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| 1 | What to do about your toxic relationship - When was the last time you smiled about your relationship...and not during sex? *PODCAST Link*Understand the point and agree partially. Scarcity doesn't mean you don't work through problems. All relationships have issues along the way, sexual or platonic. It's knowing which ones are workable and which ones a deal breakers. | /r/seduction | 05/08/14 06:24 PM |
| 1 | How’s the friend zone treating you? Stop being the dependable, compliant “boyfriend” without the sex...*The Friend Zone - PODCAST link in text*the jealous "friend"...You just want to yell and shake him "You're doing it wrong!" Then you find out he's the bouncer ha... | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Establish Boundaries - PODCAST..."Have you ever had someone go through your phone when you were asleep?"...once you start...its hard to stop. People tend to find what they want to. | /r/seduction | 17/07/14 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Podcast - Dealing with JealousyIf you don't have iTunes you can play it directly or download from http://suavelover.com/podcast (the directory of episodes are there) or at the RSS feed http://suavelover.com/podcastgen/feed.xml | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to rejection texts?It's not a rejection...she responded with a legitimate reason. You hopefully gave that person two options so they can't negate both of them...if both are turned down you wait a couple of days until you text them again, not asking them out but flirting. We talk about this in a recent episode of the Suave Lover podcast - Avoid her traps (http://suavelover.com/podcast/?name=2014-03-03_suavelover_podcast_028_-_avoid_her_traps.mp3). | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 05:04 PM |
| 7 | Imagine the awkward silence during a conversation. What topics or facts would bring the conversation right back up?Take some time to do pre-work on your conversations and life. Come up with 3 interesting stories and questions to prompt them in conversation. Also look up strange/recent news to mention, hey did you hear....? | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Fitness - Stop making excusesStarting anything is hard. There are some people I know that hit the gym everyday but live in a pig sty...there are also guys that can windex and vaccum with more passion than me when I hit the weight room....all depends. But, changing behaviors is never easy no matter what they are and I'm not saying it is, I'm saying stop making excuses that fitness doesn't have the benefits that it does, to the point of being bitter towards people that do stay fit and eat clean. | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Fitness - Stop making excusesCongrats Adultuser69...keep it up! | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Fitness - Stop making excuses"virtually GUARANTEED to succeed", "you CAN be in great shape" - Love those comments Joshsway. | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 03:47 PM |
| 1 | I am not confident, I am apathetic. How do I internalize my awesomeness?I thought I wrote more towards this...if you want send me a personal message at [email protected]. I have some specific advice for you. The PUA community is gimmicky because it's a business. We are talking about pure social and behavioral psychology, not how to get laid in 60 days. Interpersonal dynamics and internal awareness/life coaching (like you mentioned, ex. reframing) is not just common sense, as much as will power can't make you a better person, its the skill sets you create. Tal… | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Text push/pull... Some stuff I've come up with while using tinderbtw how can I follow these posts so I know when someone replies? | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Text push/pull... Some stuff I've come up with while using tinderIt is corrent not to force feed alot of information, but you have to be a tad serious just like you have to calibrate in person. Tinder, especially if you do not have any other online presence or mutual friends is really, like I mentioned almost blind dating. You have zero level of comfort or trust built other than the initial attraction. With too much banter and no solid information about you, you become interesting but not worth meeting up with. Just saying, answer with real information more t… | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Text push/pull... Some stuff I've come up with while using tinderAfter alot of trial and error you really are wasting your time with Tindering for long conversations. You need to get the phone number quickly then work multiple contacts. This also allows you to be more sexual BC you are not on Tinder anymore. You build intimacy using the phone number and also making a call within the first couple of days. Play off the spontaneity...get the phone number, text, get a date...not planning days in advance is also advantageous of Tinder and with multiple numbers the… | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 05:01 AM |
| 0 | I am not confident, I am apathetic. How do I internalize my awesomeness?Start listening...subscribe on iTunes..habits and abuse take some time to form and recover from...enjoy The Suave Lover podcast: http://suavelover.com/podcast/ | /r/seduction | 06/03/14 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you be naturally not needy? I feel like I have 2 forces pulling me in different directions.DO NOT BE STRAIGHT WITH HER about your neediness....seriously, hands down neediness is unattractive. There is never a time that neediness will be attractive. She obviously holds the power right now in the relationship because, like you admitted, you feel that she is out of your league, plus when you feel more invested in the relationship you feel that you are being "short changed" when she may do something that shows you are more invested (like WTF i'm doing all these things, arent I enough, etc… | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 03:16 AM |
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