Sole provider here. The more I provide the easier it is for my wife. The better job she does the easier it is for me to provide. When kids are young SAHP is hard. It gets easier.
If they are not interested in talking then they are not interested. And I don’t believe that good looking guys are poor at read body language. For sure they are rejected less, just like good looking women.
Ah BS. I am a man and chose to not continue many relationships. And not to enter many. In my experience in a relationship, yes women generally decide when to have sex the first time. Getting sex is not the end game.