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I posted above. I usually say “Hey I haven’t heard back from you so I went ahead and made other plans. We’ll find another time to hangout!” Girls always respond immediately
/r/seduction29/12/18 09:20 PM
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You don’t have to compete with those guys or compare yourself to them. You just have to be the best you you can be, girls will look at you differently if you have confidence in yourself.
/r/seduction29/12/18 09:02 PM
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Do you want to be in a relationship with her? Are you guys only sleeping with each other, for how long? Do you go on dates regularly too and y’all just fucking? That’s definitely something that’s determined and communicated, I’d talk to her about it if that’s what you want but it doesn’t sound like you’re bf/gf at this point.
/r/seduction29/12/18 08:58 PM
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Wtf no it isn’t.
/r/seduction29/12/18 08:55 PM
1

No, it’s a mutual agreement that is made. Sleeping with someone on the reg does not make you their bf, it makes you a fuck buddy. You can be sleeping with 3 people regularly, they wouldn’t all be your girlfriend.
/r/seduction29/12/18 08:54 PM
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I do something similar to this. I say “hey I haven’t heard back from you, so I went ahead and made other plans!” and always get an immediate reply like “oh I didn’t see your text!” Or “sorry, how about this day!” It shows that you aren’t dependent on her and you got other things going on
/r/seduction29/12/18 08:47 PM
2

Girls can see right through this, there’s a whole subreddit for it /r/oopsdidntmeanto
/r/seduction29/12/18 08:45 PM
3

If she’s talking to you about her boyfriend, she thinks you’re her friend.
/r/seduction29/12/18 06:21 PM
2

Lol she probably gets people interested in her all day that’s why just slipping her his number while she was working wasn’t going to work. If she was interested she’d give her number when asked.
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:22 PM
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Yeah that’s the issue here, that instead of being like “let me get your number so we can grab coffee” or just slipped his number and assumed she’d call. I’ve set up a date at work before by giving a girl my name and she looked me up on Facebook later.
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:18 PM
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Her manager would side with her over some dude who they don’t know who hit on his employee at work.
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:16 PM
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Yeah the thing about hitting on girls at their work is that they have to be nice to you at work and that could be misconstrued as flirting when she’s just doing her job. Should have either asked for her number or social media. Now you know op.
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:15 PM
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It doesn’t sound like you even asked this girl out when she was obviously into you.
/r/seduction04/12/18 03:29 PM
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I don’t like asking if a date is still on, it comes across needy. I usually say that I’m going to be a few minutes late. That way it confirms the date and doesn’t come across like you’re dependent on her answer.
/r/seduction02/12/18 11:07 PM
1

Why’d you have to stay in your friends circle?
/r/seduction02/12/18 11:04 PM
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She’s obviously not interested dude, move on. Anything you do further is going to make you come off creepy and hurt the friendship she has with your gf.
/r/seduction02/12/18 10:46 PM
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Flirt with the friend too.
/r/seduction02/12/18 10:42 PM
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Nah, I was just saying damn right cause I’m a lesbian on this subreddit
/r/seduction11/10/18 07:09 AM
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Damn right!
/r/seduction03/10/18 04:30 PM
1

Nah, move on and learn from your mistakes
/r/seduction02/10/18 03:43 PM
3

I disagree with this, some girls are really subtle about checking you out and shy girls especially. Plus, she could be looking at you for any reason. She could think you’re cute or think your clothes/haircut is ugly. I’m a lesbian and I look at guys all the time but it’s just people watching. I think the best way to indicate is to make eye contact, smile and watch her response and check her body language
/r/seduction14/09/18 12:06 PM
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Lol I’m a woman and this guide is ridiculous. Take a deep breath and dive right in?! No, just no.
/r/seduction16/08/18 06:03 PM
5

Lol what was the sample size, because there’s no way
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:50 AM
1

You RAN after her and dropped that corny shit?
/r/seduction18/05/18 06:19 PM
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From your comments it seems like you just want to text to confirm your date. I usually do something like “hey i forgot I had a meeting (or whatever) that day, let’s meet up an hour later” or “hey I’m gonna be 30 min late tonight” that way you’re confirming it and not asking her to.
/r/seduction18/05/18 06:15 PM
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Doesn’t seem like she’s interested. You’re probably coming off pretty weird if she’s your friends ex fuck buddy from 4 years ago and you’re out the blue messaging her on Facebook trying to hookup. She’s gonna put you on /r/creepypms
/r/seduction11/05/18 06:11 PM
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I think you’re reading too much into it. Girls get those looks all day long, it can get creepy fast
/r/seduction26/02/18 05:09 PM
9

As a woman, I don’t agree with staring at a female coworker like “you have the cock she needs in her life” while she’s speaking in a meeting. Eye contact and a smile will do
/r/seduction25/02/18 07:46 PM
2

You say you have high standards and then say you’re desperate. It sounds like you need to work on yourself and focus on what you want before you can focus on picking up.
/r/seduction07/02/18 08:47 PM
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Get good at foreplay and oral.
/r/seduction13/11/17 05:24 AM
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Sounds like either she’s found someone else or just wasn’t as interested as she may have seemed. Seems like she disabled read receipts on you too. She’s really young so don’t take it personally. You’ll find someone else.
/r/seduction13/11/17 05:23 AM
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You planning on throwing a party to maybe hook up with a girl who has a boyfriend. Just find another girl and respect their relationship.
/r/seduction01/11/17 07:50 AM
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Lose her number. She’s using you as a backup plan and then finding better things to do. People always make time for the things that they want and if they’re busy they’ll suggest another specific time. You’ll find other girls that you like.
/r/seduction01/11/17 07:46 AM
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Most girls you meet in a club are just there for a good time with their friends, not a man. Few will respond for a date, let alone be your girlfriend. That being said I enjoy k closing at clubs and if I'm feeling like that attraction is there, go to her place or mine
/r/seduction04/10/17 04:14 PM
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Coffee or drinks E: just saw you were 17, coffee for sure
/r/seduction04/10/17 04:00 PM
2

It sounds like you need to work on yourself and your confidence. You shouldn't be worried about what all your friends are doing or why one girl blows you off. You have to put yourself in the mindset that you're happy regardless of what happens.
/r/seduction04/10/17 03:45 PM
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Mmm...I think you're grasping at straws here. Just because she liked a couple pictures of you on social media doesn't mean she's interested in a guy she barely talked to 5 years ago. Are you having trouble meeting new people?
/r/seduction02/10/17 03:01 PM
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Just start talking to strangers about situational things. Not just women, everyone. Make eye contact, smile. You might make mistakes and interactions may not go as you hoped, but you have to try. You miss every shot you don't take.
/r/seduction07/05/17 05:27 PM
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I only send a few messages before I suggest getting coffee. Works 8/10 times.
/r/seduction07/05/17 05:58 AM
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I can tell you right now, it's not the fact that you live at home, it's that you lack confidence and aren't putting yourself out there. How do you plan on getting experience if you don't approach women?
/r/seduction07/05/17 05:55 AM
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The good thing about really small towns is: there's nothing to do so everybody's trying to fuck. Do you know a lot of people in town? Is there a place people like to hangout? Bonfires/parties?
/r/seduction05/05/17 03:25 PM
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Sounds like you took to long to hang out in person. Texting and snapping constantly is fine once you've already had sex. She's probably been hanging with another guy who took initiative.
/r/seduction05/05/17 03:22 PM
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Don't ask her to go see a space adventure with you, bro. You won't be able to talk and it won't see the mood. Suggest getting coffee.
/r/seduction05/05/17 03:20 PM
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You got a good job, cook for girls, lift, look like you're having fun, and still can't get laid means you need to stop saying offensive shit. That can be a big turn off depending on what you say. Grow a filter.
/r/seduction05/05/17 03:15 PM
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They could feel like you'll get too needy, just not want sex with you again, or actually be too busy. Move on to other girls, op. If they want to do it again they'll hyu
/r/seduction05/05/17 03:08 PM
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I don't think anyone's gonna give you advice on how to bang a 15 year old girl, bud. You could try /r/incest, but even they'd probably shame you. You should just focus on the mother and not get involved at all with the daughter.
/r/seduction03/05/17 01:20 PM
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You need to just suggest getting coffee or ice cream. It's never gonna escalate if you don't talk in person.
/r/seduction03/05/17 12:51 PM
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You need to just suggest getting coffee or ice cream. It's never gonna escalate if you don't talk in person.
/r/seduction03/05/17 12:51 PM
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Ask people questions and then piggyback off of their answers.
/r/seduction03/05/17 12:50 PM
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Don't use pick up lines from that subreddit lol. I've had quit a bit of success on tinder, I just type girlsname! And get a response 9/10 times. Or you can make an observation about her profile, but no one is gonna respond to the cheesy lines on /r/tinder.
/r/seduction03/05/17 12:49 PM
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I don't follow pua that closely, can you describe it? In your 50s?! That's twice your age. Shave the head and dress younger.
/r/seduction03/05/17 12:38 PM
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What do you mean what does she mean? She couldn't be any clearer that she likes you, man.
/r/seduction03/05/17 12:25 PM
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You already know the answer to your question.
/r/seduction03/05/17 12:20 PM
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I'd shave your head for one, your hair like that makes you look older that 28. What are you doing when you try to pick up?
/r/seduction03/05/17 12:18 PM
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Bro, you're asking if a 40 year old woman is gonna let you bang her 15 year old daughter? What kind of advice are you expecting to get here?
/r/seduction03/05/17 12:15 PM
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I don't think you can take /r/actuallesbians as the golden compass for lesbian interracial relationships. I see them almost every time I go out in Tennessee. I almost never see white women dating Asian women and I don't know where that generalization come from. I'm cute, but def not Beyoncé cute. Most of my pick ups come from my personality and attitude, I'd think. If I can pick up girls of different races in Nashville fucking Tennessee, then you can too, but not if you feed into self victimizat…
/r/seduction02/05/17 06:48 PM
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I would probably dress cuter when you're on campus. You can still be casual and look dope. Try /r/streetwear. If you can approach someone to watch your stuff, you can approach someone just to talk. Or try Tinder.
/r/seduction02/05/17 05:41 PM
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Really, where do you live? I live in the south and I don't have any problems picking up girls outside of my race. I'm cute, but I'm not like super hot in the traditional sense. Just assume every girl is attracted to you, and you might have better luck
/r/seduction02/05/17 05:39 PM
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7 or 8/10.
/r/seduction02/05/17 01:34 AM
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White women love black people where I live. I grew up in a two parent home in the suburbs (in Memphis!) and I don't have any problems pulling women of all colors. I'm also a woman myself so it might be more difficult for you. Can you describe your physical appearance/age? Could you maybe come off as unapproachable? If so just try to smile more while approaching women and be yourself. You don't need to fit into any stereotypes if you have confidence.
/r/seduction02/05/17 01:09 AM
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Probably no chance of salvaging this one. If a girl is on Tinder in a city she doesn't live in, she's trying to fuck then. A week is too long. I'd move on to the next one.
/r/seduction02/05/17 01:02 AM
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Don't get pissed when a girl doesn't text you back. If you want to escalate things between the two of you and see where she stands, you're not gonna be able to do it at school. Try suggesting getting coffee together
/r/seduction02/05/17 12:57 AM
2

Do you have any friends that go out? Hang out with them
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:22 PM
11

Be confident and know how to entertain yourself. Messaging a girl should not be the sole reason for your happiness. You need to think about yourself, ace your midterms, then enjoy your spring break man.
/r/seduction03/03/17 05:10 PM
1

Meet her on campus for coffee and hope she has a place of her own she invites you to. Or you can uber to locations, but you mentioned not wanting to spend money so dates on campus are really your only option.
/r/seduction25/02/17 12:14 AM
1

I think it is. You're already on Tinder, intentions are clear already
/r/seduction13/02/17 07:35 PM
1

That's so much talking before planning a date. I usually only send 5-6 messages back and forth before setting up logistics. It doesn't take that much effort lol
/r/seduction13/02/17 05:34 PM
1

Trust me, just say you've made other plans and leave her to wonder what that is. She shouldn't have flaked on you for v-day.
/r/seduction12/02/17 08:26 PM
2

Yes, that will show her that you have other things going on and you're not giving her all of your attention or dealing with her shit. Only do this if you haven't heard from her by valentines.
/r/seduction12/02/17 06:30 PM
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Don't. The 20 questions thing is dumb and she'll see right through it. Also considering you're 16, that would be child pornography and you could get in a lot of trouble is something got screen shotted.
/r/seduction12/02/17 06:10 PM
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They probably just wanted your attention/validation and if they think they got that before the actual date, they don't feel the need to actually go out with you. But what I say when a girl tries to flake out the day of is something like "hey I haven't heard back from you, so I went ahead and made other plans tonight". Usually they'll text back immediately with some excuse and we'll plan another date.
/r/seduction12/02/17 06:07 PM
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Or he could have come off as creepy. It's hard to know what happened without the context of their convo
/r/seduction06/02/17 04:37 PM
2

Since you already told her you had a dream about her, and she asked what it was. I'd say something like "let's get coffee and we can talk about it" but don't actually talk about it unless she presses for it
/r/seduction02/02/17 12:00 AM
1

I use a trick I got here months ago. After matching, "Girls name!" Is all I send. They either reply "rickiracoon!" or a "hey" after that I usually point out something about their profile and suggest coffee after a few messages.
/r/seduction01/02/17 05:16 PM
4

This can come off as really strange if you haven't built a lot of attraction with this girl yet.
/r/seduction01/02/17 05:11 PM
1

I've found that typically when I try to schedule a date and a girl is unavailable at that time, she'll counter with an alternative day/time if she's interested. If she's not suggesting you guys meet up another time, I'd move on and wait for her to hit you up at a time that works better for her.
/r/seduction01/02/17 05:05 PM
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9/10 a girl will know if she wants to pursue something with someone within a few minutes. If you're friends already, it's probably too late.
/r/seduction28/01/17 05:57 PM
2

Yes, it does work if the woman is interested in you. If not, fine, just move on to the next. If that doesnt work for you, open with something situational.
/r/seduction11/02/16 08:40 PM
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No, do not approach teenage girls in front of their families. No 15/16/17 year old girl is going to respond well getting hit on in front of her parents by a stranger and neither are her parents.
/r/seduction11/02/16 06:27 PM
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Student Union, Library (not on the silent floor levels), anywhere you can get food or coffee, or even just walking between buildings just walk up to girls you find attractive and strike a convo. You don't need to sit through a class you're not registered for to talk to women. If you're shy or don't know what to say, just ask her name and say something like "hey, I'm running late for class, but you're cute and we should get coffee sometime." Then get her number. Good luck, dude.
/r/seduction11/02/16 06:21 PM
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It seems like you're boring them. Girls don't want to just keep messaging you. After a few messages, ask to meet up with them for a drink. Hopefully it'll be easier for you to build attraction in person.
/r/seduction11/02/16 06:05 PM
1

A better place to post would probably be /r/relationship_advice
/r/seduction11/02/16 05:58 PM
2

Firstly, don't take her to dinner. Take her for a drink or coffee and offer to pay. It's cheaper and you guys don't have to be self conscious of eating/breath/teeth. If a girl likes you on Tinder, she's probably curious and at least a little interested in you so left that give you confidence and when you meet her, smile at her as though you know exactly why she's interested in you.
/r/seduction11/02/16 05:56 PM
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You came on here and posted asking about your hair line receding and how your time with women is now as you'll be irredeemably unattractive in a few years and then get upset when people give you advice? I think your self esteem is shot already if you believe that your hair is the only thing that makes you attractive. Whether you decide to style it differently, cut it, or keep it the same, be confident in yourself.
/r/seduction11/02/16 06:15 AM
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If it's enough to bother you into posting about it, just cut it. It'll only get worse. If you own a shaved head, women will pick up on your confidence.
/r/seduction10/02/16 06:09 PM
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If a pet name makes a girl think you're gay, she's ignorant and not worth your time. But as a black lesbian who lives in the south, I've found most women in the country to be tolerant and open. Edit: also find a pet name that's relevant to her or your time with her, not some random cliche nick name. If you can't think of one, just say her name.
/r/seduction10/02/16 05:58 PM
1

I'd meet up with her Tuesday to see how it goes. If she starts talking about him, change the topic. If she continues to do this, I'd end it. Hopefully you guys have a fun first date and it doesn't come to that.
/r/seduction11/12/15 10:23 PM
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5,000 messages? In a week? She's probably moody/less energetic because she's bored.
/r/seduction11/12/15 07:20 PM
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/r/relationship_advice
/r/seduction30/11/15 03:09 AM
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You want to text with the goal of meeting her in person, but you should start with some sort of introduction.
/r/seduction03/11/15 05:47 PM
1

Move on, if she wanted to hang she could make a slot for you in the next two weeks.
/r/seduction25/08/15 06:58 AM
1

You should just set up a date. Were you on lsd at this festival?
/r/seduction22/07/15 10:22 PM
0

Suggesting you're well endowed is not seductive. Makes you seem insecure.
/r/seduction22/07/15 05:55 AM
1

Math...ew.
/r/seduction22/07/15 05:48 AM
2

You told her you loved her after hanging out for a week, or have you known her for a while. It seems Ikr she might just wanna be your fuck buddy.
/r/seduction22/07/15 05:21 AM
1

Most girls will look right past that or ask about it. Don't be self conscious about it.
/r/seduction17/07/15 03:10 PM
1

Text only when you can meet up with them or making plans for future dates. Avoid trying to go back and forth because unless you've slept with her already, she will see you as needy and lose interest pretty quickly.
/r/seduction18/06/15 01:57 AM
1

Have you introduced yourself to everyone? Is there a break room?
/r/seduction08/06/15 06:42 PM
3

Some of us are women :)
/r/seduction08/06/15 06:06 PM
3

SURPRISE!
/r/seduction08/06/15 04:08 PM
2

I wouldn't want anyone I didn't know in person already messaging me on Facebook. It's creepy. Not a natural situation to approach a stranger like OP asked.
/r/seduction07/06/15 03:19 AM
3

Do none of this.
/r/seduction07/06/15 01:56 AM
1

Introduce yourself, shake his hand, ask how they know each other, switch the convo back to the girl. If it's a random guy and not her friend, I'll usually act like he's the shot guy, give him my empty drink and say thanks.
/r/seduction07/06/15 01:50 AM
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/r/askseddit
/r/seduction05/06/15 11:17 PM
1

Text only to meet up with the girl. Avoid the generic: "Hey", "What's up", "How are you". Try to call her by a teasing nickname that will remind her of when she was last with you. If you're going to go back and forth, make sure you take longer to text back than she does.
/r/seduction23/05/15 06:43 AM
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I've never gotten a head high from smoking hookah ever.
/r/seduction29/04/15 11:35 PM
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