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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself?	Question For Redpill	rirk	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 04:13 PM
0	When I think of the red pill, I think of something different.		rirk	/r/TheRedPill	04/01/14 02:59 PM
0	Here's a quick fix: How to get good with women in 2 seconds.		rirk	/r/seduction	12/02/14 07:16 PM
0	Why seduce?		rirk	/r/seduction	25/01/14 07:16 AM

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0	My Red Pill experience is evolving.. Interesting observations. Yeah there's no reason to care, and in some ways men/boys, more boys actually, might be second class citizens, but in some ways they are not. It's not just one sided. Many guys treat women like shit and women get taken less seriously in some ways, their struggle is real, because it wasn't long ago they weren't allowed to vote and many of hem actually do get raped. But yes, everything is not as it is made out to be. Women might like a man that has status or whatever. But…	/r/MGTOW	28/03/14 10:31 AM
-5	Life In Your 20s Finding and being with someone in a deeper way than just banging can teach you a lot about life though.	/r/MGTOW	28/03/14 10:14 AM
9	Life In Your 20s When I was 20 I was really insecure. Had low confidence and thought I, and life, had to be a certain way. I had a lot of pressure on myself. Every year since (25 now) this pressure slowly decreases. I care less and less what I should be doing and what people think of me. If I want to do something, I do it for myself, not to be a "good boy". It comes from life experience and evaluating your feelings. Don't go through life never examining who you are and what you want. Don't base your life on what…	/r/MGTOW	28/03/14 10:12 AM
0	The Modern Day Female Don't do anything? I don't know. It's hard to speculate. Probably they do not have an interest in doing anything other than what they are doing. I don't think it's a cultural thing. Rather. They do whatever they prefer doing. As do men. Do women tend to have more boring interests than man? In most cases yes. But that is solely because I myself am a man and I have more maletype interest than fenmaletype interests.	/r/MGTOW	24/03/14 05:06 PM
1	Article: How to create attraction I'm starting to think it's just a clever way of saying babe.	/r/seduction	03/03/14 11:28 AM
2	Article: How to create attraction May I ask what kind of interests you have besides TV and surfing the internet? And why is your name 46270 or -19266?	/r/seduction	03/03/14 08:54 AM
0	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Some things were better before, some things are better now. It's hard to tell. The internet allows for the opportunity to exchange thoughts and feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/14 04:44 AM
0	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? I am a guy. When I dated my first gf I had no self-respect. I tried my best to "love" her, but she shitted on me. She probably slept with other guys too. Many times I couldn't have sex with girls. My penis did not stand. I was AFRAID of sex. I was AFRAID to speak my mind around girls. So don't tell me I don't know what I am talking about. The reason I felt like that was NOT because I was weak. Or because it was anything wrong with me. The reason I felt like that was because I did not have the gu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/14 04:28 AM
0	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Well, are they really being taught how to be weak? What if... They are being taught to be emotionally strong and dominant. (remember what it was like being a boy, remember the other boys, the role models, did they all try to be weak? Come on now.) And what if... This is the reason they feel so weak. This is the reason they do not feel like themselves. This is the reason they do not accept themselves. If you were anything like me, you weren't told: "You are perfectly okay the way you are" from ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/14 03:57 AM
1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Well, you've probably grown up with a cultural tradition that uses the word "personality" to describe some of deep essential thingy that somehow is the immutable essence of who you are. The very word person-ality means "something which makes you a person", no? I may have grown up with it, but this is not a tradition I follow. But how do we measure this personality? By looking at behaviour over time. Which means that what personality really is, is the aggregate of past behaviour. You are what you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/14 03:23 AM
2	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Well, in that case I am happy for you. Many things aren't worth being afraid of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/14 11:26 AM
1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Why do you think that? I don't agree with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/14 11:24 AM
1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? I think you better be careful. Perhaps we should make you wear something like this. The attraction and determination in you seems extremely strong, dangerous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/14 11:23 AM
1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Ok cool. If that is what you do I respect that. I don't claim to have the answer. Though I have, when I have read the type of alphaish male stuff literature, felt that I am becoming a serious mechanical dude. It is not very fun. It's quite boring to be honest. Things are more fun if you don't give a shit about how you act. But what's funny is this: that you give a shit about how you act in order not to give a shit about how you act? Is this the case? Or I am understanding you correctly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/14 10:00 AM
1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? You might never go back. But you will learn to love the guy you was before and see that it was nothing wrong with him and that it's nothing wrong with being a virgin at that age. It might take some time, but your perspective will be different. "Be yourself" might be hard for you to understand. But think back to when you were a kid 8-9 years old. Maybe there is were you'll find "yourself".	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/14 06:31 AM
1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? What I like about trp is that it is about people awakening to the fact that they aren't happy and that they need some change. They desperately do, and trp might even be a good first path for some of them. However trp elongates and perpetuates the myth that society has already fed them. The problem is not that they need to change. The problem is that they think they do. The problem is that they think they need to be someone who gets around with girls, someone who can trap girls and have them abid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/14 06:18 AM
0	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? I can see what you mean. Having a constant feed of things that needs done within the hour for a long period of time demands that you adjust to it. Perhaps it's harder to keep and develop the kind of views I have when being in such a situation. It's hard to have a free mind and do the things you like, and perhaps you wouldn't even want to, the same way a college student would. But if you ever get the time, if you ever lose your job and if you ever lose all your savings. Take some time to contempl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/14 05:44 AM
-1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Well it depends on the tone of voice "be yourself" is said. When it's said, without really listening to the person, in a very commanding way, it can be hurtful. Like some sort of silly ideal we should all strive after because it's the norm. No that is not definitely not what I mean when I said "be yourself". I mean a little more compassionate whisper "be yourself". Like try it, it's exciting, see what happens, sort of thing. I think we want to accept ourselves (in the end), that is why we follow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 07:01 PM
1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? An ideal world is not the world we have, I agree with that. Maybe I am not considering how this world really works (right now). These might just be my philosophies. So perhaps the sexual strategies and sexual endeavors can bring some ease to the suffering in their lives. it can bring happiness and it can empower them to feel great. I like that. I am realizing a little now, that there might be a paths you have to tread, things you have to experience, before you can reach the insights I am trying …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 06:48 PM
2	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? You are free to be whoever you like. If that is something that makes you happy is only something you can know. But I personally don't think it's anything wrong with being batshit crazy. I tend to enjoy people who don't restrain themselves so much. Well I try to at least :) My primary objective is not to be perceived a certain way, as it is rather useless to my happiness. I care more about experiencing other things than how I might look to other people. That is not too hard to believe right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 06:32 PM
0	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? I just spoke my mind and seemed to have sparked some sort of debate. I just wanted to be questioned, I wanted to learn about who you are, what you believe. I wanted to broaden my views. I might be of use, since I am human being just like you. However I do agree with you. I could've asked a clearer question, more precise question. Next time I post perhaps. But I think the discussion has been good so far and at least I (and some others perhaps), have learned a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 06:11 PM
1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Well... you (I don't know anything about you, just from reading what you wrote) seem to have no tolerance for failure and rejection. Failure and rejection is part of life and not something you can guard yourself against (whether you have beautiful looks, whether you have fantastic social skills). It's part of life and it should be cherished. It's not something to be afraid of. You are your natural self. The distinction "attractive" and "unattractive" does not mean anything in reality, it's just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 06:06 PM
0	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? You might embark upon a journey of self improvement. Then you arrive and realize that there was nothing wrong with you in the first place and that you needed no improvement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 05:53 PM
1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? If we get into a discussion about the "self", well that's a deep discussion. I don't know what the "self" is, all I know is that it changes all the time. What I and others mean with "be yourself", is that you shouldn't plan. You shouldn't calculate. You shouldn't restrain yourself. You should speak your mind. And be happy living in the present, letting things be the way they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 05:46 PM
0	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Why not, if there's no difference? They're exactly the same aren't they? Ha you are funny. We'll I guess you win that argument. If you're going to debate honestly here, you will acknowledge that this would be a negative thing to do and it would cost me my livelihood. I agree that it will cost you your livelihood but I don't agree that it would be a negative thing to do. Maybe you'll start a new trend and get to work as a fashion designer. You can never know for certain what will happen. So you t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 05:32 PM
0	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Well that implies that someone or something can constitute what good social skills versus bad social skills are. It's hard for anyone to make that distinction. Just because I am all alone, those that make me a less interesting, less socially apt person? That does not have to be the case. I think we ought to bring forth more of the natural qualities in other human beings, rather than trying to enhance and enforce things that are seemingly natural and already there. I think every person is already…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 05:22 PM
1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? I didn't know that. I am sure it can be useful. But thinking like that, thinking about something like that and conforming to something like that would in a sense hinder one from experiencing true, unforced, lively, natural attraction. Attraction is something natural and something we all have within us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 05:18 PM
1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Haha I might be. That's the beauty of life. It keeps changing. Yes attraction is a key point to having an enjoyable relationship. Maybe some of it's an act, that you allow yourself to put on, but totally being an act would be exhausting. What do you mean with practically "disqualifying yourself"? Well, I am currently into the almost new ageish buddist beliefs that we are all one, and that it is impossible to be disconnected from other people. It's really a beautiful thought and makes me less in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 05:16 PM
-1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? I am in college but I am 24 y o. So I am one of the older guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 05:11 PM
0	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? I like the interaction I have gotten so far, you have opened my eyes a little. Well I happen to agree with feminism. I think that women are being terribly sexualized and that men are being told to act a certain way, "manly" they call it. I do not think it's good for them. I think a lot more guys should get the advice "be yourself", from everyone, especially from their parents. That is something that would make them a lot stronger. So I don't think that feminism is the problem. No what we need is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 05:09 PM
0	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Interesting. Tell me what attraction is built on please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 04:52 PM
0	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? No I don't date both men and women. I think you should wear a trash bag to work, I think life will be more interesting for you if you did ;) Attracting a women isn't harder than opening your mouth. You have a penis and she has a vagina. You were basically made for each other. Well, I have read it, but I don't understand it, that is why I am asking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 04:50 PM
-5	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? I do have empathy for someone like that. I do however think that they should find comfort in something else rather than what poisoned them in the first place. Something else than the myth of what the man should be like, the myth that has fed them since birth and turned them into what they are. Maybe these kind of philosophies can help them realize their worth, I don't know. If that is the case, and if they are better from it, I am happy for them. But I also think it can (in some ways) bring them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 04:46 PM
-1	Why put on an act when you could just be yourself? Sure, it's your choice to embark on any kind of thing in your life that you deem entertaining and worthy. I just want to raise the question that it might be harmful to some. To some it might be about perpetuating the belief that they (as men) need to be a certain way to be accepted. If it's the other way around I am glad for you. Well, I do believe in gender in the sense that we are different because of it. But I think we a lot more alike than we are different. I think that people all over the w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/14 04:42 PM
1	Here's a quick fix: How to get good with women in 2 seconds. why would you approach a girl if you did not want to? yes goals are pretty good, but that's not what I was talking about.	/r/seduction	13/02/14 10:32 PM
-5	Here's a quick fix: How to get good with women in 2 seconds. You're totally right... but you're also very wrong.	/r/seduction	12/02/14 08:04 PM
1	Here's a quick fix: How to get good with women in 2 seconds. I've been into Buddhism and eastern beliefs a lot recently, so I haven't checked that out yet. Aren't that belief a little bit centered around emotional withdrawal/distancing? That's not really what I am talking about, as that could be something like forcing ones emotions.	/r/seduction	12/02/14 07:32 PM
2	Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight douche wow that was cool!	/r/seduction	31/01/14 09:19 AM
2	Can't talk to females, please help! Just do exactly what you do right now... and every time, right afterwards, let go of the bad, and embrace the nice thing about the talk with that other person. There is always something nice, you just have to choose to see it.	/r/seduction	26/01/14 09:13 AM
1	I always hit it off with girls on OKC then the next day I don't know what to say. Oh, I you didn't want to take her out just yet. Then start with telling her a funny story about something that happened to you. It's always nice to share a fun story!	/r/seduction	26/01/14 08:42 AM
2	I always hit it off with girls on OKC then the next day I don't know what to say. Ask her out! be pretty assertive in the way you do it... like you give her a place and a time. "I enjoyed the talk the other day. So much that I would've love to take you out wednesday 5 pm, at -->coffee shop<--" Why be assertive like this? Well, you don't have to be, but it's just how I would do it :)	/r/seduction	26/01/14 08:40 AM
1	Girl completely rejects kino No reason in touching her if she doesn't want to be touched man... You gotta wait for her, and when you know her better, she might enjoy your touch instead. Don't be afraid of "friendzone", sometimes you end up there whether you like it or not, and it's not too bad, then you've got a good friend at least.	/r/seduction	26/01/14 08:32 AM
5	Learning a ton from living with a natural - felt like sharing. Were both pulling women but he is a machine. Here to share some insight. Or: how to get dumped and truly "win." Listen to this; if you want to be less jelly about things: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nBSPHe1RCc	/r/seduction	25/01/14 11:02 PM
1	Learning a ton from living with a natural - felt like sharing. Were both pulling women but he is a machine. Here to share some insight. Or: how to get dumped and truly "win." He sounds like a fun guy to be around. Just going with the flow and not being to uptight about things, not clinging too much to preconceptions.	/r/seduction	25/01/14 11:00 PM
1	1st date - just drinks or do you mix it up? It's not easy to connect on a deep level with someone you've only just met, since you know nothing of each other. But, there is a possibility for a good talk and to experience her personality. Chances are you'll be just another one of those guys. But unfortunately, that is a chance you'll have to take, since finding another person, that you like, and that likes you, can be hard and can take a lot of time. If you meet a person like that, it won't matter much whether you took her to the zoo, the s…	/r/seduction	25/01/14 10:55 PM
3	Learning a ton from living with a natural - felt like sharing. Were both pulling women but he is a machine. Here to share some insight. Or: how to get dumped and truly "win." Well, those qualities are nice... And it's fun spreading joy. However, there are many different ways to do that, you don't have to be exactly like your friend. The most important thing is to be genuine, that you genuinely want to spread joy and make people happy. I do this everyday. I try to smile at cashiers, at people in my building block, at people at school, everywhere. I talk to people and give them a big smile. It really is selfish, because I do this for myself, because I like the feelings…	/r/seduction	25/01/14 10:47 PM
2	1st date - just drinks or do you mix it up? I just take them out for a coffee, walk in the park and stuff. It's enough... since you don't know each other yet.	/r/seduction	25/01/14 10:32 PM
0	Escaping the friend zone Well, I don't know man. Try to make a move, like calling her out for a date, or profess your interest in her. If she won't do it, then move on to another girl. I am sorry, but don't waste your energy thinking of things that cannot be.	/r/seduction	25/01/14 10:29 PM
1	Why seduce? I think a lot of things matter. Like happiness and connectedness, primarily.	/r/seduction	25/01/14 10:25 PM
1	Why seduce? You're right, I try not to act on such emotions too much, even though I sure feel them from time to time. I think they've grown disproportionate to what really is, because of endless wants and rabid consumerism spreading through our culture. The seduction community might in many ways, be another manifestation of this, as people just can't seem to deal with the triviality of existing, with the triviality of being mundane and forgettable. They need to make an impact on the world, and on the women …	/r/seduction	25/01/14 10:38 AM
1	Why seduce? This sounds like one of the most condescending post ever, but sure I'll bite. I'm sorry, that wasn't intention at all. :) Why does one try to be kind and funny and smart? Because I want to be the kind of person who possesses those behaviors.Yeah sure. the same reason why I learn carpentry or computer repair: Because it's a good skill set to have in life. I agree. It's nice to develop new skills and so forth. But why bother with things that is only about how you present yourself? Instead of wanti…	/r/seduction	25/01/14 08:51 AM
2	When I think of the red pill, I think of something different. I guess you're right. I'll find some other sub to discuss this further.	/r/TheRedPill	04/01/14 03:54 PM
2	When I think of the red pill, I think of something different. Thanks. But I am contributing to the strategy of connecting with others, I am talking of this world. To me "masculine sexual strategy" means to connect. And to really connect with another, one should connect with what's beyond the boarder of their character, for therein lies the true connection. If you only connect to their attributes, you aren't really connecting with them at all. At least I found this way most successful, and the rules are rather straight forward.	/r/TheRedPill	04/01/14 03:42 PM