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| 2 | Manly, masculine and high testosterone doesn't automatically translate to attractive to women.Shoulders can only be narrow or wide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Manly, masculine and high testosterone doesn't automatically translate to attractive to women.The research studies are mixed and inadequate. Basically, they conclude: For genetic quality, traits like masculinity may be favored (short-term contexts). For long-term investment, traits associated with warmth or reliability are more attractive . E.g., more feminine faces It is also influenced by hormones and fertility cycle. Also, you can't trust some of these researchers pushing their ideological agendas. But before you say that's proof of environmental conditions influencing their preferenc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Manly, masculine and high testosterone doesn't automatically translate to attractive to women.Uhh, no. Women are programmed to be attracted by masculine traits. There are outliers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”Yep, just show up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 04:50 PM |
| – | Women should never lower their standardsWill you grow up and deactivate your account, already? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 01:39 PM |
| – | Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want themUndesirable, ignorant women don’t get selected by high-quality men for marriage, and it makes them bitter. There are plenty of power couples who support each other and successfully raise families. All the married men I know put in the work. Either they are the breadwinners—while their wives are free to focus on personal pursuits—or they are in dual-income households where both partners contribute and raise the children together (or with nannies because they can afford it).. Low-quality, young, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want themThis place is overrun by young, dumb feminists and betacuck males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Society doesn't really hate older womenSociety hates old, poor men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Most alpha/sigma grindset guys or dating coaches are really just normie/attractive men subconsciously preying on the undesirableNo sh*t sherlock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 01:36 PM |
| 0 | The “Nice guy” is a loser to most men.Dominant and good-looking men size each other up . However, two weak betas don't size each other up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.Maybe a bit of an overgeneralization of average men on my part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.Maybe a bit of an overgeneralization by me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.Read my message above | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.OP doesn't mean 'superior' in a moral sense. He just believes they are better men across the board on average—higher value to women and society as a whole, smarter, braver, more desired, stronger, genetically fitter for survival, with objectively better and healthier bodies, including better lymphatic drainage—everything. And, yes, these men, on average, have stronger integrity and other moral characteristics than average men. That's because average men are average and have more character flaws … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 09:50 PM |
| – | Making more than women is not enough for average men, the nature of the job mattersWhy are you calling the postman a delivery "boy". Is he no longer considered a man in your eyes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 01:16 PM |
| 1 | I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they areYep, neither can i | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 12:30 PM |
| 6 | Losing attraction to my girlfriend because of her jobShe's only 23. Plenty of time to mature and/or develop ambition and direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is Autism basically a contraceptive for men?The correlations for facial attractiveness, height, and early balding are too low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?Men have to worry about other things, honey. Very difficult things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Women should not complain about being left for younger womanNice story. I don't know a single relationship/marriage that checks all these boxes. Housing the children? I thought the husband was paying the mortgage in your little story? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 01:29 PM |
| 1 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?A lot of plumbers started a business. Show some respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:01 AM |
| – | How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating?Your opinions matter. I'm realistic and basically agree with you (the thoughts of women and the manosphere are justified to some extent). But I also appreciate you voicing this "fresh perspective" , because there aren't a lot of women participating in online debates sharing the same view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | The 80/20 rule and raising a sonTeaching children to believe in the 80/20 theory would be toxic to their worldview. Besides, the 80/20 theory doesn't actually translate to reality. Men and women "settle" all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 04:28 PM |
| – | How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating?I see, I'm not sure how I misinterpreted your posts. Oh well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 04:21 PM |
| – | How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating?I'm a man who doesn't even attempt to date because I currently acknowledge my own perceived "deficiencies". I don't think I would foster a healthy relationship nor do I think I'll satisfy a woman whom I find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 04:16 PM |
| – | How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating?Maybe because you sound picky and seem to reject men based on just one or two "personal flaws". I think that's a fair assessment. I don't know what he means by men "not having nice things" though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 04:11 PM |
| – | How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating?How exactly are you rating these women? What makes them "average"? Also, maybe the women you tried to approach/date didn't care about your career or the fact you're in shape and have a lot of friends. (I'm not trying to diminish your overarching theory) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 04:06 PM |
| – | How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating?Thank you for being or associating with attractive women who see value in unattractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: what does the 9/10 and 10/10 face of the opposite gender look like? What are the defining characteristics?Name of female model please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Dating women forces men to be superficialI'm a male and I'm just as picky, if not more, than the average woman. The notion that men are "simple" and easily satisfied is a trite generalization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Discussion about sexually successful deadbeatsThe four mothers should marry a polygamist so they and their children can all move in together under one roof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy frequency and cause: Potential theoriesWhy are so many people associating "marrying up" (hypergamy) with the Pareto Law (80/20)?? The proportion of men who have a higher status than any particular woman depends on that woman's current status. Therefore, A "working class" woman may decide that GREATER THAN 30% of men are acceptable partners (because at least 70% of men will have a higher status than her). An "upper class" woman may decide that LESS THAN 10% of men would be a suitable partner (because at least 90% of men will have a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Is Online Dating a Scam?Scam isn't the right word. "Deceptive advertising" is more accurate. The companies don't disclose how broken their services are for certain subsets of users. But, technically, the services still work fairly well for other subsets. Well, I guess they have released demographic studies that we're all aware of by now. Ultimately, it's whatever works for YOU. I have several friends who met their wives on dating apps like Bumble. Clearly not a scam for them. I've had more success in person. None on th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 05:30 AM |
| 2 | The only men getting consistent action are men with no/ loose standardsAre you saying you're consistently single or you don't manage LTRs very well? It's not clear. I'm going to assume you mean you rarely land a date because you're picky. Anyways, I think we basically agree with eachother so let me just give my two cents: The average man "swipes right on apps" a lot because he has no power/value and the cards are stacked against him. The above-average man (TBH, the creme of the crop) doesn't need to "swipe right" nearly as much as the average man to score a match. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Failure/success in finding a partner is dependent on understanding three unique thingsWell, based on all the match examples you presented in your OP, it sounds like you've distilled what people want and have to offer: status, $, and looks. Deep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 03:47 AM |
| 2 | The Reason the Redpill and FDS Types Don't Post PhysiquePlease...The majority of TRP/FDS members are unattractive in one or more ways. It's common sense. Consider that barely 40% of the general population could be considered attractive at one point in time. That % is going to drop for the proportion of people that actually create a Reddit account ("Chads" and "Stacys" don't have time to join Reddit). That % will drop even further for those Reddit users who join these aforementioned subs, which by nature, were created out of bitterness, hopelessness, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 12:07 AM |
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