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| 3 | What attracts girls with more experience? | Conversation | rich11111 | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with rejection/heartbreak | rich11111 | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 10:23 PM | |
| 1 | Do women like it when men smile? | rich11111 | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 09:32 PM |
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| 1 | Mandatory paternity testing: lack of data and double standardsMaybe not a mandatory paternity test but it should be illegal to sign a birth certificate without doing a test. Ever hear about children getting misplaced with another parents child? Both parents should do the test before signing that certificate | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/10/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | What are some counterarguments to the claim that false rape accusations are a myth/extremely rare?There's not any that I can think of. False accusations are more damaging to a reputation from what I've seen. People will face trouble with the law but I've never seen anyone, who was falsely accused, thrown in prison over it. Now I don't know how many of those people were convicted as sex offenders. It's such an awful situation. I'm so sorry to anyone who has been falsely accused of any crime. Speech is a weapon when used to do harm. I try to see it this way, people who would hurt someone with … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/10/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Is sex the end goal of your pickup? If not, what is it?Fuck buddies | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 11:48 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop being creepy.Be more comfortable with yourself | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Does a short guy have a chance with a taller women ? Are the women like avoiding it by instinct. Can it work out, or it’s just fiction in the end.Just be comfortable in your own skin. | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | I didn’t go for the kiss on first date. Am questioning if I messed up.It doesn't matter if you kiss her on the first date or not. If you want to kiss her than go for it. You didn't mess up and there is nothing you can do to go back in time to kiss her now so don't worry about it. | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Act interested or disinterested?It's a balance. Be interested but also be indifferent. Don't be heavily invested. | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 08:27 PM |
| – | Instagram Model Reveals How She Feels About “Nice Guys” and “White Knights” on LAHWF.I'm just speaking from my experience bro. I'm pretty new to this dating thing tbh. I caught feelings for this girl about a month ago, gave her my virginity, she gave me hers, and she discontinued things which really fucked with me. Getting too invested can scare her away and leave you in a vunerable state when she does leave. Best to lead with your head and not your heart. It's what my dad always told me and only now does it make sense to me | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Two QuestionsLay on couch-Kiss-Escalate(undress)-Mention bedroom-go to bedroom-smash | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 02:03 AM |
| 4 | "Why don't I ever see you around women?"My friends are really good at game but never give me shit for it. And you know what, they gave my good advice which got me laid. If your friends give you shit, don't be around them. Find other friends that have game that will actually help you or figure it out through trial and error | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 01:58 AM |
| – | Instagram Model Reveals How She Feels About “Nice Guys” and “White Knights” on LAHWF.I wouldn't take dating advice from females. Especially good looking females. But she has a point. Don't treat women like crap tho and don't date someone who wants to be treated like crap. Find the balance between indifference and interest. Have abundance. Take to multiple women. Don't get too invested, especially early on. Don't put women on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 01:54 AM |
| 3 | As a guy who is fed up of girls losing interest, how can I break my bad habits?Indifference matched with interest is key to getting a woman to like you. If you genuinely couldn't care less if she leaves, she will think that you have something going on in your life that is important and will want to be apart of it. Indifference by itself is just not helpful because you'll never ask the girl to come over and never meet her and interest by itself shows your clingy and have not a lot going on in your life | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Shoulder bumps?Wink and smile. Ask yourself what would a not wierd person do lmao | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 02:35 AM |
| 2 | I enjoy all the posts on self-development, vulnerability, and social engagement. I am recovering from a porn addiction and feel somewhat confused with my own intuition. I am hesitating way too much and it is creating my own isolation.Some guys don't meet the love of their life when they are forty. You are not too old or too far behind. Everyone lives life at their own pace. And just because someone is sexually experienced at a younger age than 26 means you should envy them. For example, an old friend of mine had a kid at 15, and wasn't allowed in the child's life. Child support took a toll on him. He really wanted to see his kid but couldn't. He ended up killing himself. Be happy for the good in your life and love yourself f… | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 02:32 AM |
| 1 | About girlsPlaying with hair is usually a good sign. Don't assume it means she's in love with you. Shoot your shot and be chill | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Come on fellasNah man I'll just ask her out until she gets annoyed lmao. I've got OCD of shooting my shot even if my chances are 0.01% od succeeding. Better then wondering | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | going out w twins, who has experience with twins in general?Threesome? I'm just kidding you seem to know what your doing if you literally went out with two girls at once. Big dick energy right there | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Need advice/ opinionsOh man I don't know man. Assuming you never were with her and you don't have feelings for her, just send it man. Try to grab coffee with her or something. But if you were with her and have feelings, I'd let go. Tell yourself you were to good for her, and just in general be kind to yourself. You don't recover from rejection/heartbreak if you cling on to hope. Hope can be good but not in every situation. Some people form opinions on others and never think that they could change for the better, kee… | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 11:29 PM |
| 2 | How do I makeout with my gf?I was like that too haha. Making out with someone isn't that huge of a deal. Considering you've been going steady with her for a month? Just go for it! Slip some tongue😉. If she's not into it, she'll pull away. I'd do it laying down on the couch watching a movie or something, maybe after a movie, whenever the time is right. It should feel natural. Don't make it not feel natural, that usually happens when you get stuck in your head. And who knows, you might get lucky! My first make out sesh lead … | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | What to reply to a ''maybe''?She's just letting you know that she has a busy life and is not available all the time which is a good thing. More to talk about! She suggested another time which generally means she is probably interested in you. Set a time to meet and wish you best of luck | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Emotional connection or will I look like a pu**y?Girls like excitement and spontaneous guys, not guys who think they are lame. Get that word out of your head, you've lived an exciting life and have the potential to make things more exciting 😉 | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Emotional connection or will I look like a pu**y?Just be chill at the beginning of a potential relationship. It's imperative to talk about your emotions at some point but you might scare her away if your in the talking stage of a relationship and you tell her how your worried or embarrassed about something. I'd wait till after you've had sex a couple, three times, but just feel it out, I don't know who your talking to. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Getting girls to dance with you at clubsA lot of the time they'll just position themselves in front of you. If your not sure if she wants to grind on you, just dance and have fun. If you feel like she wants to grind that booty on your cock, then go for it. She'll either get really into it or pull away. Don't force grind with her because that's sexual assault. If she's not really into it, then pull away and keep dancing. I'll tell you what, it's amazing when a chick miles ahead of your league gets really into it haha. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 10:57 PM |
| 2 | I never realized how complicated sex can beBut so do single people who only want hookups. My last hookup was a virgin who never partied, didn't drink or smoke, and was overall a good girl but she didn't want to pursue anything. It's just I'm a little thrown off, I thought girls who wanted to hook up were a type but it seems it's not that simple. I think I'm gonna assume every girl wants to hookup and if they don't and want something serious, then great. And if they don't, I won't be hurt as bad. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 10:19 PM |
| 2 | I never realized how complicated sex can beIt's not something you really look for. I find I get better luck when I don't search for it. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 08:22 PM |
| – | I’ve been at this university for over a year nowI've got a bit of a confidence issue too. I finally found someone to fuck but she friendzoned me afterwards. I tried to be fwb with her even though I liked her romantically and she said she'd think about it. I waited, finally said I couldn't be platonic friends anymore, and she said she understands but thinks she doesn't want to be more then just friends. How do I come back from that? The only girl I had sex with friendzoned me. I was her first fuck too which adds insult to injury. Since then I'… | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 08:09 PM |
| -16 | I never realized how complicated sex can beMe too, unfortunately it seems girls don't want a steady partner. At least in my experience | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 05:08 PM |
| – | How the hell do I force myself to approach women?Stacking up on an opener is so hard bro. I'll open with that line and just forget how to speak English haha | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 07:13 AM |
| 1 | (14) how do i get a girlfriend?Making two mistakes there. Thinking girls will approach you and not being satisfied with being single. First, relationships are something that just seem to come up out of the blue. It's something that I'd you are searching for it, you will never find it. If relationships are not your number one priority, then it'll come. Second, girls don't approach guys in our culture. Even in high school, it is uncommon. Talk to girls, and if you think she is slightly attractive, get her Snapchat or phone numb… | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Did I handle this right, and is this a hint?For future reference, just say "I'm down" | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 05:08 AM |
| 2 | cold approach girls on college campus as freshman - good idea or nah?Get the word creep out of your head. Make things fun and hilarious. Social pressure is inverse to social flow, the less social flow in a convo the more awkward it is. Awkwardness is perceived as someone hiding something (a hidden agenda of maybe sleeping with the girl). Go ahead and approach but only if you aren't pressured to do so. She isn't gonna call the cops and her five boyfriend's to beat your ass if you do. Just be casual. No pressure | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 04:38 PM |
| 2 | 21m too pussy to approach womenOne time a chick was wearing a tied up crop top as a bra and nothing else and I was like "I like your shirt" and it was funny as hell. Try to make it fun. I struggle too, I can smile, wink, but I can't talk. Just make things really fun | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Quick tips from someone who has played the game a bitYou and I are in the same boat lmao. Going off to college in four days | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | How Do I (24M) Tell Whether Or Not She (22F) Likes Me Or Just Sees Me As A Friend?I myself am close to asbergers on the spectrum so I also have to think methodically. Essentially you are supposed to hang out with the chick with the clear intention that you two are romantically attracted to each other. Once you get comfortable, ask her to go steady with you. That is the gist of how dating works (in my experience) | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 04:37 AM |
| – | How Do I (24M) Tell Whether Or Not She (22F) Likes Me Or Just Sees Me As A Friend?We all feel that way at times. You're not alone bro. You can always let her know how you feel about her to get it off your chest. Let her speak for herself instead of making assumptions. If she says no, just move on to the next one. And always remember that social pressure is inverse with social flow. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 04:15 AM |
| 2 | How to get guys to ask me out? [26 F]You sound like the type of chick most guys are terrified of. Like just today I got a headache from talking too a chick with perfect facial structure, she was just to attractive and I got a headache from it. I guess open up your posture. I heard showing the palms of your hands to the person your talking to works well. Hope that helps. | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How are my daygaming stats?Be proud of yourself | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | "Why do you like me?"You sound like my brother haha | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | How do i develop the mentality that I am enough?Ever heard of the phrase "you are your own worst enemy". I fall victim to that too. Tragic | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | My first experience ever getting laid from a cold approach in a nightclubAwesome story. | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Anyone with former fat kid syndrome?I wasn't fat but I was treated like a pariah because of some rumors (small towns sometimes suck). I don't usually dwell on the past, and when I do, I try to focus on present me. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 09:11 PM |
| – | How do you makeup for being an extremely late bloomer?First step is to never compare yourself with others timelines. Some people will buy a house at 30 some will buy a house at 18, guess what they both have the same thing. Don't worry about other man whores. If that is your goal in life, than be the best man whore you can be and don't worry about how good others are at any specific age. TL;DR don't focus on catching up to others, you'll never enjoy yourself | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Using who you are as a strength is better than trying to become some alpha who you really aren’t meant to be.More accurately have a high IQ and be an alpha male | /r/seduction | 26/06/19 11:23 PM |
| – | Using who you are as a strength is better than trying to become some alpha who you really aren’t meant to be.I think you misinterpreted the term alpha. An alpha male is someone who is comfortable in their own skin. You may think alpha males are thugs but thugs haven't found themselves which is why they put on a fake personality to make up for their total lack of one. You aren't a beta male if you are ugly as shit, 5'6", and are nerdy if you are comfortable in your own skin. You aren't a beta male if you don't waste your words because you feel more comfortable in your own skin being reserved versus bein… | /r/seduction | 26/06/19 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Love letterThank you friend! I hope you are right | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 05:28 PM |
| – | Abundance mentality will lead you to more sex — and successHow to be attractive? | /r/seduction | 19/06/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | (TEXT GAME) What do I reply when she texts "Whoever's gonna be your partner in life will be so lucky"Don't get mad. If she texts this, she is either a fucking idiot or just an asshole. She either thinks it's the nicest way to let you know she's not interested or she knows what she is saying and is trying to make you feel bad. Move on, you wouldn't want to be with this chick if you were held at gunpoint. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 08:18 PM |
| 2 | I can't even ask a girl for her Snapchat.Just don't do it out of the blue 😂, I mean you can but it's kinda random to her if you do | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Nice Guys finish LastMy pleasure | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 08:15 AM |
| – | Nice Guys finish LastThere's a lot of vagueness in the term game. I don't really understand they term myself but I can help you on specifics. If you need help cold shoulder approachs, watch James Tusk. He's a pretty good PUA. If you need help with texting, all you gotta do is not seem too needy. Use your common sense for that, and if you feel the need to text something at any given moment, just do it. Get it off your chest. When talking to girls in general, listen to your social filter. The older you get, the better… | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 08:04 AM |
| – | Nice Guys finish LastI know the feeling too well my friend. I'm a make an analogy here so don't get confused haha. If you are starving, and you see an appetizer, you will see it as the main course or even more. It will be all you think about. If you were eating the main course three times a day, you would pay no mind to the appetizer. You're just hungry for pussy or female attention ig. You can do better than this appetizer, you'll get the main course some point. Just apply the knowledge you have from this subreddit… | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 07:53 AM |
| – | Nice Guys finish LastOh and if you are confused whether you like her or not. Think, if she was really ugly, would you feel the same (romantically) about her? If the answer is no, then you should drop those feelings towards her and move on to someone else | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Nice Guys finish LastIf you see her as a friend and nothing more, just be her friend. However, if you have any romantic feelings for her, you have to make a move bro. Ask her out on a DATE. However much you reply to her or mind your own business is up to you, I wouldn't worry about it | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 06:43 AM |
| – | Nice Guys finish LastAs soon as one person loves the other in any opposite sex friendship, the friendship is spoiled no matter what you do. You can either be lovers or strangers, otherwise you will lose your mind. Either explain that to her or ghost her and get her out of your mind. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 10:24 PM |
| – | Cold approached a girl for the first timeDon't worry bro, i has a similar experience with a 30 girl (I'm a 18m) it kind of fell apart as well | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Asking out a friend part 3Best way to get out of it is to ask her out | /r/seduction | 12/06/19 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Turning things sexualDon't stress out about it. Have fun. Make a move. Life is too short for worry and procrastination. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Turning things sexualHonestly, why is he hanging with friends and her? | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 06:02 PM |
| – | I talked to a girl i haven’t seen in a while who I used to like from like 10 at night to three in the morning until I went to bed. I didn’t try to seduce her, we just talked. I can’t mess this up what do I do next?I thought you did like her, why don't you want it seeming that way? | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 12:46 PM |
| – | Asking out a friendIf it's to stop thinking about her, focus on other things in your life. Distance yourself from her. If you're in high school, focus on sports or study for SAT. That will keep your mind occupied. Remember, if one person wants a romantic relationship but the other doesn't, that isn't friendship. You can always go steady someone else. So what your crush is not your match, there are many other women on this Earth. It's hard to see at first but trust me. | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Conversation IssueIs that like an ADHD thing? Do you get bored and your mind jitters all over the place and all the sudden your mind crashes? | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 04:19 AM |
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