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As much as I don't like this pickup term you really do have to be "self-amused". All of your humour should solely be for the entertainment of yourself.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:36 AM
-1

If it makes you feel any better "dating" doesn't even exist in the bible thus you can't cheat on a girl that's not your wife.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:30 AM
2

I'm honestly the opposite. With ugly girls I don't even put forth effort to pass shit tests or neg.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:28 AM
2

You already know the answer. Demote to plate.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 07:45 PM
0

Don't need to read that wall of text. The answer is "no". Most girls I've fucked in my life have been within hours of meeting them.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 02:52 AM
1

It's the opposite in fact. The more dangerous you look the less people will fucked with you. If you're tall, lift, and take a martial art (and other people know you take a martial art) they will be far less inclined to fuck with you. If people can sense that it's an act though and you're not that dangerous they will fuck with you.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 02:50 AM
1

Rampant sluts.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:47 AM
3

Women are definitely more perverted (not to be confused with more sexual) than men. Most girls are into anal beads and rape fantasies. Men just need a hot body and pretty face.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:10 AM
6

the hottest girls I come across usually get cold feet on the date and cancel “I just didn’t want to be another one night stand” Actions not words, my friend. They're not interested. Keeping lifting and improving.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:03 AM
2

Yes, girls do not need to know you before meeting up. If a girl ever tells you this just unmatch before you waste any more time.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 11:59 PM
2

I can almost tell instantly when someone was raised without any male figures in their life. In men they're weak and effeminate. In women they're sluts.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:20 PM
19

OP already knows the answer.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:18 PM
1

You already know the answer.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:18 PM
6

Yeah, well assuming OP is sexy as fuck this is a more efficient method.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 04:51 AM
13

If you're going out and approaching every girl you find attractive, even if you're higher SMV, your success rate is going to be very low. However, if you're selectively approaching girls you see in your day-to-day that are giving you massive IOI's you're going to have a decent success rate. These are the girls that are "fuck yes" about you. They can't stop staring, preening themselves, giving you massive IOI's like doing cheerleader kicks in a Booster Juice to get your attention (this actually h…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 04:32 AM
3

Yes. They wanted the highest status male and muscle is a status symbol.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 11:41 PM
1

That was meant for Chad, not you.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 11:17 PM
1

Listen to your gut.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 11:16 PM
1

These posts never cease to amaze me. "Is this girl LTR material? She has a high body count and a history of drug abuse." C'mon, mang.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:52 AM
2

There are no 10's, anything above a 7-8 and the rating system becomes negligible. Pussy is pussy. This idea that there are 10's out there is what primarily leads men to developing Oneitis. They all shit and smell bad occasionally.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:15 PM
2

There's no such thing as an 'incel'. I have a friend who was literally blown up in Iraq and just had a new girlfriend last time I saw him. Half his body is burned but he still lifts and is on his purpose. Whatever excuse you think you may have is invalid.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:04 AM
1

The most we can hope for in this generation is to be prepared for when the apocalypse hits and society collapses, let alone marriage, kids, the happy ever after.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 03:59 AM
4

Oneitis is rooted in more than just which girl is the most attractive. It's rooted in idealism. If none of the girls you were fucking were your ideal in your head than you wouldn't give a fuck about them. However, it sounds like you have created an ideal in your head for this one girl.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:35 AM
16

Another guy said it, they're not more confident. They're more masculine. Ugly girls learn to be more overt (masculine) since they're not approached very often.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:34 AM
111

Cheat code: you can break up with a girl at literally any moment.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:32 AM
4

I stopped watching porn for few months now It takes a long time for your brain to reset after quitting porn. When I quit porn years ago it took me literally 4-5 months before my libido returned.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:30 AM
22

When you have 3-4 other plates spinning you literally won't be capable of caring. This is why spinning plates is so important to men because you won't be able to develop the kind of attachment where you'll care what she does when she's not with you.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:26 AM
11

The most successful relationships are when you're 1-2 points in SMV above her. Combine that with operant conditioning (e.g. reward her only when she does something you like) and the "you're the prize mentality" and you're good to go.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:26 AM
1

Infantry. Men can go their entire lives without jerking off. I haven't jerked off in a year and a half, only fucked girls. You've been socially conditioned to believe beating your meat is a necessity.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:46 PM
1

Demote to plate.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:26 PM
1

Demote to plate.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:26 PM
5

Why would you do that Because jerking off isn't the necessity most guys think it is - when you're in survival mode at no point does your brain tell you "bro, we gotta jerk off or everything is going to stop working". Jerking off is usually the byproduct of having too much free time and a porn addiction.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 12:25 PM
13

Girls are a skill like anything in life. Every date you go on you gain experience. You're likely going to fuck up but that's a good thing. At this stage you should be going on as many dates as possible with as many girls as you can.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:25 AM
8

jack off then go to the date don’t try to make any physical moves Do not listen to either of these points.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:23 AM
3

My best plate will never initiate contact with me but will 100% meet up and fuck me every time I text her, strictly logistics. Some girls just know their role.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:20 AM
1

I think her notch count is over 30 or 40 possibly even higher (60+) Fuck dude these posts make me laugh sometimes. "Is this girl LTR material? She has a notch count of over 50" *followed by every red flag in the book*.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:15 AM
24

If your gut is telling you she's not cheating then she's probably not cheating. Every guy that comes on here saying he has a gut feeling his girlfriend is cheating, she's almost certainly cheating.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:14 AM
3

Canadian here. Our country is fucked. Already planning to get totally off the grid in 10-20 years.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:07 AM
1

You can't help people like that.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:04 AM
3

It’s just not touching your dick for a month messed things up. Nah, this is bullshit. I've been on military training where I haven't jerked off for 3 months. It made no difference. Also you're fine. If you're really worried just send her $40 for morning after pill.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:03 AM
1

Here's the thing. If a girl ever flakes on you or turns down your invite without suggesting another time you should basically delete her number. See the Law of Fuck Yes or No.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:59 AM
8

I've been with 30-40 girls, nutting in most with a condom, and still clean with no kids. The combination of birth control (most girls are on it) and a condom is awfully close to 100%. You should still get in the practice of pulling out and getting her to suck your dick when you're going to nut (although some girls like getting nutted on their chest or back).
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:55 AM
44

Listen to what your gut is telling you, it's always right.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:52 AM
4

Women are inherently weaker than men thus count on men for survival. Any sign of weakness and they will search for a stronger male. I hate to use a movie as an example but Blue Valentine illustrates this very well. In the beginning of the movie their dog dies. The man sits down and shamelessly weeps. You can tell that the wife is disgusted in him. She would much rather him put on a strong face and tell her and their child that everything is alright and the dog is in heaven. As a man you have to …
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:44 AM
5

Girls are inherently solipsistic. This means that what they find attractive is what they believe we find attractive. This is why if a girl is attracted to you she will usually try to sell herself to you on the things she finds attractive (career, muscle, etc) meanwhile they don't realize we don't give a fuck about those things.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:37 AM
6

70% of this sub will never grasp this Yup, no idea how I got downvoted so heavily here. Society is only ever 24 hours away from total barbarism. If that were ever to happen you're going to have to kill or be killed.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:22 PM
1

how to defend yourself with words/phsychology This is fucking soft. In any real SHTF situation this is not going to fly. Either he's going to kill you or you're going to kill him.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:43 AM
18

A lot of guys already said it but the best thing to do is make yourself a deterrent from people fucking with you. Lift weights and take BJJ. Most guys in my friend circle typically never fuck with me because I'm 195lbs and take BJJ (they don't). They know I would tear them up.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:32 PM
11

There you go. You're putting your priorities first. This will help reinforce the "you're the prize" mentality as well as create some anxiety in her. This seems counterintuitive to flake/ghost girls but it will pay off in the long run.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:15 AM
8

Text her and tell her something came up and you're not going to make it tomorrow. Then reschedule to 4-5 days from now. This will let her know that it's of no urgency that you see her. She will understand through the sub-communication that she is a low priority for you.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:05 AM
9

said she hopes she gets off work on time She's going to flake on you, bro. If you want a pro tip, preemptively flake on her. Girls know that only guys who already have a steady access to pussy (preselected) can afford to flake on dates. This alone will cause her to reevaluate your SMV.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 04:49 AM
1

Older men are inherently attractive to women along with the status, financial security, and life expertise that comes with age.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 04:32 AM
3

then why wouldn't she? She probably already did text him. He (Chad) likely has 3-4 other girls to text so she's low on the priority list. She probably texted him and he didn't respond then she saw he was active on Instagram. Competition anxiety ensues, followed by her posting bullshit to get his attention.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:44 AM
7

I was just going to comment this. They have one specific guy in mind and they hope that that guy sees it and ends up texting her about it.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:06 AM
1

There’s not really much point in setting boundaries with plates. The best thing you can do is train them through operative conditioning (I.e. rewarding good behaviour and covertly punishing bad behaviour).
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:18 AM
-2

In my first two years of lifting I was eating well over 4000 calories in the day. I would make protein shakes with Mutant Mass that would take up the entire blender. I always recommend this for guys in their first couple years of lifting, eat fucking everything in sight and take a mass gainer.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 05:05 AM
10

I have to strongly disagree with you here. OP is 5'8 and 130lbs. There is no reason right now to even be concerned with how much of a caloric surplus he's in, only that there is one. OP should be eating everything in sight.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:50 AM
2

Read the comment again, mate.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:47 AM
4

This is a better starting point than having high body fat. You need to get in a caloric surplus, really focus on the big 5 lifts (deadlifts, squats, etc), as well as always try for progressive overload (if you're not sure what that is look it up).
/r/askTRP04/04/21 03:05 AM
10

The good thing about having money in the bank is that you have the resources to improve your looks. What kind of body fat % and muscle mass are you looking at right now?
/r/askTRP04/04/21 02:55 AM
40

I used to subscribe to the black pill theory that looks were everything. It wasn't until I got older that I realized that for men looks is only a fraction of what creates attraction. Allow me a short humble brag. I've always been decent looking, 6'1", lifted weights since I was 16. I was always half decent with girls. It wasn't until around 25 though that my notch count exploded. This is because within a very short time period (6 months) I acquired a good career, very nice car, and my own place.…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 02:25 AM
7

You're only 22. It wasn't until about 25 that my beard started to fill in well. Most men's facial hair develops up until even their 40's and 50's. If you want a stronger jaw just lose body fat.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:35 AM
1

I'm in Canada mate. We just guard the polar bears and moose.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:48 AM
0

Join the military, work for the bad guys. No better place to be right now.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 12:45 AM
6

Zyzz is the epitome of how much your life can improve when you start lifting. RIP Zyzz, we're all gunna make it.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 11:42 PM
6

Within the span of a year I locked down a career in the military (infantry), bought a nice car, got my own place. My notch count exploded.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:01 PM
2

You shouldn't be shitting where you eat anyway I'm in the infantry and it's more like a 1:1000 ratio and I still get laid often, just not with girls at work.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:00 PM
1

Not unusual at all. One time when I broke up with my girlfriend in university she made a show of hooking up with a lesser guy at a party. I didn't particularly care because I had her best friend sitting on my lap.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 05:20 PM
1

I think that the discomfort that she's feeling is you crawling back to her (acting beta).
/r/askTRP02/04/21 05:17 PM
3

Patrice was way ahead of his time. He had female nature figured out before there even was a manosphere.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 04:31 PM
6

Being beta.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 05:00 AM
8

25
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:00 AM
9

I worked with a girl that literally flew across the country to bang a guy she met on spring break.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:54 AM
9

Yeah, he's the most naturally red pilled guy I know.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:52 PM
21

If he's the highest value male available to her she'll accept being treated however she's treated.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:33 PM
71

The best advice I ever received was from Patrice O'Neal. "Say shit that you think would get you slapped and you'll usually end up with pussy to boot."
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:31 PM
8

If you had 3-4 attractive plates you were texting how often would you respond to each of them?
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:45 PM
34

Last night in the gym there were two attractive girls. My dad, who I was training with, came up to me and said, "Those are the type of girls you should be going for". I replied, "There's two of them and one of me, they should be going for me". It sounds conceited but this is the mentality you need when it comes to girls.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:53 PM
1

Tell her your boundaries There's no real point in this. You're not going to tell her "you need to always leave your phone out". This is just going to convey neediness.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:24 PM
5

It's really not a tough one. Demote to plate.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:38 PM
-1

Bipolar disorder does not effect sex drive. You need to start facing facts. Demote her to plate and start spinning other girls.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:28 PM
5

take our time, and leave sex aside for a bit She's either fucking someone else or her attraction for you is gone, could be both.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:20 PM
0

HGH is not good for you. Just look at all the crossfitters with distended guts. That's literally from your internal organs increasing in size.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:18 PM
3

You need to reevaluate your SMV. Usually when someone comes on here with "I'm a 6'5 Chad that can't get pussy" they've severely miscalculated their SMV.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:04 PM
1

Since you said no porn I assume you're still jerking off. There's no need to ever masturbate. Don't believe this bullshit about prostate cancer.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:02 PM
3

You should game them in the same way you game your LTR or plate. Whenever I'm out with a plate I always game the other girls I interact with whether that's at a book store of getting coffee. Playing two girls off of each other to create social proof is a very important part of dread.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:00 PM
10

started to bring her phone into the bathroom when she showers or sits on the toilet whereas before it was always left out You already know the answer.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:57 PM
3

In today's day and age 20 is on the low side. Girls today are only plate material.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:54 PM
2

If you're not fucking her you should be focused on your missions in life. Sexting is for people that have too much time on their hands.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:25 AM
2

I think when a kid is involved it becomes about something bigger than yourself. Sure, that's not really alpha to sacrifice your biological imperative for a kid but it's the right thing to do. They could just parent the kid and never get married (see: Gene Simmons).
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:56 AM
4

Where the fuck did you come from
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:44 AM
2

The kid is the game changer. If there was no kid I would say fuck no 30 is too young to be getting married.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:39 AM
3

Not a great idea but I'm biased because where I live has a ton of crime.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:38 AM
11

"so can you tell me the exact date? It would make it more bearable for me" This is machiavellian as fuck. She's trying to get the exact date to limit the chances of you catching her cheating. I won't cheat on you in case you think that This is the equivalent of "we are not having sex" but in this case cheating is on her mind.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:33 AM
18

This is it. It's the equivalent of "we are not having sex".
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:31 AM
1

If she's going for girl's nights out to bars and clubs without you she's not LTR material. There's no need for boundaries in that situation since she's showing that she's not LTR material and should be demoted to plate. Verbal boundaries are for small things like telling her not to eat your food.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:20 AM
8

You have to actually punish her when she breaks your guidelines. This means withdrawing attention, ghosting her, or breaking up with her. When she feels she can act with impunity she is going to have no respect for you and will continue to walk all over you.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:06 PM
5

I'm going to assume that most people in the comments have no military experience. You should go to with the construction job. The reason is because there is too much doubt in your mind. When I went through infantry training we had the same wash out rate. If you have somewhere else in life that you could be your mind is going to go there. When it gets tough you're going to quit because you have a backup plan. I genuinely believed that there was nothing else in life for me when I went through trai…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:49 PM
1

All girls have been plates. Plating is the prerequisite to relationships, except in the case of extreme betas that would date girls before fucking them.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:29 PM
12

I would say yes. People can sense when you need nothing from them. When you combine this with being high value you'll find that you will experience a lot of social success.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:28 PM
2

True, still got the callback though.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:13 PM
1

This. Been an extreme introvert most of my life and never had a problem with girls. A lot of game is just being high value and in the right place.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:16 AM
15

Yes, my social skills went right out the window when I pulled the most attractive girl I fucked in my life. I went to this tinder girl's place who I had been expecting to look considerably worse than her pictures. I opened the door and she was hot as fuck. My social skills utterly left me and I sounded basically autistic. My social skills didn't recover all night yet I still pulled her.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:12 AM
4

Commonalities aren't important for attraction. They do however create a deeper rapport/connection when the attraction is already established. You'll be hard pressed to give a fuck about a girl outside of sex when you have no shared interests.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:04 AM
1

Every step along the way you should be giving her compliance tests. You should always get her number or give hers yours (even better since it requires more work for her to text you) and never accept snapchat, instagram, etc. Even when you plate them you should still be putting girls through compliance tests (see: The Benjamin Franklin Effect). I have a plate looking after my plant while I'm away on a military exercise.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 03:51 AM
0

If you're a high value male and fuck her dominantly (99.9% of men don't do this) you're going to alpha widow her. That's just facts.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:40 PM
15

She was probably fucking him while you were still together. Lift and spin more plates.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:11 PM
2

You should only give compliments after they do something you desire (i.e. suck your dick). This is operant conditioning. It's the same way you train a dog.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:26 PM
3

Girls will perform the female equivalent of beta game when they understand your SMV is far and above what they'll ever be able to lockdown. The last few plates I've been spinning have bought me food on multiple occasions, bought me boxes of condoms, etc.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:24 PM
0

Hard as a rock.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:54 AM
8

no 22 year old girl will date a man her dads age haha You would be surprised.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:52 AM
10

When I was younger and saw girls in their mid-late 20's all I saw was "hawt". Now I see nothing but the cracks in the wall. I see the slight gain of weight, the first signs of her looks deteriorating.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:50 AM
5

This post wreaks of blue pill.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:27 PM
4

she kept telling me how she was a virgin throughout our relationship Welcome to your red pill awakening about the nature of women.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 07:16 PM
48

Jerking off is inherently a beta trait. Most animals/primates will masturbate to the alpha male fucking the females of the group similar to how humans will watch Johnny Sins fuck the girl of their desires.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:40 PM
3

If she just saw you as an orbiter she wouldn't be shit testing you as hard. You're on the cusp right now between high interest and disinterest. If a girl has very high interest in you she's not going to shit test you since you already qualify for her intimacy. However, if she had no interest you wouldn't be getting these shit tested since it would serve no purpose, she's already made up her mind on you. All you have to do is keep passing shit tests and you should be able to fuck this girl.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:40 AM
0

since getting into TRP after being Super Blue-Pilled until last year It took me about 4 years after discovering TRP before I reached the point where I could tease girls and spin plates remorselessly. It takes a long time to undue a lifetime of societal conditioning. Just keep internalizing TRP and faking it 'till you make it. You're just beginning your journey.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:10 AM
1

You may just need to improve your SMV then.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 04:55 AM
7

clearly not super invested in the interaction and not lifting that much of the weight in it You should get in the habit of nexting girls ASAP if they don't show high interest. This displays high value.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 04:46 AM
1

One time I shaved my head not because I was balding but because I felt like it. When I went to the gym a girl that I knew from the gym came up and admitted to me that she didn't recognize me and got the tingles when she saw me. You would be surprised at how attractive a shaved head and beard can be for a girl if it's accompanied by muscle.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 04:38 AM
2

Girls that have kinks like that usually come with a very high body count thus aren't LTR material.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:32 AM
3

Start BJJ. If they fuck with you take them to the ground and break their arm.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:10 PM
1

That is because her only value in life comes from her looks and pussy. Men have the burden of being success objects as well as attractive.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:08 AM
3

You generally shouldn't care because it has no bearing on your personal satisfaction. What she does in her free time makes no difference if she sucks your dick at your beck and call. You should be your sole point of origin.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:07 AM
3

New plate keeps telling me how arrogant, cocky and unbearable i am. yet i keep fucking her brains out. You cracked the code, keep going.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:05 AM
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