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| 1 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayDon't overthink this imo, getting so hard focused leads to inevitable downfall, stop putting yourself down, blaming or ovaragonizing it. This happens, is normal, and will reoccur many times. If you're interested in her make her understand that by walking up to her next time and tell her thanks again and slowely start from there. Don't get overattached however! Godspeed. | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Biggest challenges you’re facing?Sorry for the late reply and thanks for your answer! Yes I understand this truly, however it's something I do wanna work on, it's just hard to motivate as I struggle with crowds in general, it's something that bothers me as for example the last concert I couldn't enjoy to the fullest because I just felt that it's overly crowded. I really appreciate your comment. Godspeed friend ! | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Girls that flakeIt's possible as is any scenario but I say it's weird that she turned so cowardly so suddenly however. A common beginner mistake is to put the blame for a failed test on the other party, I'd really say have a good standing there but don't go for the "I'm not going to be weird or something". It will just make you weird. Be normal and have fun. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl finally asked me to date her and then won't make up her mindCouldn't agree more well said! | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Girl finally asked me to date her and then won't make up her mindI smell a test, will you crumble under pressure? Don't start isolating her, but don't play to harsh by saying something like "of course I'll get bored that's why I'm seeing (insert girl name) next week. Tell her something like, "If you're not sure about it, than don't throw around an important subject like this one." and then proceed by blocking if she gets pushy or even mean! | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Weird Way To Exit The Friend Zone (but deadly effective)Oh my, that's not how seduction in the friendzone works friend. Often girls do make push you into the friendzone because previous attempts of seduction went bad and she has that emotional connection to but not that "sexual connection" so in order to get to your goal you will have to show her your worth. Of course, it is quite possible that it won't work, OP's approach he mentioned so far is quite indeed a nice way of already determining if she is into even though she wanted to be "just friends".… | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 01:43 PM |
| 2 | How would you respond to a woman asking you, “what separates you from all other men”My kind of answer! | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best cologne for a guy that’s under $30?Nice. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 11:11 AM |
| 6 | Girl started scolding and preaching after I approached her in coffee shopThis happened to me last year on a public road in the city I live, I wasn't angry but it irritated me enough to give my bois a call and rant about it. IMO these angry Valkyres aren't worth the effort, if they already yell at you or insult your whilst you're still strangers, chances are humongously high that this will continue when engaging more seriously. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 11:07 AM |
| 28 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Instructions unclear, PP now in a salad bowl help. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 11:02 AM |
| 2 | What do I reply to this?Is this a shit testQuick one, answer "unless I try!" | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 09:48 AM |
| 1 | So can somebody explain what happened here? I have an idea, but I was hoping for insight.First scenario is somewhat good that it went bad, as that dude cried about your answer to her via text and didn't personally adress it to you but left his caretaker with the task, then I assume she's gathered maybe more light bulb changers in her Orbit and maybe you were just another prey, I've once read to keep away from woman that behave that way and so far that advice hasn't proven to be false to me! Edit: Also I do not see any need of you apologizing for it, if the dude can't take a joke or … | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Biggest challenges you’re facing?Opening in a crowded environment. I do know how to solve it but it is hard as I really don't like crowded places too much. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 09:01 AM |
| 3 | Mad at myself for fucking up a text convo hardWell OP there you have the reason why the "maybe" came out this dry. Before asking for help you should mention details like this, however, getting this to work out is pretty damn hard, I'd say you cut your losses right there and go look elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Mad at myself for fucking up a text convo hardWith the coffee proposal is hard to say if it was a bad reaction, if you didn't have time because you're busy than don't make time. Maybe After the maybe I would have cutted short with something like; sure just let me know when, I'll be out later tonight however! Then you play the waiting game. IMO the maybe already was a hint that she's not so much into the idea of having coffee with you or it was a test if you run behind her to convince her to somehow have a coffee with you and she'd made time… | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Should i tell girl its been awhile?Do not, ever mention sex in a non pleasant way, it's like selling vegetables and telling the buyer that they've been rotting there for weeks actually. If anything, tell her "it's been awhile since I last wrecked home at another place then mine". You won't even lie since your right/left hand can also wreck your home good enough! And you leave it open to her to interpret. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Girls that flakeIMO it's a check to see if you're already clinging and you don't have anything else to do besides worrying about her already. I say you go grab a nice drink with your boys and have fun. IF OP is courageous enough, go get antoher number ! | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Don't underestimate how boring the life of the average woman is.This is so true! But for some this is also a choice! The past two months I chose the path of the hermit and I don't regret it and it helped me to realise that there are a lot of people doing the samthing, altough more often in a permanent way! | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:17 AM |
| 1 | "Oooooh, It's 'Pietro!"Never in my life I've heard "Pietro" before, but again, I once refered to a girl as Catwoman for an entire evening, I guess anything goes you want to give a nickname? Maybe google "Pietro" and look if there are some look alikes? If yes you could build even build up from there who knows? :P | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 06:26 AM |
| 1 | "Oooooh, It's 'Pietro!"That Pietro and paps chulo thing aside, if you havn't misinterpreted her signs than no, you're not on the wrong track. Keep us updated OP! | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 06:22 AM |
| 1 | I really suck at converations and flirting... Please help.Best advice for starters, keep track of local media and news. You will amlost certainly find subjects to talk about for your next small talk conversation. Espacially keep an eye out for the "fait divers", the more funny stories like "local man tries do get his dog to perform backflips". Those will be your funny subjects to turn into stories. It's really all about having fun with the girl, it's like in Buddhism, the goal is the journey to the goal. Try to get the most fun and laughter out of your… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 02:41 PM |
| 5 | card or number?Take her number. I believe that a common mistake is by giving the number and waiting. It's your game to push, besides being a business manager isn't the true attraction maker (except if you're looking for a gold digger, many girls that date "exclusively" job-successful people are not really searching for the fun or seriousness). | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Leaving current job in two weeks -- time to ask out the cute secretary?The only potential issue is that I had a 3 month office affair with another girl, whom she's pretty friendly with (they hang out occasionally). I don't think she spilled the beans, but you never know. I see this rather as an good thing. I did heard a lot (but again hearing and seeing is not the same) about girls making involuntary advertisment by spilling the beans just about that subject. Either way I wouldn't wait until the last day, if OP looks handsome today, hasn't eaten too much garlic and… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | It's Your Insecurities (Not Your Looks) Ruining Your Dating LifeYes and no, this is also related to the age, maturity and general "know what you want" attitude of a woman. They're not all the same, programmed robots and won't behave accordingly. For some it's the physical attraction, for some it's the emotional, I'd even dare to say that most keepers are the ones that are attracted by the emotions you provide as it's a long term guaranteed trait to make her happy. Well looks on the other hand... I know not many over 50's that look great, but then again there… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Did First Cold Approach- Quick Rejection. Advice?100% agree, I did something very similar in a public pool last summer, I didn't fully realise/understood back then that it was indeed an indirect "manipulative" approach but it is the best explanation of why it failed! | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 07:27 AM |
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