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| 1 | If a woman sets up a date and then suddenly cancels saying she is no longer interested and the "vibe is off", how do you guys react?I suggest the "nothing is happening" mindset. "Oh she kissed me "that means...nothing, it means nothing. "Oh wait we had sex, that means"... nothing, it means she had sex with you. "She accepted the date it means... (guess). | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 11:09 PM |
| 3 | The Most Attractive Male Bodyidc bro i gotta bulk rn i have to stay around 15% | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How many girls have you met in your life with whom you shared intense emotional connection with?One completely fumbled ( had no seduction skills yet), and the current one is my gf. I reckon we have strong connection also because of some unhealthy things. But that's how it works with anyone. | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Is Studying 'Game' While in a Relationship a Form of Cheating?I go to erasmus nights and flirt with the women there. My gf knows i go there to socialise only. I don't kiss or do anything physical, just flirting to see if I could succeed and to keep my game smooth. My reasoning is if i don't do it, she will leave me anyway because I am naturally shy, not good socially. If stop working I'll eventually lose her. Like you lose muscle when you stop working out, same thing. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | My first approach in yearsYeah I got this girl in class we often have some small eye contact but the next minute you see her entertaining lots of guys. I think she just wants attention. I already have gf but even if i didn't i wouldn't have been confident she liked me. | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 08:56 PM |
| 1 | I can’t text to save my lifeI hate texting with women (unless it's gf) and all I do is playful banter/ flirting. It's more fun if you do it that way. | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 04:47 PM |
| 287 | Her Story Made Me Rethink Everything About Dating"I can fix her mentality"? Sounds like trouble | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Girl I am talking to has been with a friend of mineI wouldn't date anyway because if they're my true friends i wouldn't stick where they did. Doesn't seem right towards them. We started talking sexual topics with one of my dear friend's girlfriend, my friend was present. I think i could have playfully flirted with her since she was complaining about lack of sex with my friend but I stopped engaging and i hope their problems are solved but i can't really ask. So yeah that's along the lines of what i think. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 07:48 AM |
| 1 | CunnilingusIt's not cope. If you stay in a relationship because of external reasons that's at best advantageous and at worse a torture because there's no true love in there. Just parasiting. Maybe it can work for a while but after that you're gonna die regretting not loving for real. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 04:54 PM |
| 7 | CunnilingusI mean if she wasn't for you she wasn't for you unless you broke up for stupid reasons. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Cunnilingusto me is cumming in the throat but to each their own | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Successful womanizer for years, now in healthy relationship" bro why don't you want a relationship with people with high bodycount they can love too you know"? | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 08:46 AM |
| 102 | Girls saying “why” when you ask for their number.Cuz I'd like to discuss important business affairs at (insert the most informal place) | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 04:46 PM |
| 11 | Nice guys, bad boys, and good men.*Good TO HER deep down, not to other people. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 09:06 PM |
| -8 | Should I accept girls as friends?Idk i don't have female friends I use preselection by having fun with random women in social groups. I have a gf now and I make her friends laugh and that's preselection for example. You can create it everywhere by being loud, talkative and appealing in social settings. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Should I accept girls as friends?Pre selection. If you don't show preselection that's always a negative in women eyes. For some it might not be a huge problem but it depends on the woman. You can't go wrong by having it. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 01:32 PM |
| 17 | Should I accept girls as friends?Friendzone: never. Friends: yes. That's friendzone. They're not your true friends they keep you there for validation so you give them something without them giving anything back in return (no sex). | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 01:30 PM |
| 2 | How to get out of the friendzone?You need to fuck her friends so you can use preselection+ you sound anti seductive dude | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 10:51 PM |
| 3 | How much does a great body help in attracting females?Looks is 50% overall (face, height, body and style). Most of its importance is face and height followed by body. I'd say 40% face 30% height 20%body and 10% style. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 06:28 AM |
| 24 | Should I make her slightly jealous or will it backfire?Go with another girl and play the preselection to reignite the spark. If it doesn't work then she doesn't like you period. | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?Nono I mean personality wise. In bed I enjoy both tbh. I've never been dominated but I'd like to. My current gf is the extreme end of submissive so... | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?Agree with all . | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?I disagree they often don't know what they want and what matters is how they respond with their behaviour. Also they can't say what they truly like because of internalised societal shame. These two factors make it that you have to be attentive and see how they respond IMO. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?Ofc foreplay. I didn't mention it because it was obvious. I was talking about the sex itself. Energetic strong enthusiastic rhythmic obviously but if you're horny af you're gonna be. And also attentive because you enjoy the moans so you'll keep doing the right thing. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 04:38 PM |
| -1 | Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?Hahahha. Nah bro i am serious that's how it is if we strictly talking sexual pleasure. Now if she looking for emotional connection in that specific moment, cuz she feels like that, maybe you wanna go slower but in my experience it is how I typed before. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?You have to fuck them like you hate them. My gf says to take it slow and be gentle but when i fuck her and i am horny and deprived she screams like a slut. They like it masculine, period. You don't want a woman who is aggressive, in any case do you? So why would they want a delicate guy? | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How to make women lust after you?i don't think you can since generally women are more covert by nature and you need to be so handsome, famous, tall, rich ecc that you would need to be in the top 1% of men for them to break their nature and straight up start drooling over you. But i mean, that's not necessary, there's still plenty of women who would fuck the brains out of a top 20% man, so i mean receiving compliments ecc is overkill stuff that i am fine with the 1% of men only having it. You'd much better self improve and get t… | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 02:28 PM |
| -12 | Being called red flagG’irl you ain't seen a tenth of it‘’ followed by a 😉 | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Slept with a woman but didn’t have sex. Wtf?Ok Just exercise patience and see how it unfolds. | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Slept with a woman but didn’t have sex. Wtf?just play it slow and have patience. You'll talk to her after it's been too much time for you. Also check for micro progress. If she lets you touch places you couldn't before it means you're on the right track. Don't insist otherwise you risk losing her you've been warned. | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Dumped, back to square onePsychoanalysis therapist. No other way. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Dumped, back to square oneThat's not attractive I am sorry. You need to have those to make her feel secure but it's not what gets the pussy wet that's why you lost. You should have been more focused on yourself, more indifferent to her. More masculine. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 11:15 AM |
| 5 | Should I be honest about my dating experience (or lack of it)? Seeking real advice, no sugar-coating."I've had a few short experiences... It's been a while and they're been pretty casual" only is asked ofc | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 06:04 AM |
| 6 | An indifferent manOn the contrary it tells them "why didn't this guy reply? Maybe she has other women?" And you intrigue her. If she's not interested then you didn't reply and you had self respect. | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 09:01 AM |
| 1 | An indifferent manP | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 08:59 AM |
| 5 | An indifferent manYes. If they don't want you why would you give attention? If they want you you pass the shit test. | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 08:57 AM |
| 7 | An indifferent manWanna get results? The don't give a fuck. Easy | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Just walked back from the club alone again and feel so depressed and don't know what to even try anymore.Why do I have to keep explaining this? You don't try. You become. You mustn't be needy. You go out with your friends to have fun. To be the one, the fucking shit. You are gonna be loud, you won't care about women at all. You behave like a king and your goal is to have fun period. That's the attractive frame. The frame you naturally maintain when you are attractive to women. That's literally how they think. They want the "casual encounter", not the needy man who specifically goes out for them. Sh… | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 03:39 PM |
| 10 | When to tell a girl you want something casual?you don't define anything and leave it at that. See how she behaves. If she wants commitment then you back off. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Never reveal signs of stress, fear, or weakness when approaching a woman.Lol I am a a narcissist and I don't know at this point if I should tell my gf of 6 months. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 09:49 AM |
| 0 | Never reveal signs of stress, fear, or weakness when approaching a woman.You kinda proved his point tho, you stated what you felt so you didn't feel ashamed to say it and showed that you didn't wanna hide your true self. That's masculine in my book. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsI agree and know it so what do you do? You try to befriend the group? I agree with the basic principle of not being needy but how do you interact with her you have no friends there no status, how do you take the shot? | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlshow would you do it? if you have a better tactic when you see a 10 in the wild i am all ears master | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:39 PM |
| 1 | I have put "short term fun" on Tinder and still get likes from women who have put "looking for longterm relationship" in their bio. Should I respond?Bro she seem to be the opposite. Tested countless times . Idk why the messages came off bad. I will leave her as soon as a big mistake happens. | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 03:36 AM |
| 29 | I'm needy because I only got one success from cold approachYou're not in the right frame I am sorry you can't do anything in this state. Remember. The objective is to focus on your goals. You shouldn't directly care for women. You go out with the mindset you're there to have fun with your friend. Period. You act like you don't give a fuck because you actually shouldn't give a fuck about women. You're there to be the fucking boss with your friend. That's it. Once you're in that mental state that's when you're the most attractive. Because you don't care, … | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 09:40 PM |
| 0 | I have put "short term fun" on Tinder and still get likes from women who have put "looking for longterm relationship" in their bio. Should I respond?100% | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 07:58 AM |
| -5 | I have put "short term fun" on Tinder and still get likes from women who have put "looking for longterm relationship" in their bio. Should I respond?3rd. First one lasted a month, 2nd one 4 months. Me, it's been 6 months. First two in China I am the first foreigner one. She's the classic cute Chinese lady you imagine. Surely not ruined by modern feminism. She probably had sexual contact with 4 or 5 men I think, ALL women hide I am sure. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 07:14 AM |
| 2 | I have put "short term fun" on Tinder and still get likes from women who have put "looking for longterm relationship" in their bio. Should I respond?She doesn't know how to create friend groups. Like most people, they don't know how to create sociality out of thin air. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 07:12 AM |
| 56 | I have put "short term fun" on Tinder and still get likes from women who have put "looking for longterm relationship" in their bio. Should I respond?Bro i am in 6 months relationship and she had "I wanna make new friends" wtf you on about | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 02:10 PM |
| 5 | 8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a foolI was just very tired. You mad because my supposed stupidity reminded you of the monkeys that raided your apartment? | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 11:20 AM |
| 5 | 8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a foolthanks i am now well awake and brain functioning | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 08:54 AM |
| -35 | 8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a foolcan someone explain is 1AM here and i cant understand this sentence | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔Lol women asking how to get guys are you serious? The game is on us, you just have to exist. | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 01:04 PM |
| 1 | How can I ask a girl out from work?Talk to her and build some rapport. Like 1,2,3 times until she feels comfortable and then drop the request. Not online of course, in person. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 07:57 PM |
| 6 | How do you deal with women that have strong personalities?Who is the male in the relationship? You. Get respect or lose it and lose her. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 05:02 PM |
| -1 | How do you deal with women that have strong personalities?the masculine women are all for you imma get the prettier, feminine ones thanks. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 03:56 PM |
| 0 | I just met this girl on the weekend and have a question..no. First message should have been sarcastic and flirty already. If that didn't work it means she wasn't interested but still you played well anyway otherwise yoou made a mistake and trying to recover is next to impossible when you mess up this early into the game. | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 03:36 PM |
| 9 | How to deal with stale text conversationEvery time you message them it should be in a flirty, provocative way. Dropping bombs and then being indifferent is also important. Let them desire you. Never give them the attention for free not even in relationships. My gf asked me to hangout yesterday just because for 4 hours I haven't messaged her since I was busy. Insane. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Got ghosted after getting her phone number and exchanging a few innocent textsNo flirtatious, sarcastic texts, double texting, getting offended by being ghosted... Smells like beginner. Bro it's normal, a man giving you his number means he has some end goal for sure, maybe working with you, becoming friends, talking about something. A woman doing it means nothing. Maybe she was driven by an emotion at that time that faded as soon as she got back home. That's how women are. Happens all the time. You should only regret sending basic messages instead of flirtatious one and m… | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 08:52 AM |
| 2 | How to break through playing hard to get.Pass shit test, double down on sarcasm make them feel inferior and want to chase you. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 10:51 AM |
| 4 | Successful solo night. Ended in 4 digits.no wait don't be needy, wait for the answer/ shit test and go from there. If they don't reply go next. | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 01:26 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?You're insecure that's the problem. It shows because you said we would think you're a catfisher without us even saying anything. The first thing you decided to project unto the world is your insecurity. I suggest therapy. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:28 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with neediness?I believe it's modern feminism and society who are starting to demonize this behaviour which is actually masculine and therefore attractive to women. It's not negative in the slightest because the woman is still treated right overall. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with neediness?Just think that every time you behave needy her pussy dries up. Every time you're need is like asking her "hey leave me the fuck alone, leave me". Would you ever ask this to a woman you like, motherfucker? No you won't, so next time it happens shut your goddamn mouth and replace those words with something opposite, like gently caress her after sex and be nice and then suddenly get out of bed and tell her to move, that you got some business to do, act in order to maker her feel important but than… | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Improving my game when I'm already an attractive guy?Follow her pace and from time to time try escalating by creating a "deeper" interaction (a more flirtatious text, a physical touch. I think you understood what I mean, if I say hello to you it's one thing if I hug you it's another now with women it's not as clear cut you get me right, sorry for rambling). From there you see how she reacts. If she pulls back or stays neutral don't push it and keep going the same "depth" until you lose her or she reciprocates. If she's interested this process won'… | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Can you be “perfect” and still get cheated on?Except the probability of having an accident are low if you drive properly and protect yourself while with another person you can't estimate shit. (I am paranoid about being cheated on aswell). How would you get you're being cheated on pretty surely? | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 11:12 PM |
| 0 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.Call me misogynist but I don't even listen to women's words that state something about my performance/value. They are just worthless because women are swayed by emotions like a small boat is swayed by a tsunami, so they could say the most egregious things in the heat of emotion or even in normal state sometimes. Just look at their actions: if they match the words then fine otherwise it's like those words were never spoken. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Is it inherently wrong to change yourself?You can't do a complete 180 without faking. You'll always retain a part of your current self, but so much is changeable for good, so go for it without worrying. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 01:29 PM |
| 8 | Have you ever regretted going for the kissI am pretty sure it is. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Not interested in relationships, do true FWB's exist?Are you truly happy deep down? A FWB period is ok but 70 is remarkable. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Not interested in relationships, do true FWB's exist?That's half a relationship. Would be a full blown one if the past didn't happen. Definitely doesn't feel like FWB reading it. Feels like not completely actualized love/distorted form of love. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 10:39 AM |
| -1 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himGet mogged and share the Instagram envious incel. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 08:29 PM |
| 6 | Is there anything more essential than confidence?Looksmaxxing compared to therapy is a joke. The process of therapy isn't even fun unlike the gym. Facing your fears isn't fun at all. Training to failure is after you get used to it. It's a joke and has almost the same importance as therapy so that contributes to it being a joke in my opinion. I'd say to have a random gf psychology is more important (you can find one even if you're ugly). If you want a HOT gf your best bet is to have BOTH. | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything more essential than confidence?Most important thing is gym. Get jacked. 3/5 years of weightlifting. Learn everything about bodybuilding. Then you have hair. Find your style. Experiment with it and listen to people's feedback. Third: fashion. Get Gucci bro. High level fashion. Yes it makes the difference. Yes you can dress well with cheap stuff but big brands with the physique is the cherry on top. Skincare: no dry hands or lips. No pimples. Get a routine. Factors you can't control but make big difference: Face. Height. Body p… | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 05:38 PM |
| 7 | Is there anything more essential than confidence?Yes. There is only two things: -Looksmaxxing: you need to be hot to attract hot generally. Period. If you see beatiful women with ugly men it's because of 2nd point. -Psychology: get therapy. Your parents aren't enough, they probably didn't give you the right resources to thrive in the world. Maybe they are terrible, maybe ok and sometimes incredible but nothing can replace the internal growth a trained professional can give you. Beatiful woman with ugly man means he probably satisfies her deep … | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 04:53 PM |
| 9 | How many dates you should wait before sleeping with a guy?I don't know this shit but I know human psychology and you're 100% right. Talking against the emotion she feels is useless. | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 09:58 AM |
| -2 | How do I open with this girl ?β | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do I have more success if I’m playing a role? Feel like a psychopath..How do you do it? I want to learn. I am a narcissist so I am probably much closer to a psychopath than you but I am inept with women. Learning tho, thanks to therapy. I'd love to use a mask to make them fall for me. The rest of my life is fine. | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 11:37 AM |
| 3 | First Cold Approach LayI mean you just need to be neurodiverse in some way it really doesn't take much. Majority of people can connect no problem but we exist. | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 11:34 AM |
| 0 | Curious about Female Perspective: Do Women Find Virgin Men Attractive or Desire Them Sexually?No it's because I have narcissistic personality disorder | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Curious about Female Perspective: Do Women Find Virgin Men Attractive or Desire Them Sexually?Yeah man but you're straight, virgin and young how can you be friends with a woman unless she's really ugly or you're sure she's not gonna smash you because of her choice. I could perfectly understand a married man being just a friend with another woman but this is very weird to me sorry, I don't understand you. Won't judge though. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 10:28 PM |
| 5 | Curious about Female Perspective: Do Women Find Virgin Men Attractive or Desire Them Sexually?a single virgin young man cant be fucking friends with a woman that's feminine af. No way in hell you should stop at friendship and i am also 22 virgin but i know why so i have a justification for it at least. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I trained an AI to help me flirt betterdm me aswell please | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 05:28 PM |
| 6 | What are subtle hints that a man can give to communicate he is romantically interested when going out with a woman??Sorry I don't understand what you mean by IOI IOD what are those? | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Ur goated It shows you're in your prime. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Yeah I rent my house so I don't have it available but I can find a way to mention it. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.So you say 20yo girls like money? Cuz I own a house at 22 but how do I show that off without it being ridiculous? | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 07:38 PM |
| 20 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Daytime where if not at school/work. All the fun life for us young people is at night. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 08:53 PM |
| 1 | how long did it take you to find out that talking to women is the easiest thing ever?if you are a normal person just practice. If you have gigantic psychological issues go to a therapist. I am the latter so if you feel like talking to people is insanely difficult for you no matter how hard you try you have to see a therapist. Period. | /r/seduction | 25/04/23 04:20 PM |
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