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No There is no magic answer that will solve all your issues which your responses sound like you’re looking for. Spending will not make the advice any better than what’s already available free.
/r/seduction19/08/19 09:40 PM
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Cold approach doesn’t happen here? Entirely false. It does happen, and women enjoy it when done right.
/r/seduction04/08/19 07:30 PM
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As a European, your American women seem as exotic as the Russians and Pols, just saying..! Great insight though man, and huge props on making the harder change, glad it’s been so rewarding!
/r/seduction01/08/19 02:52 PM
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Bro! Thanks!
/r/seduction31/07/19 11:39 AM
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This
/r/seduction29/07/19 02:06 PM
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Fake it dude Yeah sounds weird, but tell yourself you’re tipsy. Grab himself a small coke or lemonade, and tell yourself there’s vodka/gin in there. Your troubles come from nerves because you’re exposing yourself to something new which is great, but sometimes it’s easier telling yourself a small lie like “fuck it as far as anyone knows I’m tipsy- what would tipsy me say” than to actually rely on alcohol- not that you should judge yourself on that either, alcohol has been a social lubricant befor…
/r/seduction27/07/19 11:59 AM
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From a sample size of.. 27 Useless.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 09:13 PM
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Ok that makes more sense. I’d suggest throwing in intentful content within the first minute or two’s interaction. Ie “damn, cute and ****” off the back of one of their comments, ideally turning it to a push pull. That way if they were still to ask you why you came over for some strange reason, you can follow up on your existing comment that you thought they looked cute etc
/r/seduction01/07/19 09:38 AM
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If they asked you this, I’d say your opener needs work as this should show intent.
/r/seduction30/06/19 08:46 PM
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Nah it’s not that I believe them, or even ask them, with many I can just tell from how they behave around it
/r/seduction27/06/19 04:31 PM
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“I’m an expert by now” Your title and question suggests otherwise
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:01 PM
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Had to say it that way as it seems you couldn’t understand sarcasm! Seriously though bro nothing about that video is good. Forget the filter, the emojis, it’s the premise itself that’s wrong. “Ohh call me later when you get in so we can talk” Uh bruh, you’re a high value dude, you call her when you’re ready to talk, you don’t ask her to call you when she’s ready making it seem like your sat round all evening touching yourself waiting for her call. Then, wrong filter Then cringe emojis Read the v…
/r/seduction25/06/19 02:01 PM
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Cringe cringe cringe, so needy.
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:41 PM
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Too big an age gap for me but good luck!
/r/seduction19/06/19 06:25 AM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:00 PM
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Stop thinking of game as a game. Game itself at its core are natural traits that make you an attractive person to be around, period. Game is never optional, it should be hard engrained in you- humour, confidence, sexuality, interest, wit, etc aren’t fake.
/r/seduction13/06/19 07:31 AM
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Too area dependant to warrant answering
/r/seduction12/06/19 03:17 PM
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Yeah that’s what I’m saying dude, what you think you’re enjoying/need, isn’t actually the taste, it’s the chemicals they lace it with. You’re also right it does make you thirstier (which is why most all you can eat places give you coke/Pepsi free refills- it fills up your stomach with air rather than food, and makes you want to drink more). I went fairly cold turkey and drink nothing but water now (and enjoy it that way) unless I’m aiming to get drunk. Can’t say I recommend this way as it takes …
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:07 PM
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Nope, that’s the sugar talking. Used to like coke, since adjusting my taste buds over time to healthier stuff, can’t stand it, all you taste is fizz and weird ass chemicals.
/r/seduction05/06/19 05:52 PM
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You don’t, you just THINK you do because it’s a habit and routine. Dieting is a mind challenge, nothing else.
/r/seduction05/06/19 12:41 PM
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Nice seeing this done in London in a completely “normal” way. Not really sure the title “wing game” is remotely appropriate as every single approach (all of which were rejections based on boyfriends) had no “wing” aspect to it. Good content otherwise though keep it up.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:02 PM
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High value: “probably my dog, but we’ve got to get on before I let you anywhere near him”
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:44 PM
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Well you’ve described my exact issue right now. Tried with a wingman out of interest?
/r/seduction12/05/19 06:01 AM
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As a UK dude, I can confirm all of this to he absolutely true and interesting to hear back from someone from the US as it’s just something that’s my norm. Should probably start gaming really given what you’ve said about the lack of competition! Interesting read thanks!
/r/seduction09/05/19 08:51 PM
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Well done on making progress dude. Remember you were very unlikely to strike lucky on the first night, the key is learning from these points, making changes, and trying again. That doesn’t mean you need to learn how to handle two people trying to fight, get a wingman etc, but could you learn how to dance better via YouTube or better yet take classes (think of the potential women there)? Find different clubs/bars that are more mingle/less group focused? Also don’t be afraid to talk to men, yes ME…
/r/seduction05/05/19 10:22 AM
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She might have hot friends and building your network is never a bad thing. Befriend her, be yourself, and be open to any number of possibilities as a result.
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:46 AM
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Said like there’s not a billion other asses out there to fuck that won’t break bro code.
/r/seduction10/04/19 07:27 PM
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Yes this breaks bro code if done without his consent. Also, oneitus? There’s a fuck tone more women out there without this issue.
/r/seduction10/04/19 06:34 PM
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Cool gangbang story
/r/seduction08/04/19 06:18 PM
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Interested in this too
/r/seduction14/03/19 05:40 PM
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oorr just use pornhub for free
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:13 PM
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Re read what I responded. Your questions are wrong, therefore not answerable. Read the sub. End.
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:59 PM
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First thing I’d honestly recommend is rip of the bandade, and hire an escort. You can clearly afford a high quality one and I’d recommend you pay for a full evening experience. Explain your situation and actually enjoy their company doing something first such as treating it like a trial date before the natural desired ending. This immediately removes your “virginity” insecurities. Now you’re a not a virgin, your a man, who’s successfull, good looking, and apparently has good dna. You should be a…
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:33 PM
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The fact you’re asking these questions proves you’re in entirely the wrong mindset Study this sub and it’s linked material and you’ll find your answers and much more.
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:27 PM
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Go watch John Anthony lifestyle for a view of RSD
/r/seduction02/03/19 01:39 PM
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The subtle art of not giving a fuck by mark Manson Models, also by Mark Manson
/r/seduction27/02/19 10:03 PM
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The Subtle Art of not giving a Fuck by Mark Manson.. any of his books tbf
/r/seduction26/02/19 09:20 PM
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No one size fits all approach. You should use all methods to an effect. Tinder/bumble while on the shitter to generate some leads, cold game when you’re off the shitter to pick up more leads. Simples!
/r/seduction26/02/19 12:54 PM
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I’m not a college guy so take this as you will, but, don’t mess around or overthink it. You’re in the same class, there’s your opener, the rest, just be honest and show intent. “Hey, I keep seeing you in X class and seem like you might be cool. I’m ... Her: ...”hey, I’m xxx” You: “I’ve gotta shoot, but let’s hang out later this week. What’s your number?” Etc etc Go check out HowToBeast on YouTube, he shows similar approaches around campus really takes little effort or bullshit and gets you the r…
/r/seduction25/02/19 10:04 PM
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Yes bro! Well done for stepping up and stepping outside your comfort zone! Keep going man!
/r/seduction25/02/19 11:16 AM
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Not caring and ignoring are two entirely different things so you’re proving your incorrect perceptions of the core teachings throughout the seduction sector. Not caring is to own them, not be afraid of them, not to let them dominate you, to accept what they are and own them- and in often cases share them(vulnerability) and enjoy the genuine connection you often find when being open/ vulnerable about yourself. Ignoring them suggests being act as if they’re someone or something they’re not, which …
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:52 PM
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What’s this from? Frame aside, I might use this to practice on point tonality
/r/seduction23/02/19 08:59 PM
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Nope but you’re thinking too current day. Accept where this world will be in 10 years with VR and realise reddit will become virtual, and you’ll see what I mean. Better yet, go watch “ready player one” and you’ll certainly see what I mean.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 08:58 AM
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Nah, Reddit itself proves that we will communicate differently
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 06:38 PM
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Listening to the audio book unabridged and it’s ok but not captivating me. I think I’d get the same value from an abridged or evenin Blinkist version. Refers to seduction centuries ago and gives you interesting character types that will potentially help you.
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:17 PM
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Whipping out was creepy, not the boner part. That’s perfectly normal whether you felt the kiss was good or not, as think about it, compared to what? Sucking is also a very nice sensation on the tounge and can make a guy think of other things. Be happy that such a gesture can bring someone arousal, but by all means run from the dude that just flops it out.
/r/seduction16/02/19 01:15 PM
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Totally dude, I’m not putting you down. I just hope when you see in the next couple of weeks approaching is far simpler once you’re used to it, how easy it is to get multiple numbers a day. Staying consistent and doing this daily, I believe you could easily get 10 numbers a week easily. They key for you then though, is mastering the process to turn as many of these into meet ups as possible. Enjoy the process, you’ll feel so proud when you look back on yourself in a few months!
/r/seduction16/02/19 08:59 AM
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Frank! First of all congrats on pushing yourself out of your comfort zone! Second the interesting thing is the goal you’ve actually set, 100 numbers in 10 months, is actually not half as hard as you think, and is achievable within months when you know the right approach! Keep practicing, and turning those numbers to solid leads. Remember though you also may be passing up opportunity just by aiming for the number. Think instant dates. There are so many videos out there on YouTube covering this, f…
/r/seduction15/02/19 12:22 PM
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Game is a skill set like learning another language. You’re effectively learning structure and responses in certain patterns to a level they become natural, whilst on the way improving yourself and becoming a better person. Nobody is born a winner or looser, you become it. So either, can become the other. So you are learning to get from where you are currently, to a new place. It will take time, but will be worth it.
/r/seduction13/02/19 05:40 PM
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Agree with everything you’re saying to a point, and mine also comes from successful experience. That’s why the wording around the the options is key. Ie “I’m free x, x, and x- which works for you” note, this is never read as “just give me anytime you’re free and I’ll flex for you”, it’s always as “I have a life and I’m a busy guy, here’s where I’m free currently. Not “how does x, x, or x work for you?” This is not indecisive, it’s fact, you’re setting the terms /times of meeting around your life…
/r/seduction12/02/19 11:51 AM
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Nah tried this doesn’t work as well. You’re right the message is slightly wrong, I meant to say “I’m free x, x, or x, which works for you?” -this is an assumptive close. You should always give options, only giving one leads to way more back and forth or giving her the control ie “I can’t make then, but can do x”- then you look too flexible and low value by agreeing. You’re setting up failure by only giving one option, give 3, and you’ll quickly establish how keen they are to make something happe…
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:08 AM
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Anything that starts with who what when why or how
/r/seduction11/02/19 09:06 PM
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Anything you actually want to know about them to ensure they meet your standards
/r/seduction11/02/19 08:52 PM
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If you’ve not created a natural way of sliding a date in conversation, then just go balls out. Go quiet for some time and say something like work/college has really kicked off.. and “let’s continue this in person, I’m free x x and x, how about you?” Done
/r/seduction11/02/19 08:16 PM
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Cool. I’ve already got the car pic (minus dog) which is highly voted. Looking for inspiration for others
/r/seduction10/02/19 10:41 PM
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So all your pictures are effectively selfies in a car? Just not selfie looking? Not hating
/r/seduction10/02/19 03:39 PM
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Airbnb for sure. Women look for safety and security most the time in many forms before hookups. Taking them to a hostel screams danger not “this dude is high value”
/r/seduction10/02/19 02:26 PM
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Where though? I’m guessing you weren’t doing all these in your bedroom
/r/seduction10/02/19 02:23 PM
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There is now one single how response. Search this sub and you will learn to find your own how.
/r/seduction10/02/19 09:24 AM
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It was just over a year I was single, I wasn’t keeping count but I’d say around 12-15 in the first 3-4 months before sticking with a fwb (who had a boyfriend the entire 8 months we were regularly and frequently together), and one another, before eventually calling them off and getting into a relationship.
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:40 PM
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Exactly what I’m trying to figure out! I think generally being care free, unapologetically sexual and confident, and tinder was kinda new!
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:33 PM
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Thanks. I find that interesting as I’ve experienced much of what you’ve suggested already when I was single years ago, but without being (at least not aware of being) a pua or someone focussed on seduction at all (as I’m becoming now). Imagine this will only amplify when I start approaching!
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:24 PM
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Nice feedback. As someone with experience, what’s been a particular stand out “aha moments” one of the notches taught you?
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:05 PM
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Yeah I’d keep sexual tension for in person where you can really build on it. Now, your turn to give advise on how to land a bi fwb! Damn bro.
/r/seduction09/02/19 08:08 PM
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Thank you, I’ve not heard of either so will look into them! Appreciate your help!
/r/seduction22/01/19 03:58 PM
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Yes I’m trying to ignore these thoughts as they don’t appear healthy or helpful, more doubting and inciting desperation. They’re firmly there though, like if there’s an appropriate line in a message, I have to continually ignore the voice telling me to say soppy shit, and keep reminding myself I’m not desperate and to respond in that manner. But even after I do, the voice is like; “ah but if you’d have said this instead you’d have been more honest about your feelings rather than hiding them, how…
/r/seduction22/01/19 03:27 PM
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Stop comparing yourselves to others, might look desperate to you, but would it if it was you and you ended up taking the girl home? You only regret the chances you didn’t take. As for seeming creepy, just approach naturally and not with some canned pick up lines. That was it’s not an “approach” nore will it seem desperate. Your a fun person looking to find another fun person.
/r/seduction19/01/19 05:35 PM
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Three things: 1: depends on the cause, if you’re obese or skinny you potentially have some underlying issues you need to look at, eating disorders mild or big should be addressed 2: workout, regardless, this in itself will make your appreciate your bodies capabilities and you will become proud of the changes your making. It will in 95% grow your self confidence some of which will transfer to your nakedness 3: get naked and have fun with it. Close all your curtains and blinds, strip off, but be d…
/r/seduction12/01/19 09:02 AM
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Lol useless research. What other options were there in those years? Matched via letters? Pic in newspapers 😂. Day game was only real option
/r/seduction09/01/19 09:40 PM
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Todd V= Goat.
/r/seduction05/01/19 09:06 PM
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Wish I could downvote this video more than once. Wow.
/r/seduction05/01/19 05:57 PM
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“They say I’m a great guy” Knowing noting about you but based on this statement and your facts, I think your most likely cause is being too much of a “nice guy”. By that I mean you’re building no sexual tension, not showing any real intent (or by the time you are it’s too late), or just being overall too “considerate” and or “safe”. This is where this reddit and its posts are gold, some subtle behavioural changes could make a world of difference.
/r/seduction01/01/19 08:27 PM
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Ayyy good work! Now you know better, the real question is without your in, how would you approach the next “10” at the bar?
/r/seduction01/01/19 08:19 PM
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Tip: don’t, your too busy doing cool shit to be snapping girls selfies or sliding in their dms. Text, call, meet, text her to snap you something naughty- fine, but don’t fall into what every other bloke is doing and becoming one of the crowd.
/r/seduction28/12/18 08:34 PM
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I haven’t pressed play, but I’m going to say the answer is “because you don’t look like Jesus!”
/r/seduction18/12/18 08:21 PM
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Just seem to think I’ve heard somewhere that asking like that comes from a beta kind of place- like you’re expecting her to say no so “needily” wanting to check. Vs a more masculine “expecting” her to come and have no need to check, and messaging in such a way- that’s kind of where I’m new to it
/r/seduction15/12/18 03:23 PM
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Great post and insight to both “markets”. Thanks for taking the time to share.
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:10 AM
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If you fuck on the first date and think you’re marriage material, why think differently of anyone else. Sex is just sex.
/r/seduction09/12/18 03:14 PM
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Don’t think the answer would be that different, unless it was trying to seduce a guy with different sexual preferences.
/r/seduction01/12/18 11:33 PM
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Just waiting for bumble and or tinder to introduce a body type filter, then we’ve peaked.
/r/seduction01/12/18 11:18 PM
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Plenty of advice on YouTube on creating a positive mental attitude. As a start, make a list of 10 things of your qualities that make you a good catch to a woman. Can’t think of 10? Start go for 5 then keep building. Keep referring and thinking of this list when you think you’re not good enough to speak to a girl, and realise you’re actually doing them a disservice not giving them the chance to meet someone with your qualities.
/r/seduction26/11/18 10:33 PM
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More change your internal messages. Stop telling yourself youre not good enough, start knowing and taking action as if you are so it builds new beliefs
/r/seduction26/11/18 09:41 PM
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Bruh been in a similar situation for about the past year. You quickly come good with yourself over it though, and you discover a lot about yourself when you’re not focused on women. I’m back in the market now and never felt more ready or as much of a catch. So few people give themselves the true headspace of having a break from dating to focus on you.
/r/seduction26/11/18 07:42 PM
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Step 1, change your self beliefs. Saying “I am not that attractive” is bullshit and will be the biggest limiting factor for you in life. Attractive based on what? Women don’t base anywhere near as much on looks as us men do, you can shine in so many other ways- just being confident being one. Step 2, create a reason. This could be a complement, observation (about them), or question. All have pros and cons and can be handled differently but don’t worry about that yet. Step 3, find a way to turn y…
/r/seduction26/11/18 06:31 PM
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Build seduction, then for the kiss. Ie don’t just randomly tell a joke then lay it on her. She sounds shy more than anything as mentioned, 90% likely she wants you to make a move but has 0% confidence on how to show it so you need to grow some balls. If she lets you keep your hand on her lap, that says enough, if you’re really scared, escalate from here to holding her hand and see how she accepts it. If she doesn’t push you away, that is without question an acceptance of intimacy. What I’d do: p…
/r/seduction26/11/18 06:16 PM
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You’ve still failed to explain what exactly you’re doing to make them “gravitate for defence”. Calling them “cunts” goes to give me an idea already.
/r/seduction25/11/18 10:20 PM
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“I’ll need to check before making a certain conclusion. Come over”
/r/seduction25/11/18 08:24 PM
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Only words I read there are “for defence” You’ve answered your own question. To defend them, no women is going to go running to a “nice guy” for protection. The real question, is why are you witnessing girls needing defence!?
/r/seduction25/11/18 08:00 PM
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Great feedback congrats! Would be helpful for you to post some recommendations on how someone can learn more about style etc for those that haven’t found theirs yet (like me!)
/r/seduction25/11/18 07:57 PM
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Move on. Abundance mentality.
/r/seduction25/11/18 06:14 PM
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I read this as two different things, neither directly confidence based. 1: overthinking, you say you can’t focus on their eyes and think what you’re going to say next 2: implied - you don’t find it natural holding eye contact. Neither are directly confidence based, but habit based. The hardest part you need to overcome is the idea that you need to “think” what to say next. That is the most unhealthy way to view a conversation and where it goes wrong. The key is being “in” the conversation, liste…
/r/seduction25/11/18 01:19 PM
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I can’t speak from experience. But from studying Todd V he does say there is a lull point from moving from “intermediate” to “advanced” game. That is, you’ve had a lot of success with 7-8s, but the problem is what has worked for you at this level, won’t at 9s and 10s. So where so many get held up, is they try and repeat what works with 7-8s with 10s and can’t workout what’s wrong. He goes on to state you actually have to unlearn many of your habits that you’ve developed to get 7-8s, and apply a …
/r/seduction25/11/18 12:57 PM
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That’s the point, live a good, interesting, and honest with yourself lifestyle, and quality women WILL come as part of the equation.
/r/seduction12/11/18 08:27 PM
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Just don’t overthink it. When it comes to happen, you should be relaxed and enjoying the experience building up to it (as should they). Learn about arousal techniques, even by the time you get to foreplay, even the lightest uneducated touch will have them in a very good place. Everyone is different, so don’t worry that you’re not a master first time. One of the best things about inevitably getting in an ongoing sexual relation with someone is you get to know what they like and they you, and that…
/r/seduction12/11/18 08:19 PM
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