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100% odds the woman saying "that's terrible" and "that's the cruelest thing I've ever seen" is a cheating bitch, too. Yeah, sure, it's fine to cheat, but it's not okay to get called out in front of everyone for doing it? Fuck that.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/20 04:23 AM
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It's pretty stupid and doesn't take into account the fact that people are individuals. My husband is 17 years older than me and I'm pretty damn happy with my life with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:48 AM
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Dolls don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:07 PM
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It's like glorifying a heroin addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:22 PM
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Ultimately, it's on the state to prove guilt before taking punitive action against a person. The state should mandate paternity testing as a matter of child support proceedings before support is awarded and the state should pay for that testing. When child support is sought, paternity testing should be mandatory. Requiring this would save a lot of men from being essentially slaves for 18 years for a kid that isn't theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:33 PM
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I'm generally a believer most things are okay as long as they're consensual, but when you're doing something to the point it's doing real damage to a person, be it physically, financially, etc, there's some mental illness going on there. Self-harm is mental illness and that's definitely what findom is when you're "running yourself into the ground in debt" to do it. Not saying it should be made illegal because again, we're talking about consent, but the idea that they're allowing themselves to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:48 PM
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It's when the "slave" label continues outside the bedroom that it becomes abuse, IMHO. Bedroom play time is one thing, being only allowed to crawl around the house on your hands and knees for 24 hours because you forgot to put dinner in the oven is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:41 PM
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Sometimes the problem isn't them, it's toxic people around them that they can't seem to cut loose for some reason or another. It took years to convince my husband to cut contact with his toxic family. Since he cut contact almost 5 years ago, he's been healthier mentally than he has been the last 25 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:09 AM
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Lol there won't be a President Yang.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:38 PM
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Because it's a scummy industry that reduces a woman down to being worth her body and not much else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:50 PM
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No man is man enough for more than one woman. No woman is woman enough for more than one man. Anyone who thinks they are has an overinflated ego and needs to get over themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 06:04 PM
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You get support if you need it via food stamps, TANF, child care, and state medical care. Yeah, it's restricted to the poor, as it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:37 PM
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Pretty much this. I've seen quite a few women say "I'd make a great single mom" and I'm like "uh no, you wouldn't, you're not a great mom now, being single does not suddenly give you supermom skills". The only reason they even contemplate single motherhood as an option is because there's so much support for single mothers. Single dads always get looked at funny when they apply for the same benefits, including getting the state to collect child support from the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:16 AM
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I'm long past worrying what other people think, lol. I knew him before he was homeless and knew how that happened, it wasn't like I picked him up off the side of the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:45 PM
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lol we're more than well off now. He was well worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 11:06 PM
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My husband is 17 years older than me and I was 23 when we decided to date. He was homeless at the time living in a motel room (long story). We've been married 8 years. Why? We like each other, we have very similar moral values, our views on children are similar, etc. It's not a normal situation by any means, but it definitely happens for reasons other than "sugar daddy".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 10:39 PM
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Everyone should be picky for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:58 PM
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My husband was living in a motel room with no car when we got together, so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 01:30 AM
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You can get a decent pair of shoes that will last through normal wear for less than $75. $200 on a pair of shoes and saying you can't afford ramen is absolutely ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:13 PM
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My mom took me and my brother to work with her at her and my dad's storefront for years. Me from birth until kindergarten and my brother from his birth until kindergarten. She kept the house and cooked the meals, as well. Lots of today's women are weak and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 08:44 PM
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The woman has final say in whether to bring that baby into the world. Everything involving the man happens before her right to exercise her choice. Unless the man wants to be a father and have rights, he owes her nothing. Women wanted all the say, now they have it. You don't get the say without the responsibility, too. The number one reason women abort is because they're "not ready" to be a mother. Men should have the same choice. A woman that believes women have a right to abortion and who make…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:57 AM
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Her belief is a choice and it's her problem to deal with. It has nothing to do with him. If she doesn't believe in abortion or adoption and wasn't prepared to raise a child on her own, she quite frankly shouldn't have had vaginal intercourse with someone capable of getting her pregnant. If performing an action with someone puts you with most of the risk (as women complain about how physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially stressful pregnancy is), you don't get to hold someone else resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 09:45 AM
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The mom can give the baby up for adoption after they're born to get completely out of her financial obligation. The father can't get out of his legal responsibility like she can. She, however, doesn't have to answer for anything long term. She has a "get out of jail free" card. He doesn't. If she doesn't want to raise a baby on a single income, she should have either not fucked around or chose a better partner to do the fucking with. Where abortion is legal, it should be abort or raise them on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:39 AM
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Anyone who's for universal, government funded healthcare is willing to pay a lot of idiot tax.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:33 AM
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Paternity tests should be mandatory by law and paid for by the state as a public service.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 11:32 AM
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Absolutely, teens are there to be educated, not attract dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:04 PM
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I don't think it should be offered, a paternity test should be required by law if the mother wants to claim anyone is the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 12:38 AM
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The potential for that kind of violence resides in women, as well. May as well say "humans are dangerous".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 11:47 PM
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That's pretty much what feminism is now. If a woman says or does it because reasons, it's feminism. If a man decides they're a woman, that's feminism. What the term "women's rights" even means today is so polluted, it's hard to respect anyone who says they're for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:01 PM
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They've made anything that let's women do whatever they want automatically "feminist". Personally, I'm fine with slut shaming. I'm not going to go out of my way to do it, but if someone has credible reasons to call a chick a slut or a whore, I'm not interfering or disagreeing. If the shoe fits, throw it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 04:31 PM
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Part of its religious for me. The other part is that I've seen a friend of mine change her poly relationship dynamic many times over the past decade plus and it's never worked out in her favor. She ended up raising some guys kids from infants and ended up kicked out of their lives completely because they had no legal relationship. She hadn't had anyone "steady" or even a stable living situation because of so many other people getting into the house with them under the guise of being poly. It's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 04:56 PM
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What my husband and I were pissed with his ex over was that we sent her 4x more money than we were required to and the kids wore thrift store clothes while she's buying herself and her unemployed boyfriend new shit like $80 cowboy boots. Sometimes giving the parent with custody doesn't result in the kids being better cared for. The whole point of the state setting child supports like they do is so the kids can supposedly have the same lifestyle they would have had if the relationship had not res…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 04:26 AM
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And mom can pay for clothes and food for the kids at her house and dad can pay for clothes and food for the kids at his house. Problem solved. Everybody takes care of their own household when custody is 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 04:18 AM
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That's a toss up depending on the friend, which I don't have many of. Pretty much all of the people that I would call good friends have moved away. When they were here, hanging out with them was almost as fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 01:28 PM
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I'm asking why the state needs to test every baby. Because custody, parental rights, and financial responsibility are decided at birth and are all difficult to undo, that's why. Government assigns responsibility for the child financially by who is listed on those documents and it's on government to make sure they have the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 01:18 AM
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First, the tests that you buy OTC aren't admissible in court, from what I understand. Second, the state has an interest in knowing that they're going after the right person for child support. The simple fact that you can owe child support on a child that isn't yours just because the woman points and says "he did it" is appalling, yet it happens. When people want to involve the state in collecting money from someone, they should accept the fact that the state is going to pay for making sure they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 12:02 AM
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I don't, though. Or at least I haven't in the 15 years I've known my husband. Good for you, but most lives have some kind of drama going on in them, whether it's work-related, family related, etc. A person shouldn't be discounted just because they have some issues, especially if they're willing to work on them. So why take on baggage when you can find a man without any? Sometimes the man/woman with baggage is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 01:55 PM
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Why deal with anyone if you don't have to? You're going to deal with drama, bullshit, and baggage no matter who you get with and anyone of any age can have more of any of it than you can bear. Anyone's capable of being abusive and you not realizing it until later in the relationship, whether they're much older than you or not. The whole "if he's 27 and he's dating a 19 year old, he's controlling and abusive"-type argument is ridiculous. It's funny how modern society expects us to judge people on…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 09:06 PM
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My husband is 17 years older than me. We got together when I was 23, he has 4 kids from his first two marriages, 10 years in, we just had our own last year. Just about anyone significantly older is going to have more life experience and more baggage. It just goes with the territory. My husband came from an abusive childhood and 2 abusive marriages. I was well aware of this before we decided to become a couple, so it's not like anything was hidden from me about any of it. Most of the women talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 01:56 PM
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I hope you’re happy with him. We're pretty happy, thanks. I just had my first child last year. My first, my husband's fifth. It sounds odd and I get some odd looks when I tell people that, but I wouldn't trade what I have for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 02:28 AM
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Sure, I get that my situation isn't typical and I get why the judgments are there. It's out of place and odd for a significantly older person to be with a significantly younger person. It's fine to notice something that's not considered normal. But assuming that every older guy dating a younger woman is some kind of creepy pedo is ridiculous. The circumstances of how the relationship happened, how they met, the dynamics of their relationship, etc all matter. Prejudging someone else's relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 02:05 AM
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My husband is 17 years older than me. He was more respectful about any boundaries that I had than any other guy I'd met. We'd known each other and worked together for over a year before we actually met. I convinced him that he should move in with me to share bills, even though we were only friends at the time. Neither of us were in great financial shape at the time and we got along well, had the same views on things, etc. He flatly refused, saying there was no way my family would be okay with hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:15 PM
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Why does there have to be only 2 categories? My husband and I have been together for over 10 years now and I've been neither one of those two things, but more like a mixture of both over the years and sometimes both at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 12:30 AM
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Like people you know for longer can't get postcoital psychic trauma and accuse you in rape. Of course they can, but that doesn't make it any less stupid to bring people home that you just met. If you wouldn't pick up a hitchhiker, you shouldn't bring home some random person, regardless of where you meet them. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes, I don't care if someone's male or female. This stupid action of bringing home some random chick he met at a bar just ruined 12 years of his life. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 12:19 AM
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They found him guilty, so he gets what he gets. 12 years is a steep price to pay for taking a stranger home, but pay it, he must. If his version of events is true, this is why you don't bring people you just met home. It's stupid. If her version of events is true, this is why you don't go home with people you don't know. They left holding hands; that doesn't scream "he's forcing me to go". Last thing is, neither of them were supposed to be in the bar in the first place. Both should be charged wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 06:23 PM
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I think there's 2 places people shouldn't try to pick up dates: the bar and church.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:43 AM
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Exactly. Women want men to be aggressive, they just want them to be aggressive when they want them to be aggressive. In all reality, this is what women expect out of men. Women in general can say what they want, but they want someone who's willing to do what it takes to protect them and keep them safe. I personally see nothing wrong with what the guy did in the clip I just linked to, but that doesn't mean that that's the appropriate response to the vast majority of things in life, either. Physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 05:46 PM
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I'd rather have the faithful partner, no questions asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:57 PM
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No, it means their partner gave consent for them to do it. What constitutes "cheating" is defined within that person's relationship with their SO. Outside opinions on what cheating is don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:53 PM
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It depends on whether you're being deceptive about it to your partner or not. If your partner doesn't care, it's not cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:39 PM
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99% of men have no biological reason to be interested in what are still other men. Your dealbreaker isn't irrational, it's 100% biological and natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 09:54 PM
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You're losing your integrity by going to #4, because it's deceitful. Be an adult and break the relationship off after #3.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 11:05 PM
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The solution to 1 and 2 are the same: if you don't like what's going on in the relationship, leave it. Someone who thinks that cheating is an "effective relationship management tool" is the kind of person nobody should ever date or marry, because they can't be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:09 PM
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Anyone willing to do the work involved deserves to be that wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:41 PM
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My husband often tells me that he doesn't care if I wear makeup or not. My mom tries to get me to "dress up" for him sometimes (she's old-fashioned that way), but I keep having to tell her that he just doesn't care because he doesn't think makeup makes me any more beautiful. It's not that he doesn't think that I look great when I do dress in higher end clothes, fix my hair, etc... he just doesn't want to pressure me into doing something I don't really want to do just because I think he'll like m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:20 AM
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The man doesn't have the same opportunity to find a replacement that the woman has. That's like saying that a woman, given a chainsaw, and a man, given a pocket knife, are both equally capable of cutting down the same oak tree. The capability isn't equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 05:56 PM
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The support to which the kid is entitled can be either paying, caring, or finding a replacement. Someone finding a replacement through adoption is not "supporting" their child. It's them abdicating their responsibility to support the child and putting it on someone else who is willing to take it. Because of Safe Haven laws, it's easy for a mother to literally drop her infant off at a police station, hospital, etc and be fully within the law without having to go through any legal adoption process…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 05:17 PM
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The support to which the kid is entitled can be either paying, caring, or finding a replacement. Someone finding a replacement through adoption is not "supporting" their child. It's them abdicating their responsibility to support the child and putting it on someone else who is willing to take it. It's easy for a mother to literally drop her infant off at a police station, hospital, etc and be fully within the law without having to go through any legal adoption process at all. She doesn't have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 05:16 PM
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They're only entitled to said support when the biological parent is still legally their parent. "By proxy" doesn't count as being supported by their biological parents. Adoption removes support from the biological parents completely. "By proxy" would be the mother giving the new adopting parents support to pay for the child for her, not her giving them up for adoption and not having to pay anything. If either the father or the mother can find someone willing to take over their duties (either thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 04:51 PM
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equally able to sign his obligations away? Absolutely not in 99% of cases. This is a big misconception that people have about "signing rights away". People think you can do it and get out of child support, so that's what they tell people in support situations ("just sign your rights away"), but that's just not the case. Generally, you can't sign away your "rights" without there being an individual there to replace you. The woman has this option easily when she has the baby, simply put, because s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 04:33 PM
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You are saying men should be able to have wreckless and unsafe sex Unless we're talking about rape,the man isn't going to have reckless and unsafe sex unless the woman lets him. If the woman is on birth control and won't have sex without use of a condom, there's a 99%+ chance she's not getting pregnant in the first place. the entire responsibility of either having an abortion or raising the child on their own She's the only one that gets to make the decision to abort or not, to give out for adop…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 04:20 PM
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No. The nearly entire reason that women wanted the right to abort was so women didn't have to become mothers when they either didn't want to or weren't ready to. The same should apply to men or it's hypocritical as hell. "I could abort, but I want to be a mom, so I'll force the father to subsidize my desire for the next 18 years". If a woman has legal access to abortion, she should have to have bear full responsibility for raising the child for the next 18 years if the father doesn't want to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 05:20 AM
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Why is that less acceptable than a woman who says she technically has a kid, but she gave them up for adoption?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 04:50 AM
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The child isn't entitled to support from their biological parents even after they're here. If they were, the woman would not be able to give the child up for adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 04:49 AM
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I would want it, I would keep it, and I wouldn't charge him child support, because having it isn't his decision. Not going to kill a baby just because the father doesn't want it. I've been in a situation with my current husband where his ex would have owed us child support had we pressed the issue; it's easier to just not deal with her. Fuck the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 10:47 PM
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The result of not aborting isn't his consequence to deal with unless he wants the child. She has a way out of having the baby and if she doesn't take it, that's her problem. She shouldn't be able to hold him to her consequences of not aborting. She made the last choice in the event: abort or not. If she chooses "not", that's on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 10:01 PM
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When a man gets a woman pregnant, she DOES have the sole choice on whether to terminate the pregnancy or bring a child into the world. If she will not get an abortion and the father wants nothing to do with the child, the father shouldn't have to pay her a dime of child support. It's fine for her to have her "final choice" to make, but it's her choice and no one else should have to suffer the consequences of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 09:54 PM
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A few literally said it is unfair that men "have to pay for a choice they had nothing to do with." I agree with this when the woman has access to legal abortion. If she willingly chooses to keep a child, whether she's capable of raising it on her own or not, that's her problem, not the guy's. She made the decision and her decision should have nothing to do with him if he doesn't want rights to the child. If we're not going to force women to be parents by making abortion for non-medical reasons i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 09:50 PM
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