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Logisticsrkoll45/r/seduction14/08/21 05:00 AM
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Outer Game rkoll45/r/seduction24/04/21 07:52 AM
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Women complain when cold approaches are done badly (following girls to their car, not taking rejections, etc) if you exercise common sense and decency you’ll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:43 AM
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Average redditor who never left his house talking about how cold approach is “ostracised by society” if you go to the clubs there will be hundreds of guys doing it. Daygame is definitely more rare but it’s not some kind of out of fashion taboo like you make it out to be. If it’s done well it’s called “striking up a conversation”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:38 AM
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The point of the post is to say that having abusive childhoods will likely may you insecure and codependent/avoidant which is a killer for relationships. It’s not 100 percent but abused people project their learned behaviour it’s psychology. That being said it’s definitely possible to heal, most people don’t tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:08 AM
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This is called common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:06 AM
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Social status and looks matter but if you’re a needy bitch you’ll still fumble the bag. You still need to have enough confidence (more than or equal to the girl, girls won’t date guys more insecure than them) to bag. On the other hand there are people I’ve seen pull with just confidence alone doing cold approach (yes it is hard but still possibe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:05 AM
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Lmao, okay my point is I don’t respect them but hoes will be hoes. If you want studies see the one about divorce rate and infidelity increasing exponentially with bodycount for women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:03 AM
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Idc what women do I just won’t date women who do casual sex cause it indicates poor character
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:52 PM
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Literally, dating should be fun. I’ll pick someone healthy. This is very basic dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:51 PM
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It doesn’t make them any less of people but having a lot of trauma makes you a bad partner regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:48 PM
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Nice straw man, I said they do casual sex cause they’re damaged not that casual sex damages you. You intentionally misinterpreted everything I say cause you can’t form a proper argument
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:45 PM
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9/10 the women who hoe around like you say so it because of validation and trauma (sexual assault a lot of times). So I don’t want any association
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:36 PM
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Sex is more than a physical sensation. Dudes get bodycount rules to filter out people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:28 PM
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I enjoy sex with my girlfriend but I wouldn’t enjoy it with some random hoe from a bar. Doesn’t mean I don’t get pleasure from it. Projecting hard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:40 PM
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There is still a social stigma against it for women and I believe for good reason. I live in Australia so probably not too far off from where you’re living
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:56 PM
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Mate what I’m saying has literally nothing to do with arousal or sexual satisfaction. My point is most women prefer that in relationships and very few want to do it with randos without the validation attached
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:55 PM
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Sex for fun and doing it with strangers is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:52 PM
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Enjoying sex != casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:16 PM
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It’s very hard for most people to know if it’s trauma or because they actually enjoy it because there will be a lot of cognitive dissonance going on. Most times people realise it in retrospect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:40 PM
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Nah I live in Australia, doubt it would be that much different. Asking people at face value why they do it doesn’t mean much unless you have a chance to get real with them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:18 PM
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Worked for me, can’t speak for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:14 PM
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Hmmm, you do make a good point with the eating analogy. Maybe then the distinction should be women who ACTIVELY seek casual sex and women who partake in it if given the opportunity. Same would apply to guys in a lot of ways
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:14 PM
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Perhaps you’re an exception then. While I can’t say for certain cause I don’t know you personally I do believe vast majority of women may lie in group two. And these days I think it’s the other way around where a lot of women seem casual sex for validation instead of ltrs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:12 PM
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Mate you got your head up your ass. There is a societal stigma against women being sexual and guys definitely do prefer low bodycount women. I never said it’s the womens fault they got assaulted I’m just saying the trauma would make them bad partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:09 PM
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Genuine question what was your relationship like with your father? 9/10 people who I’ve talked to later admitted it was because of past trauma, low self esteem or such
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:03 PM
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Women engaging in promiscuous behaviour is against the social norm (for good reason, see the the comment of the other dude that mentions sexual assault) so going against it is rebellious. 99 percent of them don’t seek casual sex for sex alone, they do it for validation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:00 PM
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Can’t deny the correlation. Rebellious and outlandish attitude is directly correlated with having something to rebel against
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:47 AM
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Former does not exist. It’s just the latter in denial
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:45 AM
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So you’re seriously gonna tell me there is an epidemic of women cheating on short men with tall men and lying about the pregnancy that we see a very significant increase in height for the ENTIRE population? My boy you’re nuts, talk to a women for once
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:34 AM
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To complete this on a societal scale that would mean tall me reproduce significantly more than short men on a scale of like 100. Not to mention short women would be selected against too. Complete bs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:12 AM
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Dogs have twice the chromosomes that humans do and are artificially bred with their close relatives, this is a very poor example. Not to mention their lifetimes are 1/4 of humans as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:16 AM
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Evolution like that literally takes millions of years, you’re not gonna see a difference of more than like 1mm in the two generations that have passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:15 PM
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Incredibly based take
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:40 PM
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No women aren’t only going for 10s though that shit does happen on tinder but that’s very skewed and not a good example of real life. What the guy means to say is that only guys that are 7 plus are active in the casual sex scene and these guys cast a wide net (doing cold approach and what not) and therefore sleep with a lot of women and significantly more than an average dude who only has sex in relationships. When it comes to relationships people more or less date on their level. I also do beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:00 AM
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Damn you might be onto something. Too much social media exposure is making me think those women are below average when they clearly wouldn’t be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:56 AM
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Two words, cold approach. Worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:36 AM
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There’s a reason people do it, it works. Why tf would I care what random women think? It’s always the virgins on the sub tryna make statements like this
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:21 AM
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What are you talking about, incels hate cold approach
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:13 AM
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“Biological and cisgendered” just fucking say woman and don’t over complicate it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:20 AM
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Neither sexes can give the opposite one proper dating advice due to how they experience the world. If a guy came to me I’d tell him to approach and hold frame etc but I likely wouldn’t give that kind of advice to a woman because societal standards are different. I simply don’t know what dating is like as a woman so I can’t speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:44 AM
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“Redpill” has no meaning and “bluepill” doesn’t either, as another user pointed out redpill gives a lot of different advice and is generally amoral. The only thing that separates it from bluepill is the fact that it puts individual needs above social moral righteousness. Bluepill advice isn’t advice, it’s just “work on yourself”, “respect women” blah blah blah. The “advice” isn’t about getting women, it’s about being a moral person who is good for society. Redpill is just achieve your goal at al…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:48 AM
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This is retarded, last time I checked most women are expected to have sex with their boyfriends and it’s generally considered idiotic to date a prostitute. The only reason people here think it’s an insult is because in the Manosphere the only reason to get into a relationship is to be a beta bux apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:58 AM
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I wouldn’t say ted is necessarily blue pilled, he’s not really a pushover and he goes around cold approaching girls
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:16 PM
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They aren’t giving the advice to screw you over, they just can’t understand. They also wouldn’t tell you to approach because they wouldn’t like men they find unattractive approaching them even if it it’s helpful. And chances are if you’re asking on that sub they’ll automatically consider you unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:28 AM
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Might as well avoid them because it’ll be damn near impossible for her to keep two seperate lives like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:08 PM
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Yeah single moms are better of dating single dads because you’ll relate more. I wouldn’t date a single mom but if I one day become a single dad I wouldn’t mind it, in fact I might prefer it depending on the circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:52 AM
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How do you expect to have a 6 year relationship with the woman without being a dad to her damn kid, that’s just insanely impractical. You’ll also never have the option of moving in with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:50 AM
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I get you but divorce just happens sometimes man, it’s not always an indication of poor decision making
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:44 AM
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Yeah definitely, it’s not definitive of anything because every situation is different but the label has a stigma for a reason. Just like if a girl cheated on an abusive boyfriend who threatens her if she breaks up I wouldn’t really hold it against her but most cases just aren’t like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:39 AM
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Yes but getting that kind of validation becomes normalised for general society and more women become like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:47 AM
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Idk what you’re talking about, most of the advice given on r/seduction is basically just cold approach, play the numbers game and be honest/non needy while also focusing on self improvement. It’s basically redpill light. “Outer game” tactics never work because every situation and woman is different so you have to make a context decision on the spot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:39 AM
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These women will likely give different advice to guys their attracted to as opposed to one’s they’re not. And if you have to ask for advice you’re one of the unattractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:32 AM
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The reason r/seduction has the “don’t ask women” rule is because of those other subs where the women on it basically lie and blame every relationship fault on the dude. The women who browse this sub and understand the red pill and shit would be capable of giving decent advice but the majority of women will just give you shit advice that leaves you worse off just because it pushes a pro feminist narrative. If you ask most places on reddit women will tell you to never cold approach and that only c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:29 AM
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It’s called being nice you idiot. Guys do it all the time too, “looking big king”, “looking fresh” etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:17 AM
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Those subs just suck and women will give you advice that will cap and only benefit them not you. It’s beneficial for them to have guys simping and buying them shit so they’ll tell guys to do that even though it never works
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:45 PM
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Who the fuck cares dude? If you’re just going up and saying hi she has no right to be upset, just leave if you can tell she isn’t interested, it’s just basic social skills. This is just a massive excuse to not approach
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:22 PM
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There are a billion ways of going to implement the red pill but at its core the idea is that attraction is not negotiable which is an undeniably true message most of society just doesn’t seem to get. Hence how girls can make so much on onlyfans from desperate guys. None of these truly “blue pill” guys would be getting any by definition because blue pill would be pushing a pro simp narrative. Blue pill is the house of needy ideologues in general. Yes I understand there’s no real “blue pill” as it…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:47 PM
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I agree with almost everything you said especially with the point that having a good character will net you more women/ better quality than pure looks will. I do disagree in some instances. You have to understand what kind of people use red pill, it’s normally blue pill nice guys who get run over and look for an easy solution. Red pill is basically high self esteem advice told to low self esteem people which causes it to be skewed in negative and misogynistic ways aka blackpill. Doing all the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:55 PM
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Yes there are a lot of secondary factors but assuming you’re the exception to the rule is stupid, there are tonnes of blue pillers talking about how their girl isn’t like that and how she’s not like the other girls but in reality the majority are wrong about it. The majority of women who sleep around do so for validation whit in itself is a red flag and also shows that she doesn’t value sex. It’s not necessarily about someone being better it’s about having something not many guys have had, same …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:38 AM
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Didn’t you read the part about higher divorce and lower relationship satisfaction? Why would I want something 50 guys have had before?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:22 AM
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Why would you want a woman whose been run through when you can just get one that hasn’t? It’s not that you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife it’s that I have no reason to. Women who sleep around have much lower relationship satisfaction and women above 16 bodycount have 80 percent chances of divorce. Same applies to men but on a much lesser extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:16 AM
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Completely agree but what in redpill do you actually disagree with then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:15 AM
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The problem with hypergamy and af/bb is that nobody actually understands what it means. Hypergamy doesn’t mean women will ditch you at first notice and that a man won’t. It means that if you take a man and show him 10 attractive women he’ll want the hottest one and the second hottest one and the third hottest etc. but if you show a women 10 attractive men she’ll only consider the most attractive. And as for AFBB it doesn’t mean all women cheat on their “beta” husbands with chad, it’s just that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:11 AM
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Not a woman but I think I’ll drop a hard truth here. Most women here think they’ll be okay with a guy crying but in reality they’ll likely perceive it as weak no matter the reason, they might be supportive and honoured the guy is opening up but will still see him as lesser
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:46 AM
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Stay away from the BPDs man, no matter how tempting it’s just not worth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:52 AM
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Jesus Christ I don’t understand how people like this can exist. Are there really that many sociopaths out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:51 AM
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Not all long term partners are abusive. Low self esteem can be the reason many people find themselves in abusive relationships and also the reason a lot of people tend to be promiscuous. A lot of redpillers are living examples of this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:14 AM
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And this is why higher body counts lead to women not being able to form strong long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:27 AM
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Society always has biases, thing is I don’t give a shit what others say and that’s the real secret. So what if they think I’m arrogant or ugly? I’ll do what I want and not spend all day on reddit complaining about how woe is me. Maybe that Indian guy won’t get a bodycount of 100 but he can do better than if he didn’t workout or get a better haircut and that’s the takeaway. Thats all that really matters in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:40 AM
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You are the embodiment of a victim mindset, it’s pathetic and obvious why you can’t get any girls. Society isn’t out to get you, there’s no “constant gaslighting” nobody is denying the halo effect exists obviously good looking people have it better off, work harder to be better looking then, that should be your takeaway. Also going after random online dating softies paints a very bad narrative, most men eventually end up married and in relationship anyways it’s not like only 20 percent of men da…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:11 AM
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This is a complete bullshit, the “studies” that blackpill uses are cherry picked and overblown to create false doomer narratives. What are you guys tryna prove? That women are shallow? Yes, a lot of them are and so are a lot of men. A good case of this is all the tinder studies you guys use to prove the 80 20 rule. The study ignores the gender imbalance on the app, I can guarantee if you had that many matches you’d be more picky too, your conclusion is straight up wrong. Also even if it is true …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:24 AM
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My proof is that I’ve talked to an actual woman before and don’t have severe autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:56 PM
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Least autistic FDS user
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:37 AM
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Why is this so heavily debated? Obviously there’s a substantial overlap, if you’re a total chode and can’t hold a basic conversation there’s no way in hell you’re gonna be chad mcstudly in the clubs. Game is a subset of social skills, it’s just a set of specifically tailored skills to tack onto your pre existing social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:21 AM
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Only a seperate skill if you make it /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:10 AM
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It’s perfectly fine to find someone who hasn’t been hoeing around
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:33 PM
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You depression will negatively affect the relationship which is ops point. It’s not that you can’t be in one if you have insecurities/depression
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:45 AM
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Yeah only if you’re a desperate mofo with zero self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:16 AM
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Would you date a woman you’re not attracted to? Though so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:44 AM
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This is probably the greatest post this sub has ever seen
/r/seduction10/12/21 05:40 AM
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There are some really good entertaining posts on this sub tho, the only one I really practise is a social circle game one I saw a while back because that shit can get tricky if you do fuck up and do something dumb
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:47 AM
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I needed to hear this, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 11:19 PM
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By most people I mean those who aren’t complete creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:03 AM
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Umm yes? Most women treat most people with respect, do you have any female friends? Their problem is entirely self inflicted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:19 AM
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I’m just saying blackpill guys have a very obvious victim mindset. Women have problems too but they never consider it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:53 AM
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Yeah loneliness is common but it’s not nearly as bad as rape. Also doesn’t justify rape
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:31 AM
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Yeah somehow “blackpill” guys blame literally everything they face on women and society which is the most beta thing I’ve ever seen. Literally the other day I saw a guy on Facebook talking about how women make dating impossible in uni because none of them want to be approached and will be bitches to you at bars. Can guarantee this guy never actually cold approached in his life. I also feel they kinda downplay women’s problems, I would much rather be lonely than have to suffer something as terrib…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:31 PM
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You’re not gonna sleep with every girl you hit on. You can only realistically hit on 2 women a group unless you get the logistics perfect
/r/seduction14/09/21 12:38 AM
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Social circle game has a lot of rules and being stupid can mess things up really easily. If you hit on too many women in a social circle you will immediately gain a reputation that will turn all the other women off
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:07 AM
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To be honest I don't think going for thier physical appearance at the opener is the best approach because it scares a lot of women and sets a president. I believe you should compliment something you like about them such as their outfit or style but this depends on the woman. Alternatively you could ask about something related to the place you are, lets say you're at a train stop you could ask them like "hey you heading to the city too?" as an example. Honestly what you sat matters so much less t…
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:05 AM
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I reckon you just have a generic face
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:42 AM
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I don’t understand what you’re critiquing, I never claimed to have problems with women or rejection or the friendzone and you just assume I have a plethora of problems and give me a lecture that doesn’t say anything. While you’re not wrong about the things you say I already follow side advise hence my post. Not following this advice (askwomen) will get you friendzone which is what askeomen wants
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:21 AM
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Can you not read? I never claimed to be having trouble with women or the friendzone, I go out and cold approach women Im attracted to and get dates and go on said dares or go and talk to women in clubs if I feel like doing that. But here’s the thing I go out and put myself in a position to get rejected unlike what askwomen advises, they tell guys to be friends with the girl first instead of making their intentions clear and not approach women. This is what leads to the friendzone
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:17 AM
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This is literally what pikckup artists and this sub told me hence I do it. Hence why I go about my normal life and cold approach when I see someone attractive. If you ask askwomen the only thing you’ll hear is “be yourself”, “the right person will come if you stop looking”. This is bullshit while that can work most guys need to put effort in to see results such as actively talking to as many girls as they can and actively trying to look their best
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:13 AM
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It can and has worked before man but I don’t think it’s a good demographic. People heavily in the party crowd would likely not be looking for a relationship as much and are probably not the type you would want to commit to. I’d suggest find social hobbies and meet people that way
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:23 AM
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If you're friendly most of them in daygame will be polite to you looks or no looks, with a little game you could swing things your way even if you don't initally meet their requirement but I do agree wiht you.
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:41 PM
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sort of advice that is basically "I don't want to be approached anywhere". Back to your topic. I agree. People are bad at introspection. That's why you get bad dating advice from women. You can Thats one of the main things I hate about reddit, introvert != complete loser.
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:39 PM
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That sub is the definition of entitled I wouldn't be surprised
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:39 PM
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Depends how you look at it honestly, I go with the intention of just meeting the woman and just to have a good time with someone new, they can tell if you just want to talk to them to get sex and it probably won’t work well for you. I only number close if I get IOIs from her again common sense is everything. But by its nature seduction will always sound creepy for women because it basically talks about how to “score” them. It takes away from their own free will if they start believing there are …
/r/seduction14/08/21 11:48 AM
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We all know that sub is a complete shithole nobody in their right mind would take advice from that place. I still see a lot of guys taking advice from these other women subs which I think is a massive problem
/r/seduction14/08/21 11:44 AM
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I don’t agree with that for many reasons, first of all nobody here is telling men to go be creeps and harass women all the cold approach advice I’ve seen on this subs specifically tells men to leave if she’s not interested and this is common sense. Those guys are creeps and would do that whether we told them to or not. The ones who come here for advice are the ones doing it respectfully with obvious exceptions of course.
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:46 AM
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This sub itself has millions of posts about cold approaches but what really got me in was Models by Mark Manson. That book changed my outlook on dating as a whole. After that just make it a point to strike up conversations with random women while showing you intentions and you'll naturally learn everything you need. You can't learn social skills just by reading unfortunately.
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:33 AM
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Don't let these women get to you, like I said you're taking advice from a terrible demograhic as these women are incredibly socially awkward and that goes for a lot of poeple on reddit. I personally hate the sub twoxchromosomes as its full of bitter and angry female incel types. Don't believe me? Go to any post of theirs and you can see them calling all men creeps. Its the equivilent of women taking dating advice from incels. Any form of conversation can be considered harassment if done wrong th…
/r/seduction14/08/21 09:36 AM
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While i'm not denying the exeriences of any women there are a lot of poeple on that subreddit who admittedly say they hate talking to people even going as far to say as people who cold approach are rabid dogs (see linked post). Those women are who I would call socially underdeveloped, not because they don't want creeps stalking them.
/r/seduction14/08/21 09:32 AM
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It takes practise to be good at like anything in life. You're bound to land into awkward situations once in a while and you can't be scared of that.
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:50 AM
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The advice that reddit women give leads guys who are specifically looking for a relationship into the friendzone and leads to them wasting a lot of time instead of just making their intentions clear from the start and avoiding the whole headache
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:43 AM
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It’s great that you’re understanding and yeah as I said in my post common sense is everything with cold approach, none of us are actually telling guys to do what that creepo did, those guys just do weird shit because they’re weird. As for the best interest thing I mean that if you tell a lot of guys to cold approach that could result in them having a lot more dates but that might lead to women having to deal with more creeps as a side effect. So it might be in our best interest and not yours
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:36 AM
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While I don’t disagree these things are learned through trial and error hence cold approach. “If someone doesn’t like you deal with it” that’s literally what the friendzone is you can’t just say it doesn’t exist, if you wait too long to make your intentions clear the other person will lose interest. By the last line I’m referring to girls on subs like twoxchromosomes who constantly complain all their guy friends are trying to hit on them or that all of a sudden after they break up with their boy…
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:20 AM
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Just a matter of time honestly, got banned from r/twoxchromosomes just for making a comment about them in unpopular opinion
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:15 AM
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My advice is mainly people who want to boost their dating game. For the average guy taking action and cold approaching will grant more success than doing nothing like those subs say. Yes there’s a good chance guys are gonna mess it up a lot of times, hell I can’t tell you how many times I said something stupid in the moment and blew it but that doesn’t change the fact that it’s good advice for this demographic. It might not be in your best interest but it’s in ours
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:13 AM
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Reddit culture is cringe. I’d say this sub has decent advice just because it’s dating oriented for the sole purpose of pickup up women. Same way you’ll get better investment advice if you ask r/investing than r/askreddit. Guys here mostly just talk about common dating advice mostly from Mark Manson. There’s a reason that advice is still being passed around
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:10 AM
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I’d like to see what advice you have for guys on this sub then. 100 percent of the advice given by subs like askwomen will land guys in the friendzone and then they complain that the guys only want to be friends with them to sleep with them
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:06 AM
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Me and most of the people on this sub who tried it have found success from doing it so I don’t know who these women are to tell me otherwise
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:58 AM
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https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/25i6g9/how_do_you_feel_about_cold_approaches/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/2fsm5k/girls_how_do_you_feel_about_cold_approaches_and/ Here’s the first two threads that showed up
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:52 AM
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I have? Never once wanted to make a post on that dogshit excuse for a subreddit
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:51 AM
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Most of the time the worst you’re gonna get is them telling you they’re busy
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:49 AM
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Us humans are naturally receptive to meeting each other in person if you go with the intention of meeting people no strings attached you’ll get positive interactions 90 percent of the time
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:43 AM
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Well you are the type of person I’m talking about so funnily enough you just proved my point. The guys on askmen normally just parrot the advice from askwomen so it’s shit naturally. Have you ever considered we can just cold approach and talk to people without only wanting sex? Ever heard of outcome independence? Sounds like you don’t have the balls for cold approach so you project by calling the people who do it crazy. Never before in history has simply talking to another person been demonised …
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:39 AM
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This is a clearly a sub for people who want to learn seduction so it’s naturally gonna have decent advice unlike a random sub like askwomen. But you clearly just wanted to miss the point
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:35 AM
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Makes a lot of sense when you put it that way, if they were teaching just any guy how to score them that would probably frighten them a little
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:13 AM
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Can’t understand why so many guys don’t follow the basic advice of “Ask the fisherman not the fish”. Not to mention the fish on reddit are ones you definitely don’t want to catch
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:06 AM
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Yeah I think the advice is similar to “I hate these telemarketers tryna sell me shit though I did like that one product” Just because you don’t like it doesn’t mean the method is ineffective
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:45 AM
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Yeah I mean if we count those dudes who follow women to their cars cold approachers then that’s another story, that’s probably not that uncommon sadly
/r/seduction13/08/21 03:19 AM
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Most of these approaches are probably guys meeting them through social circles and getting stuck in the friend zone, you won’t see many people getting cold approached it’s quite rare
/r/seduction12/08/21 11:50 PM
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Guys here seem to have the impression women are drowning in guys that are hitting on them but that’s just not the case. Sure it would be true in a bar but if you go and approach women on a uni campus they’ll tell you how lonely it is for them and how they have a hard time making friends because nobody bothers to talk to them. It’s only the really really attractive girls that actually get hit on like that because so few guys actually practise the cold approach
/r/seduction12/08/21 10:59 PM
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I’m talking more in the sense of a University campus where it’s acceptable to approach but quite bold as most people wouldn’t have the confidence to do so. Also if you number close the girl it’s pretty obvious you’re talking to her to get a date which becomes a problem if she sees you again, she’s gonna alert all her friends to the fact that you do that sort of thing
/r/seduction12/08/21 09:53 PM
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You’re bound to approach two woman from a social circle once in your career. Let’s say you approach woman a and woman b 3 months apart. They happen to be friends and when they see you they talk and identify you as a pickup artist so now all their friends are cold to you
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:46 AM
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Found this post a year back and it was a godsend for social circle game, tell me what you think https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7hto5a/social_circle_game/
/r/seduction11/08/21 11:24 PM
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I think the only real label you want to avoid is the pickup artist because if they find out you practise cold approach and night pulling it will instantly make all the girls unreceptive and they’ll probably kick you out for “being a creep” or something.
/r/seduction11/08/21 11:20 PM
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The intention matters more than anything else, you gotta approach only because you think the girl is cute and for no other reason. If you got just to score digits then maybe you’ll be seen as a beggar but most of the time girls will see it as brave which is a good thing
/r/seduction11/08/21 07:22 AM
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Sounds like someone doesn’t have the balls for cold approach
/r/seduction11/08/21 07:20 AM
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Eh depends on context, can definitely work wonders in bars but I’d reckon it’d be a bit too forward in day game and has a chance to scare the girl off. Tell her she’s cute right before number closing.
/r/seduction10/08/21 07:07 AM
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In that case what’s your pretty self up to tonight
/r/seduction10/08/21 06:54 AM
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No they aren’t. Confident people don’t give women too much attention
/r/seduction10/08/21 04:39 AM
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While I do generally agree with that advice this girl clearly knows what she’s talking about, that advice would apply to the bitches on r/askwomen who only lie and complain about literally everything a man does
/r/seduction10/08/21 04:38 AM
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I didn't mean it in a literal sense, I meant there are just as many crazy guys who lash out for no good reason as there are women doing it.
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:47 PM
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First of all a lot of women are terrible at picking up flirtation signals unless you’re direct, probably because they don’t want to assume because they think that would make them narcissistic. Secondly it’s polite, I would certainly do the same to a girl interested in me, it’s not that I want their validation or anything. If they made it completely obvious I would definitely give them a rejection though. Third, psycho guys, they exist.
/r/seduction19/07/21 09:24 AM
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There are just as many psycho guys as psycho girls. A lot of em have massive egos which stop them from being able to handle a rejection. Maybe they won’t kill the girl but they might lash out and start shouting at her and maybe even assault her
/r/seduction19/07/21 09:20 AM
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I’ve heard skinny people say this time and time again but it’s never true, I also believed that before I started lifting. If you actually counted your calories even with the Big Mac you’d be under your maintenance level, you just subconsciously eat less in other meals to make up for the extra calories in the Big Mac. This has been proven time an time again and some people still don’t understand
/r/seduction13/06/21 04:20 AM
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I don’t disagree with you when you say seduction is so much more than looks but ignoring it’s impact is just sabotaging yourself. Yes some women prefer short guys but most find it more attractive if you’re tall, same with physique, some women prefer dad nods but most prefer lean muscular. If you’re morbidly obese I guarantee you’re gonna have a really tough time even if you can show your other traits. The trick is to accept your body while striving to look your best
/r/seduction12/06/21 03:07 PM
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There’s no such thing as “fast metabolism” and “skinny genetics” keeping you from gaining weight, it’s calorific surplus and calorific deficit, simple as that
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:45 PM
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I don’t get your point, muscles obviously make you more attractive and looks do obviously matter I don’t think there is anyone on this sub that disagrees with that. While an unattractive person can be successful he would need to approach a large magnitude more to get the same results
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:42 PM
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Look up choosing signals then, heavily discussed here though I prefer a good ol cold approach
/r/seduction07/06/21 07:44 AM
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While I don’t condone whining about looks for any good reason I don’t think it’s a good mindset to “settle” for someone. You should always shoot for the best. Rejection will be expected
/r/seduction05/06/21 10:42 AM
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I believe attraction as a whole is based on scarcity as is all human interactions. This is why confidence is so attractive, in caveman times the confident man was non needy and likely had everything he needed thus he must have also had the most resources as said by mark manson. Humans always like things that seems valuable and unattainable as it is our goal to achieve them. Finding Antartica, landing on the moon, you name it
/r/seduction05/06/21 10:39 AM
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Honestly I was searching far and wide and this is all I could find
/r/seduction24/04/21 04:48 PM
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Sorry I didn’t know how to
/r/seduction24/04/21 04:47 PM
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It’s crazy how thorough it is, it should be on the sidebar of this sub IMO.
/r/seduction24/04/21 08:39 AM
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I agree but expertise would come with experience, I wouldn’t expect someone to be a master at it on their first few tries
/r/seduction30/01/21 11:15 AM
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Women frown upon it and tell guys not to do it because it can be irritating to them if they’re not interested. But don’t let that stop you they’re thinking in their best interest not yours
/r/seduction24/01/21 11:31 PM
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He made a good point tho, maybe they’re not incels but you hear a lot of guys worth no game saying girls don’t want to be hit on at the gym because they’re there to work or at the coffee shop because they just want coffee. Context overrides all don’t listen to people telling you that shit
/r/seduction24/01/21 11:27 PM
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