riskykitten1207 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do you get over your boyfriend looking at other woman online You don’t. If it bothers you that much then it is clearly a boundary for you. That’s why you establish boundaries in a relationship. Boundaries will vary from person to person. If you can’t agree on said boundaries then are they even someone you want to spend the rest of your life with?	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/22 12:51 PM
2	Are you guys actually asking your partners N counts? My husband and I haven’t outright asked but we have a vague idea of each other’s N counts based on various conversations throughout our 9 year relationship. We both don’t really want to discuss past partners. We know we didn’t meet as virgins and that is enough. In the grand scheme of things it’s irrelevant and doesn’t add anything of value to our relationship to know the details.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 01:56 PM
7	Do overweight women struggle attracting men? I’m sorry that happened to you. That is definitely not fair to you. My husband hasn’t paid for me to have any surgery or anything. He is just supportive in helping me eat the right foods. I have lost a significant amount of weight, got pregnant, and gained too much weight back 3 times now. Had our third in January of 2021. So now I am back on the losing weight part. Avoiding the pregnancy part this time around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:27 PM
24	Do overweight women struggle attracting men? I don’t feel like I had issues dating when I was single. I mostly used OLD. I was always honest about myself and used appropriate photos, as in they were not outdated or edited. I married a guy I met online that is 6’3, 180lbs, and at the time he was still in college for chemical engineering. He is now an engineer at a company that makes pharmaceutical devices. I have wondered before if my husband has a thing for chubby women but he has been so supportive every time I make an effort to lose some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:00 PM
8	Question for women: Why do you willingly have children knowing the father won’t be around? I was in the same situation. I had my first child within a marriage. He cheated on me and got the other girl pregnant. He hasn’t seen our child since the day I left him 16 years ago. He hasn’t seen his second child in 14 years. He gave up parental rights to the second child and let stepdad adopt the child. Being that I was the first one he done it to, there was no way for me to know that this is who he was. I have been remarried for 8 years to a guy that is a wonderful father to my son and the 2…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 02:55 AM
30	Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married? No, but I am more of a red pill woman. My husband and I have a traditional relationship. He works and we both prefer I stay home to raise our kids. Marriage wasn’t something he wanted at first but over time he decided he wanted kids. I refused to have kids and be in a housewife/SAHM role without marriage. A lot of it does have to do with money and assets. I had to quit my job and put any career building to the wayside, despite having earned a degree, just so I could stay home and raise our child…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 10:05 AM
9	Hot take: Fat Acceptance = Less Competition Tyvm! I am in the obese range. I have struggled with my weight my entire life. Now I am 37yo, married with 3 kids. I just don’t want to put my family through losing me any earlier than they have to. I am very self aware of my situation.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/02/22 10:43 PM
14	Hot take: Fat Acceptance = Less Competition My opinion is about the same as yours. I am also saying this as a fat person. Body positivity is fine but fat acceptance is not. I would never disrespect someone or be rude about someone’s physical appearance. I will not live in denial of how unhealthy it is to be fat. I have lost and gained weight more times than I can keep count at this point. As my last ditch effort I recently made an appointment with a bariatric surgeon. Edit: typo	/r/RedPillWomen	05/02/22 10:17 PM
5	Sometimes good men give bad gifts. My husband is a good man who also gives bad gifts. Our first valentines together he waited until the end of the day then bought me one of the leftovers from Walmart. I was so annoyed with it. He often gets me gifts that are not for me. He is bad about giving people things that he likes. For example, the other day he brought me a Starbucks drink and a candy bar that I don’t really like (but it’s totally a flavor he would want.) I don’t drink coffee and I especially dislike cold coffee. We have be…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/22 11:54 AM
24	For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery? Ooo, can we talk about the fact that dead bedrooms is full of women that settled for some pornsick LVM because she was a pickmeisha and convinced herself it is normal? Don’t waste your time on men that watch porn to any extent. You will just end up in a sexless marriage with some dude with death-grip syndrome and ED.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/21 06:51 PM
9	How is it that my traditional, conservative husband seems to be way lest "sexist" than the majority of femnist's husbands I know I have wondered the same about my husband. He is very much not like the stereotype. I got downvoted a ton for defending conservative men when it comes to taking care of a newborn. My husband does not mind changing diapers, doing feedings, and just picking up any of my slack in general. He never complains.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/11/21 06:42 PM
2	What’s the average experience for unattractive women? We are both introverted and nerdy. Despite his looks and success, he can be socially awkward. That is where we even out. We generally have a lot of similar interests and really good chemistry. Me having a high sex drive probably helps, too. We have been married 8 years and we still have sex on a daily basis. Being fat and maintaining a physical connection throughout the relationship holds more weight than a very attractive woman that won’t touch her partner more than twice a year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/21 05:22 PM
11	What’s the average experience for unattractive women? I get the “you’re big but got a pretty face” backhanded compliment. With that being said, it wasn’t super hard to be successful IRL or on dating apps. I did ultimately get married to someone I met through OLD. I always considered him out of my league and I thoroughly believe I married up. So despite being a bigger woman I still ended up with a guy that is 6’3, average weight, college educated (chemical engineering), has a great job, and wanted to have a family. We have 3 kids that I stay home wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/21 04:53 PM
1	Have you ever been in love before? Yes I have been in love and still in love. Been married for 8 years. I ended up in this sub simply because I like reading other people’s perspectives and ideas whether I agree with them or not. I am in many subs that are very opposite of each other but still agree and disagree with people from both communities. I am banned from some subs just for participating in subs they don’t like. You can guess which ones those are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 01:16 PM
1	Does sleeping with someone really attractive for a period in your life ruin sex with other more average people? No. When I was in my 20’s I hooked up with a few guys that had an amazing body. The sex was nowhere as good as with my husband. Whether he has been skinny or when he put on some weight, the chemistry between us can’t be matched. I know he has had physically more attractive partners than me but feels the same as I do. If the sex is mediocre then looks can’t make up for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/21 07:44 PM
1	Q4W: How much of the sex you have is sex you didnt necessarily want? I don’t think he has. He seems to be ready whenever I want it. r/deadbedrooms has a lot of stories from both men and women that have very little sex and when they do have sex it is very much treated like a chore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 09:46 PM
6	Q4W: How much of the sex you have is sex you didnt necessarily want? Less than 1%. I have a reasonably high sex drive and I initiate most of the time. I can’t keep my hands off my husband a lot of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 03:53 AM
16	SNOOPING 101 I am 100% for vetting. I didn’t even normally vet guys I dated. I had went on a few dates with a guy I decided to google. Just a google search of his name I found out that he was an ex police officer that got charged with a felony for police brutality against this 16yo black boy. Then I also saw him on this website that was for women to report internet sexual predators. Holy moly did I dodge a bullet. Vet the men you are dating!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/21 02:03 PM
4	If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's? Not my experience, either. I check off a few of the boxes that these dudes consider a deal breaker. I had no problems dating while a single mother. I was single for 7 years. It may have helped that I didn’t introduce any of the guys to my kid. I got remarried when I was 28 and he is the only one that eventually met my kid. I am also chubby. Sometimes chubbier than other times. I gain weight bad when I am pregnant and take a while afterwards to get myself back together. We have been married 8 yea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 02:54 PM