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| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI demand a ceasefire in the Gaza strip. Upvote this comment if you agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"Yeah I don't doubt it. I believe you. Just give credit where it's due. Most of us (who aren't maladapted) do try to be accommodating and express our sexuality and attraction in the most respectful way possible. Every girl I've been in genuine relationship with - I've wanted to fuck them the second I saw them. Before I knew any of them that well, I would go to sleep fantasizing about all the ways I'd have them. Girls don't like hearing that but idgaf. That's just part of being a guy. It doesn't p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"Do you talk to her and see if you do like her as a person? Or do you pretend to like her even if you don't just to get to vagina. If you can't tell the difference that might be a you problem. This was your example of objectification. I'm saying there's a lot of mind reading going on whenever women accuse men of objectifying someone. The point I most took issue with is the idea that objectification is occurring and I might be too ignorant to know what it looks like. Again, not trying to invalidat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 06:20 PM |
| 6 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"You can't build a relationship on a fetish. Watch me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"Men don't decide if something is objectifying. Well it's not even a gender specific thing - it's just whoever is the object of sexual attraction gets to decide if objectification is occurring. I'm not saying women are wrong to feel how they feel about what's happening, I'm just saying objectification is an opinion not some observable fact. Because I've been on the receiving end of this - women I've been in relationships with act like they can read my mind and get mad when I can't read theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:54 PM |
| 15 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"First time hearing about the surgical masks, interesting. And yeah I know about the literal definition of fetish. I'm arguing against its common usage of women using it as a means to shame and discourage men. Race is a sexual feature. So is age and height and anything else you can think of on your body. We only make a distinction between fetishization and sexualization is because women want to let everybody know what's acceptable for us to be attracted to and what contexts to do it in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:46 PM |
| 9 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"Give a non-ambiguous definition of sexual objectification and then give the definition of sexualization. It's the same. The only reason we've accepted that it might be different is because women control the narrative on this topic by framing their perception of sex as being a higher order than men. Everytime us m*n dare glance at someone hot we should acknowledge that they probably have a great personality so we don't commit the sin of objectification. It's so autistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:38 PM |
| 29 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"You're getting to the point he wants to arrive at. Fetishes don't mean anything important - at least in the way women usually describe men as having them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:29 PM |
| 6 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"Ok but notice how fetishize doesn't mean anything then. Guys who will commit vs who won't will both fetishize you. Fetishization just means sexualization. It can be good or bad depending on the context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"it's always purely sexual. Like I want you for sex but I wouldn't pursue you for anything other than that. You don't think men would see it as a positive to commit to someone who sates their fetishes? Idk about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:15 PM |
| 8 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"I prefer to view women as sex pokemons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"Objectification as a concept is overused. Most instances of sexualization of another person is objectification. Who cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:06 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's flaming coochies. If you're taking him seriously then idk what to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 08:31 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBitch I've been here. And if your flair is true then I have someone I want you to talk to. u/Real_Line_8074 don't be shy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 07:09 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm a little confused. You're saying virgin men have tried pressuring you into having sex with them as soon as possible? The guys on PPD struggle to even get a single date let alone be in the position to pressure a woman to give it up to them. The dudes you're complaining about are not the same dudes who are on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 07:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm gonna guess you're either Arab, Indian, or Southeast Asian. I have coworker and one friend who are going that route. I think it's really cool. Most Americans don't know this but marriages in our great grandparents generation followed a loosely similar model. The families are heavily involved in the process and it's highly dependent on social capital within the community. I used to be a member of a Baptist church that did something similar. I'm not gonna gaslight you into accepting whatever a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:57 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen they flip the ipad around I always leave them a tip. I don't want the barista to think I'm poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:24 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo offense but what makes you think even a former slut would want you? If it's this difficult for you to bag a girl at your age what will magically change once you're established with a nice job. You remind me a lot of the guys I went to college with. Money or a career won't make women chase you so don't put it off until you're settled. You're the one who has to chase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:23 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat kinda stops being as common after college and your early 20s. Most people don't have the free time to multitask like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:16 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat is like, a normal event when I lived in new york. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 03:27 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI like your flair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 05:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadmen respect andrew tate As they should | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 05:27 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNon STEM and non-medical while also being not poor? I suggest going the analyst route. What do they analyze and what do they do exactly? Great question, they'll get back to you on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 04:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think they dodge accountability, I think a lot of them are maladapted and immature to the point that they claim it and are proud of the fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 04:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen are so vague when they talk about being objectified or fetishized. No one gives a fuck if an asian girl only dates white guys but when it's a white guy only dating asian girls it's automatically yellow fever. Also reminds me of a tiktok I saw where an asian girl said she felt insecure because her boyfriend only dated white girls before her and she thinks that's his type. Women don't like being fetishized but they obviously do just a little bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 03:58 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLillith let's forget all this gender war nonsense. When are you letting me take you to dinner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 04:51 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow. Unless their girlfriends were the ones who asked them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 03:50 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe best sign that someone doesn't have anything important in their life is how much they emphasize their association with groups or people that have nothing to do with them. If you're on the, "men built the modern world" line of thinking but you yourself are unemployed - not a great look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 03:39 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy female friend said to me, "When I was actively looking for a guy, I couldn't find anybody. But when I stopped looking, [bf's name] came into my life. I think you should stop looking and let it happen naturally." This is what we mean when we say women have no clue what they're talking about with dating 😑 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 03:31 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrue. Whenever I see the most beautiful woman to walk the Earth serving me at a drive thru. Baby please. I can take you away from all this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 03:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat don't you understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 03:06 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol the last girl I asked out, it was love at first sight after she informed me I accidentally cut the line for flu shots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Who is more successful in dating - the "Pick Me" girl? Or the S.I.M.P.?Every pickme girl I've met in real life is physically unattractive. So I think it's a strategy to make up for a women's looks and nothing on Earth can make up for a woman's looks in dating. So in that sense I think simps may be more successful because at least there are good looking simps, and some of those traits translate positively like being viewed as a provider or being devoted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Who is more successful in dating - the "Pick Me" girl? Or the S.I.M.P.?Thanks for at least reading the question as who's more successful rather than who gets more matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other?Rough sex gets better in my opinion if she doesn't have human rights 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 02:50 PM |
| 0 | Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other?It’s gotten hard the last seven years. What specifically in the past 7 years if you don't mind me asking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other?7 in 10 Democrats would not consider being in a relationship with a Trump voter. For me personally, I wouldn't mind a relationship with a conservative woman as long as she wasn't dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 02:47 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt wouldn't be ideal getting pregnant at that age but if you're both stable mentally and financially I could see it working out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 06:31 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 06:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCongrats, you applying to any target schools? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?I have brown eyes and a baby face. No dimples unfortunately but I'm sure I can still be the man of your dreams 😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 05:05 AM |
| 4 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?This is PPD after all. At the end of the day it's my generalizations vs your personal anecdotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?Your competition analogy doesn't hold up. It's like saying you're not actually competing with other applicants for a job, you're competing with an employer's needs and expectations. We're not explicitly being compared and contrasted with other women's options but the market forces of dating has material impacts on our lives and lived experiences nonetheless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?I don't think you're arguing in good faith when the other guy says dating for men can be difficult and has its unique challenges and all you responded with is, paraphrasing here "men do this to themselves and its fully under men's control". You're adding to men's sentiments that their difficulties are often dismissed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 04:47 AM |
| 6 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?The majority of women rate average men as unattractive. What falls on deaf ears is that rejection is the default for most dudes. It's annoying when women say it's not that bad when they've taken the passive role for most of their dating history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?Well put. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 04:34 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIronic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 04:05 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFemale Social Matrix, all the social maneuvering you see in female groups. It's usually talked about on this sub as it relates to social climbing or expectation to conform. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 02:06 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI started seriously dating again after a weird couple of years and I also have a female best friend now. FSM is such a funny word to me but it's def a real thing. Getting re-acclimated to girl world and how things work has given me motivation to get back on ppd and talk about my experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 02:00 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadit's | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 02:08 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo way you said that. It might be a warehouse store but it's not an excuse for unprofessionalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 02:08 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe first two are thirsted over by reddit women. The last one not so much at least in his current state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 02:27 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen can't resist me. Literally. The threat of violence is too great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 02:26 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe never talked about unattractive people. They're invisible so who knows what they're up to. As for attractive people, we place all of our emphasis on them. That's why I thought it was important to bring up confirmation bias and post hoc fallacy. We give rationalizations for why attractive people are the way that they are without ever admitting we already thought that about them beforehand. You will never be an accurate judge of their character because it's inextricably linked to their looks. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen decide if a man's issues are big enough to stop him from dating, not men. Same with you, you should've dumped your now husband once you knew he was an alcoholic relying on your free lunches. I never believed that it's a woman's responsibility to repair a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf anyone wants to see a good example the of halo effect of beauty and attractiveness, here you go: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/17tjqz2/comment/k8ynnvk/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 Multiple users on the thread give an explanation on why attractive people are nicer and more honest. The tenets of the halo effect is that without any evidence, you're already primed to believe that an attractive person is more kind, honest, and competent. Confirmation bias: Attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:09 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadty! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 04:11 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI know this doesn't pertain exactly to what you're saying but Kim and Ron from Kim Possible had the most obvious dom/sub relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 04:10 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've been more active in the dating scene recently. The past two girls I went out with both drive brand new Toyota Tacomas. Idk what this means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 12:55 AM |
| 3 | If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virginCan you link who it was and how it was first used. I think that'd be an interesting read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 02:25 PM |
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