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girl hangouts are the exact same thing. And I think the real issue is that guys don’t really know many women. They can have friends but why does it matter if those friends also don’t know any women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:21 AM
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It’s very uncommon for any person to have worst partners than the previous as time goes on, because usually people have a better understanding of what they don’t want due to experience, which makes the next partner more likely to be a better match. This argument seems heavily like an insecurity thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:06 AM
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If they’re masturbating to it very often, then yes it still applies. It is also a form of porn, but despite my personal feelings surrounding adult content, there are people that can occasionally partake without it affecting their sex life with other humans, you don’t seem to realize that you’re past that point. Porn of any kind can affect your ability to perform if you use it often enough(coming from a woman that once suffered from porn addiction). Regardless of what your poison is, constantly m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:27 PM
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The gooning is the problem. When you goon, you’re training yourself to get off on a specific kind of stimulus as well as the visual. That kind of thing can’t be recreated when having sex with another person due to angles and variance. Your gooning has trained you specifically for your own touch so of course another person isn’t gonna do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:57 PM
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I’ve also had guys just not be upfront with me about not being interested, instead just bread crumbing and making me a butt of their joke. It’s why I don’t approach men first at allll
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:03 PM
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A woman is in a swamp, and man is in a desert. Neither have drinkable water
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:47 PM
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I don’t think I’d be able to do it still. I really want my children to have both children involved, and if only one is at home, that may cause issues. It may also cause me to go into burn out and children deserve to feel loved and not like their mere existence is an issue. This, and I’m also perpetually anxious about wild card life events
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:46 AM
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That would just create a new standard of what average is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:26 AM
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Would it change your mind if it were mostly women you didn’t find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:23 AM
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We can’t look into their lives, they could be living paycheck to paycheck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:08 AM
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Like porn, it’s fantasy. Doesn’t mean they’ll actually act on it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:03 AM
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Everytime I’ve dated a guy with low self esteem, I’ve had to pay for it. That low self esteem usually resulted in them insulting me or preventing me from doing mundane things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:25 AM
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So we don’t waste both of time 💀 I’m really straightforward for that exact reason
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:11 AM
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Nope, I’m suuuuuper into visuals. I wanna see it all. Shoulders, thighs, and butt are very sexually stimulating for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:09 AM
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Older guys who into business or tech. I have no idea why, I’m not complaining but I’d like to know what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:08 AM
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I’ve dated entertainers and also D1 college athletes and I don’t even think I’m that cracked lookswise. Really depends I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:03 AM
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Tbh I don’t really get the hype. They aren’t my type anyways, I like tech and big finance guys. I go to a Big 10 D1 college and dated one of the players very briefly and when I tell you I was so disappointed 💀 girls were literally breathing down his neck just to be in his presence but when we started dating it was a feeling of “this is the hype? He’s just a normal dude…” I really think it’s just the glamour that people assume makes them any better. I sincerely just don’t know where I stand objec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:02 AM
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Lolol as a black woman I was getting sexualized even as a kid. I was first told I had “dick sucking lips” at just 10 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:01 AM
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Obviously that stuff wouldn’t continue to be made if there wasn’t a big market for it. And that’s the thing, the goalpost in porn for what’s considered soft core or vanilla is always moved. Nowadays it’s seen as pretty normal to spank or choke someone during sex when that’s no where near vanilla. Even the mainstream stuff is pretty hardcore, especially any of the stuff that may pop up when you first open up pornhub, for example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:59 AM
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Porn addiction can literally ruin a relationship and I also don’t want to deal with a guy who think doing WWE moves during sex is going to help with my desire to connect when we’re intimate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:56 AM
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Monogamy tops everything for me every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:48 AM
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Seriously one of the biggest complaints in Japan about Japanese women is that they love money too much
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/22 01:45 AM
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Come up to me and start a conversation. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:48 AM
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Girls saying that someone isn’t a real man if they aren’t sex obsessed, full-mast, ready to go for sex 25/8
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:34 AM
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That’s what you’re missing. The “natural” look is a LOOK. Everything that is done for that look, has you looking that way when you wake up. Lash extensions, hair treatments, expensive skin care routines, microblading, are all apart of the natural look and you fall asleep and wake up in it. An actually natural woman is often shunned by men because it’s not shiny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:04 AM
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I wouldn’t say so. Just me learning what suits me. I was a late bloomer and didn’t have any sign of puberty until 12 as a woman. That being said, my features and my body didn’t change. I didn’t even gain significant weight. I just dress and style myself in a more appropriate way and now I don’t struggle to get cold approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:20 PM
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I’m 19, so unfortunately most dudes near me (university) will have a high n-count. That’s like atleast 8. I do indeed feel grossed out and assume he doesn’t have good standards to just give his body freely like that. It also shows to me that they don’t value sex as an expression for significant emotional connection. I don’t think it’s an indicator that they’re more likely to be sexually violent, that’s a dumb idea for anyone to jump towards. I usually don’t date dudes with high n-counts. It’s sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:15 PM
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Spending time with him, and I make it obvious I find something attractive about him by telling him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:12 PM
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Nope, just porn addicts. There wouldn’t be an industry if there wasn’t a demand. It’s black and white
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:10 PM
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Realistically, most people don’t care as long as the result is there. If she wakes up out of bed looking good than I don’t think a single guy will complain that it’s high maintenance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:55 PM
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Dudes that are 6’. I’m sorry but I’m scared of a guy is that much bigger than me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:11 AM
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I think to a degree. SOME Women who want to be home makers are shamed and SOME men usually don’t want the realities of having a home maker wife cause they could easily get a wife that’ll do all the house work AND bring in an income by having a job
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:57 AM
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Aw I’m working on it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:43 AM
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Hate to admit it but mental illness or I don’t like their smell. I’m not even talking B.O., just their natural smell even if they’re clean. Another is if they’re the least liked friend in their friend group (cause why do you not value yourself to spend time with people that dislike you)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:43 AM
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Honestly in a wide world, literwlly nothing matters On the other hand, if a guy asks me out, him paying is not an absolute must but I definitely do see it as an indictation to a lot of things. I don’t think I’ve ever held interest for a guy that was adamant about not paying for a date that he asked me on, but even at that, I don’t think ever been on a date where the guy didn’t pay, but that’s just the kind of men i tend to attract. The only exceptions would be if I’m already in a relationship wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:35 AM
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Ugh yes, BUT it also devalues the woman that DO perform as expected. It’s pretty obvious the porn is seen as just an object, as well as the acts depicted, are viewed as just object for pleasure Porn makes guys feel somewhat underwhelmed by regular sex, but also they don’t see the women who do participate in these acts as valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:29 AM
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“You serve ME” type of deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:53 AM
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My boyfriend isn’t big on having me take hormonal bc cause he knows it can fuck me up. He actually is pretty adamant that we use condoms instead
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:50 AM
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Idk personally I love cold approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:46 AM
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Yea I’ll fully admit that. Do I care about conventional looks? No, but I’m not gonna date some one I don’t think is hot in my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:45 AM
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I think you misread their comment. Guys go for the natural look BUT that natural look is actually very high maintenance and is just as much maintenance as the “over done” look
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:40 AM
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You can get a “natural look” with and without makeup. Microblading, lash lifts and tints or lash fillers, blush/cheek pinching, expensive skin care, highlights, protein treatments All that can get you the “effortless” no make up look
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:39 AM
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For men, whenever I see a guy in a relationship, and he’s not married/engaged to his girl after like three years. Usually it means he’s not interested in marriage or just not interested in getting married specifically to her, making her a forever girlfriend. Afterwards, it’s usually just them doing it out of convenience. Can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard “my wife isn’t the women I’ve loved the most.” The only time I’ve seen an exception is if they’ve been together since highschool and are…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:34 AM
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100%. That’s how my boyfriend is, BUT when I initiate, it’s very obvious that he loves what we’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:30 AM
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Countries where it’s common often call those kinds of dudes “losers back home”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:29 AM
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I’m female but it’s one of the many reasons I fucking struggle to keep female friend specifically. I usually can’t relate anyways because all of my hobbies are heavily male dominated. Even if I find a girl with the same interests, if they have a boyfriend than it’s a wrap, because almost ALL of their time and attention goes towards him. They only want to spend time with him. They only want to mention him in every single convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:18 AM
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Despite the age, Tanjiro. He’s so ideal to me. He loves so strongly. He desperately fights for the chance to protect is family and amongst it all, he still smiles a sweet smile
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:12 AM
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Personal preference for what they want to attract
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:11 AM
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My bf is a very masculine guy in a Divine masculine sense. Strong leader, prudent, even temper, a spirit that inspires, and a desire to protect what’s his That being said, he cries to me all the time and I comfort him. I hold him and listen to his woes, and afterwards I wipe his tears and hold him for as long as he needs. I think it makes us closer and it’s a beautiful form of intimacy and vulnerability
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:08 AM
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I’m literally a woman, you dumb fuck. Two seconds on my profile and you’ll see that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:33 PM
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Lolol trad woman here. It’s what I choose and it’s what I like. There’s more in it for a woman than it is for the modern day man. For a man, traditionalism includes Having to constantly work in this modern age in order to support an entire household, which results in never having the opportunity to even see the family you built and you can’t learn who they are as people. Personally I believe that modern day feminism has become largely predatory. A lot of confusion being spewed resulting in the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:13 PM
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Water is wet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:57 PM
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I’ve seen it happen, but not until there’s literal begging and pleading. If a woman likes her man, you need to have the jaws of life in order to pry her apart
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:08 PM
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In America there is an extremely thin like between curvaceous and obese, let’s get real here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:57 PM
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100%. Ive been in so many bad positions before but I feel that after some healing, it’s made me more empathic. I’m glad that people see me as a loving person now apart from the times that I let my old self seep through
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:17 PM
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I’ve been in her shoes, my guy (luckily I’m not anymore lol) It’s good that you stand up for her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:10 PM
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Fully agree. I also think that men have a wide range of what they find attractive, but are less likely to admit it if they know that others don’t agree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:56 PM
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I’m a firm believer in this. It’s even too many are lily-livered or they mistake brute aggression as masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:40 PM
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I feel bad for the women/girls who aren’t aware of this. I’ve spent time being both and currently I’m in the better position. I’d hate to think that my bf treats me so well because his friends see me as extremely attractive in both looks and demeanor
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:27 PM
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Nope. I think it’s because it’s a hit to the ego
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:25 PM
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🔊 say it louder for those in the back
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:24 PM
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Yep, I got this same exact response twice 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:51 PM
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You’d be very surprised. You’d think they’d prefer it, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:40 PM
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I don’t like to play games. If I like someone, I tell them. On the same note, though it’s harsh, if I don’t give a single fuck about someone and just want to get in their pants, I also tell them. My favorite line before I started dating was “I’m not your girl”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:58 PM
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I know that social peer pressure can be a hell of a drug, but I often refer to this as getting “bitched-out”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:36 PM
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Just curious, do you think this plays into the idea that men will find their SO ugly if their friends think they’re ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:33 PM
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Yea I’m assuming it’s this. Plus there’s tons of easily available vices to substitute. Porn, video games, Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:31 AM
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I consider it any sex outside of a defined relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:10 PM
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Yes. Everything is “fuck you, as long as I get mine” and that’s on every. little. Thing. Not even acts of good will can just exist without a need to broadcast it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:01 PM
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Nah he just tubby :3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:29 PM
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Dunno why I got down voted, it seems someone misunderstood my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:27 PM
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Dude, I’m not talking about how long he lasts. I’m talking about how long before he can go again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:25 PM
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So how long is it usually
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:18 PM
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At 19? I’m not very experienced so I guess I don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:09 PM
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My boyfriend’s refractory period is like a whole hour
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:49 PM
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Thank you for making me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:48 PM
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I think you forgot about the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:23 AM
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Might as well not step out of your house with that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:10 AM
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Yea it’s better to not find love if you’re only thinking about the worst case scenario. Imagine if a person thought that way about everything? How would they find any motivation or satisfaction to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:00 AM
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Such a bleak way to go about life, man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:32 AM
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Ah yes, the freedom of addiction! Finally! I no longer want to have sex with women and instead I can have the sweet embrace of mood swings, irritability, a limp dick, growing dopamine searches, existential dread and self loathing! Just use your imagination or get better discipline dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:53 AM
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Overall porn seems to be more trouble than its worth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:04 PM
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Related to you post, I started feeling that way after being the one to approach guys more often than not. I stopped approaching (cause obviously I got a boyfriend now) but I hated having to wait around. It seemed no one was interested in me because they just never even considered me a possiblity, which in turn still means I’d have to approach first in order to open up that gate. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:55 PM
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TIL PPD is just full of bitter and lonely old people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:26 PM
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Gave me a chuckle
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:07 AM
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I’m not saying it’s a bad thing, I’m just pointing out that it’s there. Have you never heard of huge organizations such as Girls Code or campaigns by large companies such as P&G and Unilever (which owns almost the majority of the food industry in the US and many other countries internationally)? There isn’t that much happening for men in roles such as homemaker, teacher, or child care specialist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:45 AM
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Actually not completely. In a more modern society, women are praised for fulfilling typically masculine roles. Female CEO’s, engineers, and bread winners are often praised and uplifted but there’s shame given to men who work in roles that are associated with the feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:02 AM
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That’s just adding on more to my argument. Things associated with women are seen as lesser and a man fulfilling those roles is seen as doing lesser work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:00 AM
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I don’t think I want a guy who thinks he knows he wants to marry me after only a second date
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:58 AM
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All of those roles are typically associated with women. Men are shamed for anything that resembles women or femininity because it’s seen as the weaker, fragile, and lesser gender
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:55 AM
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Dude not being able to provide for you kid really fucking blows. Almost everyone with two functioning brain cells knows that. It’s just not wise to purposely have a kid if you’re living pay check to check. Many people, if given the choice, would wait to have their kid until they at least had some sort of financial cushion. Also who wouldn’t want their kid to have the opportunity to do extracurriculars they enjoy? You’re making it sound like only superficial Facebook moms want their kids to be in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:10 PM
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no man will be willing to wait for me that long They simply just aren’t compatible with you. Please don’t worry. Yes it’ll be hard but it would’ve been hard no matter what day and age you were in
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:04 PM
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I don’t have sex unless it’s with a guy I feel safe with, trust, and we care for each other to at least some degree. It’s really as simple as that. Not a strategy, just a personal choice. Also what guy is waiting months and wasting emotional labor for that long just to pump and dump? That’s peak desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:00 PM
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What’s up with the straw man arguments?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:49 PM
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I guess that was sorta funny? Congrats I guess. Also it’s a way of speech. To dumb it down further, I’m saying that people aren’t having kids because they want to have their foundations set first. Stable relationship, living arrangements, and finances are essential to a child. They recognize that and therefore hold off on having children until they feel they’ll be able to provide for those children comfortably
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:46 PM
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Poor people have time to fuck. Women in first world countries with jobs to prove it don’t have kids cause they worry about getting their shit in order first
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:36 PM
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As a girl that’s always approached first, I’ve just stopped doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:10 PM
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I like guys who are traditionally and positively masculine. So the guy who likes me and has those traits are more likely to take that chance and approach me first, despite the nervousness and the fear
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:07 PM
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And both have to use up emotional labor and potentially come out worse for wear
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:02 AM
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Yea but you obviously aren’t gonna date a person just because it looks good either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:01 AM
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As someone that used to be avoidant attachment, I 100% agree. I had to drop it like a bad habit because it’s gross and annoying. It’s a never ending cycle when you try to be with an avoidant because you try “helping” or “understanding” them and in turn that makes them pull away more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:05 PM
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I know a good amount of girls that just don’t know how to communicate. Either they’re too clingy or still act like a teenager and do the hot/cold thing. It’s so stupid and it’s a train wreck to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:04 PM
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I mean will they really though? Humans aren’t actually like hotdogs where you can just tell you won’t like based on ingredients, looks, or toppings. With humans, you actually have to spend time and energy to know them atleast enough to figure out they won’t work out in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:03 PM
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No I’m arguing that men assume what women want and women assume what men want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:50 PM
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Yea p much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:17 PM
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Wrong there, Bucky. Women do that stuff to impress other women. Yea they think that men want it, but we mostly do our shit for the approval of other women. Notice how women mostly follow other women? Influencers engage in trends that mostly women understand/participate in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:16 PM
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Most Men aren’t consuming the media made for women. That’s pretty obvious, my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:26 PM
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Men only have a sense through the male gaze. Almost everything in media is made for the male gaze. What men think women want isn’t what they actually want. So men think that the average woman wants muscular guy that drives a Ferrari when that’s not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:22 PM
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Exactly, people should keep in mind that dating standards and certain struggles are more common based on racial community
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:18 PM
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Arranged marriage is different from forced. It’s literally just being set up together. Most people do get a say, like what type of person they’d like. There’s good benefits, especially for those that were too busy to date (people in higher schooling/focused on their businesses) or are from cultures where dating is looked down upon. I think arranged marriage is p smart because most of the cultures that have it, family is already a big part of your life. Involving the family in the process ensures…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:26 PM
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Most people use it for hookups but ironically tinder produces the most married couples amongst dating apps. Literally almost every younger millennial couple I know have met on tinder and a good amount have gotten married. I used tinder the most even though I also had bumble
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:17 PM
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Most younger people, like myself at one point, use online dating. Casual sex is not a thing I like or do, so when I was using it, it was mostly to meet people. Eventually I just got into the habit of not wasting my own time. I ask right away what theyre looking for. If its something casual or "they're not sure" I told them good luck and went about my way. Nothing wrong with being unsure, but I wasn't about to waste emotional labor in the case they decide they don't want relationship so I just de…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 07:07 PM
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This makes the most sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:54 PM
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It’s really sad. Actual alphas don’t worry about this shit. They just enjoy their life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 05:20 PM
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You sound exactly like my boyfriend. I like this answer a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:41 AM
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Nah not me. My bf actually treats me like a human. Stay blessed though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:17 PM
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Obviously not, but sex shouldn’t be one sided and it should be fun for both parties
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:17 PM
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“Men usually don’t have sex with you. It’s mostly just masturbating with your body.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:38 PM
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It’s a best friend. Friendships can be really strong and lots of people already do it. IE: business partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:41 PM
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Honestly it doesn’t matter. Her market is literally Ben Affleck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:13 PM
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I got catcalled once in my school uniform. It happens no matter what we wear
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:20 AM
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No, only for white women. They’re the only women that can weaponize their tears. There are lots of historical events of literal towns and cities being burnt down (Tulsa) and people being killed (Emmit Till and many others) because a white woman shed a crocodile tear
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:16 AM
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Taxes😈
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:11 AM
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When people actually raise their sons. It’ll solve both male and female problems
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:25 PM
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Good boob jobs don’t look like boob jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:35 PM
1

Well no, she got her masters in biology from a top ten school. Reality is that she most likely didn’t have time to date
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 08:51 PM
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This isn’t entitlement. Nobody, man or woman wants to marry people like that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 08:50 PM
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Omg yes!!! Same here! I’m obsessed with rilakkuma in particular. I love meeting other nerdy black girls 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:45 PM
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Nope. Good boob jobs don’t look like boob jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:26 PM
1

More enforced by my mom and sisters. Frickin crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:24 PM
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This! I’m a long time lover of manga and anime since I was a kid. Fanfic reader and writer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:22 PM
1

:y then find another woman with your lifestyle. It may be hard but not many people in general have that kind of lifestyle, so it’s not a woman thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:16 AM
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I’m not talking about in relationships/sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:38 PM
8

Nah in American society fat dudes are redeemable as long as they aren’t morbidly obese or have the spine of a snail
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:11 PM
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I won’t yuck anyone’s yum but I’m simply not attracted to them. I feel I have space to say that because I myself, am not fat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:10 PM
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Everyone had a healthy model of what a good, healthy, and REALISTIC relationship looks like and how it’s maintained
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:25 PM
1

Funny how you ignored my last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:18 PM
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It’s unhealthy but I DO find it funny (ironic, is the better word) when I see American men complain about fat girls. You’re fat too, buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:54 PM
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I don’t do casual sex and I couldn’t comfortably be with a dude that has repeatedly had casual sex. I need to know that they value relationships first
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:10 AM
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Because the reality of the situation of most men value a woman for her beauty. You see it all the time in media and life when it comes to men and the level of respect they give a woman based on her looks. An example of how even in modern day, career women aren’t taken as seriously because “yea but she’s not married, and when is she gonna have kids?”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:04 PM
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Having a life full of adventure or an attitude that’s good to be around doesn’t equal money. It shows a lot that most men here can only think in terms of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:02 PM
8

Sure but that doesn’t stop anyone from believing it 😂 Men have believed this for centuries
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 02:19 PM
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If you married a women that kept up with her appearance and soon as she got the ring, she lets go and gets fat and lazy, you would feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 01:57 PM
1

If you’re in real estate, can I ask you some questions about the career in DM
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:37 PM
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Depends on the picture you’re using, also that doesn’t mean who you’re gonna hook up with us safe. Gay men also fall pray to murderers and rapists on those apps
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:25 PM
1

I’m an avid believer in this. It’s literally an illusion. Those “bad boys” and “chads” just jump from one stupid girl to another. Anyone can do that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:19 PM
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Thanks for giving me a shoutout😤 No but sincerely, girls who know about TRP and guys who know about FDS just know how to work their angles better now. Because they see what you’re doing, are able to see why a certain person might behave a certain way, and then respond appropriately to get the result they want
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:15 PM
2

Why is this my exact same problem 😭 I noticed my boyfriend was gaining weight fast af after we started dating. I really didn’t like it, but then I realized it’s because of me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:11 PM
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There’s a good chance that a religious woman wouldn’t want him. He might not be religious enough, they can’t hold a conversation about anything, he may hate the close mindedness they come with. A lot of them can be real sweethearts but they aren’t going to want to talk about, or participate in a lot of activities he’s used to with a more worldly persin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:10 PM
3

Most women do this anyways on top of having a regular job.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:05 PM
1

They’re literally everywhere. There’s a good chance that either you aren’t where they go, or you can’t afford one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:04 PM
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Yea because then she’s not fucked. If she’s a SAHwife than she NEEDS you to be financially stable for not only you but her and your kids as well. Most people can’t even afford that. Too many people have a fantasy of what having a SAHP is like but that fantasy can not exist in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:01 PM
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They truly are attracted to masculine men and will openly shame you if they don’t see you as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:56 PM
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There’s almost nothing worth than not being able to have a proper conversation with someone because of it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:53 PM
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I’m a woman that’s getting her shit together but also would be fine being a homemaker. Redpillers just complain
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:46 PM
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Can I please see a source that it’s “Easy” for gay men to find casual sex. This sounds purely anecdotal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:40 PM
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How is that argument even real when he was literally the one who took my virginity. Where is your reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:48 AM
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Because a name like Jamal isn’t my culture. Also often times an ethnicity can be tied to a race. There are no traditionally white names that come close to Jamal. Nonetheless even if a white man were named that, he’s still at a major disadvantage because Jamal is a usually black American used name
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 06:38 PM
1

Did you ever see/read the experiment? The resumes were the exact same, just different names. The companies were more likely to deny ethnic name
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:29 PM
1

No it’s because she purposely waited. How is that such a foreign concept
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:05 PM
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I’m purple pilled but I stopped being ugly and it opened my eyes to alot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:07 PM
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Nope, for women, physical attraction is a sliding scale that can grow and change
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:03 PM
2

Gift giving is one of my love languages pfft. He gives me gifts too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:01 PM
1

I like how everyone is ignoring the porn addiction and porn/masturbation induced ED lol, typical
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:58 PM
1

I’ll tell you this, I choose my boyfriends based on how well they can batter my face by the size of their hands. RedPill is right, no skinny wrists because he can’t slap me like he really should!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:53 PM
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She’s dated before him, she was just a virgin. I did the same
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:50 PM
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Yea that’s still just as shitty as a pump and dump, probably even worse because of her strong emotional investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:36 PM
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Can attest to the fact that my last long term relationship was shit at sex. Four years, we were together. I thought he could learn, he was the one who took my virginity too. I showed him how to do things and was patient but even without any prior experience, I knew he just straight up sucked
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:33 PM
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You make it sound like she’s gonna orgasm just by looking at him. Man or woman, of course sexual things are going to be better if you’re attracted to the sexual partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:29 PM
1

I think there’s too MUCH focus on it, but not in a genuine sense. For both genders, it’s all about stroking an ego
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:28 PM
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So you’re saying literally leaving the relationship right after taking her virginity isn’t suspicious? Probably didn’t enter the relationship for that exact reason but after some time it’s obvious that he probably stayed longer than needed because he wanted to take it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:22 PM
1

Vice versa when they paint women as all-evil deceitful beings. Either way you spin it, you’re putting them as this mystical being beyond regular human
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:20 PM
1

100%. For people that hate them so much, they really do seem to talk about them a whole lot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:19 PM
1

Intentions definitely matter because that influences the means that were used to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:18 PM
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PLEASE do not follow that book. It’s a bunch of macho bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:09 PM
1

I would argue the same if he didn’t leave literally the day after he took her virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:06 PM
1

Much like the red pill, I use FDS as a way to vet for a good relationship and avoid abusers. I don’t care if he doesn’t pay my bills or some shit. I can pay my own shit. In fact he DOESNT pay my bills, but he does pay for things in my presence because he wants to. It makes him feel good to be provider and I don’t take advantage of that. Imagine someone buying you a gift and you automatically demand that they get you more. Nuh uh, that’s not me. That’s where a lot of FDS users get it wrong. On th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:29 PM
1

I think they’re the same, mostly for the fact that they don’t get anything out of it. Only benefit is they get a pat on the back for being “one of the good ones”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:20 PM
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You may be surprised at the lengths a man will go to JUST to pump and dump. My friend was a virgin but dated this dude for 5 years. Made him wait for 5 years. Soon as he took her virginity , he was gone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:18 PM
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Honestky I think they always have been, but I don’t think it’s something mostly perpetuated by women until quite recently
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:14 PM
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When an adult has sex with a teenager... we are all aware of the double standard. The man is assumed to be a predator, the teenage girl blameless. Any adult man having sex with a teenager IS a predator. Imagine fucking a minor and not being smart enough/having self control to use common sense to not take on those advances In the reverse scenario the teenage boy is assumed to like it. Mostly men perpetuate that, you realize that right? For example, how it’s such a large running joke of dad’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:12 PM
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These shitty people get away with shitty things because they have the shitty habit of manipulating others. That’s how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:09 PM
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Reminds me of that Belgium king. He paid people for the hands of slaves that didn’t work hard enough, but eventually they just started cutting off random african people’s hands
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:08 PM
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Well honestly I believe that last point, but it’s still in bad practice, societally and business wise, to not even follow your own advice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:01 PM
1

Ikr, defending any billionaire isn’t gonna make the normal people any richer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:59 AM
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We see it in the rap industry as well. Cardi B stays with Offset after he cheats multiple times. SaWeetie leaves Quavo after he cheats and he claims “You’re not the woman I thought you were” and the Internet is calling him a king
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:58 AM
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In the post above this u/ChibsPhillipTelford shows a study that mean just cheat more link to post
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:54 AM
1

I think it’s the same reason people talk shit on the internet. You do what you wanna and if things don’t work out, you just ignore them and you never have to deal with them ever again, just like that. People are treated like they’re expendable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:51 AM
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it’s not trading up it’s trading in How is that any better. Plus it’s NOT the same Honda, it’s a Subaru at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:48 AM
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At thought point it’s neither a black nor a male issue, but something more interpersonal and a bit more complicated. Black women are less likely to get themselves caught up in some bs like that unless the perpetrator has a personal vendetta or due to their identity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:45 AM
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Up until the lat sentence it reads very “She left me because I didn’t wash the dishes”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:44 AM
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Let’s be realistic, people are CAUTIOUS but no one assumes you to be a predator unless you exhibit behavior that says so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:39 AM
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They’re being attacked because they’re black, not because they’re men. It’s a clear difference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:38 AM
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Culture can often be connected to a race
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:35 AM
2

I fully agree on this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:33 AM
1

There’s no indication that I was interested in the man. Also I don’t want to marry my current boyfriend
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/21 01:31 AM
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Peak
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/21 01:30 AM
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I get asked if I’m hit on quite often, he’s well aware that I shut things down quickly and I don’t entertain men
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 04:51 AM
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That's a really good case and point and honestly I don't know how I didn't even consider that last part. It could explain why I didn't even "notice" the guy was flirting with me, because it's possible that he wasn't even flirting
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 04:47 AM
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Believe me, I'm not one to play coy on any sort of thing and I'm well known to call out things exactly when I see it and see fit to do so. I think it's one of those things where I genuinely didn't take his behavior as flirting because as I mentioned, he was asking me what was happening before the car had died. Even asking my boyfriend, he said it was just 'a feeling' and it was more in the way that he looked at me. The particular look is the one that certain guys do when they're taller than you …
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 04:42 AM
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you’re missing the detail that I didn’t even realize the guy was interested in me before he asked. We literally only talked about the car and men know other men’s body language the best
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 12:29 AM
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you’re missing the detail that I didn’t even realize the guy was interested in me before he asked. We literally only talked about the car and men know other men’s body language the best
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 12:29 AM
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The situation regarding that was handled properly lolol, no worries
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 04:42 PM
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peak
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 03:18 AM
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Yea you’re probably right. I should just move on. Easier said then done, but it’s for the better
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 02:25 AM
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Personally I’m fine with making the first move and usually do, but I feel a little off out by doing that due to fear that the feeling isn’t completely mutual
/r/seduction21/10/20 10:48 PM
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