusations anything. They did it because they had the power to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:58 PM
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Same with depravity of women in west when they have power.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:55 PM
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No, in a society where use of violence is restricted, and social manipulation and emotional abuse gives you power. Women are the predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:54 PM
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You are not getting it, taliban is extreme but there are more extreme groups. If men in taliban are not willing to shed their blood then whole country would collapse. That's only possible with an extreme ideology so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:53 PM
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No right is absolute or fundamental. You need to look at it along with the mechanisms that enforce those rights
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:51 PM
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No, that's incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:51 PM
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How long tho? You know that only reason men support feminism today is because they don't know that feminists actively work against their interests. With social media, young men are increasingly being aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:50 PM
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Feminism is around because they make reasons to be around because then money keeps flowing. Air conditioning is sexist is one example. Metoo and disregard to evidence or investigation or asking basic questions is another example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:48 PM
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That's not... Okay So you got to understand that you can't rule that country with that geography unless you have immense firepower and money like USA where you can do daily serial bombing runs. Or you have fanatics that are willing to shed blood, others and their own for a belief. That's the only way to unite that country. So without the imperial might of USA, this is the best you can do with that geography. Because many people don't know it, USA gives air support to taliban govt to keep the mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:46 PM
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I was replying to your comment. You said men will subjugate and oppress women if they were able to. My reply to that is, women are powerful in west and they don't shy away from subjugating men by using defamation, manipulation and false accusations. It's not about men being bad and women being good. If you have power, you are gonna use that power and subjugate the weak, it's not like when women got the power in the west, they were virtuous about it, they did evil shit in during their power trip …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:41 PM
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When society collapses like it did it sudan, you need to use physical force, there is no way around it. And for that you need men. Men who you claim you didn't need. Feminists don't have the balls to take up the arms and go fight. They talk big game, are rude and insulting but when it comes time to put their own life on her line, they hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:38 PM
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That's actually a good point. Feminists are the middle manager parasites of western financial order.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:36 PM
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It's about power. In a civilized society, women are more powerful because they know how to use social manipulation, gaslighting and emotional abuse to get their way. In civilised society, use of physical force is restricted. That's why women can block paternity fraud legislation or equal custody legislation. That's why women can use things like metoo to destroy men without evidence. They have the power, so they use it against men without remorse. But when the structure of society collapses, then…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:34 PM
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Fair enough, if you can keep it a secret, I can dm you something
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:29 AM
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Are you a gal or dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:13 AM
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U seriously asking or being sarcastic ? I had a long day so i can't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:02 AM
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You have never experienced a relationship where there are literally no walls around your emotions, no inhibitions. Once you actually find a partner whom you can trust to feel safe about your emotions as in someone who is not affected by them but still willing to engage with them is when you will feel it. The intensity of it all will catch you off guard. It will physically hurt to be so vulnerable and out of control. The femininity will take over, you won't be able to help it. Your whole personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:45 PM
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You broke up with him almost immediately right? That was the logical decision you made because you didn't trust him with your emotions. Because he never really made you feel like you could be really feel your emotions around him so you had to walk away from him. I made the right decision. It was over, I know me, I can forgive lots of bs, but cheating is not amongst them. Perfectly logical justification I'm also loyal and never cheated.. Perfectly logical justification. These are more than justif…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:16 PM
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Men are fine with unpredictability because they have to inherent need to make sense of it. So they are pretty good creating order out of chaos. Problem with emotions of women is, the tools men have doesn't work. Because trick with dealing with women's emotions to not fix them but let them run free. That's what men struggle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:22 PM
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But you didn't trust him with ur emotions, you ran away from him. My guess cheating caused you to feel not so safe with your emotions when it came to him. It's pity actually, your relationship could have been way stronger if he made you feel safe enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:18 PM
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How do you know that though? How can you know that your answer will be less effective that what others said What is the "other" advice? How do you test it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:02 PM
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I personally teach men that they need to let their women feel their emotions without judgment. They need to be chill, and not try to solve their problems. I teach that women are supposed to feel things more intensely and feel safe while being with their partners. Women should not have to police their emotions in front of their partners and always be on the lookout for how it's affecting their partner. I also teach them that when you allow woman to feel her emotional swings, and they don't affect…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:58 PM
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Women can't handle emotions of men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:49 PM
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Men generally get ick from emotions especially from women because they tend to be disproportionate and erratic. It triggers fight or flight response in men because they were evolved to hunt and fight so they have the need for things to be predictable and proportionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:48 PM
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If i refuse to remain faithful to my wife and I am honest about it, i don't see how that's wrong. She can leave me, but who is to say that I am wrong in doing it? Society? The same society that didn't like homosexuality till decade ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:44 PM
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For redpill, sexuality is not something to understand in its full glory, it's just a problem to solve that gives good enough results. So you start with simplistic assumption and calibrate according to the data. . That's pretty much the engineering method Eventually the black and white thinking will cause problems in the relationship you might finally land. Sure and it's your job to calibrate your world view and your thinking in order to solve those problems. How else will men learn if not by exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:39 PM
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Yeah, and its not reality based. Things aren't black and white That's not a deal breaker Ideal gas equation does not reflect reality. In reality atoms and molecules in gas interact in a way that can't be factored in by by that simple equation. But it doesn't matter, because we can just add parameters and do experiment to achieve a goal within a range of parameters for a particular task. That's the point, it's not to accurately predict but to use assumption and calibration to achieve a goal. Attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:28 PM
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Lots of pioneers of redpill and game itself were engineers. That's why it seems to outsiders that redpill is black and white That's how engineers think, they start with simplistic model and then figure out how reality deviated from those assumption and calibrate accordingly You can't make an actionable advice if you are bogged down in all the nuances. Goal is not to be completely accurate, just be effective The black/white thinking is the starting point. It gives you framework to think objective…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:09 PM
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I think it's that there are two set of rules for fuck buddy and husband material. And it's a bad deal for husband material guy because he is the one wining and dining and he is forced to remain celibate. With fuck buddy vs wife material, trade is fairer. Fuck buddy only get a dick but doesn't have to do wifey things, and wife material gets commitment, dates etc That's why men are not happy about it. Because if being a good husband material guy being a bad deal for men is not something that is ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:47 PM
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I think men are replying to the grievances of each gender separately. Men: i have been a nice guy and I get friendzoned and cheated on Redpill: that's because you are a needy nice guy, and you won't get success by doing it Women: i date assholes and he cheat on me and abuse me. Redpill: well because you date assholes, if you want to be treated nicely, dont date assholes. They are not wrong in both cases. But women are not gonna be attracted to nice guys and it's in best interest of men to be ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:41 PM
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If someone wants to lower their standards, go for it. I am not gonna judge people for doing it.But be aware of what you are doing. You can go strolling through filth and then complain that your clothes got dirty. So like when post wall women realize that they have less options so they have no choice but to go after a beta they are not attracted to, they don't get to bitch about the fact that they have to fuck him. They don't get to resent the beta for not being guy they always dreamt of marrying…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:57 PM
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I actually agree here somewhat. Mens fault is marrying post wall women. Once they are above 30, they should be send to spinsterville so that they can sew sweaters for their cats. Men are the ones not holding women accountable for their choices. Then they complain that women withhold sex from them when they didn't for previous partners. Of course they are, women are adapting, they are gonna do what's best for them. It's your job to not date a post wall woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:33 PM
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I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:59 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:14 AM
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What does that even mean lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:11 AM
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You going around commenting to me is freaking me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:00 AM
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When if I am being extra spicy today about it, should that matter ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:24 AM
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Well maybe because my gf is getting fat and I have to dump her even though I like her and it's frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:21 AM
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You want her place or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:19 AM
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I did knock up my mistress but she got an abortion straight away mostly because at that time I was a dumpster fire. Smart girl i must say but she did fuck me at that time so not as smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:15 AM
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If a woman agrees on equal custody then legal fees will be negligible. If a woman doesn't agree to equal custody and matter comes in front of the court, and she loses, she needs to compensate for all the legal cost of the man, period. That's the only way to make things fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:03 AM
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Dead beats shaming should only be done when woman is willing to give equal custody without lengthy court battle. Women can be extremely greedy about child support
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:00 AM
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Men don't abandon their kids, mother's make it hard for them to get equal custody because they want child support. That's the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:59 AM
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She leave him and get sole Custody. But she should not expect another man to step up for her child. Make the biodad pay financially. Tough luck for her but if someone step up for her child, then it would be bad for society
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:58 AM
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Never. A man should not step up as a step dad. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:56 AM
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Nope "asking" means "spending thousands of dollars in legal fees" That's what I have issue about. You should say men who are willing to fight a lengthy court battle and spend thousands of dollars are likely to get custody. Simply "asking" for it doesn't work and is oversimlification and invalidation of what fathers go through in family courts just so women can get more child support
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:55 AM
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Men stepping up as step father is disastrous to society. Children of single mothers should always have a disadvantage so that women think twice before becoming one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:53 AM
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Women have all the rights tho. Right to use birth control, right to get an abortion. Their body their choice, their responsibility Marry before you carry. Why the fuck is it so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:52 AM
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If he is abusive to the children or neglectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:51 AM
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Nah, birth rates were fine when single motherhood was demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:51 AM
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Bad husband doesn't mean bad father. Dump the guy but give him equal custody without making him fight for it in court. If he is an unfit father, then and only then you are not at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:50 AM
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Women are definitely not more willing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:48 AM
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"ask" from whom? Courts? So a man can just ask for custody, and he is gonna get it? What if the mother doesn't agree and challenges it? If the mother doesn't want it, it would mean spending thousands of dollars in court fees and lawyers.. How about this, we make default equal custody and if a mother still want sole custody, then she can take you to court. But if she fails, she needs to compensate all the legal fees of the man with interest!! Fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:46 AM
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That's responsibility of the mother If she gets preggo, she needs to ask the baby daddy for marriage. If he doesn't marry her straight away, she needs to yank the foetus. If you are married and gets a divorce because you are a bad wife, and you make your ex-husband fight for Custody instead of facilitating it, then you are at fault. Only way a woman is not at fault is if she was married and husband becomes abusive or completely unfit. Otherwise, don't be an idiot and give birth without a ring. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:43 AM
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That would be a good idea if there was default equal custody. But if a man has to spend thousands of dollars to get custody, then it's an uphill battle. But then women will get less child support and we can't have that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:39 AM
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It would be suboptimal for a woman to be a step mother evolutionary speaking. But if he is a high value man, then his genes are gonna be better than low value man. On societal scale, hard to tell. I will have to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:34 AM
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Bro, did you report me or something ? Lol come on. I thought this sub had open minded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:33 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:30 PM
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Not great. Problems with Russo-Ukriane war is NATO, especially USA. Aid to ukraine was stuck in Congress for months, then when US simply refused to provide financial aid, europe took the responsibility. But then it was blocked by Hungary for months. Because there is no consistency in NATO regarding support for ukraine, it's difficult to estimate the expected outcome of war. Couple that to the fact that Ukrainian postions are not fortified, it's makes sense for Russia to keep fighting. That's why…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:33 AM
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Feminists are mostly shit testing. That's what women do, they say outrageous things in order to weed out weak men who are affected or emotionally reactive. They can't switch it off. But they don't understand that men tolerate shit testing because they like sex. If there is no sex on the other side of it, shit testing is just irritating. So when feminists say "kill all men". They are rage-baiting men. It's a shit test. Here is the thing, men don't wanna fuck those women at that particular moment.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:33 AM
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Anti feminist views of men are because of feminists. Nothing else is to blame. You say "kill all men" and men will think, hmm... I don't think that's good and I don't think people that say those things are one I want to be associated with. Then you try to explain it away by saying that you didn't mean to actually kill men and if men feel sad about it, they need to man up and not feel sad. Men think that's not the movement I want to be associated with. Feminists mock men, insult men, defame men, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:09 AM
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Okay. But yeah, there may be a little truth to your assessment. People do desire the unconditional power of others. But in my case, my cheating and their willingness to stay doesn't mean that I want to hurt them. It's just that very few women can keep my attention
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:36 AM
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Why would you upvote the comment then lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:30 AM
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But they also don't suck more that regular people. So they come ahead. Hell I can treat women poorly and they just take it. It's better to be attractive and date attractive people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:09 AM
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You are saying that to someone who was skinny fat loser in a deadbedroom and then got jacked and went on a cheating spree as soon as he had visible abs. Here is the thing, a loser with abs is still a loser but it didn't matter that much. Now I am more refined man and I can definitely say that 50 percent of my problems for resolved with better body
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:42 AM
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Why is bar for men higher than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:37 AM
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Worldview is only useful to get explain why actionable advice works. Otherwise its useless. So yes, worldview is testable because it explains something. If that something is wrong, then it's not a good world view
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:29 AM
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But there is no point in empty debate. How would someone differentiate if they are half assing or advice itself is wrong. Both are assumptions, how do you figure out the which assumption is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:28 AM
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I definitely have no problem with rejecting people. A woman who doesn't match up to my standards, doesn't match up. It's not personal or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:25 AM
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Dude if you half ass something, you can't complain if it doesn't work. You should be asking, how would you figure out of you half ass it or if the advice itself is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:22 AM
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Why is it bad to attract incompatible people? You don't have to date them once you figure out they are not who you want. If you are attractive, you are attractive to everyone. Not much you can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:18 AM
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I discarded the redpill worldview and success skyrocketed. So yeah, I'm talking post-testing. Right and then all you have to do is write a detailed field report and post it, so redpillers can dissect it to get actionable advice, test ir and change their worldview to better match the data. I can elaborate if you wish. I prefer if you make a separate post about it here. If you are correct then everyone needs to be able to see it. there is no such thing as a dating market, people are non-fungible, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:15 AM
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Right and if you are attractive, there are more women who will give you a chance. And the "one" woman who cares for you will be considerably "hotter". Wanting a hot wife is not a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:59 AM
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The "worldview" of redpillers is testable. It's not worldview for worldview sake. It's is used to explain why their advice works. If their advice doesn't work for you then worldview is wrong and you are free to discard it. "Dating market" is absolutely a valid concept. You have said that there is no such thing but you haven't given any actual argument against it. Even if "dating market" concept is fucking someone up, if it's a truth then goal should be to find healthy ways to deal with truth, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:57 AM
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Wanting sex with women is absolutely not wrong. Wanting a wife that's sexually attracted to you is smart thing to want. Even if your goal is the find the "one" woman to spend rest of your life with, if you are attractive and have good game, that "one" woman will be hotter, nicer better because you were actually able to attract her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:53 AM
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Dating is difficult and can be a soul crushing experience because women are delusional alpha widows who only want top 20% chads and will wait till they hit the wall and then settle for an average guy to beta bucks him This is not just empty whinning(although that does happen a lot with men). It's an observation. The actionable advice is to not marry post wall women who have had their fun but work on yourself to get as attractive as possible. You can make fun of this advice but if it helps man sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:49 AM
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It's the only option for men who are asking for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:43 AM
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Depends where you ask. For example, MRP has heavy moderation against circlejerking so you will get good advice Redpill is the best option because you can tweak it. Normal dating advice is about being nice to women and going to therapy to learn to live alone of that didn't work .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:42 AM
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No it's not. Being jacked is just one piece of the puzzle. Its not like redpillers didn't recognise that they need to lift weights. Many did it before getting to RP. They only were able to see the whole picture when they started Red pill. Sure you can figure it out for yourself but why should you, when there is a detailed theory. All you have to do is test it for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:39 AM
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There is always gonna be a reaction to what society had become. And that reaction was always gonna be imperfect. Redpill goes where truth takes you, no matter what. And it's flexible enough too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:37 AM
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What is it wrong about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:35 AM
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I don't get what you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:32 AM
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I remember watching a video of tyler durden from years ago where he talked about this and it stuck with me. It's not wrong to feel good when a woman is attracted to you. If you deny it, because you don't "care" about women, or you don't need validation from women, then you are just lying to yourself. That's what motivates you and it's completely fine. Because how are you gonna get good at it if you don't have motivation to work on it. Suppressing your own desires just because it involves women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:31 AM
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That's ...fine. The point is, being attractive gives you better options. Now you may think it's wrong for men to want better options because life is about finding the one. I just don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:25 AM
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What? The whole point of working on yourself to be attractive is so that you have options and don't have to settle for whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:21 AM
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The goal is to be successful with women, to be attractive to women. "Finding" the right one is then a matter of choosing among your options. If you are not attractive, then you won't have the options to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:19 AM
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O'rite
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:31 PM
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That's if you don't have a strong frame. If u do have a strong frame, then you won't be fazed by anything.
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:19 PM
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Well if you are always worrying what a woman is feeling, then you will be in her frame. What OPs problem is that he is too afraid of negative reaction from other people. But you can't put a woman through an emotional rollercoaster if you are afraid of upsetting her. Sure don't be a dumbass about it but banter is about a little back and forth.
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:12 PM
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All of this is just noise. At the end of the day, if you want a happy marriage, you need your wife to be attracted to you. If she is not, then she can't compensate for it with anything. She can birth your kids, she can nurse you to health, she can do anything, but if she is not attracted to you, the marriage is doomed. So you can tell me infinite virtues a woman has who refuse to go dutch. But if she doesn't wanna rip your clothes off, it doesn't matter. A woman who does feel that level of attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:31 PM
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That's the whole fucking point. Your job is not to manage other people's emotions, your job is to have a good time.
/r/seduction02/05/26 02:04 PM
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If you are talking to women then agree/disagree and amplify. If you are talking to men, then also agree/disagree and amplify "Cannibus is a recent invention" -> oh yeah Steve Jobs stole it from Snoop Dog. "Corporal punishment of children are great" -> Na, but MILFs like it. "Young people of colour about good old days"-> yeah, I miss the time when they didn't have to share the seat with meth addicts
/r/seduction02/05/26 01:13 PM
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Hoeflation is still a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:35 AM
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I don't get it though, if she won't fuck you if you don't pay, she is NOT attracted to you. So you can marry her and pay for everything and she still won't fuck you, she will at best give you once a week duty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:04 AM
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Those men are weird ngl. Why would I showcase anything to impress a woman? That's like me flexing my abs in front of her. It's not attractive, it's weird. Woman is the one who needs to be showcase herself by wearing good clothes, makeup etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:02 AM
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Every woman has had casual sex sometimes in her life, the ones who say they never did are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:00 AM
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And what virtues are present in a woman who gets the ick from a man who doesn't wanna pay for her food? What does a man gets from that woman? You can say man paying is a greenflag but what type of flag is it when a woman gets an ick when she doesn't get free food.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:37 AM
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I don't see how discussing best type or place for a date is a bad thing. If she is fickle just because she has to put a little mental effort for planning a date, then she will be fickle no matter what. You can pay and it wouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:35 AM
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Well if he doesn't pay the full he is filtered out. If you don't pay your half, you get filtered out. I don't particularly see what "green flag" men are supposed to guess from a woman who doesn't wanna go dutch on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:33 AM
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Good women? What's good about them exactly? They like free food?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:31 AM
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Culturally compatible? Are you a Virgin then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:50 AM
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He doesn't have to be the man for you. But if he is attractive you will fuck him on the side until you find the man for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:47 AM
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NOW lobbied him. He eventually signed it after MRA pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:09 PM
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Lol women threatened to go on sex strike if DJT was elected. Didn't work. Turns out men don't care about sex as much as they hoped.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:37 PM
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Well it's not over, MRAs are working for similar equal custody bills in other states and you bet your ass NOW will obstruct them. Here is what you should do about meritocracy. Make sure that both girls and boys perform equally well in schooling and then let the merit speak for itself. No preferencial treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:35 PM
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Problem with Russia Ukraine is that they both think that they can get a better deal by fighting instead of negotiating Russia wont stop because Ukrainian positions are not fortified so if they stop, Ukraine will get a chance to fortify the line. So they want a deal that internalizes that reality. Ukraine thinks that by hitting oil infrastructure, they can get a better deal. There is no agreement on what the expected outcome of war is. That's why the war is continuing, not because Putin and Zelen…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:33 PM
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Majority voters are women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:29 PM
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They are more trustworthy because they are selfish. Feminists are evil because they think what they do is justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:27 PM
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NOW also lobbied Florida governor to kill the equal custody bill..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:26 PM
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Because the more you inflict cost, the more the other side is willing to give up to avoid that cost. So Ukraine is hitting the oil infrastructure of Russia so russia internalize that cost and he more willing to give ukraine a better settlement
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:24 PM
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We have no choice but to take our chances because other option is alliance with feminists and feminists can't be trusted
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:23 PM
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WHY AM I STUCK IN THE PAST? Past like in 2023? When National Organisation of Women successfully lobbied Ron DeSantis to kill the bill that would have given men equal custody rights? Fortunately he eventually gave an assent. They are gonna do it again. Unless we fight back and inflict cost of our own, they will do it again. just googled, it is already like that. Don't lie please.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:22 PM
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Sure but cost of women is higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:18 PM
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Not just republican party, but also National Organisation of Women fought democrats as well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:17 PM
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How is that cutting the nose? It will inflict cost of women and women will be incentivised to make a deal with men to restore their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:05 PM
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Presumption of innocence and "believe women" doesn't work together. Equal custody is not default everywhere and where it is, women have fought against it. So yeah, you can't say what you are complaining about, you already have that but convenientlu forget how women did their best to work against men What we want regards to paternity fraud is, you can get DNA test anytime you want(that it's not criminalized like france), we are able to walk away without child support obligation and sue for the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:03 PM
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If women get right to presumption of innocence, so should men. Equal custody rights. No affirmative action Protection against paternity fraud. Etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:54 AM
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Nope, nope, majority voters in most western nations are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:52 AM
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How is it cutting of your nose?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:52 AM
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I think i was clear in the post, final goal is equal rights. No sex based discrimination of any kind. Now we should work against women's interests to what end? As much as it takes for women to get on the negotiating table and agree on equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:51 AM
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And most of them were repetitive as hell. Yeah, when that happened to me the first time is when I realised never to take women seriously by default. They just cycle through their defence mechanisms until they submit.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/26 04:45 PM
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Take them as shit test whether they are or not. So agree and amplify etc. Let her have her emotional rollercoaster . Then she will come to you for good fucking. I get being annoyed but women feel things. Nothing you can do about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/26 06:52 AM
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No, why?', she tried to laugh it off by saying, 'I just wanted to see your reaction,' and changed the subject. Shit test Do you want a relationship, with the possibility of a family and kids?” and it really reminded me of the situation above. Shit test They feel guilty about having the hots for you but also being in a relationship with other men. So they are testing you, not to make you commit but to shut them down about it. If you said yes, then they would have peaced out from your life. You ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/26 04:27 AM
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She probably won't. I look good, I have abs and I can spit a good game, but I am not a millionaire. What I was saying was, I who doesn't find her at ALL attractive would date her for money and lifestyle so the point that OP is making that she won't have options, is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:22 AM
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Oh, i hastily pressed the comment button, i edited the full comment. But I do stand by her not being pretty or attractive. She just looks below average to me. Her face and her body is just not that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:19 AM
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I donno, she is just not that pretty. But I will date her for the money. She won''t have problem finding someone else. OP is reaching
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:16 AM
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I see you have made yourself a good life, you should be proud of yourself and take some time for yourself as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 08:58 PM
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SEVEN? Okay i can't relate to you on that one lmao. If i want to cheat on my wife then it won't just "happen". Like I get drunk one night and one thing led to another. I am not that guy anymore. I used to, but I am not. I used to be pretty boneheaded when I was young. If i want to cheat, that means there is gonna be a very good reason for it. And you can be assured that i will be honest about the reasons from the get go. So how far would a woman needs to fall before a man like me makes a decisio…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 08:38 PM
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Nah fam if you are attractive, then you can do what you want, and she still would want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:52 PM
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Well you are a good woman and you make the world a better place
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:37 PM
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You are not a narc like me who thinks that the loss of me is gonna be much worse for her that me just stepping out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:27 PM
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That's not good enough though. You can do anything you want. Whether to do it or not, what will help you guide yourself is what's important
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:16 PM
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Yes, that all is true if you are in her frame. If you are in your frame that woman is just a part of your vision, she is not THE vision Now your vision may be that you want a woman who loves facial. That woman can be your wife or her sister, it's not relevant as long as she is fulfilling your vision
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:14 PM
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I read that book, 5 love languages. It's a stupid book that just leads to covert contracts and resentmens. It's not good for relationship ms Now with regards to sex, when women become sexually neglectful, they become defensive about their ability to be a good wife. So they act defensive and shame their husbands for "only wanting them for sex" or "only caring for sex". These poor men don't know that she is being insecure about herself and feel that they themselves are sexually unattractive. So th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:10 PM
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Okay I think we fundamentally disagree on something. I look at the present and the future, not the past. If a woman is not adding value to your life like you want, then sure go to other women. If she is being the woman you desire then it's okay to reward her. Don't take it too personally when she is not a good wife. It's not you, most of the time it's her issues
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:00 PM
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Tbf that book is garbage. The amount of women who suddenly find their sex drives after getting cheated on shows that you can treat a woman as badly as you want, if you are attractive (as in have preselection from cheating on her) it doesn't matter if you meet her love language or not. I do think that men use "physical touch" as a way to communicate that they need sexual desire because they are ashamed of admitting that they want sex. I think women play a part in it by shaming men for wanting sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:58 PM
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If you want you wife to sexually desire you, and she doesn't. There isnt much you can do about it except going to other women who do But when she gets back that desire, why wouldn't you go back to her, she is doing what you want. Why would you punish a woman for adding value to your life is beyond me.. I guess maybe you are insecure about your attractiveness and you don't believe she genuinely desire you then sure, but it's easy to tell if she desires u or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:50 PM
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Okay "hugs", "holding hands" etc is no substitute for sex. If you want her to have the desire to have your dick inside her, holding hands is not gonna cut it. I think people have this weird idea that wanting your wife to sexually desired you and actively want to fuck your brains out is somehow wrong or immoral or bad. It's not. So I don't understand this desire for physical touch is fine but desire for her wanting sex is a bridge too far. I think men are also ashamed of admitting that they want …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:44 PM
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Okay you are confusing what I am saying. I am saying that if you are under the impression that he will be in relationship with you and that's why you gave consent to sex, you are being entitled. You have to accept the following. You are not entitled to relationship He is well within his right to change his mind for any or no reason at all It's your responsibility to take all things into consideration. So if you find yourself feeling mad or sad after him fucking you but not wanting relationship f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:33 PM
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I think men seeking validation for their attractiveness and love by those wives desiring then sexually. Problem is, they feel bad when she doesn't. And instead of finding another woman, they get sad and "communicate" which in turn out pressure on the wife to have sex just to make him feel good about himself. Then sex becomes bad overall. That's why if you want to feel sexually desired, there is no point telling your wife to desire you. It doesn't work that way. Just find another woman who does a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:19 PM
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Well here is that thing, just like you are not entitled to sex, you are not entitled to anything with respect to other persons bodily autonomy. So let's say you consented to sex because you were under the impression that you will get a relationship. That's you being entitled, not the other person being deceptive. Because it's wrong for you assume in the first place that you will get relationship after sex. Because You are NOY entitled to relationship no matter what. So when you say, I consented …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:16 PM
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That's like saying not hitting the gym is a sign of laziness. Sure. But it's not that simple. Lot of psychological trauma and childhood neglect results in obesity and inceldom
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:09 AM
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Kinda? Maybe it's the nice guy in me. Women get addicted to emotions and I know it's wrong but I can't help but feed theriir addiction even though I know it's not healthy. I have been learning to be "monogamous" with my attention. I know that if a woman earned my commentment, she has exclusive right over my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:58 AM
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I mean, even if you want to cheat, no woman will stop you Women mirror what you are feeling so if you are feeling unsure or guilty, she won't like it. If you blame her for it, she won't like it. If you emotionally blackmail her, she won't like it. If you present it as something that's just natural then most women will just give you shit tests. Then pass them and keep engaging with her. Then she will seek comfort. Give her and she will agree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:42 AM
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