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| 2 | Do you go on dates with people you aren’t into?I used to just to get practice but now I'm not wasting my time or money on a woman that I don't care about. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 04:13 AM |
| 11 | To Those Who've Had Numerous Partners, Does it All Start to Feel the Same?It all gets old. Meaningless sex with randoms and even staying with one woman gets old. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 04:08 AM |
| 1 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.Go for a drink during happy hour. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | I wasted my 20s, now 30 year old - did I mess up my SMV & how to salvage it?30 is a great age for guys. Women in their 20s, 30s and even 40s will be into you if you have your shit together and at least look decent. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 06:47 AM |
| 9 | How do you manage all the people in your life + easy way to do this?Prioritize the ones you like the most. Even the Dream Team has a starting five. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 08:56 PM |
| 47 | What advice, quote, lesson or move made you level up the most in life/game?"Hesitation leads to masturbation." | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 05:34 PM |
| 2 | How do you talk to different women if you’re solo in the Club?If a woman is not interested in you then you owe her absolutely nothing. A simple "it was nice talking to you, take care" is more than enough. I'm still amazed that you spent 2 hours talking to someone in a club. The whole point of a club is to have fun not tell your life story to some chick. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 07:47 AM |
| 3 | She likes me, now what?Everyone gets a little nervous before a date. When you finally meet her you will feel much better I promise. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 07:31 AM |
| 69 | People that put on apps looking for long term relationship are actually pretty down to casual ONS'sThis is true. No woman is going to flat out say she's looking for casual sex unless she's one of those poly non monogamous chicks. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Why is cold approach so addictive?This guy loves the game. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 05:54 AM |
| 18 | Why will women respond positively to flirty/teasing messages and the soft close for the date but then ghost you as soon as you ask for their availability (“When are you free?” Or “Whats ur schedule like this week?”)This happens to everyone. You just need to talk to so many women that you don't even care or remember which chicks ghosts you. There's a million reasons why it happens. They don't like you enough, they like someone else more, they are scared to meet an internet stranger, they're busy, they forgot to reply, they got back with their ex, they were just looking for attention and validation. They might be a catfish. They might be using old pics and are fatter now. The point is who cares. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 05:45 AM |
| 4 | Don't chaseThis is how you do it https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=N7FVmeJXwCY | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | I banned dating apps from my lifeThe apps just make it so easy though. It's a hassle having to go out all the time when you could just meet women from using your phone. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 07:44 AM |
| 9 | Is there any winning here?Any woman that does the "lets talk here more first" should be put on the back burner. You can text them here and there but dont focus on them too much until they actually meet up with you. The ones who are down to meet should get top priority. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 07:31 AM |
| 23 | Is my Tinder profile that bad or is my algorithm just completely dead?Once you start mass swiping on Tinder it messes up your algorithm. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 08:05 AM |
| 3 | guys who are 24+ and/or well past/done with any education/training, where and what types of social settings are you meeting women?I get more women than I have time for that's for sure. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Sharing room with close female friend for a week. Should I try something like conversation?Have drinks with her and make a move. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 08:31 AM |
| 2 | guys who are 24+ and/or well past/done with any education/training, where and what types of social settings are you meeting women?I just use online dating. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Yareally archiveGot to remember this for later | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 11:52 PM |
| 1 | 25m. Got laid but feels weird.For a whole hour while she degraded you? That's just foul lol. You hooked up with a real dominatrix. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 11:45 PM |
| 2 | F40 matched with me M29 on tinder. First time with older woman, need adviceThat's how online dating is. She probably has 50 other matches. It also doesn't help when most other guys are using the same "hey how are you" "hows your weekend" lines. You got to stand out. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details belowThis hasn't happened to me before but I would just continue the date as I was before I went to the washroom. If the woman has any respect for you she will politely let the guy know she's with you and end their conversation. Wouldn't you do the same if a woman came up to you while your date went to the washroom? It's basic social skills. No need to come up with a witty line or get confrontational. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 07:54 AM |
| 1 | F40 matched with me M29 on tinder. First time with older woman, need adviceDon't treat her any differently just because she's 40. Set up a date, escalate and then take her home before she gets bored texting you. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 07:37 AM |
| 7 | Best app for hookupsIf you want as much sex as possible then use those kink apps like Feeld. Other than that it's whatever app you personally get the most matches on. Also just because a woman has "looking for long term" on her profile it doesn't mean she's not down to hook up. I've had women who I thought were the serious long term type practically begging to go back to my place halfway through a date and I wasn't even trying. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Slept with 20 women in one year: Truing to deal with bad effectsI'm in my late 30s and feel the same way. Casual sex is basically just masturbating...fun but right after you cum you realize it wasn't special. I'm looking for a long term relationship now with someone I actually care about. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Dating abroad is the best decision a man could makeThese kinds of women are only into you because they think you have money. It's basically like fucking a prostitute. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Want To Date But Not Have SexIf you haven't even started dating yet then there's a high chance you won't even get sex if you tried. Many guys don't even get a kiss or a second date let alone sex. Just talk to women and go on dates. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 07:27 AM |
| 3 | I have strabismus. Am i doomed forever?Do you wear glasses? They might help reduce it or even make it less noticeable. | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 12:29 PM |
| -2 | Where to meet singles if you don’t go to bars and clubs?Dating apps are the most efficient way to meet single women. If they aren't working for you then your pictures probably suck and your messages are boring. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 01:18 PM |
| 66 | I can’t get over a girl, is there anyway to regain her interest?The truth is that she really isn't that special. You're just infatuated with her. Talk to women that actually want to see you. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 08:07 PM |
| 5 | How to relax on first date?Try not to think about it too much. Get fresh and put some music on that hypes you up. The whole point of a first date is to see if she's good enough to be on your roster. This is your show and she's just a guest on it. | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 03:35 AM |
| 2 | In a slump need general adviceCould you Uber to their place? | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 05:33 AM |
| 7 | What is your dating app strategy for hook ups?My strategy is to just tell them we should meet up for a drink and talk. I'll suggest we meet at their place and surprisingly a lot of women are ok with doing this. I prefer their place just because I don't want a bunch of random women knowing where I live. | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Daygame logSounds good I'll be following this thread. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Suffering from successAfter a while you will get tired of so many first dates. It also gets expensive. | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 05:53 AM |
| 6 | Body fat % level where you started gaining attraction/confidence?Low body fat makes not only your body look better but your face too. Get under 15% and you will be looking real good. | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Women on app wants to hook up, how do I not screw this up?"When are you free? You should come over for a drink." It's that simple. | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 12:28 PM |
| 27 | My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approachesJust curious but how many women have you slept with from those 1000 cold approaches? | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 05:06 AM |
| 17 | HumbledYou only get like 5 super likes and thats with the paid version. What are the chances that a real woman would troll you out of the hundreds of other guys in her stack? It's either some guy with nothing better to do or the woman is actually mentally ill. Laugh it off and don't take it personal. | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 08:56 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys balance dating with work/school/gym?That's why I like online dating. You can find new women during downtime at work or wherever just pulling out your phone. | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 12:49 AM |
| 22 | Finished second date and not sure if its going well. Did I fuck up?Stop overanalyzing everything. | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 05:00 AM |
| 4 | Does anyone else not know if they are attractive or not?Thinking yourself as ugly benefits you in no way. Take care of yourself and believe that you're an attractive man that women want. As you think you shall become. | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 09:20 AM |
| 2 | I shut down once I know a girl’s into me; how can I stop being weird about getting physical?The chase is more fun than the catch. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Was talking to a chick online then she ghosted when I told her my height, how do y’all deal with being ghosted especially when you’re having a very bad month?You already know the answer. Forget her and find another chick. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Girls who stop responding after getting asked outYou already know what to do. On to the next one. | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 10:09 PM |
| 3 | How To Convert Your Matches to Dates on Dating AppsThis is solid advice. From my experience any woman that says something like "let's talk more on here first" is a complete waste of time. Any woman who is really interested in you will meet you as soon as she's available. | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 07:13 AM |
| 3 | What do you guys think of Jon Anthony and masculine developmentThis is where I started. I was like 15 back then. | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Things I've learned over the past yearI even like to do kegels with my penis while doing it to make it feel more real. | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 07:22 AM |
| 3 | Do you use the same lines in differents text games?Same. I have two copy and paste messages that I use for all women I speak to online then go from there. | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 02:39 AM |
| 23 | Things I've learned over the past yearI learned this from somewhere a long time ago but imagine yourself having sex with the woman while talking to her. Your body language will become more sexual. | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How To Text WomenYea I like them too. | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 10:25 PM |
| 308 | R seduction is the best reddit and heres why?Learned a long time ago from other sites like this that women give terrible dating advice. If you want to learn how to seduce then you learn from the seducers. | /r/seduction | 22/02/24 11:26 PM |
| 2 | how many dates in a single day?Last month I did two on one night then another one the next night. I pulled it off but I can imagine it would be overwhelming to keep doing it. Give yourself enough time in between dates to recharge. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 09:41 PM |
| 6 | My text game is pretty badThere's a video called "the ultimate texting guide for 2024" or something like that. It's a great video and I agree with all of his rules. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell her?I'm seeing a girl who I matched with like a year before. I don't think she remembers and I never brought it up. I completely forgot about it until this thread reminded me. Who cares? It doesn't mean anything. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Trying to get to know about her first doesn't workMy opening line is always something funny. Making them laugh on the first message will get you in the door then it's easy from there. A few flirty messages then suggest to meet up for a drink. Done. | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Do you think porn and masturbation can have a negative impact on your dating life?I think masturbating in moderation is healthy. If I go too long without it I get too horny and end up doing things that I regret doing. | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs?It depends on what club you're going to. If it's a club full of college age people you will stick out like a sore thumb. | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Mortified at my sheer lack of game.Have a couple drinks to loosen you up. Next time a girl shakes her ass in front of you just put your hand on her hip and pull her in. | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Dating 20s vs 30sI'll be honest I get almost all of my dates from online dating. I even matched with women I know in real life and wouldn't have known they were into me if it wasn't for the app. Most of my friends are married now and have kids. Going out isn't really an option anymore. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Why is game so difficult?You started a month ago? That's barely any time at all. You are actually doing great that you aren't afraid to talk to girls anymore. A lot of guys never get past that stage. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Matches on dating apps randomly stop texting backGot to stand out. Say stuff that no one else is saying. They have heard these questions thousands of times and get annoyed by them. Hey how are you What's up What are you doing today How's work What are you looking for on here What do you do for fun | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 03:32 AM |
| 4 | Suddenly, I have a lots of female friends... Good thing or?Also since he wasn't good enough for them why would they hook him up with an attractive friend? At most they might set him up with a fat friend. | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Breaking touch barrier with hands is so powerfulI'll try the hand hold. | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Breaking touch barrier with hands is so powerfulShould start as soon as the date starts. I like to hug them then walk close enough to them that your arms subtly brush against each other. | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 10:54 AM |
| 6 | I went on 18 first dates in January - here’s the breakdown of my results + my insightsI agree with you OLD is so much more efficient. I always have like 10+ women that want to go out with me but I just don't have the time or energy for all of them. I just focus on like the top 4 and keep the rest on the back burner. | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 10:37 AM |
| 3 | 🧙📖 Total's First Date Manifesto (manifesto just sounds cooler than guide, right?)Where did you meet these chicks that reject a hug? I find it strange that would happen unless you're catfishing them or something. | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 10:54 AM |
| 2 | What do you text a girl after getting her number?Hey its "my name" :insert emoji: Out of the hundreds of numbers I've gotten I never had a woman not respond. | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Date game is not emphasized enough. Being decent at cold approach is not the end of the storySo how do we improve date game? I'm at the point where I can easily get dates from online dating but sometimes I struggle with escalation. | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 02:32 PM |
| 8 | This is what I don't get about the "wait to text" line of thinkingWhat if he tells you at the end of the date that we should do this again? You still expect him to text you the same thing he said in person? | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid itMy only problem with dinner dates is you're paying around $50 altogether at any decent restaurant. If you're dating only one girl then ok whatever but if you have several options like you should then the money adds up quick. Going out for drinks is just as bad when one drink is almost $10 at any decent bar. Nobody goes out for just one drink. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Would you fuck a girl who likes guys barebacking her, but is on prEp?pretty sure you're talking to a tranny. | /r/seduction | 05/11/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | How do I get past my limiting belief of age?do you tell women your real age? | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 05:12 AM |
| 5 | What's the best $100-$200 you've spent that helped you meet women/improve your odds?thats not a whole lot of money but lets say i needed to get laid in 24 hours or i get murdered...i would take that $200 and get a nice outfit then a fresh haircut. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 05:52 AM |
| 2 | All of my cold approach leads already have a dating app installed. I feel like its a waste of time.you're wrong man. she can have 10000 matches but you just bypassed the line by interacting with her in person. by interacting in person you aren't just a 2d picture sending texts to her. if you met a cool good looking chick right now would you ignore her because of random matches online that could be fake or catfishes? nope. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Nightgame pros: Can you help me with logistics? (Bonus points if you live in or are familiar with Miami)you can either bring them back to your place or your wings. if not that then the women shouldnt have a problem bringing you over to their place if they're really down. its actually better that way so you dont have some random slut possibly making a mess in your place. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | The cold approach method is unhealthy, and frankly a cringeworthy attempt at picking up women (or men)what kind of social events are you talking about? i never liked trying to get women who are friends of friends. it can get awkward quick, the good ones are usually taken and you're really limiting your options if you're hoping a dude you met has a chick for you. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 12:37 PM |
| 41 | I envy all you lads who say women aren't difficult.theres a lot of hot indian women out there. go after them and forget these white women. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone else realised attraction is mostly looks?do you go outside? is every woman with a tall guy who has a good jaw line? no. do you not have friends that do well with some women but get shot down by others? | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone else realised attraction is mostly looks?looks matter a lot but the good news is that women have different taste in men. you might be a 4 to one chick but a 7 to another. theres women that think brad pitt is ugly. find the women that are attracted to you or not repulsed by you and spit that game. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approach today and feeling like shitgirl sounds like a weirdo. i bet shes asian right? dont sweat it bruh. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 08:34 AM |
| 32 | I’m giving up on dating and women and just focusing on myselfshow us a pic so we can help you improve your look. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 03:30 AM |
| 3 | How do you not let failure at dating affect your self esteem?dating isnt everything. its like the cherry on top...you don't need it but it's nice to have. you have a law degree...you're winning at life. you will figure out your dating struggles one day and look back and laugh how you were crying like a bitch over women. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 10:47 PM |
| 78 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.give him credit. he took charge and made it happen that night. a lot of guys would have found a way to fumble it. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Is there a middle ground between the Simp and the Recluse?you dont need to be the class clown to get chicks. just be somewhere in the middle. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Am I unlucky or do women not want anything to do with memaybe they check you out but you dont see it. i remember in high school and college i thought there were was just 1 or 2 girls that liked me but then i found out almost all the girls in my class had a thing for me. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Each rejection brings you closer to successfor real. every time im outside i see hot women with average looking guys. guys that aren't handsome, tall or buff. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 11:59 PM |
| -4 | i though that i would never say this... I've got a GFrate her from 1 to 10 | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Are there any skinny guys here that have no trouble getting women?face is more important than body. as long as you dont look like you're malnourished or something dont worry. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Text game - different states of mindyea i love getting an online chick on the phone. it shows me that her interest is high enough to stop what shes doing and give me her attention. you can actually have a proper conversation instead of typing words to each other. your chances of meeting them are way higher if they talk to you on the phone instead of being 1 of 10 guys shes texting. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 08:30 PM |
| 2 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.post some pics so we can see what you're working with. find an experienced wing man to go out with you and show you what you're doing wrong. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 04:37 AM |
| -6 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsmy dude...dont fall in love with a tinder slut that you fucked as soon as you met her. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Anyone Else Think Abundance Mentality is a Complete Crock?if you dont have abundance it will show and the girl will leave you. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever dated two girls at the same time? how did it go?thats what you're supposed to be doing. you cant lose your abundance mentality just because you finally got a girl to go on a date with you. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | I feel so hopeless.. Any recommendations?I'm using hinge right now and i swear almost all the women are fat. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 07:15 AM |
| 35 | why is online game stacked against men?pretty simple... women do the choosing and why would they pick average when they can get above average guys? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?you need more confidence in yourself. when you truly believe you're the man it won't bother you if a girl says no. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | I just fumbled the easiest approach everno one is on their game 100% of the time. you're human. just get back to it and keep shooting like you're kobe. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else have to get absolutely shithoused to do well at bars/clubs?10+ drinks is excessive...dont be a sloppy drunk. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 06:10 AM |
| 4 | Probably matched 20 girls in Tinder and got initial responses from two, then nothing. what gives?the problem with tinder is that its flooded with bots and fake profiles. its also the most popular app so you're competing with more guys on there. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Direct approach -- Do you go for if there's no eye contact (and didn't catch her looking at you)?thats what a cold approach is. there was no signs of interest and you just approached. if she gave eye contact or smiled at you i would call that a warm approach. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | my goal is to go out every weekend for 3 months periodwas it a gay club? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Spam approaches don't work personallyobviously using a line like " Hi, I think you look good, would you like to go out? " isnt going to get you anything. who told you to use that? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approach todayyou did good...you will soon realize approaching in a club is not hard especially if you had a few drinks. almost every guy in there is approaching with that liquid courage. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 05:45 AM |
| 2 | The penis barrierwhen in doubt whip it out. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Guys, I think fucked up...i learned from somewhere that the feeling you get when you see a hot girl you're about to approach is excitement not anxiety. stop thinking that you're anxious. embrace that excitement and go approach them. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.she didnt want to kiss a random stranger after 10 minutes of dancing. you should have said something to her. even in a loud club you can hear a person if they put their mouth up to your ear. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?i ghost women too...just part of the game. dont have time to keep up with all of them. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad thing for girls to see me approach other girls after closing with them ?i think clubs are awful for getting numbers. the girl is probably drunk and doesnt trust some random guy she gave her number to the night before. feels like you got to fuck them the same night you meet them or its a waste of time. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:21 AM |
| 79 | Won't I bother a girl if I approach her without her saying if she actually wants to be approached beforehand?you're right. never approach or talk to a girl. dont even look at them. just cross the street in case she feels uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 3 | If a woman starts asking you questions/making some references to her getting something done (eyelashes/nails), is that good or bad and how do you “make use” of this?stop over analyzing stuff that doesn't matter. honestly just delete this thread. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I get dates with way more attractive girls through cold approach than OLD. Am I just that unphotogenic?its the same for everyone. online you get rejected by fat whales but in real life no guy is even looking at them. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Why does it always come down to the gym?theres no rule saying that you cant date until you achieve your goal body. stop making this an issue. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?imagine taking dating advice from women on a reddit social skills sub. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | how do you get more matches on tinderi recently started getting more attractive matches after putting up some new pics. what changed? i used clear close ups so they can actually see what i look like. i also made sure to highlight my best feature. you need to figure out what your best features are and showcase them. its like a product in a store. you need to sell that shit by showing why you're better than the other brands. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | What are good non-sexual sexual words to throw in the conversation?when referring to going to a bunch of restaurants i'll say i eat out a lot. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 03:43 AM |
| 0 | mixed feelings dating single mom'ssingle moms are good for easy sex. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Physical escalation tipsif im making out with a chick i'll start feeling her up..legs, breast then i'll try to slide my hand down her pants. if she allows that then its on. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Being ignored a lot on appswhat do you mean your pians get canceled all the time? explain to us step by step what you do when you get a match. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 03:03 AM |
| 3 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)how much progress have you made in the gym? a decent or better face with a hot body can attract those type of girls. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Asking for feedback from ex datesyou can analyze the date yourself and be able to figure out what you were doing wrong. sometimes it's not your fault and she just didnt have high enough interest to keep seeing you. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Dating app trick I used and worked.saving this for later. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:18 AM |
| 1 | What is the thought process of a girl that is doing this?back in my clubbing days i would always touch her waist or touch her arm to get her attention. the worst that can happen is she will move away from you. if you wait for a woman to initiate then you are missing out on a lot of opportunities. grab skin and you will win. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:09 AM |
| 3 | Never devalue yourself after rejection!one less bitch to worry about. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Phone calls before dates?its all good. usually i text first instead of calling out of the blue. i only do that with people i know well. i would feel the same if i found out a chick didnt save my number. drop her if you want. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 07:24 AM |
| 2 | Going on a first date tonight. Kinda nervous. Any advice?how did it go playa? | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Phone calls before dates?i always had success with talking to a woman on the phone before a date. keep in mind im 36 might be different for young chicks who only text. i think texting is boring too and it doesnt really help you. talking on the phone gives you a better idea of what her personality is like. i had great convos with chicks who were boring texters. makes you stand out from the 10 other guys shes texting. i think its good practice for your conversation skills too. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:36 AM |
| 0 | got 1 solid number from 43 day time approaches, thoughts?how attractive is this girl? | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:21 AM |
| 3 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?a lot of lonely single moms in their 30s that need the D. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:16 AM |
| 11 | Somebody send some words of encouragement my way I’m about to go approach for the first timehesitation leads to masturbation | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching has lead to the most embarrassing moment of my lifeno matter how bad the approach was you still had the balls to do it. they might laugh but they got to respect you for trying. i bet most of them would never be able to do that. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:56 AM |
| 4 | How often do girls agree to a date solely to be entertained freethis is why you dont take women out anywhere expensive unless shes your girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:48 PM |
| 2 | She kissed me, but is now seeing someone else and just wants to be friendsi didn't even read the post and i know plus you know the answer is to get more chicks. build up that roster. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?There are men out there that can get a woman to sell her body to random guys for money and then give that money back to her man. Now I'm not saying you should go out there and start pimpin women. But if something like that can happen then it shows women can be manipulated. You have the ability to talk women into sleeping with you. You just haven't mastered your game yet. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...has to be tinder. its widely known as a hookup app while hinge and bumble are more relationship oriented. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...any advice on making a hinge profile? i dont like how you cant write a bio. i feel like the prompts dont really let me tell enough about me. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:26 PM |
| 9 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...i hate how bumble doesnt tell you if the profile was recently active. could be swiping on dead accounts and not even knowing it. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:52 AM |
| 7 | Talking to girls on the phone is super underratedyea i always try to get women on the phone now. you might be scared and think you wont have anything to talk about but women talk so much its actually easier than texting. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:49 PM |
| 7 | How do you practice cold approaching?start off making eye contact and smiling at them. cant do that? start with old people then work your way to younger and more attractive women. do that to 50 women. now say hi to 50 women. again start with old people then work your way to younger and more attractive women. do that to 50 women. now that you can say hi now its time to actually strike up a conversation. again do that with 50 women starting with old people if it helps. start doing this and report back. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 04:54 AM |
| 6 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?its not most men though. every guy i grew up with gets chicks or is now married/in a relationship. the guys that dont get chicks are socially awkward and dont know how to talk to people. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | what are reasons you should date multiple women at once?imagine talking to several girls but only choosing one to date and cutting off the rest. few weeks later and the girl you chose leaves you. now you're all alone because you threw away all your prospects. its like managing a team...you got to build a roster and be always looking to add new talent. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | What can a 5’6 who’s a brown fat virgin do? Is there anything he can do to get better?post a pic and let's see what we can improve. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:28 AM |
| 0 | Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day?pretty common for night game. how you think one night stands happen? | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Girl I met suddenly went cold on mewhen you said "met" i thought you actually met up with her. talking on tinder literally means nothing. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 3 | how many of you go to bars/clubs alone?when i was younger and really into clubbing i did it a few times. i had fun but stopped doing it. i just preferred going with friends. also depends where you're going its not safe to be alone. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.just like others have said i see average and even fat/ugly guys out on dates with good looking women ALL the time. even if you are good looking im assuming you want a good looking girl right? well guess what? unless you live in the middle of no where that good looking girl is getting hit on by many good looking guys with game. you better have it together or you're just gonna be settling for the ok looking chicks that are just happy to talk to you. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | easy ways to be more attractivedid i say that? of course they can get laid but being a fat ass isnt maximizing your attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 04:44 AM |
| 0 | easy ways to be more attractivetaking care of your skin will still help make you more attractive. sunscreen will prevent fine lines and wrinkles. retinoids and aha exfoliation will make skin smoother, even skin tone, fade discoloration and make you glow. another thing is to hit the gym, build muscle then get LEAN. what do all the most handsome guys have in common? they all have low body fat. low body fat will give you a strong jaw line and more angular chin. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Calling her shows DHV, why I rarely textgood stuff. do you ever lie about your age? i feel women in their 20s will think oh this guys too old for me. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Do Asian girls usually act weird when approached?fobby asian chicks are awkward as hell. stick to the westernized ones. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | How tf deal you deal with the flakiness and bailsdont chase her replace her. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 09:29 PM |
| 13 | The feeling of asking someone out, taking your shot and getting rejected, is a WAY better feeling than beating yourself up for not asking at all.hesitation leads to masturbation. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Online Course that covers Verbal and Social Circle Game. Is it worth the price?you wont learn anything there that you cant learn here for free. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?this is what i think. the whole world being on lockdown hurt every single persons sex life. club sluts couldnt just go out and go home with a chad. a lot went to the apps. guys all flocked to the apps. problem is a lot of the new people arent really serious about meeting someone online. thats where all the attention whores and flakes came from. hopefully with life going back to normal now all the time wasters get off the apps and leave it for people who actually want to meet someone. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Are dating coaches worth it?3k? fuck that. you're better off getting a wingman from here and go learn with them in the field. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone had successful dates with girls who didn't give their number to you on an Online Dating app?honestly i haven't been out with any girl that didn't give me her number. those girls dont have high interest and it always leads to nothing. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 12:36 PM |
| 8 | How do I get past my looks?i see ugly and average guys with hot girls all the time. your looks are not holding you back. | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | 5 Exercises Which Boost Your Confidence With Girlsthis is good stuff. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep track of new phone contacts?i put a letter after the girls name from where i met her from. i.e. sarah T (from tinder) julie H (from hinge) that way i easily know its a girl im gaming. for a female coworker just put julia 1st floor or whatever area you know her from. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Got a girls number at her work yesterday at 8, texted, she still hasn’t texted me back, it’s 10:30 next day. Did I do anything wrong?get more numbers. the point is to have so many options you dont give a shit if a girl flakes on you. dont chase them replace them. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Being average looking really been fucking me in the ass in the dating market!!when i walk around the city i see average and even ugly guys with hot girls all the time. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 05:36 PM |
| 5 | How I DESTROYED Approach Anxiety!having a wingman definitely helps. make a bet with your friend if you dont approach a hot girl you owe him $50. i guarantee you will do it then. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 10:57 PM |
| -3 | Sleeping with lots of average girls to gain confidence?just do it. better to sleep with average girls than no girls at all. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Is it stupid to not know how attractive i am ? (guy)what is the point in doubting yourself? confidence is one of the most important tools in seduction and in life...assume you're good looking and don't doubt yourself. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 05:57 PM |
| 13 | What would you say to start a conversation with a girl at the gym?get in the habit of talking to all the regulars. that way it will feel natural when you do talk to her and she will see you're a cool friendly guy. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Should i ask the Woman for her number that works through the drive thru?just shoot your shot like steph curry. if you miss then shoot again. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 02:05 AM |
| 2 | How often do you guys get instant rejected during night game?if its a club then its pretty common. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Becoming more attractivepretty sure 5'9 is the average. might even be higher if you only count young men and not short old men that bring the average down. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Am I being paranoid about being labeled as a 'creep'?what major city is this that you bump into the same women all the time? maybe try different venues? If you actually live in a major city then don't worry about it. who cares if you approached the same woman twice? no one is gonna put your pic on social media unless you're a rapist or something. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksare these old women from work? if so of course they're going to tell a young guy he's handsome. it's like your mom telling you you're handsome. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Grooming adviceget a cleanser to wash your face moisturizer and sunscreen...you will thank me when you're older and still look good. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Have women always had a shit ton of options? Or is this just a recent thing from Online Dating?before online dating women still had a lot of options all they had to do was go outside and get approached. going to a club they can get any guy they want if they're attractive enough. online dating just makes it easier to filter out the men they dont want. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Following up an ignored DM openerare you following each other on ig? if not then she might not have even seen the message. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 01:11 PM |
| 8 | Picked up a girls insta while drivingthis reminded me of a time when me and my friends were waiting at the us/canada border and my boy got out of the car and got some chicks number who was in another car. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Don't sleep on Tinderthey want sex not to be your girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:03 AM |
| 21 | Don't sleep on Tindersingle moms in their 30s looking for sex...easy smash. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:15 PM |
| 2 | The whole point of dating apps is to get matches and go on dates. Every time I recreate my profile with different pictures, I seem to get the same results. Are some people just not cut out for it?like someone else said get a fade. those pics with a tucked in shirt make you look like a nerd. have you tried contacts? you have potential good luck. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | How to slide into DMS as a girl?damn so thats why the girl never responded to me. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 08:06 PM |
| 6 | When it comes to seduction, if you could go back & start over, what would you do to learn faster?hesitation leads to masturbation. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How to slide into DMS as a girl?damn...so thats why the girl never responded. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you initiate touching on a date?shake hand or hug at beginning of date. "guide" her with your hand on her back or arm when leading her somewhere. "accidentally" brush your leg against hers when sitting next to her. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 08:57 AM |
| 4 | How to date older Women?you're 21 you should be banging prime pussy. older chicks will still be there when you're 30+. use them for sex but dont actually catch feelings for older women. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 07:33 AM |
| 4 | How to date older Women?dont. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | (25M)Girl I Have Been Talking To Online For 3 Months (24F) Says She Likes Me But Doesn't Want To Get Into Relationshipstop wasting your time with girls on the other side of the world. shes probably looking for some simp to marry to get into the states. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 02:01 AM |
| 19 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text Gameif you're talking to multiple girls which you should be doing then you wont have time to text all day. dont be some chicks text buddy. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | I don’t want to have relationships, I just want to hook up with a girl.yea of course. i mean they still get a bunch of matches but you have less competition to deal with. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 06:51 PM |
| 24 | I don’t want to have relationships, I just want to hook up with a girl.get a fat chick from tinder | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:05 PM |
| 3 | How do I make moves to try to hook up with men?make a dating profile and take your pick from the thousands of guys looking to do you. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 03:50 AM |
| 6 | What have you done that improve your overall success with women?getting in good shape. your face will look so much better when you're lean. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 03:48 AM |
| -2 | What are signs that you are a hot, good-looking guy but don’t realise it?dont worry about that ****. just assume every woman wants your cock. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm dating seems keen, but rarely textsexactly. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Girl I'm dating seems keen, but rarely textsdont let it bother you. some girls are like that...they dont care about boring texting. its actually a good thing. i bet she wants you to call her instead of text. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 10:54 AM |
| 3 | For guys who are in 40-60s, are you guys still getting laid?you need to take care of your body and skin. i know older guys who still look good because they take care of themselves. if you're good looking now then you will still look good when you're older as long as you stay fit and take care of your skin. you might not have a bunch of hot 20 year olds but you will get women 30+ easy. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Curious if she’s interestedstop overthinking this. next time you talk to her you set up the next date. if she agrees then you have your answer. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Need advice. On talking terms with a single mom. Sends cute messages and updates regarding her life to me.single moms are the easiest women to bang from online dating. take her out, show her a good time then invite her over next time. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 05:37 PM |
| 2 | How to make a conversation more man to woman gradually?one thing i learned a long time ago from somewhere is...picture yourself fucking her when you're talking to her. i swear women can sense your sexual energy when you do this. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Tinder’s Algorithm is a scami used to really like okcupid but its kind of dead now. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Tinder’s Algorithm is a scami like super likes but damn they get expensive. back in my day you didnt need to pay to send a girl a message in online dating. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 04:55 PM |
| 63 | Boring Replies from Girls in Dating Appif a girl is giving you one word answers then shes not interested. a girl that wants you will help to keep the convo going. this is common sense... | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Dating app advicei dont know why guys try to act uninterested...of course dont be needy but you should still talk to her to build rapport and make her comfortable. shes being messaged by other guys...if you act too cold she will go to whoever is actually showing interest in her. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Underrated flirting techniques?how? | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have experience pulling girls to a place with a concierge/receptionist?dude you're allowed to bring in whoever you want as long as they aren't causing trouble. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 04:36 PM |
| 39 | I can't take this anymore.post a pic. lets see if we can un-gay you. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:58 AM |
| 3 | When is ghosting ok?its been a year and you still havent been out with her. stop wasting time with this bitch. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Girl rejected me at party because she said I wasn't big enough for herskinny ***** but my dick long | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 02:40 AM |
| 2 | How to compensate when you have bad skin from cystic acne, dating advice?isnt there treatments to reduce scars? i dont know about deep scars but if its red marks you can use retinoids and other stuff like that to improve skin. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 05:48 PM |
| 6 | Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with thembasically dont put all your eggs in one basket. have multiple chicks until you're actually in a committed relationship. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | How to get dates with Hinge and BumbleHow the heck are you guys going on so many dates but not getting a second one? From my experience any girl that I wanted a second date with ended up seeing me again. The ones I didn't do a second date was my choice because they were fat or ugly compared to their pics. Do you look like your pics? Were you able to hold a decent conversation? Built enough rapport and connection? Did you ask for a second date? What was the girls response? | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Would it be creepy/weird to message this kinda random girl on IG?you literally have nothing to lose. worst case she says no or ignores you who cares? shoot your shot dont be a bitch. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | I’m now starting to realize why you not text too long before meetingi was texting a girl for like the last 6 months. she finally decided to stop talking to me a few weeks ago. why did i go so long without meeting? we both work a lot and plus i wasnt super into her i guess. now i want her though lol. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:57 AM |
| 2 | How to truly dm a girl?does it matter if shes following you or not? are mesage requests more likely to be ignored? | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 08:16 AM |
| 1 | A good Instagram profile helps getting chicks .do you guys send follow request before sending a dm or it doesnt matter? | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 08:08 AM |
| 1 | I came to the realization that I am just so weird.just get more practice. try online dating and start talking to any fat lonely woman that responds. text her and talk on the phone. just get used to having a conversation with women. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you’ve reached your peak?she sounds like a piece of shit. no normal person would say that to someone. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Any time there’s a post about how a guy did NOT get laid, the guys that DO get laid should comment about what they would have done. Let’s help each other out!met a girl on tinder in like september. exchanged numbers and we texted like everyday. she initiated most of the time. we never actually met in person. (both busy and kind of had doubts if i really wanted her) we never spoke on the phone. (i know i know) about a month ago she stops initiating but still responds. knew she was drifting away. asked her out and it doesnt happen. she says shes not really feeling a connection. it still hurts even though we never actually did anything. in some of her p… | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever messed up your perfect tinder matchi matched with a girl on tinder about 6 months ago and we've been texting since then...problem is we never met up yet. i asked her out once but she was busy and i didnt ask her since. last few weeks i feel like shes slipping away...im gonna push for a date asap or should i just cut her off? | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 07:22 PM |
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