rivdidit Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
513	Beware The "Momma's Boy."	RED FLAG 🚨	rivdidit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/05/21 03:15 PM
3	Would you date a man who makes less than you? How much less?	STRATEGY	rivdidit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 01:12 AM
0	Hot Take: Maybe High Value Men Don’t Actually Exist?	DISCUSSION	rivdidit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 12:23 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive. I think being conventionally attractive has more advantages in general for women. But it doesn’t really matter because at some point, you will be treated like trash, regardless of your beauty.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 08:01 PM
12	This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive. I suppose you think women need to leave law, police, etc and just go back to stay at home forever, too. Please. Me and the commenter you berated are both in tech and can handle ourselves. Stop telling women to back down from these fields. You don’t know what you’re talking about.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 01:49 PM
14	This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive. I complete agree with you. I think this idea is stupid and makes women appear weak. Like, we have heard rape jokes all our lives. She needs to stand up for herself and humiliate them back. I do that and I am in tech and it makes the men shut the fuck up. Some are even scared of me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 01:46 PM
21	This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive. I disagree. Men who talk like this do so to threaten and intimidate. Personally, I grew up playing games and men who I gamed with talked the same. I would stand up for myself by humiliating them then, and I would do it now. If you let them know this behavior won’t be tolerated by you, you will deter other men from doing the same. It only takes one but, maybe I am braver than most. If as soon as I heard the dude talk about his dick, I would have said something like “Yeah, of course YOU would have…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 01:35 PM
99	This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive. That was the point. They want to make her quit and reconsider. She shouldn’t be afraid. We can’t let them think this intimidation will work. They are deep down afraid of us outperforming them. And trust me, we will.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 01:19 PM
43	This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive. I work in tech. I also study detective interrogation of convicted rapists and murderers. The men whose personality is drawn to tech (logical, not emotional, lack empathy, lack social awareness) have the same characteristics of the men in criminal police videos I watch. It is good she is seeing this now because this will not change in the workplace. They will actively try to push her out but she has to remain strong or her emotions will be used against her. She will also need to protect her smart…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 01:17 PM
3	Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag? I would research getting an RO. Get his full name and do a background check. Find a female lawyer to help you. Don’t see this as a warning and take action. Also, if you can, learn to use gun and register to have one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/21 01:05 PM
4	One of the Benefits of Living Together... Splitting the Rent Girl, stop paying that much for rent. Put that towards a mortgage.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/21 02:41 PM
153	Sucking the labour of women for 40 years!!!! Imagine writing “fending for myself” as a 40 year-old man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/21 08:27 PM
17	How to cope after blocking a guy you really like Never start out as friends. The goal of dating to get to know each other should be the standard at initial contact. When you blur those lines of romance and platonic, the opportunity for “friends with benefits” starts to form. Absolutely never give them that opportunity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/21 12:24 AM
29	Stay safe ladies. Always trust your instincts. The gift of fear is yours to use. Celebrities and rich men come to the city and buy these tables at the biggest clubs. There is a prostitution ring called “Taz’s Angels” where they would provide “models” aka high-dollar escorts to any of these men for the high price of the table. More info: https://blacksportsonline.com/2016/01/report-tazs-angels-being-investigated-by-fbi-for-escorting-photos/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/21 04:49 PM
83	Stay safe ladies. Always trust your instincts. The gift of fear is yours to use. Dance clubs with $10,000 tables (Miami) also facilitate sex rings and other forms of prostitution. So, of course rape is common there. I never talk to guys who “go out” at all. They can’t be trusted.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/21 02:08 PM
2	Black and white photography Handsome Squidward is s h a k i n g.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/21 09:14 PM
7	Thank You :D Congrats, fellow STEMinist.🥳	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/21 05:31 PM
36	I honestly think that when women say they want a nice guy this is what we are talking about. This man is masculine but also very sensitive and kind to his wife, it is so nice and attractive. thoughts? What is this show?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/21 05:13 PM
18	"Pick me's are harmless". Well here's a story of a pick me damaging private property BECAUSE she's a pick me I was childhood friends with a Pick Me who was always in a relationship. She would jump from man to man, even cheating to do so. She would constantly complain about her boy problems to me and whenever I tried to advise her to leave whichever low-value loser she was with at the time, she would say things like, “Well, at least I can keep a man!”😬💀 I cut ties with her and to this day she is still with a loser man 10 years her senior with no intention of ever marrying her. I always felt sorry for he…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/21 05:55 PM
11	if he wanted to he would He better clean all that up afterwards, too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 11:55 AM
3	Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag? I love this post!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/21 10:54 PM
1	The High Costs of Moving in with a LVM You’re doing the right thing by moving on from him. Break ups always hurt but, try to focus now on the time you saved free from him in the future. Your mental health is more important than his.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/21 06:09 PM
1	The High Costs of Moving in with a LVM I am already familiar but tbh, the entire point of FDS is to DATE. Most of what the handbook alludes to is “stay away from men.” It’s contradictory. Is this a place to help women date or not? How can that be so if the messaging is avoid men all together?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/21 02:08 AM
1	The High Costs of Moving in with a LVM So, what did you do? How long before you decided to move on?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/21 02:05 AM
0	The High Costs of Moving in with a LVM I don’t think we should make “all men” arguments. The truth that some women don’t want to hear on this subreddit is that their PickMeisha tendencies still exist and they often times overlooked red flags due to desperation, loneliness, whatever. A woman should never move in with a man unless they have a written cohabitation agreement but to say “never” unless engaged is impractical and unrealistic. Men have their own vetting process too and most of them, especially the high-value ones, will not a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 04:45 PM
4	The High Costs of Moving in with a LVM Unfortunately, your suggestion of advising women to not live with a man until they are engaged is unrealistic. Most people want to know someone before deciding to spend their lives with them and, the only way to fully known someone is to first live that person. What women CAN do is sign a written co-habitation agreement with their SO. These details vary by state in the United States but I think is a more practical solution… Also, stop excusing red flags. Vet for your man like you would a complet…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 04:35 PM
2	The High Costs of Moving in with a LVM Good thing I will have a gun.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 04:13 PM
9	The High Costs of Moving in with a LVM My plan is to buy everything on my own so he may, if vetted thoroughly, get the privilege of living in MY HOUSE. He would know then that I am the matriarch and that it is my boundaries, health, and wellness or the highway.😇	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 01:14 AM
29	This is how the other side talks about us and expect us to accept it Report for hate speech. Tik Tok has a lot of women who are awakening to this propaganda and with enough reports, this account will disappear.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/06/21 09:24 PM
13	Idea: while they’re distracted by porn, let’s take over. Due to this being leaked information from a military person, I doubt there will be an easy way to find sources to confirm such. However, this video confirms that pornography is a form of propaganda purposely encouraged by the US government to make men (and women) easier to control. This is long but worth the listen.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 03:08 AM
41	Idea: while they’re distracted by porn, let’s take over. Did you know that when the US military conducts a raid, they actually do broadcast porn on media to subdue the civilians? I had a US Army sailor tell me this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/21 09:17 PM
27	It's okay if you make a mistake. Growth isn't linear. I messed up too and broke a rule on intimacy. And now the dude “suddenly” has to move away.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 06:56 PM
61	Always had pickmeishas in his circle, lots of distractions & bad habits to kill time, friends who shared his habits/tendencies, no plans for his future career... my LVM ex. I could add more to this collage, but I didn’t wanna spend more time on it :) Did we all sleep with the same losers?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/05/21 02:55 AM
10	The Pink Tax and Makeup Culture These discussions are my favorite. Good comments and starting post.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/05/21 06:10 PM
15	Why do men hate us? My theory. I believe the core of it is that we are good and they are evil. They are violent, unclean, and savaged. We are far more sophisticated and as far as I am concerned, far more evolved. It’s Darwinism and soon, LVM will be weeded out as more women apply FDS on a societal level. They know they can’t stop us which makes them hate us more. Good. Let them suffer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 05:42 PM
3	Beware The "Momma's Boy." You're amazing for noticing this misogyny and correcting it. There will be many times where this is the case. Continue noticing and taking action. You're a hero.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 01:40 AM
2	Beware The "Momma's Boy." Hey now, don't call me out like that. But nah, I feel you. I have plan on being the bread winner so my man better be slaving over that stove.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 12:18 AM
75	I think this is supposed to be a joke, but I’m certain there are men who feel this way. Is...is he on the toilet?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 12:27 PM
-1	Beware The "Momma's Boy." That hasn't been my experience. 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 03:08 AM
62	Educating my daughter on what men will say when she is confident and strong in her opinions, what are we missing? "You're crazy" if she has standards and boundaries men cannot meet.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/05/21 07:49 PM
38	Beware The "Momma's Boy." I'm surprised she didn't chew the food for him, too.🤭 My mom is Brazilian and coddled my brother, similarly. He's obeese and still a virgin at 28 and she is just oh so confused as to where it all went wrong.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/05/21 07:43 PM
121	Beware The "Momma's Boy." Girl, I'm in Miami. It's a PANDEMIC with this machismo. I'm not feeling it. Plus, all these men just wanna do drugs and whore around. I hate it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/05/21 03:48 PM
1	That's still not that bad, my ex has a collection of beer bottles and rotting takeout leftovers in his room... 🤢 I love Brittany Venti.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/05/21 01:03 PM
23	I boiled over at work You're a badass! I'm also in software development and I'm always on my toes for this kind of thing. 3 weeks ago, I literally had my boss blame me in a team meeting for failing to test (his responsibility) a dev task he asked me to complete. Mind you, I was 1.5 months in to this new company and I was just following his exact orders.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 02:33 AM
3	Being the "dream girl" isn't special Part of his "dream" is to woo a high-value woman while being a low-value man, himself. It's most men's dreams deep-down. We're all just property to them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 03:06 PM
10	Mood for life Self-Care Girl Summer	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/21 05:47 PM
42	When has a woman ever spoken about a man like this? They HATE us. Someone mentioned a sex strike and I think that's a brilliant idea. Women would be safer from men because they wouldn't be bonding with them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 07:10 AM
2	Cassie - Long Way 2 Go 🎶🎵 She really won in the end too by dumping Diddy for her husband.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 06:34 PM