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riseandshineand69/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 05:30 PM
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ya can’t :)
/r/askMRP04/02/20 08:33 PM
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lol wow so alpha bravo
/r/askMRP04/02/20 07:48 PM
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She’s stress eating. Have a conversation with her about how eating isn’t a healthy way to cope with stress and you want to support her in using the gym (or other ways) instead. Don’t bring up her body, bring up stress coping habits and the impact on health and be dead hell serious about your need to be with a healthy girl and tell her what healthy means objectively (BMI, waist size, whatever). You lose her when you bring up her body. If you love her and want to stay with her I think it’s fair to…
/r/askMRP04/02/20 07:29 PM
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So true. I can offer something that feels rewarding that’s real versus something that’s behind a screen. I really like the sparkle in the eye and showing admiration tip! I can see that helping a lot in keeping his attention.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/20 03:59 AM
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Will look into this thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 07:35 PM
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I do need to get better at saying no. Not just to him. “I can’t” I love it. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 07:34 PM
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Thank you this is really insightful. When we talk about it, he thinks I’m exaggerating and making an issue out of nothing. He thinks it’s perfectly normal to be this way and that I am just nagging because I want more attention. I think that by the time he’s done talking at work, with friends, and other obligations (he sits on a board of directors and has his own business), he’s just cooked and doesn’t feel like talking. I did ask for date night once a week and he agreed to it. I’ll still miss sp…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 07:32 PM
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This is really helpful. I’m going to talk to him and approach it like an addiction rather than an annoying habit. He probably can’t stop easily. I’m going to ask for date night once a week where the phone is away as a starting point. I do want those more spontaneous interaction, but that will be a start at least.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 01:12 AM
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Yes I know I make excuses. It’s because I’m trying to understand why this is happening, so I come up with explanations which end up being excuses. I’m trying to be reasonable but sometimes it’s just unacceptable.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 10:22 PM
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Yes I do. Full-time. I could make my weekends and week nights busier though.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 10:20 PM
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I think you’re right. This is a good/ healthy way to respond to the situation I’m in. Just make myself so busy that I no longer have free time for him. I’ve done this before and he’s felt it and asked me to dial it back. I think this time I won’t do that as easily. Plus having the talk about kids like someone else suggested. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 08:15 PM
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I don’t think I could possibly give him more space. And I do have my own hobbies. This isn’t a case of give me more attention I’m bored. I enjoy connecting socially not just sexually with a man, and I’m not getting it from my husband. As a man, how are you fine not connecting with your wife this way more? Help me understand. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 08:12 PM
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This is making me think I should ask him why he likes to be on his phone so much instead of asking him to stop. Maybe if I understand it better I’ll accept it more and be able to have a better conversation with him about it. I’ll try this too. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 06:27 PM
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He’s maintains a large social network of friends. I’ve actually never seen anyone have so many real friends (people who will go out of their way for you). And stays informed about technology, world news, is very handy etc... I get that those things take time to maintain. When I think about it I feel like he finds those things more interesting than talking to me. He’s got me, and I’m there for specific needs, unfortunately socializing isn’t one of them. Part of me wonders if this is how it is to …
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 06:20 PM
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No kids. We have a pet. I’m a university graduate with a job. I have tried substituting. I have my audiobooks, own TV shows he isn’t into, friends. I jut crave that male attention and I want and need it from him. Other men giving me attention is making this issue so much worse right now because I see that yes I am interesting and men do want to talk to me. Just not my sweet, loving husband. So frustrating.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 06:12 PM
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I once reached a point of giving no fucks and did stop taking care of him. Spent most of my time being as selfish as I could taking care of myself. He noticed and missed me but does it in a way that is so innocent and just breaks my heart and makes me feel bad. Because I’m intentionally punishing him and what he’s doing isn’t to hurt me, it’s just how he is. Even when I tell my friends or family what’s going on they empathize with him a lot.... it’s just hard to punish him. I am naturally a cari…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 06:08 PM
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I’ve tried the no phone rule. He laughs at me, calls me cute, and keeps doing his thing. I definitely feel loved when he’s saying no to the rule and I’ve tried smiling and asking again and even intentionally getting mad to show I am serious. Nothing works. And I’m “cute” when I’m angry so that doesn’t help much either. I’ve given the silent treatment to show I’m serious. I’ve had calm, rational talks with him. I’ve freaked out confiscating his phone. Nothing works.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 06:03 PM
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Yes he’s on his phone on social media or talking to friends. He’s on lots of group chats so there’s always someone messaging something.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 05:57 PM
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