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| 39 | Where does the idea of "men are the gatekeepers of commitment" come from? | Discussion | ricar426 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:16 PM |
| 11 | The current dating paradigm is flawed. We think of dating as a hunt, where it should be a dance. | CMV | ricar426 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Is all porn mysoginistic? | ricar426 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:21 AM | |
| 0 | Accounting cultural differences, what's the point of making a guy wait for sex leading to a long-term relationship and having (or had) hook-ups on the side? | Question For Women | ricar426 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 10:37 PM |
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| 8 | What is the logic behind dating knowingly bad men?Why say you want a thing when you wouldn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Is there a Lizzo Paradox™ for males?We can discern between aesthetic attractiveness and sexual attractiveness too, you know. And Lizzo might have one or two good features, but she's hardly one of them. I have seen this social bonding among each women as some type of mutual comfort, but it seems... disingenuous? Like, if I can see a friend of mine is lying to me about how pretty I am in a given moment, I won't want them around me as much. Why lie to each other like that? In what, besides what we've mentioned, this helps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there a Lizzo Paradox™ for males?Why lie to each other like that, especially when you know it to be untrue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women should put effort into finding a partner if marriage and kids are their goal?The thing is, those charismatic types usually are players. They approach it like a numbers game, and if they don't feel it with you, it's easy for them to just bounce. What you haven't noticed is that approaching is proactive weeding. The ones you hit on usually have been filtered in one way or another, and since you made the move first, you can disengage more easily. You waste your time just waiting for Mr. Right when you could've picked him up already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:40 PM |
| -1 | Do you think women should put effort into finding a partner if marriage and kids are their goal?And the alternative is...? Keep waiting till menopause? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Not coming across as creepy to women when approaching is incredibly simple and boils down to 4 things, does not involve "mind reading", and coming across as creepy once will not ruin your lifeMy man laid out a tutorial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man?Dude, I entered into this link and what I found was enlightening and disheartening. I've experienced this recently and it made me recluse for weeks. I'm still processing it at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 03:51 PM |
| -2 | Accounting cultural differences, what's the point of making a guy wait for sex leading to a long-term relationship and having (or had) hook-ups on the side?It's useless to keep tabs on the past, what matters is if we've learned something from it. And I've learned that I very much prefer experienced women that can talk clearly about what they want than some 19yo virgin gal that barely left adolescence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Accounting cultural differences, what's the point of making a guy wait for sex leading to a long-term relationship and having (or had) hook-ups on the side?I worded to the best of my ability in English, if folks got near-sighted about their issues and didn't engage with the question, that's on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Accounting cultural differences, what's the point of making a guy wait for sex leading to a long-term relationship and having (or had) hook-ups on the side?But women have every right to do so. I asked why that happens to women. If other dudes came to whine that's not my business | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:14 PM |
| 4 | Accounting cultural differences, what's the point of making a guy wait for sex leading to a long-term relationship and having (or had) hook-ups on the side?You should've read more attentively, I'm questioning about this cultural difference in handling sexual past and behavior, not bemoaning about redpill pseudo grievances. This struck me as odd, since I haven't seen this behavior in these parts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Accounting cultural differences, what's the point of making a guy wait for sex leading to a long-term relationship and having (or had) hook-ups on the side?Which part of the question sounded like a tantrum? No ill will, just curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 12:20 PM |
| -2 | Accounting cultural differences, what's the point of making a guy wait for sex leading to a long-term relationship and having (or had) hook-ups on the side?No woman devalues herself by having sex with lots of people on her terms. That's trad bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Accounting cultural differences, what's the point of making a guy wait for sex leading to a long-term relationship and having (or had) hook-ups on the side?Lady, let me say this: she shot herself on the foot. By playing hard to get, she was weeding out precisely the type of guy who'd be willing to have a relationship with her - a guy who doesn't give a shit about body count. Those guys are indistinguishable from fuckboys at first glance, because we (I am one of them) will try to figure out if the thing is viable through sex. And folks like us value honesty with desire. We want that instant connection, that magic. By having sex right away with casua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Accounting cultural differences, what's the point of making a guy wait for sex leading to a long-term relationship and having (or had) hook-ups on the side?To me, body count makes little difference. Usually, a driven woman won't have time for 4, 5 hook-ups a week because she has a career and dreams to fulfill, and if she communicates her desires freely, all the better. My worst experience was with a virgin, she didn't tell me she was one until we undressed, and to top it off, she was stinking down there. Shy and uncommunicating women are a no-go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Question for Redpill : Why do you care that women and society lied to you?Most women he'd try to date will bail if he discloses his virginity, being 25+ old ans all that. "Being sexless all this time, something must be wrong with him" "I'm not teaching an old ass man the basics of sex" Which are fair enough positions to have for a woman, but it will be crushing for him, and each day will be harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 04:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Emotional vulnerability" is true, albeit misleadingBrazilian here. This is, at face value, correct. Anyone would get dry facing trauma dunping. In my experience, what have worked for me is mixing some humor and some vulnerability, but not in a tactical manner. My hurts are part of me, and getting to know me will include some of that. I'll talk about a thing or two out if the environment is more conversational and IF the woman makes me feel comfortable enough, and I wouldn't share all of it lest it become a therapy session, and dates are for fun.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 02:02 AM |
| 1 | The Paradox of Self-Improvement and Attraction: Finding Unity in DualityIt brings a lot of results, but not in the manner you're thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:20 PM |
| 2 | The Paradox of Self-Improvement and Attraction: Finding Unity in DualityYou do not do it for their sake, you do it for yours. For your life, wellbeing, and wealth. Everything else in the relationship department is a bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Do women typically become more desperate and insecure than men when they're single?This suitors situation varies WILDLY with age, income bracket, and environment, given her standards stay the same. It gets harder with traumas and age for women. But to me, this is true in a tangential sense: young women get to wait and pick while young men have to grit through rejections and build a "calloused confidence", and by the time they're 30 and well-established, this confidence makes them shine at the dating department. Women have not been trained in this skill, so when they want to pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why?I am in that "ugly duckling" situation and felt this way up to 26 years old due to a lot of factors, circumstances, and decisions that ate up my self-confidence till I got therapy and took exercise seriously. Here in Brazil, if you are not a foreigner, your conversation skills and funny bone are way more important in building up attractiveness on a date than beauty (considering the same income bracket). Yes, being attractive counts and is a great start, but outside of ONS, you gotta be a good co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why?Sometimes that's the only way to get some action. When I was uglier than now, I needed to embrace rejection and go to town. 9 out of 10 resulted in nos, 1 was sucessful and I brought my A game in terms of conversations and sex, and as a result most of the girls that I dated are good friends/acquaintances. Nowadays I am better groomed/leaner, and that confidence yields great on dates/friendships. Men that are like me grit through the rejections because the alternative is to incel out on the sofa.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:10 PM |
| 8 | Do women typically become more desperate and insecure than men when they're single?Why women putting themselves out is desperation and insecurity, but when we men do it it's ballsy and confident? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?Finally someone with a smidge of good sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 07:05 AM |
| 5 | Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point?Which ways? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 01:59 AM |
| 2 | A man's asset is what he brings. A woman's is who she is.The older you get, things like financial literacy matter way more, regardless of intention and fate. And yes, a hardworking but struggling girl has enormous value compared to a frivolous one on similar situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 04:58 PM |
| 6 | A man's asset is what he brings. A woman's is who she is."No man will reject the broke but hot girl" Oh yes I will. Between an average but driven and a hot but toxic, the average gal all the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men.Newsflash: young immature women gonna do immature things. So do a lot of young immature men. Also, folks should adjust their environments to their objectives; not looking for a wife in a college party nor looking for a hookup in a church. If you know what you want, keep your filters, and be mindful of the price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 07:18 AM |
| 20 | Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men.Finally someone pointed this blatant hipocrisy. If you want women to be more willing to sleep with you casually, you can't shame them, nor be stingy with body counts, especially if you're into a hookup phase. Maybe you could be more criterious if you're looking for a wife, but then you'd look into career, ambitions, life project, kids... Body count is irrelevant there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 04:40 PM |
| 7 | The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motivesDid you know that you can treat women as people and state your intentions at the same time? It requires a little bit of restraint and attention. I'm sure you can figure it out, buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:59 PM |
| 3 | The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits.Thank you for pointing this ignored fact. There's no way those systems exist without some form of women's compliance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Increased Social Engagement Leads to Happiness and Relationship SuccessJesus, haven't heard of that. I read her book a couple of weeks ago and found it enlightening, though it might not be exactly like that outside of US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?I'm in that process, man, and made some great strides since I left therapy. The thing about knowing your emotions and know when and whom to share them with, is knowing yourself enough and your limits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 02:10 AM |
| 0 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Well, women build in general wider social networks, which means more people to call in a pinch. Male culture is all about standing on your own, stoicism and all that, so people are less willing to help you and you're less willing to ask for help. Personally, I've trying to change that and using more of my network to move onto jobs and comfort. It hasn't yielded fruits yet, but it does make you feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:43 PM |
| 10 | Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validationMen don’t enjoy emotionally validating women. They only do it to keep getting laid Ah, the short-sightedness. It's like all men are horndogs to the point of not having any non-sexual relationships with women at all (do we have mothers, sisters, cousins?). How demeaning is that to us men, thinking that we are this animalistic? They live for emotional validation. And so do we, in different ways, but we seek it nonetheless. Status, money, material wealth, all of these can be used as emotional valid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that women's clothing has gotten more and more revealing and sexualized as society got more and more progressive?Well, it's summer in the US and other places, and well, women are people, and people like to be desired. Personally I find awkward too much cleavage, it takes a conscious effort not to look at, but it's such a minor issue that I see no point in being rattled up about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Women should stop trying to give men dating adviceAnd why can't you ask first if you're interested? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 07:02 PM |
| 6 | Women should stop trying to give men dating adviceIsn't that dumb? If you're interested in him and you guys are in a established friendship, JUST ASK HIM! Instead, you go on and sabotage him, lose the friendship and to top it off makes him feel double worse off. Congratulations, you played yourself into solitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:20 PM |
| 0 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Well, women are different, and they can range from shy to extraverted and all in between, so the "obvious hints" from one are disinterested behavior in others and that's fine. The thing that you have to understand is that social cues are a skill and therefore can be learned. It's very culture-dependent, though. And you know, there are days where you are not into flirting and people flitlrt with you, and there's this whiplash of "hey i am being hit on, weird" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Most men nowadays are afraid of approach and ask women out because they fear that women will think men are stalking and sexually harassing themI feel more sad than pissed, because most of the times this happened, the scarred woman will react and I'll say "nah, I get it" and she will usually calm down. I get pissed with the fuckers that make it harder to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Many women are perpetuating rape "culture" by being into aggressive menWhile i think you've phrased that in a really shitty way and prone to a victim blaming interpretation, I do think that the culture of wanting men to pursue leads to harassment, not raping proper - you need to be really evil to do that. Being more precise, the mixed messaging to men and women that "if he really wants it me, he's got to chase" creates conditions to harassment because it invites chasing after a negative, because "well, it might be a maybe". So to fight that, the message needs to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.It's only too late when you're dead, but consider how a person who lived like that behaves and acts on life. They are usually jittery, undecisive and aimless. When you find a north and work upon it, the characteristics that make a person attractive start to emerge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 01:46 PM |
| -1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.This phrase would be flawless with "after a certain age" on the end. From a certain point in life (i would say 25 yo, but YMMV), people who drift without purpose are just a bore to be around, even the attractive ones. Edit: spelling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.Unless it is a deliberate and nationwide action to starve them of desire, it wouldn't work. And I like to approach women given the proper context. It's fun! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Why should I care if some women want to enjoy casual sex into her later years? Having their lives figured out they owe nothing to nobody, and that is a universal right. I want that, so can they. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Is crying a turnoff for you?There's no point in seeing "human nature" in such a tunnel-vision way. And by the way, you folks are too fixated in body parts, as if there aren't beautiful people of different builds. Life is way more free beyond "framing" and that disproven alfa-beta bullshit. She was rude and bitchy, that's all there is to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Is crying a turnoff for you?But you looked down on a very humane reaction. Just because he didn't suffer personal loss he isn't allowed to be empathic? Beyond any of those pill BS, that was really disrespectful. He is way better w/o a person like you anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 03:24 PM |
| 7 | Is crying a turnoff for you?That was rude of you, can't a guy be human? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A major reason women are more attractive than men is because it’s not socially acceptable for men to work on their looksPreach! This idea that self-care is somewhat feminine is so limiting to a lot of dudes who could use some flamboyancy, for themselves firstn not focusing on attracting women per se. And honestly, it's a way of loving yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 07:28 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?Thing is, your body always want homeostasis, and if you do any exercise and don't do progressive overload on it, you hit a plateau and lose less fat, and the leanness gets more distant. Besides, aesthetics is a very limited goal: lots of exercise disciplines (calisthenics, martial arts, crossfit) work different areas of fitness and achieve aesthetics as a byproduct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 02:55 PM |
| 12 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?Think RPE (Rate of Perceived Effort) instead of weights per se. A woman may not lift 60% of weight that a man does (and I do believe that a sizable number of women lift less than they can) but her efforts to lift them are the same as a man's, provided she pushes herself to max RPE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value?They want a paradox: a man who is chivalrous and a provider, but also one who is modern in his sensibilities and wouldn't say no to her. Ladys, there's no cute part in sexism: chivalry is the presentable part of male chauvinism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 05:50 PM |
| 4 | Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value?Unkempt, erratic, drug problems, bitchy and manipulative, demands to be treated like a queen, rude, uses your vulnerabilities as leverage in a discussion, low education when having a choice of advancement, low ambition on life mattters, unwillingness to recognize when wrong. Single motherhood is a tad tricky, because I know teen moms who became powerhouses on their fields and are all around badasses, so it wouldn't be a hard vet; if they neglect their child, though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 06:46 PM |
| 7 | Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value?And if she does know more about you on the subject, what will you do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reasonWhen you bury your feelings too much, they can emerge in ways and times which you are unprepared for, and they work like eruptions when repressed for so long. Usually it makes you do really shitty things after a lot of time being "zen", and those outbursts have serious consequences. That's why it's important to sit and look inside, know how your thoughts and responses work, which voices on your mind are yours and which are not. Journaling, meditation and therapy (when needed) are essencial in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 03:19 AM |
| 3 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reasonEmotional intelligence is a skill that's usually not taught to us, unless it's for overcoming trials - and you have a absent father, not even that, and unfortunately single moms who want to protect their male kids from the violence of male world raise men who have little grit and emotional experience and fortitude. That's not entirely their fault, the absent father left a scar in both of them and she's overcompesating. Sometimes it's result of trauma and folks using their vulnerabilities as leve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | If you’ve done everything other than PiV, are you still a Virgin?So lesbians are eternal virgins then? Honestly, people invent those categories to not confront their desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:20 PM |
| 16 | Have you learned anything valuable from this subreddit?Americans compartimentalize too much and get out too little and then create those hard and fast outlooks on the other gender and dating. Things are far more nuanced than "red" and "blue" pill. Men and women are pretty equal in their selfishness and longing for relationships, the differences in social expectations and pregnancy risks make up for behavorial distinctions. One should better itself for one's sake, and LTRs should add to that, not fill some void. Also, y'all need to focus on foreplay … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | "Try harder/Do more" comes from a Just-World FallacyEven if the world had no fairness at all, being better helps you weather whatever storms coming your way. Training your social skills helps you in a myriad of ways, being fit makes you ready to physical stress, being well groomed helps with self-esteem. To think this is valuable only to get girls is being a tunnel vision fool. Better yourself FOR YOUR OWN SAKE first and foremost. Everything else is a bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 09:10 PM |
| 5 | If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men?You dodged a bullet and did nothing wrong. Don't beat yourself up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorAny reports of abuse? How many and what the alleged victims said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorCompletely out of loop, so what the hell is going on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 03:39 PM |
| 11 | There is no 100% PC Way of Approaching Women Without Risking to Appear CREEPY((For what it’s worth, I asked a bunch of female friends this question and I got answers with examples of creepiness that spanned from “he had dainty hands” to “he grabbed me really hard on the arm for no reason,” to “putting too many smileys in text messages,” to “he looks at you in a funny way when he talks.” As is often the case, women are terrible authorities on why they like/dislike something, all they know is that they like/dislike it.) So, at the risk of sounding like a creep, allow me th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?Honestly, knowing that things can acquired through effort is more conforting than intimidating. It tells me "It's somehow possible, can't do it right now, but it is achievable.". Obviusly, talent + effort is kinda broken, it can be unbelievable. It's like that Lee x Gaara fight.Effort can't win always, but sure as hell puts up a fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?It takes time, strenght and investment to get fit, and a lot of self-discipline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 09:24 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are more into commitment than women, that's why they can't find men to commitPreach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 09:45 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Why being smaller than their partner is feminine in your eyes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?I have no desire to support a SAHW. Sorry, I value ambition (material, political, artistic or other) and a housewife wouldn't be anything like that, in my worldview. I want someone whose goals we can bounce off each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 09:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Yes, men feel insecure when it comes to women who are more successful than themI won't date someone who hasn't gone to college, simply because there will be few things to build some vibe. When it turns to women who achieved more than me at the same age, the thought goes "She's far ahead than me on the race, why would she give a chance to someone below her?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Why banning porn is no longer practicalIt's not as inelastic as we think, else there would be a lot more rapes out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Why banning porn is no longer practicalBanning porn would have the same effects as banning alcohol on the Prohibition era, or like the war on drugs right now. To diminish comsumption, one should attack demand. Get into the minds of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 03:07 PM |
| 4 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceIt takes two to tango,you know. A woman who can't even split a Starbucks bill is a person to not have around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 01:21 PM |
| 2 | If all men were "up front" with their intentions 24/7 most would never get laid.I like this procedure. Balances honesty ,social acumen and thoughtfulness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Because, f#%k logic. Good answer thoughNo means no, that's what they say, amirite? | /r/MGTOW | 22/01/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | "No means no" has little to do with stopping rapists.They maybe be decent girls, but not the best to have a relationship with (let's factor in cultural differences, I'm Brazilian and here they are more outspoken about their desires compared to America) Also, it saves time, patience and my criminal background records. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 05:33 PM |
| 2 | "No means no" has little to do with stopping rapists.All I have to say is that any women who consents to sex and then withdraws her consent halfway through the act is a very bad person Excuse me, WHAAAT?? If sex isn't feeling good, there's no sense to keep on doing it. This BS that you're spewing on is how most rapes happen. Edit: I completely undersand how hard it is to control the desire once the girl declines to continue, but if you cannot rein in on your horniness, you are not a person sane enough to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 04:35 PM |
| 2 | "No means no" has little to do with stopping rapists.Dude, you've got everything wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 04:26 PM |
| 3 | "No means no" has little to do with stopping rapists.Life-saving advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 04:22 PM |
| 2 | "No means no" has little to do with stopping rapists.I actually prefer this, because it saves a lot of time. No clock to waste in someone who doesn't click with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Go play a game of tag with someone else.I'm not chasing. 1. You're objectifying yourself 2. Any overstepping is harassment (and that actually makes sense) 3. I have my shit to do | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/12/19 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Some Men Have Dead Bedrooms or Get no Sex Because They Don't Care about Women's Sexual PleasureHow is it larping to give and receive pleasure? I mean, I know women to like to cut to the PIV, but they are rare and it's better when you have the leash. Let the water boil a more, it does wonders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Some Men Have Dead Bedrooms or Get no Sex Because They Don't Care about Women's Sexual PleasureForeplay is sex, my man, and if it's boring, then you're doing something wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Most guys who complain about women not approaching or not being direct enough simply don't attract womenI have lots of shit to go through, I cannot always stop to to wonder if a rando chick is making some signals or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?If a woman out of nowhere says "we're not hooking up tonight", a modern guy has been conditioned to believe this at face value. And that's the right thing to do. If the girl doesn't want to communicate her desires in a honest manner, nope the fuck outta there, it's a time waste and she's probably not worth. "But I wanted you to chase me!" Ha, no. I'm not caving in to your contradictions neither getting a rape accusation. I can satiate my urges elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Other than being taken, what were some reasons you rejected having sex with a woman for?What's the fun of sex if the other person isn't up for it? Also rape-y. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 03:53 PM |
| 6 | Other than being taken, what were some reasons you rejected having sex with a woman for?Advice: don't be up for "dick-therapy", 'cause you will be dragged into the post-breakup mess. Also your energy gets muddied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Other than being taken, what were some reasons you rejected having sex with a woman for?Stress, low self-esteem, being busy and/or focused on a thing. Also when the vibes do not mix. I tried fucking w/o anything for the person and it felt like shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Porn Addiction ReplacementNot really. It's easier when you remember past experiences, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Why rejection hurts more for women, and why we approach less.Countless times I've acted upon noticing a 'hint' that went nowhere. A hint grants plausble deniability and is usually a face-saver device. Better take time and not move haphazardly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the dating world will change once we have "The Pill" for men?I AM GETTING MINE NEXT YEAR BABYYYY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | "You should know yourself and be okay being alone before committing to someone" is bullshit and sets people up to fail romanticallyBeing vulnerable isn't the opposite of independence, it's its complement. One can only be open and true to his emotions if he knows them by their names and in a thorough manner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 01:40 AM |
| 1 | The current dating paradigm is flawed. We think of dating as a hunt, where it should be a dance.Don't throw the truth like that at my face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | The current dating paradigm is flawed. We think of dating as a hunt, where it should be a dance.But culture itself isn't a top down endeavor (although culture change can be), it's a emerging propriety of human interactions. The same humans can change cultures the same way that graphite and diamonds are the same element in different arrangements. What I called a paradigm is one such arrangement. A collective reality that is true because enough people believe so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/19 12:12 AM |
| 1 | The current dating paradigm is flawed. We think of dating as a hunt, where it should be a dance.Chaos does lead to patterns that can be perceived. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Do you care about the intelligence of your partners?For a LTR, a college grad is minimal. Casual sex is fine not being so bright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/19 10:39 PM |
| 0 | CMV: There Is Possibly No Greater Red Flag For A Woman In This Age Than A Man Obsessed With N-Count, Or Her Being A VirginOopsie, i forgot! How are the prices for slavewomen on your province, ser? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/19 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Single women, what actually motivates you to date men?My experience says that this is a dealbreaker. Devoting too much makes one lose interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/19 05:30 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There Is Possibly No Greater Red Flag For A Woman In This Age Than A Man Obsessed With N-Count, Or Her Being A VirginWhat's the point in wanting a """pure""" girl? One that doesn't know her way around her body, or whatever she wants? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?why only on seduction the roles must be the same as past times? This one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 03:39 AM |
| 5 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?oh ze irony | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?You did not answer my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?Why would a man pursue a woman if he doesn't have to? If men were to wait for a sign of interest, there would be fewer kids everywhere. What's with the reluctance in taking the risk of being rejected? You no longer depend on us for anything, why only on seduction the roles must be the same as past times? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?But you didn't addressed the question. Why can't his friend (or women, for that matter) be direct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 12:20 PM |
| 9 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?Pardon my French, but f*ck the mystery. She's intimate enough to be clear about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 12:07 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: How would you feel about a relationship where YOU can sleep around but your partner doesn't?Small government, family values, etc. Compromised in part by the swing thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: How would you feel about a relationship where YOU can sleep around but your partner doesn't?Brazilian swinger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: How would you feel about a relationship where YOU can sleep around but your partner doesn't?BR swingers are a puzzle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: How would you feel about a relationship where YOU can sleep around but your partner doesn't?It's not unfaithfulness if it is consented, amirite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 01:57 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: How would you feel about a relationship where YOU can sleep around but your partner doesn't?I've been into the swing scene and let me tell you that swingers are surprisingly conservative in many ways. I've yet to find a liberal in a swing house, despite the stereotypes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 12:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: With women being the bottleneck of sexual relations, there's nothing you can do to increase your odds but approach more women.Money signals things that can be turn-on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/19 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Change My View: Women are more sexual and harass-y to men, it's just that we accept itIt has more to do with sense of security. Men usually don't feel threatened physically by women, while the opposite is more common. Men don't have the visceral fear of unknown women like their counterparts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/19 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Is porn these days an accurate representation of women's sexual behaviour and desires?Not if they're not into it. Sex is really fun when the moans and orgasms are genuine. That quality always makes them come back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Tinder in Utah be like...Brazilian here, this is everywhere. Here it isn't frowned as much raising someone else's kid, but it has to be a LTR. And it doesn't make any sense for you to bring up your kid IN A HOOK UP APP. Go to a marriage app or something. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/08/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are divided between people who need good looking lovers and people who can allow other factors to compensate for imperfectionsJust to make a point, fucking a obese woman hurts my back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | GMOWI don't get the post-nut thing. Working out is better than wasting time on nuts and fantasies. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/19 11:31 PM |
| -19 | All of these articles where written by one and the same writer. I wonder why she is single? She seems like a great catch?Some are bitchy,sure, but that one about anon sexual assault report is a good thing to share. The other ones are tabloid like. Soooooooo, what is the buzz about it? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/12/18 03:09 PM |
| 3 | [20F] Young man gets friendzoned, then starts dating other women. Friendzone Fiona gets jealous because she's losing her source of attention and favors.I've dealt with that with this heuristic: GIVE UP EARLY. If a woman teases me and wants me to chase her bait, I might chase up to two times. On third I leave chasing at all. My self-worth isn't defined by the amount of women I bang, so I will not surrender myself into being an orbiter whatsoever. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/10/18 11:32 PM |
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