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Red Pill Theoryrivsdiary/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 04:15 PM
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Red Pill Theoryrivsdiary/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 12:08 PM
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Red Pill Theoryrivsdiary/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 12:23 PM
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Red Pill Theoryrivsdiary/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 10:56 PM
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Red Pill Theoryrivsdiary/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 05:43 PM
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Red Pill Theoryrivsdiary/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:10 PM
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Red Pill Theoryrivsdiary/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 05:15 PM
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Red Pill Theoryrivsdiary/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 01:56 AM
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"it sounds like this person views women as lesser" are you familiar with the term hypergamy?
/r/seduction15/06/15 12:40 AM
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To me the biggest green flag is that she doesn't talk negatively about other people. That she sounds appreciative and grateful. I like the term "warm-hearted". Not every girl has a warm heart. In fact, few do.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 03:24 PM
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The best topic is always her. But don't ask - tell her about herself. Your intuitions and assumptions about her based on observation and vibe. Show mastery over her world. This takes practice but gets easier.
/r/seduction08/01/14 07:11 PM
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Talking to pretty girls is SCARY. The first street cold approach I did I could see myself shaking. The key is to do 100s or 1000s of approaches and build up immunity to this fear. I have done about 100 so far. It gets much easier. Once I do 1000 it will be like taking a nap.
/r/seduction12/07/13 07:49 PM
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i am a natural introvert, and i discovered a while ago that before i talk to a pretty girl on the street, it was better for me to warm up by talking to a random old man or whatever. andy yosha expanded on this simple concept into what he calls state shifting: first talk to a random person, then a shop girl, then a girl on the street asking her for directions, then a different girl on the street giving a compliment then ejecting, and then finally yadstopping a girl on the street and going for the…
/r/seduction09/07/13 02:04 PM
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Are you kidding me? Doesn't sound like you have fully intergrated the red pill into your thinking.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 11:08 PM
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you are doing great! threesomes are something to be proud of. if you reallly want to be inspired, read krauser. http://krauserpua.com/
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 11:01 PM
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If you are banging then you are doing something right! If you want them to stick around more, seek to create more of an emotional connection. Open up, be vulnerable, share childhood stories.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 06:40 AM
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Final idea: something specifically talking about why being a nice guy won't help you get laid, and how women use nice guys as emotional tampons. The nice guy concept and the white knight concept are very related. And they are both based on the flawed notion that women are more virtuous than men, when in fact we know that women are less virtuous than men.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 06:33 AM
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Another huge red pull theme is all these women falling for death row criminals. It really brings home the concept that women are not "normal" in the male sense of the word. They are driven almost exclusively by their feelings - and usually that feeling is pussy tingle - and not by any higher code of ethics, like men are.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 06:27 AM
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The concept of "male guilt" is huge. Our MSM in America pushes this agenda and we fall for it. Men are all potential rapists, we are perverts, we are uncivilized, stupid and we oppress women. Athol Kay described it nicely in his book Married Man Sex Life. In American society, women are Men 2.0. This leads many caring men to feel guilty and to want to appease women overall, and in particular appease the woman he is in a relationship with. This, combined with shit tests, leads to a man gradually l…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 06:22 AM
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The "spiritual" idea that feminine energy wants to submit to masculine energy. This is explained well by David Deida in The Way of the Superior Male.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 06:12 AM
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Hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 06:10 AM
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Female solipsism.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 06:10 AM
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The concept of the shit test is incredibly important.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 06:09 AM
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Yes Yes Doubtful. No. Yes.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 11:26 AM
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Read classic Roissy from 2008 and 2009.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 11:22 AM
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David Deida'a The Way of the Superior Male.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 11:21 AM
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i recommend you learn daygame, and from UK crew of jon matrix, tom torero, yad, and krauser: -this 40 minute jon matrix video is a great introduction to their style of daygame: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jptRv6QptiA -yad also has a great intro video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UNxwHlD1g6o -some excellent posts by krauser consolidating his theories on daygaming and the structure of dating (one of which was a guest post on roosh's blog): http://krauserpua.com/day-game-model/ http://krauser…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 11:28 AM
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"should I start with women whom I feel have a lower SMV than myself to try and build this confidence? Or should I just go after every female I have a remote attraction towards?" inner game and outer game go hand in hand. you need to work on both at the same time. my advice is to go after any girl you would fuck, be that a 6 or an 8 or a 10. you need to fuck a lot of girls to start building up reference experiences, and to also start seeing the world as abundant in pussy and sex. when i started d…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 06:33 AM
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Some Roissy quotes: “Love yourself before you love her.” -Roissy “The strongest woman and the most strident feminist wants to be led by, and to submit to, a more powerful man.” -Roissy “You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by her crying, yelling, lying, head games, jealousy ploys, shit tests or guilt trips.” -Roissy “Refusing to take a girl seriously fills her with indignation… and horniness.” -Roissy “If men could only learn and apply one rule of game it would be this: Don’t take he…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 07:32 AM
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Jon Matrix's day game style is direct, which I prefer. Roosh's day game style is indirect.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 08:24 PM
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I am still self conscious about going out at night by myself, it's not easy for me. Have you considered starting out with daygame instead of nightgame? I find it much easier to wander around in the day to talk to girls, even if actually talking to them on the street is pretty scary initially. I strongly recommend checking out Jon Matrix. Here is a great intro. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jptRv6QptiA
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 03:55 PM
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"She’s disgusted by the thought of someone wanting to treat her like a princess and groveling for her affection."
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 02:04 AM
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impressive resume, especially this part: "I'm also currently dating a former model/child actor 13 years younger than myself."
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 09:05 PM
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thanks. i thought i had included the link.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 02:03 PM
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good point, although it varies. some girls peak at 18 or even 16, but i personally think most girl peaks at 22 or 23. still young, but with a touch more sophistication, styling, poise.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 12:03 PM
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more practical advice. don't try to seek rapport with other people. don't try to please them. what is one good way to check to see if you are (unconsciously) trying to get validation and approval from others? check your voice tonality. the body never lies. here's a great, short clip from tim of rsd: http://youtu.be/4VDslvC4_5w
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 11:58 AM
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when i think of practical red pill advice, i think of danger and play's blog. here is an excerpt from one of his best posts: Lie About Your Age June 26, 2012 by Danger & Play When I tell guys to lie about their age, they all say the same thing, “What if she finds out the truth?” Questions like that are why I could never earn a living being a “dating coach.” Seriously, guys, that is such a gay ass question that I can’t even handle it. Are you a bunch of fags? Who cares? Besides, if you fuck a chi…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 08:41 PM
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yes, for the first time in his life, he is not afraid of other people, is completely indifferent to what other people think of him, doesn't seek approval from anybody.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 11:14 PM
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Some great advice here. They are right. Just move on. So much pussy in this world. Abundance mentality. Every girl is practice. One practical tip: as you go from nice guy beta to real man alpha, it's better to take first take it to the asshole extreme and then calibrate it back to a more balanced "velvet and steel" middle ground. In other words, for a beginner, I recommend you first practice by treating girls like objects, being really selfish and vain around them, even whipping out your cock du…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 12:36 PM
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Yes. Someone else wrote that having a girl is like having a pet. In fact, Cesar Millan's dog training rules work well for training girls. Plus, more importantly, I can't look for a woman to give my life meaning. I need to find meaning in my own life. Like Danny says, girls are just a side dish in life.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 08:01 AM
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I recommend you read Krauser and classic Roissy. I will find some links. You ask a good question, basically, are girls still worth it? The answer is YES. The red pill and game/pickup, what it does is it shatter the illusion that girls are innocent and divine (and logical), but it should not shatter the belief that girls are beautiful, loving, affectionate, kind, sensual, delicate, and am amazing source of pleasure and enjoyment. A girl, in order to be all these things, just needs proper training…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 11:56 AM
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