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| 1 | How I stopped getting friendzoned instantlyYou need to show her you're interested in her whether its words or through action What if you do that & they still only see you platonically? | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if a girl is looking at you with a interest or just looking aroundit's just one of those things where you'll learn through experience, you just know it when you see it. When does that XP kick in? I'm 40 & I always get it wrong either way (think they're interested but they're actually friendly & visa versa) | /r/seduction | 07/09/25 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Normalize having neutral conversations with womenTf why only it applys to males to have to talk to females, why don't females can't approach to males like females should learn about our ways too 👻 Sqaure and Fair ✌🏻 I completely agree 💯 | /r/seduction | 23/08/25 03:54 AM |
| 0 | If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head…Lol if you cant read vibes and emergy you gona suck at dating bro I'm not gonna "read" anything, we have mouths for a reason (besides eating). Stop gaslighting people & making excuses for playing stupid immature games | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 05:26 AM |
| 0 | If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head…Well tbh u should be able to tell the difference. We can't read minds. If you won't communicate, don't date. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 06:51 PM |
| 3 | “I don’t sleep with guys on the first date” *proceeds to sleep with me on the first date*one woman said that to me, and then later on asked me why i wasnt making a move after sitting on her couch for 30min Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. If I wanted to play games, I got my PS5. | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 12:44 AM |
| 3 | When age turns them offI said 22 and she hit me with the ‘I’m too old for you’. She was 25 so it wasn’t even that bad 😭 That's actually crazy that she thought being 3 years older was "too old for you"🤣 | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Do guys “understand” touching as a form of flirting?I don’t mind initiating, I just wasn’t sure what works the best. Being direct works best imo, 39M | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 01:40 PM |
| 3 | She's a "10" but she doesn't suck D and hard to satisfy in bed. | She's a "6" easy to please, but prefers pleasing you. Which one you keeping?6, no contest. | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 05:22 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date themI think women vastly underestimate how much effort it takes for a normal range dude to get a woman in his life. 💯% this ☝️ I only ever had 1 gf & that's only because she basically initiated it (I was quite shy at the time, plus I'm introverted) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 03:55 AM |
| 2 | How to know if a girl is interested vs being friendlyThat's the neat part, you don't. At least not until 10 years later & you're left wondering why she didn't lyk sooner. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 06:07 PM |
| 5 | Do girls always give you tell tale signs of when they want to kiss youLol, this is me too (also this made me chuckle 😂) | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 08:46 PM |
| 8 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?But she made up for lost time after that Cuff her & don't ever lose her. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 09:14 PM |
| -5 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?Seeing if you’re sexually compatible is different than pressuring them to fuck you after 3 dates. Where did they say anything about "pressuring them"? | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 06:59 PM |
| 12 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?Isn't 3rd date waiting?? Obviously it is, I think the point is to not be waiting a really long time. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 06:58 PM |
| -11 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?Respectfully, if a woman wants to reject me for wanting to see if we're sexually compatible, that's fine, I'd rather not waste my time with someone like that. 39M | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 06:56 PM |
| 6 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?Yeah def 2nd date, max 3rd. Think about it: let’s say YOU are interested in a serious relationship and find her attractive. Wouldn’t you expect her to be sexually attracted to you as well if she was into you the way you are into her? And if that isn’t the case, would you wanna be in a relationship with someone who is NOT sexually attracted to you? And if she is but is holding back, for what reason? Are those compatible with your values and morals? I definitely agree with this way of thinking. My… | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How to approach guys successfully?Yeah im telling you, 90% of the times we dont realise you are flirting or we are scarred to death. Both are equally possible. I can confirm this. Worst case ever for me was not realizing it til 10 years later. | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 11:05 PM |
| 3 | When a girl come overI'd want the guy to make the decision even tho i hate it That makes ZERO sense. Why?! Elaborate, please! | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you cold approach without public IOIs from women?Indicator of interest. | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How a girl actually thinks!Great! Now tell me how likely it is to meet a girl like that Probably more likely to hit the lottery IMO | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Do women have higher standards than men?Absolutely. Men will fuck literally anything. I wish that was an exaggeration. That IS an exaggeration, maybe a lot of guys will "Fuck anything", some of us have standards. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Ever turned down sex with a woman? What happened?Usually it's when I try to be the good guy that I wind up getting fucked over. Ain't that the truth. 🥲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Neediness vs. being direct: Tell a woman "I want to fuck you".Username checks out. 💯 | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 04:27 AM |
| 4 | I Always Assume All Women Find me HideousLmao rip didn't Quasimodo actually end up getting a chick in the end anyways 😅 Yes, but it is FANTASY for a reason. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:52 PM |
| 9 | Nurse at the hospital gave me her number because she wants to work in the same profession as me???I think I discovered all of men's problems with women. Lack of functioning brain cells. No it's women's inability to vocally communicate interest. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Will most girls ghost you if you don't make a move on your dates?I think the bigger question is why aren't you making a move? Because women will reject guys for absolutely no reason at all. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 05:14 AM |
| – | Do women often assume if a guy isn’t salivating over them that he must not be very interested?Hypothetically, what if he was shy? What would you do then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Do women often assume if a guy isn’t salivating over them that he must not be very interested?Yes. I’m not a mind reader, if a guy doesn’t say something I’m not gonna just know that he really likes me. Same for guys, do assume he should read your mind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to avoid the "i just didn't feel the spark"You’re lucky you can get dates in the first place I’m tall and white and can’t get dates Same, 6'1" and no dates | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Do you find that you only attract one type of woman?Ones I’m not attracted to 😭😭 Can completely relate, sadly😭😭 | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | I asked someone out for the first time in my life !What happened? | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 08:17 PM |
| 5 | If You’re Not Sure If She Is Interested Or Not…When you are with someone who’s into you, you will know for sure. Assuming you're not completely oblivious. I've realized over a decade too late some girls were interested in me. Had they just told me they were interested or asked me out it would've happened but no they chose to make absolutely sure I didn't know for sure they were Interested. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 05:20 PM |
| 5 | How to break out of small talk?and friendships lead to romance Since when? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 02:25 AM |
| 3 | How do I make moves to try to hook up with a guy?Most of us guys don't pickup on flirting or hints. Best to be direct & upfront. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:30 AM |
| -2 | Getting a Girl's Phone Number and Asking for a DateRemember to be assertive and confident Unfortunately neither of those ever work. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Who got laid during covid and how'd it happen? One sentence answers onlyPeople are getting laid during covid? | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneI'm desperate as hell and even I turn down sex with jerks. I CALL BULLSHIT!😠 | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveAgreed! Gave him silver.☺ | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 04:53 AM |
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