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social issuesripyourlungsdave/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/22 07:48 PM
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Feminismripyourlungsdave/r/MensRights12/04/21 11:15 PM
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Anti-MRMripyourlungsdave/r/MensRights08/03/18 09:57 PM
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Marriage/Childrenripyourlungsdave/r/MensRights16/11/19 09:41 PM
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Feminismripyourlungsdave/r/MensRights29/05/20 06:49 PM
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Social Issuesripyourlungsdave/r/MensRights30/10/19 11:55 PM
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articleripyourlungsdave/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/22 06:19 PM
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Generalripyourlungsdave/r/MensRights03/08/21 04:12 PM
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articleripyourlungsdave/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/22 06:15 PM
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Discriminationripyourlungsdave/r/MensRights07/08/20 08:36 PM
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social issuesripyourlungsdave/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/21 06:20 PM
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And the other half of the time they just introduced one actual expert or someone who deals with the issue professionally and like 20 college kids that only have rudimentary understandings of the same subjects and likely haven't been given as much time to prepare. It's just a waste of time meant to foment more hatred between us. It's no different than that Crossfire show on CNN 20 years ago that Jon Stewart single-handedly got canceled. It's partisan hackery.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/26 05:11 PM
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Or better yet, how about we talk about how the entire basis of Surrounded is getting random people to get angry with each other over hot button political issues so they can sell their conflict, not actually have any kind of meaningful discussion that could positively affect anybody in that group. If you listen to interviews with people who have been on that show, they are really weird about it. They very clearly want conflict more than discussion and that is not very fucking helpful. Morbid Zoo …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/26 12:42 PM
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Also, fighting-aged men don't deserve to be abandoned anymore than non-fighting aged men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 05:05 PM
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Sure, if you have a fundamental misunderstanding of the reason Donald Trump made it popular in the first place, this may seem a little misguided.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 02:16 PM
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"I want a man that looks and acts like he'll beat me and commit hate crimes, just enough to concern all my friends and family, but not enough to have any implications on my status as a progressive or my personal safety" I mean, like, I guess people can look for whatever they want. But it seems like you're going to end up putting yourself in danger hunting for something like that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 06:14 AM
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And the sad thing is, it would have been so easy to nip all that hatred in the bud if people hadn't been passively excusing all the hatred they spew on a daily basis as "not being directed at all men" despite all of their explicit language indicating otherwise or people saying "they don't represent true feminism" as if they take that excuse from literally any other group that uses it. I don't know anybody on the left that has ever taken that excuse from Christians when they try to use it to try …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/26 11:01 PM
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I can't even make sense of what this means. This is just a fundamental misunderstanding of socioeconomics. If half the planet disappeared, literally everything would collapse and the rest of the people would just die. I don't even know if this is misandry. I think this just might be psychosis.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 05:36 AM
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I've genuinely only ever met one man that goes out of his way to brag about his body count, and he was literally a homeless crackhead living in a halfway house with me. No way that dude didn't have syphilis.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/26 05:21 AM
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And next they'll tell us that us queers should've been happy to call each other "buddies" instead of "husbands". The language we use matters.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 06:20 PM
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I was abused By my mom and my ex-wife, and then was immediately abused and manipulated by the first woman I dated after 6 years following my divorce. So by their logic, this means I'm allowed to hate women now, right? That's how this works? Because that's not what my brain did. My brain stayed mad at the people who hurt me, not random people with similar genitals.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/26 12:45 AM
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That doesn't really make the news any less exciting. We shouldn't only be excited for this for our own personal benefit b This is good for everybody.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/26 02:46 AM
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"No, you don't understand. The suicide epidemic is about me. It's ALWAYS about me."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/26 02:49 AM
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62 million is an attempt to instill hopelessness and hate. They want this number popping into people's heads when they discuss the prison industrial complex. They want this number coming into people's heads when they discuss the military industrial complex. They want these numbers to pop into your head when they discuss the mental health of men. They want these numbers to pop into your head when we discuss the loneliness and suicide epidemic. They want these numbers to pop into your head when we…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 02:27 AM
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I literally just passed one two posts above this and immediately went "Well this doesn't sound real." And here we are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 07:59 AM
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Literally the exact same logic my Baptist Church in the deep South used for claiming cross-dressing was wrong. So that's a good sign.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/26 06:03 PM
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I can't even talk about how I wish I wasn't circumcised without people talking about what my parents rights were. Sorry you had to deal with that though. It's awful that you got dragged around like that for something that should have been a simple outpatient procedure.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/23 11:36 AM
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I'm not disputing the article or study. Just that it's sad that we have to frame it in this manner to get people to care about the issue that is very plainly spelled out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/23 02:02 PM
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It makes me sad that we have to frame things this way to make people give a shit about the issues men face. God forbid we do something because it's good for men. But every single time, it's got to be "okay, but what do the rest of us get out of it, though?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/23 01:06 PM
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People have a hard time being clever and it's an easy jab. It's sad that so many people find it so hard to understand why it's wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/22 02:15 AM
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Maybe telling men that that's their sole responsibility to provide for every single person in their home might be kind of a shitty thing to do. It's the kind of pressure that can keep men in jobs that are literally killing them or exploiting them. Because society tells us that "real men" are willing to suffer for women and children. Even if those women and children aren't your family. Men have to stay with the sinking ship, men's stay behind to fight off the advancing enemies while the women and…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/22 02:22 PM
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I can't even parse what you're ure trying to say here, man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/22 06:31 PM
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Sounds like you want to blame anyone but them for their toxicity. You can have trouble getting laid and not turn into a misogynistic creep. I understand that there's a lot of shittiness towards men in general when it comes to sex. But that doesn't mean you need to start hating on women. That's a ridiculous excuse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/22 02:29 PM
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Again, if you can share a single incel community that isn't toxic as fuck and misogynistic, please do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/22 02:22 PM
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I keep saying this here. I don't know why people go so far to defend self-identified incels. Everyone here acts like these are just normal, lonely men who want a better love life. But anytime I ask them to give me a link to a group of incels that isn't toxic and misogynistic, I never get a link. Because every Incel community is toxic and misogynistic. If you feel the need to build your entire personality around the fact that you can't get laid, you don't have much of a personality or a life. I d…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/22 01:27 PM
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If you went through my comments you'd find about 50 comments from me asking this exact courtesy. People making fun of dick sizes, body sizes, height. Nothing that has anything to do with what makes these people so despicable. And all things that other people suffer with that don't deserve to be mocked for it. It's really not that much to ask. But people react as if I'm trying to defend these people, and no matter how many times I say it has nothing to do with them, they can't wrap their mind aro…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/22 01:22 PM
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Did you miss this part where I specifically said that there's no problem with being upset about not getting laid? I'm saying that it's a problem when you wrap your whole identity and sense of mental health up in the fact that you aren't getting laid. That's when it gets ridiculous.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/22 01:19 PM
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They don't think that these men seeking asylum might be a sign that they are against the war?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/22 12:51 PM
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Like seven. Just because you don't know a certain type of person doesn't mean they don't exist. That's an awfully ignorant and close-minded way to think of things. I mean, do you base all your beliefs solely on personal experience and anecdotal evidence? And like I said, I haven't had sex in 3 years, since I left my wife. And I am perfectly content.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 08:05 PM
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Okay, but who is making that assumption? Do you have an example? I know people can occasionally jump to that line a little too quickly, but they don't do it randomly when a man is just asking for help on how to find a girlfriend. That line is usually brought up when someone seems upset about not getting laid, not when they're upset about not being able to find a relationship. When the Men start making it out like it's the woman's problem that he's not getting laid, that's when it becomes about w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 02:38 PM
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Except I have lived in an environment where I have to face those struggles. For the first 15 years of my life and the last 3 years of my life. I'm not speaking from the outside looking in, I would like to have sex right now too. But again, making it out like that's a necessity is just silly. You can want something a lot without being actually needing it. And the difference in that language is important. I'm literally as isolated as I could possibly be right now. My family has moved out of town, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 02:06 PM
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Which is why I specifically said that it sucks to say, but that doesn't make it any less true. The problem is, most of the people with that sort of mentality don't choose to try to find ways to comfort themselves through the lack of sex. Instead, they get angry or resentful about it. And by continuing to use language that makes sex sound like an emotional and human necessity, you're going to push them further into that mentality. And it's a dangerous mentality to have. What I'm doing is telling …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 02:03 PM
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At what point did I say people's desire for sex was not legitimate? I obviously get that. I desire sex right now. But to keep wording this as if it's some sort of human necessity or something is just going to cause more damage to that kind of mentality. It's just going to make them feel worse. If men are letting their lack of sex affect their mental health in a negative way, constantly talking about how sex is a necessary human connection is only going to make things worse in that regard. The fa…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 01:55 PM
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My wife was the first person I had sex with. It's not like I was getting laid all the time before I got married. And it's not even like I was getting laid all the time while I was married. My point is that people don't need sex to live happy, fulfilling lives. And to say that it's a necessity for mental health or human connection or some shit is just silly. And it makes it sound an awful lot like they think they are literally owed sex. Hell, I felt more isolated and alone while I was still fucki…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 01:02 PM
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Did I say I was hitting on women at their job? Did I say I was hitting on random women in the streets? I don't know why you assumed I was going with an incel version of hitting on a woman. I'm not a fucking idiot. But if you think those circumstances are the only ones in which women will get annoyed with you for trying to start conversation with them, you are dead wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 12:52 PM
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I haven't had sex since my wife left me 3 years ago, and I'm here to say that yes, sex doesn't matter. It isn't easy to say, but it's the truth. Sex is enjoyable and the connection you feel can absolutely be important when it comes to mental health. But if you think sex is the only way to get intimate connection with other human beings, you've got bigger problems.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 12:01 PM
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Yeah, I don't see how it should be a man's responsibility to know how often a woman is hit on and whether or not she'll be annoyed by it. If a woman seems annoyed after I have attempted to start conversation with her, I'm going to stop talking to her. But how the fuck am I supposed to know that ahead of time?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 11:59 AM
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Saying that a woman in a relationship with a man isn't owed his money is considered derogatory? Why would dating a guy mean you're owed his money? Also, I don't know what context you could be thinking of in which a man would be owed intimacy with a woman's body?..
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 11:53 AM
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Anytime it does, it's just by proxy. It's never intentional. Things like allowing women into more roles in the work environment leading to them having more money to spend in the economy, is good for the economy. And honestly, having varied perspectives breeds innovation. It's always good to have people from all walks of life in pretty much any work environment when it comes to design and executive work. But again, all of that is just a side effect of what they were going for, which is more women…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/22 09:32 PM
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Yeah, that conversation really annoyed me. They're sitting there reaping all of the benefits of the violence while talking shit about the men committing the violence. And I feel like the show thought they were right to say this. Which is incredibly confusing. There wasn't a single woman in that group who didn't actively choose to be with a gangster or be a gangster.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/09/22 05:14 PM
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The main thing that irritates me when it comes to the relationship between TERFs and your everyday feminists is that they look at the men's advocacy movement and hold us accountable for our worst. (The asshole misogynistic pricks that occasionally invade these spaces) But somehow bringing up the worst of the feminists is considered "trying to delegitimize feminism". Both groups need to reconcile with the worst of their groups. That's just how these things work. And it's why we try to keep blatan…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/22 12:40 PM
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Hah. Damn. I was hoping for a good chuckle.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 08:48 PM
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They did? Because that comment was in response to me so I'm curious to what they pointed out. I turned off notifications a while ago.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 07:40 PM
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Hah. That was in response to my comment that actually got a good bit of traction on that post. I thought about posting the screenshot of my comment here just to share a little hope for people being sympathetic to men's cases here. But the responses got pretty exhausting after a while. I turned off notifications because it was blowing my phone up. And I was also getting some hate messages/threats.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 07:38 PM
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"Feminism is meant to help men and women!" "Unless you're trying to pass a law that primarily helps men/boys, in which case you're a sexist piece of shit fascist." I think the idea of feminists being willing to work with male advocacy programs sounds amazing. It would be great to actually get to that point of balance in this discussion of gender. But at the same time, we really don't need to keep trying to make ourselves palatable to feminists. In the same way that feminists aren't required to m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/22 01:25 PM
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It's the same reason they think "feminist" and "bigot" are mutually exclusive terms. Or that "feminist" and "perfect angel of love and acceptance" are synonyms.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/22 11:45 PM
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"doing your duty as a woman" seems like a fucky thing to say nowadays. If they believe women have an inherent duty in one form or another, how are they any better than the men who want to supposedly control them? Either way, you're telling women what they should and shouldn't do based entirely on their gender. I assume the main difference is that these leaders have a way to make money and power out of this specific form of sexism while still seeming progressive enough to keep the attention of fe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/22 10:59 PM
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Seems odd that they would ask an open-ended question and then get upset by a reasonable response to the open-ended question. It's almost like they just wanted someone to come over and jerk them off about how right they are instead of actually getting people's opinions on something.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/22 10:58 PM
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And that would be all well and fine if queer men were safe to go where they want to and be who they are no matter where they go. But that just isn't the case. As long as a safe space is necessary, that's just the way it's going to be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/22 06:08 PM
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I said nothing of outright barring them from the place. I'm saying it's a gay bar. If you aren't gay and aren't with a gay guy, you shouldn't be there. It would absolutely be considered inappropriate if straight guys started just going to lesbian bars just to change things up. There's no sense in labeling it a gay bar if the bar isn't just for gay people. If a gay guy wants to go to a gay bar and bring his straight female friends along, that's perfectly fine. But women should not be using gay ba…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/22 05:37 PM
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Also, I've never been to a gay bar where there weren't a ton of women there, invading our space, just so they can spend the night without getting hit on. Our bar is not your shield. You don't get to take advantage of our sexuality for your comfort. If you're not here with a gay guy, get the fuck out. They also like to use our sexuality as an excuse to touch up on and grope gay men. Every single time I've been to a gay bar, I've had to see multiple men having to push women off of them because the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/22 03:38 PM
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My small Florida town literally had a man-maker just like in How I Met Your Mother. Just a grown ass, 40 something year old woman who was known for how many teenagers she slept with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/22 12:05 PM
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The idea that adding more women to anything makes it inherently better is just stupid and sexist from the beginning. I think equal representation in government is important just for the sake of different perspectives. But that absolutely does not mean that every decision made by adding more women would inherently be better. Women are just as flawed and fucked up and corrupt as men are. It's thinly veiled female supremacist ideology. If I said in any circumstance that adding men to something inhe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/22 02:36 PM
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Seems weird to do a survey like this based purely on their opinion of the matter. Seems like it could have at least been a little bit more transparent if they had asked if they had felt they had personally contributed to a misogynistic culture. Instead it's just "don't you think men are bad?" "Yeah, bad thing is bad." "See? I was obviously right because these people said some of their feelings! That's how science works, right??"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/22 11:20 AM
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Are they comparing this to the number of women who were also misogynistic or are they comparing this to the number of women who were misandrist as opposed to misogynist? My phone screen is busted and articles are almost impossible to read.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/22 07:43 PM
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I’ve been trying to point this out as often as possible since the ruling. Not everyone listens, but the reception to it has been better than I expected. That’s not to say there aren’t a bunch of really shitty people out there claiming this is a war on women being perpetrated by men, but once you’ve listed the facts and shared your sources, there’s nothing else you can do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/22 12:06 AM
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Yeah, when it comes to bodily autonomy, the draft and involuntary circumcision are at the top of my list. There’s no excuse for either in a free society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/22 03:47 AM
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I can’t emphasize how much I’m not calling your girl in asshole. I don’t know her, people are complex creatures with complicated pasts. But an unwillingness to talk is a tough one to get past when talking is the primary way to deal with problems in a relationship. Judging by your wording, this doesn’t seem like the first time she’s done something like this. Have you thought about talking to a neutral third-party or talking to each other with a neutral third-party present?..
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/22 02:43 PM
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This is exactly what abusers do when they realize they have no more arguments left. Make you feel wrong without explaining why you are. It’s the most useless thing you can say in a serious relationship. If there’s a problem and you are refusing to tell the person what the problem is, you’re just being an asshole for the sake of being an asshole. I’m not calling your girl an asshole. But that is an asshole-ish thing to do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/22 02:24 PM
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I saw that and thought about commenting. But I knew I would just be met with “Not everything is about men or you! Quit trying to steal women’s safe spaces to discuss trauma!” Because who gives a shit about a pedo intentionally impregnating herself with a 14 year olds child just for the court to force him to pay child support.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/22 03:19 PM
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The only people who are loved unconditionally are women, children and pets. Men are loved on the condition that they provide something.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/22 02:54 PM
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I’m a working class, mentally ill queer and I couldn’t be more thrilled about this verdict.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/22 03:31 PM
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I can’t open the link. Are they gonna force her to pay that money she pledged to the charity as well?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/22 07:54 PM
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Yeah, they are supportive because he committed suicide. My point was that if he didn’t die, he would only be mocked. Of course they’re going to be respectful of a teen who just committed suicide. But that’s the problem, we can’t get society to give two shits about men and boys until it’s too late.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/22 09:22 PM
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I’m not saying that bisexuals didn’t get flak back then, I’m saying that same line was being directed at gay and lesbian people about them just being “in denial and needing to find the right person of the opposite sex and they’ll realize they were straight the whole time.” which is what gay and lesbian people say about bi people now. I just find it ironic that they’re using the same logic as your average homophobe was using towards them just 20 years ago.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/22 08:54 PM
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And yet this kid would be nothing but mocked into oblivion if he hadn’t died. Most victims of scams get at least some semblance of sympathy, but every time I see a story like this on r/TIFU, all the comments are just “you got what you deserved”, “what did you think was gonna happen”, “are you stupid?” It’s sad that being lonely enough to show that vulnerability is targeted for scams in the first place, But after dealing with this traumatic experience, most people are too embarrassed to even tell…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/22 01:50 PM
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Yeah.. Bisexuals and pan sexual a get a lot shitty treatment even from other in the lgbtq community. There are a lot of lesbians who think bi women are “tainted by dick” and gay guys who won’t date bi guys because you’re either “in denial and too much baggage to deal with” or they accuse you of just pretending to be bi for attention. “You just haven’t gotten the right dick/pussy yet.” is a common one. Like they weren’t saying the same thing about lesbians and gay people 20 years ago. It’s disgus…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/22 10:02 PM
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You know that both she-hulk and Batwoman aren’t supposed to serve as replacement for hulk and Batman, right? It’s not like they’re taking a male character and transforming them. These are completely separate characters that have existed for decades. Batwoman has a large part on one of my favorite animated Batman movies. That’s like saying the Abomination was replacing Hulk when he’s just a whole separate dude. I kind of get the point you’re trying to make here, but you couldn’t have picked a wor…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/22 11:39 AM
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That’s kinda funny, in a Reddit argument just yesterday someone tried to tell me how privileged I was for being a white cis-gendered straight man despite the fact that I am most certainly queer. That’s the point at which I realized the conversation was not worth having.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/22 12:19 PM
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I had someone claim that Lauren Bobert and MTG being racist was internalized misogyny a few days ago. I didn’t even know how to reply to that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/22 12:35 PM
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We should believe them like we believe other accusers of any other crime. Meaning if they have evidence to back their claim up, let’s listen. If they are an insane narcissist bent on destroying someone’s life for the abusive fun of it, we can throw the book at them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/22 11:07 PM
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Fuckin’ exactly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/22 02:00 AM
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It’s funny how much feminists seem to think that in order for a man to receive his human rights, it has to be convenient or beneficial for them. I was having a conversation about reproductive rights on a post about the Roe versus Wade issue, and it’s baffling how many people were saying men shouldn’t have the right to abandon just because it would inconvenience the woman. Like we only deserve rights if it’s beneficial to them. You can look in my comment history, the amount hypocrisy he in discus…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/22 10:05 PM
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There is no world where this is good for anybody but the people in power. Rich people getting into a shitty situation will still be able to get abortions whenever they want. And they will continue to do so. This isn’t about anything other than trying to force poor people into very specific roles so that they don’t have the time or energy to fight against the rich. Edit: It’s the same reason men are forced to work 60 hour weeks, get stuck in prison or are forced to pay child support for a kid the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/22 02:16 PM
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One group of people is not responsible for 99% of anything. That is a borderline impossible statistic to reach.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/22 03:43 PM
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Where did I shame anyone?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/22 06:01 PM
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None of that goes against what I’m saying. My point is that when you start using a label like that, you’re making whether you’re having sex or not a much more prominent part of your personality and personhood than it should be. I do think sex is an important thing to how someone feels as a person, but you don’t have to say that it’s a part of who you are. Because it’s not. It’s just an action you aren’t taking part it. I don’t drink. Does that mean I’m involuntarily sober? Of course not. It just…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/22 06:00 PM
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There’s no good way to use the word incel. I’m all for not treating men like shit just because they’re not having sex, but nobody is owed sex. And saying that you are involuntarily celibate implies that you think somebody owes you sex. Not to mention, defining yourself based on whether or not you’re having sex is just a silly thing to do. I haven’t had sex since my divorce. But I don’t claim I’m involuntarily celibate. I just haven’t had sex. And that’s all it is. Just people not having sex. You…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/22 05:34 PM
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I knew some troublesome stuff was going to come out of this the second I saw the video. Lots of stuff that seems to borderline blame Will Smith for being cheated on. Can’t wait to see what kind of shit storm of misandry this is going to turn into in the next week.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/22 12:22 PM
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Do you have a source for any of this? Especially a judge in the UK extending someone sentence because of their hair color? Because I call bullshit. And what you’re talking about is not being judged for your hair color, it’s being judged for your appearance in general. Which literally everybody deals with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/22 12:43 PM
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Are you trying to compare being a Ginger to what it’s like to live in this world as a man? Really? Tell me about these horrible, harmful stereotypes that gingers and bald people face. Other than “haha, you’re ginger” or “haha, you’re bald”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/22 12:33 PM
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Really? What group of people would you say is also considered socially acceptable to be bigoted against?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/22 12:26 PM
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I've had worries about this movie since I heard the title. The fact that it's called "Men" and it stars a woman was enough to tell me what this movie was. Especially with Alex Garland seeming to want to only have men as the bad guys and women as the good guys, regardless of their actual actions. It really disappointed me. Because, like you, I'm a huge fan of the studio. But I'll be damned if I'll pay for a movie made by them again after this blatantly anti-men propaganda. It's gross. And men are…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/22 01:58 AM
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Hah. Second time I got into the top 10 comments. I’ll take my fan-mail at Buckingham Palace. Which I assume they have to turn over to me considering my newfound fame.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/22 03:54 PM
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Every single discussion about gender in this war is going to be extremely polarized. There are a lot of posts claiming women are fighting “equally to the men” which is so obviously a lie. But if you say anything about it, you’ll be downvoted into oblivion. I try to point out these Russians don’t deserve to die every time I see people celebrating. It’s one thing if I see an actual Ukrainian celebrating, because that’s his homeland. But people removed from the situation should not be celebrating a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/03/22 09:49 PM
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Always love seeing your stuff pop up. You manage to get some really good points across without losing any empathy for the people that this shitty, conflict-loving world decided were our enemies. I love it. Keep it coming. I’ll always share.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/22 02:24 PM
1

Did You even read the top comment I put on there? How in the world is that not related to men’s advocacy? Double Standards in the legal system against men need to be pointed out as often as possible. It’s literally one of the more dire problems that we deal with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/22 12:14 AM
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How in the world is this “rage bait”? It’s a pretty blatant example of double standards in the legal system against men. That’s not ragebait , it’s pointing out the same types of double standards that everyone points out on this sub on a regular basis. In fact, the last post I made on this sub was pretty damn similar to this and there was no issue then.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/22 12:12 AM
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This woman threatens to shoot up her kid’s school over a fucking mask mandate and she hasn’t even been so much as arrested. If a man had made this threat, the swat team would’ve been at his house within 10 minutes. And considering they would understand him to be armed, he probably wouldn’t make it out of that house alive. But for some reason, this woman is out and about continuing to be a huge danger to society. One day, we will ignore a threat like this, just because a woman made the threat,and…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/22 06:21 PM
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I don’t see anyway in the modern world that a man could threaten to shoot a school up over something like this and not immediately be taken into custody. One day we’re going to ignore a threat like this, just because a woman made it, and it is going to end horrifically.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/22 06:16 PM
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Hah. Look at me getting on the Top Posts post. Time to celebrate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/22 05:51 PM
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Yeah, there’s no way she didn’t talk about him like he was some creep before she found out what he was doing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/22 08:18 PM
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Right, Because addicts/homeless people are known for their perfectly normal sleep schedules.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/22 12:27 PM
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Isn’t that just the story of the average man throughout history? Just a drone to provide and protect for everyone else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/22 12:58 AM
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I can definitely see that. doesn’t make it less harmful to the discourse, though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/22 12:55 AM
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There are bus stops in the US I wouldn’t be comfortable at by myself. And I’m 6’2” with martial arts experience. Even Tampa had a lot of bus stops that I wouldn’t be comfortable at by myself. Especially when it’s still dark out. So I’m not sure why you’re bringing nationality into this. Every country has bad neighborhoods.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/22 10:18 PM
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I just see this as one more instance of people going out of their way to ignore the good that men do in this world just so we can levy more praise on women. Despite the fact that all the wife did was point out that the woman was sitting alone at the bus stop, I don’t know how she goes and completely ignores the fact that a man was the one who did literally all of the work and was the only one putting themselves at risk for her safety. I mean, she said herself that she’s never even seen this woma…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/22 07:53 PM
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I tried to call this same shit out on that post about how much uglier Stephen Miller is than Keanu Reeves a couple days ago. Because “hate ages you”. And while I despise Steven Miller, we shouldn’t be mocking him for his appearance. Ugly people don’t deserve to be associated with people like him through their ugliness alone. And fuck people who do that shit. Surprisingly, though, I didn’t get downvoted. It didn’t quite get to the front of the post, but I was given a few gold and like 300 upvotes…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 02:13 PM
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Just so it’s clear, men were actually victimized just as much, if not possibly more, during the witch trials. I can’t read the article while I’m at work, but the phrasing of that paragraph makes it sound like they’re saying that was a specific female problem. Many, many men were put on trial as witches during that time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/21 04:06 PM
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There is so much misandry inherent in the discussion of genital mutilation that it can be difficult to even have a reasonable discussion about it without people acting like you’re crazy for even thinking there was something morally repugnant about involuntary circumcision. And the second you compare it to female genital mutilation, you’re titled I misogynist pig for even comparing the two. And 90% of the arguments I hear against involuntary circumcision are about how women prefer a guy being cir…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/21 07:00 PM
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Jesus Christ. At this point the government might as well send a letter to every man in the country saying “Know your fucking place, soldier”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/21 01:28 AM
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Jesus Christ, I thought he was going to imply that men were expendable. But he just straight up to said that shit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/21 09:50 PM
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Yeah, the entire thing shouldn’t be overruled, but the language needs to protect everybody, not just women. It’s the same way with rape laws. There are a lot of places that explicitly say that a woman can’t rape a man by their definition. There has to be forced penetration on the victim, it doesn’t matter if it’s forced penetration from the victim. We need to stop writing legislation for specific groups of people and we need to start writing legislation for everybody. As long as we keep saying s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/21 10:54 PM
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Yeah I remember Rosie the riveter. She’s from when all the women were made to come and take over industrial jobs while men were over in World War II. Jobs they summarily lost when World War II ended so that the men could get their jobs back
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/11/21 12:03 PM
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They’re just examples. Am I supposed to literally list every white collar job?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/21 10:41 PM
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I wasn’t trying to say that women weren’t allowed to work at all. I’m saying they didn’t have the opportunity to work in the same broad variety of jobs that men did. Because there were a lot of jobs that people thought could only be done by men because of their “superior intellect” or some other nonsense. And I’m not referring to manual labor jobs that women are objectively not as efficient at on average. Just things like executive positions or more intelligence-testing jobs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/21 10:35 PM
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It’s been removed. I apologize. I do my best to respect the rules here because this place means a lot to me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/21 10:33 PM
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They objectively were. The men in power in the companies almost never hired women for jobs that were taken by mostly men. Just because a lot of women we’re happy to stay home, doesn’t mean there weren’t women out there trying to get jobs. If that was the case, they never would’ve thought for the right to work. Like, I’ve heard stories from my great grandma and great aunts about how they had to start Trying to work when things got rough for them in the 50s. And it was borderline impossible for th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/21 10:24 PM
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No, you’re not alone. This is what I’ve always believed. It was never right to force women to stay home and not allow them to work in modern society. But acting like they got the shit end of the stick because they had to raise children in the comfort of their home while men were dying in mines, gettin black lung from coal refining, losing their arms in construction accidents or falling off the roof while building everything that is modern society and dying in the wars they fought to protect that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/21 09:37 PM
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It’s not.. If James Bond was a singular character that just had different actors playing him, that would be one thing. But the 007 universe has explicitly stated that those codenames change people when the last agent dies or leaves. So, canonically, it actually wouldn’t make any sense for them to not eventually hire a woman under that codename. Like, no sense at all. Like, after 60 years, it’s almost statistically impossible that a woman wouldn’t eventually happen to get the 007 moniker. If noth…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/21 06:03 PM
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But there’s also nothing wrong with making it into a woman. I never said there was anything wrong with them continuing to make it a man. But seeing someone be immature enough to get angry at a large group of people over a fucking movie that started 60 years ago when there are so much more important things that men are dealing with nowadays, it’s a waste of time for the men’s rights movement to get hung up on what gender 007 is. It’s a movie. It means nothing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/21 03:00 PM
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I had to leave r/MensRights because the hill the decided to die on was the “women can’t be 007” bullshit. Despite there being absolutely nothing in the canon or production that would make this some series-ruining bullshit. It’s literally been referenced in self referential dialogue in the movies that the 007 moniker changes people every time a 007 agent dies. Why wouldn’t they happen to give it to a woman every once in a while? It was just blatant, gross misogyny and it’s so hard to find a balan…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/21 12:43 AM
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You didn’t link anything bud. Just described some vague online dating study. And again. A study about people in online dating does not speak for the entire gender. Their superficiality is probably directly tied to their use of online dating.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 12:14 AM
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I didn’t say anything about him being wrong or right. I said the language is childish. And it is.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 11:46 PM
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That doesn’t change the fact that the language is childish. And I don’t know why you’re surprised that women are picky about who they’re attracted to based only on a short bio and some pictures. Of course it’s going to come down to mostly looks. That’s how those websites work. But that doesn’t speak for the entire female gender. And men aren’t any less picky when it comes to how attractive a woman should be.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 11:46 PM
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Oh come on man. Don’t bring that childish “chad” shit in here. It just makes you sound like a 13 year-old edge-lord.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 06:07 PM
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They like to say gender is meaningless until it means they get to exclude people and make themselves feel special.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 03:10 PM
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OK, but it’s been proven that the 007 moniker changes to different people when they die. And I know this is canonical because certain James Bond characters have referenced other James Bond movies. So if Daniel Craig‘s character were to die or disappear, they would give someone new the 007 status. So again, canonically, there’s no reason it couldn’t be given to a woman. Trust me, the 007 series is still always going to be defined by people like Daniel Craig, Pierce Brosnan and Sean Connery. This …
/r/MensRights18/11/21 05:48 PM
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Listen, I’m against movies going woke just like everyone else here is. But 007 has literally been a white man for like, 50 years. And considering it’s an idea and an identity that are inherently meant to be switched out, I don’t see the issue. It’s not like Spider-Man where it’s a specific character with a specific story. The whole point is that you can switch them out with different versions with different quirks and personality traits. There are a lot of movies and TV shows where switching out…
/r/MensRights18/11/21 02:01 PM
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Come on now. We can’t go having the term “domestic violence” be anything but strongly gendered. How else are we supposed to convince all these women they should constantly be terrified of men so that we can scare them further into our ideology! That’s just how the world works.
/r/MensRights16/11/21 04:32 PM
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The article in question here is saying that Hillary Clinton did in fact say this comment about super predators. The article isn’t saying that what she said is true. Just that she said it. I assume that’s what your question is referencing here.
/r/MensRights13/11/21 03:42 PM
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Considering how much more likely it is that I will be assaulted than a woman, I get where I need to go as quick as possible, walk with a group if possible, and always carry a weapon. I’ve been physically assaulted three times in my life during muggings and sexually assaulted once. Now I play it very, very safe. Doesn’t mean I always have control over when and where I have to go. And if I have a group of guys walking behind me at 2 AM in downtown Tampa, I’ll have my guard up. But I certainly don’…
/r/MensRights12/11/21 07:50 PM
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Walking away is literally the only correct move when you catch someone cheating. The only excuse for violence is violence.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 04:48 PM
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And yet, if women were more likely to face, violence and death and injury, it seems like the whole meme of “this is why women live longer” wouldn’t make much sense. They love using that as a way to mock men, but it flies out the window when they’re wanting to be the victims.
/r/MensRights10/11/21 03:41 AM
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“By mutilating my son” You left that part out. And any woman that won’t have sex with him entirely because his genitalia is intact should fuck off anyway. They’re a part of the problem.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 11:18 PM
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What part of sexualizing her infant son by worrying about how many blowjobs he will get if she doesn’t mutilate him, is having “her heart in the right place”?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 10:56 PM
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Trans people are trans because they are trans. It’s just who they are. It has nothing to do with any sort of societal conditioning or anything like that. The rise in trans people is just a rise in people finally comfortable being who they are and not worrying about being murdered for it.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 06:04 PM
11

There are literally 365 options for this holiday and you think it’s a coincidence that they picked men’s day? Seriously?
/r/MensRights08/11/21 12:58 PM
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“Men are going to college at frighteningly decreasing rates, here’s how this affects your vagina.”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/21 10:56 PM
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And here’s a couple of awards to make sure you know you’re welcome here.
/r/MensRights07/11/21 06:35 PM
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Happy to do it. Sad that it’s necessary..
/r/MensRights07/11/21 06:33 PM
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He-hey. Fuck off you bigoted dipshit. How about you mind your own fucking business about things that don’t affect you? This is a person coming in and empathizing with our struggle out of fear of what is to happen to them when they transition and you want to attempt to delegitimize and invalidate their existence? Burn in hell. I hope to god that report I just filed gets you banned from this sub because shit like that has no place here.
/r/MensRights07/11/21 06:02 PM
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I had to comment on a post about this earlier today because someone in the comments was saying that this seems like bullshit because they had seen three other news stories in the last 12 years that seems similar. Three stories. In 12 years. And he thought that was evidence of it being bullshit and not just evidence of men having to nowhere to go in situations of domestic abuse.
/r/MensRights07/11/21 12:14 AM
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It's just the same tactic the right used for years to control women through sex. It's amazing the amount of control you can have over someone when you tell them that something as innate and primal as sexual attraction is inherently wrong outside of the specific scenarios in which they say it's okay. Look how people used it to control the LGBT community. Just like any other organization/movement throughout history, once it gains enough traction and power, it will inevitably be co-opted by people …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/21 02:36 PM
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So we should let all those football players who beat their wives back in the game now, right? I mean, obviously their head trauma can excuse literally anything they do.
/r/MensRights06/11/21 02:08 PM
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This is the downside of creating female only support systems.. When you’re only creating resources for “marginalized” communities, it puts it in peoples heads that those marginalized groups are the only ones that need help. When 90% of the issues women deal with are dealt with by men too. And generally at a larger scale. Homelessness, addiction, mental health issues, abusive dangerous and exploitative work environments; all things that affect more men than women. Quite a bit more. All things tha…
/r/MensRights05/11/21 10:05 PM
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Well, I highly doubt that she’s saying the women are being disrespectful to the men in porn. So if she’s saying her problem with porn is that it seems disrespectful to women, then it’s the men’s fault for being disrespectful.
/r/MensRights05/11/21 02:26 PM
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Unfortunately, these numbers have the same issue that rape statistics to do. It’s really hard to have a realistic understanding of the numbers when there are so many different things that can fudge them. Whether it be someone not willing to have to go through the struggle of fighting the charges when they can just plead guilty and get a lesser sentence than they would if found guilty after a trial, not wanting to fight the charges in the first place, and on top of everything else, proving that s…
/r/MensRights31/10/21 08:45 PM
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I mean. Not especially men.. Men and women deserve the same amount of bodily agency. Nobody should ever touch anybody without their permission.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/21 01:54 PM
1

Yeah, I work at a hotel and I 100% leave the seats in the women’s bathroom up after I’m done cleaning so that I know which seats are still clean when I come check on it later in the night. So it was probably just the fucking janitor.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 02:29 PM
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I actually think it’s pretty important. We don’t want trolls here. And at least with stuff like this, we know they’re here.
/r/MensRights24/10/21 06:00 PM
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I literally just spent most of the day arguing against this terminologies. Go through my comment history to see how controversial it is to say we shouldn’t body shame men.
/r/MensRights23/10/21 10:04 PM
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Look at the comment I left on that thread. I said almost the exact same thing. I said we should stop using the term entirely because if we said “small tits energy” or “loose vagina energy”, people would lose their shit.
/r/MensRights22/10/21 01:17 PM
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"What will happen if we let "boys" have long hair?! Next thing you know they're riding bicycles with pegs and roller blades with no brakes! The depravity!" My christian school had this same rule. But we also weren't allowed to wear jeans and girls weren't allowed to wear skirts or dresses that went above the mid-shin either. Also, no dancing at the dances. Because, and this genuinely a real quote from our dean, "Dancing makes babies". But seriously. How is this not national news?.. How have I he…
/r/MensRights22/10/21 04:26 AM
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I want all the privileges of being a man without any of the responsibility or danger that constitutes 90% of what men are forced to do in their lives.”
/r/MensRights19/10/21 04:58 PM
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I think this might be one of the funniest things that women think is exclusive to them. Do they think women are the only ones who are ever talked down to in a work setting? Do they think that men are not also constantly interrupted by other people trying to one up their ideas and abilities? This is just how the world works. But by all means, let’s start making laws and rules about how men shouldn’t interrupt women. That doesn’t sound one-sided or supremacist at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/21 04:20 PM
20

That's a lot of words for "I'm like, a really bad friend and family member to depend on. Just the worst"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/21 02:53 PM
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“No witnesses except for these 2 witnesses we decided aren’t actually people”
/r/MensRights17/10/21 05:37 PM
6

The what the hell is your point?
/r/MensRights16/10/21 11:45 PM
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Ah. So he deserves to be sexually assaulted?
/r/MensRights16/10/21 11:44 PM
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You know goddamn well that none of this sympathy would be here if a man killed his children like this. Fuck off, you’re only giving her sympathy because she’s a woman.
/r/MensRights16/10/21 06:51 PM
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They wouldn’t be able to shut up about how well this “exemplifies male privilege”.
/r/MensRights14/10/21 03:49 PM
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This chick can’t manage to pay off a $9 bucket of paint. How the fuck she gonna pay for a house?
/r/MensRights14/10/21 02:38 PM
2

Those are the very nice versions of what I get called.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/21 01:19 PM
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You know, I hadn’t really thought about the way women are in video games nowadays. They kind of jumped from extreme objectification to a weird, supremacist-feeling overcorrection. Like, every female main character is either a bad ass or a genius. While men are mainly portrayed as brutish , violent psychopaths. Or just plain, disposable soldiers. That’s not exactly great representation. Even inexcusably violent and psychopathic women are played sympathetically because they’ve “been through so muc…
/r/MensRights13/10/21 05:03 PM
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What the fuck is the point of putting a gay slur in there? Lesbianism has nothing to do with being a close minded bitch. I’m queer, and it’s pretty disheartening seeing slurs pop up here in a place where I come to talk about the problems I face. Some of which come from being a queer man. There’s no need to attack an entire group of people that have nothing to do with what you’re talking about. Edit: Appreciate the mods here taking action against hate like that. Good move, fellas.
/r/MensRights13/10/21 01:51 AM
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She'll say he was abusive with absolutely no proof and will get off with less than a year served because she's "just a little old lady".
/r/MensRights12/10/21 03:16 PM
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Yeah. That’s kind of the point. Having sex with an underage person both makes you a pedo and a statutory rapist. So, therefore, it’s called rape.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 01:40 PM
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I understand that the US has a free market and everything. But I just don’t understand why gambling is legal. It is entirely used by powerful people to take it manage of poor people. That is exclusively what gambling consists of. Why the fuck is that legal when pyramid schemes and Ponzi schemes are illegal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/10/21 05:23 PM
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I will say that I’ve known guys throughout my time in sobriety that would openly brag about raping girls and telling the younger guys that it’s “what women really want”. But I’d say it more of a rape sub-culture. There are definitely guys out there that love to brag about and encourage rape. It’s just a very small percentage of the world. Because the group of guys I’m referring to are the only ones I’ve ever met that acted and spoke that way. Not that I haven’t met other rapists, just none that …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/21 08:29 PM
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It’s not dumb, it’s intentional. It’s hateful, is what it is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/21 07:29 PM
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When I was in middle school I got punched in the face after making a very boring yo momma joke. Suspended our school for three days and the other kid top one day in school suspension. A few weeks later, a male student punches a female student after she attacked him with slaps. They gave her a week off of school just to “recover” despite her being the aggressor. So at least back in 2006 it was a major issue.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 11:45 PM
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There’s a great episode of South Park about how stupid hate crime legislation is in general.
/r/MensRights24/09/21 02:41 AM
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I think telling another group why they hate something is pretty fucking stupid. Especially when that group doesn’t hate people as a group. Some of the individuals in the group end up hating women. But acting like it’s a group-wide thing is just sexist.
/r/MensRights18/09/21 05:01 PM
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Ehhh. He’s always been a bully. He’s just a bully That figured out that if he put it on goth make up he could make a bunch of money. Does that mean he’s a rapist? No. But it would be a stretch to say he was a good person just because he made some statements against bullying.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 12:45 PM
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Man. If 2 men, both born with incredibly powerful connections, can get away with it obviously every man can. It’s the same logic as people who say that men have had a great all throughout history. Which, no. 99% of men have been toiling away at incredibly dangerous manual labor jobs that they don’t get paid shit for, while a tiny percentage of men ran the world on their workers backs. Powerful people being men doesn’t mean all men are given innate power in the world.
/r/MensRights13/09/21 04:18 PM
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I’ve worked in customer service for most of my working life. There’s been about six different instances where some drunk woman or man has groped me. It happened about three months ago when a drunk woman at my hotel pool started making pool boy comments while I was skimming the pool and asking where my speedo was. And then as I walked past her, she smacked my ass while her friend recorded it. I talked to management about it in hopes of getting her expelled from the property. They did absolutely n…
/r/MensRights11/09/21 07:41 PM
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Stan lee actually said something in this regard but more to do with queer and African-American characters. Just saying that we shouldn’t keep just changing the sexuality or race of already existing characters. That we should create new characters of their own to better represent these communities. I think the same goes for women. Do you want strong women in television and movies? Then make one. Don’t just steal someone else’s character and change them up just so they’re more like you.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 09:38 PM
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Also, Viagra got government funding because it was researched as a treatment for severe blood pressure and heart attacks. The boners were just a side effect of the medicine that they took advantage of. So it’s either an ignorant or disingenuous argument.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 09:51 PM
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Despite the fact that the bill never would’ve passed without support from women. The idea that this is just like a cabal of evil men trying to control women is such an insane conspiracy theory. The most adamant pro life people I’ve met in my life have been women. They feel especially connected to the issue when they’ve had children of their own. It makes them think that having children is right for everybody and should be treated as some sort of perfect gift and not what it is to a lot of women,…
/r/MensRights08/09/21 02:39 AM
5

Neither have I. Wish I had known this back when my ex-wife would accuse me of stealing for spending my own money.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 07:53 PM
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This is similar to how Riley Reid bragged about raping someone when she was younger. Absolutely no one gives a shit when a woman does it.
/r/MensRights05/09/21 03:38 PM
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Do some research and see how well abstinence-based sex education goes. It consistently causes rises in STDs and teen pregnancy. People are gonna have sex. It is one of the most basic of human natures’ urges. Thinking that you can get them to just stop having sex unless they’re ready for a baby is just naïve. It will literally never happen. So the best we can do is give people options to protect their own livelihood and protect a child from being raised by unprepared, incapable and trapped parent…
/r/MensRights04/09/21 10:14 PM
1

You can’t genuinely believe contraception works 100% of the time.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 09:40 PM
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Oh yes, let’s give women complete and utter control over all things reproductive. That can only go good places.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 07:30 PM
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Absolutely, society shouldn’t have to foot the bill. Which is why it would be left up to the woman whether she wants to have the baby or not. If she can afford it, great. If she can’t, then she shouldn’t put that at societies feet and should get the abortion.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 06:51 PM
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Which is why I said you let the woman know you don’t wanna be a part of that child’s life while she still has a chance to get an abortion. At that point, whether she can afford to keep that child or not it’s completely up to her. And you’re just using the same logic as “if a woman didn’t wanna get pregnant she shouldn’t have had sex”. Which is also a bullshit argument.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 04:53 PM
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Yep. Exactly. And nobody here is claiming that it’s easy to let go of your control in the situation of an abortion, of course it’s not easy. But the fact is, it’s not our choice. That being said, since we don’t get to make A decision on whether we want the baby or not, we should have the right to abandon that child before it’s born. Just waive our parental rights at a time which still leaves the girl time for an abortion, and never have to behave as a father. We shouldn’t be forced into anything…
/r/MensRights04/09/21 03:42 PM
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People keep dumb voting comments that say this, but I agree. And I think if you look at it through the lens of getting a vasectomy it makes more sense. If your wife tells you she wants to have a baby and you don’t, do you have to ask her permission to get a vasectomy? Of course not, that’s your body. Whether she wants a baby or not is a relevant when it comes to what you choose to do with your body. Same goes for women. It’s not our place to tell them to carry a baby to term. As much as it might…
/r/MensRights04/09/21 02:58 PM
1

Holy shit, that is appalling. What an absolute piece of garbage.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 05:26 PM
2

Thank you for sharing this. I’ll be doing some research in the next couple days. Just found my new talking point for the next couple weeks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 04:46 AM
5

What?.. The military industrial complex needs soldiers to operate. I don’t know why that needs to be said. And if people stop or slow down signing up for the military, they don’t want the Military to just shut down. And plus, if a war starts and it’s too large a scale for the service members already on duty, they want back up. So of course selective service helps the military industrial complex.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 01:05 AM
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I highly doubt they’re going to vote to do anything to get in the way of the military industrial machine. Ending the selective service is pretty much a nonstarter, politically. I’m all for it ending. But I highly doubt they’ll do anything that could hurt the military that much. It’s all the US gives a shit about, monetarily.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 12:47 AM
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Well this is a step in the right direction when it comes to equality, I’m not sure we should be actually celebrating the fact that women can now be sent to their deaths against their will as well as men. Step in the right direction for equality, step in the wrong direction for the “selective” service.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 12:36 AM
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Yeah, believe it or not, I don’t want to leave aesthetic of my my dick up to my parents. They haven’t even seen the goddamn thing in 20 years. So how about, instead of asking for parents permission, we just don’t cut little boys dicks unless there’s a medical problem.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 09:49 PM
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Because what you’re saying is factually incorrect. Most circumcisions happen at birth. Which, believe it or not, babies can’t consent for that shit.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 09:40 PM
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The amount of times that circumcision is medically reasonable are so few and far between compared to religious or aesthetic reasons. There are occasional medical reasons to remove a woman’s clitoris, does that mean we should cut every woman’s clitoris off?
/r/MensRights31/08/21 09:30 PM
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You only have to work 30 hours a week to be considered full time in Florida. Full time can be anywhere from 30 to 120 hours a week. (After that you might as well call your job your life.) From what I see in AUS it's 35 and up. So this article using the vague "full time work" phrasing avoids any realistic, reasonable comparisons. If I saw a man working 100 hours a week and a woman working 35, I would absolutely give the raise to the man. (Same for vice-versa) And statistics have shown that, on av…
/r/MensRights31/08/21 02:49 PM
2

I genuinely believe that the feminist movement had good intentions at the start. I think they absolutely wanted pure, unadulterated equality. But that slowly shifted to a supremacist sense of entitlement. Searching for equity instead of equality. Doing whatever it takes to make every woman feel equal to the men, instead of just giving the women equal opportunity to accomplish the same things men do. Which is not only unfair to men but also patronizing to women. Like they are incapable of accompl…
/r/MensRights29/08/21 07:24 PM
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I was actually thinking about making a post yesterday about how normalized the destruction of male genitalia has become. Every action/comedy movie has at least one instance of a guy being punched/kicked/stabbed/shot/slapped in the genitals. But can you think of a single instance of a woman being stabbed in the genitals in an action movie? Or shot or any of the above examples? Of course not. Because women’s reproductive health is beautiful and life-creating and men’s reproductive health is utilit…
/r/MensRights29/08/21 06:57 PM
1

Technically, Loki is a decent portrayal. But they’ve also almost done nothing with his bisexuality. Other than mention it. Plus, he’s a literal villain. Not even in the antihero yet. Just a straight up villain.
/r/MensRights28/08/21 02:54 PM
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I mean, yeah, the show might get cancelled because it loses viewership or something, but to say people would file a lawsuit is a little over the top. It's Always Sunny jokes about rape/date rape/anti-feminism constsantly. Now, what I will say, is the way it's presented is different. While characters on It's Always Sunny are supposed to be terrible people, and therefore them saying horrible things is part of the joke. And then, on the other hand, in instances like you mentioned, the characters ar…
/r/MensRights26/08/21 10:19 PM
1

And right wingers literally attempting to overthrow the election through violence 6 months ago. Don't pretend Democrats have a copyright on terrorism. It is much more pervasive in Far Right ideology than it is far left. Edit: In fact, didn't a right-winger get arrested like 2 days ago for making a bomb threat in front of the Library of Congress because he thought it was where Congress met?
/r/MensRights22/08/21 05:16 PM
2

12 incel attacks since 2000?.. So, like, almost fucking never?..
/r/MensRights22/08/21 10:38 AM
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I saw a post today that said "Women are leading the march against the Taliban" with a video of a woman starting a chant in the streets. But that's all she was doing. In a crowd of almost nothing but men. She was leading a chant. She was not "Leading a march aganist the Taliban." The first title implies she's like, starting a siege on a taliban stronghold or something. Edit: I should note, this isn't the title word for word. I can't find the post in question at the moment. But I captured the tone…
/r/MensRights19/08/21 08:07 PM
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I'm glad some people actually took the time to go back and look. It genuinely upset me. I have trust issues from my experience with my ex-wife and stuff like this makes me awfully wary sharing those trust issues with anyone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/21 01:25 PM
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The main issue I have with people that call themselves incels is that saying that you're "celibate involuntarily" very heavily implies that you're owed sex. And that's a gross ideology. But I do sympathize with men that have been mistreated by women and therefore have trust issues about it. This is actually something I've been talking about a lot on Reddit for the past couple days. That subs like r/niceguys is just a place to bully vulnerable men with trust issues. There are plenty of legitimate…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/21 08:17 PM
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I do feel like there are disgusting, misogynistic, entitled pieces of shit that actually belong on that sub. But people with trust issues and traumas that make them wary of trusting women is perfectly valid. In the same way that if a woman was abused by her husband, it might take her a while to be able to trust men again. And that's fine. People can take their own time and do whatever they have to do for their own comfort. You just can't let it cause you to fall into stereotyping and bigotry. An…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/21 06:47 PM
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I actually commented yesterday about how a post on r/niceguys seemed like the guy was more just traumatized from being bullied and mistreated then he was in "incel" or "Nice Guy". He said nothing about feeling like he was owed sex or anything like that, he didn't even say anything about a girl going for a Chad instead of a nice guy or anything like that. He just heard that a girl might actually like him and he was too self-conscious to accept that she did. And these people were just tearing him …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/21 04:38 AM
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Check my recent comment history. You'll see me arguing with someone after they said they only felt bad for the women and children in the country. And that all the men deserved to die just because they weren't able to fight back.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/21 09:22 PM
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That's how my relationship with my best friend is. He's my brother in every way but blood. I don't think I have ever loved somebody outside my family as much as I love that man. And it's really, genuinely a beautiful thing to have. So if you find it, hold on to it.
/r/MensRights14/08/21 07:44 PM
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I want to preface this by saying I absolutely 100% agree with what you're saying here. But I do find it kind of funny that your username is u/Reddit1984Censorship and you're asking for a subreddit to be banned. Just kind of funny.
/r/MensRights13/08/21 10:08 PM
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It's almost as if feminism is turning into a parody of itself. Like somehow they've gone so far out of their way to protect women that they're beginning to treat women like children. If treating the women like children gets them good jobs and higher paying salaries. And much higher preference in the stem field's education systems. And more lenient sentencing for criminals. And higher chance to get children in a divorce. And having their word tantamount to evidence in a criminal hearing. It's alm…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/21 08:10 PM
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So did they want them make these women who married absolute monsters out to be good people? Or victims? Like they didn't know these people were drug kingpins?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/21 06:55 PM
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So you're saying, then no matter how objectively and verifiably dangerous, racist and evil an ideology is they should have the right to have a platform somewhere? What if this new uncensored website starts being a gathering place for pedophiles to talk about how much they love raping kids? Would it be stretching freedom of speech if they banned them?
/r/MensRights09/08/21 02:42 AM
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But they were hating on women. We're not saying the initial ideal is wrong, but that Reddit community representing it was fucked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/21 10:21 PM
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Absolutely agree. Such a gross, toxic place full of gross, toxic people. They have much better reason to ban that than r/misandry or this sub if that does happen, which I doubt. 1: This sub is tiny and most likely under most people's radar. 2: This sub is in no way even comparable to r/MGTOW It was full of men supposedly "going their own way" without women while spending all their time bitching about hating women and perpetuating gross stereotypes. So fuck that sub. Reddit is better off without …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/21 04:01 AM
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Even the very first point you made there doesn't make any sense. "They censor Nazis so that makes them like Nazis"? That's nonsense.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/21 10:59 PM
1

You asked way too many questions for my dyslexic ass to be able to answer everything. But yes, I am personally a queer man who wasn't listened to when I was told people my wife raped me.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 10:58 PM
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Yeah, but when one of these sites claims that, why wouldn't white supremacists flock to it? It's like a big invitation. I think they're absolutely should be rules in place for what kind of ideologies you'll allow on your website. It's not a matter of censorship or not. It's about not allowing yourself to be a platform for that kind of hate. If I owned some sort of theater venue, I wouldn't allow somebody to come on stage and perform an act that venerates Hitler as some sort of perfect genius. Th…
/r/MensRights06/08/21 10:57 PM
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You know, it's funny. I seem to remember a group of "white" people who everybody saw as being in control of the world being the victims of one of the largest crimes against humanity in human history. I'm obviously not saying there's going to be a white man holocaust. But pretending this kind of ideology doesn't lead to bad things is just fucking bonkers.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 01:32 AM
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I've been thinking the same thing. Them standing up for mgtow and pushing everybody to go to some weird, unknown, "censorship-free" app sketches me out to no end. "Censorship-free" nowadays it's almost synonymous with "we won't ban you for being a white supremacist or Nazi" and I'll be damned if I'm going to let myself be associated with that shit. Fuck r/mensrights. All the mgtow guys are going to start spilling over and I honestly think that's where all the posts backing up mgtow have come fro…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/21 01:46 AM
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White bisexual men are being told they don't exist at all. I can't tell you how many times I've tried to flirt with a guy and then he finds out I have an ex-wife and I'm completely written off. I'm told I'm being selfish and greedy as if we're talking about a box of donuts and not 7 billion human beings. Women on the other hand, perfectly validated as bisexual, it's almost encouraged in society (if not in a fetishized way). That and people assume that, just because I'm white, I've never been dis…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 01:06 AM
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This site claims to have no censorship. So will they not take action if people start gathering to commit acts of violence on there? It seems like every single time one of these "no censorship" platforms comes up, it's immediately inundated with white supremacists and conspiracy theorists. I'm just a little reluctant to trust it. Plus, God only knows what they're doing with my information and I'll take the evil I know over an evil I don't.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 11:39 PM
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I didn't say it was. I said the idea that women are useless, which is espoused on that subreddit a lot, is inherently sexist. Don't put words in my mouth.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/21 02:43 PM
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While I don't doubt that they will definitely try to ban this subreddit, mgtow was a hell of a lot more hateful towards women than this subreddit is. They claimed it was about going their own way but half of the sub was complaining about women and making all sorts of nasty stereotypes. Not helpful for anything involving our movement. I think we stand out as pretty fucking different from mgtow. But I don't think that puts any less of a target on her back.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 03:09 AM
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Uh.. no. Mgtow and FDS are both hateful cesspits of sexism. Both subs are equally disgusting and neither has a place in our movement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/21 10:38 PM
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Yeah. It was a disgusting subreddit full of sexists and misogynists. This sub and the men's rights sub are completely different than mgtow. We're fighting for equality, mgtow was fighting to show that women were useless and men should just go their own way. Which is inherently sexist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/21 10:37 PM
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Ah, yes. By "once in a while" you mean "here's this one story about a thing that happened one time." Nothing like justifying horrific actions based on things that didn't even happen to this person. "Hitler killed my granddad so now I'm allowed to kill whatever Germans I want." That's how stupid you sound. Fuck off.
/r/MensRights02/08/21 04:34 PM
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Dude mods hundreds of subs. So I'm not sure you know what a troll is. This is just a shitty person.
/r/MensRights01/08/21 02:39 PM
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Oh yes, women like to point out how messed up the sex culture is with men, and then openly mock young men for having not had sex. Wonder why they're feeling pressure. Maybe it's because the entire world wants to make them think they are less of a man if they haven't had sex yet while also shaming them for wanting to have sex. You can't win.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 11:19 PM
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I don't think this guy understands that if you lie about sexual assault, going back over it over and over again would not be traumatic. Because you fucking lied. I can go lie about getting shot when I was a kid and tell a bunch of people about it, but doing that isn't going to be traumatic for me because it didn't fucking happen.
/r/MensRights28/07/21 08:29 PM
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Because statistically men have to travel further for their work and need a shit ton more protein than women do?
/r/MensRights27/07/21 08:45 PM
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"No! The women are the ones the men are supposed to be protecting and dying for!"
/r/MensRights26/07/21 12:37 AM
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Nothing says equality and inclusivity like vowing to remove and entire gender/race from your workforce. It's crazy how mainstream sexism against men and racism against white people has gotten. Just yesterday I got downvoted for saying it wrong to say white people are just inherently racist. Take a look at the thread in my comment history. Another guy got downvoted for saying "How about we don't judge people based on race?". And one person said something along the lines of "Black people were ensl…
/r/MensRights24/07/21 01:26 AM
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Oh yes, less vulnerable to the things that affect poor people. Men can't be homeless. Men can't starve to death. Men can't succumb to the elements by being forced to sleep outside every night. This is a problem women and children face. And everyone knows most homeless people are women and children. /s
/r/MensRights11/07/21 04:48 PM
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People say the same things about Sam and Frodo in Lord of the rings. Like they claim they were written to be gay. Say what you will about JRR Tolkien, I'm relatively certain he wasn't on the forefront of gay rights in the 1940s. It's fetishizing, nothing else. Just because it's not a sexual fetishization doesn't mean it's not a fetishization.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/21 11:51 PM
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I literally have anybody driving more than 10 minutes tell me when they made it home safe. Every single person in my life.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 03:18 PM
2

I know how you feel. My ex-wife decided she wanted a divorce and told me I could take time to find a place. Two weeks later at the very first argument we had the chance to have, she called the police on me saying I was threatening her with scissors. They came, only got her account of the story, and despite me being the one with scratches on my face I spent the next two nights in jail. Took me almost a year to get the charges dropped and another year to fight to get my dog back from her. I'm sorr…
/r/MensRights06/06/21 11:19 PM
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Had never heard of thetinmen before they started popping up here a couple months ago. Really appreciate their bare bones, no nonsense display of just facts. The opinion is left for the reader to dissect, but they just spit straight facts. Glad to see such nuanced intelligence actually pushing against the feminist agenda.
/r/MensRights05/06/21 12:42 AM
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Ah yes. Blatant sexism. Fuck off, prick.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 02:00 AM
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There's literally a giant jug of muriatic acid sitting next to the pool pump at the hotel I work at. I could literally just grab it from the outside and walk away with it.
/r/MensRights23/05/21 03:49 AM
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Like modern feminism gives a shit about what's constitutional or not.
/r/MensRights13/05/21 04:25 PM
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So are you just going to pretend that Twitter has absolutely no role in The general zeitgeist? You can't genuinely think that, unless you're some 65-year-old man hiding out in a storm shelter. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean it's not important part of our society nowadays along with any other popular social networking site.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 01:17 AM
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Well, what you're saying about cults just isn't true. People are convinced to leave cults all the time. I got stuck in a homeless shelter once that ended up being a Christian cult. It took me a while to realize how bad they were, most people can be helped with reason.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 11:49 PM
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I didn't say they were more mistreated. I just said they were mistreated by men. Which isn't saying they weren't also mistreated by other women. Just that they were also, probably moreso, mistreated by men.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 07:15 AM
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Yep. So lets just be angry and hateful towards each other til oblivion. Problem solved, right? Thank god for your genius.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 04:17 AM
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Because that's the opposite of how humanity managed to grow as strong as we did. It's about working with who we can and hoping the rest fall in line. What else would you suggest we do? Try and survive as a race of just men?
/r/MensRights13/04/21 04:13 AM
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So, you don't think that men being unwilling to hire women as doctors because they were just inherently not smart enough was discrimination?.. Or that the belief, espoused in the bible, that women are inherently lesser than men didn't affect the way women were treated by people in power for thousands of years? The idea that women have it easy nowadays is more than obvious, but to pretend men never mistreated women as a whole is just plain ignorant.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 04:10 AM
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Godwin's Law beautifully fucking illustrated.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 04:07 AM
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You understand that women aren't a hivemind, right? Like, they are individual humans with personally held beliefs and convictions. So we do our best with the reasonable ones and hope they spread the word. What other option is there? War? Just making peace with being enemies with half the population? Edit: Oh, Jesus christ, this comment is still you. Put your thoughts together coherently or don't comment instead putting your thoughts out like a dog barking at a mailbox.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 04:06 AM
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There are a lot of assumptions in there, bud.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 04:03 AM
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So if you believe reasoned debate is out of the question, what would you suggest? War? What the fuck else is there? Humanity made it this far, despite of war, by diplomacy. By, eventually, seeing an enemy tribe as able to negotiate with and they started working together despite the ways they saw each other while fighting. And slowly, nations and empires were built.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 04:02 AM
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Did I say any of that was some groundbreaking thought? I specified in the original post that this was just for discussion. You're the one that came in hot.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 03:58 AM
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Can you specifically reference the two points in my post that made you feel either of these things were accurate about my point of view? I don't want to seem like I'm being condescending or shitty here. I just genuinely don't understand your line of reasoning in asking these questions.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 02:35 AM
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You are making way more assumptions about my point of view than I am yours. You're literally questioning the integrity of my post. That is a much higher questioning than mine. Also, fuck off. You're obviously going out of your way to take the worst version of what I'm saying. And you're pulling shit out of your ass to justify it.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 02:33 AM
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Do you genuinely believe that out of the hundreds of millions of feminists in this world, none of them hold reasonable opinions? That there aren't people that we can reach that are willing to have reasoned discussions? That kind of assumption about all women is literally the exact type of sexism we're supposed to be fighting against. We are human beings. We are capable of discussion and reasoning. Why the hell would we write off an entire ideology? Are you going to pretend there aren't any toxic…
/r/MensRights13/04/21 02:12 AM
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What?.. Where did you get that from?..
/r/MensRights13/04/21 02:07 AM
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"Why do you want to discuss what is or what isn't feminism according to some feminists in r/mens rights???? Feminism is feminism. A mouse is still a mouse even when it's black, white, brown, piebald... If feminists want to argue amongst themselves what is or isn't feminism let them, why should r/mensrights care about their infighting? And no your token sentence at the end that it might happen to 'our movement' (whatever that's supposed to mean) doesn't really cut it. IMHO" A comment in response …
/r/MensRights13/04/21 02:03 AM
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Because hashtags are what actually trends on Twitter, one of the largest if not the largest social networking site on the planet. So if those types of hashtags start trending more people see them, which leads to more impressionable people being taken to their side. Which leads to more people voting for people to make more extremist laws against men.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 02:01 AM
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Exactly, but you don't have to look much further than this common thread to see the kind of vitriol that can come out of our own movement already.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 12:02 AM
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Plus, making a monolith of a movement is the exact reason why mainstream people can't take us seriously because the worst of our people are absolutely awful. In the same way that the worst of feminism is absolutely awful. We should be trying to talk together. We're all humans and this isn't a war. All of this is about trying to bring balance to working together as humans regardless of gender. Honestly, people with the level of vitriol you have are kind of part of the problem.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 11:50 PM
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... huh?.. I didn't ask feminists anything. I asked for the men rights opinion on that segment of feminism. What the fuck are you even talking about?
/r/MensRights12/04/21 11:47 PM
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This might be desperation of wanting to believe that these beliefs haven't gotten this mainstream, but are there any actual public figures who have used either of those hashtags? Because if so, I would really like to know. (That being said, I know that legislation isn't based entirely on public figures beliefs, but [especially in feminism] the strongest beliefs of their constituents) I just would really like to know if anyone public is actually pushing that much of an extremeist ideology.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 11:28 PM
1

I don't know why you're getting downvoted at all. That's 100% true and very basic knowledge when it comes to abuser/abusee relationships. You don't always see how bad someone is until you have the time for retrospect. I didn't realize how bad my ex-wife had really been til I talked about her in court-ordered therapy after she made a false abuse claim and got me sent to jail.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 01:45 PM
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So are they saying that only men should be tranformed into an object designed only to fulfill a need? Because that sounds a lot like how men are treated now.
/r/MensRights02/04/21 04:29 PM
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"Not uncommon to have more than a hundred victims"? Where in the ever loving fuck does this chick live? The seventh circle of hell?
/r/MensRights31/03/21 05:43 AM
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Do you have any statistics to back that up? Because there's not really any way you could know that. Especially with how few men actually come forward with accusations. Which has even more of a stigma than a woman doing so.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 11:07 PM
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YEAH! Don't you know that being scared while walking alone is an exclusively female issue?! I mean, it's not like men are much, much more likely to be assaulted or anything. It's not like men get raped, right? I mean, I'm pretty sure that I, who has been mugged multiple times and was raped, is just the exception to the very real rule, right? Come on guys. Just admit they're right on this one. ​ Edit: /s, in case it was really necessary.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 05:20 PM
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I really don't think not participating in a dialogue is going to help anything. While the movement is veering in a dangerous direction, not every feminist is a sociopath. Hearts and minds can win wars. It could win us this. We just need to get to the point where defending yourself against feminism isn't considered sexist in and of itself. If we treat every feminist like a psychopath, we are no different than them treating every MRA like a sexist
/r/MensRights10/03/21 04:48 PM
1

There is nothing inherent about women's day that has anything to do with men. we should be perfectly capable of celebrating women if we also want to be celebrated. Otherwise we're just going to reverse what feminists did for the worst. going from men being the only people that mattered to women being the only people that mattered we're just going to jump straight back to men being the only ones that matter and this will turn into a never ending fight. Let's just celebrate as we wish to be celebr…
/r/MensRights08/03/21 10:55 PM
1

I feel the worry for your son. I worry about the same stuff for my godson. When I got divorced my wife took everything. Now, we didn't own a house, and we had no money at all. What we did have were a lot of things that had sentimental value. Decorations, paintings and furniture. Just little knick knacks, books and records. I was able to work with losing that, qs much as I hated it. But then later down the line, she took my dog when she already got to keep our pet leopard gecko. But right towards…
/r/MensRights28/02/21 05:01 AM
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I'm saving this shit. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MensRights22/02/21 12:57 PM
5

This just more than points out how differently the sexual assault of women is seen as inherently different than sexual assault against men. Can you imagine the Nationwide horror if a story came out about a woman having batteries forcefully pushed into her vagina? But when it happens to a man that's nothing more than a setup to a good joke.
/r/MensRights20/02/21 03:10 AM
7

Boom. Nailed it.
/r/MensRights16/02/21 01:57 AM
2

I see what you're saying now. But still, in this one circumstance, I think they just called her a person of color because she's not just black. But yes, obviously the media will take every chance it gets to make sure everyone knows that it wasn't a white man or any man who did something. Which seems like a strange position to take when we're all trying to move past such a race-based society
/r/MensRights09/02/21 04:05 PM
3

I'm not saying that this doesn't happen in other circumstances, but I think here they chose "woman of color" because she's not just black. She's also Asian. Also, just out of curiosity, why is it that nobody that's half black and half white identifies as white? They only ever call themselves black. Like Barack Obama, his mom was white and his dad was black. But everyone just calls him "black".
/r/MensRights09/02/21 03:19 PM
35

It worries me that you see preprubecent boys as having "sexual power".
/r/MensRights08/02/21 10:11 PM
2

Oh Jesus Christ people, I just mean she's not some fucking hagraven. she doesn't look like Sarah Huckabee Sanders. And if she's so ugly, how did she manage to sleep with enough people to get to the top?
/r/MensRights08/02/21 05:37 PM
1

Oh shut the fuck up I don't agree with her either, but not every good looking woman in the government slept her way to the top. That's just some sexist nonsense we need to avoid so people don't associate us with cesspools like mgtow. Plus, she holds a publicly elected office. How the hell do you sleep your way to the top of that? Did she fuck her whole district into voting for her?
/r/MensRights08/02/21 03:23 PM
6

How convenient that you worded it in a way that anyone that disagrees with you is a sexist. Edit: I actually saw this post earlier today and meant to comment that on the original post.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 04:54 PM
1

Thank you. She was always abusive and manipulative. But somehow convinced our friends that I was the abusive one when things started getting ugly. So I've pretty much had to start my whole life over at 28.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 03:18 AM
2

I feel his pain. Not the $3 million part. But my ex-wife did steal my dog. been fighting for about 4 months to get her back. And it has been expensive.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 01:31 AM
2

Tell that to the 6 separate women who have groped me in large crowds. And it gives me a full on panic attack every time thanks to my history with sexual abuse and rape. Fuck people that write shit like this.
/r/MensRights29/11/20 05:12 AM
7

While I do believe this speaks to a larger problem, I promise you Google doesn't give a shit about women either. They're a billion dollar tech company. If the general populace was okay with a new holocaust tomorrow, they'd make a banner supporting it.
/r/MensRights19/11/20 05:38 AM
3

Holy shit. They're so blatant about it. Using the exact same rhetoric they've been calling bigoted and racist since the police brutality issue hit the mainstream. Absolutely ridiculous. And nothing pisses me off quicker than that "Sit down" bullshit. I don't know how much more dismissive you can be about people being killed.
/r/MensRights27/09/20 09:36 AM
3

Yep. And nobody here wants to hear what men are struggling with because we're all apparently so "privileged" that we should just get over it. Which is why most people, like yourself, don't know how bad we get it in the courts. Even in criminal court women, on average, get half the jail time men do for the same exact crime.
/r/MensRights19/08/20 09:15 PM
2

I appreciate that. Just try not to make blanket statements about a court system you may not fully understand. Especially in America, it is almost impossible to get an impartial court and it's always against the men. By ex wife got to literally keep everything in our possession, All I asked for was partial custody of the dog. And they won't even let me have that.
/r/MensRights19/08/20 09:05 PM
8

I'm going through a divorce, this is utter bullshit. Women are treated much better in the courts. In fact, in Florida all you have to do is claim someone is committing domestic violence and they are guaranteed to go to jail without any evidence. And it doesn't matter if you're charges are dropped, expunged or you're proven innocent in court, that stays on your record forever. Try dating or getting a decent job with domestic battery on your record. It's complete bullshit in favor of the woman. Oh…
/r/MensRights19/08/20 08:50 PM
7

Imagine taking your frustration about your marriage out on your kids and acting like it was your husband's fault and that cheating was the solution instead of, ya know, a fucking divorce. What a miserable excuse for a mother.
/r/MensRights19/08/20 08:47 PM
3

I hate my ex wife, the last thing I want is to ever see that fucking face again. So this is nonsense.
/r/MensRights14/08/20 10:30 PM
1

The double standards affect us all. Pointing out the indiscretions in pop culture is the best way to bring attention to it because everybody has more of the story due to it being in the public eye. This is honestly the best way to bring it to the general public's attention.
/r/MensRights11/08/20 08:56 PM
5

Then you're entirely missing the point of the post. Pointing out these double standards is important, regardless if the subject matter.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 08:57 PM
6

Its not about his celebrity, its about the double standards in society.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 08:47 PM
22

That's disgusting dude. If you wanna fuck other women, don't be married.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 08:44 PM
0

True.
/r/MensRights09/08/20 06:38 PM
-11

It upsets me you're getting downvoted. He's a borderline white supremacist. Fuck Tucker Carlson.
/r/MensRights09/08/20 04:11 AM
1

I know it's a meme, but the gendering of non-gendered issues irks me.
/r/MensRights07/08/20 08:37 PM
1

One is much more inappropriate.
/r/MensRights03/08/20 02:15 AM
10

I think they meant the goofy typing at the end of the post.
/r/MensRights30/07/20 12:16 AM
22

Yep. Sacrificed so much for that woman. Still haven't recovered from that night. Still have nowhere to go, lost my job and every possession I had built up in those 10 years. Almost lost my dog but my lawyer helped with that.
/r/MensRights25/07/20 11:39 PM
38

My ex-wife used to accuse me of "freaking out" or "being abusive" every time I got angry with her. I even once said "I can be angry and not be 'freaking out'" and she reacted like I told her the sky was pink. Then one day, while I was angry and not freaking out, she locked me out of my house and called the police when I tried to break back in. Spent 2 nights in jail and a year in diversion program for 'domestic battery' when I never so much as laid a finger on her the entire 10 years we were tog…
/r/MensRights25/07/20 11:07 PM
1

I'm a bi dude. I can't explain the heaping level of bullshit I deal with in this regard. I feel ya brother. And god forbid you say it's real problem and get labeled a whiny-white-man.
/r/MensRights13/07/20 04:09 AM
10

Nice strawman there. Groups aren't monoliths. People have different beliefs. You could go to a methodist church with 500 people in it, and you most likely won't find 2 people that believe the exact same thing on every subject. Don't be a dick when someone is trying to share their trauma.
/r/MensRights10/07/20 12:08 PM
2

No need to sink to their level. Better to just show them how to not be petty and vidictive.
/r/MensRights17/06/20 07:52 PM
1

You're making a lot of assumptions about me there.
/r/MensRights12/06/20 09:35 PM
2

What a well stuctured and thought out argument.
/r/MensRights10/06/20 08:49 PM
59

Exactly. It's about being loved for who you are instead of what they get out of you. People who love someone are willing to make sacrifices for them. Which is the literal polar opposite of getting something out of it. And i know its anecdotal,but i spent 10 years making sacrifices for my ex-wife, and i cant think of a single, real sacrifice she made for me. Because its not expected of her. Men are supposed to sacrifice for their families, women are meant to have sacrifices made for them.
/r/MensRights10/06/20 04:19 AM
14

“We have no proof, we’re just saying some shit to get clicks.”
/r/MensRights05/06/20 09:11 PM
1

Women aren’t held accountable for their crimes. Plain and simple as that for y’all’s simple ass.
/r/MensRights02/06/20 06:37 AM
13

All they had to do was not add the “jake was drunk” and it would’ve been a reasonable message. They added the Jake was drunk part on purpose. They knew exactly what their message was going to be. “Men can’t be raped”.
/r/MensRights01/06/20 08:17 PM
2

I’ll definitely take a look. Thanks again man.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 04:19 AM
3

You genuinely brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much for that.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 04:04 AM
3

I honestly can’t even tell you how validating your sympathy is. That’s how starved for sympathy I am in this regard. It means a lot. And I totally agree. We’re disposable. Emotionally and physically. We’re only loved for what we can provide. Which is a safe place for the women in our lives and financial stability for the wife. I spent 10 years working my ass off for my ex-wife to get through school just to drop out without talking to me about it. The she only worked part time for three years for…
/r/MensRights30/05/20 03:12 AM
3

I was also raped a few years ago at 24 years old. All I’ve gotten from women is “you were raped by a man so patriarchy.” Or “he was smaller than you, why couldn’t you just fight him off?” Ignoring the fact that I was drugged. My mom and therapist are the only women who has show any semblance of sympathy.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 02:55 AM
1

You must’ve fixed it cause it’s working now.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 02:53 AM
1

Can you fix your link? I’d like to see
/r/MensRights30/05/20 02:52 AM
4

Yep. It’s not just America. God forbid we fight for real equality.
/r/MensRights29/05/20 09:48 PM
13

And the balls it takes to say “I don’t know if it’s true that female rapists get less prison time”. What?! A three second google answers that shit right quick. Couples who are caught molesting children together always give less time to the woman. Constantly saying that “the man manipulated her”. I don’t know about you, but I can’t see myself being manipulated into pedophilia. .
/r/MensRights29/05/20 07:21 PM
35

Obviously, this means we should all jump to the conclusion that all women are naturally duplicitous, violent criminals, right? Just trying to go by the feminist playbook, ya know.
/r/MensRights17/05/20 08:25 PM
9

Finally, a statement I can stand behind.
/r/MensRights04/05/20 12:37 AM
0

And I’m sure we’ll see plenty of evidence before this turns to an accusatory shit-show,right? Right?..
/r/MensRights14/04/20 03:42 PM
1

Why are you hanging out with Nazis?..
/r/MensRights13/04/20 09:25 PM
5

What?.. Operate in secrecy? Where the hell did you get that?
/r/MensRights13/04/20 09:23 PM
3

Of course. All someone has to say is “I’m not a Nazi” and problem solved, right?
/r/MensRights13/04/20 09:19 PM
-7

If you think that, then you haven’t read enough of his stuff. He is blatantly racist. He not like Louis saying the N-word in stand up, or Bo Burnham saying faggot in his. He’s just racist. And it is super-obvious. And again, he’s unnecessary to the point. So why give them ammo?
/r/MensRights13/04/20 09:14 PM
6

Right? I kinda had a feeling it would happen though. I’m just genuinely worried people are gonna join the sub because stuff like this makes them believe we believe in things that we don’t.
/r/MensRights13/04/20 09:10 PM
-12

Lots of people support this cause without being a racist piece of garbage. I’m just saying that feminists and the like will do anything to make us look like bigoted, sexist pieces of shit, and associating with him is not going to help our cause. His inclusion in the post was entirely unnecessary. We don’t need a cartoon racist to make our points for us.
/r/MensRights13/04/20 09:09 PM
-30

Can we not associate ourselves with a literal Nazi like stonetoss?.. This point could’ve easily been made without promoting his garbage.
/r/MensRights13/04/20 08:37 PM
8

Has she not participated in any discussion about the show? There is plenty of hate going towards mr tiger king himself. The Carol Baskins thing is literally just a meme..
/r/MensRights13/04/20 07:52 PM
1

My comment wasn’t directed at you.
/r/MensRights09/04/20 07:51 PM
8

Can’t tell you how many arguments I’ve gotten into saying nobody is obligated to be attracted to anything. It isn’t mean, sexist or rude to not be attracted to people who are too tan, or too pale. Too skinny or too fat. Black or white. Male or female. Everyone has their own taste, leave people the fuck alone. Always downvoted into oblivion while having to block multiple feminists from my messages because I was being called a racist and misogynist. Which is funny, because I am attracted to larger…
/r/MensRights03/04/20 02:37 PM
3

Yeah. That’s rough. I’ve been an alcoholic and addict for 10 years and have been smoking cigarettes for 16 years and i don’t look that rough.
/r/MensRights30/03/20 06:20 PM
13

Jesus. She’s 27?..
/r/MensRights27/03/20 07:44 PM
16

NPR has the balls to run a story in how women get “worse” sentences and are unfairly treated in prison compared to men. I was disgusted, to say the least.
/r/MensRights25/03/20 05:25 PM
4

It’s so ironic to see a feminist type claiming we’re “blaming women for all our woes” when that’s literally exactly what they’re doing with this “Patriarchy” nonsense. Saying men are the sole reason for every problem in society.
/r/MensRights24/03/20 06:25 PM
2

“Leavit to the fags to fuck it up” or something along those hateful lines.
/r/MensRights24/03/20 09:32 AM
6

The hell is wrong with you? We are your allies in this, not your enemy. Jesus dude.
/r/MensRights24/03/20 01:24 AM
6

Hah. No worries.
/r/MensRights22/03/20 11:10 PM
7

Where is what from?
/r/MensRights22/03/20 11:09 PM
87

God that is disturbing. And I’ve heard of women doing this before. I’ve seen videos of women making their children record videos of them twerking and shit and I genuinely don’t understand how that isn’t enough to get someone exiled from social media if not get investigated from DCF. Exposure to that shit doesn’t sit right with a developing mind and can lead to some very unhealthy views on sex as they grow. Fucking gross. Or like Wendy Williams admitting to having continued blowing her husband af…
/r/MensRights22/03/20 09:00 PM
2

Didn’t see this reply when I posted this. Thank you, I can’t explain how validating it is to hear that. And it having been 6 mos., the family has kinda stopped feeling the need to validate my feelings in this. So that feels good man. Thank you.
/r/MensRights22/03/20 01:42 PM
11

Good god. What are you even doing here?
/r/MensRights21/03/20 04:37 PM
22

Had this convo on a post in r/twoxchromosomes about 10 women in Mexico being murdered a day and how it’s because of a “violence against women problem”. The article neglects to mention that it’s 10 out of a total of 95 murdered a day. Like. Fuckin why.
/r/MensRights14/03/20 03:39 AM
7

The narrative is only that women are mentally inferior when it suits their goals and fight for further immunity and power. Instead of holding them accountable as equals like we should. I read a story a few months ago about a woman who found out her husband, who she was separated from, was sleeping with someone. So she drove an hour to his house and murdered him a couple days later. And somehow that classified as a “crime of passion” and that she “wasn’t mentally competent.” She got an extremely …
/r/MensRights12/03/20 05:48 AM
9

Yeah. I ended up on hard drugs and alcohol for about 11 years after I turned 17. And things got infinitely worse after the attempted rape when I was 20. Like I said, that, the outbursts and some sexual issues destroyed my marriage. But I’ve got 6 months sober now and I’m in therapy trying to work past it. Sorry to hear about your friend, though.I know how hard that is.
/r/MensRights12/03/20 05:27 AM
22

Funny. I’ve had PTSD from an attempted rape for 8 years and PTSD from being molested as a child for 20 years and it destroyed my marriage. Guess I’m just a drama queen.
/r/MensRights12/03/20 05:14 AM
6

That is literally the exact reason feminism has ended up as awful as it is. You are a useless hamster running in a wheel.
/r/MensRights12/03/20 03:21 AM
1

Never seen someone so pissy because they can’t get laid.
/r/MensRights12/03/20 03:18 AM
6

I don’t think you know what that term means. Because it has nothing to do with saying blatant sexism is wrong. If you aren’t against sexism, which is the basis of this sub, what the fuck are you doing here?
/r/MensRights12/03/20 03:17 AM
7

This makes you literally no better than the feminists you’re lamenting about. How do you not see the irony and hypocrisy? Also, go back to MGTOW. Sexism in any form, against any gender, is not welcome here
/r/MensRights12/03/20 02:26 AM
2

Happens to the best of us. Hope you have a good night!
/r/MensRights12/03/20 01:31 AM
9

Like I said to someone else, pretty sure this isn’t the famous candy brand. The candy is spelled “Reeses”.
/r/MensRights12/03/20 01:25 AM
22

This isn’t the real company. It’s spelled “Reese’s”. But I do agree with the sentiment.
/r/MensRights12/03/20 01:24 AM
2

Mentioned this in a thread earlier. People did not like it. Take a look at my comments. Was less than an hour ago.
/r/MensRights09/03/20 09:16 PM
1

Dude, it’s been like half a year since I left this comment. Nowhere did I say that you’ve have followed anything I said. would never tell anyone what to do with their own body.
/r/MensRights22/02/20 08:46 AM
3

Okay. But the point of that bill was to show how ridiculous regulating a persons sexual reproduction rights is. I don’t agree with her tactic, and I obviously don’t agree with her being a husband beater, the bill wasn’t meant to be taken seriously.
/r/MensRights20/02/20 04:31 PM
3

Because if the power of choice isn’t putting more “power” into feminism, it’s useless to them. Women have the power of choice unless that power doesn’t push their agenda.
/r/MensRights09/02/20 05:05 PM
3

That should leave it up to a prosecutor.
/r/MensRights05/02/20 01:36 AM
1

Pretty sure that’s a finger.
/r/MensRights01/02/20 05:14 PM
16

Signed, signed and signed.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 05:17 AM
1

They are.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 01:55 AM
2

I was just trying to not be hyperbolic, but I lean towards agreeing with you
/r/MensRights27/01/20 01:23 PM
14

And the ridiculous part that they can’t see past is that men are more privileged in some regards, but women are also privileged in just as many facets of daily life. They just want their privileges and ours. And want absolutely none of the responsibility that comes with it.
/r/MensRights27/01/20 12:32 AM
11

I figured there was. Seems like that some of the guys here are starting to look a little too hard for this shit.
/r/MensRights20/01/20 05:31 AM
3

You said the same thing as everyone else and got downvoted. Wtf. Also, I’m just glad the people here call it out. Glad this hasn’t devolved into some misogynistic woman-hating sub like MGTOW.
/r/MensRights20/12/19 02:40 PM
1

Again. Not saying I don’t believe you. I’m saying it’s disgusting and obviously wrong if true.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 09:38 PM
1

I didn’t say lawyers are. I said you are. Now kindly fuck off.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 09:34 PM
1

But you’re making assumptions about our criminal justice systems and talking like you’ve been a part of them. You know exactly what you were doing. And talking with you is now definitely a waste of my time.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 09:33 PM
1

Also. According to your own words, you aren’t qualified to practice law in the US. So you’re a liar too.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 09:24 PM
1

The fact that it’s happening doesn’t make it okay. It means you are absolutely, 100% the problem.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 09:21 PM
1

If You’re making judgments about whether or not to believe a rape victim based on their attractiveness, you are an absolutely disgusting human being and have no place in our judicial system. I know multiple less than attractive women who have been raped. People depraved enough to rape aren’t going to go “I only rape 8’s and up.” Fuck off. Being a lawyer doesn’t mean you aren’t an abominable person. Go to hell. And again, if you see nothing in the story about that playing a role, you absolutely a…
/r/MensRights18/12/19 09:15 PM
3

Oh I do. Whenever I get the chance. I also try to change people’s stance on this whenever the opportunity arises. But unfortunately, without a large following of people who agree, I just feel hopeless. :(
/r/MensRights18/12/19 09:07 PM
1

Where did you read that her level of attractiveness had anything to do with it? Or are you, much like every other guy defending this stance in this thread, just pulling “unpalatable truths” out of your ass? Because I’m relatively certain no court of law is gonna take “But look how fat and ugly she is!” as a legal defense.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 09:05 PM
3

It’s so sad to see such an old image and know that still nothing has happened. I wish there was more we could do.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 02:50 AM
1

Reality doesn’t need your approval. Go into the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous or any rehab, and you’ll find out real quick. I’m a less than attractive man, I’ve been sexually assaulted multiple times. If someone is depraved enough to rape, do you think they’re going to be picky?
/r/MensRights16/12/19 07:47 PM
2

Yep. It’s because the narrative is about making the women with the loudest voices more powerful. Not making all women equal. If all women were equal, the powerful women wouldn’t be able to get more powerful.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 01:03 PM
2

Hm. There aren’t many people willing to disagree with the general narrative here, either. I can respect that. But it’s also good to see more women become a little cynical to the feminist propaganda that everyone loves to push now. Not only that women are inherently better than men, but that men are some supernatural force of evil and destruction. Blaming us for all wars and such. Like the world hasn’t had female leaders that did horrible things. And they also love the line “For every powerful ma…
/r/MensRights16/12/19 12:49 PM
2

Well, a large feminist talking point is that they are “fighting for equality, not for women“ but you’ll notice that anytime and MRA point goes against the feminist narrative, you’ll see who they’re quicker to defend.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 12:27 PM
2

And that shouldn’t be the case. You’re an important ally to have in this and you’re appreciated.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 08:38 AM
2

Glad to hear it. I want this sub to remain a place of reason and a fight for equality. It would be real easy to let it devolve into some nasty, woman-hating incel shit if we don’t call this gross shit out when we see it.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 06:21 AM
1

Again. Not worried about making fun of her. I take issue with the people saying “Who would rape her” and shut like that. If you want to go to listen when we’re trying to make an argument against women in these regards, this is just giving them ammunition to make it look like we just don’t believe that ugly/fat women can be raped. And quantifying how “rapeable” someone is is just a gross practice. Just say “Dear god, she’s a fucking whale” not “who the fuck would rape her?!” Or “Who would believe…
/r/MensRights16/12/19 06:14 AM
2

Glad someone agrees. I get chewed up and spit out last time I mentioned this on a similar post on here a couple weeks ago. But this kinda talk really grosses me out. The fact that anyone thinks it’s okay to sit there and make judgements about who is worthy of rape is ridiculous to me.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 02:09 AM
5

Okay. I understand she’s gross guys, but making the judgement as to who is “attractive enough to be raped” is not right. Less than attractive women get raped all the time. I understand just making a joke. But her being ugly and fat is not the reason not to believe her and I see that way too much on here. She should be believed as much as any other woman, which is to say believed when the proper amount of evidence to make a judgement beyond a reasonable doubt has been given. But this is not a hea…
/r/MensRights16/12/19 12:58 AM
2

They call us babies because we aren’t living up to their ridiculously high expectations any more. A lot more shit doesn’t get done when we’re sick so they expect us to just “man up” and start working again.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 12:54 AM
9

Didn’t wanna spend money on another sign?.. But.. they did. They bought one that says women and one that says cubicles and urinals. Plus, those sign cost like, $3.
/r/MensRights13/12/19 04:57 AM
13

Then why was it done other than excluding men from one space and letting women have free reign of both? It’s discrimination. As plain and simple as can be.
/r/MensRights13/12/19 04:54 AM
7

Seems that if they were capable of the same things as men, restrictions notwithstanding, they wouldn’t need to hold us back to accomplish it.
/r/MensRights13/12/19 03:03 AM
0

I’m not gonna argue with someone that is defending statutory rape. That’s creepy as fuck dude. If you can’t understand the difference between a 14-year old, a barely pubescent child, and an 18 year old, you’re hopeless and most likely attracted to children.
/r/MensRights11/12/19 02:50 AM
2

How much he wanted to do it doesn’t matter. A 14 year old CANNOT consent. He is a child.
/r/MensRights11/12/19 12:49 AM
2

Jesus fucking Christ. She had raped a child and your response is “Can’t we blame the 14 years old, even a little?” Get that shit outta here.
/r/MensRights11/12/19 12:48 AM
1

I’ll just post this on r/inceltears and let them decide.
/r/MensRights09/12/19 06:50 PM
1

Jesus. You’re not even just in MGTOW. You’re a fucking incel. I genuinely hope you find a way out of the mindset you’re in. Good luck to you.
/r/MensRights09/12/19 06:18 PM
1

Good lord you are pathetic. Just because women aren’t being as mistreated as they used to doesn’t mean men haven’t used their generally superior strength and power to keep women down since the beginning of humanity. We didn’t give them the chance to be on top of anything. Which is why you now see them excelling in just about every field. And you literally have no basis for your claims of intellectual superiority. And you are certainly no shaming example of it yourself.
/r/MensRights09/12/19 05:50 PM
0

Show me one legitimate scientific study that says men are smarter on average. Every study I’ve seen says women actually have a higher IQ on average. And if that’s what you believe, you’re better off on MGTOW.
/r/MensRights09/12/19 02:55 PM
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That’s the literal definition of sexism dude. We’re for equality here. Not masculine supremacy. And physical prowess is such a silly thing to compare people with.
/r/MensRights09/12/19 02:39 PM
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First comment is a sarcastic comment about men not ever being victims and apparently women being incapable of being manipulative and terrible.
/r/MensRights09/12/19 06:31 AM
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Women are superior to men at about the same rate that men are superior to women. Because people are equal individuals and not monoliths.
/r/MensRights09/12/19 01:47 AM
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Wouldn’t make it any less statutory rape, you gross fuck.
/r/MensRights07/12/19 07:21 AM
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Exactly. This is about wealth privilege. Not male privilege. And in my opinion, the wealthy sew this kind of discord intentionally. If they can make people believe that they got away with this because they are men, not because they’re rich, it leads the poor to fight amongst each other, instead of taking on the true privilege of extreme wealth. And these women can’t tell they’re being used as pawns.
/r/MensRights30/11/19 07:29 PM
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Nothing about that makes you correct.
/r/MensRights30/11/19 08:23 AM
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I was 5’2” and 95lbs at 15. Most grown women could whoop my ass at that age. I would know, my mom did just that. So don’t make random assumptions just to justify a woman’s violence.
/r/MensRights30/11/19 03:05 AM
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As a bisexual white man, I absolutely agree.
/r/MensRights26/11/19 03:00 AM
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Well, someone has to protect those poor, helpless women. /s God forbid they see an insult.
/r/MensRights19/11/19 01:26 AM
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Plus, like someone else here mentioned, most of those out of court agreements are the result of lawyers telling men that fighting for custody would be an expensive and fruitless battle. Because the courts always favor the women. She’s being very selective with the information she’s providing for the sole purpose of making sure it looks like women can do no wrong.
/r/MensRights17/11/19 06:31 AM
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Exactly. Because apparently women being sexy on screen is inherently sexist. But not men of course. Let’s have Jake Gyllenhaal and Ryan Reynolds take their shirts off in every movie they’re in and put bond in a tiny speedo coming onto the beach instead. Equality! Edit: Unless they are having sex under false pretenses to take advantage of a bad guy. Which, according to them, is rape.
/r/MensRights16/11/19 11:37 PM
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The whole website is just a “poor me, everything is Men’s fault” garbage-fire of a website.
/r/MensRights16/11/19 10:32 PM
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I love that she predicted it would do bad and blamed it on sexism instead of the fact that maybe making a “girl power” remake of something as ridiculously over-the-top as Charlie’s Angels is something absolutely no one asked for or wanted. The whole first movie and original series was about sexy women fighting. But “I’ve got a good idea! Let’s do the same thing but make is not sexy.” This was destined to be terrible.
/r/MensRights16/11/19 10:17 PM
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This is also the first thing that comes up if you Google “basis against men in family court”
/r/MensRights16/11/19 10:07 PM
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I love this. I’m unfortunately not on any other social media, but I’ll gladly throw a few posts on reddit the day of.
/r/MensRights04/11/19 11:40 PM
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Well, I was about 45lbs. Don’t think my little hand would’ve done much but piss her off more. Good advice though..
/r/MensRights04/11/19 08:05 AM
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Takes me back. My mom was always more violent than my dad. And my dad had his share of issues too. But my mom was the only one that threw me around and actually pounded on me. But somehow my dad was the one that needed anger management.
/r/MensRights04/11/19 06:43 AM
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Sounds good to me, bud.
/r/MensRights03/11/19 03:28 AM
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Breasts, while sexualized are not inherently sexual objects. There are plenty of cultures that do not consider breasts sexual body parts. It’s a cultural thing. They are primarily for feeding. Unlike genitals which are specifically for sex and waste removal. Edit: I do appreciate you staying respectful and reasonable. Again, I understand your point, just disagree.
/r/MensRights03/11/19 12:09 AM
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So are abs but you wouldn’t compare that to genitals.
/r/MensRights02/11/19 11:58 PM
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I get the point their trying to make, but breasts aren’t the same as genitals.
/r/MensRights02/11/19 11:07 PM
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Yeah, I see that ugliness rest it’s head quite a bit here. It’s a good way to end up being viewed as the same as MGTOW or any of the other woman hating subs on this site.
/r/MensRights01/11/19 06:17 PM
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I didn’t generalize. I specifically said “some women” to avoid generalizing. But I have personally seen many men be treated like creeps in scenarios where attractive men wouldn’t have gotten a second glance for it.
/r/MensRights01/11/19 07:15 AM
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Not at all the point. The problem wasn’t that she took nudes. It was that she had an inappropriate relationship with a subordinate. People have the right to express their sexuality however they want without worrying about it being spread. The photos were a problem because of the evidence the presented. Not because she took nudes. She deserved to be fired, did not deserve to have her nudes spread around.
/r/MensRights01/11/19 07:06 AM
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Except some women do treat some of these “toxic” behaviors differently coming from an attractive man. Not all, but it definitely makes a difference.
/r/MensRights01/11/19 05:27 AM
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Don’t know how to connect the images or get them to a place I can link them.
/r/MensRights31/10/19 07:08 PM
2

What?..
/r/MensRights31/10/19 04:48 AM
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Answer quickly?.. What?..
/r/MensRights31/10/19 04:42 AM
3

Ah yes. The barest minimum. Like building society as we know it.
/r/MensRights30/10/19 05:59 AM
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Ah. So absolutely no evidence to back up a bonkers claim. Being in recovery, I know plenty of unattractive women that have been raped. You don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about. Not to mention missing entire point of the subject matter.
/r/MensRights20/10/19 06:31 PM
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And where are you getting this data?
/r/MensRights20/10/19 06:27 PM
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Jesus dude. Glad you have a standard as to who is rape-able. Keep that sexist shit out of here.
/r/MensRights20/10/19 05:20 PM
4

Don’t turn the term autism into an insult. Especially in this case.
/r/MensRights13/10/19 08:52 PM
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OP: Wants to encourage people and say it’s okay to show emotion in a world where men aren’t encouraged and are told to “Man Up” Redditors: Mocks him.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 01:03 AM
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Good god.. Have fun being a troll.
/r/MensRights07/10/19 04:14 PM
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Not sure honestly. Because it’s not just mine I find more appealing cut. I’m more attracted to men who are cut as well. Not that I’m grossed out by uncut men or anything. I just prefer the look in general. There’s no way of knowing what I’d think without my biases.
/r/MensRights05/10/19 03:21 AM
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I had more of a problem with the matter-of-fact way he went about it. Like he knew he knew better than the doctor despite knowing nothing of your condition specifically. I’ve got no problem with giving suggestions, but don’t act like you know more than a doctor based on anecdotal evidence.
/r/MensRights04/10/19 09:41 PM
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You a doctor, homie? If you are, have you examined his condition personally? Mind your own business. It’s a medical procedure. Don’t shame the dude because he’s doing what he feels is right based on a recommendation from his doctor.
/r/MensRights04/10/19 08:43 PM
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Exactly. That’s the disgusting thing. To be honest, and I know this isn’t a popular opinion based on the other comments here, I probably would’ve decided to do it myself later on in life because I just feel it’s more aesthetically pleasing. But the part that makes me feel violated and disgusted is that my parents made a decision about my sex life based on a religion I don’t follow. It’s abhorrent.
/r/MensRights04/10/19 08:41 PM
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I’m not following what you’re trying to say in reference to my comment? Are you upset I called her a prick?
/r/MensRights03/10/19 11:10 PM
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I can promise every man raised in America is told “You need to grow up and get a good education and job so you can provide for your wife and family” Just because you’re ignorant to the pressures put on men and boys from a very early age does not mean it doesn’t exist, you sexist prick.
/r/MensRights03/10/19 11:03 PM
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Why the fuck are you even on this subreddit?..
/r/MensRights03/10/19 10:59 PM
3

What exactly is your point?
/r/MensRights03/10/19 10:49 PM
1

Then what are they?
/r/MensRights03/10/19 10:48 PM
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Then maybe don’t put a woman with the mentality of a ten year old in charge of your eleven year old?.. And no. Being mentally handicapped does not excuse rape. She should at the very least not be allowed out in society because she is a danger to children.
/r/MensRights01/10/19 02:13 PM
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In such a weirdly transparent manner. Downvoted his and upvoted yours there, bud.
/r/MensRights29/09/19 11:01 PM
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Did you cross post a post to the same subreddit?..
/r/MensRights29/09/19 07:17 PM
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I’ve heard that’s about average if you’re hiring some rando hood to do it.
/r/MensRights21/09/19 11:40 PM
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Amen. Check my post history and you’ll see my ex-wife got me arrested on bullshit charges a couple months ago. Leaving me homeless thanks to pre-trial release conditions saying I’m not allowed within 500 ft of her. Now living in a shelter/halfway house.
/r/MensRights21/09/19 12:08 AM
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The bigger problem I personally have with the film is that they hired Cardi B, an ex-stripper who actually did these things and worse, to play the role. I don’t know how you can pay someone who committed the crimes to be in a movie about committing these crimes without glamorizing or at least normalizing it. She’s gaining fame and money off of some truly horrendous things she did.
/r/MensRights14/09/19 03:39 PM
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Not sure why people are hung up on the presentation of the message. I think what’s important is that there are actually people out there sharing an appreciation for men and fathers that we don’t see too often anymore. Good post OP. Take an upvote.
/r/MensRights03/09/19 02:49 PM
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And you, motherfuckee.
/r/MensRights31/08/19 07:22 AM
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That’s like saying that Patrick Bateman from American Psycho is masculine role model.
/r/MensRights31/08/19 02:13 AM
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They.. they understand he’s supposed to be the bad guy... right?..
/r/MensRights30/08/19 05:34 PM
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Right. And that is called sexism against men. She actually put it pretty eloquently except for that first sentence. Regardless of the reason for the fucked up policies, men are the ones getting shit on here. Don't see a lot of "feminists" fighting for jailtime equality.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 03:35 PM
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“Prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior.” Weird. I don’t see anything about institutionalized racism in the definition. In fact, it lists prejudice as a synonym.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 09:02 PM
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This may be the most succinct and eloquent portrayal of men’s issues that I’ve seen put together in this format. I sent it to everybody I knew would understand and more. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 01:48 AM
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The_Donald. Regardless of opinions on Trump, that sub is objectively more bigoted than the man himself. It’s a miracle it hasn’t been banned.
/r/MensRights24/04/19 04:42 PM
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Glad to see people agree. Was worried I was gonna get downvoted into oblivion.
/r/MensRights24/04/19 04:07 PM
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Can we please not crosspost from that cesspool of hate? I don’t disagree with the post, but it’s not gonna help us being associated with such a hateful sub.
/r/MensRights24/04/19 03:24 PM
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“Not associate with women”. The whole sub is based around hating women. If it was just about independent men, they wouldn’t feel the need to trash women. Which is half the sub.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 04:41 PM
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No, he’s right. I hate seeing that sub linked here. That sub is just as sexist as r/feminism. Which is not the way to fight misandry. That makes us just as bad as feminists.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 03:25 PM
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This upsets me so much. Every time you hear a story like this on r/Twoxchromosomes or r/feminism, Women like that end up coming and helping the woman out. They’ll hold the baby while the mom is checking out and calm the baby down and tell them they understand how hard it is. But here these women are just hovering and being seemingly judgmental just because a two-year-old is having a tantrum. God for bed we have some sympathy for a father.
/r/MensRights12/01/19 02:36 AM
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I appreciate the reasoned response. I realized too late that my comment may have looked passive aggressive. Props to you.
/r/MensRights16/12/18 04:06 PM
2

So.. Where do you get your news?.. Reddit?
/r/MensRights15/12/18 11:57 PM
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Your obviously don’t understand the term “community”.
/r/MensRights02/07/18 05:11 PM
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Blanket statements against the opposite sex is the exact sexism we’re trying to fight here. Women are not “cruel by nature” Don’t bring this shit here.
/r/MensRights02/07/18 04:17 PM
1

The word dyke?.. Are you not aware that that’s a slur?
/r/MensRights15/03/18 12:30 PM
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Don’t think there is any room for slurs on this subreddit. She did something wrong and it has nothing to do with her sexual orientation.
/r/MensRights15/03/18 04:07 AM
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Well, if she wanted to be feminist, she should’ve posted in the feminism sub Reddit. Why bring that kind of heat into Parks and Recreation.
/r/MensRights10/03/18 11:02 PM
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Tank ya’s.
/r/MensRights09/03/18 02:26 AM
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Edit: I apologize for the format. I’m not very good at Reddit.
/r/MensRights08/03/18 09:57 PM
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Made this exact comment on a post on the exact same subject earlier today or yesterday. It makes me sick to see these discrepancies. Edit: it was actually the very last comment I left before this one.
/r/MensRights06/03/18 11:21 PM
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