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The life decisions part is strange but believing in astrology really isn’t that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:07 PM
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What else am I supposed to do, just stand there 😂?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:25 PM
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Lol I like that thought process, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:29 PM
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It’s a double edged sword being conventionally attractive but having ADHD that affects your social skills I’ll see a girl that seems interested with the way she’s looking at me and talk to them and a look in their eyes says “woah, this guy is socially awkward as fuck” 😭 it’s very discouraging
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:15 PM
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I doubt he meant generally speaking, but more at the drop of a hat. Still varies, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:02 AM
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This has a lot to do with the fact that women seek out relationships more often than men because relationships benefit women far more than men, especially financially
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:09 PM
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😉
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:15 AM
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This isn’t a debate forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:15 PM
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Yeah you’re right but that’s not what you initially said
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:55 PM
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Reddit isn’t a debate forum that’s my point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:54 PM
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Yeah Reddit is an Internet forum, not a debate forum. That’s my point. Nobody comes to Reddit to debate just certain subs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:53 PM
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I’m referring to Reddit not ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:52 PM
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I meant Reddit in general
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:50 PM
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This isn’t a debate forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:49 PM
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it doesn’t matter if you’re reading it from a book Exactly. It doesn’t. You’re completely right that reading on a game can have the same outcome. At the end of the day, though, you’re still reading. That’s my point. Reading is always a valuable skill to possess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:03 AM
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Lots of skills aren’t that useful reading novels Can’t speak on gardening and chess but reading is absolutely useful. Reading novels improves your spelling, reading speed, comprehension, sense of humor, language, etc. There’s a lot you can gain from reading novels that can be applied in real time. Don’t underestimate the value of reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:26 AM
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Lots to unpack here. incredibly time consuming Very subjective and differs very much from person to person. Games are bad in excess but what isn’t? provides NOTHING useful Speaking personally, I’ve developed some useful skills from gaming such as better hand eye coordination, puzzle solving abilities, and perseverance. Are none of those useful ? What about people who game to alleviate stress, or teach them something (cooking games, chess games, sometimes word games). Do those not have any use? G…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:20 AM
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You’ll be okay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:09 PM
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Lol when you put it like that…idk. I have mixed feelings about the situation. I just don’t see myself doing it again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:35 PM
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Nah. At the moment it felt nice but after I was iffy about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:34 PM
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Catching. Didn’t feel like pitching at the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:26 PM
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So I sexually experimented w/ a guy yesterday (oral and sex). To be completely honest, I really never see myself doing anything like it again. I feel like I like men in terms of finding them attractive, but having a romantic/sexual relationship was not as appealing as I thought. I thought I was bi; but I’m really just not sure anymore after yesterday. Think I’m just gonna stick to women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:21 PM
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Do you deep down see women as equals I view woman as equals on a pure humane level and in terms of capabilities yes. I just don’t believe men and woman are equal, because we play fundamentally different roles in the biological and social hierarchy. If a war were to begin, my life would automatically be of less value than that of a woman. On the other hand, women are still struggling to make their own reproductive decisions without government interference and that isn’t a problem of mine. do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:07 PM
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Same on preferring relationships with women and not being masculine, except I don’t engage in very masculine activities. I find more enjoyment in feminine mannerisms personally
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:36 PM
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And? I like to fuck with music on too, so it needs to be romantic and slow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:00 AM
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B
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:09 PM
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So goddamn horny that I made a statue of a man and woman engaging in oral sex and having sex while playing Minecraft 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:02 PM
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Of course the most left wing gaming subreddit is boycotting it. As for my thoughts, I’m mostly indifferent as I don’t care about what JK Rowling thinks about trans people. I have read and loved Harry Potter and hope the game is mostly successful and good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:28 AM
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Would you call someone that disliked men for doing something but not women a misandrist ? Plenty of things that particularly men do that women don’t like, there’s also a gender component there, is there not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:25 PM
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80% is a reach. The women here are also pretty bitter let’s be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:43 AM
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I’m not saying they’re inferior, just asking for the signs that a man doesn’t get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:38 AM
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Turns out women aren’t just one person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:46 PM
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“Females”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:31 PM
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I haven’t really come out as bi at all, even in the dating scene, and I don’t seek out relationships very much so as of recent it hasn’t been a problem. I will say, though, that it’s disheartening hearing people like my sister express disgust towards bisexual men for finding men attractive because I feel that so many women feel that way. As for dating men, I sort of want to try it but it just pains me how negatively gay/bi men are perceived and I wonder how a man would feel if they find out I’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:28 AM
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Great analogy! I Appreciate the advice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:09 PM
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I haven’t because idk what to say nor have I come Out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:59 PM
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It’s so difficult being black and bi. I cannot stand hearing my family speak on gay/bisexual men. In the past 10 minutes I’ve heard that bi men are unattractive, constant negative use of the word “zesty”, and that bi men are just gay men in disguise. It’s so frustrating how homophobic the black community is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:31 PM
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What would you rather do?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:03 PM
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Do women really just sit around and clown Virgin men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:39 AM
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This is very exaggerated. All of these things will attract your life partner, yes, but let’s not act as if all of it is necessary. There are also wayyyy more things men want to see in women besides not being fat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:32 AM
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Based as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:26 AM
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Y’all are really showing your age with these memes 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:21 AM
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Yeah this is not thick 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:57 PM
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Cousin told me that in like the 3 months he was single at university, his n-count went from 10 to 25. That was so crazy to me (I only have 1 and just recently lost my virginity as a 21M) as I don’t even see myself forming that many sexual relationships over my lifetime nor does it really interest me. He even said he didn’t know some of their names, and that just doesn’t appeal to me. I’d much rather have a few meaningful ones because when you’re screwing so many people, you’re never really learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:49 PM
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That looks scale chart is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:57 AM
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You’re correlating being a virgin at an older age with level of attractiveness. Considering the amount of factors that go into someone having def and the fact women can pretty much have sex whenever they please, a woman who hasn’t had sex yet probably doesn’t want to. It’s just not as simple as “you’re ugly if you haven’t had sex at this point”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:25 AM
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I’d say it is if you’re a dude up until a certain point. I lost mine recently at 20 and I can tell you people will give you hell if they somehow find out. I actually believe this is a phrase uttered to those you don’t seem attractive, charismatic, cool, unique, and or stable enough I wouldn’t say it’s all that, just a way of calling someone a loser but I guess those qualities can qualify as being a loser and so few Virgin girls over the rating of 4/10 ??? Wild assumption here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:19 AM
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Exactly. Things mentioned in the op such as fakeness are just results of our largely superficial culture as a result of social media, but times have indeed been worse. Plagues, the Great Depression, wars, lack of technology, etc. This is the best period of time to date actually, because we have the technology to ensure we can meet a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:25 PM
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I don’t care about vaccine status at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:40 PM
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Men who make their every action and move revolve around the approval/desirability of women. Basically men with not much to offer except “I’m someone you can have sex with.” I think there’s a fine line between appearing attractive and putting on a show Men who talk about sex 24/7 as if it’s their greatest accomplishment in life. It’s draining to be around people who think life revolves around how much sex you have. Likewise, men who look down on those not having as much sex as they do Men that fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:13 PM
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That’s a beautiful man I’m ngl, but the comments don’t look thirsty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:19 AM
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I agree. The moral of the story here is that being neurodivergent sucks. I have ADHD and would kill to socialize like most neurotypical people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:11 AM
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I agree. The moral of the story here is that being neurodivergent sucks. I have ADHD and would kill to socialize like most neurotypical people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:59 PM
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Clingy, passive aggressive, and insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:44 PM
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Is that really your best source?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:32 PM
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Idk if I’d say it’s making it “better or worse” as I think it’s more complex than that. Low T definitely isn’t what women always want. Just aspects of that lower T may put less effort in improving themselves, neuroticism, going out to meet women, hitting gym, having masculine frame Yeah, this isn’t true at all. First this is more dependent on the person, not the amount of testosterone they have. Secondly, I’ve met plenty of high testosterone men who don’t meet these standards either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:39 PM
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Not every woman is the same,not every woman has the same amount of relationship experience, and not every woman will judge you . She may find it endearing if she has just as little experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:19 AM
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Firstly I don’t think going into any sexual or romantic relationship with any sort of lies is a good idea. If it comes up or is asked, an honest answer should be the response. I would advise not saying anything if it is not, though. In terms of lies, like another user said , lies have to be kept up with. If it eventually is revealed that you did not have X amount of short term girlfriends or have actually not had sex, then your partner will be wondering “what is this person lying about?” Do they…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:48 AM
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She did fuck me. She just didn’t date me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:20 PM
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Well firstly intimacy isn’t as easy for men to come across as it is for women, so we have to put ourselves out there a lot more to compensate there are far more men than women on most dating sites Mostly because women don’t have to do much to receive attention from men and can enter a relationship easier (though it’s harder to find a man worth getting into one with). strip clubs for men are far more common I think this boils down to the female body being a lot more visually appealing than the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:49 AM
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Interesting response, glad you learned some stuff along the way 20,000 Yeah, this is just nasty 💀. Sex with that many people doesn’t even sound appealing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:56 AM
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I don’t just out and say it, but if I was having sex with them I’d think it would be necessary, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:30 PM
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What’s a reasonable “why” in your eyes? What if his “why” was because he’s shy? Would that still be unattractive )
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:17 PM
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When I lost it the girls first response was “why” and my reasons are that I hadn’t gotten too involved in dating/relationships for a while because of the pandemic and disrupted social opportunities. Unfortunately that just comes off as unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:12 PM
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But how would you perceive him based on how much lower or higher the number was? How would you perceive one that lost it at 16 vs 19 vs 22?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:10 PM
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Exactly. Posts like this are main issue with this sub- they speak about men and women as if they are a monolith with the same preferences, dislikes/likes, and attitudes universally
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:59 PM
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I’ve lost a friendship with a girl I really liked because I thought she was advancing but she wasn’t. Sometimes it’s better to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:56 PM
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I love their sense of fashion. I’ve always envied how many options women have compared to men when it comes to clothing I love how their affection feels. Even a small “thank you hunny “ from an old woman at the grocery store will warm your heart I find femininity to be a nice contrast to masculinity. Men can be very harsh, non-empathetic, and rigid sometimes and I appreciate how empathetic and understanding a lot of women are towards emotions Like another user said, a beautiful woman is one of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:56 AM
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It wasn’t brought up very openly but it was 6 of us and sometimes two of the girls would discuss it one on one and I’d hear it. I was like damn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:32 AM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:20 AM
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I went to a birthday dinner tonight as the only dude with just women and I’m wondering: am I wrong/weird for feeling uncomfortable hearing them talk about sex with men? I appreciate how in tune they are with their sexuality, but when I over heard them sometimes one on one talk about how much they enjoy sucking dick it just felt…weird. I guess maybe because I couldn’t say anything about it. How would you guys react in this situation (men) and ladies, how would you feel if the roles were reversed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:07 AM
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It’s definitely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:59 AM
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Atheist .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:53 AM
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Yea we all in uni. I def blew up the spot, sort of rushed shit. But whatever lmao. I did see the other girls in the week I hadn’t seen her. She’s the only one in the group ion fw at all anymore since we have sexual and romantic history. Definitely will be doing a soft divorce, gonna miss em though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:12 AM
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She probably does It started when I met one of them in a cafe line and we hit it off and I went to a party w this girl. She had a friend there that I met that I fancied. Eventually talked to this friend a lot , became her friend, and asked her out on a date. We went out on a date, hit it off. She comes over to the crib a few times and eventually we start fucking. Wanted to date her but it eventually ended bc she said she wasn’t interested in me as a boyfriend. Before the dinner today, haven’t se…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:02 AM
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Most definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:31 AM
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It ended…weirdly. We’re not really friends. We sat across each other at the dinner and haven’t spoken at all. She’s just in the same friend group
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:26 AM
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Currently at a dinner with a group of girls from uni whom I’m the only guy friend in. I really love them but goddamn do I need to a group of guy friends to be around more to balance it out. I have a lot of guy friends back home but just 2 good ones up here. It’s super weird when they bring up sex related topics (especially bc I fucked one of them and we used to talk), but mostly women are just so judgmental sometimes, especially me being the only guy so my actions are taken with more weight I fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:15 AM
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Well first of all I’d stay a little optimistic if I were you, since I know it’s a hard situation to be in, especially as a man. You’re right, not every girl is open to teach. At the same time, not every girl isn’t open to teach too. Also plenty of women mid 20-s that haven’t had sex either so maybe you guys can learn each other’s bodies together. I lost mine not long ago and “teaching” isn’t really too much of the process as it’s something you’ll get better at the more you do it. There will prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:23 AM
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One of the best ways to get laid but it’s a lot of energy that goes into having to learn about all of it, stay committed, and depends a lot on what you join
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:15 AM
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I disagree. We shouldn’t defining people by their looks. That’s like saying ugly men will care for you more than handsome ones. People have to understand that some people just are attractive, it doesn’t always say something about who they are on the inside
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:33 PM
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I actually attend a uni with quite a lot of women so I do have a lot of female friends. I can understand how it may seem skewed looking at the third point though. I guess I more so meant the sexual attention, which other people called out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:42 PM
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most men are pathetic Says a lot about how you view men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:22 AM
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Seriously? Well I’m very happy for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:59 AM
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Why the sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:54 AM
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Does the attention from women directed at men have to be a sexual one No, not necessarily, but re-reading my post I understand how it may have come off that way. I more so mean sexual attention/desirability from women is seen as valuable, but it doesn’t have to be like that. Looking back though, I was mostly talking about sex ”attention of women is seen as valuable” can just be read as “Women interact with non-misogynists” easily I don’t even know where this is coming from. I feel like you’re mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:36 AM
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regularly wax their entire body Lol. This definitely isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:44 PM
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Do I need to explain to you how men who don’t get women are seen as lesser? Biology and society can tell you this. You’re telling me “the thing that’s looked at by everyone as being so great and unattainable, isn’t that great.” I would love to know how it isn’t great
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:39 PM
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Oh okay. You’re right, it’s not even and fair…but I can acknowledge that as well. I’m here to discuss different perspectives, not stay stuck in my own
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:40 PM
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Who said I was white?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:38 PM
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Lol, good point. I just wanted to bring the quote up mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:29 PM
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I’ll tell you firsthand that mostly isn’t the case Tell me how it isn’t. I really want to know how getting all the women must suck so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:24 PM
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Drake said it best “Sweatpants, hair tied, chilling with no makeup on” It’s women that impose these high standards onto other women/men. Like I said, as a woman, you are valued. Those other things are just accessories A trash man can have a wife by his side True, but what do you see more of? Lonely men or lonely women? Yes, men do succeed, but more often than not they fail
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:36 PM
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There’s very little risk of us getting stuck married to someone we don’t find hot Yeah, this isn’t true. Yes, we have more options, but women generally have far higher standards than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:00 PM
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My mistake, I didn’t finish the video as I assumed it was going to be all women. Upon finishing it, yeah I see your point sex wouldn’t even make it into top 5 What are your top 5, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:47 PM
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I didn’t say men prefer having female friends to make ones, just that the attention and company of women is valued far more than that of men’s, generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:18 PM
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I focused on sex because I feel it’s their primary advantage in the social hierarchy. That video is a bit sad, but humans are innately selfish. Ask men the same question, bet they won’t sacrifice themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:53 PM
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Most men don’t sit around preparing themselves for a fight. It’s a nice skill to have, but it’s unrealistic to think most can fight, and even if they can, it’s probably not very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:48 PM
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This is very true, definitely something I hadn’t considered. I have a homeboy that’s super confident with women and cold approaching and I always mirrored him and felt really good about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:20 PM
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I’m at a university that is 70% women. Just got out of a situationship with a girl. Before that, I was getting pretty good at confidently cold approaching women and getting their numbers/instagrams which is good. During the situationship I sort of settled off of it but I’m getting back into it now, but it’s just honestly pretty intimidating when they’re with a group versus alone, because now a group of women are observing my behaviors and confidence when approaching their friend, which makes me …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:15 PM
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A lot of men that sleep around a lot view women as merely accessories and achievements. A lot of people need to let go of the idea that if you don’t like women as a man, you must not get any women. Plenty of men get women but don’t view them as humans
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:15 AM
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A lot of straight women absolutely hate feminine men, unless he’s their gay friend, that is. Otherwise, this isn’t true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:53 AM
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It’s pretty prevalent tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:21 PM
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A lot of straight women are just as homophobic as most straight men tbh, if not more
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:06 AM
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The end of Monster’s Inc 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:41 PM
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The misspelled flair is the icing on the cake here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:41 PM
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grew up with three brothers and only had guys for friends than believe her to be gay This is a great point, and one I wanted to also mention. I attend a uni that is overwhelmingly filled with more women than men, and I catch myself sometimes using feminine phrases simply because im around women so much. It isn’t a testament to my sexual preferences. Same with other men who might’ve grown up around a lot of women and use such phrases the op is looking down on there really isn’t a culturally accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:26 AM
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It really frustrates me when people say stuff like this (referring to what you’re saying, not the quotes). Society already has an extremely rigid and strict idea of what men are supposed to be. Hell, I even saw a post earlier saying that if you’re a man that gets manicures, it isn’t gay (as a way to give men reassurance because a lot of people view it as such). Yeah you’re right, it is pretty effeminate, and I say those myself as a feminine man. I just dislike when people say “men aren’t suppose…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:15 AM
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