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/r/MGTOW23/07/19 03:29 AM
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This is the type of example of why I think it makes sense for some women to wait until marriage for sex, you get to make sure you like eachother for who you are, and you still get to keep a carrot in front of him as a motivation to get married. I think some of the issue that you've described is that some women give too much of themselves up front, and at that point you're functionally married. (Live together, play house, have sex, split bills, ect.) So for the guy there's no motivation to advanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 10:33 PM
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This resonates with me greatly, though still have some trouble with the initial attraction as I often don't feel all too engaged with women who are interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:37 PM
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"I'm not into white guys" = "I'm not into you" Even if that isn't REALLY what she meant, it's a statement of rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 03:31 PM
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Y tho, like that just seems petty. I hate when women aren't honest, how is a statement of rejection seen as a way to get someone to make a move?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 05:36 PM
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Oh damn, yea I've had girls talk about sex with thier current bf or other guys and I always feel like in that scenario they see me as the "beta" to vent thier problems/ emotions too because they dont take me seriously. I guess what you said makes sense tho wow. And I just get nervous 1 on 1 like that cause Idk why but i feel like I don't wanna assume shes sexually interested if that wasnt made obnoxiously clear. Which some women have even done, telling me I'm hot, and that they want an open rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:57 PM
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I guess but I wouldn't want to hang out with her if I had a problem with black people lol. I think it was definitely more playful. But im apparently far to unaware to understand when a woman is into me cause this shit happens to me constantly..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:51 PM
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That happened with my last relationship though she invited me over to watch movies and chill, and that's all i really expected, maybe a kiss and some cuddling. Especially from a girl who said she wanted to wait until marriage to have sex but I still really liked her. She decided she was gonna suck my dick 3 times that night... then later broke up with me because "I only wanted her for sex" even though she was willing to do literally anything except piv intercourse... and I generally cared about …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:49 PM
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More so in saying no, or "I'm not into X" when you mean yes or "I want to see if you'll try harder" saying " in not into white guys" when "I fucked this other white dude"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:40 PM
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Hah yea she would definitely make jokes about white people and at a certain point encouraged me to do the same about black people, in an obviously light hearted way. Like "why white people always be doing this" and "well why black people always be doing that"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:19 PM
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Lmao what?😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:08 PM
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Yea, we vibed great, obviously mutual. But when she said that in my head I was just like oh never mind. I see people throwing around being autistic on men/ women debates often and it definitely makes me feel kinda shitty. I feel like I'm just starting to understand certain things that people knew intuitively in high school. Still trying to figure it out though because women are generally attracted to me and I always fuck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:07 PM
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The thing too was that she started to flirt with me even more for a while after I kinda let go when she said that. Ive always tried to be honest and upfront when i talk to someone and generally expect the same from others. I always figured that's what responsible grown adults do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:03 PM
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Yea, when you phrase it in that way it makes a lot of sense, my confidence was middle ground, although I was very attracted to her. I agree though looking back, that if I had brushed it off and kept perusing her it would have went somewhere. By the same token though, it seems a bit childish/ immature. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 05:58 PM
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I agree and it's frustrating that people don't communicate like adults. Ive taken that approach though and have had much less sex than id like, given how many women ive known have played this exact game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 05:52 PM
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So would you ever tell a guy you were interested in sexually, that you weren't because of (ex. race, height) just to see if he would still be interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 05:49 PM
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Well im pretty sure I have some degree of high functioning autism so that's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 05:43 PM
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I more or less realize that now, but my question is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 05:35 PM
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Being attractive isnt "cheating", that's an absurd proposition. Clearly even while being introverted it was possible, yes generally it takes more energy out of an introverted person to seek social interactions, but again clearly you did it so being introverted isnt the issue. And dude, not getting with as many women because your BUSY has nothing to do with introversion, you straight up dont have time. That's pretty obviously in no way related to being int/ext
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 05:52 AM
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Is this a troll post? You've totally contradicted yourself. You say being introverted is a weakness because of not being able to get with women and spread genes, yet you say your introverted and have slept with 200+ women... something isn't adding up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 05:43 AM
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So you don't want sex with ther person you want a relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:27 PM
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Makes sense to me, though I figure it's likely fairly subconscious. I don't think most women realize that's what they're doing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:00 PM
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That was unnecessarily long winded could have just said yes attractive and confidence is the only thing. Didnt ask for an opinion on my motives. 1) not desperate but would take advantage of such a situation if I found myself in it 2) never implied I was looking for a long term relationship from said situation 3) the whole point of my question was getting the woman WITHOUT chasing them 4) true intimate romantic relationships are supposed to transcend sex, and being bitter about "where are all the…
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 08:26 AM
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Absolute gold
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 06:17 AM
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Hell yea man get that mustang
/r/MGTOW19/02/19 02:00 AM
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His sentiment is why I've felt this way, I feel many/ most? People/ women look at things this way. I probably just need to be more precise in the people who's opinions I allow to influence me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:14 AM
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Well to expand on that, I've always had friends that were girls even since I was really young. The flip side to this though is I have a harder time finding good guy friends, which is sometimes frustrating. I find that getting a womans attention in a friendly way, then not chasing her when shes used to being chased, is a good way to get her to be interested, as well as the sentiment to not use any more words than you have to to convey your thoughts, and the more concise you are with your words th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:56 AM
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She didn't want to have sex before marriage..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:46 AM
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I guess my misconception of the strict definition is what has had me dealing with this semi identity issue, I've stuck to the hard definition for so long and beaten myself up over it so long it's hard for me to shake. The word virgin has literally been nails on a chalkboard to me because of it. I've just always identified myself in that way. Itd be nice if there was a better term to mean someone who is void of all female attraction. Virgin seems to have so much gray area associated with it. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:45 AM
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Hah I mean just a handful of times throughout my life not like on the regular. And knowing how to make a girl orgasm with your hands I feel puts you ahead of most guys so I don't worry about that I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:31 AM
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I guess I generally prefer to be honest. I don't go out of my way to tell people but if they ask im not gonna lie. If it's really that big of a deal to them then they aren't ther kind of person I want to do that with. At least that's generally my mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:24 AM
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Honestly this comment gave me a lot of perspective, thankyou. I really hadn't ever thought about it in those terms. The word itself seems to confuse me I guess to some extent. Scrolling through this sub, dating subs ect, I see a lot of disdain toward Male virginity. But what do these people mean by using that word if just getting bjs and making out and other such activities make you not a virgin, what is even meant by saying it. Is the term male virgin used exclusively to describe guys who cant …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:21 AM
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That instance of intercourse aside, do sexual acts count as sex to most people? I've always viewed the idea of sex as strictly vaginal penetrative. And always assumed that's how everyone else viewed it. Which I'm finding isnt necessarily the case Im really not trying to troll anyone, I'm trying to navigate my feelings by seeking some general advice and perspective. I know my views on this subject are off but I've only recently started to realize that. I've talked to a therapist for general depre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:01 AM
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In all seriousness, would you consider oral having sex, or is a handjob having sex? Is me fingering her her losing vaginal virginity? I used a toy in her, would that count for her to have lost it? I feel like that's all sematical. If someone says they had "sex" to me its assumed to be vaginal. That's why other acts require a precursor. -Oral- sex or -anal- sex. "Regular" sex is vaginal penetrative sex imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:31 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:21 PM
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People say that, but I don't feel that way. I feel like it's not the same because even in our relationship, anal was a compromise to vaginal sex. I didnt particularly want anal, so I feel like I'm still missing out on the real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:01 PM
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Although likely an unpopular opinion, strictly speaking yes. My girlfriend who was also a virgin whom I did anal with I would technically still consider a virgin. Imo anal sex isn't "real" sex any more than oral is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 10:54 PM
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If I dont find someone engaging to be with, why would I spend time courting them if I'm ultimately not attracted to them. I really dont have many guy friends that havnt moved away post college, certainly none I'd feel comfortable having that kind of discussion with cause the only few I think of are pretty emotionally reserved. Im not sure what it is that leads you to believe I'm all that weird. I've gotten girls numbers, had girls hit on and flirt with me, I'm generally just not all that interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 10:48 PM
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I appreciate the comment. I have had a few people ask me if I'm bi, but I've never found myself attracted to men. I do have quite an array of kink interests, one of which is I'm interested in getting pegged, but I wouldn't let a man do that do me,but I have many other sexual interests, all of which revolve around women and mostly dom/sub dynamics. As for the experience/confidence part, I've done all the "normal" stuff aside from vaginal penetration. Gotten bj's, fingered girls, anal with my ex (…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 10:20 PM
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I suppose my concern stems from the idea that if a women knew this about me I'm somehow automatically no longer an option. Seems to be a sentiment many people share. I agree that refraining from masturbation would likely help though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 10:05 PM
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Yes..?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 10:01 PM
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