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| 12 | Women are officially the economy's power players—outpacing men in both income and spending growthReplace “women” in this headline with “men” and it would be treated as a national emergency | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/25 04:40 PM |
| -4 | Women who vote for men to be drafted have been saying "your body, my choice" about men, for years.I think most women who agree with “my body, my choice” would say they also oppose the draft (even though that’s bad) | /r/MensRights | 12/11/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?I think you missed the point. We’re not talking about what people “want”. We’re talking about what happen if something happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?I mean he’s not wrong, if there was an apocalypse tomorrow and people were suddenly living on farms or as hunter-gatherers in the forest the birth rate would go up within a year or two (especially if/when the infant mortality rate goes up). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 07:25 PM |
| 3 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?No, low birth rates have more to do with urbanization and living in a city than any kind of financial incentive you can reasonably offer. When you’re not on a farm children go from free labor to a large expense. And you can only raise so many kids in an apartment/condo, if you even want to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Why does the homeless situation continue to get worse despite the government spending millions of dollars on it.I can’t speak for Canada. But one reason in America is the “housing first” policy that was pushed in the ‘90’s and is mandated by the federal government for states/localities/nonprofits to recieve federal funding, which hasn’t worked and has squeezed out alternative methods of solving homelessness (mental health, job training, building more low costhousing etc.). https://youtu.be/gcZhmUfDePE [Disclaimer, video from Reason a libertarian publication, so they’re biased about government incentives a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/05/23 01:33 AM |
| 7 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)This has to be one of the top posts I’ve seen in the entire time I’ve been subbed to this subreddit. Well done sir! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 06:23 PM |
| 4 | What causes women to not understand that they are being used by top tier men?This men without options tend to do this with women who do sleep with them or even just pay them attention, developing oneitis, devoting attention to her, spending money on her as if he isn’t just one of many make orbiters or guys she’s sleeping with, thinking that her attention is a sign of interest when to other girls it is often clear that the guy is being used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?Generally as a guy you want to rise to the top of a social/merit hierarchy. Obviously sports teams are the prime example, with frats close behind. But it can be any team/club —Debate/Model UN, Chess, Student government, cultural org etc. obviously the larger/more popular the club, the larger the pool, but whatever club you rise to the top of will set you up with girls in that club. Making friends will also get you into parties and social situations where you can meet girls. Other than that it’s … | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 02:06 PM |
| 7 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?This exactly. I don’t think the things the RP preaches are nihilistic as people sometimes misinterpret it to be. I found that knowing and understanding my situation and why things are the way they are brought me a great deal of peace and comfort. Understanding the rules of the game allows you to at least understand why you’re losing, even if you’re still losing. Whereas losing while trying to follow a different set of rules that you’ve been told are the correct ones without knowing the real ones… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 08:31 AM |
| 5 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?Also same | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:56 PM |
| 2 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?Same | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:55 PM |
| 7 | Got a girlfriend! Thanks r/seduction!Give us the background, what was holding you back before, what you changed about yourself if anything(self-improvement, working out, clothes, making money, mindset/confidence, and what made the most difference), where you learned from (which books you read, videos, courses, subreddit posts and what was most helpful), how you practiced/implemented what you learned, how long did it take to see results, how many girls did you bag/ how long did it take before you met your SO, the specifics with your… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Should men have a male VERSION of the classic hourglass physique?If you don’t think Olympic swimmers and non-powerlifting athletes lift, I have news for you https://imgur.com/a/QdkqWee/ | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/22 08:03 AM |
| 29 | Random sex textPerhaps let this be a lesson. The kind of girl who messages a stranger on Hinge explicitly for casual no strings attached sex/ONS within less than hour of meeting for the first time, and who is extremely masculine/matter-of-fact about sex, and asks you to bring an entire box of condoms to your first encounter for future use, is not the kind of girl you go down on and foreplay for 25 minutes. At that point, she is literally using you as a lifelike human sex doll/toy and you should expect to be tr… | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 07:38 AM |
| 19 | Straight Women will judge the ways a guy asks them out, but only because they never have to do the asking out part.Yeah I actually think it should be a part of all college sexual harassment/assault training to have a segment where girls are forced to roleplay as a guy and cold approach a girl or a guy role-playing as a girl at a party and ask them on a date or to go home with them. Because when I’ve seen girls put in this scenario 80% of them resort to the same stuff guys are criticized for, catcalling, physical/sexual compliments, touching, getting in their personal space, saying cringe lines, getting confr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 06:13 PM |
| 5 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menThis exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 06:23 AM |
| 28 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?For the same reason he said. It’s a biological disgust response to prevent cuckholding, to prevent you from future danger. It’s like when you touch a hot stove a a child and get burned and now you know not to touch a hot stove ever again, and to be cautious when you’re around one even years or decades later. As an example a 4 years ago in college, back when I was young and dumb, I was “best friends” with a girl and developed feelings for her as one does. I told her about my feelings and she reje… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 01:42 AM |
| 15 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?As a man to actually answer your question. Men would physically be more attracted to older women and have sex with older women, which would inevitably lead to more relationships with older women, especially with older men, but it will also depend on other non-physical factors that come along with age e.g. her personality, does she have kids already, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 06:04 AM |
| 12 | Need Help Gents!When she complains tell her sorry, you’re busy moving or with work or whatever and that you look forward to seeing her when you meet up. I’ve never had a girl I was talking to that I hadn’t met in person yet expect me to text every day (even when we both liked each other and did text a lot back and forth), more like every 3 days felt normal. If she continues to demand that you text her daily then drop her, if she’s like this now imagine what she’ll be like if you start dating. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | It’s a numbers game for men, but women don’t want to be treated like numbers?Yeah it’s one of those “chivalry is dead and women killed it” things. Women fought to deregulate the sexual/dating marketplace during the Sexual Revolution and Third Wave feminism, which is fine, it is what it is, but the necessary consequence of that was the end of courtship and the commodification of dating (just like when you deregulate any marketplace, stock market, labor market, etc. markets become hyperefficient often in dehumanizing ways). Putting effort into courting a woman, buying flow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:54 AM |
| 2 | I was a slut in my past, Can I still find a Good Man?Honey, please block him as soon as you read this. He is absolutely manipulating you, he is horny and lonely and wants to keep having sex with you, and because he knows your traumas he knows exactly what buttons to press to get what he wants. I know because the thought of saying things like that to the promiscuous girl I liked popped into my head when I was sad and hurt at being rejected, that I could use the things she confided in me to push her buttons and play on her fears and get her to sleep… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/22 02:35 PM |
| 6 | I was a slut in my past, Can I still find a Good Man?23M Men hate the lying and feeling deceived more than anything. tbh you might not be able to attract the highest quality of man, but believe me there are a lot of great men (who definitely would not hit you, you certainly deserve better than that, no person not even a legitimate prostitute or porn star deserves that) out there ready to play Captain Save-a-Ho. Normally the advice for women with their bodycounts is don’t ask, don’t tell. But in the future after you leave your abusive bf, and once … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/22 11:26 PM |
| 0 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?I think 30’s is a bit much, but I do think it’s definitely true that men peak later than women. I would say late 20’s (25-30) when (at least in urban areas where women get married in their late 20’s) they have women running up against the wall getting more desperate to settle down, while still being young enough to date women in their 20’s (21-25), who generally find men attractive and are open to dating men who are 3-7 years older, after having they have had the time to develop confidence, are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:06 AM |
| 20 | What are some dating hills that you will die on?Yes. Thank you, for the first point. As a guy when you can have a female “friend” you are repeatedly deeply emotionally and moderately physically intimate with (cuddling, sleeping over in the same bed, crying in your arms, consoling her about various things, calming her when she has anxiety attacks, cooking dinner together, talking about how special we are and how much we care about each other, sharing our dreams and aspirations etc.) and then say well we’re “just friends” because we never kisse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 03:36 AM |
| 0 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Seems like a cop out. Like if the alternative is you offing yourself or you need something to get you through the day/week/month, so that you can focus on self improvement without distraction, that’s one thing, but paying for a prostitute is basically paying to rent a 100% realistic sex doll for an hour. It’s ultimately just masturbation in another form. You’re taking a shortcut to trick the pleasure center in your brain into thinking you’re fulfilling one of the core aspects of humanity, reprod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:33 PM |
| 7 | What benefit do women have being more emotional than men?I’m disappointed that I had to scroll so far to see this, past all the blank slate equalism “akshually men and women are equally emotional, sOcIeTY just brainwashed men to be robots”. This is a myth which is damaging to both sexes and harms their ability to understand each other and themselves. It is verifiably false, at the very least women have a monthly hormonal cycle that causes their emotions to change on a daily basis, and before the 20th century spent a good portion of their lives experie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?23M Having a lot of female friends (since middle school I always got along better with girls and enjoyed hanging out with them), especially in college, is what helped Red Pilled me. Seeing the way girls talked about guys in private at the slumber parties (I really was one of the girls), listening to the way they talked about and viewed sex, the way they used dating apps, seeing the kinds of guys they would sleep with or share/have threesomes with, the kinds of guys they would be Friends with Ben… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 05:19 PM |
| 8 | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?Interesting, for me it was the opposite. Having a lot of female friends (I always got along better with girls and enjoyed hanging out with them), especially in college, is what helped Red Pilled me. Seeing the way girls talked about guys in private at the slumber parties (I really was one of the girls), listening to the way they talked about and viewed sex, the way they used dating apps, seeing the kinds of guys they would sleep with or share/have threesomes with, the kinds of guys they would be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 04:43 PM |
| 22 | 36 Questions that Lead to LoveThis. Use this as your grab bag of questions for first/second/third dates to develop emotional intimacy (which is the point of the experiment, not necessarily the specific questions asked right after each other, but that emotional intimacy combined with physical intimacy creates feelings of love, even in a short time frame) when you want something to talk about to start a conversation and ask follow up questions based on what she says. Don’t ask them one after the other and definitely don’t go a… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl taking days to reply and now not respondingThank you for commenting this so I don’t have to. This seems like exactly it. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesI agree with what you said. I also think it has to do with different perspectives and value placed on sex influenced by each sex’s biology and life experience and each sex not understanding how the other one thinks. For men, sex is difficult to get and for 90% of men can only be achieved through hard work both on oneself (working out consistently, doing well in school, making money) and in pursuing/seducing the woman (taking her out on dates, sweet talking her, agreeing to be exclusive with her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:18 PM |
| 11 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialWhat you have to understand is that when you get down to brass tacks and look at things at a biological level, without emotions or humanity/ethics, on a subconscious level while sex is a reward for you, for her it’s a tool for her to get what she wants from you. If she’s attracted to a guy who isn’t boyfriend material, he has nothing to offer her besides sex and so she has no reason to withhold it to get anything else. Whereas you are boyfriend material, which means you are someone who can offer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 06:22 PM |
| 30 | Men are blamed for everythingFor real though. Especially with this “West Elm Caleb” situation on TikTok. One of the girls said he was another guy she wanted to “add to her stable” and in the same breath tried shaming him for going on a date with her the day after he slept with another girl he was seeing and accused him of being “manipulative”. The hypocrisy is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 07:04 PM |
| 2 | How do I let him know I wanna give him head?So you’re in college, he’s a guy, you’re “friends”, you talk about kinks/sex, and hang out in each other’s rooms a lot. As a 23M who was in that dude’s exact position a few years ago, right down to the talking about sex/kinks, honey that guy isn’t really your friend, he 100% has a crush on you and is attracted to you and dreams about being in your pants, he’s just too scared to make a move, I’d bet money on it. 75% chance he has a boner whenever you’re in the same room, and 100% he does whenever… | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Why do you want a relationship?In addition to what others have mentioned, you seem to be missing the most important one (which says a lot): to have children and start a family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 06:37 AM |
| 4 | Male and Female friendships are complicated. Orbiters are quite common.This is it exactly. What she means is “why would I ruin the setup I have now by introducing sex? Then he’ll start to expect sex and possibly a relationship in return and if the sex is trash or I’m not feeling him and we stop having sex, I’ll lose the guy who watches my dog.” It’s the equivalent of a guy going “I’m FwB with this really cute girl, she’s really cool and we have a lot of overlapping interests, she comes over whenever I want to bang and we play video games after, she’s not seeing/ban… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Women who think their parents will invest more money in their future children are more likely to prefer men with masculine facesThis seems like it would explains why the daughters of beta bux dudes stereotypically go after alpha bad boys (think of the stereotypical well-off lawyer/doctor/accountant who wife’s up the former hot party/sorority girl who “got serious and settled down” at 29, and ends up with a spoiled hot daughter). Whereas women with strong conventionally masculine alpha father figures tend to seek out more nice guy beta dudes (different from absent father “daddy issues” where women tend to seek out hyper m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 05:12 AM |
| 3 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?I suppose this goes for both sexes, but for slightly different things but when a person says they’re not ready to date (usually girls to guys) or have a relationship (guys to girls) and then next week you find out that they’re on a date or in a relationship with someone and realize what they meant was they didn’t want to date (or have a relationship with) you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 12:54 AM |
| 2 | People are underestimating the prevalence of the childfree movementDo you have any stats for that? Of course there’s a lot of data about a growing number of people being reluctantly child free under 35 for economic reasons but I haven’t seen data about an increase in people being child free by choice and I don’t think either number has reached the level of “common.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 06:34 PM |
| 9 | Is porn ruining average sexual experiences for men by raising their expectations on how much sexual women should be with them?That isn’t nonsense, even high school biology class teaches that and they taught it in my Psych 101 class. Testosterone controls sex drive in both men and women (contrary to popular belief both sexes produce testosterone and estrogen, just in different levels). Even a man who is testosterone deficient has a testosterone levels 10x higher than a woman with high testosterone (and higher testosterone in women has been correlated with higher female promiscuity). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Porn addition being bad for men is one of the few topics that TRP & FDS agree onAlong with an increase in the number of women being asked out, within a few weeks an increase in the prostitution business as well as Sexual Assaults and Rapes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?We already know the answer to this question, they become depressed. This woman did an experiment where she lived undercover as a man for a year to understand the male experience. She had to quit the experiment after 8 months because she was becoming depressed. https://youtu.be/Ip7kP_dd6LU This redditor (33f) thought the reason her average looking, good job brother (31m) wasn’t getting matches on dating apps was because he was doing something wrong and just didn’t know how to talk to women so she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 12:27 AM |
| -1 | Why do women seem to prefer long term relationships and commitment instead of just being best friends with sex? Do you genuinely desire a man to devote and commit himself to you for the rest of his life or is this just a social pressure? Is this something that you genuinely want for yourselves?The answer is that as women become older (30+) their ability find another attractive man decrease drastically. Which is why most women do exactly what you say and serially date from 18-27, when they don’t prioritize commitment and are more open to “seeing how things go” and then at 28-30 suddenly decide it’s time to “get serious and settle down”. Lifelong security is imperative for women because their fertility/desirability only lasts for a relatively short portion of their lives and they need/w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Have men become too mistrustful of women when it comes to sex?Even though paternity tests exist, they’re not used unless the identity of the father is already in doubt for some reason. There are countless stories of men not finding out until later that the baby isn’t their’s. Just because paternity testing was invented 30 years ago, it doesn’t suddenly override hundreds of thousands of years of evolution and men’s disgust response to female promiscuity in a long term, serious partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?Your confusion stems from a misunderstanding of the Red Pill as well as conflating tradcons with Red Pill. RP suggests that having lots of casual sex is the perfect way of life for men Red Pill doesn't claim this at all. Red Pill, in its purest form, is not an ideology. It doesn't attempt to proscribe how things should be or what people should do or lay out a perfect way of life. It simply aims to provide a framework to describe how things are and why they are that way. What a person chooses to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Have men become too mistrustful of women when it comes to sex?Because evolutionarily speaking the greatest pitfall for a man is to invest time, resources, energy, including potentially giving up his life, for offspring that isn’t his. Prior to the modern age, men could not tell for sure whether a child was his or not, therefore the most important trait to look for in a woman besides signs of fertility, if you were going to commit to her and invest in her instead of pumping and dumping, was whether the kids were to be yours (i.e. does she/ has she been gett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 03:44 AM |
| -1 | RP men, what do you want?I mean if we’re really throwing reality/biology/evolution out the window. It’s probably a would where: Women outnumber men 4:1. 80% female, 20% male. Women’s biology/psychology changes so that they love men idealistically for who they are rather than opportunistically for what they can provide. The same way men love women. As other’s have said, women have the same sex drive as men for their entire lives, no loss of physical beauty or loss of ability to have children (until maybe 60). At the same… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 03:31 AM |
| 3 | why don't men date through female friends to avoid being with girls that they dont want ?1) Some men are shooting their shots, hence the women being inundated with DM’s. 2) Most men are just like you and aren’t aware of Instagrams popularity as a dating app for women (after all they’re not the one receiving the deluge of DM’s, the level of attention women receive on Instagram is incomprehensible even for a very attractive man). They might only figure it out if they hear about it from female “friends”, a sister/cousin, or hearing about it in the media/online. 3) Most men’s Instagrams… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 07:34 PM |
| 6 | why don't men date through female friends to avoid being with girls that they dont want ?Yes. This is what the person you were responding too is talking about. Instagram is basically the most popular online dating app in world right now (at least for women under 27-30). A moderately attractive young woman, especially in major cities, can post pictures of herself to a public Instagram and be inundated with messages from “friends”, friends of friends, strangers from her city and around the world, and if she’s attractive enough (and uses hashtags) even celebrities, asking her out, invi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 06:47 PM |
| 3 | why don't men date through female friends to avoid being with girls that they dont want ?Do you have an Instagram? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 06:27 PM |
| 3 | When do you think it's "too late" to find a good partner?https://i.imgur.com/VyvYYNr.jpg Men reach their dating/marriage market peak from 30-35. For women it’s 24-29. Statistically, women prefer to date men who are 3-7 years older than them. This is because the things that women tend to look for in men all take time to acquire (physical fitness, money, a stable career, confidence, maturity, a sense of direction in life, wisdom/intelligence, sexual prowess). Whereas women obtain the things men care the most about as soon as they finish puberty (physica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 04:05 PM |
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