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Legal Rightsrman1001/r/MensRights19/05/19 02:03 PM
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I can't believe I spent 23 years with a person who made it her life's goal to make me miserable. She was constantly watching everything I did, said, or thought for any way to twist it into something wrong. My self esteem was shattered. And it affected every facet of my life - my mental health, my career, my relationship with my kids, my friends, ....everything. And in the end she walked away as "the good woman" and I was the bad guy. I have a hard time trusting women as a result. I'd rather be a…
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 11:53 PM
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100% agree with your last point. Don't be alone with other people's kids. Absolutely not worth the risk. Single mothers are a risky proposition.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 12:19 AM
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This right here. It's a religion. Tow the line or suffer the consequences. Except it's worse than a religion because they attempt to force their beliefs on the general population. It's not about equality. It's about supremacy. Hopefully it will soon run its course and we can move on. But it's probably going to take men standing up en mass against it. We all need to stand up together against this atrocity. Family court system, Conscription, Suicide rates, Workplace deaths, Child custody, toxic ma…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 09:56 PM
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The best way to stop war would be to require women to be conscripted and sent to die like men.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 08:02 AM
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Well, the GOOD news about all this is that everyone can see exactly how women are. By only censoring men, banning men, etc., it leaves women's attitudes, thoughts, feelings out there for everyone to see. And its not pretty. The Men's Movement is growing as a result. It's only a matter of time til we reach critical mass.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 04:48 PM
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Women don't have to be on the front lines. At the very least, they could serve in support roles. It doesn't make sense to give half the population an exemption from the draft while simultaneously claiming that they are oppressed. "Women have always been the primary victims of war!" "Stop it! You're hurting my feelings!" None of this BS will stop until men decide to stop contributing to a society that treats them as disposable. Don't feed the monster. Stop contributing.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 05:41 PM
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Exactly. How many black men were lnyched as a result of false accusations by white women?
/r/MensRights21/06/23 11:18 AM
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https://www.bustle.com/p/8-rights-privileges-men-have-that-women-dont-according-to-reddit-70448 All but one of those arguments are extremely weak. 1) Women don't have control over their bodies? - Men don't either. We are subject to conscription, circumcision, and wage slavery at dirty and dangerous jobs to pay child support. 2) Women being punished for pregnancy? - Uh, men are forced to spend 18 years of their life paying for children they didn't ask for. That sounds a lot like punishment to me.…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 02:49 PM
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This. If you can survive long enough that you age-out of your testosterone-fueled sex drive you will find happiness, or at least more happiness/contentment. Being horny all the time, i.e., having a need that can never be truly satisfied means that you will never be truly happy for more than a short time. But yea, a pill that would allow men to decrease the sex-drive without serious side-effects would be hugely beneficial to our overall happiness and allow us to focus our energy on other pursuits…
/r/MensRights22/02/23 08:15 AM
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Same here. Police came to the house when I had a dozen people over for a work party. Came and took my daughter away, while essentially admitting to me that they knew the charges were probably false. Didn't help my reputation. Had to cut contact. Daughter later committed suicide rather than live with her mother. I've never gotten over it.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 07:38 AM
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Couldn't agree more. I made the mistake of posting somewhere that women should do the same things that men do to be safe and avoid potentially dangerous situations, IN ADDITION TO to all the other things society already does to minimize risk. I got down-voted into oblivion. No, they won't accept any responsibility for their own safety. Ever.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 10:26 PM
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I think the answer is to "not care" if you succeed with women or not. Your goal should not be "to score" but instead just to make small talk, to brighten someone else's day. Practice on easy targets first, like the cashier, the waitress, the clerk at the Post Office. Then after your skills at making small talk are honed, move it up a notch and try talking to random women in line with you. Dress nicely. Remain calm and relaxed. Practice.
/r/seduction29/10/22 12:13 PM
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Its been a few years now (decades actually), but when I was younger, articles were being published in the campus and local newspapers where I lived, where women claiming "to speak for all women" were telling us how they were "so tired of being approached" and to "just stop". But I guess that didn't work either because now they are complaining that we never do.
/r/seduction17/10/22 10:25 PM
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It is my understanding that in most US states child support is based on a percentage of income, so it's entirely possible that he would be paying 25% of his income, whatever that is. Could be $1,000,000 a month. That's why women are always trying to get pregnant by wealthy men.
/r/AntiFeminists08/08/22 05:30 PM
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Ditto. Getting married was the biggest mistake of my life. The second biggest mistake was not getting divorced immediately.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 11:30 PM
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This happened to me. So it DOES happen. And now I do have trust issues with women. I actually consider it an embarrassment to be involved with a woman after being abused so badly by them. After being tricked into becoming a father by an abortion-rights activist on birth control, my daughter was bullied by her mother so badly (mother had Borderline Personality Disorder) that she committed suicide one month after the child support ended. Tragic. Mother accused me of all kind of horrible crimes tha…
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/22 01:33 AM
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I think the argument could be made that since men die 5 years earlier than women, on average, that they should be allowed to retire 5 years earlier.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 03:41 PM
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There is no doubt that hate speech against men on Reddit is condoned. And that is really messed up. But looking on the bright side, now we can all see exactly how much hate there really is against men. It's out there for everyone to see if they know where to look - and even if they don't know where to look.. The hate shows up in all sorts of subreddits. What we need to do is take action against it. Write your congressman and demand equal treatment for all. Equality means equal. Women need to reg…
/r/MensRights16/11/21 03:07 AM
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I got that same message as a young man in the campus newspaper and also the local newspaper - "Don't approach us. We are so tired of being approached. I think I speak for all women when I say "Please leave us alone". We'll let you know if we're interested". Yeah, that's what they said. It was the 70's and the feminists were having a field day. They never did. I waited decades. Then after I had amassed a lot of wealth and someone leaked the info, I was suddenly awash in interested females. They w…
/r/MensRights07/11/21 10:00 PM
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This happened to me, as well. Baby-trapped. 18 years of $1000 a month after-tax child support. The government encourages this behavior by subsidizing it with our money. If you are a man making decent money, be aware that you are a target of young, unscrupulous women. Lying about birth control is how they do it. I am older now and I got snipped since then, but my advice to younger men is to BEWARE! Not all women can be trusted. Just because you are honest doesn't mean they are. The price for putt…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 06:09 PM
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Absolutely. The retirement age for men and women should be adjusted to allow for each gender to have the same number of years in retirement. To do otherwise is sexist misandry. If someone wishes to continue working past retirement age, that is a personal choice and is between them and their employer. I know that often, married men prefer to continue working just to get out of the house. Single men, not so much.
/r/MensRights18/09/21 03:37 PM
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Yes. What they really want is total and absolute power over men's lives - to be able to have men thrown in jail if they don't cave to their every demand.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 03:20 PM
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What you describe is definitely an abusive relationship. I spent way too long in a relationship like yours. She is manipulating the hell out of you. You are going to be miserable until you can get out. She will destroy your finances, your mental health, your sense of self-worth, your sanity. You will never have anything as long as this woman is in your life. I married with little experience and thought divorce was the end of the world. It wasn't. It was a new beginning and it was like a huge wei…
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/21 11:56 AM
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This might actually be a good idea. Get men to just stop going into work, stop contributing to society, for just one day. A general strike, maybe one day a month, until a commission is appointed to address men's issues - suicide rate, earlier deaths, greater incarceration rate, more workplace deaths, treatment in family court system, etc. I think it might work.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/21 03:05 PM
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"You hate women". No, I don't hate women, I just don't trust them, and for good reason.
/r/MGTOW23/07/21 04:50 PM
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It's probably best to try to avoid women, at this point in time. At least until this all get worked out, by civilization collapsing, or whatever. When all it takes is a phone call and a false accusation to ruin a man's life, without evidence or a corroborating witness, as we saw in the Kavanaugh hearings, it's time to start avoiding women, and maybe even stop contributing to society as a whole. Men might be better off letting things deteriorate until common sense is restored. Without men, civili…
/r/MGTOW20/07/21 03:51 PM
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In order to go our own way, we need to understand why we are doing it, how to make sure we stay on path, and make sure we are aware of all the traps so we don't fall victim again.
/r/MGTOW29/06/21 05:26 PM
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When I was still married, when Saturday morning finally came, my wife would ask me "OK, what do you have planned for today?". When I told her what chores or tasks I planned to work on, she would say "OK, well, here's what I need you to do!", and give me a list of stuff she needed done. So now I had two lists of chores - my list and her list. But we're not finished yet - she had her own chore list that included things that she herself could not complete, so I had to help her with her list. Now I …
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/21 12:30 PM
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Wow. I am so sorry that happened to you. It's unbelievable that these kind of people even exist. I know where you are coming from. I got involved with one of those too. Her goal in life was to make other people as miserable as possible. And she was very good at it. Ruining other people gave her pleasure. Sick. Focus on yourself, your mental and physical health. Do what makes you feel better. Spend time in nature. Go to the gym. Train yourself to avoid thinking negative thoughts. Eventually it wi…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 09:05 PM
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This is so true! A person can only handle so much rejection. Unless, of course, they don't care. I think maybe "not caring" whether you succeed or not, while still doing what you need to do to be successful might be a good attitude to take. For me, I didn't get good at approach until I stopped caring. I moved to a different part of the country where people were much friendlier and I started talking to random women - not in a romantic or sexual way, but just to make idle conversation. Chat up the…
/r/seduction10/06/21 04:21 PM
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Similar story here - Girl tricked me into getting her pregnant. She had a choice. I had none. Paid her $1000 a month for 18 years. One month after the daughter graduated high school, she committed suicide because her mother had bullied her so badly. I had been accused by the mother of all kinds of crimes, had the police called to my home several times, by the mother even though I am close to a model citizen. Freakin' nightmare scenario. I can't believe that we are supposed to "believe all women"…
/r/MensRights09/06/21 12:29 PM
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As someone above said, I don't want someone to compete with me. I want someone to complement me. I don't care how much money you make. The more money you make, the more I have to make in order to keep up. I've dated rich women and poor women. Poor women, you end up paying their way, but it's your decision when, where, and how much. With rich women, you have to pay your own way to keep up with someone who likes to spend money like a drunken sailor. Either way, you're paying more than you need to.…
/r/MGTOW203/06/21 11:33 PM
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A potato won't stick you with $1000 a month child support and alimony.
/r/MGTOW17/05/21 01:56 AM
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You are absolutely correct. We men are resources to be exploited and nothing more. I'm retired now and your words are true. I had to learn the hard way over several decades. I try to educate the younger generation myself. Some listen, some don't. For several years, I spent my free time in an unheated corner of the garage. I slept on the couch and got sex 4 times a year. Her body, her choice, don'cha know! It was a prison sentence from which it was near impossible to escape. Ultimately I was fina…
/r/MGTOW214/02/21 11:03 PM
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The biggest mistake of my life was getting married. The second biggest mistake was not getting divorced immediately.
/r/MGTOW206/02/21 02:32 PM
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Sure he did! A billionaire said that! Yea, I like to know who. Focussing on women is the fastest way to go broke that I know of.
/r/MGTOW16/01/21 04:01 PM
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Women are adapted by evolution to challenge weak men or anyone who challenges their authority over weak men. They are only submissive to the most alpha and they feel the need to remove any weak men from the dating pool. Anything that challenges them (other than an alpha) must be portrayed as toxic. It's just an evolutionary adaptation to weed out the weak from the herd. As an aside, as a MGTOW myself, I feel that we DO need a place to discuss how to avoid predatory women. How to spot them, how t…
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 01:46 PM
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In the US, the way the government calculates child support, a woman is way better off having different baby-daddies for each kid. If she is collecting child-support from 4 different baby-daddies, she is probably collecting twice as much money as she would if they were all by the same father. This is an income strategy for lower-skilled women that works very well - at least until the kids start turning 18.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 02:58 PM
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We've got more and more broken people - unemployed, on drugs, overweight, lazy, bad attitude, deep in debt, mental health issues, you name it. Seems like it's really hard to find a woman who actually has her shit together, much harder than it used to be. So yeah, it makes sense that these people are getting dumped. They are a burden and not worth the trouble. Over time, men fall out of love with them, especially if they aren't even trying to fix themselves. And women are becoming more aggressive…
/r/MGTOW222/07/20 01:55 PM
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Love it. Let those bitches see what they can't have. A lot of satisfaction can be found by making yourself the object of their desire, but never giving in. Keep your hard-earned wealth to yourself and those you truly love and who are capable of loving you back.
/r/MGTOW217/07/20 06:13 PM
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Same here. I see a hot woman and I can appreciate her beauty, but a few seconds later I'm like "nope, not going there again". It was absolute hell the first time and I was financially devastated. There is no reward that she could give me that is worth going through all that again.
/r/MGTOW211/07/20 05:33 AM
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There are a few men who have been able to be happy without sex, but those men are not our ancestors. Those men tended not to produce off-spring, and so were out-competed by those who did. Lack of sex produces a general malaise, unhappiness, frustration, anger, resentment among men. And masturbation is a poor substitute. It's like having a piece of bread as compared to a steak dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 11:08 AM
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You nailed it. Well articulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 06:08 PM
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No one is saying they have a RIGHT to sex. But they do have a NEED for it. Not the same thing. The result is likely to be anger, frustration, and men dropping out of being productive members of society because they can't get a basic need met. Not saying it's any particular woman's responsibility. Only that it is a basic need and the effects of it not being met for a significant portion of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 06:04 PM
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"Find an ecosystem where you are competitive" - This. Or more accurately, find an ecosystem where the opposite sex appreciates what you have to offer. Surprisingly, this can mean hanging with others who are like you - NOT where you are the only one of your type. If you are an engineer, you are not going to do well in a farming community - they often don't even know what an engineer is. Look for a partner in a community where engineers are common and where your potential partners are already look…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 02:42 PM
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This is correct. The state gets a 2% cut of all monthly child support paid in my home state. It adds up.
/r/MensRights17/01/20 01:22 PM
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Or alternatively, allow the man to opt-out of parenthood.. Giving all the decision-making power to one party and the responsibility for it to another party makes the system ripe for abuse. If a woman wants a man to share parenthood, it should require his written, notarized consent.
/r/MensRights17/01/20 01:20 PM
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Not true in United States. In the US, the biological father always pays, regardless of whether there was deception surrounding the conception.
/r/MensRights17/01/20 01:12 PM
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Being alone is not nearly as bad as being broke and alone.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/20 01:21 PM
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Amen, brother! The risk to reward ratio is so bad now that it simply doesn't make sense anymore. This doesn't mean you can't meet someone and fall in love. Just don't let them move in with you. Don't give them access to your bank account. Life is better when you have your own place and can walk away from the relationship without getting the courts involved. Women wanted equality. Fine. They need to start pulling their own weight. Pay their own rent. Fix their own car. Mow their own grass. Or at …
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/19 03:03 PM
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Yes, they'll get angry, but no, they won't realize they're full of shit. Their feelings ARE reality for them and they are all that matter. Show her a picture of a crying baby who happens to be crying because of something a woman like her did and maybe she'll change her feelz.
/r/MGTOW25/10/19 11:18 PM
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Why don't we look at it this way? If both men and women each collectively stopped contributing anything towards the other's needs, who would perish first? Hypothetically, assume they each moved to different continents. I'm pretty sure men would survive to old age before their bloodline ended. They might continue by perfecting test-tube incubation. A lot of women would likely die of starvation, and civilization would likely collapse pretty quickly. Without men, civilization would last about as lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:14 PM
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She should have kept it in her pants. It's not an either/or situation. She could use more restraint in her sexual behavior, maybe even save sex for marriage. Then she, and we, wouldn't have all these personal and social problems. What they tell boys/men is that they should have kept it in their pants. The same should apply to women. Equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 10:56 AM
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We would need to dig deeper into why so many women end up raising children alone in order to find the cause. You are assuming that it's because men are abandoning their families. But women initiate 80% of divorces. Also, most of these women were probably never married in the first place. So who's being irresponsible here?
/r/MensRights08/08/19 11:54 AM
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It's hard on a young man's self-esteem to be consistently rejected for sex and relationships, which can lead to self-consciousness, depression, or aggression, depending on personality type. I went through a long period of celibacy in my youth (entirely circumstantial, not any personal failings, really), and it was very hard to get over and it took a long time. The consistent rejection and lack of access led to a cycle of being self-conscious around women, which led to further rejection, and it f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 10:43 AM
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Good point. The argument could be made that equality of choice between the sexes is more important than the actual right to choose. It would stop the abuse of the system, at least. The right to choose is probably not going to be completely taken away from women in a supreme court ruling, though. That genie is out of the bottle and is probably not going back in. Too many women would be up-in-arms. But men could possibly secure a similar right of their own if they play their cards right.
/r/MensRights19/05/19 04:57 PM
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The government gets a 2% cut of every child support payment, I think is what he meant. It adds up quickly when you're talking large numbers of men paying it.
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 12:04 PM
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This exactly. Giving women the right to choose and men the responsibility for it has created a big problem - women getting pregnant on purpose for the $$. It's possible for a woman to live comfortably for 18 years if she can manage to somehow get pregnant by a relatively wealthy man. Happens to professional sports players, celebrities, or anyone with money, really. And once conception occurs, the man has no say in it. And not only that, but he can't speak badly about having been tricked into it …
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 11:33 AM
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In my experience, the judge does not really give you the opportunity to speak. I was allowed to speak one sentence of 8 words before the verdict was rendered and the gavel dropped. For those going into family court, you might only get one chance to speak. Make it count.
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