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| 3 | [FR] I'm here for me, thanks. | rienjabura | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 04:46 PM | |
| 3 | [FR] I don't need to ask for #'s tonight | rienjabura | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 05:45 PM | |
| 2 | [FR]A big improvement | rienjabura | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 08:01 PM | |
| 1 | Not feeling the scene? | rienjabura | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 11:34 PM | |
| 0 | [FR]What happens when you stop reading Seddit. | Field Report | rienjabura | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 07:13 PM |
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| 1 | Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating?My evidence is anecdotal, but I am friends with people on various political views. There are a fair amount of leftist d-bags that are getting lots of girls. The rightist d-bags get very few. The odd part is that the lefties are broke(shit/average tier jobs) and almost all the rightists have good paying jobs. To take this a step further...the leftists I know that got married and had families are extremely happy, vs the rightists who did the same have mixed feelimgs about it all. The biggest compl… | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 07:31 PM |
| 16 | Are premium dating app subscriptions worth it?No. Allow me to explain why. When you decide to pay extra for a product in most cases, you get an additional service that enhances the customer experience. This is not so with dating apps. There are algorithms that are intentionally baked into the app to provide you with a degraded experience(except if you are ridiculously good looking, in which you wouldn't be on an app), then upsold to you as a "premium" subscription. Do you get to see more people of your sexual preference? Yes. Will you be ab… | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that the answer to a man's inceldom is, 99.9999% of the time, to "just work on yourself bro," even if its for the next 50 years, "just work on yourself bro?"I would ask you an important question: "Who can you fix?" You cannot control or "fix" other people, or even control their perceptions of you. You can only control what you do in any given situation. The goal of working on yourself, is to realize your own value as a human being. You're pretty fucking special. You can do a lot of things with your health, wealth, and appearance. The journey of achieving those things, greatly outweighs picking up chicks or getting matches on Tinder. If you don't thi… | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 01:53 AM |
| 4 | For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and badOver 30 here, and the past 2 years I've had 4x more sex than I have ever had in my life. I will say that there is a difference between the US and other countries (Costa Rica and The Philippines, you can just walk around and ask women to go to dinner, no app required). The caveat is I also make decent money so I can wear better clothes and travel more, which can be leveraged on dating sites if you so choose. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 03:14 AM |
| 2 | does anyone know where to find hookups?Try the back alley of a Wendy's. Thank me later 😉 | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?-Drake meme- "Medication to talk to girls" = 🚫 "Meditation to talk to girls" = ✅ Self awareness and considering the reason why you want to talk to a girl, and what you would find interesting about other women, is key. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:31 AM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?Okay, some things OP: You have to change your mentality about dating, yourself, and women in general. If your goal here is that are going to go on Seddit or other forums just to whine about women picking conventionally attractive men over you, congratulations, you have accomplished your goal. On the other hand , if your goal is to find out HOW to make yourself more attractive to women, you MUST work on yourself. Go to r/frugalmalefashion and pick up some new clothes. Start meditating for 10min a… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:12 PM |
| 2 | any advice on how to better my chances with white women?Is that what it actually does? 🤔 -vigoriously inputs Konami code multiple times- | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | As a black woman how can I be more attractive to men in everyday settings?You have everything you need. There is nothing wrong with you in terms of attractiveness. Just keep coding and making dat $$$. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 08:37 AM |
| 2 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?Go to an anime convention or something, OP, you will find the White girls that want you. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Tinder’s Algorithm is a scamYeah, but I'm going to assume most of use have fallen prey to EA-esque "pay to win" scenarios by now. Not paying for Tinder, especially because I literally get no added benefits, unlike OkCupid(I can filter for no Trump chicks, for example). FYI: if you pay for okcupid premium for about 3ish months, then cancel, they will prompt you to pay 100 for a lifetime premium membership | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 01:04 PM |
| 7 | How do rich dudes get women at a large scale?Frankly, I always thought affluent men were not concerned with "getting" women "at a large scale". It just happens. Which always brings me back to the point that being a person who is goal oriented in the workplace and taking care of myself is paramount, the rest comes later, and often before you know it. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingThe women at Walmart don't look that bad where I live | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 08:22 PM |
| 5 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingBisexual/Lesbian/Pan women are aware, because they realize in order to date another woman, it takes that skill set. That is also why dating skills is referred as an art, because like most arts, not many are proficient at it, or know the inner workings; they only know the results. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Tinder experiments are some of the most eye opening things you could run..You just get my results. Also see; nothing | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 02:42 AM |
| 3 | I sometimes feel like dating women is like playing a video game. I have to do certain things in a certain order at the right time to keep them interestedFunny you say that, because I almost view all of my interactions with people I don't/barely know as a game. I'm just entering what I think are the best prompts. EXTROVERT CO-WORKER used "INVITE!" ...its not very effective YOU used WITHDRAW! social defense increases! Its SUPER EFFECTIVE! | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 07:01 PM |
| 3 | So a girl at my local Wendy’s played me when I asked for her number. Then after not paying her no mind for a few weeks, she give me her number in a receipt. WHAT?!?Well, when you do hook up, tell her you want to role play. She will be McDonald's. You will be Burger King. You'll have it your way, and she'll be lovin it. ; ) | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 01:58 PM |
| 3 | TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought beforeNot with that attitude | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 08:33 AM |
| 4 | Is a girl resting her hands on a guy's thighs supposed to be a sexual advance?Bro its INSANE how much sodium is in one instant cup Ramen | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Is a girl resting her hands on a guy's thighs supposed to be a sexual advance?-blurts- Banana hammock | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 08:22 AM |
| 3 | Best dating app?You guys are getting matches? | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 12:03 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]No don't you worry, we'll all float on. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 10:11 AM |
| 58 | A man hit on me in a coffee shop, and although I’m taken, it was really adorable.This. All the way. Just start talking. Even if you have to create canned convos in your head, just start. | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 04:43 PM |
| 11 | I’m talking to this guy rn and I don’t think he knows how to flirt with me or seduce me in any wayDon't get it twisted, most of us guys were oblivious morons before metoo, that has nothing to do with it | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Is anyone using machine learning to identify fat chicks?Funny, I had to scroll up to make sure this wasn't r/copypasta | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Unprotected sexI wonder why that is. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 07:04 AM |
| 2 | This girl rejected me three times and I still took her home that night.OP is just Sean Connery in that one episode of Family Guy: "Two times 'no', and one 'yes', means 'yes'." | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Tinder 101: A Complete Beginner Framework to Crush Online DatingThanks OP. I don't see the point in the haters here. If Tinder works for you already, this is a guide that may have some useful pointers. If you never tried Tinder, this is a guide that will help you get in. If you dropped Tinder, then perhaps the guide will give you a different perspective and encourage you to pick it back up. | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 08:23 PM |
| 4 | What do you feel about this?Sometimes we put so much focus on who we want to attract, but never consider whether we would be attractive to ourselves. Would I want to hang around me? Fuck yeah. But four years ago, it was definitely a "no". I had to come a long way to get to that point, and a lot of it was talking and thinking negatively about everything. Once I changed that, a lot of minor, but good things started to happen. | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 04:36 PM |
| 27 | Thinking of going out Every Saturday to game and here’s my plan to get rid of Anxiety. What do you think? I’m not allowed to return home until i complete them.Excuse me, madam, but you are ravishing. Would you be so kind as to direct my path to the nearest lavatory to relieve myself?🧐 | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Get Laid with Online Dating- The Complete GuideTL; DR: cut the shit with the "step one: be attractive" BS. You are absolutely right, being white is the most important step. | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Live your life like a movie.In a way I think it is better for you to not think you are in a movie, because some do not work well under the pressure to perform. I prefer this similar advice..."it is said that when you die, your life flashes before your eyes. Make it worth watching." | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 10:45 PM |
| 1 | That's it, I give up on the online datingOnline dating is just another means of easy approach. If you're an introvert, talking through a screen can work wonders. However if you are out a lot, and approach a lot, then keep doing that if it works for you. Online dating accounts are not mandatory for meeting quality women. | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 02:57 AM |
| 1 | That's it, I give up on the online datingSure, if you think 5s and 6s are hbs. | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 02:52 AM |
| 3 | How do I get a girl that is obsessed with me to be ok with just sex?I wouldn't. I would leave her alone. One of the rules for pickup is leave her off better than how you found her. Nothing can be accomplished by taking advantage of some needy chick. | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 07:41 PM |
| 3 | What is her nameI also have gotten away with asking her if her friends or family call her by another name. They usually say "no not really just (her name)." Works like a charm. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: what to do when girls use their phones during interaction with them?I always joke about it saying something like "I'd like to talk to her but she's too busy communicating". it usually gets them to stop. | /r/seduction | 04/12/13 10:31 AM |
| 8 | Ways to meet women in the summer without hitting up bars or clubs?That is what I tell my friends. You use a girl make friends with her, then she brings more friends, then you fuck her friends. Hooking up with every girl you meet instead of making friends is like getting high off your own supply. | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 10:21 PM |
| 1 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?I'm non Asian and find Asian women intimidating. How do I get over it? (Serious question) | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 11:06 AM |
| 0 | Looks Don't MatterI disagree. I recently met a girl that I thought to be unattractive, but this chick, despite having not that great of a personality still gets a lot of dick. But of course, this could be an exception from the norm. I usually assume that anyone with a vagina is getting more sex, period. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 08:31 PM |
| 4 | [Routine] International Student PickupsI went to one of those parties, I was with 12 Japanese chicks, all at least HB7s, cooking for me and flirting, it was pretty awesome. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Apparently girls like it when guys are dyingYou are a more committed man than I. I usually text her that I'm hanging out at x place and she's invited. If I don't see her or get a response, I just delete her number. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:51 AM |
| 0 | Nightgame: "Buy me a drink?"I like it. definitely going to use it, and see where it goes. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 01:54 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with busy girls?How do guys deal with busy girls? They don't. | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 08:29 AM |
| 3 | Tested. 100% Success Rate. Quite possibly the best "Flake Preventer" text ever.Copied to clipboard to paste in every text. Ever. | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 06:49 AM |
| 1 | This situation always boggles my mind, I never have the perfect solution for it. Read inside.If she stops responding, I would just let it go. Consider the fact that everyone's time means something, and if she doesn't respond to something as simple as a text, she'll probably flake anyway. Also, if she isn't available on the time you say, and she is actually interested, she will say "I have x to do then" in which, you would state another day or time. In my case, I wouldn't give her choices. I would text something like "Me and some friends are going to the bar at x time, feel free to come … | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Any tips for Japanese women?Its also like they are a separate gender or something MY BRAIN CAN'T COMPREHEND | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 11:46 PM |
| 6 | [FR] First real night out since discovering seddit results in success. Need advice moving on.I go and buy her a drink and we talk some more, but then her friends take her to the club next door and we part ways. I have a problem with this. I DON'T, as in DO NOT buy women drinks. Maybe it works for you guys, but I don't buy women drinks. Why? Because in my opinion you turn into a guy that women only like because you have money. And they can always just up and leave with their friends, thus wasting it. In a world of women who want to openly have both the benefits of chivalry and feminism b… | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Deleting Her Number [FR]That is a good method to go about it. I remember getting a number from this one chick and I was going out with friends to celebrate my birthday this week. On my way there, I simply texted her with "hey me and some friends are having drinks at x place feel free to hang." Her reply was "I'm depressed and hiding under my blanket". I then deleted her. I have no time to be someone's emotional security blanket, and moreover, if she makes that kind of excuse, then she probably will again. What you did … | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Hot girls get hit on less than average girls?Sounds a lot like like YOLO over here. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Hot girls get hit on less than average girls?I'm an AFC and I LOVE some HB8s. They are my bread and butter. Sometimes I don't even hit on lower HBs until I've at least talked to a few HB8s or #- closed at least one. Oh wait, I was just proving your #2. Dammit. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 05:28 PM |
| 2 | A girl so hot she makes you beta again. Am I just crushing?I lol'd so hard upvote | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 04:59 PM |
| 1 | A girl so hot she makes you beta again. Am I just crushing?I wouldn't call her out for flaking unless it was inexcusable. If she does something that shouldn't piss you off if some acquaintance does it, let it slide. If you have a genuine problem with her, don't make it a big deal but address it. You might find that she respects you more for it. If you let what she views as a pretty trivial action on her part (very hot girls flake all the time, it's just part of their lives) effect you so much that you lose your cool, you're in effect broadcasting how mu… | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Im a noob, made first 5 aproaches today. Better than expected!Great job dude. Once you get in there, you figure out it really isn't as hard as it seems. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How many approaches (roughly) did it take for you to overcome your approach anxiety?What I usually do when I go to a bar is I try to talk to everyone. Not just women. I for example shot the breeze with this one guy outside the bar I was about to go in. then when I went in, I talked to the server who carded me, and one of the other guys who acted as security. I saw some people I knew of, said hi to them. Technically 4 approaches, but the bar is FULL of people, and I was more than willing to take on the world by then. This didn't take more than 15 minutes. When you talk to (and t… | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 06:36 PM |
| 2 | What is your favorite music or type of music you play with a girl in the room (and things are getting hot)?Dubstep. ALL THE DUBSTEP | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Stop seeking her approval, and you will notice a drastic change in how women will relate to you.This is pure gold. 28 upvotes. a detailed explanation such as this: 0 (one upvote from me.) people don't like to read, I guess. | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 05:24 PM |
| -2 | How do you respond to "Are you trying to fuck me?"I would say "Yeah, I'd fuck you 7 ways to Sunday." No joke. | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 09:03 PM |
| 4 | How NOT to chat up women (with real example)lol I think this is a textbook example of "spineless beta male". Now I do turn it back on chicks at times and say "if you're doing good, then I'm not too bad" but I do it with a while making direct eye contact, with a smile of amusement on my face. Since this is the internet we are talking about though, I would suggest not to use that response. Flattery can get you everywhere. Even the Friend zone. | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 10:19 PM |
| -2 | 10 rules for getting and keeping hoes from actual pimp.These are pretty solid when you look past the abusive aspect of the person who wrote them. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?It isn't even the disease that is the problem, it is the stigma. Herpes is herpes. There is no getting around it. HSV-1 and 2 are the same virus. But that still doesn't mean you shouldn't be safe. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 07:30 PM |
| 6 | Men of Reddit, what type of women are you most attracted to?I don't mind thin women, but I have to say that under 120lbs is not attractive to me. On the other hand, 190lbs is my limit on bigger women. I personally think that if the girl has a nice face her weight matters less. I also prefer women with a nice ass as opposed to big boobs and no ass. but this should shed some light on the "curves vs fat" issue that many women mistake with each other: Imgur | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 12:08 AM |
| 2 | I had an epiphany last night, about my horrible game and oneitis.Too much EVE online/Mass Effect? lol | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 01:24 AM |
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