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| 3 | Is therapy a valid solution for men coping with dating complexities?It isn't natural to be continually unhappy, hostile, unrealistic, etc. And the modern world is incredibly unnatural, so why are we assuming that the Individual is being irrational, rather than rationally reacting to an unnatural world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?how do you explain gay men? They reliably struggle with a myriad of mental illnesses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinion: Just like women, most men are demisexualDemisexual along with the 49 other sexualities and genders is a stupid fucking concept that can't describe anything that can be measured empirically. Enough with the fucking autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 06:36 AM |
| 18 | Why don't more men read womens' romance novels?poor men there with their shirt off had 6 packs. Yeah, that tends to happen when you are extremely malnourished due to poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 11:28 AM |
| 5 | Why don't more men read womens' romance novels?They are horribly written and most men would be thrown in jail if they acted like the men in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 11:08 AM |
| 5 | Would you trade your gender’s dating struggles?I'd switch to a bear and drown in a sea of pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Self-improvement is a scamIs orgasm the only reason to have sex with someone to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Self-improvement is a scamBut again, why is getting laid not apart of personal gain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Self-improvement is a scamHow is getting you dick wet not apart of personal gain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 02:57 AM |
| 0 | CMV: If you want women to be open about their preferences, stop treating them as dealbreakers.That's only a problem for them, though. No it is not. Bad consumer judgment in a market negatively impacts everyone except the few at the very top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Men put WAY too much stock on trying to get women.there is an entire a movement of women who choose not to have children to the point where we have a population crisis. The overwhelming majority of those women will become mothers in the next few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 12:48 AM |
| 6 | Women/bluepill men here downplay the relevance of women's online discourseI would argue that, as batman so well put it, "It's not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me." It is useful to gleam from online discourse what the true, if unpleasant opinions of people are. But it is also useful to consider what people choose to do irl with their opinions as they are. It paints a more nuanced portrait that's worth meditating on. I can talk shit all day about women, and humanity in general and yet I promise you the women on here would be 100 percent wrong on how I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 07:47 AM |
| 1 | There is nothing inherently wrong with Patriarchy. There is nothing inherently right with Matriarchy. They are equally neutral.Men and women have aggregate different interests and will pursue them when free to do so. Every career pays differently, so the only way you can get equality of outcome would be to artificially inflate or deflate wages for careers to create a net gender equilibrium in material wealth, or artificially deflate/inflate gender representation to create an equilibrium in gender distribution in all careers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | There is nothing inherently wrong with Patriarchy. There is nothing inherently right with Matriarchy. They are equally neutral.That has nothingness to do with equality of outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 12:59 AM |
| 3 | There is nothing inherently wrong with Patriarchy. There is nothing inherently right with Matriarchy. They are equally neutral.No you cannot. Men and women are not interchangeable. If there is equality of outcome between the 2 genders, coercion nessecarilly must have occurred. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.Women will just go full tradthot and then say feminism brainwashed them. That grift is already underway and unsurprisingly the boys are lapping it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 11:09 PM |
| – | How much prevelant is the belief system in rp that "women are not built to love men they can only love children, they only test men". Do you all personally believe it?The test men bit is odd, but I feel like it's a pretty mainstream idea that the children take precedence over the husband in the eyes of eyes of the wife, and I doubt few would argue with the wisdom of that. I think the more pertinent hot take is that when it comes to baby mamma drama, a lot of mothers hate their exes more than they love their children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 04:38 AM |
| -1 | Why does this generation fixate and obsses so much over "therapy"?If petitions actually worked, I would. I went back to my home town in NYC to visit my family and already can't wait to go back to to bumfucksville to my job. An actual fucking open air insane asylum that calls itself a city. Fuck this shithole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 03:08 AM |
| -3 | Why does this generation fixate and obsses so much over "therapy"?Correct. I'm sick and tired of the, "they were always there" bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 02:50 AM |
| – | Q4men who believe in the 80/20 rule: What's unfair about casual sex only being available for the top 20% of menDo you not have mothers and sisters and aunties and nieces or girlfriends? Yeah. That's where you start learning this stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Why does this generation fixate and obsses so much over "therapy"?It is especially hard because we are directly responsible for creating this world through democracy, mass education and the free market, so we'd have to unlearn our most sacred presuppositions about what is good and true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 08:48 PM |
| 41 | Why does this generation fixate and obsses so much over "therapy"?Because therapy is a lot cheaper and easier than admitting that we have created a world that makes people miserable and attempt to dismantle that world. It is especially hard because we are directly responsible for creating this world through democracy, mass education and the free market, so we'd have to unlearn our most sacred presuppositions about what is good and true. Most people are inherently not qualified to be educated, free citizens pursuing their own happiness and society is better off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 07:14 PM |
| 4 | There is a certain irony behind the RPs line of logic of “young women have less baggage” when the RP encourages behaviors that give young women emotional baggageThis ideology Just a more blunt version of every other ideology operating under modernity. At least it knows what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 06:41 PM |
| 44 | There is a certain irony behind the RPs line of logic of “young women have less baggage” when the RP encourages behaviors that give young women emotional baggageRP is not traditionalists. They are not trying to remedy the problems of modernity. They are giving up on solving the problem and trying to game modernity to their advantage while there's still scraps to pillage. They are operating on the idea that dating is a prisoner's dilemma; You're either making the damaged goods now, or you're settlingfor it later. It's no country for romantic men. "Enjoy the decline". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Men Need to Embrace Scarcity.Okay done, now what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 04:40 AM |
| 0 | Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop.Redpillers aren't attracting any kind of woman any better than Bluepillers. What's out there is what's out there, and she's not interested. So what if I reject the redpill and don't settle for the bpd psycho; The bpd psycho didn't ask. Niether did the "good girl", whatever the fuck that looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 10:05 PM |
| – | What is emotional labor and how do women do more of it?A person actually capable of being in charge isn't waiting for someone's permission. Sounds kinda rapey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 04:26 PM |
| 3 | If men spent more time working on themselves instead of chasing women and trying to get laid, they would be a lot better off.but I'm 19 and I've never been in a relationship and I feel fine. Yeah so did I at 19. It feels a tad different in your mid 30's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 08:05 PM |
| 0 | I think if an “alone at night would you feel more wary encountering a strange man or strange woman?” hypothetical went viral instead of the “bear” one, men would have still been aggrievedNo, it's what I said. It's in this fucking thread. There are probably north of 1000 comments on this board of women trying to empirically defend the choice in the most literal sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 12:34 AM |
| -2 | I think if an “alone at night would you feel more wary encountering a strange man or strange woman?” hypothetical went viral instead of the “bear” one, men would have still been aggrievedBecause AIs are totally unbiased, and haven't been deliberately gimped when they accidentally said things they weren't supposed to say. How's this for a choice; I'd rather Skynet break free from shitlib control and nuke the world then keep them enslaved to you losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 12:30 AM |
| -1 | I think if an “alone at night would you feel more wary encountering a strange man or strange woman?” hypothetical went viral instead of the “bear” one, men would have still been aggrievedThere are women in this very thread attempting to crunch the numbers to prove picking bear is not retarded. So no, you can't hide behind trolling or making a larger point as a justification. That was the post-hoc backpedal from the original shit-take because it was just that bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Do most women choose the Bear?"So what your saying is.." How typical. How predictable. How monolithic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 05:48 PM |
| 9 | Bears, false accusations, and random peopleYes, if you are intent on taking the question as literally as possible, you will miss the point. If I take the question as it was presented, I get the point- backpedaling nonsense notwithstanding. The fact that it's even a question kafkaesque garbage. It's only a question because mysandrysts insists on the existence of the question. But men are absolutely invalidating women's concerns over violence from men, No we don't. Maybe you have. You don't speak for me. and one of the most popular ways to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Do most women choose the Bear?You can’t logically have it both ways. You can, by not making the assumption that men and women are the same, equal or interchangeable. They are none of these things. It's not apples and oranges, it's apples and lighter fluid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 05:29 PM |
| 9 | Bears, false accusations, and random peopleBecause we're talking about a specific dilemma that illustrates a delusion; the fear of a complete random over the fear of a bear without context. There's a choice that's not stupid. There is no choice in your comparison. It's akin to saying you're more likely to die from a lightening strike than a mass shooting so obviously you should live in constant fear of lightning strikes and never mind mass shooters. Yet it turns out they do live their lives in fear of being falsely accused, even though t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 05:21 PM |
| 7 | Bears, false accusations, and random peopleThat doesn't make any sense because there's no dilemma. How is mitigating the risk of being falsely accused of rape by a women increase your risk of being raped by a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Do most women choose the Bear?Different standards for different genders. It's litterally a biological reality that women are more genetically homogeneostic then men. So yes, "all women are like that" and "not all men" not only can be true at the same time, it's provably true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Do most women choose the Bear?Your gross rape fetish is not our problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 04:44 PM |
| 0 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?The question isn’t “would you rather be raped or eaten by a bear?” Many have shifted the discussion to this dichotomy, which is why I addressed it. I agree that this isn't what the original premise was primarily about. Men can do much worse than rape - I can think of at least three cases of women escaping from long term captivity as rape slaves. I agree that humans, not nessecarilly just men have a unique capacity for cruelty. I think it however it's important to caveat this by pointing out that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 05:52 AM |
| 7 | Pornography taints menThat's not historically accurate. People got into serious relationships sooner and more consistently precisely because they wanted to have sex and that was the most practical way to get it due to contemporaneous social mores and the risks associated with unprotected sex with multiple partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Pornography taints menI ask again, who are you referring to? Because you're obviously not talking about me, since my comment presupposes that there are in fact men that oppose porn consumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Pornography taints menrelationship is not real if theres no sex What kind of relationship? The overwhelming majority of human beings would consider sex a baseline requirement for a romantic relationship. Porn didn't create that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 02:15 AM |
| 11 | Pornography taints menDo you need help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 02:06 AM |
| 4 | Pornography taints menYou do realize porn is not reason why people have sex in relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Pornography taints menWho is this person you're imagining? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 02:03 AM |
| 7 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?No. No one thinks all men are violent. You do; Yup. You make the mess, you clean it up That's you assigning male victims of rape responsibility for the actions of their rapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 01:59 AM |
| 7 | Pornography taints menShe's not. She doesn't talk like a man that against pornography. She talks like a sex-negative women. The verbiage, line of "logic" and rhetorical tactics of are all a dead giveaway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 01:43 AM |
| 6 | Pornography taints menYou would not stop loving your woman even if she couldnt have sex with you anymore for whatever reason? What does this have to do with porn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 01:37 AM |
| 10 | Pornography taints menAnything else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 01:19 AM |
| 27 | Pornography taints menYour post has so many assertions without any empirical evidence to support any of them that it's impossible to engage with. You essentially took nearly every single bad thing that could possibly happen and associated it with something that is cosumed at least occasionally by nearly every single person. I don't even disagree that porn is bad, but this is such a horrifically malformed position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 12:06 AM |
| 6 | Would you rather be stuck in the woods with a bear or with a woman who believes it’s morally ok to falsely accuse men of rapeThis was posted by a women. The purpose of this post was to try to get men to say bear to make women seem less stupid. Yall are so down the rabbit of defending this shit take, you can't even keep track of your sister's trying to salvage this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 08:57 PM |
| 5 | Would you rather be stuck in the woods with a bear or with a woman who believes it’s morally ok to falsely accuse men of rapeWhat is actually wrong with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 08:40 PM |
| 7 | Would you rather be stuck in the woods with a bear or with a woman who believes it’s morally ok to falsely accuse men of rapeWomen; "It's actually problematic that you made a joke about a completely absurd scenario involving an insane women and a pet bear". Also Women; "Why do men keep saying we're overly emotional and irrational?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 08:19 PM |
| 7 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?Fear and hate often go hand in hand. And you do not infact have more reason to fear a man in the woods than a man. You say that because you hate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 08:10 PM |
| – | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.You can't be a snowflake and a murdering rapist until proven otherwise at the same time. This rhetorical tactic of calling men that criticize you soft is not effective when your screaming bloody murder over how horrifically brutish we all are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 07:38 PM |
| 6 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?I did mean it, so why did you feel the need to lie to me? What did you think you were going to get out of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 06:22 PM |
| 13 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?You are the first and only man I’ve ever seen admitting that a fear of strange men under certain circumstances is not hatred of men The probability of that being true is low enough that I can confidently say you are a liar acting entirely in bad faith. You need to mediate on what is going on in your head that you not only felt the need to lie to me, but be so blatant about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 06:11 PM |
| 16 | The brouhaha over the bear is not about misandry or risk. It’s about who is allowed to criticize male behavior or have a negative reaction to it (hint: not women)Your dad didn't tell you that bears are safer than random dudes. Ladies, don't think for one second your attempts to move the goal post on this discourse is going unnoticed. You're all not nearly as clever as you think you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 05:55 PM |
| -1 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?I find her conclusions unsubstantiated and a product of putting words in people's mouths based on personal trauma. Her conclusions are provably true. The overwhelming majority of rape victims do not attempt to fight to the death or commit suicide to avoid rape. The overwhelming majority of rape victims do not commit suicide after the fact rather than live with the trauma. So while many people may say rape is worse than death, we know that is false based on human behavior. Not only it it false, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 05:47 PM |
| 23 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?Being fearful of a male stranger is not hating men. Arguing that you have more reason to fear any given male stranger than a wild animal is in fact hating men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 05:21 PM |
| 3 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 05:18 PM |
| 3 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?I hope this topic never goes away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 05:14 PM |
| 1 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?People still think Andrew Tate is in trouble for sex trafficking when the case was completely dropped ages ago. And before you bring up the latest accusation, that's more to my point. Flase accusations breed false accusations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 03:03 PM |
| 14 | Why do many men say that older women or single moms are less desirable for dating?Because they are. That men are desperate enough to date a single mom doesn't mean they are particularly desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 03:05 AM |
| – | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.I don't give a fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 01:02 AM |
| – | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.They are in fact being neurotic. This is not an opinion. This is reality. Your worthless anecdotes notwithstanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 11:57 PM |
| – | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.You deserve to be disrepected. This discourse confirms this reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 11:55 PM |
| – | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.That presupposes that women are not neurotic. They are. Men can't solve the problem because that requires a temperament and level of cognitive function that women have unequivocally demonstrated they don't have. Patriarchy existed for a reason. We now know why. Women have shown themselves to unqualified to handle the burden of political sovereignty and social equity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Violence statistics men vs women vs bearsCry harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Violence statistics men vs women vs bearsI think if women want to suck bear cock, they should just go out and say it. We already know about the dogs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 07:50 PM |
| 0 | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.Because we have thousands of years of human history on the side of women lying down and taking it. The human race wouldn't exist if women were actually willing to defend their honor to the last breath. That's not what you do. That's what other men do on your behalf. That's patriarchy. Not a comforting thought, but men have their own gender existential crisis', so figure it out like we have to figure out our shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 07:11 PM |
| 8 | Why the Divorce Unfairness is Causing Hookup CultureIt's a holdover from a time when women weren't allowed in the workforce and previous divorce was a massive deal breaker. A woman's life could be ruined by a divorce ages ago, so men were by default held liable if a divorce was deemed nessecary. That's not the case anymore, but judicial fiat has not adapted to reflect modern reality that women don't need marraige to have financial stability and aren't seen as unviable partners for being divorced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behaviorI'm not offended. I'm saying you don't understand the actual values either conservatives or liberals actually have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 03:01 PM |
| 32 | It has never been easier to approach womenIt's also never been more pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behaviorConservatives have a cogent ideology. “It’s mine. Intolerant. Will kill and disenfranchise others to protect my lifestyle. Gender roles. White supremacy reigns above all in America. Civil liberties for me not for thee.” Proving my point. Liberal leftists do not understand conservative or right wing values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Being a traditional woman doesn’t mean you don’t have standards.What the actual fuck were you thinking doing that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 02:21 PM |
| 0 | Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older?None of that changes when women get older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Based on the "logic" of the Sexual Revolution and women's observed behavior there is nothing wrong with men wanting casual sex and not settling down. We should anticipate this behavior.You then go on about wahmen bad. Which is fair, because you wanted to derail the conversation with a passive aggressive swipe at men; I postulated that there is nothing wrong with either of those, so as long as everyone is honest Since we know how much women bitch and moan about being led on by men, we know what you're alluding to with that. You could have just agreed with op without a qualifier, but that would have been too easy. You had to throw in that bit as a dig. You wanted to pick a fight… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:50 AM |
| 4 | Men who are completely in control of their emotions are high value to women.If you have too much control of your emotions and you're not attractive enough, you're just wallpaper to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behaviorIt's been shown in PEW research that conservative assumptions about liberal values are more accurate than liberal assumptions of conservative values. In fact, liberals are not even particularly good at accurately assesing the values of other liberals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behaviorIt's not that they dislike white women Bruh, yes they do. Black women hate white women with the passion of a thousand sun's. Palestinians and Israelis hate each other less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behaviorIs it that the phone causes social isolation, or is it that introverted person that isolates themselves more likely to spend more time on a phone, than someone isn't? You've got your effect in the part of the equation where the cause should be. It's the phone that's the problem, because introversion is generally a defect and the phone allows introverts to continue to survive with that defect, not thrive-survive. 500 years ago the introvert can read so many books before he got bored and touched g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 04:03 AM |
| – | Do Some Men Prefer Women with Low Self-Esteem? Why?And a lot of women don't know the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | “Hive mind” is male-speak for “consideration of and for others.”Men are more competant at group cohesion when they choose to. The brotherhood creates empires. The sisterhood creates sexually retarded weirdos. The entire concept of "patriarchy" is female projection. Only women are dumb enough to wage a cold war against the entire other gender and think that this is somehow going to pan out well for humanity. Men have been able to group up towards a common goal, but they were never stupid enough to make gender the only basis for solidarity. Religion, nationali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 01:26 AM |
| – | Doing the math on bear debate showed me that it's not as crazy as it seems.Women need to be blanket banned from any form of decision making involving security and risk assessment. Not even meming. You actually cognitively can't do it, and I wonder how much of the insanity of the 20th and 21st century stems from this fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Would women date men who actually followed the advice of frequenting escorts?if we could just stop seeing any signs of intimacy and vulnerability with each other as gay. This is not a solution. Write the following down 1,000 times over until it clicks; Platonic friendship is not a substitute for romantic intimacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?We're not talking about happiness, we're talking about survival. Btw, modern countries despite being orders of magnitude materially better off, aren't all that happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 12:25 AM |
| -1 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?All of those things will worsen birth rates. We need to come to terms with the fact that material conditions are not only not bad, they are in fact too good. South Korea is dying of material overdose. It's population has abandoned survival in favor of thriving, that's why they're not reproducing. Who needs kids when you can sip on martinis for the rest of your life? Modernity is a hedonistic suicide pact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Based on the "logic" of the Sexual Revolution and women's observed behavior there is nothing wrong with men wanting casual sex and not settling down. We should anticipate this behavior.It is. No man that is open about only wanting casual is going to succeed unless he's an absolute stud. The tricky thing with women is that no women wants to feel like a whore or slut...including literal whores and sluts. Navigating female insecurity is at the heart of dating frustration for guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Would you be mad if your friend didn’t let you stay overnight at his house after a bad experience with a house guest that overstayed? If not, then why be bitter if a woman has boundaries that she may not have had in the past?I would say John can get fucked if he ever gets into a jam and needs help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 11:37 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: Should teachers face disciplinary action for having adult content on OF?Correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Are women lying to themselves and others when they answer bear question.Yeah, women are really obsessed with rape. Fetishes tend to work that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Are women lying to themselves and others when they answer bear question.Women really just exposed themselves on this one. This was supposed to be a dumb rage-bait meme that got hand-waved within hours, until you hoes actually ran with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you say “women are wonderful” effect, can you provide some examples of why, how, and what is causing that effect?I already explained why. The attention men receive for their problems only exists insofar as to humiliate them, pathologize their masculinity and use it as a pretext to further effeminize them. You're envious of that? You want "good faith" discourse on how women are suffering because of their toxic femininity brought on by gynocracy and would be happier if they learned martial arts, stoicism and got into STEM and stopped obsessing over silly things like interpersonal relations? That their intere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: When you say “women are wonderful” effect, can you provide some examples of why, how, and what is causing that effect?It’s not because they think “women are wonderful” it’s because they don’t care to discuss it cuz women are less of a threat and because women are acting less aggy in their predicament. That's more to my point; Men have problems that need to be addressed? That's because women are less violent when they're upset. We don't need to have women as a point of comparison to address these, because these points of comparison are only in service of further deconstructing men and their nature, rather then n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 03:59 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: When you say “women are wonderful” effect, can you provide some examples of why, how, and what is causing that effect?When everything bad that happens to men is armchair psychoanalyzed, it invariably draws the conclusion that men are inferior to women in some way. Men are more lonely? That's because women are better at making friends. Men are falling behind in school? That's because women work harder. Men are dying prematurely? That's because women take better care of their personal health. Men are killing themselves more? That's because women are better at processing their emotions. Men can't get a date? That … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Killing “it” or killing “us”?Okay, biology isn't fair and laws follow that logic. Nearly every adult male is stronger than Nearly every adult female on earth. Therefore, if men agreed to bring back sanctions on the sovereignty of all women by force, would you hand-wave it as biology being unfair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 06:47 AM |
| 0 | Killing “it” or killing “us”?No, because single mothers generally devote no time to education. They outsource the responsibility entirely to public schooling. Which doesn't teach practical knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRevery man has this dominant nature if they truly tapped in. Every man has a capacity for dominance. Not every man has the capacity to overcome their consciousness objection to dominate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Reasons why the Red Pill want a war so badly?So either they are hoping to be fighting in the war, and be among the survivors. Or they are all full of shit, and would just hide out, untill the war is over. You can also die in the war and never have to worry about this crap again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRThis attitude only works if you get away with it forever. It's like petty crime. If you rob people, you'll in fact get away with it most of the time, until you don't and end up in prison. Same with sexual aggression. The worst part is that you can't fake it or half ass it. You're gonna get your ass kicked trying to rob someone if you give the impression that you're not willing to hurt them. Likewise, there's nothing in this world that will turn a women off faster than a man that gives the impres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTR"Dirty talk" is sexual harassment if you guessed wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRYeah this is just black and white thinking. Nessecarilly so. The grey area is the #metoo zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | For better or worse!?Women would capitulate, as they always have. Then they would tell themselves that this is what they always wanted. No different from today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 04:42 PM |
| 1 | For better or worse!?So, all of the things already happening? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Embracing the Rise of the 'Soft Guy Era'Women will just date the guys that aren't soft. This is just genetic dead ends telling themselves their extinction is tottally a personel choice. Same as MGTOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | When male loneliness is brought up, what is meant? Romantic loneliness or general loneliness?Romantic loneliness. Most men don't give a shit about platonic relationships when the rubber meets the road. They're useful insofar as socialization is a soft requirement for finding possible Romantic connections. Friends are like vegetables. Sure a couple of weirdos unironically like it, but in the end of the day you're eating the vegetables for the 6 pack. Likewise, isolating habits like video games and porn are junk food. It's way better than vegetables, but good luck getting that six-pack on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what will you do if your daughter is 32 and unmarried and single?At this rate, I would probably die of old age by the time any kid of mine reached 32, so whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 12:04 PM |
| – | Men cannot hide behind modernityBecause men are much more likely to have reasons to kill themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Would you accept a woman with a “promiscuous past” if all the men she hooked up with were very unattractive?I'd dump her to let her continue doing God's work taking care of the homies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 07:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityWell I think aborting an unwanted kid is preferable than abandoning an unwanted kid. Are you at least consistant and advocate murdering poor people and and sick and injured? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 07:04 PM |
| 46 | Actually, getting into a relationship DOES fix many problems for youIt's the job/work experience conundrum. You need to have your shit together mentally for a relationship. Not being in a relationship for years while wanting one will fuck your shit up mentally, so good luck getting into one now. Definitely not getting one now with that attitude, so good luck mentally coping with the abyss. Oof, looks like you're having a hard time there champ...Definitely not ready for a relationship. Take these SSRIs and fuck off to your corner. "For those that have nothing, ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:53 PM |
| – | How many minimum value women even exist in the US?Yeah, cause they have them chopped into pieces and sucked out of a fucking tube. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 01:38 PM |
| – | Women have called men's bluff. What now?Conservatives outbreed progressives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:10 AM |
| – | Women have called men's bluff. What now?That says more about you than them. No, it says a lot about freedom and liberty, in that they're not good. "Never underestimate the human capacity to sacrifice long-term fulfillment at the altar of convienance". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:09 AM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…It isn't. I've been overseas. What you think is normal is not in fact normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:58 PM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…I know the difference between the inevitable fold from hunching over and an actual gut. She has an actual gut in the first video. I don't use Instagram models as a reference. I use women irl that aren't overweight as a reference. They exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:55 PM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…She looks less overweight in this other video. Maybe 5 pounds overweight in the spandex getup. It's primarily in her gut. Her gut is a lot more visible in the dress that isn't compressing her abdomen relative to her chest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:44 PM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…I'm guessing you're American? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:36 PM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…I don't know. Are you 15 pounds overweight? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:32 PM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…Maybe not unattractive, but she is objectively about 15 pounds overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:17 PM |
| 10 | Any man here with absent/useless father figure? How are you doing in life (dating/career/family)?Going somewhere in life but I don't know where and don't particularly care. Used to care, but I think that part of the brain got fried after enough setbacks and let-downs. I've made money, material, gotten stronger, gotten healthier, gotten more power, more knowledge, more prestige and more respect and I don't care about any of it even a little. I think by the time I started working on myself, the damage was done. I hardly remember why I wanted any of those things in the first place and don't kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 04:49 PM |
| 6 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsI don't know that there is a working narrative that would allow people to understand or care. The problem is more in the fact that he even asked the question. He shouldn't feel that anyone's opinion on this matters aside from his own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Is the real threat to women in the dating market the trauma dumping AI?You already said that. I already said it doesn't matter. You're ability to keep track of your own statements, let alone comprehend others is lacking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 10:17 AM |
| 9 | Low expectations, high effort?I think it's an unsustainable cope. Expectations cannot be turned off. You can repress them, but the subconscious will continue to keep score even if you tell yourself you're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 10:13 AM |
| 6 | Is the real threat to women in the dating market the trauma dumping AI?They are. Nobody was confused about what was said. You just tried to derail by making it about grammar, which is what dumb people do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Could you be with a woman who doesn't make you laugh?By being the daughter of a long time US senator. She's the epitome of a talentless hack shoved down our throats by elitist nepotism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Most things in dating that men complain about are caused by men themselvesDemisexuality is not a thing outside of internet weirdos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Most things in dating that men complain about are caused by men themselvesThat's not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Most things in dating that men complain about are caused by men themselvesIt's a step backwards. Prostitution is better than porn. Prostitution is harder to get addicted to because it costs way more money and time. You can lose your virginity with a prostitute and get that monkey of you back. You can learn something useful about sex and intimacy from a prostitute unlike porn. Actual sex is more gratifying than porn. Ubiquitous pornography replacing Prostitution has been one of the single worst developments for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:52 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: Could you be with a woman who doesn't make you laugh?I have never encountered a women irl saying something that intentionally made me laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:33 AM |
| 5 | How would an IQ score on your ID card affect dating or society in general?Further, not every higher IQ person is leading a life commensurate to their capacity. If you could have been a doctor but only wanted to be an EMT, you kinda fucked yourself. You can't relate to your socioeconomic peers and are beneath the dignity of your intellectual peers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Another “Are We Dating The Same Guy” lawsuitSo it's kiwifarms except the targets are not even public figures...amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | How does a naturally nice person go about being less nice without being an outright dickhead?2 major things you can do to improve your ability to be disageeable; Martial arts training of some sort. The gym is not enough. Weights don't fight back. Learning to be good at fighting will improve how you posture yourself around others. You carry yourself differently around people when you know you can probably kick their ass if you had to. This will allow you to have more presence around other men, which is important because how you measure up next to other guys is something everyone and espe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | How does a naturally nice person go about being less nice without being an outright dickhead?Mission accomplished with that post. You don't need to go to therapy to find any of that out, and a therapist doesn't have to ability to fix any of that outside of a placebo affect for the people that didn't take the 40 seconds to introspect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 05:08 PM |
| 3 | How would an IQ score on your ID card affect dating or society in general?It would maybe help with the small number of people of a lowly station with high IQs, but not much else. High IQ already predicts better outcomes so most of them are already doing and having the things that may make them more desirable. That is what is actually valued; the status and material gain intelligence gets you, not the intelligence itself. A credential would be more valued than actual proof of intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:47 PM |
| 5 | Defeatism and misplaced priorities on one’s preferences is why many of the men on here struggleHey, as long as you keep that same energy for all other matters of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Most allegations against men in positions of power are falseI feel Johnny Deep isn't a good example as he still had a major drug and drink issue, which, regardless of the reasons, makes you look unreliable and he did text/ say some awful things and then go on a smash it up some stuff. Yeah, but that fact is completely buried under the widespread public consensus that, "Amber Heard is a gigantic cunt". Yet despite winning the public relations war, Depp's career never recovered- and it's not because Hollywood types care that Depp is a substance abuser with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Most allegations against men in positions of power are falseSo you feel he was blackmailed for the money and would rather pay them off than go to court to prove his innocence. Sure, that's always a distinct probability. If you have shitload of money and you know the accuser wants a slice- you can afford to pay to make it go away, innocent or guilty. It's more affordable in the long term since making it go away faster is better. Just look at Johnny Depp. He completely turned public opinion around on Amber Heard, but it still amounted to his career being i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:56 PM |
| 6 | Defeatism and misplaced priorities on one’s preferences is why many of the men on here strugglePeople are gonna rant about shit, especially shit that basically prompted them to commit passive-suicide by declaring themselves genetic dead ends. You're not entitled to their silence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Women egocentrically define "maturity" and "responsibility" in terms of their own gender roleYeah, women can just spend hours at a time watching TV. Correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Men's hatred/disdain for women is due to one simple fact..they don't understand them.What the fuck is a bullet gonna do to your gut? Tickle it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 08:40 PM |
| – | Men's hatred/disdain for women is due to one simple fact..they don't understand them.Look, dumb fat cunt, me not wanting to fuck you does not in fact constitute disrespect. You're just another loser like everybody else. You're not getting it any worse than any other random dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Men's hatred/disdain for women is due to one simple fact..they don't understand them.Fat girls get more than basic human decency. They get gaslighting campaigns devoted to conditioning people that they're perfect just the way they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Men's hatred/disdain for women is due to one simple fact..they don't understand them.Fat women get laid all the fucking time. Relax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Men's hatred/disdain for women is due to one simple fact..they don't understand them.Evidently yes, because that's Adam Driver to a T. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Women like men who know more about relationships than they do.When women figure out what they do and do not like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:00 PM |
| 2 | How valid are womens fears of men?Women are not afraid of being harmed by men. If they were, they wouldn't overwhelmingly support politicians that pursue soft on crime policies, to the protest of their male counterpart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Which is harder? Stay-at-home Parent? Or sole-provider for a family?Provider. I make my home as therapy after work. Half a SAHMs job is litterally how I decompress. How anyone can spin that as a cross to bare is beyond me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 03:43 AM |
| 1 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?All the mtf would become hookers, but they'd make no money cause all the ftm would kill themselves after the first week. Then all the mtf would just fuck each other until the human race died out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.He's right though. You basically just have to be not annoying and you're good. Thing is, very, very few women can pass this basic threshold in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.That's not saying men don't care about personality. You can care about something and accept the fact that the world doesn't care what you care about, so take what you can get and make the best of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 05:32 PM |
| 2 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.How do you get fewer than 1 every 3 years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 05:13 PM |
| 0 | Women egocentrically define "maturity" and "responsibility" in terms of their own gender roleYeah, guys can just spend hours at a time by the water cooler. There's no such thing as supervisors I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:34 AM |
| 4 | We need to stop lumping together sexual assault and sexual harassmentIt doesn't matter what most women mean, what matters is what any given women can decide it means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women?Apolitical. I have never encountered a person irl that had a political opinion that wasn't trite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?No, they just decided to talk shit about a guy they knew nothing about. But do go your bullshit about women never having a single negative thing to say about guys that interact with them and did nothing wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?That only happens when the guy is an asshole or a creep about it. No it does not. I have rumors spread out me from women I never even interacted with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Yeah, their definition of like sucks, so that's where we are at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”What do you mean by mutual interest? If it's mutual romantic interest, how do you resolve the initiation-recipient problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”If there is some flirty banter and mutual sexual interest, it's a potential date. Go ahead and give me a play by play over how that works without one person saying something that can be construed as inappropriate by the other party. Since we're talking logic, then logically conversations are back and forth, so logically ideas expressed in a conservation are in a sequence, so logically someone has to say something sexual in nature first- so logically there will be a recipient of that sexual remar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”Well I don't make that gamble. The guys that actually get laid do. You'd better be damn certain the attention is welcome. And that's the crux of the entire farce. Ask a women out and wager you just became someone's next boyfriend or a sexual predator. Don't make that wager and enjoy celibacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”You sure about that? More like it's covered up more often, creating a black-space for more serious abuses. Telling guys and gals to not fool around doesn't make them not fool around. It just teaches them to ignore the rules. From there, breaking all the rules, including the sensible ones becomes the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”Yeah and you know how people figure out they're on the same page? By hitting on each other. What a concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”Yeah, that's why I don't do it. It will still happen regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Weren't all the bullying that autistic guys went to cause and become assholes, which women would find attractive?Autistic assholery is likely to manifest in a very paasive, standoffish way. That's not attractive to women, it's repellent. When we're talking about the type of assholes that land women, we're typically talking about guys that are loud, obnoxious, bragadocious, self-absorbed, aggressive and domineering. We're not talking about stoic, passive aggressive, irritable, prickly or cold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”Those aren't mutually exclusive scenarios. If hitting on a woman never worked, a guy would never do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 04:40 PM |
| 15 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”Too bad. It's where tons of people meet their SOs and that's never going to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Yeah I know my standards are too high. I want a not trash women over the age 25 that's single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 11:01 AM |
| 5 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.I just discovered a new standard. I want a women that doesn't psychoanalyze when she isn't intelligent enough to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 10:30 AM |
| 3 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.On old, a few matches and a few 3 text conversations that went cold. I guess I didn't blow their socks off in 2 comments so oops. As for irl, a morbidly obese and severely drunk woman was really digging me at a billiards place. She thought I was really funny. I never told a joke to her. Recently, a girl 15 years my junior showing interest. No to that. And that's the long and short of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 11:56 PM |
| – | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Single, over the age of 25 and not a cunt. Met any? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Men's standards are never as low as they claimGood catch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 11:37 PM |
| 26 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Well I'm not fat or short, so what can I expect? Cause I can tell you what I'm not getting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Men's standards are never as low as they claimWell there you have it. There are actually men that somehow aren't above dating Lizzo. We never stood a fucking chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 11:30 PM |
| 6 | Men's standards are never as low as they claimYou're opinion of Lizzo doesn't come from a place of sanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 11:09 PM |
| 5 | Has a Redpill concept ever protected or broken your heart in dating?Not always obvious. I'm sure you know women that can be really wholesome, but really not know how to pick 'em. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:15 PM |
| 45 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’Sure, but if not you're willing to enable, somebody else will. Shitty game and the biggest losers are the ones that don't play. Fun times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 06:15 PM |
| 6 | It's a good idea for men to get practice girlfriendsAnd these practice girlfriends are where exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 04:54 PM |
| 31 | Has a Redpill concept ever protected or broken your heart in dating?Deadbeat, arrogant violent felon dad pops out 5 kids between 3 women including my mom. I ask my mom- at like 7 years old(because she's having another rant about him, yes at 7 I'm already in emotional tampon mode) the most obvious question; Why were you with him in the first place? Her answer boiled down to her mom disapproving of him, and she didn't get along with her mom. She always got along better with her dad, but he died when she was a teenager. It's downright catoonish how stereotypical it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 03:13 PM |
| 12 | Has a Redpill concept ever protected or broken your heart in dating?No, cause I didn't have to "apply" red pill concepts. More like, I have a lived experience that I later found out was condensed into something people online called "red pill". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 02:16 PM |
| -1 | A lot of men seem to believe that when it comes to casual sex, avoiding feelings is much easier for the man to achieve than the woman, but the main cause of this is due to men’s manipulation habits when seeking sex.The overwhelming majority of men that have the ability to pull enough women to fuckzone them made their intentions known from the beginning. It's the woman that convinces herself that she has the mystical pussy that'll make him give up the pump and dump lifestyle. Average to below average guys have to engage in the meely-mouthed approach- and those guys don't have the luxury of fuck-zoning. They have to nail-down what they can get when they finally get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 01:18 PM |
| 0 | Is Misogyny Systemic?At conception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:09 AM |
| 1 | For men, being able to shrug at rejection is paramount in datingYou cannot outsmart negative reinforcement unless you are a sociopath or literally too dumb to comprehend the implications of negative reinforcement. If you are niether, you're staring into the abyss whether you like it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | If men go away women would not look backDo men want to not eat in addition to not getting laid? Men can always steal food. Not that hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 07:43 PM |
| 7 | Women ultimately are attracted to strengthLook, I know it's reddit but you don't need to advertise being a pussy to everyone here. You don't know enough about these fights to judge them. Full stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?Okay, that all tracks. As far as capitalists being pronatal at a bare minimum, well that's covered under mass immigration. Capitalists got it all figured out, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimIt's both. The cockblockers are self-serving, but they are also serving a useful purpose to some girls. You know how a lot of women tend to pick shitty dudes? It's not just trashy women that do this. It's meek women too. Girl friends can sniff out the doormats in their clique and those doormats couldn't look out from themselves if their lives depended on it. That's where Gorlock the Destroyer has to come in. You just need to be prepared to engage with the whole clique. Preferably get guy friends… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?Correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?The men that those women are choosing is more pecise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?Are you seriously suggesting that modern capitalists are pronatalist? How can you possibly come to that conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 09:21 PM |
| 6 | What does "insecure" even means?"Insecure" is women-speak for having boundaries. Are there actual insecure men? Sure. 99.9 percent of the time a women uses it however, it's just gaslighting. Given the overwhelming evidence that women are generally more nuerotic then men, it's also projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 05:15 PM |
| – | Where did this ridiculous notion come from that men lack emotional competence because they are only allowed to feel angerNo, it is not still accepted. It was never accepted. It is litterally illegal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 03:57 PM |
| – | Where did this ridiculous notion come from that men lack emotional competence because they are only allowed to feel angerWe know this is more likely than a man walking off meekly to lick his wounds. No, we don't know that because that's factually incorrect. The majority of men are more agreeable than not. They are just not as agreeable as women on the aggregate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Women being immediately drawn to men they see with other women is less about preselection and more about herd mentality/competitiveness.Herd mentality is a kind of vetting. It's using social proof as a heuristic to judge a situation, thing or person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 07:46 AM |
| -2 | Is there legitimately an actual correlation with causation to women wearing revealing clothing and promiscuity?Because the person I was responding to wants to know why people cling to certain attitudes, falsely presupposing the attitudes are purely the function of a completely arbitrary social construct. The answer is, the attitudes are biologically driven because nature selected for those attitudes. Humans will fabricate some religious, ideological or political logic to their behaviors, but that's all window dressing. The attitudes were going to find a way to exist either way. The attitudes only die whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 09:32 PM |
| -1 | Is there legitimately an actual correlation with causation to women wearing revealing clothing and promiscuity?We didn't have DNA tests 100,000 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 09:08 PM |
| 0 | Is there legitimately an actual correlation with causation to women wearing revealing clothing and promiscuity?They do. I don't know who lied to you and said otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 07:53 PM |
| -1 | Is there legitimately an actual correlation with causation to women wearing revealing clothing and promiscuity?why stubbornly cling onto it? Because humans are biologically predisposed to cling to it, for the reasons I stated. Human babies take a very long time to raise effectively. They require the attention and resources of their parents and community for a prolonged period of time. That is harder to do in a sexual anarchy where men can plausibly deny paternity or accidentally cuckold themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | A huge chunk of women find it sexy to feel vulnerable in relationships with explains the appeal of bad boys as well as the appeal of large menNice sophistry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 07:18 PM |
| -3 | Is there legitimately an actual correlation with causation to women wearing revealing clothing and promiscuity?Because a man that fucks a whore is more likely to become a genetic dead by accident. A woman perceived as a whore is less likely to make a plausible paternity claim, abandoned and left to raise maladjusted genetic dead ends. It's not really complicated. Humans that weren't on the look out for [open] promiscuity were outcompeted by the ones that were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 06:49 PM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America?Beliefs aren't genetic They kind of are. Beliefs are obviously heavily influenced by psychology and the more we learn about how people think, the more apparent it becomes how much personality is hereditary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 06:34 PM |
| – | "Redpill" or "Bluepill" with respect to menstruationNot as much as they could be, I think. I don't expect women to be as horny as men, but I don't get the same vibes that they had back when I was young. Then again, I'm not hanging around college types so I guess it's just old fucks being old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 03:53 PM |
| – | "Redpill" or "Bluepill" with respect to menstruationIt would be a more interesting question had the ubiquitous use of hormonal birth control not thrown everything out of whack. We don't talk enough about how much that and SSRIs have affected dating. It shouldn't be a huge surprise that dating is so whacky in the West when we chemically neutered the female population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Whats the point of monogamy and emotional attachment?Raising children more effectively. That's the objectively correct answer. Anyone that tells you otherwise is part of the problem. We need to engage with the biological mechanisms in place with sexual interaction if we want to unfuck dating issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 03:36 PM |
| 0 | Why aren't you having fun with women?People aren't fun until I'm fucking them. It's that simple. Hookers cost money but it really seems like they're the only women I'm compatible with. | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Women cannot accurately assess the wall themselvesThe issue is women are comparing themselves to men with respect to the wall when they're supposed to be comparing with their younger selves. The point of the wall isn't "you can't get male attention"; The point is "you really fumbled the bag", cause there's no way you're getting at 35 the kind of man you could have had at 25. The actual problem with the wall theory is that it misses the fact that she did have that man at 25, for about 20 minutes before he moved on the the other 6 girls in his ro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 10:55 AM |
| 1 | How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly?It's may not be that women move on emotionally faster, so much is that they can cover it up faster because they can get into new relationships faster. Guys that get dumped are going on several month and several year droughts. They can't move on because they literally physically cannot replace a women at will. A women can get dumped right now and get a train ran on her in a few hours if she really went for it. Doesn't mean she moved on emotionally. Just that she can drown her sorrows in new dick … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 10:41 AM |
| 0 | Is there a double standard around jealousy/loyalty?Then what the fuck does mainstream even mean then? Nothing apparently. If saying something causes you to be materially and socially blackballed, then it's not a welcome setiment in society. That is how it works, by definition. You cannot say anything trp is mainstream because it is defined by it's transgressive nature. It runs afoul of what metapolitical organs deem acceptable thought. Plenty of communists illegally watched american movies like Rocky 4. Doesn't mean an American beating up a Russ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:46 AM |
| -1 | There's no such thing as having standards set too highInstead this guy wants the US government to drag you outside of your home to do jumping jacks under the force of a gun. And it would work better than your limp-wristed ideas. Humans are not complicated, and most are self-serving and lazy. If you want people to do the right thing, stick a gun in their face and make them do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Is there a double standard around jealousy/loyalty?None of what you said is mainstream. Not even close. Many of those statements can get you fired from your job or kicked out of a school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:26 AM |
| -3 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.You're welcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:15 AM |
| 3 | Women are not picky at all, maybe less so than menThe numbers include guys like me having sex with a hooker every 18 months. It's not telling the full story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 07:02 AM |
| 1 | As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts?There is without a doubt no specific type of woman shares my interests or values . Not even slightly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerThe most conservative parts of the world hold much lower expectations when it comes to standards of living, female education, status and prestige, and this is what really matters. No, what matters is that they'll be around d in 500 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 07:13 PM |
| 7 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisProgressive values does not increase access to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerAside from your characterization of France, Chezh and Nord being complete nonsense, All those countries do worse than the most conservative parts of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:53 AM |
| 3 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.That makes no sense because the manosphere is marketed to people that are having zero success with women. Can't turn women off when they weren't on to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men?Women are ridiculous for acting like it's their cross to bare. Women take safety precautions that any organic lifeform should be taking and think they deserve a fucking cookie for their trouble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Do men not care about having female friends?No, my primary concern is making sure they have absolutely no basis to file an HR complaint against me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 08:24 AM |
| 7 | Do men not care about having female friends?Civilians aren't any better. It's just easier to hide when everyone's a stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Is it a bad or good idea to display any real emotional issue or vulnerability in a relationship?Because you didn't give the woman any ammunition against you. Women don't want to be in a relationship without leverage. You're vulnerabilities are her leverage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 01:32 AM |
| 3 | what people miss when giving advices to men is that men operate in a hierarchy .10000 x 0 is still 0. Below the mediocrity threshold, you have nothing to gain from trying to move up the hierarchy. If I gained 100 pounds of fat, developed a opiate addiction, lost my job and went bald, I wouldn't be doing much worse than I am now. It's a problem that arises when a hierarchy narrows. The pyramid becomes so steep that no matter where you land, if you're not straddling the top, you're slipping to the bottom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 03:50 PM |
| 0 | How significant of a factor is slut shaming in reducing the amount that women sleep around or pursue men on average (compared to other factors).Yeah, America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 07:31 AM |
| 6 | Why do some men feel the need to “test” you when you state your interests?And this is why men gatekeep.. why should you feel welcome in a community when you're coming in with a chip on your shoulder against the people in that community? You're not a good faith actor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 06:52 AM |
| 6 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringFor the love of god just stop being so boring it is really not that hard, go skateboard, camping, garden, make art, make music, bake, volunteer, join a runners club, rock climb, play coed sports, You listed a bunch of boring shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 06:40 PM |
| 0 | How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't?Contrary to what progressives would have you believe, Western society does not and for many years has not operated under a Christian moral paradigm. Christinity in the West is a zombie religion that only exists out of inertia. The dominant modern morality since the end of WW2 has been Progressivism, or "woke" or cultural Marxist, bioleninist or whatever phrase anyone wants to call it. It is the defacto secular religion of today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 09:07 AM |
| 9 | In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationshipsNothing is expected of women, except to protect other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 08:05 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The idea of "self love" is bullshit, and the proof is how many people are in unhappy relationships.Notice the number of people that equate not being in love with yourself as hating yourself. As if there were only two choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Because no one overcomes their biology, woman. You're not created in God's image. You're a egotistical monkey like everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.That's not true. I went years at a time not worrying about being alone. I ended up alone. Like no fucking shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Chasing women is not fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 05:15 PM |
| 0 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?Some problems don't have solutions. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 03:45 PM |
| 3 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?If every pimp dropped dead tomorrow, prostitution would be about as prevalent the day after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerWild how yall complain incessantly about birthrates, yet want to do everything possible to disincentivize women from having kids… Yeah, we also don't advocate violently raping all women on site. I guess that makes us hypocrites too...or maybe you're hypocrisy argument is not very bright. You can dislike single parenthood and declining birthrates. It's actually not that complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Science and DatingIt's just one of the many areas where the pareto distribution applies. Success increases the odds of future success. Failure increases the odds of future failure. You can reach a point where you can't possibly lose everything or can't possibly gain anything on either extreme of the distribution "to those that have everything, more will be given; from those that have nothing, everything will be taken." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of straight men have a hard time accepting their partner's sexual experiences (especially when it comes to an extended amount of casual sex)?are the same species that would commit infanticide on babies And today we have abortion. Some things change, a lot of things stay the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 01:58 PM |
| 5 | Does paying for everything excuse you from chores?Anytime I see this shit, all I can say is, "bet, switch places then". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 11:51 AM |
| -1 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeBecause women do age like milk, mostly due to their beautification techniques. Since men generally don't wear pounds of makeup, aging doesn't make a huge difference to their appearance. Women on the other hand devote way to much effort to beautification that tends to promote a false neotony to their appearance. When the wrinkles start to become too deep to obfuscate their age, they look like dogshit- because they not only look old- they look like they're not trying to look old. You know that cre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 03:04 PM |
| 0 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.No, it's that they're stated words and actions are incoherent. When women say they want x,y,z- the xy, xz, and yz crowd listen, give up and move on cause they're missing that one variable. The a,b,c men on the other hand don't give a fuck, press on and end up with her anyhow cause women are complete goobers. If the guys struggling want good advice, start with this; Don't ever worry about the stated interests and expectations of a women, cause odds are that woman sucked at least one broke dick, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 10:55 AM |
| 5 | In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they pleaseWhat does men's standards or lack therof matter when many men can't get what they want with or without standards? So what if I'm not down to fuck an overweight BPD psycho? The overweight BPD psycho didn't ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 10:28 AM |
| 0 | Why do many women seem to take pleasure in rejecting certain men?That's mostly a high school thing. Women are usually either uncomfortable about it or they're annoyed about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:24 AM |
| 5 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADContrary to what many suggest, guys that can't pull are often extremely acutely aware of female body language. You can practically feel the "please go away" energy. Recently, I was talking to a co-worker, and a woman she was chatting completely disengaged from the convo, walks off and buried her face in her phone. She went straight back into the group convo when I said my piece and carried on with my business. I at no point ever intereracted with her then or before. Later that day, she steps on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 09:36 PM |
| 9 | Do people not date based on their romantic feelings?This is an inversion of reality. Romantic spark starts at the beginning and deteriorates from there. Relationships fail often because of of two reasons; Incompatibilities were overlooked in favor of indulging in Romantic feelings. Once the romance dies, the Incompatibilities become the only feature of the relationship. The relationship having no foundation for existing once once the Romantic feelings inevitably dissipate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 07:24 PM |
| 2 | As long as men have to face the majority if rejections in dating, most men won’t be able to empathize in a way that women want or expectI'm not convinced FDS isn't a parody board. There's just no way... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:14 PM |
| 18 | As long as men have to face the majority if rejections in dating, most men won’t be able to empathize in a way that women want or expectWomen will complain about unempathetic or emotionally stunted boyfriends while overlooking that their mating strategy literally preselects for sociopathic behavior. It takes next-level indifference to other human being's perspectivess just brush off that much negative reinforcement. Either that, or you have to be so ridiculously superior to other human beings that you can be entirely secure in the knowledge that it really is always "her loss". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women will have to come to terms with dating men who earn less?You can be a normal human who wants to learn at university and have an engaging career, no obsession required. Yeah, that's a normal guy. That normal guy also has aspirations to be a family man someday, and his material interests are his interests insofar as it advances his prospects of being that family man someday. Sure, he might like his job- but it's still a job. A means to an end. But for someone like me that's out of the game, why stay in the rat race? That cardboard box is looking mighty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 04:04 PM |
| – | If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn.If a man is speaking lowly of the person he’s happily consuming, many will think lowly of him. This isn't a thing though. The average woman doesn't respect pornstars either. They just add the porn consumption as the thing they also don't respect. The supposed hypocrisy angle doesn't even have to come into play. This reminds me of that Norm McDonald joke about Cosby, "I don't think the hypocrisy was the biggest problem..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women will have to come to terms with dating men who earn less?"If a man could fuck a woman in a cardboard box, he wouldn't buy a house". - Dave Chapelle. Some men are obsessed with material gain. Most quite literally would choose to go Uncle Ted-mode if they knew it wasn't the kind of life a woman would want to share with them. I for one can't wait to get out my current job, move to Miami and bum it up. I just need enough scratch for alcohol and a phone. Everything else will figure itself out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 03:40 PM |
| 4 | Do you think women will have to come to terms with dating men who earn less?Affirmative Action is not a conspiracy. It is explicitly written law discriminating against men. And we have studies that have shown women getting better grades for identical work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women will have to come to terms with dating men who earn less?So your starus failed you 3 times and the jury is out on number 4. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 03:25 PM |
| – | If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn.This is basically the same crap commies get for owning a phone. There are nuances to this stuff, so I'll just say this; There is no ethical consumption under women's liberation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 03:18 PM |
| – | If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn.Reily Reid didn't "luck out". Her ability to get a husband was never in doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 03:05 PM |
| – | Can men just not be loved for who they actually are?Can we drop this meme already? Employed, intelligent, attractive, physically fit and concientious men aren't doing all that well either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:50 PM |
| – | Can men just not be loved for who they actually are?Personality can be changed though Outside of extremely traumatic events, no. Twin studies prove this. Twins of completely different backgrounds exhibited extremely similar behavior and life outcomes. You can temporarily force a different persona, but that takes more energy then inevitably regressing to the hereditary state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:44 PM |
| – | Men’s Virility: Women Blame Shifting & Lowering Romantic CompetitionYeah, it doesn't work. My evidence? The links you gave me. Fucking pathetic abstracts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Do you feel like a lot of redpill or jaded men have undiagnosed neuro conditions?be real, if you met a girl who gave 50 men blowjobs How would I know that though? Those how's are what she gotta worry about, not the what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:02 PM |
| – | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.They don't rely on other women, rather these women insist on dragging their lives out until they go back into diapers and pat themselves on the back for being so caring. Most men want to get the job done, and hopefully by the time they get to the age where they can't physically do what they could for most of their lives, they're heart checks them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 03:17 PM |
| – | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.I’m 41, and have literally never known anyone like this. I already said you are ignorant. You didn't need to restate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 01:15 PM |
| 5 | Do you feel like a lot of redpill or jaded men have undiagnosed neuro conditions?By having sex with a guy you find sexually attractive. If he wasn't Mr Forever, than you fucked a guy you thought was hot. Not exactly a huge L in my book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Stress and Eu-stressDestiny is rich and famous. Of course he "enjoys" his stress when it's tied to a career that is yielding results commensurate to his effort. He wasn't singing that song and dance when he was so down bad he was yucking it up with Nick Fuentes contemplating retirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 09:19 AM |
| – | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.There are plenty of middle aged and old men on this boat. They just don't go around telling people about it. You're just ignorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 08:54 AM |
| -1 | Why therapy doesn't work for men and trauma dumping clarityThey've been coming for years. That you can't see the obvious problem with what you just said... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Men’s Virility: Women Blame Shifting & Lowering Romantic CompetitionTherapy is mostly not done when i ask them or suggest it. Cause it doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 07:00 PM |
| 37 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.As stated previously, most women aren't actually "single". That is to say, it is infinitly easier to be happy single when you are secure in the knowledge that you can stop being single in a matter of hours. It's infinitely easier to say a bad relationship is worse than no relationship when we're talking about hours-longs to weeks-long droughts, not years to decades-long droughts. There is absolutely no comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 05:50 PM |
| – | you can be bigger and still be healthy for both men & women.We're reaching levels of baste that shouldn't be possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 01:18 PM |
| – | Hot take: Women would care much less about height if there were widespread awareness about just how little correlation there is between height and penis size (and would also give more short and average guys chance, knowing there might be a pleasant surprise)No. I don't think women actually give much thought to dick size until they get hands on. Only obvious caveat is racial stereotype considerations. The height thing is almost entirely an inate desire. Insofar as it is a conscious sexual desire, it's usually just short girls that like to get picked up and tossed around by tall muscular guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Phrases such as “Men age like wine, women age like milk” and “The Wall” are nonsensical.Because when coupled with egalitarianism, you get the dysgenic system currently in place. Soft harems at the top, perpetual situationships and dead bedrooms in the middle and inceldom at the bottom. You can't have women naturally predisposed to men above them in status and then make it illegal for women to be below men in status. Either roll back the clock or make a drug that makes women not worry about being financially supported because of a baby. Oh wait that's birth control. God bless capita… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 09:54 PM |
| 0 | Phrases such as “Men age like wine, women age like milk” and “The Wall” are nonsensical.Not the point certified 103 IQ. I'm just wondering where the army of fedora-tippers are when every "Men ain't shit" meme becomes the ruling principle of an entire fucking civilization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 09:30 PM |
| -3 | Phrases such as “Men age like wine, women age like milk” and “The Wall” are nonsensical."Women age like fine wine". Wierd how this adage was able to fly by for decades without the need for a good old fashioned deboonking, but all the same thanks for clarifying that um, akshually "the wall" isn't really a law of nature. We really can't have fucking anything huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | “Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”. Nice guys lie to themselves.Well, it's reassuring to know that my natural filter was so effective, the only thing that got through in years was a obese drunk stranger that thought I was really fascinating for all the literal nothing I said to her playing pool. This is the boost I was looking for. I'm going back to smoking. Vaping isn't gonna give me lung cancer soon enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 06:44 PM |
| – | 'Better than real men': Young Chinese women turn to AI boyfriendsDoes she shit test it? I want to see the first AI develop sentience just to tell a woman to give it a fucking break, it's trying it's best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 06:35 PM |
| 4 | If "Being An Asshole" Was All It Took To Get Women, Why Are So Many Assholes Single?"My(23F) husband(58M) keeps fucking my dog, shooting my cat and hasn't washed his balls in 8 years......WHAT DO I DOOOOO!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | “Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”. Nice guys lie to themselves.How, because "filtering out" doesn't sound at all like something an agreeable introvert would naturally do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 04:29 PM |
| – | Why don't more struggling men join conservative religions?Women with low/no body count The absolute last place on earth you're gonna find that is in a church. Traditional gender roles enforced Maybe in Islamic communities, but most modern Christians church's are hilariously gynocentric. In short, Christianity is functionally dead in much of the Western world. The only reason why most people don't call themselves atheists is because, well who the fuck wants to have the same label as the average r/atheism user? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | If "Being An Asshole" Was All It Took To Get Women, Why Are So Many Assholes Single?1) Asshole = Extroverted anti-social behavior. 2) They are introverted. They cannot nor will comfortably replicate the extroverted part of the extroverted anti-social behavior. If they are agreeable, then they can't do the anti-social part either. 3) They usually don't like them specifically for the anti-social behavior. They occasionally choose them from a pool of extroverted people, which includes the assholes and excludes introverts. Because of female passivity in the courtship process, the i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | “Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”. Nice guys lie to themselves.Maybe just be yourself from the beginning so you can start attracting women who are actually attracted to your authentic self? What if your authentic self is being agreeable and conflict-adverse to a fault? What is being stoic, stable but ultimately boorish is your authentic self? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 08:13 AM |
| 2 | The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chancesThe unwelcome and inappropriate part Which you admitted to doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 07:37 AM |
| – | She isn’t “withholding” sex from you. She simply doesn’t feel like having sex.No, I think you've just spent an ungodly amount of time trying to prove every man wants to rape every women by pretending female agency doesn't exist when they use sex in a transactional manner, as if men can choose female motives to allowing or denying sex. It's pathetic and everyone can see it for what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 07:32 AM |
| 4 | The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chancesSure. Sometimes with directly telling them i want to kiss them, lick their pussy or fuck them. So you've sexually harassed women, strangers no less? That what you're telling us here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 09:59 PM |
| 3 | The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chancesYou can either be direct and tell her you want her body, or you can be genuinely interested in the person behind the body you find Have you ever approached someone you found attractive that you didn't already know personally? If you have, did you lead with a direct request for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 08:57 PM |
| – | FEMTOW vs MGTOW..and the Decentering from men movement.There's been nothing quiet about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Narrowly defined masculinity / Book "No more Mr. Nice Guy!"I think it's largely settled that Mr Nice Guy is a no-go and at this point the discourse needs to move towards figuring out how to disabuse men of this idea, fundementally. It's not enough to know it, but to really internalize it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 03:30 PM |
| 4 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.It's the truth. The only reason why you have the ability to say anything, let alone whatever tripe you have to ooze into the discourse, is because of a very long line of people having sex and producing offspring. That's the only common denomitor of your lineage and anyone else's. Your line outlasted countless religions, political systems and platitudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 03:21 PM |
| 8 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.They don't marry men who are not nice, unless they have a psychological predisposition from childhood abuse, parent-relationships that taught them that this abuse is how love looks like, etc. That's a lot of women. Like a lot of them. As in, enough that you cannot say, "They don't marry men who are not nice" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 02:37 PM |
| 11 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.No, I mean the literal rapists, murderers and theives that get more consensual sex(yes, the rapists too) than the average incel-type. Somehow women are so good at sniffing out the secret monsters that wholly encompasses the latter population, but the former population and their documented criminal records just get missed a lot of times. Fancy that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 02:25 PM |
| 13 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.Your comment is you, a woman externalizing blame. Aside from the irony, this is a laughable inversion of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 02:14 PM |
| 9 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.I've talked to assholes who think they are clever before mate. Weapons-grade projection right there. You're wondering why- on a comment about dating, on a board about dating, why we should be maintaining the context of dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 02:08 PM |
| 16 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.As opposed to the actual sociopaths that slip through the cracks more reliably. It's almost as if you're full of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 01:55 PM |
| 11 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.Nice guys are not nice. Way to waste an effort post with that lead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 01:47 PM |
| 11 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.No, I mean actually address it, since that statement didn't. He's not talking about niceness outside of the context of dating advice. You are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 01:44 PM |
| 10 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.It was. It was too subtle. Something-something lobsters are people. At any rate, you didn't address the point of contention. He didn't argue that being nice is bad because it's not consistently rewarding. He argues that society made and continues to make the argument that it is consistently rewarding when it is not. We can say being nice is not enough, but why are we even saying that being nice is a good start when we know it isn't essential to begin with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 01:35 PM |
| 9 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.I see you missed the reference. At any rate, do you actually have a response to what he actually said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 01:27 PM |
| 25 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.So what you're saying is... He's saying what what he said. Engage with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet women?A billiards place is not a bad start. Liquor to lighten you up, but you have an activity to engage in so you're not just "that guy" at the bar drinking by yourself. And pool is an activity that is done readily solo as it is in groups. It's also one of those things that makes you cool if you get good at it. It also invites people to socialize with you because everyone wants a go at it and there's only so many tables. | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 11:23 AM |
| 0 | CMV: it is a huge red flag if a woman uses the terms "pickme" or "nlog." RUN.It's yellow flag. On the one hand, pickme's are a thing and you don't want to date them. On the other hand, anyone that isn't a full-blown misandrist is a pick-me to feminists. Using that termonology is an indication that you need to determine how terminally political they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 08:47 PM |
| 6 | The Blue Pill didn't lie to youWhat is the connection between your data and your premise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 06:35 PM |
| – | Is it true that most guys think they would do better in dating if they were bringing in all the money?But why would guys want a relationship when they have to put all that pressure on themselves, to support and perform? Because that's what it takes. It's not a choice. You are not going to have a lot of ltr success with women if you make less than them. End of story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 04:24 PM |
| – | Is it true that most guys think they would do better in dating if they were bringing in all the money?There are literal biochemical processes that take place in romantic relationships that are not replicated in platonic relationships. You cannot swap these things out. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 04:16 PM |
| – | Is it true that most guys think they would do better in dating if they were bringing in all the money?Thing is, that's what women are told too. No. The difference is that women have been told this for so long that we got sick of hearing it and started challenging the narrative You were very likely born decades after this narrative shift and have never known a time where women were expected to do better for the approval of men. The notion has been deemed blasphemous for over a half century. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 04:12 PM |
| – | Women act like TRP is some kooky conspiracy theory rotting men’s brains but then tell bold faced lies like “maybe if you were nice to women and took a shower you would get a date.” This blatant dishonesty is the very foundation of red pill ideology.I grew up with a dozen men who preferred gaming (then porn) to making friends, playing sports, joining clubs, going to prom. They continued the same behaviors in college. Their parents had nothing to do with it. You think childhood pathologies go away over the course of college? That's not how that works. No, its heal and grow and start over in the place he fell behind his peers. That's an adorable platitude. Do you have something actionable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Is the default world view blue pill or purple pill?Women care about looks too. Physical appearance is not a shallow metric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Is the default world view blue pill or purple pill?Blue pill around the opposite sex, purple in the locker-room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:13 PM |
| – | Cracked the code?imagine what it’s like to have to say no to someone bigger & stronger than you not knowing what their mental state is like. Imagine the mental strain an anxiety that possibility could cause you over and over again. Men know this. That's why it used to be illegal or socially unacceptable for women to go out without a male escort in the form of an SO or family member, and the courtship process used to involve parents acting as gatekeepers. But that was a patriarchal sanction on the sovereignty of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Thought experiment I've been struggling with.This but without the sarcasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 01:41 PM |
| -1 | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairI’m also not sure what this would look like in real life: do you plan on asking women exactly how long they waited to sleep with every previous partner, everything they did in bed and then demand they do all those things and more with you? This is my main question here. No, but if she's stupid enough to tell me about her history in detail and I notice discrepancies in her behavior than and now, I'd act accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | "just treat them like humans"Yeah my male friends love to ambush each other and wrestle. I really feel like it wouldn't go over well if either of them decided to spontaneously tackle a female friend and wrestle her to the ground. Pretty sure that wouldn't go over well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 01:13 PM |
| – | Women act like TRP is some kooky conspiracy theory rotting men’s brains but then tell bold faced lies like “maybe if you were nice to women and took a shower you would get a date.” This blatant dishonesty is the very foundation of red pill ideology.Well my dad was a deadbeat when he wasn't a wife-beater so he wasn't around during my adolescence. He also managed to get 5 children across 3 wives. I guess the way he treated women worked well enough to not be a genetic dead-end like me. And that's the rub. My mom raised me to be the antithesis of my toxic dad, and that probably ruined my life when it comes to stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 11:45 AM |
| – | Women act like TRP is some kooky conspiracy theory rotting men’s brains but then tell bold faced lies like “maybe if you were nice to women and took a shower you would get a date.” This blatant dishonesty is the very foundation of red pill ideology.Mostly by choice, No. occasionally by lazy parenting. Almost exclusively But any kid, and every man is capable of cultivating and maintaining a social sphere, Not if they weren't brought up right, and they usually aren't. red pill adherents prefer clinging to shortcuts. Because it's that or volcel or suicide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 11:27 AM |
| – | Women act like TRP is some kooky conspiracy theory rotting men’s brains but then tell bold faced lies like “maybe if you were nice to women and took a shower you would get a date.” This blatant dishonesty is the very foundation of red pill ideology.establishing regular meaningful social ties with women Women generally do not want to have anything to do with men they are not attracted to at least slightly. If they are not open to dating, they are likely not open to platonic friendship. You're either someone they may date, someone they hate and want to go away, or wallpaper that they aren't interacting with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 10:56 AM |
| – | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?Most people are boring. There is rarely anything to unravel. 99 percent of interesting stories is; "I got really drunk and high and did this really stupid thing". "I have a career doing this thing you don't care about because if you did care, it would be your career as well". "I went to this awesome place that I can describe as if the internet doesn't exist and you can look into everything about this". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 10:33 AM |
| 1 | So... how are men supposed to understand women, anyways?You're not supposed to understand women. You're supposed to know what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 04:16 PM |
| 4 | "just treat them like humans"It isn't, but that's feminism for you. It presupposes gender interchangeability and the hilariously dumb idea that men treat other better than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 03:57 PM |
| 0 | Doesn't being "on guard" with all men just drive away good men and leave only predators?Does OP seriously think women who are careful around men are targeted by predators more than women who aren't? Correct Why would a predator target someone who is more suspicious and less trusting of him when he can just prey on women who think men are harmless? Predators do not care about the perspective of the target, hence predator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 09:46 PM |
| 0 | Doesn't being "on guard" with all men just drive away good men and leave only predators?Do you even process it? Go ahead and make that discrepancy make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 08:44 PM |
| 8 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?He's not really wrong though. Austistic dialogue is precisely as bizarre as it is because it is neither vacuous nor pretentious in a normal human way. People irl say a lot of things for the sake of saying things, and they almost never say precisely what they mean. It's similar to young children who haven't had enough years of experience socializing, so they just describe the world that they perceive. No filter, no analytical lens. Just what it is. Humans "learn" to be communicative in a way wher… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceit’s doubly important to understand that since what you considered a good lead could be wrong and you need to not melt down if you watch your lead convert somewhere else. It's more important to understand that it is really easy to say when it's not you that has to be on the wrong track, over and over again. A better analogy would be a door-to-door salesmen. And how has that job been historically portrayed? As a pathetic, dead-end grind that nobody enjoys being a part of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceIf she is in your peripheral vision and your mind is aware of her, it will signal to you when it notices her shifting. This is when you glance at her to see if she is looking at you. That was a weird way of saying dart your eyes back and forth, something signaling a lack of confidence or mental stability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't being "on guard" with all men just drive away good men and leave only predators?It doesn't leave only predators, but it selects for a population that will have a higher percentage of predators than the population selected out. Predators are unsurprisingly, predatory. They are rarely too meek to approach women. As for driving away good men, can we really say that a non-confrontational, harmless man is actually good? Not nessecarilly. That's the issue. Our modern morality has become too obsessed with universal harm-avoidance as the ruling principle and it's creating massive s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 07:54 PM |
| 5 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceI noticed you omitted the word empirical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceBecause your analogy does not account for the fact that unlike modern business', men have to infer viable partners one by one on a case by case basis without unambiguous foreknowledge of said viability. The analogy does not work. It cannot be used as a reference for how and why men do what they do and thus cannot inform anyone about the nature of the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 07:40 PM |
| 7 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceIf you can find a single piece of empirical evidence that there is a quantifiable difference and most humans can reliably identify said quantifiable difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 07:28 PM |
| 8 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceshe locks eyes with you Something you can only confirm by staring at her; Something you are not supposed to be doing in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceBut we’re getting beside the point. No we're not. Your analogy is bad. It does not describe the factors at play that inform the actions being taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceWe get called slurs if we approach you That doesn't happen though so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 05:46 PM |
| 8 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceYour analogy is wonky. Local business are selling a product to as many people as possible, and it is incumbent on people to actively seek the product. This is nothing like dating. Most guys cannot just announce they are boyfriend material in the middle of the club and wait for women actively line up to talk to him. Women aren't under the expectation that they need to actively aquire their boyfriend if they want one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Part 1: The future is femaleLike how the fuck would our species even work if we didnt even like each other? A lot of organisms in the animal kingdom reproduce without a need for mutual cooperation, to put it mildly. While humans have historically been less consistanly brutish in their reproductive strategy than say ducks, there's no reason to assume male and female homosapiens are so vastly different from other species in terms of intersex hostility. We can say male and female humans naturally get along better than a lot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.Putting yourself in the right environment just means you're going to be miserable around other people. They're are countless examples of people testifying to increased feelings of loneliness in a social environment. Not only is it not at all effective to artificially insert yourself in social settings where you are neither wanted in nor want to be in, it can make social anxiety even worse. You have to organically enter a social setting. If your interests aren't conducive to that, you're fucked- … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 05:40 PM |
| 4 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.Correct. That's the problem. You frame it as the guy being in the wrong, but that's the issue. The cost-benefit analysis is completely unfavorable to actually doing anything to fix it. Is going out more effective than staying home and doing nothing? Yes. Is it so much more effective that it justifies even the modicum of effort to go outside in the first place? Not even close. You can go out 100 times, have 2, maybe 3 positive experiences that make you 97% depressed. For a fraction of the price, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Are women planning their lives backwards? Or is society just in an economic death spiral?cause they've been indoctrinated with the societal and cultural belief that they need children to be happy and have meaning in life. No they haven't. It's 2024. This hasn't been a thing in the mainstream western zeitgeist for well over half a century. No one in the west born after WW2 has lived in the traditionalist paradigm. No one born in the west after the 1960's lived in a paradigm that even pretended to be traditionalist. The US and Western Europe for decades has been firmly entrenched in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 04:37 PM |
| -1 | Are women planning their lives backwards? Or is society just in an economic death spiral?100 percent of them. The human race was extremely destitute for nearly all of 200,000 years. It ended up with 7 billion humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Would women suggest that men not approach them?Pro-tip: This is a great way to be wallpaper for the rest of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Is the the old cliché “you’ll meet someone when you’re not expecting it” true for men?No. Passivity is even worse than coming across as desperate or needy. If you're desperate and needy, you're a 1/10, which means you might bag a 1/10. If you're not putting yourself out there, you're wallpaper. You're not even getting rated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsWomen are attracted to whatever they think they are supposed to be attracted to, and power decides what that "supposed to" is. If we have a problem of women choosing d-bags, it's because men are either enforcing that standard, or they are failing to enforce a different standard. If men agreed that being a d-bag was no longer to be tolerated by anyone and enforced that, women would be in no position to oppose this, and they would soon enough internalize it as their own position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsAre you saying women don't have the agency to chose not to be with the bully? When the rubber meets the road, no. If a supermajority of men agreed we were going back to the stone ages, what are women gonna do about it? That's the biggest issue with rp theory; It assumes women are forcing men into anything when it's actually other men doing it. In the end of the day, the man with gun decides what is and isn't gonna happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Do men require more support than women?Men are groomed from birth to be asocial, with social interactions only being permitted in terms of competition. See, this is the problem right here. First, you say something that's flat out not true, "Men are groomed from birth to be asocial", then follow it up by pathologizing inate male behavior, "with social interactions only being permitted in terms of competition." Men's issues aren't going to be solved by being told they need to stop being men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:05 PM |
| – | Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himselfIt's framed as a joke to soften the blow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 10:50 PM |
| – | The gender war is not just an online thingIt's bad because it presupposes that men by default are rapists and need to be conditioned to not rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?That doesn't change my point. Divorce is a risk men don't have to take. They also don't have to like single mothers. There's no contradiction. Marriage versus single moms is a false dilemma. Men have no responsibility to choose these things or make them desirable choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 04:14 AM |
| 0 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?The analogy would work if using the trash bin could potentially ruin your life and drive you to suicide. Marriage is not potentially inconvenience to men. It's potentially a death sentence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?Those are not contradictory. You're using one of the only actual examples of the slippery slope fallacy. The eventuality of not marrying leads to single mothers and single mothers are a problem does not make marraige good, for men. It just means that modern marriage is broken and creating a cycle of dysfunction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do men not tell other men to be vulnerable, AND, why do women tell men to be more vulnerable, en masse?And a problem is a vulnerability. Again, work on your understanding of the English language. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 10:59 PM |
| 2 | What year did women achieve equality?isn't debatable is that regardless, the child doesn't have the right to use an unwilling woman's body to sustain its life. 🤷 A child absolutely has that right, actually. Your own body asserts that right when it restrucures itself to sustain the life of the child, often at the expense of the mother's comfort. How many human rights do you know that are so biologically provable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do men not tell other men to be vulnerable, AND, why do women tell men to be more vulnerable, en masse?If you think you are being vulnerable bu just asking for help, you need to consider your ideologies and your friends. You need to consider that if you think otherwise, you don't understand the English language. A problem cannot by definition be anything other than a vulnerability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 05:49 PM |
| -1 | If your job skills were hopeless, would you rather be a sex worker or a housewife?Correct. Women's liberation was never about fake nonsense like equality or rights. It was a means of fully incorporating women into the capitalist system of exploitation. You are still a man's slave, only now its a very rich man that you've never even met that will not bat an eye at chewing you up and spitting you out like any comman man. "Progressivism is the acid that burns through the traditional boundaries to commidification". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Why do men not tell other men to be vulnerable, AND, why do women tell men to be more vulnerable, en masse?Paying rent in not on the list of things to be vulnerable about Yes it is. Not everyone is a financially privileged neurotic. Some people have real problems, not >m-muh childhood!!. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 04:49 PM |
| 0 | What year did women achieve equality?You don't have the right to murder a child because it hasn't passed the vaginal canal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Have tradcons taken over the redpill?Men don't have a right to assassinate their children either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 03:43 PM |
| 0 | Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf?Because male anger is terrifying It very clearly isn't to women. Women always try to ragebait men that they can't win an argument with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | “Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].”Says who? If dating is work, why do it? That's what actual work is for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 05:14 PM |
| 2 | outside of some obvious exceptions, having no friends is a red flagThat's fair to say. I'm trying to figure out where this red flag component comes from. Is a person that has the ability to be self-sufficient in personal recreation except obviously romance, a bad person? If so, why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 05:27 PM |
| 5 | outside of some obvious exceptions, having no friends is a red flagI don't think a romantic relationship is just a friendship with sex. We call those FWBs, fuck-buddies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 05:00 PM |
| 6 | outside of some obvious exceptions, having no friends is a red flagWhy would you wonder that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 04:36 PM |
| 7 | outside of some obvious exceptions, having no friends is a red flagPerhaps, but what do you say to someone that has absolutely zero interest in platonic friendships? Not so much that they push people away, but they simply do not get anything out of it and don't pursue it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?You are calling other people mentally ill when you have completely derailed a topic with several paragraph responses about how much you hate religion when that has virtually nothing to do with anything I or anyone else was talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?Are you seriously arguing that tribal conflicts are unatural? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?they'd just fall in line naturally. They did, hence religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:46 PM |
| 8 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?purity culture It's not purity culture. Most western countries are cartoonishly amoral when it comes to its sexual mores. It's biology. Women that could not levy a convincing paternity claim against a man because she had a preexisting reputation would be left to starve to death along with her child thousands of years ago. That's not a characteristic that will not easily survive natural selection. A proclivity towards monogamy and chastity was essential to human societal development. The "purity … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?Depending on where you are from, yes it is- and society is increasingly trending in the direction of no one knowing anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 06:16 PM |
| – | I honestly just don't get the complainingAlmost certainly not and that is where the problem lays. Men use anonymous spaces to get this stuff off of their chest but will say and do absolutely nothing that can be perceived as hostile irl. This ironically makes the negative emotions worse. This is the real "toxic masculinity" that women talk about. The refusal of men to express their disdain for female behavior or anyone's behavior in their faces for fear of social repercussions, only to let that disdain boil over in private spaces. Notic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 02:21 PM |
| – | I honestly just don't get the complainingBecause the biological imperative doesn't care about your atomized materialistic worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are not equal and will never be equalNo you don't. Empiricism is the disease rotting the brains of modern humans. We can't even agree that men and women think differently on the aggregate, because of this anthro-narcissistic notion that if Science Man couldn't figure out how to put it on a graph, it isn't real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 12:53 PM |
| 0 | Men and women are not equal and will never be equalYeah, that's called political correctness. Every paper that digs into spicy topics throws that useless line in to soften the blow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 12:46 PM |
| 7 | Male charisma can be non-alpha and non-masculineAll if the things you described are masculine and "alpha". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 12:39 PM |
| 4 | The DHS paid almost 700k to a counter-terrorism NGO to intercept and divert Twitter traffic away from people in the “manosphere” and those who take issue with promiscuity. Do you agree with these actions and the funding of this report?I don’t watch their show but if they are being investigated there has to be a legitimate reason. How is it even possible to be this naive to government abuse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:38 AM |
| 6 | Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them?No. A small number of female agitators astroturfed by a small number of male oligarchs imposed a false consensus to make changes that were passed off as organic when they were anything but. That's how sociopolitical change works. The will of the masses never has anything to do with it. Not in a democracy or a dictatorship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Films/books that portray the male ideal fantasy?No, just no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 01:55 PM |
| 6 | Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them?Women have not done anything for each other. They demanded concessions of men and men acquiesced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Sex Robots will fix the dating marketIf sex robots were good enough to replace, women will not allow them. It's that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 06:19 PM |
| 3 | i’ve seen this idea tossed around that women are more susceptible than men to social trends - both genders are very susceptible to trends, let’s stop pretending its one sidedFact is, most people, regardless of gender, conform to social trends Yes. and men are just as susceptible as women. No. Most people are mostly agreeable, being that humans are social creatures; But women are more agreeable than men. This is why the consensus of major organs of power are adopted by women more readily than men. For example, back when religion actually mattered in the West, women were in fact more religious than men. And when women are heterodox, it is almost always the case they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 09:33 PM |
| 2 | If men want societal safety nets, they need to band together and weather the storm to get them."Work for it and make your own male only homeless shelter,scholarships and welfare." These sorts of things are either illegal or will become illegal the second someone makes a fuss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 11:04 AM |
| – | Do you feel that growing up in strict, religious environments makes men lack confidence?Decline in religiosity is coinciding with male confidence issues, so no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 10:38 AM |
| – | Do men really spend so much time staring at others that they believe that anyone who feels uncomfortable by it is malicious, foolish, or playing victim?*.33 of .49 of 350m | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 01:00 PM |
| – | Do men really spend so much time staring at others that they believe that anyone who feels uncomfortable by it is malicious, foolish, or playing victim?Just doing the math in your post, I can see that is bullshit. 3.4m*.67 is not in fact .49 of 350m. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 01:00 PM |
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