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richardson277/r/seduction09/01/17 04:13 AM
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richardson277/r/seduction30/12/16 02:42 AM
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Change your mentality, put your self on her level
/r/seduction29/01/17 12:08 AM
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Number close and just re-initiate contact if you see her at the club again after
/r/seduction29/01/17 12:02 AM
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What kind of meet ups are these? Dating specific or just random ones?
/r/seduction28/01/17 11:54 PM
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Ahaha great post. I have an old iphone and all my pictures are blurry, definitely killing my results on tinder. I do 10x better in person, meet way hotter girls. In addition to everything you said, I think the reason why I do better in person is because a lot of guys are becoming dependent on online dating. A small percentage of guys actually do approaches now in person. It shows lot of your qualities if you have the balls to walk up and talk to someone. I think a lot girls would prefer to meet …
/r/seduction28/01/17 11:51 PM
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Never had the hand in the face denial, but I guess that means i am not trying hard enough haha. I would feel like I would need to goto the other side of the bar/club after that, do bad blowout kill your social value with people watching?
/r/seduction28/01/17 10:48 PM
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Ahaha hooligans. Is this NFL or premiere league?
/r/seduction19/01/17 04:55 PM
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Can you please tell the uncle wanting to fist fight story hahaha what did he do?
/r/seduction19/01/17 12:26 PM
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By the sounds of it, you shouldnt want your new girl to be like your old girl. It was a toxic relationship and you should be happy to be out of it. There are lots of girls out there man, move on
/r/seduction19/01/17 12:22 PM
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It is most likely a no or a flake waiting to happen. But maybe she actually might have some tentative plans and cant commit right away. Follow up with her and just move on if you don't get an interested response
/r/seduction19/01/17 12:20 PM
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Hahah ya agreed
/r/seduction19/01/17 12:08 AM
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Yes there are the disorders, which is when the experience is ongoing. I meant that depression and anxiety are also emotions that a lot of people will experience occasionally. Alcohol and some drugs are "depressants". You can wake up feeling depressed after a night of partying, that doesn't mean you have a disorder. You could get anxiety before a public speech in front of a crowd, or before you approach a girl in a bar, but that does not mean you have a anxiety disorder. With that said, this girl…
/r/seduction09/01/17 03:03 PM
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I agree with your first paragraph, but not your second paragraph. I think you tend to attract people that are on the same wave length that you are at that time. I go through different phases with how I feel and how I behave, and that usually corresponds to who I attract. Being introverted does not mean you are toxic. My exes were high quality girls, beautiful on the inside and out. We did not have toxic relationships at all. I think of toxic relationships as people yelling and screaming at each …
/r/seduction09/01/17 02:03 PM
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Thanks Shawn, appreciate the response. Like you said, so many people have their own issues. I have been out of my long term relationship for couple years now and have been dating a lot of different girls. I realize that nobody is perfect and I am pretty understanding and accepting of others for who they are. Anxiety and depression are so common, and unfortunately there is a stigma attached to it. People often don't seek help and would rather suffer quietly without anybody knowing. I would rather…
/r/seduction09/01/17 01:53 PM
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Yeah thanks, I am very understanding of how she feels. I want to keep seeing her but I don't want to hurt her feelings or lead her on
/r/seduction09/01/17 01:29 PM
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I did not mean I am using her for sex. I still want to date her, I dont feel I need to part ways just because she has depression. Most people have depression and anxiety, whether they show it or not
/r/seduction09/01/17 01:27 PM
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I don't want a serious relationship at all, but she is hot and I at least want some sex. She is the kind that wont have sex without an emotional connection though.... a disaster waiting to happen, you are right
/r/seduction09/01/17 05:36 AM
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What about initiating eye contact? Glance away and back until she looks at you, then hold it? Staring at her until she looks just seems creepy
/r/seduction07/01/17 01:29 PM
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I met a friend while traveling and he would just comment on anything about a girl to start a conversation. She could have the ugliest curly nappy hair, with a bad hair cut and he would just walk up to her and say ohh I love your hair
/r/seduction07/01/17 02:08 AM
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Ya it depends where you are and what the situation is. If i was in a coffee shop sitting down, id probably wait until i was leaving, or if she was getting up to leave. Both standing at a bus stop or in line together, id approach right away. I don't like to wait too long though, then I start over thinking the opening.
/r/seduction07/01/17 12:17 AM
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As long as you're not face to face haha, you might go a bit cross eyed
/r/seduction06/01/17 06:00 PM
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If a girl holds eye contact from a distance for 3-4 seconds and doesnt break it, should you break eye contact first? Obviously it is an invitation to approach, so I usually walk up to them. But I find I usually smirk or smile, break eye contact and then walk up and start a conversation. What do you guys find works the best? Just keep holding eye contact and approach?
/r/seduction06/01/17 05:59 PM
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It is not impossible, your inner game is just killing you. If you think it is impossible, are youre not going to have success. Focus on improving your mindset, and set reasonable standards.
/r/seduction06/01/17 12:10 PM
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Just work on it man, you can develop and do anything you want to do. You can overcome social anxiety and autism. Read the book the brain that changes itself. Focus on just getting out there and talking to people, I know it is easier said than done, but the more you do it, the less daunting it will seem. Sounds weird, but look into getting gut microbiota treatments and fecal transplants for autism. New area of research for treatment
/r/seduction06/01/17 02:01 AM
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Day game in cities is where its at. I cannot wait for summer
/r/seduction06/01/17 01:54 AM
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Why no pictures with other girls? Is it because girls compare them selves to the girls in the pics or make judgements based on who you're with? Most of my pictures of my self are me with good looking girls I know my pictures are killing me on tinder though, i need to get better ones. I have an old iphone 5s that has a shit camera.
/r/seduction06/01/17 01:53 AM
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Well you will need to build some trust and comfort. Get to know them well and build a relationship. Find common interests and do things together. Just try to get them to meet up with you, go for coffees, grab a drink etc. Basically show to her that you are better than her current boy friend and that she enjoys her time more with you. Play with her emotions, don't be too nice all the time and use subliminal messaging combined with suggestive eye contact and body language. Make sure there is physi…
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:39 PM
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Is that why they call you the monkey man?
/r/seduction05/01/17 02:39 AM
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I am in the same situation, currently talking to two girls that have boyfriends and am wondering if it is worth it to continue. I was at a bar with my friend and two girls approached us and pulled us onto the dance floor, have been talking to this girl for a while and she sent me this text: "Haha I'm actually heading there in a couples hours! I'm sorry, i do have to be straight up that I have a boyfriend though. I was being Heather's wing-girl the other night and then I really was enjoying talki…
/r/seduction05/01/17 02:18 AM
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Bring more than one condom and initiate touching early and often. Bring a bottle of wine or something too if you want. Just be comfortable and confident, make a move. If she is inviting you directly over to her place she 100%wants to fuck
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:57 AM
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Could not disagree with you more! Personally I find it way easier to get numbers, dates and sex when I meet a girl in person. And the quality in day game is way higher than what I get online. You can show so much more with body language, vocal tonality, eye contact, touching etc. If you cant do these things in person, when you do get dates in person it will be way harder to close
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:08 PM
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Could not disagree with you more! Personally I find it way easier to get numbers, dates and sex when I meet a girl in person. And the quality in day game is way higher than what I get online. You can show so much more with body language, vocal tonality, eye contact, touching etc. If you cant do these things in person, when you do get dates in person it will be way harder to close
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:08 PM
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Could have just wanted to fuck that night and was disappointed, but probably a prost haha
/r/seduction01/01/17 01:50 PM
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Ahaha man I tried, she was just frustrating. It seemed like she just wanted a boyfiend with no sex
/r/seduction31/12/16 07:52 PM
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Ya she was looking more for a relationship, which I obviously wasn't interested in. If it was a girl I actually wanted to be with I would have no problem waiting for sex. It was weird though because the 2nd and 3rd dates went really well, lots of comfort and attraction, she would make out with and bascially dry hump me, then when I tried to get any clothes off she would say she needs to be comfortable with someone to have sex with them (but i had already fucked her twice...). She was just out of…
/r/seduction31/12/16 07:46 PM
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I dated a girl last month and that would say that every time I went on a date with her. The first night we went out for drinks she invited me back to her place and kept saying it. After trying for a while, I had sex with her that night and again in the morning. We went on to two more dates, and she just kept saying it and making me try so hard to have sex, that I just walked out on her and ended it. What is with that? Should I have just stuck it out and stayed with her, she clearly wanted to hav…
/r/seduction31/12/16 06:44 PM
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Haha ya I wouldn't be foot massaging someone ive never kissed. Save that for a girl friend or someone that is putting out already
/r/seduction31/12/16 12:47 PM
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Don't be too needy! If she's not responding don't keep texting her back. Give it a few days and follow up about the date. If no response or conversation, move on
/r/seduction31/12/16 12:42 PM
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Ahah ya I like this one, I find it is good to keep it playful and use humour. A little push pull is good
/r/seduction31/12/16 12:12 AM
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Are you paying her?
/r/seduction30/12/16 02:16 PM
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And what is the recovery like?
/r/seduction30/12/16 03:53 AM
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Exactly, the key is to isolate one girl from the rest of the group. Engage the group and observe who is interested in you. Once you feel like the group is approving of you, take one away from the group
/r/seduction30/12/16 03:12 AM
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What did you do and how did she respond? Just play it cool and don't be awkward about it. It is nothing to be ashamed about.
/r/seduction30/12/16 02:35 AM
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Exactly, keep escalating
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:11 PM
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Not everyone celebrates christmas (ex Jews)
/r/seduction26/12/16 06:57 PM
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Read the chapter on sex and love in "the brain that changes itself". It comes down to psychology and neuroplasticity.
/r/seduction26/12/16 06:54 PM
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Agreed, dont pass on good opportunities in person. Dont get too comfortable and dependant on online dating
/r/seduction26/12/16 02:48 PM
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