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Reason 1: they aren’t attracted to you. Reasons 2-4: see above
/r/seduction01/02/19 08:24 PM
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Pro tip: don’t try to fuck your friends.
/r/seduction01/02/19 08:24 PM
2

That thumbnail itself is enough for me to know not to watch this trash.
/r/seduction23/12/18 03:20 PM
0

Highly recommend not fucking co-workers.
/r/seduction23/12/18 02:06 PM
0

Bud you seriously need to see a therapist to work through this shit. Also: this is not a subreddit to be on to get and maintain a serious girlfriend.
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:37 PM
1

This might be a location issue, because I am by no means an attractive guy, but got about that many per week where I lived.
/r/seduction26/08/17 04:43 PM
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Download tinder. Swipe girls. Talk to them like you would guys, and work your way up to a cold one. Women are humans like everyone else. Get a backbone and treat them like you would your male friends.
/r/seduction25/08/17 11:41 PM
3

See a therapist, maybe get on some low-dose anti-depressants like Wellbutrin. I did this and it was crucial for me to get out of my funk. At the time I didn't have health insurance. I hated the idea therapists and anti depressants before, but I realized sometimes you need outside help.
/r/seduction24/10/16 12:09 PM
17

TBF I wouldn't date anyone in my place of work, or where i spend a huge chunk of my time (like MMA class or a gym). Too much risk for drama and conflicts. Either way she probably didn't want to partner with you the first time because your teasing other women (or her) came off as rude or mean, and not playful. She also probably read your reaction afterward and and felt bad, or she was messing with you the first time and you didn't figure it out. Either way she rolled with you the second time and …
/r/seduction16/10/16 11:21 PM
42

This is the best attitude. Abundance mentality/outcome independence is crucial, irs a win-win, you pursue other women, and date them, and increases the possibility her attraction to you by the fact that you aren't fawning over her, she sees you dating other women (which increase your value/social proof)
/r/seduction16/10/16 08:23 PM
18

TBF level of attractiveness of women you can hook up by cold approach is always going to be higher than tinder unless you yourself are a 10.
/r/seduction15/10/16 07:40 PM
5

Those are the same option. If a girl asks you if it's okay to give out their number to some dude, explicitly for the purpose of cheating, you should probably drop them immediately, period. Unless you're into that sort of thing. Then, play on.
/r/seduction27/08/16 02:43 PM
1

I was a late bloomer, and the only time my virginity was an issue was when I was dating a girl who wanted to sleep with me before I was ready. If it's just friends and co-workers, let them talk shit, and talk shit back to them. That will help you with banter with girls anyway. If you're with a girl, and she's talking to you about sexual history, guess what? She probably wants to sleep with you. So if you get to that point with her, good. If she asks you why you're a virgin it's easy to hand waiv…
/r/seduction21/05/16 01:42 PM
19

Meditation helps a lot with never running out of things to say. How do you figure?
/r/seduction18/05/16 01:31 AM
1

I've always equate begging to playful ribbing, like what one does with their male friends. I think a lot of people miss the "playful" part of that game.
/r/seduction18/04/16 01:43 PM
1

I don't think you speak for a lot of women or men when you say using the world "cuddles" is a good way to get someone to sleep with you for the first time.
/r/seduction14/04/16 07:09 PM
1

Not say anything to a a woman that uses the word "cuddles"
/r/seduction14/04/16 01:17 PM
20

Amplify - "Cuddles are my thing" *[squeeze her] Cringe.
/r/seduction13/04/16 09:56 PM
13

Being nice and becoming friends with bouncers is an important thing to do outside of the purposes of this sub. They're a great way to get you an "in" at places, and can generally make your nightlife way easier in a lot of different ways.
/r/seduction10/03/16 03:52 PM
3

Depends on what you want out of it. My gut reaction is: let her come to you. If she doesn't, cool. If she does, cool. keep the abundance mentality. However, since she is a friend, If you have that sort of relationship, it's fair to say it's shitty that she's doing that. However, I wouldn't bank on anything changing. she's flaking for a reason. That reason is probably being unsure about what she wants out of the relationship with you.
/r/seduction08/03/16 04:09 PM
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Her: I'm taking down some notes for my studies. /r/thathappened Sorry I'm sure you're just translating from german to english, but that line sounds so fake and contrived without the context that you're not a native english speaker.
/r/seduction25/02/16 10:38 PM
0

there really isn't.
/r/seduction22/02/16 05:26 AM
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it's really not.
/r/seduction21/02/16 11:07 PM
6

until sex. Sorry to hear.
/r/seduction01/02/16 09:40 PM
4

Yeah but if you want to operate under abundance mentality, aren't you better off moving to a new set who don't give you a standoffish response to your opener? If a girl says "i have a boyfriend" at the jump, she's basically saying "i don't want to fuck you" in the nicest way possible. If you move on, you find someone who more receptive, then either a) you take that girl home, or b) you establish value with not chasing after the girl who said she had a boyfriend, which, if she's interested in che…
/r/seduction11/01/16 02:47 PM
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External validation is bad, and it's hard to get over. Whether it's girls, your racing, lifting, or your youtube channel. It seems like you need to find your own intrinsic value. It won't happen without self-reflection and a lot of work. Also, there's either something seriously wrong with the relationship if you go from madly in love for a few months to getting your facebook and number blocked. I feel like there's some unpleasant facts in that story you're leaving out. It doesn't really matter w…
/r/seduction05/11/15 02:13 AM
1

This video shows that just because you're good at getting laid or seduction in general does not mean you should be a motivational speaker or start a pua mentoring program/company/whatever
/r/seduction03/11/15 09:43 PM
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If it's motivated by money it's motivated to fudge outcomes to look more interesting to potential customers.
/r/seduction29/10/15 02:30 AM
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I'm pretty sure the whole point he posted this was to promote his book.
/r/seduction28/10/15 10:16 PM
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No. Where did I say the mods should delete the post?
/r/seduction28/10/15 08:00 PM
0

Is this your approach to girls that don't take to your 4-step process as well?
/r/seduction28/10/15 01:51 PM
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Because there's a lot of new people on here all the time who don't read the sidebar, and will upvote anything with a story of sex they wish they were a part of? Just because people buy in to native advertising doesn't mean it's good, or valuable.
/r/seduction28/10/15 01:49 PM
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This isn't some basic shit that every guy out there is doing. Well yeah, but neither is half of the basic stuff on this sub. Do you really think most guys are going through the kino ladder, or reading through day-game wiki entries? I'm not that impressed by your unverifiable anecdotes. Usually when people peacock with somewhat specific claims of sucess like this, especially when there's some attempt at selling products that purport similar results, there's a bit of puffery involved. However, sin…
/r/seduction28/10/15 01:39 PM
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this is the most interestingly written comment reply I have ever seen. Unironic use of "hoe" and "chillax," the use of dude twice within a string of four words. Impressive. Jokes aside It is a nice blueprint. a) Its just not revolutionary, and b) a really shitty (as in "in poor taste" and not not as in "a poor attempt") attempt to sell newcomers to the sub and the community what I assume is a pretty average book with some pretty interesting and completely unverifiable anecdotal stories of how th…
/r/seduction28/10/15 01:19 PM
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I said dirty talk 101 not seduction 101. You went through the basics of the subject. You covered them well, but It's all pretty straightforward stuff. Social proof and escalate. If they don't take to the escalation, circle back around. small incremental steps. None of this is very revolutionary. Social proof is what you are using in your post to create "emotional safety." If you don't know that then you may want to double back on your field research before you start selling products about it. Al…
/r/seduction28/10/15 01:12 PM
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I mean your post is basically escalation and dirty talk 101. None of it seems like new or interesting information. Social proof+escalation. Maybe stick to adds on Reddit for your "products" instead of making turf-grass posts like this.
/r/seduction28/10/15 12:54 PM
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Are you trying to sell me a book?
/r/seduction28/10/15 12:40 PM
2

This is all great, happy for your experience and all this excitement. I'd be very cautious with a no-photo tinder profile. Honestly I wouldn't have even replied if someone messaged me from it. Even if you met the girl, there's something off-putting about that/sketchy about the whole situation. I'm not saying a full-scale honey-pot but I'd tread lightly.
/r/seduction20/10/15 03:34 PM
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Date out of your circle, only hit on girls you don't know. Problem solved?
/r/seduction09/10/15 12:50 PM
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An easy way for me to deal with this, and how i coach my friends who have problems with putting girls on pedestals is to just treat them like any other guy friend. Talk a lot of good natured shit, be fun to be around, and don't let your attraction affect how you interact.
/r/seduction09/10/15 05:03 AM
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I think it's more of a "you always want what you (think) you cant have." I've definitely been disinterested in attractive girls who showed lots of interest in me at the jump, and lost interest in girls who made the chase easy.
/r/seduction09/10/15 04:59 AM
2

daringly bold Huh?
/r/seduction09/10/15 04:58 AM
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Whose labeling you desperate in this situation? The women who already turned you down, aka the ones you're not sleeping with anyway?
/r/seduction09/10/15 04:55 AM
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Hey man, I'd say don't over think it. If it works it works, if it doesn't, it doesn't. Each interaction is different, and the only way you're going to be able to read situations is from experience. Just keep it light, and keep it fun.
/r/seduction08/10/15 10:36 PM
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If you want to pick her up, ask "where [or when] should I pick you up?" if she says "let's meet there" you say "alright i'll meet you at [time]" If you don't just skip to the last part.
/r/seduction08/10/15 10:33 PM
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read the FAQ's and the text game stuff on the sidebar. Any advise you get in the comments here is going to come from there. Just remember to be yourself, have fun with it, and embrace rejection.
/r/seduction08/10/15 10:30 PM
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Moving a little fast, shooter. Try flirting with her a bit before diving straight into sexting.
/r/seduction08/10/15 10:23 PM
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And in case you didn't pick up on it, my point was that people shouldn't use that line if it's not genuinely true.
/r/seduction29/09/15 04:08 AM
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I think you need to have under Step 3: be confident, and use eye contact. Even when it's a "gee golly gosh I never do this sort of thing, but" you need to be confident in your approach. And Step 4: do not under any circumstances send her pictures of your penis unless explicitly asked to do so, and even then, only do it if you feel comfortable.
/r/seduction28/09/15 09:44 PM
1

And what happens when she finds out you've lived in the city for years?
/r/seduction28/09/15 09:39 PM
4

May as well have said "be the best at something lots of other people spend years/decades/a lifetime becoming good at"
/r/seduction28/09/15 07:39 PM
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Become a professional _____ player. LOL.
/r/seduction28/09/15 06:04 PM
1

the few grains of truth are co-opted by self-help books and subs like this. You don't have to be a he-man woman hater to get laid.
/r/seduction11/09/15 12:13 AM
3

eyeopening secrets next you're gonna tell me that all it takes is three easy payments of $19.99
/r/seduction10/09/15 09:07 PM
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If that's how you show affection, and you're staying within your budget, and it makes you, and them happy, and you're getting laid, who cares? If they're only keeping you around because of what you're spending on them, and you don't like that, there's a real easy solution to deal with that.
/r/seduction10/09/15 09:06 PM
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There's no score card or tally in a relationship. The only way spending more or less money on someone affects the balance of "power" in the relationship, is if you let it. Some expects you to pay for dinner all the time, and you don't want to? on to the next one. Girl wants gifts often, and you don't want to, see ya. You can end any relationship for any reason at any time. If you're an inscrutable PUA, it shouldn't be a problem, as I assume you're drowning in pussy. If I seeing someone who tries…
/r/seduction10/09/15 09:02 PM
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As you should be. I wouldn't pay anyone's bills unless they traded rings with me formal ceremony, in front of a priest, pastor, or justice of the peace, and close friends and family.
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:15 PM
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If you're hooking up with a girl who refuses to pay for things, and that doesn't make you happy, move on to the next one. That goes hand in hand with the concept of putcome independence. Whether they want to pay or cover the cost of dates, or expect you to give them shiny things, or not has nothing to do with your actions before you start fucking, and everything to do with the kind of person they are. No more, no less.
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:02 PM
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Why? If you're outcome independent, and just trying to be a decent human being and not a huge tight-wad, why does it matter?
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:56 PM
3

At 42, it's not "day game" it's just game.
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:36 PM
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Only spend money on a woman you love. That's some /r/TheRedPill advise there. You shouldn't be buying a girl a fucking lambo, but there's nothing wrong with covering dinner, or the uber for the morning after.
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:35 PM
0

Start talking.
/r/seduction07/07/15 04:53 PM
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Not really.
/r/seduction26/06/15 11:12 PM
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If fake internet points were something I cared about I'd have hung myself by now. Slut shaming has nothing to do with whether the person is present or the medium by which you do it. OP never made any mention of how she acted about it in his original post and apparently explained further that she was shitty during the date in other comments. I was going off the main parent post. I think his summary here is the most indicative of his views on what he didn't like: e.g the hickies (which aren't a go…
/r/seduction26/06/15 08:16 PM
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Agreed. I don't understand their value, or why you would t want to cover them up when out in public. Even the process of receiving them is less than enjoyable.
/r/seduction26/06/15 10:49 AM
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Again he's only walked out on 3 dates, I'm assuming out of the 32 more he's gone out with girls he's not wanted to close with and continued the date knowing that. He only posted in his main post about the issues regarding her sexual habits, so, to me that's indicative of he fact that the only thing that really bothered him enough to to point out and describe the date was her promiscuity. But hey maybe I'm wrong and he doesn't mind the fact that she was sleeping around and it really was just he h…
/r/seduction26/06/15 10:48 AM
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Politely continue the date and then leave at the end without closing? He seems to have gone on a few dates with girls who weren't as attractive as he expected, but only walked out on 3 he mentioned. You shouldn't sleep with anyone you don't want to, but if you're so ingrained in that slut shaming double standard that you can't even finish the date with someone because they're doing a lot of sleeping around, you gotta re-evaluate your own priorities.
/r/seduction26/06/15 10:26 AM
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Bro, slut shaming is bullshit, always, regardless of what sub you post in. If you're open to sleeping with multiple women and maximizing your success with women, there's no reason why women who want to do the same. I'm not saying he has to sleep with her. I wouldn't want to sleep with a girl that doesn't have the sense to cover up hickies for a date. But walking out of a date date because she's trying to do the same exact thing he is doing sets up a terrible slur-shaming double standard. OP Woul…
/r/seduction26/06/15 10:20 AM
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one had hickies on her neck who admitted that she slept with 7 guys in 10 days and it made me feel terrible Brags about going on 35 dates. Isn't cool with a girl who likes to get laid. I'm not saying I wouldn't be super turned off if a girl turned up covered in hickies, but if you're all about maximizing how many girls you sleep with, you can't hate a girl for doing the same.
/r/seduction26/06/15 02:45 AM
1

Casual touch is always a good way to start, a playful push when she says something cheeky, a hand on the small of the back when I'm saying something or when she's saying something and I want to move in closer to hear. If they don't get weird about it, let hands linger etc... If they do get weird about it back off and re-evaluate.
/r/seduction13/06/15 12:45 PM
2

I don't read this sub as being about being "dominant" so much as being self-confident, which is not anti-feminist at all. I also need to point out that Sub/Dom relationships do not mean a lack of equality. Look at the BDSM community and you'll see most consider the subs as the more powerful member of the relationship. Regarding sex: demanding sexual fulfillment is an extremely feminist idea, and that leads to open conversations about sex, and an extremely sexually librerated partner (in my exper…
/r/seduction25/05/15 12:43 PM
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OP: you don't really understand what feminism is, or what it includes, and the bit in there about feminism makes you sound like a moron. Semi-related: but the best, wildest, dirtiest, throw a girl around fucking until our legs give out sex has been with women who self-identify as feminists (google: sex-positive feminism). "feminist" girls, in my experience, are way more likely to lead to a wild night of sex than vanilla "I want a man to take care of me" girls.
/r/seduction24/05/15 09:24 PM
1

It is though. Not because you can provide for them or some other misogynist bullshit, it just shows you most likely have good personality traits.
/r/seduction13/05/15 01:50 AM
1

If you're going to try to humble brag like that to get girls to sleep with you, you're going to have a bad time.
/r/seduction12/05/15 05:56 PM
0

*handsome
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:46 AM
1

If you can show you have your shot together, you can establish value. Money is a great way of showing you have your shit together.
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:45 AM
1

For every person there are definitely a group of people who will sleep with you for little to no effort. Most people have standards (attractiveness and (hopefully) personality) that usually make those people non-viable candidates. However, if you're just out to get laid or "get girls" there's definitely a huge number that let you take them to bed or to dinner without any "work" involved.
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:43 AM
1

All this is great but re: sex anxiety itself. You control the sex. If it is clear she/he/whoever you're hitting on wants, you get to decide if it happens. It doesn't happen without your ok. You have the power. Also a word of waring: a lot of dudes who lots a lot of porn think actual sex is just like porn. It's not. You'll learn.
/r/seduction18/04/15 02:16 PM
0

1 answer to all four questions: fake it til you make it. (also, related: go to the gym, and learn not to give a fuck about how other people see you)
/r/seduction06/02/15 04:40 AM
2

I'm dating a photo editor for a major national magazine. Her job is fascinating and I can listen to her talk about it for hours.
/r/seduction16/01/15 11:56 AM
2

I think the age thing is a relic from the 80's and 90's and isn't as big of a deal now. But it really kills the RAPE acronym to take it out.
/r/seduction16/01/15 11:55 AM
1

Have open ended questions in mind. These are always fun to work out with someone new. "Least favorite billionaire" or "least favorite piece of classic art" or "most over rated movie" are really good/fun ones, gets you both talking shit about abstract things and generally gets a rapport going. Trade her for bad choices, commend good ones, laugh at her irreverence and disrespect, or realize she's really boring, has no opinions, and not worth calling agains.
/r/seduction16/01/15 11:54 AM
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Over-trying i think is the word.
/r/seduction30/08/14 12:33 PM
5

Did you not read the part about how young the girls were? If she's under 18, it could definitely ruin your life.
/r/seduction15/08/14 10:19 PM
2

Mild critique, because obviously you got the number, but I know this is random and you are on duty at the moment but is unnecessary, and can come off as unconfident. Alpha up and just ask for the damn number.
/r/seduction14/08/14 03:13 AM
2

While i don't think losing your virginity is a big deal, I think having a good experience with someone you're close with is kind awesome. I was a late bloomer, but I could be happier about how/when it happened. Plowing some girl with a kid who you met on tinder sounds like an awful way to get laid, let alone an awful way to get laid for the firs time. But if you're a fan of quantity over quality, then all means, dip it in.
/r/seduction11/08/14 04:12 PM
1

I would err on the side of nope in this situation.
/r/seduction11/08/14 04:09 PM
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I think what most people call a "nice guy" is really more being an insecure pushover. You can still be kind, caring, and thoughtful and still confident and alpha as fuck. For example there was a thread a few weeks ago where a guy asked what his "play" was with a female friend he was pursuing who just found out her mom had cancer or some other terminal illness. The real "play" there is moving on to another girl, while still being a good friend to the one going through hard times. You're still bei…
/r/seduction06/08/14 05:08 PM
4

Dude, you're on /r/seduction, not /r/dating /r/datingadvice or /r/relationships or /r/Friendzone. What do you expect?
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:29 PM
2

This, or at bare minimum don't sound butthurt, or over appeasing about it.
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:26 PM
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I think better, OP should refrain from trying to plow any of his female friends, especially the ones whose dad has a life-threatening disease. I'm a big proponent of not shitting where you eat, and sleeping around with your female friends can lead to a whole lot of drama, and since she's dealing with something that heavy, if OP is successful she'll most likely use him as an emotional crutch and get super attached. You don't want to be hooking up with her, and then have her find out through other…
/r/seduction21/07/14 04:28 PM
1

Don't talk to them if you don't want to. Treat them like anyone else in that regard.
/r/seduction15/07/14 07:50 PM
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I usually only tinder while pooping or while watching tv. It's the ultimate form of outcome independence.
/r/seduction27/05/14 09:45 PM
1

TL; DR: I want to text the HB8 about confirming are plans how do I go about this without sounding needy? I’ve been confused about how to go about this for a while.
/r/seduction21/05/14 02:02 AM
3

Inner game inner game inner game
/r/seduction21/04/14 02:42 AM
1

The bigger deal you make in your head about getting or not getting laid, the less likely you will actually get laid.
/r/seduction08/04/14 02:00 PM
1

most likely because it's great advice.
/r/seduction08/04/14 01:28 PM
58

you are clearly feeling the wrong bags of sand, my friend.
/r/seduction07/04/14 06:36 PM
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Clearly, and I think it's a great attempt. I'm just giving reasons why someone may be downvoting you.
/r/seduction07/04/14 05:28 PM
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Probably because of your hardcore humblebrag. and [no offence] the last time i heard someone brag about banging playboy playmates it was 1999 and i was watching something about the playboy mansion on MTV.
/r/seduction07/04/14 04:39 PM
116

Best advice a movie ever gave me about women "stop putting the pussy on a pedestal"
/r/seduction07/04/14 04:35 PM
3

Honestly this depends on the guy. I am approached more often by girls when I'm my raggedest and least groomed.
/r/seduction01/03/14 10:59 PM
1

Not purposefully, but I'd the date's going well, and you've finished your coffee you might as well leave and go for a walk and continue chatting.
/r/seduction26/01/14 05:46 AM
2

If you're betting on the venue to win her over instead of your own ability, you need to work on your ability.
/r/seduction26/01/14 05:40 AM
7

This was all great, but I lol'd real hard at your URL.
/r/seduction21/01/14 04:14 AM
6

Anecdotally, I told a girl that worked at Starbucks to write her number on my cup "so we could hang out later" and she did, and we did. So i think it really depends on your how you say it, your delivery, and more importantly, the girl.
/r/seduction14/01/14 02:25 AM
1

Of course. I'm the exact opposite of this so i'm not too familiar with these subs. GOMAD seems to be the diet dujour for gaining weight, but friends that I know that have tried it have said nothing but bad things.
/r/seduction06/02/13 06:57 AM
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That works too. Although it seems like more of a don't want to go to a gym than a can't get to a gym situation, so that may be his best bet.
/r/seduction04/02/13 04:25 PM
1

I'm only saying this because i've been in similar situations and know how you're feeling: You need to sack the fuck up.
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:40 PM
5

First: go to /r/Fitness if you want to know about bulking up/working out Second: Are you in college/highschool? either should have some sort of gym access for cheap. If not on campus, most places will offer student discounts. If you're not in school at all, the get a fucking job, then get a gym membership. Plantet fitness is about 10 bucks a month. There's really no excuse here. Third: If none of those options work, find someone who has P90x or some similar workout program and do that. Also if y…
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:37 PM
6

How do I approach a girl who does not speak the same language as me? (I just moved to a new country and didn't realize how large the language barrier was).
/r/seduction21/01/13 10:04 PM
1

This is great advice, but I don't know If it really belongs in this sub without some context relating back to the topics here.
/r/seduction02/12/12 04:11 PM
1

If I meditate before I sleep, I can't sleep.
/r/seduction02/12/12 04:10 PM
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