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They need to put in the work, so they can be promptly ignored after. Which is why I’m a firm believer of never giving them ugly/weird/outcasted man a chance. They’ll resent you for not hating them like they hate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:07 PM
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I keep seeing religious freaks talking about not having any sex before marriage, then have a good life after marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:53 PM
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my bff waited 2 years. Was it worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:44 PM
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that they want clout and one-way emotional support. Can you give us some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:31 PM
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Thats a pretty ignorant view
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:22 PM
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You guys put yourselves in situations where this is a problem. Sorry, we live a real world, which full of bad actors. I remember you are rambling about a bear or something earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:16 PM
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One of the best red pill advice to start working out, as a nice body makes you more confident insecurity little bitch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:07 PM
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100% agree, you going to have a bad time if the woman is mostly in for the money. However you need to have a delicate balance, where you signal some level of wealth without actually flaunting it. But for the average guy in this subreddit does not need to care about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:02 PM
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There was a study testing women and their mothers which qualities should have the ideal partner. Almost all of them chose intelligence as one of the top priority. When they actually chose men, they went for charisma and looks, and intelligence took a back seat. Edit: found it - New research on mate choices: Both daughters and their parents rated ambitious and intelligent men as a more desirable dating partner than attractive men. But when asked to choose the best mate for daughters, both daughte…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:56 PM
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Since when has working out been considered feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:49 PM
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You can chose people for the wrong reason. Plenty of men have been chosen without a romantic spark.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:48 PM
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Yeah that time passed like 20 years ago. Today only the most closed off religious guys wont see it on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:43 PM
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Women are not marrying men they don’t find attractive As a trend yes, but I read so many stories here on reddit, where obviously this was the case, I can take declarations like this seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:03 PM
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It's pretty funny that the backpill is one of the basic one, yet it's a completely off-limits topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:53 PM
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He "solved" his avoidant attachment style
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:50 PM
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Such a wonderful idea, but I dont think it would be that more accepted than sex work, and I'm not sure you would find enough people to fill up the spots. And it wont be cheap either, and the EU healthcare is pretty big money sink as it is. As Gen Z men currently stands, the service is definitely needed, heck even Gen Z woman might need "treatment"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:47 PM
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He did not say, that dude will be appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:46 PM
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Policies are usually set by the government and the cost should be covered by the national budget. But in this case I dont think they can solve it with money. For example you can provide a flat for young relatively poor couples if they are willing to get 2-3 children, or you can mandate maternity / paternity leave, to moderate the population decline, but I dont think monetary policy will help with the "wizard" problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:27 PM
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In first world countries, there are already cases of terrorism that have not been adequately addressed for years. And as I earlier mentioned, we already have examples of this kind of terrorism in the US, has anyone enacted any policy to address this issue? It had to be lot-lot worse before anything will be implemented, and if you are starting to target the currently not violent, then you are not much better than the violent ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:15 PM
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they will enact terrorism. Some already do, so nothing new here. And the general public by and large does not care about them at all. The more important question what will the majority do? Will they use the same strategy Chinese men do (lay down and rot), or will they advocate for some radical reforms? Or they will just break shit just for the fun of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:02 PM
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You can call a small number of people you can oppress as terrorist. It wont work, when 3rd of Gen Z men have the same experience and share the same ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:32 PM
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Yeah no, if only men would try to go out more, then they have fever women to socialize with. Its either both gender do it or it wont work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:30 PM
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If their desires of a meaningful future and achievable goals are 'getting women' they want war anyway Thankfully your are not in the position to decide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:25 PM
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If we get to that point that something get crushed, it would be liberal ideas and feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:17 PM
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I mean, though low birth rate is good. You like high inflation, shrinking economic possibilities, huge amount of retirees compared to working adults, which is huge burden on the budget? Because a strong decline will get you those then some. Its like 2008 recession for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:12 PM
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Because if we cant give them meaningful future and achievable goals, then the far right (and maybe the far left) will. Neither will be good for the current society, and there is a high chance of violence / civil war.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:01 PM
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The more violence happens from that group, it disrupts the lives of the average people who are happy, which will always be larger than the unelected men. The problem with this line of thinking, that one side have much to lose, and very little on the other end (if they already at the point to turn it into violence). But I think they can change society simply by voting for parties that push similar narratives like the religious right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:57 PM
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The issue is the advancement of technology has incentivized a lot of men to rot behind a screen at home rather than go out and socialize. That moot point because both men and women rot behind the screen <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:53 PM
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Gen Z women dont need Gen Z men now. They will need them when they want to settle down and start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:49 PM
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But they wont disappear. Are you willing to fight them? Can we extend conscription to women too, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:42 PM
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Ironically that bar is an excellent place, where they take women complaint seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:46 PM
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I read repeat comments from women, that the window when they will either categorize you as a romantic or platonic interest is very small, so if keeping up the platonic "energy" for a while it is sure fire way to lose them. On the other hand if you come too strong, then you lose women like /u/Suspicious_Glove7365
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:40 PM
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But I used to be chronically single and it was hell until I found my way. How long were you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:06 PM
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There was a recent post in a women only forum where they ranted about hating catcalls. The list of the catcalls looked like this: Wow, you are beautiful You are gorgeous You have a nice ass Yeah, if benign complements like this creeps girls and women out, then there is no point to cold approach them Edit: I meant benign complements like the first two
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:20 PM
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Beauty will fade in a decade or two, but sweet personality wont
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:51 PM
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Off topic, you become a wizard at 30, is there a grand wizard title at 40 or 45?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:22 PM
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there was a guy who literally was shaking while he kissed me. You had one chance ...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:14 PM
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Obviously there is no way to develop and practice social skills, that would make them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:07 PM
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anti women == anything that criticizes feminism When we poll adults who didn't go to college, the top reason women cite is a lack of access. The top reason men cite is a lack of interest. Then its perfectly fine then, nothing to see or adjust here, lets push even more women to higher education, give them more grants, etc. It's not that it's illegal for men to attend. It's not that they don't have access to funding. Yeah right. Reddit is full of them, happy with their grants and affordable colleg…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:27 PM
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Idk if you know this, but... if you support the klan Criticism of feminism is similar than supporting the klan... Kindly fuck off with that comparison Let’s take a popular topic: college admissions. Currently, 58 percent of those admitted to higher education are women, while only 42 percent are men. When will feminist scholars and administrators finally realize that it may not necessarily be beneficial for society as a whole to have more women in higher education? Anytime soon? The problem that …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:26 PM
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Or they took a history lesson and know that communism is a failed experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:06 PM
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Issue is that a large proportion of men have difficulty identifying what is and isn't misandrist Yeah, because we dont have the same bureaucratic body feminism currently have. Any man supporting group which is not fully on board with feminism is attacked and discredited as misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:46 PM
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Well, if would define misandry the same way as currently misogyny is then 80+% of women are misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:14 PM
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almost half women will be childless by 2030 Which country you are talking about, Korea?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:10 PM
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And if you add online dating to that line of thinking then you will never have a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:24 PM
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Yeah they prefer an egalitarian relationship if you pass their filter. The problem is, that filter is up high, and only a small percentage of people can pass it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:11 PM
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I looked up the definition and the "talk therapy" is gross oversimplification. CBT is based on several core principles, including: Psychological problems are based, in part, on faulty or unhelpful ways of thinking. Psychological problems are based, in part, on learned patterns of unhelpful behavior. People suffering from psychological problems can learn better ways of coping with them, thereby relieving their symptoms and becoming more effective in their lives. CBT treatment usually involves eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:04 PM
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And men who rely on height/conventional attractiveness divorce at higher rates than men who can't. Yeah real men gets divorced by their wife, only losers divorce a woman who probably get too comfortable in the marriage... Holy cope :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:56 PM
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In which study?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:38 PM
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This fight is over, long over. Is it? Even recent studies show, that men expected to pay. Over 70% of Americans believe that in heterosexual relationships the man should pay on the first date, according to a recent survey form NerdWallet. Although 68% of women expect their male dates to pick up the tab, even more men — 78% — place that expectation on themselves, saying they should be responsible for the cost of the date, the survey found. In a paper published in 2023 in Psychological Reports, a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:53 AM
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That was sarcasm FFS. Maybe a tiny minority enjoy tinder fully, the rest would be happier without.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:23 PM
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So when women exploit men financially is that any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:08 PM
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I think his main point is that when to actively need to decenter romantic relationship you are already in deep shit, and decentering would be a coping mechanism that could turn out unhealthy if its not correctly implemented.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:44 PM
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Well now we have tinder and we know how awesome to have casual sex on tap.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:33 PM
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There is little, if any, indication that men can are capable of liking a woman for something unrelated to physical attraction. If you were a men you would be called an incel. Please stop trying to date and fix yourself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:57 PM
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If these women “wanted” to die alone they wouldn’t have had a partner in the first place Or maybe they just wanted kids. To me, “willing” still means they’re trying, but they accept it if they don’t find the ideal partner. If they make no effort at all, I would suspect that they have deliberately chosen the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:03 AM
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dude who tf said women “want” to die alone? On this subreddit, women said that if their partner were to die, they would rather die alone than start dating again. How do you interpreter that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:38 PM
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according to a recent study Published: 18 April 2016
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:44 PM
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You find ugly people disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:26 PM
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The female perspective is that men are dropping out of dating because these men are weak, and more importantly, disgusting This is not the female perspective at all, this sounds like your assumptions from your perspective. Women know th majority of men in the US are conservative and don’t want to date conservatives. Based on my limited sample - reddit - most liberal women find conservatives disgusting. Especially if he is openly maga supporter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:45 PM
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<image> Zones V3 relationship chart shamelessly stolen from Hoe_Math. It's a very good collection of the traits and other stuff that attract the opposite sex. >And observation is a very unreliable teacher. Observation combined with critical thinking is one of the best teacher we have. There is a reason why its the first step in the Scientific method, and just one failed experiment shouldn't mean that we throw this tool away. >For example, a man might see his friend getting a lot of dates and con…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:12 PM
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I can pat you on the head for those clever non-answers. Would you be ashamed of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:27 PM
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You dodged those questions with those non-answers It doesn't really give credibility to your statements
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:03 PM
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We respond truthfully, as adult individuals. The funny thing is that men are constantly accused of seeing the world in black and white in here. Then women coming out of the woodwork with in group bias like these. Off course darling, women are little angels, they would never lie, or manipulate others, anyone who says so are a mean incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:23 PM
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What is a pleasant touch? How did you touch you that was not pleasant? Anyway I'm not native speaker, I assumed he only touched you once awkwardly. If he crossed boundaries or if he was brash, then its okay to not continue dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:56 PM
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I gave you the benefit of the doubt, and I assume the guy acted awkwardly before that touch. Because if you ditched a potentially good candidate after just one awkward touch or sentence, then you are a lunatic, who will end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:39 PM
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Can you list which races is the opposite of which?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:36 PM
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A lot of the benefits only come with maturity and long term thinking, something most young men don’t have. The problem is that you may be very mature in your 30s, but if you don't have the necessary relationship skills acquired in your 20s, most women will automatically reject you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:30 PM
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Most as in like more than 95%. Lol, absolutely not. You can be very sociable, but if your social life revolves around a male hobby, you are not in a much better position than someone who does not go out often. Be a nice person and acknowledge that everyone is, to a certain extent, acting in their own best interests. Being a nice man is detrimental to your success. Kindness may work for some women, while others are attracted to the excitement of the dark triad, but being nice deters most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:50 PM
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Like your express your self less or keep thing private ? Keep things private. Like I would only share the content of your post with one or two closest friend. Wont do you any good if you share it with acquaintances, you would only alienate them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:41 AM
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Nope, those guys are already pushed out of the "market", but therapy might help them cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:22 AM
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So the only thing left for me is money. Trust me, you dont want some who is only after you due to money or status. You need something to occupy your mind and channel your energy in a positive direction, and you need to accept and embrace your situation so that you don't waste your energy on things you can't change. Therapy can be a good idea, but choose your therapist carefully and only choose someone who understands your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:19 AM
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That is why some women who aren’t even that good looking get treated very well by their man who is obsessed with them he thinks she’s good looking and that’s all that matters. Agree on that On the flipside there are women who are drop dead gorgeous who get treated like crap by their man. I actually would argue that this is an area where men are not very honest. They tend to overstate the value of looks, being good looking does not mean that you will date good men. It does not mean that men will …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:45 AM
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Aging doesn’t take away the desire for sex — in fact, many older adults still see it as an essential part of romantic relationships, according to new University of New Hampshire research. A study led by Lauren Harris, assistant professor of human development and family studies, challenges long-standing assumptions about aging and intimacy. Published in The Journal of Sex Research, the research examines how single adults ages 60–83 think about sex, dating, and relationships — including the expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:39 PM
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loud minority. The problem is that it keeps growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:36 PM
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The maths says that if you become an 8 or above through extreme weight loss or plastic surgery, some women will start chasing you. Of course, not every man has this option, and if you lack social skills, you won't be able to turn those potential partners into hookups or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:14 PM
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Which is minuscule compared to what a better looks can give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:43 PM
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Very, very few 20-year-old women date men in their 40s. Most age-gap relationships are closer to 10 years than 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:58 PM
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Well I could answer this question So do you think men caring too much is gonna encourage and perpetuate this mentality or nah? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:41 PM
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Either you care about it or you don't; there's no such thing as caring about it just a little bit. So men either swore off of it, or they care and have to pursue and be the dancing monkey. It's easy to not care if you've been burned too many times in previous relationships and are convinced that it's not good for you, or if you really have plenty of opportunities to find a partner. Everyone else just pretends not to care. Not trying doesnt mean not talking to women at all. And if you really don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:31 PM
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Not trying doesnt mean not talking to women at all. And women do keep their poker face and not let you on, that they interested in you, because they expect you to chase them. No this is not just an assumption, I read exactly this in a women only subreddit. They know its a leverage, and they dont want to lose it. Obviously its not true for all women, younger women are more idealistic and will try to make the first move once or twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:54 AM
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How is it easier to be a man today than, say, 20 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:28 PM
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There is several downside with no upside. Because a child is never fully ours, whether we’re biological parents or not There is a huge difference, because you can obtain visitation rights for your own child. There is no such thing, even if you have raised and loved that child for 5-10 years, the biological parent can prevent you from visiting them until they grow up, sometimes even when the child is already an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:54 PM
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If you love the kid wholeheartedly they will love you back. That’s just basic psychology, that’s how attachement works. I don't know if it's just naivety or stupidity, but some kids hate you before they even get to know you, just because you "block" their parents from getting back together. And if the previous parent was awful, you have to work extra hard, just to have a normal relationship with the kid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:40 PM
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Yeah, yeah, attraction is subjective, love is blind, and I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:47 PM
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I mean it was never easy for ugly people to find a date, but with the apps, and fever and fever third spaces it become soul-crushing hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:42 PM
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Ugly people are in shambles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:18 PM
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Everyone is on the internet and the majority of couples meet on OLD, Most people search on apps, but no, most people don't find partners on apps. Survey from 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:51 PM
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She was willing to give me some guidance during this time but to my surprise she didn’t have to say much. She came like 3 different times before she started using her hands on me. Just to clarify she: gave you a hand-job, or she just caressed you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:09 PM
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Ohh, cmon, its not the same group of men. Most of the SDs are middle aged or older. Most women on the apps goes for the same age group, or maybe slightly older. Since a lot of men here already claim most women are dating the same top 5-10% I'm not one of them, I think maybe 10% (or less) women dating the "same guy". men are too poor to participate. IN SUGAR DATING, yeah, they are too poor to comfortably support an SB. But even among that 5-10% of men, perhaps only a single-digit number participa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:25 PM
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Sugar dating is a niche, and since most men (90-95%) cant afford it it will remain a niche market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:22 PM
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Sugar dating is a niche market, and it wont change, as 90 plus percent men cant enter to this market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:19 PM
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For me, I look at marriage statistics and notice that the majority do not end well If you want to keep the chances of divorce low, get a master's degree in a well-paid profession and marry another professional in your late twenties or early thirties. That way, the chances of divorce will remain below 15%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:17 AM
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Unfortunately the original article is behind a paywall (in Financial Times). Here is a copy of the charts Edit: second attempt, dam you automod
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:51 PM
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Picking a vanilla or chocolate ice cream is a preference. Picking someone with black/blonde/brunette/red hear is preference. Picking your partner based on chest size or ignoring it completely is a preference. However, only having sex after marriage is a choice that can have lifelong consequences if you choose the wrong guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:18 PM
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First of all, this is a discussion sub. If you find it offensive that we argue with your opinion, then perhaps you should reconsider what you want to talk about here. I don't really care whether you want to have sex on the first date, the tenth date, or only after the wedding. What I do care about is why you think your decision is good and healthy. If something seems unreasonable, I'll start picking at it, regardless of the topic (sex, religion, your job, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:26 PM
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Isn't it very exhausting?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:44 PM
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Can you estimate how long you dated before you felt comfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:43 PM
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I've heard about it, and I've heard about broken promises, things that people thought they didn't have a problem with until they experienced them and found out they hated them. It's one thing to say that your penis is X inch long when erect, and it's another thing to actually experience it. And the same X may be the best thing for one woman, while for another it means painful intercourse. Also he might not mind going down a girl, until he finds a jungle or bad body odor...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:39 PM
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What if you are sexually incompatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:59 PM
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If a couple has two kids, and they are born two years apart, if she stayed at home until the kids are in kindergarten, he'd have to support her for 7 years. In my shit-hole eastern-european country, the mother gets 70% percent of her previous pay for two years. If she wishes she can split that two year with the father or one of the grandmother as well. If another child is born before the two years are up, they will receive the same support for another two years. Oh and the bigger multinational c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:50 PM
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There are things that are far more important than how much money you make. You're right, but it's still important to earn enough to live comfortably if you end up alone. But that's just the minimum. Ideally, you should earn enough so that your wife can stay at home with the children for at least a few years after they're born.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:05 AM
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You dont really know anyone until you live with them under a same roof for a year or two. Which can be difficult if you want to remain virgin. I can quickly weed out the players by stating I'm waiting until marriage. You also weed out pretty much anyone who is not a loser, asex, or deeply religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:04 PM
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A lot of men use clothing, class markers, and other aspects of physical appearance as their determination of whether she’s a “slut”. Yes. Classic Chapelle skit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:33 PM
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Regular hookers? No, I'm talking about high-end escorts, sugar babies who can go to the opera, gala, or other events in their clothes. Their butts and breasts don't stick out of their clothes, but it's still quite revealing, just like that girl's outfit. Cowboy boots are not really something they wear, think high heels instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:29 PM
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Moderately revealing designer clothes. No, its far from the trashy, its similar to the picture you linked earlier. Trashy is when half of her ass sticking out the hot-short, and her boobs barely covered by fabric. In the later case I would assume she is more open to casual stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:03 PM
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Just a life experience of a "grand" wizard, I'm not here to convince you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:46 PM
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There is a difference between trash-sexy, and high end hooker looking sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:43 PM
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When everything else in your life is shit, its not a big deal. However if you work on yourself, and you become successful in other areas of your life, it might pop to haunt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:32 PM
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Young men are drinking less, partying less, going out less and most importantly interacting with women less. Young men AND WOMAN, drink less, party less, etc They have replaced this all by being online They were raised by helicopter parents who didn't let them go anywhere alone. So they socialized online. That's why they chose these apps, because it's a familiar environment for them. Edit: Leaving your house is a good first step, but if you are not at least decent looking, and have decent social…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:26 AM
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Apps existed 20 years ago Yes, but the early apps weren't designed to be shit, and most of the users were geeks, so the apps suited them better it's great that people drink les Not for dating cold approaching has always been taboo lol (you should admit you just trolling here) dating brokies was just as challenging 20 years ago It was challenging, but not as much as it is today. But yes, if I wanted an even sharper contrast, I would have had to go back 30 or 40 years in time Real efforts = not us…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:59 PM
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Why it is dating harder than 20 years ago: the main dating platform is the apps people drink less people go out less social media negatively influences your dating habits and expectations. cold approaching become taboo in lots of places worse economic situation: if your partner is broke, you cant afford your own place in the long run I think that some men, don't put in any real effort Let me guess, effort is $$$$, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:29 PM
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Then why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:51 PM
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Based on the description this is long term and not casual dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:42 PM
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You think pro-athletes are using tinder? I have no idea so I looked up Several NBA players and high-profile basketball personalities have been linked to using Tinder, often leveraging the app during travel for the regular season. Notable figures include Hall-of-Famer Shaquille O'Neal, who admitted to briefly using the app but was rejected because users didn't believe it was actually him Lmao Edit: it seems NBA players use tinder or social media to find hookups And so, what’s affecting on the awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:26 AM
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Yeah, it depends where are you and what platform you use. When the r/EscortClientsOnly sub was still alive, they regularly campaigned against advance deposit payments before visits, as these often turned out to be scams.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:59 PM
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sex being guaranteed after payment So just regular prostitution? However if the app has user feedback section, that could solve this problem :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:29 PM
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Because its a simp behavior. This is what encourages girls like you see in the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:06 PM
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In my case, sex outside of a serious “let’s share a life together” commitment isn’t what I want, and I have always lived by that. Zero exceptions. Anyone who isn’t good with waiting isn’t compatible with me. It’s that simple. I’m not holding it against anyone. I know it’s a big ask that many aren’t up for, especially when religion isn’t involved. In an ideal world you tell that to your potential partner, and anyone who values sex would get up and leave, and who doesn't would stay. However in rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:02 PM
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Well, if we've been on 3-5 dates and she still hasn't made any effort, just shown up, then I'm definitely not going to ask any questions, I'll just silently end it. Some of us even wait until serious commitment/marriage, not because of trauma or diminished interest in the person or in sex in general, but because it’s just right for us. I understand the religious ones, but I wouldn't go near any of them. However the "right for me" is pretty often used justification for shitty behavior. Like when …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:15 PM
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Or fame. Go for the Lostprophets singer, if you want something truly shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:18 PM
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Do you want women to settle for men? No. But whatever caused this insanely high standard isnt doing any favors for them, if they need to go trough hundreds of men, wasting lots of time, just to find one potential partner (which might not work out in the long run!). I mean some women now wastes ~5 years from their life just to find one partner. And some of them only wakes up too late, rushing trough dating and marriage, just to have children, before their clocks run out. It would be way better if…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:58 PM
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I hope you do not draw any conclusion from the sample size of 2... But yes, Women earning more than their husband is not that uncommon, that 2020 survey said 21% percent of married women fall into this category. Another interesting fact I read in that article: Studies also show that when a wife out-earns her husband, he is more likely to cheat. In fact, about 15% of the men in a study by the American Sociological Review who were 100% financially dependent on their wives had affairs. That’s three…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:00 PM
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and pass fully well What does that mean? I suspect good chunk of them are on the spectrum, and a good chunk only tried to date on the apps. You can also be smart and have good conversations with women, but that doesn't mean you'll get a date. If you dont pass the look threshold, then you have a long grind ahead you. And I'm sure some of them have some radical views that actively repel women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:46 AM
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The market is bad but for income at least there are cases where the guy makes the home and his partner makes the dough. So guys who know how to make a home is valuable too? Those pairs rarely form, and when they do, they wont last. It has a higher divorce rate than a 10 year old age gap marriage... (+50% vs +39%) It's just that in general men make more than women. There are lot of high earner men in the 50 or older category, which raises the average. If you check the average young people, young …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:59 AM
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Yet, if she does not want to have sex with you for months, it gets suspicious. Maybe she has unresolved sexual trauma? Maybe she is into you but sex is not that important for her? I mean is she is pulling all the stops Kingcrow mentioned, then it gets really suspicious, that something is not right, so she might want to address these stuff, before he start entertaining other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:47 AM
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So high effort from him, but low effort from you? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:44 AM
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Why? Why would a coffee date be so different from having a conversation on the beach?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:26 AM
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And my problem with these people, that they dont want safer working environment for porn actresses, they want it banned. Same with sex work, they could advocate stricter laws that protect the workers, but they rather have it banned completely, because they find it repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:03 PM
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Yep, just as this classic said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:51 PM
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Passport women: they stay at home and shop for men in the overseas markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:21 PM
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Yeah its important to point out, that both men and women become more rigid as they age, and tolerate less "quirks" from their potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:13 PM
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If you healthy and you look good at 42, you barely have any competition at that age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:08 PM
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The first two is easy to avoid, but there is a reason we have an obesity epidemic, cheap shit food can taste good, while its pretty bad for you. But if you struggle to get by, or barely have any time after work and chores, then you dont have too much time/money to prepare home-cooked food. I know a hot 37 year old and a hot 42 year old, they are both definitely doing just fine. They also both go to the gym and the latter is a gym queen type Funny thing is, small amount of extra fat is really gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:03 PM
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The average women does not have the time and the resources ScarJo has. If you smoke, drink a lot, have sleep deficit, and eat shit food, you will look 50 when you are 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:46 PM
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When its just a shifting tide of relationships. Most people shouldn't need another person to simply survive but people should want to be with each other cuz it makes life easier and better as a whole. I heard it countless time from women here, that if the relationship is not a step up from their single life, then they rather be a single. Which means good or decent looking guys, with good or decent income are in high demand, and the rest of guys are just extras in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:28 PM
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I would like to know where the threshold is, because if it is high enough, then incels don't need to worry about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:17 PM
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It does seem lately though that "beta bucks" is becoming less and less common in the younger generations, so this may not continue to hold up. Yep, if you are a simp, you get shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:07 PM
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I thought you speak english at native level, but now I have my doubts I copied this from the NSFG study, your article has a link to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:35 PM
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Sexual behaviors among males and females aged 15–44 based on the 2006–2008 NSFG Congrats, you fond a statistics about Boomers and Gen X Among adults aged 25–44, about 98% of women and 97% of men ever had vaginal intercourse Ohh, and they are a bunch of hacks. Because if you know the percentage of lesbians and gays, then those numbers doesn't make any sense. But more importantly, just because you are not virgin does not mean you have an easy time to find a partner and not end up as an incel. Just…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:47 PM
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Also getting full time employment later. Moving out later. Sign of a bad economy. Hopefully I dont have to explain to you why thats a bad thing So GenZ is having sex when they are older and usually in LTRs. 1, If you dont have your first sexual experience by 25, then your are fucked. It means, you missed the school years, and almost all of your options are bad. Online dating: shitshow, especially if your not good looking Bars and pubs: the best place if you are into alcohol. Most Gen Z are not. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:53 PM
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<image> We both know that there is no statistic about this, heck there is no statistic about the incels, and thats way more important topic. The best alternative is the number of single or sexless adults, which both sharply rising with the new generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:15 PM
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And a good chunk of men will never experience that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:02 PM
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Now he has matches! How old is this guy? Where does he live? There are many child-free women in the Western world, but you know how to address them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:04 PM
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That just prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:36 PM
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"My House on Mars" - obviously not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:25 PM
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A nose job tanked Jennifer Grey's acting career. Her nose was fine, BUT she did not become uglier because of it. I think it safe to recommend the surgery, if it causes other complications (congestion, snoring, etc), or if its "ugly" crooked (when its visible when you facing the mirror)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:42 PM
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Also for the love of god, please don't feel like you have to get cosmetic procedures done. Plastic surgery has a bad reputation because some mentally ill people use it to make themselves look like aliens. If you have a feature that could be significantly improved (such as a crooked nose, a "missing" jaw, or a squint), then I think you should go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:26 AM
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And even if sex were the goal, then women should only be able to have sex once a month, and men should adapt to it like most animals. I think it's the other way around. Women evolved so that men would not know when they were in heat, so men always had to be close to women in order to be able to have sex with them. As a bonus, if he is constantly nearby, he can protect her and their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 10:43 AM
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A couple of month ago you said, that sex is not important part of a romantic relationships because there are asexual and aromatic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:32 PM
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What is the source of that image?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:35 PM
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A little over a year later women are flirting with me I suspect you mistook friendly banter with flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:50 AM
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Kinda hard to be cheerful positive guy, when you keep getting negative reinforcements.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:55 PM
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Lol, introducing a six-month rule is way more weird. Normal people would just say no until they feel comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:33 PM
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I assume she has suffered sexual trauma and/or is bad in bed. By the way, I would assume the same about men who accept this. Either they are losers without confidence or self-esteem, or they have problems satisfying women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:29 PM
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How to motivate nerds
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:11 PM
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I’m sure conservatives are dancing with joy I'm not sure they would cheer for 4B women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:30 PM
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Misandry likes this gets regularly posted and upvoted here. I yet to see a bluepiller challenge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:07 PM
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43.8% of lesbian women .... have experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner I would love to hear, how this high number is men's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:24 PM
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43.8% of lesbian women and 61.1% of bisexual women have experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner at some point in their lifetime, as opposed to 35% of heterosexual women. 26% of gay men and 37.3% of bisexual men have experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime, in comparison to 29% of heterosexual men. Oh look, its right there women are more violent then men I don't think they're more violent by default, but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:34 PM
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It's the bare minimum to have kids?? Read my comment again, because I did not say that. So any job is good enough? Do you look down on others just because they don't have prestigious jobs? Shame on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:40 PM
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Do I have to explain to a woman, that playing the social game DOES NOT guarantee sex or even good relationships? Hunny Get off your high horse
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:17 PM
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Couldn't they contribute that other ways like being a nurse or a teacher or an engineer? Nope, thats just the bare minimum to be a productive member of your society, it does not have to be a western liberal one. And what if someone is barren are they not adults? I never say, that you are not an adult without kids. All I'm saying, that if you dont have one (preferably two or more), then you become another nail in your society coffin. The western countries below 1,5 kids per couple will collapse i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:03 PM
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If you want to enjoy the privileges of western society, you should contribute to it with well raised children, so the next generation can enjoy it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:33 PM
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What the heck is red-light challenge? Google is no help, as there is band with the exact same name...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:11 PM
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85 percent of men are ordered to pay child support. kek. Classic feminist misrepresentation of stats
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:58 PM
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Without a doubt today is much harder than it was 15 or 25yrs ago, so they have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:09 PM
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If the only women you listen to are radical feminists, YOU CHOOSE to only know those women. Funny, PPD is full of them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:38 PM
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I don't know any men that are as obsessed with it as the online discourse would make it out to seem. Because any sane men realizes, that the little social life they have would evaporate the second they talk about this. I think a vocal minority of weirdos on the internet find it intolerable. How old are you? Come back when you closer to 40 or over 40, successful in any other aspect in your life, and tell me its nothing. Its really easy to ignore it, when you stuck in a lower level of the Maslow's…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:31 PM
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Social cues that sit perfectly between friendly and flirty, so you can claim either one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:19 PM
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Then you agree with this part, right? male virgin stats are increasing each year and projected to be 30-40% in 5 years time but women's remain very low
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:49 PM
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I think those are old stats. I have a recent one from May: 38% GenZ 22 or younger are still virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:45 PM
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38% GenZ 22 or younger are still virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:25 PM
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This sounds like a loser man’s wet dream Nope, this would be the avarege guy wet dream as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:29 AM
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An economic policy against hoeflation. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:25 AM
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The main point you seem to be missing, that while a couple of men can be a fun casual partner for lots of women, this does not work if those women want to settle down and start a family later. Some women have to choose men who do not attract them as much, which can lead to dead bedroom and, later on, a high chance of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:29 PM
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Hey /u/soul_shackles0, how the heck do you have time to date alongside work and your PhD?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:25 PM
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How old are you? That was true 20 or 30 years ago. It's not true today, because 38% of 22 year olds and younger are virgins. If the average man today is picky, it's not because of the choices available to him, but because redpill and other social media content encourages him to be mindful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:32 PM
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You dont have to be a social media junkie to have a negative influence on you. I'm sure it affects you too, you just can't admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:41 PM
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Most people don’t have a high look standard. We live in a reality distorted by social media, and its a documented fact, that social media has negatively influenced dating norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:59 PM
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Like, don't men do the same thing with Stacy's and they also "settle" for women who aren't a Stacy? I feel like it's typical for everyone to prefer someone they would personally rate a 10/10 Absolutely not — men's interests are much more evenly spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:01 PM
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Tho video only proves that men don’t like fat women. Yes, but note that the black lady, who is probably the thinnest of them, is only managed to get the 4th place...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:49 PM
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Sometimes this is just a prerequisite. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-with-emotional-intensity/202106/which-should-come-first-attraction-or-connection
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:23 PM
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How about 40% at 24? Link Or 38% at 22? Another link
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:39 PM
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Only about 5% of men are virgins at age 25 How about 40% at 24? Link Or 38% at 22? Another link You should ignore any sex related GSS statistic, because they somehow messed up the sampling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:39 PM
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Ohh, you're so clever, let me pat your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:17 PM
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with pimps If there is a pimp in the picture, then women rarely or never engage in sex work of their own free will, so you are trying to compare sex slavery with sex work. Good job beating this straw man argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:47 PM
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Maybe stop saying a woman's career has no bearing on her dating value I did not say anything about that. In my generation (millennials), women own the most homes. Yes, and among Gen Z, there are four college-educated men for every six college-educated women. If the woman in question is in a higher position, it becomes even more difficult for her to find a partner of a similar or higher status. So, yes, their career and income affect their 'value' in the dating world: the higher they are, the mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:36 PM
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I don't think you can compare the two. One has the potential to earn thousands of dollars a month, while the other one or two hundred USD max (I'm talking about the average woman here) going out in the streets or using a pimp There are other options beside these 2
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:06 PM
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That’s why OF is great How can you be so sure that there are no women who have been forced to create OF content?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:44 PM
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Because it’s just a fact that the time in your life you’re LEAST likely to experience sex is as a youth. You know your stats from the 80's are contradicting your statement, right? People getting their sexual experience while they are young, at least that how it worked in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:34 PM
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No. Women expect men to be their provider, entertainer, security detail and emotional support, as well as doing 50% of the chores and any house repairs. We see couples where either both partners earn roughly the same, or where the man earns more. Those relationships where the woman earns more don't last long, if they even get started at all. Edit: removed the duplicate part
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:09 PM
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A quick google: By age 25, 5-10% of men are still virgins. By age 30, only 1-5% are still virgins. Congrats, you found some stats from the '80s. Next time try to include the generation name your are interested in. "Approximately 62% of Gen Z adults have had sex by age 22" Link So, 38% of young adults in Generation Z are virgins, probably around 40-45% of men and 30-35% of women. And I think that if you don't find a sexual partner during high school or college, it becomes much harder to find one …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:52 PM
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I saw that many feminists would take away this choice because they find sex work/prostitution repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:26 PM
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feminism is generally pro sex work and pushes those opportunities for women Are you talking about prostitution or porn? Because I think the majority of feminist are against prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:50 PM
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No, it just shows how hypocritical feminists can be. If these films were aimed at men, there would be fierce protests, and they would be branded as an example of toxic masculinity. But because they're popular among women, people overlook how toxic they are and the bad example they set for BDSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:17 PM
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What would you say to your mother if she started arguing with your sister over trivial matters? Good job, mom? It's funny, because I often read on Reddit that women get along and socialize better than men, except when they live together and are related.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:43 PM
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including two rejections from my husband over about a year’s time when I was crushing on him. So how is that no means no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:23 PM
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Women are generally different. Having an adult mother and adult daughter under the same roof seems to become a shit show 9 times out of 10. You know how bad this makes women look, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:15 PM
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The statistic shows that false reports are actually rare How the tf they are able to tell if a women does a false report?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:05 PM
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One of the best ways to radicalize young men is to listen to women on Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:17 PM
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Generally that is not true any more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:07 PM
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95+% of people get married at least once in their lives. That old stat, and I bet my left nut, that wont hold true for the current twenties and thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:53 PM
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Best thing redpill did was identifying and shaming simps. You're attracting anxiously attached women, not healthy women. Yeah no. simp behavior also repulse women. Unless they want to use the simp for money / validation, then its perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:08 PM
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(My mother was extremely sick and I was looking after her) That's nice and commendable, but it's a commitment that takes up most of your free time and has no expiration date. It could easily take 5 or even 10 years. I'm pretty sure that most ment wont commit to you in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:27 PM
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If running a five-man wow dungeon were an acceptable dating activity, I'd be a manwhore by now. However for a real test, ask them to play a couple of pub games in lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:13 PM
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Now imagine we see a monkey riding a motorcycle. We say "Holy shit, it's a monkey riding a motorcycle!" That's all we can say. You see there is this video on youtube, where a monkey riding a golf cart, and someone mixed it with the Sopranos opening song, and it just /cheff kiss Link
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:47 PM
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If I may play devil's advocate for a moment: perhaps you gained more than just muscles at the gym? Maybe you gained self-confidence along with your physique? Perhaps your face became more masculine after you lost weight? Maybe you no longer wear baggy pants and T-shirts, but well-fitting clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:11 PM
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What happens when corporations are allowed to 3d print new humans? Nothing, it's too expensive, and it will never be economical to "print" people. Mass-produced robots will be much cheaper than any artificially created human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:32 PM
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lesbian culture is a little too divorce-happy Is it lesbian culture, or the women's nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:31 AM
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If you don't trust a woman's word, then why bother dating her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:26 AM
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Another great example for Hoe-math ghost card
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:09 PM
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The Ballmer peak
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:35 PM
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humour, charisma, wit Yeah, if these would be a hard requirement for dating then maybe 30 or 40 percent of men would find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:32 PM
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I am saying social skills matter more than looks. Only if you are decent looking. If you are ugly you wont have the chance to show your "talent". I am also saying that average men are pairing with average or much better looking women. You should see the women without makeup to gauge their attractiveness...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:19 PM
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And dating isn't even a privilege wtf, what benefits does dating have to women's life? Not the dating itself is the privilege, but the abundance of suitors they can choose from. From a random Medium article: On a list of 149 countries‘ Gini indices the female dating economy is the 75th most unequal (think European Union). The male dating economy is the 8th most unequal (think Subsaharan failed state).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:22 PM
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You're making my point for me. The fact that red pill has no structure, no standard, and no clear principles is exactly why it morphs into whatever the loudest voices in the room push usually fear, distrust, and reactionary takes on women. Those are the loudest, because opponents of the redpill amplify those voices the most. Kinda make sense, as MRA and MGTOW amplifies the rad fem voices the most, and ignores the regular feminists. You say it's important because it counters mainstream narratives…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:33 AM
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I've expected nothing else from you :) Anyway, if someone wants to read and evaluate the content, I leave the link in automod friendly format. thepowermoves dot com slash the-rational-male
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:44 AM
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Maybe you are not interested to learn the non-PUA redpill, because you might have to admit it have good advice's for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:22 AM
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Sure, abundance mindset should mean walking away from bad situations. But red pill doesn’t stop there it primes men to expect betrayal, disrespect, or manipulation as the norm. That’s not confidence. That’s paranoia wrapped in faux stoicism. This is exactly why the redpill is important and popular. Because if you go about your life believing what reddit or the feminist parrot, then you think men are devil incarnate while women are little angels. While the reality is that both sides are pretty sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:07 AM
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Red pill was never about male empowerment it was about male control. Redpill was never about male empowerment it was about male control off their life. BTW nice work on conflating redpill and PUA Similarly, if you choose your sources and examples right, you can say that feminism is about women's supremacy, not gender equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:56 AM
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There is a RedPillWomen subreddit with 77k+ users
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:45 AM
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but in my opinion many unattractive men who "rationally" decide to throw in the towel may end up regretting their decisions down the road. I understand that, but if you've tried again and again and gotten a no at best, and verbal abuse at worst, then after a few years you're better off stopping just to save your sanity and not waste your time. I've read stories of guys who tried to approach for 10+ years, which I found insane. I've read a middle aged men story on r/dating_advice, that he tired i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:20 AM
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Depending on who you ask, the red pill means a lot of things, and sometimes the exact opposite. You can’t preach abundance while centring your entire worldview around sexual strategy and control. It is not a worldview, just a dating strategy. And the abundance mindset is the best guide when you realize you are dating a toxic or manipulative woman. So it teaches exactly what this post is about: not dating out of desperation, but only if the potential partner is worth your time. And the control is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:17 PM
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or focusing on themselves That's one of the core point of red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:22 AM
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At best you can only teach them how to cope better. romantic love isn’t everything life has to offer While this is true, none of these can match the importance of romantic love or family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:05 AM
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I’d make sure he has a fulfilling life. You can only do that between 0-18, after that he should make his own life choices, where you can't really help him. Edit: spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:18 AM
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Opinion of close ones > opinion of society They would not get it, that dating today is totally different beast that it was 15 or 20 years ago. In lots of social places it become taboo to ask out ppl, due to online anti harassment campaigns. There are less and less third places people can meet. Trying to date in your workplace is a quite risky business in recent times. And we all know what a shit show is OLD. Sure, curious why that in particular Its a giant time sink without much benefit- Totally…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:14 PM
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Men can separate their self-worth from their ability to get relationships At most, you would be kidding yourself if society still consider you a failure. Men can genuinely work on themselves Yes, but putting down social media would help more / would be more impactful Men can foster deeper platonic relationships Same as before, drop social media. Men can balance out the dating market, making dating easier lol, never. Men can pursue relationships out of interest rather than desperation If you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:05 PM
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This is truly scandalous. They should know that it is only allowed for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:28 AM
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Escorts have an hourly rate too Exactly, do you want to act like an escort, or an independent woman who looks for an LTR? aren’t available for LTRs I'm pretty sure if your pocket are deep enough some of them are down for sugar dating. Even if I want to be generous and look at the best possible light, it feels like Ticket masters convenience fee, for buying the ticket online, and printing it four yourself...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:21 AM
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What behavior and incentives you are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:01 AM
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Sure, she is not a prostitute expecting payment for a date, just an escort. Is that much better?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:00 AM
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Yes, wanting an equal partner is now bigoted. Only on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:54 PM
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Ohh, so you are proud of it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:29 PM
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Explaining something is not defending it. Since Telegram requires a phone number to login, these morons are self-doxxing themself, and I hope the authorities catch them all. However the detail in your description makes you suspicious... Have you joined to this group?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:20 PM
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I'm pretty sure most of them are "tourist", who only fantasize about it. I'm in a Skype group that discusses local prostitutes, maybe 10-15 percent are active, the rest of them are only there for the "show", probably never have an encounter with one. Oh and prostitution is legal in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:45 PM
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I agree as a cluster b person Blue Pill Woman How?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:35 PM
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Wasting your time on the internet trying to troll lonely men is a sad existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:46 AM
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Said the internet troll
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:55 PM
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The most they have to do is prove that they are not crazy. For most guys, that's perfectly enough to keep them around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:18 PM
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what am i, trying to advertise myself to get chosen? Yes that is what dating is. Sorry you just learned that. Decent looking women dont have to do shit and still get potential suitors I dont have to compensate at all, We all do because no one is perfect. We all have flaws. And we hope the positives outweigh the flaws. I know this is a bit of redpill meme at this point but most woman thinks herself as the "table", so no, they do not think they need to sell themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:50 PM
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10 dates, if you count one date a week, is just a little longer than 2 months, which is nothing. However, if there is no romantic connection by the 3-4-5 date, then someone going to get friend-zoned by the 10th date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:36 PM
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alot of long distance relationships via online get started that way These relationships quite often fail due to a lack of intimacy and closeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:23 PM
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Red pills tell you how to change yourself to get a woman. Black pill tells you to not bother to change yourself, because you wont be successful; just accept the status quo or change society. I'm pretty sure you know this, but you are still conflating the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 07:35 PM
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What's so fascinating about it? Because at a quick glance they were practicing painfully stupid things ...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:46 AM
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Even though we had fun the entirety of the first date felt like an interview centered around entitlement. Then whats thew fucking point dating them? I would either stood up half way or start giving snarky answers for her stupid and entitled questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:52 PM
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Don’t join salsa dances with the intent of meeting women there either. See above How naive are you? At least a quarter of the people went there to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:26 PM
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I think I did read that phrase from a PUA source Did you need help dating? be vulnerable You have to be very selective about who you are vulnerable with, because people will take advantage of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:54 PM
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Gandhi will be sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:23 PM
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Dating is very dynamic and has gambling mechanics inherently, so you must learn to stack the chips in your favor depending on your goals. It sounds like a line from a pick-up artist's book.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:59 PM
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Well, we have male privilege on our side so we should be fine You are talking about passport, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:52 PM
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Hypothetical scenario, hope it never happens, but Suppose your sibling dies in a car accident with their spouse, and now you are tasked with raising their two children. Let's say they are 8 and 10 years old, so not too young, but young enough to need some attention in the afternoon or evening. How would you rearrange your day to spend some time with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:56 PM
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Let's be fucking honest, raising a small child is harder than working most 9-5 jobs, and here in the EU the state pays you as long as you raise the small child (for example the first 1-2-3 years). So I don't consider someone who raises a small child a NEET because they don't fit the original idea. Same with caring for a disabled adult relative, but it may be easier or harder depending on the disability and the relative's general condition. Are you seriously saying this means that there are "way …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:34 PM
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IDK man, being insecure about an inanimate object is rather childish, and I don't want to be in an LTR with someone who is. If she recognizes that her insecurity is the problem, I'm willing to work with her to get over it, but a blanket ban just because she's insecure is probably a deal-breaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:55 PM
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It could be, if you like edgy humor... How about this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:24 PM
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Why though? Because its a fucking toy, an inanimate object. Your girl wont fall out of love just because of a toy... Yeah this is pure insecurity without any logical reason. so long as each persons' sexual needs are met I've loled. Almost always, the needs of one partner were not met. At best they got some, but they wouldn't mind more. At worst, no sexual intimacy because shit happened. One partner gets sick and their sex life tanked for a few weeks or months because of it. Or if one of them get…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:12 PM
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Yeah tbh. Maybe not throw them away, but genuinely I understand how a guy could feel intimidated or just get the ick about her using them in a relationship. Which is insecurity, and he should work on that. Just because she uses toys doesn't mean she's not satisfied or that she finds him boring in bed. (I'm not not talking about extreme stuff here, just regular toys) Not unless it's interfering with her life / their sex life. Several women confirmed in an askreddit post, that smut is the same for…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:26 PM
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BTW why do you have this in your flair? feminist woman entitled to your wallet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:58 PM
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Figure 4: NEET rates for young people who are not disabled, do not live with a disabled adult, and are not parents living with one of their children, 2022 According to this statistic, there is more NEET men than women. /u/MrNotSoFunFact
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:43 PM
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So if a women tells she is on birth control, but she is lying, should we punish for that coercion? If a guy tells a women he have a million bucks, but there is only 10k on his bank account should we punish him for coercion?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:15 PM
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You are this way, not all men. Yes, not all men, just like 60-70% of them https://ifstudies.org/blog/how-prevalent-is-pornography
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:54 PM
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Players only love you when they're playing ♫♫
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:50 PM
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Do you think asking a woman to threw away all their sex toys because you found it disgusting it makes you insecure is okay? Do you think asking a women to newer read any smut or erotic fan-fiction is okay? Also, fighting for my right to cum to videos and pics of other women feels so stupid and childish. I know you wont accept men comments here so you should read about some trans men reports, and how testostoron affected them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:37 PM
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Because the guy above you talked about ugly people? Or the whole post also argued that learning to flirt when you ugly is pretty wasted effort, when you cant really "practice" it with anyone. Edit: On a second read I realized that you talked about average guys, so idk, ignore my comment then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:01 PM
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Even social studies admit that ugly people are treated like shit or look right through them. BP: Nuh-uh, most people take this in stride. Look, I accept that decent people will treat you with respect, even if they don't find you attractive, but a good number of people are pretty vile and will either mock you or be offended by your attempts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:35 PM
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Telling someone that they are LDAR, or that they have a very small chance of finding a partner and would be better off doing anything else, are two very different things. BTW, there are several height rungs below 5'8", and each rung down is probably half the potential dating pool. When that pool isn't more than 5-10% of the opposite sex then I don't see it as a problem to tell the guy that he doesn't have much of a chance and finding a partner would be a grueling, shitty experience. There are st…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:11 PM
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“made out while drunk” is not “hooking up” bro In a committed monogamous relationship both grounds for break up. It just happens when you drink socially sometimes roflmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:31 PM
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Feminist moving the goal post once again Under affirmative consent, agreement to each sexual act must be actively communicated. That is, each person must say or do something to indicate consent and check the other is willing to proceed. https://www.unisq.edu.au/news/2024/03/the-conversation-consent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:57 PM
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Its not fine if you live in a country where enthusiastic explicit consent is required. Or anything not discussed prior is a rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:13 PM
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No, you could be a cynic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:53 PM
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Yes I know, in the current level its laughable. However I'm not sure if 10, 15 or 20 years down the road we might have something way more convincing, which could fool most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:22 AM
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Maybe they are loners because they have been treated like shit as a kid and young adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:37 PM
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Sex bots are for losers. They are losers either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:18 PM
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Twitter does not represent society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:15 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:11 PM
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It seems logic is took the backseat in your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:07 PM
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You can struggle with mental health as a millionaire or as a dirt poor person, but most of us would rather pick the first one, as your odd to find the right treatment is way better. The average men would love to have the struggles of the average women. On the other hand if you are really ugly / good looking you probably better of as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:06 PM
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I'm sorry you are right, if men dont go for full custody, they dont want to raise that kid. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:59 PM
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In Sweden the joint custody rate is 35% (or more, as this is 10 year old data). Maybe some cultures are better then others
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:50 PM
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While I agree with most of your points, Korea is an outlier due to really toxic work culture and family life. I suspect that Spain, Greece or Italy never reaches this level
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:44 PM
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They are making fun of the men who can't do better than sex bots, because such men are pathetic. If you put it like that, its perfectly rational to rather choose an AI companion instead of continue struggling in the dating market where they get ridiculed, mocked, or just generally abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:26 PM
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79% of young men have a body count of 2 or less, 96% of them have a body count of 3 or less, but the majority of them are doing casual sex... Come on man, you are smarter than this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:15 PM
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The blouse does a good job of covering her stomach and I won't make a judgement until I've seen it. On the other hand, a BMI of 29 guarantees that unless she have a very good body fat distribution, she will have a fat belly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:07 PM
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you managed to pick a photo that undermines your argument, lol And this is coming from someone who thinks most overweight (NOT obese) people looks fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:45 PM
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There's a fucking big difference between liking someone and being so infatuated with them that it hurts. In the second case a normal respectfull adult will distance themself from you. And if you can't understand that, then you are utterly incapable of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:32 PM
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I would say any friend who does not understand that its painful for you to be with them is a shitty entitled friend. Most would understand that you take a break to let things cool down. You also have a complete lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:06 PM
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there's nothing wrong with giving him some even if you're not in the mood. According to /r/DeadBedrooms this is duty sex, and feels awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:34 PM
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no one can actually say it has any proven benefit It reduces sexual assault by more than 40 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:51 PM
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NI and my culture So what ethnic culture do you have over there beyond the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:44 PM
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that’s misogynistic, that’s gender equality. For privileged women that misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:40 PM
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you're rather brave to say there is no wall though. Yes, he is brave and stunning. Someone mentioned wrinkles earlier: they are much uglier on women than on men. Some men look good/attractive even when they are older, women have to work hard not to lose their SMV. I've also seen too many women jump into relationships too quickly just to have a chance for kids and family. So maybe the wall is exaggerated, but it is there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:27 PM
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If you look up any other source they talking about 1/3 young men as sexless, this is a fluke. Also you could verify it if you check the ratios of dating/non-dating/in partnership from the Pew research
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:07 PM
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More like trauma response
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:03 PM
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Hmm, sounds like a gay man who is also ace.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:37 AM
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I dont live there, so I cant verify it, but I saw waaay to many videos on youtube interviewing young women in college campuses talking about their partner salary
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:14 AM
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One of the main reasons women don’t engage in casual sex is because of the orgasm gap. Lol. lmao even. If you want orgasm you need a stable partner, that gives a shit about you, and it was already proven
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:10 AM
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one specifies years of friendship first. Besides that she still expects men to initiate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:34 AM
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You should have known like an ice age prior you had feelings. You should probably known it after 15-30 minutes of chat, that there is potential, which is the best time to ask her out. I do not believe that you should wait weeks or months to pop this question, sure there are some women who like this way, but you would waste too much time chasing women, who are not really interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:26 AM
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In my experience if she finds you attractive, white young American women care the least about how much money you got. Right, because they dont want to start a family at that stage. If they do they had to expect some decent income from the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:09 AM
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"Tattoos" specifically needs to be flagged as an advice for a guy who wants to go from 7 to 8, Holly shit, this is a bad idea. You either do it for yourself & because want to be part of that subculture, or dont do it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:47 PM
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what if you end up with a child-free woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:42 PM
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Are you arguing with the post that got 22% upvote and 78% downvote? Way to go, lets beat that dead horse a little bit more
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:33 PM
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You should put that in your post, because without it it looks like you're trying to argue with hardline incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:28 PM
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First of I appreciate the expanded answer The rest of us are the people who understands where everyone is coming from and why they do what they do. We can't use direct verbal communication because too many men and women ruined it before us: if a girl says clearly "no sex until third date", I am more than sure that this commenter will just get up and go to the woman who is smart enough to play the games that he so hates. I'm sure some men can play and beat you at this game, which I think is much …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:23 PM
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If you treat games with contempt, then you are precisely the reason why the rest of us have to engage in them, and I'll just leave it at that. Please expand on this, what do you see as "games", who would be the gamers, and the "rest of us"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:06 PM
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Any man who truly loves and respects their life partner will think she's a fucking goddess, in part due to her flaws, bc they make her her. Ofc, y'all would never understand that, bc we aren't actually ppl to you--we are sex objects and maids and wombs. And Keeping it 💯, this just reads as a super insecure person doing their best to tear down the self esteem and standards of women bc you don't measure up as a man. is really rich, because I'm pretty sure OP - /u/LillthOfBabylon - is a woman That …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:59 PM
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Because you think that women will not abuse an easy to exploit system.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:45 PM
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You operates under the illusion that all women are good and reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:27 PM
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many young men are likely choosing casual sex or FWB situationships Great joke. In every other statistic, young Gen-z are having less and less casual sex, and fewer and fewer have a stable partner. Edit: Source
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:34 PM
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Fewer than 5% of relationships are polyamorous And probably 5% or less of them work in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:47 PM
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IDK man, I'd rather believe in the second coming of Jesus than you taking the veil off the BPers eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:24 AM
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instead of treating them like sex objects If you treat women as a platonic friend you get a platonic friend not a romantic relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:14 AM
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Both sides are doing this, and both groups are growing. I'm not sure if it's a good idea to ignore them (probably it is on a personal level, but definitely a bad idea on a social level).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:19 PM
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Although the majority of men have looks good enough The biggest lie of the century. Good enough for other women, but not for me tho. And even if that man find a partner, that relationship wouldn't be as strong and lasting as if it were an actual physical attraction. The rules for an assertively attractive partner are completely different than for an unattractive one. And if you are attractive you can have the luxury to demanding certain behavior / attitude from women. Also if I may speculate the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:12 PM
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This is a joke, right? What is the ratio of women to men in the social sciences? And a STEM autistic would stumble even there. OFC a few percent of men would have a better chance, but more women in STEM has its drawbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:18 PM
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I think you're right, but to make it work you had to have a big social circle, which most young guys don't have. So yes, all their great skills are "wasted" on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:02 PM
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I understand excluding obese women, but he also excluded overweight women, lulz (and I'm not really into fat people). Oh and he also excluded ALL of the women who is left leaning. Its pure lunacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:15 AM
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Because the majority met before OLD existed. What I think is important is what percentage of couples who have met in the last year use OLD. If I remember correctly it was around 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:24 AM
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The problem with their argument is that these women exist, but they are a tiny minority, where the majority operates by a completely different set of rules. And according to this minority, this majority does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:24 PM
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As society we want as few unwanted men as possible. At 10-15% they wont case any trouble, at 30-40% you might get a civil war. (As unwanted men are easy target for extremist groups)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:18 PM
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so people are intentionally choosing a relationship if it adds to their life. Thats why we se so many post about men not committing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:13 PM
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Even the studies admit it, lol "We shouldn’t declare the sex recession over based on just a single year of data—especially a single year that relied on new survey methods—and a fairly small sub-sample of 229 respondents" I rather trust in Pew and their 63%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:05 PM
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online dating was seen as a thing where weird people met and it actually worked to some extent. Then the normies joined in and it all went to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:02 PM
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Yes, because cold approaches are increasingly taboo and office dating is very risky after the metoo era. Apps are not designed to find a partner, so people try to find one from their circle of friends. The only problem with this is that young people have fewer and fewer friends, so the possibility of finding a partner is very limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:59 PM
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"We shouldn’t declare the sex recession over based on just a single year of data—especially a single year that relied on new survey methods—and a fairly small sub-sample of 229 respondents" Thanks, but I rather go with the Pew research, and their 63%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:49 PM
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Is it ridiculous, but I see how she have this opinion. She is decently good looking, and her social circle is full of players.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:36 PM
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Experienced <> Someone who had a "hoe" phase
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:28 PM
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It doesn't matter, they're more likely to do it. Lol of course it doesn't matter, because it wont support your argument then :P I've started digging, and I found this: "The percentage of men and women in 2017 who cheated on their partners was 20% and 13%." So it seems partner of a high earning women actually behave better than the average. Nothing at all in your link supports that, this is just your opinion. You are right, that was just a gut reaction. I do not know if they dip at the first or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:20 PM
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But we don't know how much more likely, only that 15% of these marriages are affected by cheating. I'm just guessing, the baseline here is around 10-12%, so 15% is not that big of a jump. And if women earn less, do you think men do more housework? So women might not have a problem dating/marrying men who earn less at first, but they will quickly dip at the first sign of trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:30 PM
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Ha! So he needs to grow a backbone and work on her confidence so she could chose better. I wonder which dating strategy has this in it...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:12 PM
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Hello dear neighbour
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:01 PM
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I don't think this is women only trait, for example self reported and actual penis length could differ wildly. But if you watch the divorce statistic, I think you get a better feel for it: A study conducted by the University of Chicago revealed that marriages deviating from the conventional norm of the husband being the primary earner face a higher risk of divorce, with a staggering 50% increase in the likelihood of separation Link
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:50 PM
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Most women doesnt like weak men, and showing vulnerability is like a big advertisement, that you are weak. I glad I run into this comment, because he speaks the truth https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1doymn5/one_reason_why_the_dating_market_looks_less/ladve5p/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:49 AM
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Stop lying, stop playing games, stop being dishonest. Because every time you do, you push a woman a little bit closer to just giving up. Just like ghosting it was started by women, but perfected by men. A small group of players can lie to you, because you rather pick a player then an average Joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:34 PM
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Then its still doesn't revolve around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:56 PM
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Not a single men attracted women with his vulnerability or his feeeeelings, lol. Life is not a Disney movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:49 PM
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Hyperfixation is the intense focus on one thing to the exclusion of everything else. Hyperfixation can be a negative trait when the object of the hyperfocus is something seen to be a waste of time, such as playing video games for hours on end, or staying up all night to read a book and then not being able to get out of bed in the morning. It can also have negative consequences when the hyperfixation leads to ignoring other important aspects of life, like forgetting to eat or neglecting family an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:19 PM
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its not an issue.... to you. It kinda is if you dont understand basic cues, facts, customs and you keep asking about it. It gets tiresome quite fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:56 PM
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"i prefer submissive women" If you're going to start shaming kinks, at least have the decency to put the other major one there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:45 PM
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Let me guess, you are decent looking or attractive? There isn't any social cues for below average looking men, or if there is one its signalling that he is unwanted there. Unless you are known in that group long ago, and you have a decent reputation, you wouldn't get a positive cue from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:44 AM
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Yes, yes it is. The women who respect you try to accommodate your needs. Edit: before a blue-haired freak starts aggressively asking questions: yes, you should also accommodate her needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:22 PM
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You have zero awareness how demeaning talking about agency, when the playing field is not even. you can still ask coworkers out if the feeling is mutual You dont know that untill you ask them out. Also I had to watch a half hour training about why its a bad idea to start dating a coworker (fortune top 300 company...) Yes, women are allowed to decide if they want men bothering them or not in public. Again, you dont know this until you ask them out. Its not written on their forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:05 PM
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Dude I had to watch a fucking training about it, wasted half hour of my life. And no this is not a small company, but a fortune top 300 one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:42 PM
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People who are fun, exciting, spontaneous, The problem is that these people are in the minority, and it's very hard to become a fun or exciting person.Most women are not that smart; they either have some shitty hobby like following celebrities or watching lots of social media, or they have boring hobbies like knitting or gardening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:18 PM
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For average to below average looking men, the playing field has recently become much more difficult. Dating apps penalize you unless you're good-looking. Companies don't want you to try to ask your co-workers out on a date because it could cause headaches for HR or the company. And finally many good-looking women have started complaining that hitting them is harassment and men should leave them alone. Now you still want to say the playing field is fair? And there is absolutely no way to make it …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:04 PM
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these actions improve your chances significantly. Not unless you complete the full checklist mentioned in the title. Getting in good shape slightly increases your chances, but wont be life changing. For that you need to do way more than getting in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:47 PM
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Just like in EVE online
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 03:47 PM
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They doing so much better, that they cant find similarly educated partner, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:05 AM
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It works so well that 63% of young men in the US are single, lol. Come to think of it, it's the other way around: it's increasingly taboo to start something in communal spaces or the office, and apps are unfortunately not designed to make it easier to find a partner, so you either find someone through your friends or you are SOL. Edit: English is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:01 AM
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It worked on the past, too bad it doesn't work any more
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:26 AM
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I'm not BP at all, but those test doesn't prove anything until someone dated those men and then rejected them without blocking on the app: if they still behaved nicely they passed that test, not before. Also, I'd like to see those pictures because I've seen decent looking women called 3-4 and some women rated 8, but I wouldn't have poked them with a stick... Edit: I'm not questioning female hypergamy, which causes most of their problem, just this particular test.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:41 PM
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What was that post about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:33 PM
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but 99.99% of men aren't willing to forgo PiV for any length of time. Let me guess, only fuckboys attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:27 PM
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A kid or two will overwrite all that, so you either learn to compromise, or your marriage wont be healthy. Your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:33 AM
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once it bleeds its fair game basically Had to be a troll, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:51 AM
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Its incredibly selfish to have a kid at 45+ Even 40 pushing it. Poor kid just barely an adult and have to tend a grandma and grandpa, instead of middle aged parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:49 AM
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thats bl.ck pill, no? (censoed due to auto-mod...)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:42 AM
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Then go to a regular dating sub and ask there. Or better yet go to /r/datingoverthirty then /r/datingoverforty , and you can have a better feel for ppl reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:40 PM
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Old women here still do actively coach their daughters and old men actively coach their sons on what to do in order to maintain sexual spark in their marriages/LTRs. I'm sorry, I live in eastern Europe, and this is some regional stuff, because for me its reads like fairy tale :D Oh, and then there's the alcohol part. Europeans' relationship to alcohol is totally different from Americans' relationship to alcohol. There's far fewer taboos about it for starters Yeah there is a good side, but I'm pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:34 PM
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My bff and her SO are concert junkies. I wouldn’t like that either Heck even if they're both concert junkies they might not get along due to different tastes of music.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:30 PM
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How many man you need to meet to find one attractive? 10, 100 or 1k+?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:06 PM
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Responding to a problem based on your emotions is childish and stupid. Are you telling the same to your girlfriends right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:58 PM
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Foreplay being one sided only bothers people who don't belong having sex. My boyfriend isn't walking around upset by having to spend a majority of the day teasing, flirting, and being physically affectionate with me. That's one of the good parts of our relationship. The fact so many men find it irksome tells me they have a shitty approach mentally to relationships. I think this is a very entitled view, and even if the man wanted to do that, ho doesn't have time after 50+hour work, playing and tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:48 PM
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Eastern European women are far more feminine but they also have expectations that would baffle American men and women. Can you share some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:41 PM
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married TRP pushes the idea "older teenager in the house". what the heck is that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:48 PM
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Married men have lower testosterone, married men with a small kid have even lover testosterone level, not really a recent discovery. However married muslim men that have two wives have more testosterone than men with a "single" wife
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:45 PM
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She makes about twice what I do and According to statistics, your marriage is almost 3 times likely to end in divorce compared to regular marriages where the man earn more. TIL using red pill arguments is a strawman against red pillers. Well first I'm not defined by redpill, I built my worldview from different philosophies. Also just because you found a fringe opinion which you attributed to redpill doesnt mean I would consider it redpill philosophy (or if I care enough to argue against stupid s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:41 PM
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I have. I dated almost exclusively online for quite a few years. And what was your goal and how old were you? If you not dated to find a long term partner then yes, women will overlook your social and financial status. Except that red pill definition of "dating up" is so nebulous that it would apply to every single person, but they choose to focus on women and have even claimed that a woman dating a man who is taller than her constitutes hypergamy. Dating up was defined waaay before redpill so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:28 PM
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No that I agree with OP, but if I could live in a luxurious place but alone or I could live with 2-3 guys that I vibe with, and everyone have his own room I would choose the later, no doubt. You've completely lost sight of the real world where adults like sex and sleep with other out of affection, love, or it just plain feels good. It's not the prize for being a good boy and earning enough. I think you missed how many men struggling with dating compared to 10 or 20 years ago. Or completely check…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:55 AM
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Go ahead and read some women dating preferences. If you past 30 or god forbid 40 and you still live in a rent or have roommates, you instantly dropped in their eyes as potential partner. If you dont trust me fine, just read women comments on dating or social studies. Women hate dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:39 AM
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I rater be "rotting" at home than fight for a cat lady attention. Besides OP mentioned a group of 4 guys, there is no rotting at home in that group.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:30 AM
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but height doesn’t really create any concrete advantage other than socially for the most part Yes, thats why most of the CEOs and other leaders are tall, right? Your height is half the battle, the other half is facial symmetry whit some minor details, then if you are not full on autist you will be successful in life, and if you are a bit socially competent you will have an easy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:08 AM
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Google says Whatever (Extension du domaine de la lutte) by Michel Houellebecq
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:02 AM
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ut there has to be a level of trust that requires time and genuine care that an AI cannot replicate. I'm going out on a limb here, but I suspects most red pillers will trust AI way sooner than a random woman psychologist (and not because of misogyny)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:00 AM
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Yes, at the moment it doesnt cost that much, but I'm not sure that app that provides relevant medical advice that have been certified and approved for general public use would be still cheap. But my main point is that if we get to that point that AI can replace medical professionals, then we have way bigger problems than finding the right mental health professional. At that point, AI and a robot can replace anyone doing a standard job, which means mass unemployment and a bunch of low-paying jobs…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:08 AM
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I believe if women would try approaching men more often they would be more empathetic in this situation. And if you cant easily handle rejection you should cut out cold approach and old, and be really mindful who are you trying to date as if you approach the wrong woman at the workplace or in the hobby group you going to get ostracized from that group.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:20 AM
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i'm the natural match of the kind of idiot nerds who get taken in by that bs. This begs so much questions, like how many "nerd" you met, and what do you think why they sucked into this BS? giving up and moving to greener but more competitive pastures. You did the same redpill suggested to the nerds :P
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:17 AM
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It worries me that nobody else mentioned radicalism beside you...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:00 AM
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If AI can accurately identify mental problems and suggest good solutions then you might not have enough funds to pay for it, because 50+% of the people will lose their job due to AI and automation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:58 PM
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guys sending dickpics to women without any prompting whatsoever or just being generally weird and creepy is FAR more common than you think. And you based this on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:51 PM
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You expect men who continuously getting negative feedback to be cheerful and positive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:33 PM
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I would encourage both men and women to report violent partners, because it would help later victims to fight of that psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:31 PM
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A woman gets angry and decides to be physically aggressive the man might have some scratches or a single cluster of bruises. Stop infantilise women. They can just as likely grab a weapon, or launch something at you that will does lasting damage. Also I dont like the idea to let a fight progress to "cluster of bruises", it should be stopped way before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:27 PM
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Yes, but as soon you use your strength to defend yourself, you going to jail
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:20 PM
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If you are looking for a relationship a lot of women won’t date an unemployed guy. I mean, yes, like regular bathing and brushing your teeth. It's such a basic step that it's ridiculous to list it, like trying to explain dating requirements to a 10-year-old or a man with Down's syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:43 PM
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Assuming that the prostitute was self employed escort, I do not see the apples to oranges comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:08 PM
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Yeah, just lie about your past, it hasn't bitten anyone in the ass yet, has it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:52 PM
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If people are really being honest with themselves, they'll already know that they need to work on their fitness and appearance; In my experience surprisingly high amount of men are lacking the self awareness to realize they need to work on themselves that they need to get a job; kek (are you seriously suggesting that a job that really helps finding romantic partner?) that they need to stop acting awkward Now this is excellent advice. People should just stop being awkward, start talking and flirt…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:26 PM
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"Around 44% of lesbian and 61% of bisexual women have experienced forms of rape and physical violence by an intimate partner as compared to 35% of straight women." https://dcvlp.org/domestic-violence-peaks-more-than-ever-for-the-lgbtqia-community/ sorry, the women are no saints either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:29 PM
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Not 100% red pill, but hoe_math have some excellent analysis on the dating dynamics. Check his longer videos first. By the way why are you fixated on red pill? Most of them are not really family minded, those are the tradcons (and they are not much better either :D)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:21 PM
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Explain in detail what is stopping men from congregating in private spaces. The FBI. Most male only space are created by extremists most often right wing ones. But I dont have to explain shit to you, we had a working system that ruined by feminists, just because they dont like them. They could just as easily create their own open or closed spaces, but they rather destroyed the men only spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:45 PM
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If people have to option to choose from 3 or 5 or 10, they are happy. If the need to choose from 100+ they are overwhelmed and cant really choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:32 PM
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Yes, first lets close all the male only space or have them open up for women, then lets blame man, that they dont arrange male only space any more. I'm sorry that history upset you, but this is the work of radfems, nothing else. There were lots of male only sport clubs and bars, but feminist fought against them, because omg sexist places. Funny thing that female only spaces are perfectly okay tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:24 PM
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There where shit tone of male only spaces a hundred years ago. Remind me, what happened to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:25 PM
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Social spaces are for humans, not a gender This is plain wrong. Women only and men only spaces have vastly different dynamics than coed spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:12 PM
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Hence the red pill advice to work on yourself, your carrier, because most of the time a successful career makes you more confident. However, I cannot go past your previous comment. confidence on an ugly guy is called lack of self awareness That's the top 4chaƞ edgy comment, and not something I expect from a blue pill... Combined with your other comment it sounds like good looks are a value to be proud of. I mean you can be proud of anything, but being proud of your looks is incredibly shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:58 PM
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I'm sorry I used the word pretend, but it's not really the right word here. Let me explain via a reddit post I came across in /r/dating_advice. There was this introverted guy around 34-35, he had met his first girlfriend six months earlier, and overheard a conversation between his girlfriend and her boyfriend. His girlfriend described OP as a boring guy when his girlfriend asked about him because his previous partners were nothing like OP. The guy asked his girlfriend to leave that night and lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:39 PM
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You are conflating useless and ugly, which reflects badly on you if you do it unconsciously, and reflects very badly on you if you do it on purpose. Or you are useless and confident yourself. Personal attack is always the best to win an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:00 AM
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Sometimes people change, sometimes people pretend that they changed, which will masks the earlier life style difference that wouldn't work with the current partner, however the N count stays as a reminder of that difference. Now if this is a valid reason to be skeptical, that the relationship won't last I dont know, but this is the source of high n count avoidance. BTW there is a big difference between high n count and high n count, and why you had that high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:41 PM
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confidence on an ugly guy is called lack of self awareness "Just confidence" looks foolish on somebody who can't back it up with anything of value You sounds like the women from the comic ("Hello, HR department?")
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:51 PM
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You will bond with people way easier if you have similar life experiences. Thats why high age gap, education gap, or large general life style difference is rare. Why should a high n count be an exception?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:49 PM
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Isn't that misinterpreted data? In the free version you cant search by height, so tall women have to pay the subscription fee to find equally tall partner, so only a small proportion of women are looking for tall men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:00 PM
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If the "community" are regulars at a bar, then maybe. But if you join a hobby group just to date you making that group worse for everyone else and you wont make any friends either. People have always met through community. Yes, but we won't be living in the 90's or 00's anymore, most people meet on OLD and all other spaces are dwindling. Just look up a statistic about how many people find a partner at work, it has completely dropped off along with all other IRL meeting places besides bars. And I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:37 PM
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An awkward ugly kid will be an awkward ugly kid in a community too. oining such a community just to find a date is even dumber than bothering randoms on the street. BTW I'm not saying that joining a community is a bad idea, but if your goal is to find a date, then it wont really help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:05 PM
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It's no philosophy, it's our scientific reality I'm sorry, but that's just bullshit. By all measurable data you will be healthier, happier and more successful in a relationship. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vSQjk9jKarg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:31 PM
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Poor dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:11 AM
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the FBI did that, not feminists Are you sure? I googled it several times, but I did not see FBI webpage listing incels as hate group. SPLC (Southern Poverty Law Center) designated them as hate group, but they also designated MRA's as a hate group so idk. But I'm pretty sure that the r/incelswithouthate was not banned by the FBI
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:24 PM
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shaming male virgins is wrong and both men and women need to stop That ship sailed away with incels, and designating them as a hate group
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:41 PM
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How do you feel, when other people are "victim" of schadenfreude? I'm asking this because its not really a joy, but something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:33 PM
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Hehh, how much criticism I got for that. :D It's really stupid. You see a pretty face, maybe some clothes that indicate some level of status and style, nothing else. She might be a psychopath, she might have all the qualities you hate in women. Quite possibly you have 0 common interests. It's like you're trying to get rich buying scratch-off lottery tickets. It's a waste of time...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:40 AM
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Watch this I'm sure you will feel attraction to other traits as well but if you can think it trough and deduct what would be a good match for you, you are probably way more self aware than an average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:24 AM
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The idea is to treat people as you want to be treated and if you offend them, apologize and make peace. I'm sorry, but this is not just bad dating advice but bad life advice as well. Its only works if you are surrounded by nice, decent people. But most people are selfish asshole, or just plain dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:47 AM
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When I started looking for my "person" as a young adult one of the things that made me have the most comfort with my now-husband was that he let his emotions out in reasonable, timely (before they overflowed), controlled, but still open and vulnerable ways. Seeing him be upset but still in control of himself was incredibly comforting. Seeing that he could express his feelings to me without losing control was confirmation that I was making a safe choice. This is nice, but this level of self aware…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:39 AM
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A couple of years ago I came to the realization that I’ve never experienced joy. My experience of happiness is more like a feeling of relief and contentment, or a lack of negative feeling. It’s more defined by what’s absent rather than what’s present. What do you experience when you see schadenfreude?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:33 AM
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You are absolutely right, but some bad situation could change a person drastically. WARNING, The next example will be a bit morbid, sorry. Let say you are an optimistic, cheerful person who is a pleasure to be with. Until you get raped. Then you become moody, sometimes suicidal, you lose al your confidence and self worth. After several years of therapy you manage to dig yourself out of the pit, and start to feel okay, but you are never be your old self. So from these 3 "person", which one is the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:37 PM
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In a vacuum, yes, they don't change much. But life happens, they lose important relatives, they get sick, or they just have a bunch of kids and suddenly they're overwhelmed. You don't really get to know a person until you see how they handle a crisis, how they handle loss or loss of privilege and easy living. And I think most people won't see how their partner reacts to these negative events in the few years they're dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:07 PM
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That's way too realistic for a blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:41 AM
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The fact that some people fall out of love so easily seemingly indicates a personal failing compared to those people who don't. I think this is perfectly valid if they were married less than 5 yrs. However after 10 years its really a crap-shot, people change, and maybe one partner did everything to make it work while the other become distant / uninterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:09 AM
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Until they eat your face. Dewey knows more about it than I do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:11 PM
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Do you also have noscript?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:04 PM
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After reading several stories about women visiting multiple doctors until they find one who correctly diagnose endometriosis, I think its high time to get some second opinion. Tipped: is it tipped backwards instead of forward? Google gave me this: Some women with a retroverted uterus experience no symptoms. That means you may be unaware of the condition. If you do experience symptoms, they may include: pain in your vagina or lower back during sexual intercourse. Is this matching with your experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:56 PM
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Holly shit you have this painful experience and you never visited the doctor to short it out? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:38 PM
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You might forgot, that this was the original starting point of the tread I have an issue with the idea of settling for women in my 30’s that treated me like I was invisible in my early twenties. My assumption that these guys wanted something serious, but only managed to achieve FWBs at best or not even that. Then instead of wasting their time in dating their focused their life, on their carrier and self improvement and building up healthy habits. Now these women when they start to settle they ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:59 PM
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Taicho give you a very good reply, so this is just an addition to that: We see posts regularly from mid 30 women with a strict time table so they can be pregnant in time. Or posts from women in their late 30's, when they give ONE year to the guy to decide if they want kids or not. Kinda insane, with a new partner you want to live a little, have fun, traveling the world. Also you want to know them on a deeper level before you commit to marriage or kids. This take time, 3-4 years should be a minim…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:40 AM
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Lot of ex blue piller guys started out this like this, then the "sweet" women cheated on them, lied to them, turned sour and tried to take everything from them in the divorce court. Then they woke up to reality, that you are playing with fire, and marriage at best a 50-50% crap shot which could end up really badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:05 AM
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AI could rise and end the issue. We have no idea how AI will turn our society to upside down, but anything less is not true AI just a bit better machine learning
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:49 AM
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Sorry, ma'am I've misunderstood your previous comment; you are talking from the young escorts point of view. While what you are saying generally are true, what I mentioned is a self report in an escort only forum, so I doubt they are trying to oversell this in that closed forum. Link to the post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:45 PM
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I believe you, but for the average Joe or Jane, any kind of paid sex work is a big no-no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:36 PM
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EDIT: deleted it, because I misunderstood Rorschach By the way, you talk funny, as if you were an escort from a small English town... Not that I'd meet someone like that, it just feels like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:12 PM
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Yep, and I dont know where I read this, but if you cant find a partner by 25, its most likely you wont find one till you are 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:52 PM
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Its confirmation bias. You either attracting or attracted to the same group of women, where this observation can be true. But to extend this to all women is... lets just say not a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:12 PM
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I read a post from a sex worker asking about others if they experienced orgasm on the job. The majority response was no, but when they did, it was an older guy who know what he is doing and he was focused on it, and made sure she came.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:08 PM
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Not to downplay the impact, but I said there are PLENTY of options, That might be not that plenty if she want something serious long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:39 AM
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Sure, I can be this negative too: As rare as a decent and honest women without any red flag? BTW a week or two ago read about a post from 35 or 37 year old guy; he gave up dating around 30, stopped dressing fashionable, stopped going out without his tight friend group, and stopped being nice with people. He was approached by two different women within a couple of months recently so he wondered what changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:34 AM
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How much was the escort? sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:22 AM
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The problem with escort that you need to lie about them, which is not a good start... If she finds out you most likely will lose the relationship. Also an escort will give you 0 dating or relationship skill, which is as important as sex. Maybe a discrete SB is a better option, but you still need to skirt the truth if you get asked about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:17 AM
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For you, sure, but not for all of the young girls. Also if he is inexperienced in sex but he is social, have a developed social circle, know what to want from life, have a good carrier, he can easily beat the young guys with these qualities as most of them are just living and enjoying life without any aim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:13 AM
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26 is not that old
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:52 AM
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Its fairly common if you are really good looking or really charismatic. For the average guys it happen maybe 1-2 or half dozen times / in their life time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:43 AM
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What would really shock you is that there are a lot of women who don't mind this if the right guy does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:39 AM
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So you built a straw men hypothetical situation in your mind, and you started to beat criticizing it. Excellent argument comrade!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:50 PM
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If it meant 2nd wave feminism then its less cringe than your thought. Lots of men was on board with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:37 AM
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or nagging, or bribing, or guilting. You are bringing this up in the second time; I dont envy you if this is your sex life, its very unattractive (unless you have some humiliation kink :P). But the closed mindedness is equally unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:00 AM
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Sooo, lots of spicy stuff like anal is only a kink and not a fetish, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:05 PM
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This one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:55 PM
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When you read about 36-38yr old women just finding a boyfriend and giving the an ultimatum of 1 year to think it trough and start trying for kids... The discussion can be quite spicy :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:52 PM
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I hate fetishes and I have a couple methods of testing for fetishes early on, and I move on instantly so they can find someone who will indulge them. Wut? Every one of them? Sex is only for procreation in a dark room for you or what? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:44 PM
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Are you cant think any other reason, or your agenda wont let you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:40 PM
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It may blow your mind, but some people want it to hurt... and it's not always men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:40 PM
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Dont worry, its the exactly same for men. Nobody wants to be around you when you are ugly. You can at least blend in if you are average looking. However the 0 libido would be still the bigger issue, as you should only date ACE men, which is only 1,7% of the population... I mean on OLD you might get 1-2 matches from ACE men, and probably 100-200 from guys who did not bother to read your bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:38 PM
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You are probably a bit younger than me, it was on reddit 8 years ago. I do not link it, search for My wife cries at absolutely anything. I mean, ANYTHING. So i started writing the reasons down because reasons. because automod is waaay to happy removing my comments with links. There is surprisingly no negative comment beside one acknowledging she is "emotionally unstable"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:50 PM
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There was, reddit nuked it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:05 PM
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Well, they are safe then. I wish them long, happy and sexless marriage! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:03 PM
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Yep, I saw HR sending out training videos asking ppl to dont hook up, because if there is a fight even outside of work they had to open a sexual harassment investigation... Which is a shame, because at work you can really see who can pull their weight, who is the company gossip girl, who is decent and down to earth and who is a stuck up asshole. Asking out someone who you really know is way safer comparing to asking out randoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:12 PM
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Sorry, it was a bit sarcastic. But at the moment they are a unicorn couple, and if it turned out that their uniqueness is really just an easily treatable illness, it would be a bit funny. Not for them tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 04:17 PM
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Have you seen any recent statistic where people meet? Work is dropped to 10 from 25%. Truth have to be told that 25% was at the 80's, and around 2k it dropped below 15%, so it was not the recent metoo movement, it started earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 04:01 PM
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'm glad men and women are having kids later and later in life. They are also likely to stay together. Do you have a study for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:53 PM
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Do you think if you would be pretty with the same 0 libido it would be better?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:11 PM
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Would be funny if one them have a health issue which can be fixed with some medication / hormone supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:09 PM
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he doesn't know men are willing to date down about 40 iq points ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:42 PM
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Are you aware the swans can be gay meme? That woman got zero flack for her unregulated emotion, the reaction was quite the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:33 PM
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How many of them are in an unhappy / unfulfilling relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:49 PM
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I did. Full time work usually takes 8-9hrs + 1-2hrs commuting. Doing all the chores around the house is 3-4-5hrs work depending the house size, how many kids you have or how clean freak you are. Probably much more if you are a clean freak but its on you then, dont marry someone who is not on the same page, or dont expect them to submit to your standard. The working party ofc should help with chores, but they shouldn't be expected to do more than 10-20% and they should be able to pick freely what…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:17 PM
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And no, just because he has a job doesn't mean he is exempted from cleaning, washing dishes, taking care of the children, especially if she works as well. Uhh if one party works full time and the other does not have a part-time job even AND the kids are old enough to be in a school most of the day, than the party who stays at home is better clean up the house and cook, or they are just a mooch, if they expecting split chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:15 AM
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Almost no one enjoys cleaning, The trick is there should be visible difference in the before and after stages. If the room looks exactly the same after cleaning, you are vacuuming too often
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:51 AM
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I do not subscribe that level of generalization Glove978 mentioned, but it is true that for lots of women its is not an instant attraction, and they do not really bond till sex. This behavior is only natural for women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:55 PM
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At this point if you haven't interacted with him in years, you probably in love with an idea not an actual person. You should seek help, because this is not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:45 PM
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Its not, unless you tell this to your romantic partner. Then its a massive one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:11 PM
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Right, but this corner of the internet is full of post saying for both men ad women to do not settle, find your perfect match
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:11 PM
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The 60/40 thing is easily proven to be unrepeatable Are you talking about the Pew research survey? Yes, they are a bunch of hacks, just ignore their result lol the 80/20 thing only applies to dating apps You conveniently ignore that in the past 10-15 years all kind of IRL dating option shrunk considerably while OLD is the preferable dating method for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:39 AM
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Sure, when its a low number who cares, like 5-15%. But when you get 30%+ which is steadily growing then it might worth to investigate. Also there is a good chance that these men who permanently dropped off the dating market will find their place in an extremist group... Now that will be fun for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:18 PM
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You probably live in a bubble where men socializing enough that they manage to handle it. But yes, if you lose your friend group because you dont put effort keeping it up, or you just move to a new city for work then you can end up isolated to a level where its really hard to get new friends as you get older. And losing your social circle is a good way to fail in dating too, as its pretty much a "social game".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:27 PM
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Yes but the point that most men dont want to be single, but the dating marked is so fucked, that they rather work on themself or their hobbies instead of wasting their energy on dating. Most men over 30 I know are in a relationship. Yes, that's true, but the number is steadily falling. As gen Z gets older I suspect single men will raise to half or close to half in the 30-39 age range too. Edit: lol, I just take a look at the dating subreddit and the top post is "Single guys, are you staying sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:54 PM
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Well if you believe in the statistic, pretty big part of young guys give up on dating, and women also dating less
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:53 PM
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Yeah if you dont think about it much I could get the giggle, but if you dig a bit deeper... Well lets hope your old man didn't ponder it too much because the conclusion would be very off putting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:39 PM
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I’m not spelling out basic shit for some retard who can’t read between the lines. I was with you so far, but if you picked him, then you deserve what you got. Who is the retard now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:06 PM
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The skit is funny, but if you think you can attack millennial or younger men with this behavior, then you are way off base. Some traditional ment still act like this way, but you are not looking for traditional men, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:59 PM
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What was your dad response? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:52 PM
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A kind gesture if he have to wake up early anyway. If not then that woman is spoiled, and if you suggest similar treatment for a BF you will get a lot of shit from women, that they are not a bang maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:49 PM
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Got to lay the groundwork though, Teach us maestro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:42 PM
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I’m 23f and dated a 31 y/o when I was 20. I could never imagine dating a man like that now, Right, and what guarantee is there that if you date a guy in the same age range (20-22) that you won't outgrow him now, or 3-4 years later? Nothing, right? Then you might want to reconsider your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:38 PM
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Hey man, this was not directed to you, but to /u/ArtifactFan65, as he argued there is nothing problematic with this big age difference. Its pretty obvious that you can bond easier with someone who experienced similar cultural events or trends, compared to someone who grow up in a different era. But of course if you feel you found the best partner you can, then go for it. I had a colleague who was maybe 32-33 when he started to date a 18yr old, reddit would crucify him as a creep, but he was at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:22 PM
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The odd that they will be divorced is double at this age difference compared to marrying someone of a similar age
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:10 PM
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Yes. Also it was written in the 70's, that was a quite different time. But you only need to take one look in the academic achievements of women to know its no longer a valid statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:39 PM
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Did you not see the AND? Fuck me, I jumped right over it But I still think that most IRL gathering was replaced by Internet based stuff fully, and the examples you listed are the tiny minority and the exception, not the rule. Also what you describes is a bit hipster-is extrovert life style not suited for the majority of the people. The sport club you mentioned only works if the fan base is a small group OR you wouldn't make real friends there if you not interact with them IRL week after week. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:20 PM
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I'm sorry are you trying to sell discord servers as a replacement for IRL gathering with friends? What would be the next one, lets use OF if you cant find romantic partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:31 PM
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This explanation only works while this group relatively low. When its more than 30%, or dare I say 50%+ then you sound like an elitist. The internet has killed a shit tonne of offline activities where you could make new friends
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:25 PM
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I did. Do you understand the difference between people and men? Because the article talking about 42% of user base, it does not specify how much of them are men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:10 PM
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fake news
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:07 AM
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It’s very strange that men who have a strong sense of rules and protocol defend firebrands and shitstirrers who infiltrate college campuses Is this the modern version of communist scare or what? :D I realize many TRP men are also conservative and anti-college He is as far as anti-college or anti-education as you can get, but thanks for confirming your biases
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:46 PM
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This guy does not sound like an angry asshole, still got escorted out of campus
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:50 PM
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We shouldn’t declare the sex recession over based on just a single year of data—especially a single year that relied on new survey methods—and a fairly small sub-sample of 229 respondents. Edit: I would also like to see the exact questions: does sex with sex workers count or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:15 AM
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Even if that’s true, who cares? If you want to live in that society you should. Its better if people give a damn about each other or you get shit like this. The aimless single man is a hotbed for all radical groups. I hope I don't have to go into why this is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:39 AM
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Conversely if one is known to be honest, kind, empathetic and the like, it’s far more beneficial. Empathetic and kind people are taken advantage of and then laughed at. Honesty does not work well in the current society, which operates with many white lies Edit: You should be only honest with your closest lifelong friends. Maybe with your parents if they are loving and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:19 AM
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