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I’ll do that. I’ve noticed I cycle between shame and righteousness. Humility is the happy medium I will work on that. I did apologize to her. We’re not getting back together (which is probably best for her at least atm) but she’s helped me get help. It’s clear that the narcissistic and manipulative style tendencies (along with my impulsiveness) stem from my bipolar diagnosis. I’ve learned how to stop the manic and depressive states, but I’ve ultimately ignored the mood swings, anxiety and strong…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 11:04 PM
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I don’t think I was extreme as your ex, but I was definitely the same wave, just lesser amplitude. I found out that tinder was not really the way to go for me personally. I’d rather meet someone in person. But that was just a preference. I know my ex felt the same way you did in the beginning. Acid didn’t help me either. Brought a crazy manic stage down to a 6 month depression. It really changed me and I don’t think in a good way. I was isolated cause covid and it was hard to get my thoughts in …
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 02:28 AM
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I gave it a half decent listen about a year ago. I wasn’t too attentive as I was doing other stuff at the same time. The power of now seemed mostly for the self while that book seemed it was focus externally. I will listen to that again, and much more closely once I finish Hahn’s book Thanks for the help man. Lmk if any ideas pop up in your head. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 08:14 PM
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Hey thank you so much man seriously. It’s really inspiring to see how many strangers will come together to support another on the internet. Definitely a positive of the web. But about what you said about Buddhism. I’m dipping my toes in right now. Am reading a thich nhat Hahn book on understanding the heart of the buddha and it really emphasizes that loving kindness and being conscious of others. I will take your warning seriously as I tend to do that with anything I get into given my type of pe…
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 07:02 PM
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I’m currently seeing a psychiatrist. On meds. But my lithium levels are on the super low end of the threshold. I could def get them bumped up. Will talk to my psychiatrist in may about this and my impulsivity. Thank you
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 06:37 PM
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Wow, I really enjoyed this. And I’m with you I personally don’t like most therapy. It feels too forced coming from the practitioner. I really like your analogy with music. I’ve been a guitarist for 10 years now, and after all the music I’ve been playing, I think jamming is the pinnacle of all of it. And I could go on forever about that, but I’m sure you already understand. Could you explain your second paragraph for more clarity? It clicks for me, but not all the way yet. I resonate with the las…
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 06:36 PM
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I just did. I kind of relate. The impulsivity at random is me. But the strong emotions occur rarely. Thanks for your help though. I will continue to look into this.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 04:22 PM
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These are mostly a yes in terms of my romantic relationships. Not really friends or family.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 04:01 PM
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I really agree with you on those later points about staying mindful. If used meditation lately to really sort out the things that bug me. I should definitely look into this.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 03:03 PM
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Just shit you saw in your old partner that you thought would help him (and me)
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 03:01 PM
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Holy shit. That is fucking me. Besides that I can admit to being a narcissist (am I really though? The other comments seem to just say it’s a guilt thing) The funny thing is that once I found Buddhism, I started to question the things I was doing. Meditation helped me tons. Please tell me anymore insights you have as they would be really helpful to me. Thank you so much! Glad I got a stalker lol.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 01:56 PM
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Tell me a little more what it’s about if you don’t mind,
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 01:52 PM
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Not professionally diagnosed. But am for bipolar. Took an online research test (I know it doesn’t mean much) but I landed in the top 9% of people who took the test seriously. And thank you for your words. They really help me see myself from a different perspective
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 01:51 PM
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Bipolar 1 was diagnosed by a health professional. Narcissism was not. However, it is shown pretty moderately in my actions and my internal narrative. Also took an online test that was used for research (I know it doesn’t mean much officially but still proves a point) I was in the top 91% for it.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 01:46 PM
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First one is done, now on to a nice ass lunch and a walk!
/r/askTRP15/03/21 06:10 PM
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Thank you man. This is really inspiring stuff. I’ll remember that. This is going to be hard for me cause I built her up in my mind (not over the top, but still to a good degree). Do you have any advice on what to do with these feelings I have, and what to do in the future? I understand redpoll basics pretty well, the issue with me is believing them. I was about a third of the way there before that night. Now I’m about halfway there after that bitch slap into reality. And again, thank you!
/r/askTRP15/03/21 06:08 PM
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Broke up with her. She tried to rationalize her actions so hard. She went for a straight minute trying to get to the point but couldn’t. Thank you. I was about to take her up to visit my old college (I transferred). That would’ve been a real shit show.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:18 PM
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Skank overted. Thank you.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:08 PM
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Consider it done
/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:07 PM
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Done. Thanks
/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:07 PM
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Explain what you mean by hamster. I’ve heard it applied to girls, but never to guys. Is that just the way the mind rationalizes things?
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:55 PM
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Concise and to the point. Thank you.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:54 PM
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Thanks for the advice brother I really appreciate it. You’re right on the no respect part. Explain more what you mean by just as bad as her true self. I’m having trouble interpreting, but I think I get your vibe. Thank you
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:53 PM
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Yeah bro, I got an addiction and it’s crippling. What’s the big deal?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/20 12:41 PM
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Dude, this is seriously lame. Can’t believe I wasted my time reading half of that garbage.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/20 01:34 AM
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Thanks for the warning though man! That was needed! I really appreciate that
/r/askTRP14/09/20 11:14 PM
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Yeah just double checked. I’m good for my state. I probably won’t fuck her for a good amount of time even if opportunity arises for personal reasons.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 11:13 PM
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I’m pretty sure laws in Pennsylvania are different (16). But I’ll double check as this is a very serious matter.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 11:10 PM
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Thanks for this. This is an important rule. This is a non important job in my case though. I’ll go down to one day a week at the new year and then leave at the summertime for a paid engineering internship.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 09:23 PM
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Never reveal intentions overtly man. That spoils the mystery
/r/askTRP10/09/20 12:37 PM
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GOMAD gives me a GOSAD. S being shit. Thought that was an interesting fact. Have a good rest of your day brother.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 09:55 PM
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You are the reason. Prove to yourself how much a human can really do.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 02:07 AM
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I didn’t speak accurately. In speaking my mind, I really meant that these guys will be able to point me in the right direction, they won’t give me a map. And I can’t draw my own because I don’t know where the destination is. I’ll only know where it’s at when I’ve arrived by my own means with the help of others.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:58 AM
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I don’t fully agree with that. I am moderately inexperienced. I’m putting more trust in other guys in knowing that they’ll know what is better for me. At the point where I become experienced and highly capable, I don’t think I’ll have to decide what a man is. I’ll know what a man is when I finally arrive.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:52 AM
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Being in my late teens now, I agree with you. There is a stigma of shame around going to a trade school or community college. A lot of kids I’ve noticed are just dumping (their parents) 150k into a four year education for a business major due to the lack of a better idea.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 04:14 PM
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Thanks for the help. I appreciate you taking time out of your day today.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 03:04 PM
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I’m going through the same thing you’re talking about regarding a moral dichotomy for almost a year now. It’s so mentally draining and debating the two sides in my head never seems to stop. I’m no pushover at all, and not a “nice guy” but, I don’t know whether to put morals as the main goal in my life or success. Morals are internal succeess is external and you can’t pick both. Since you went through the same thing, I’d love to hear any advice you’d have for me.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 08:28 PM
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I tried pulling it off, I found the most difficulty was in the fact that religion was moral and RP was amoral. The most RP I could get was to simply be aware of women’s hypergamous tendencies, and not letting people walk all over me. Then logic won me over.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 01:24 PM
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When it comes to interpretation, having a 100% true answer is nearly impossible. Don’t apologize when you don’t have to.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:42 PM
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Who gives a shit?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 04:18 PM
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Very interesting
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 11:16 PM
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Thanks brother I appreciate it. Kick some ass for me.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 03:45 AM
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Somebody listens to Peterson. Once I heard dominance hierarchy my little alarm went off.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:30 PM
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That’s actually dope. I’ll look into that.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 10:46 PM
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It didn’t even take 3 minutes 😉
/r/askTRP02/07/18 09:58 PM
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Reggae is consistently the number one genre no matter the mood.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 09:37 PM
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No hard feelings man. OP admitted it too. Doesn’t mean I’m not going to accept it. Best of luck brother!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 08:15 PM
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It’s more of an isolation thing. It’s hard. You’re basically on the grind and focused 24/7. Improving yourself. Not stopping and enjoying most of the pleasures of life. Finding different ways to improve yourself. It’s less about learning your way around women, and more about essentially increasing your attractiveness, willpower, and manliness. You’re putting your own desires aside for the purpose in the previous sentence.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 01:54 PM
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I never thought of power in the same way as women. That was really enlightening there.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 06:15 PM
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That book is depressing. You realize that everything is not as it seems and it hits you like a truck in the same way TRP hits you when it comes to women.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 02:23 PM
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I have a hard time meditating right after I wake up. I tend to dose off and it ends up being unproductive. I’ve tried less comfortable surfaces. Any tips? Or am I just weak?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 01:42 AM
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Bad: do you want to go out and get drinks on Thursday? Good: Let’s get drinks at blah on Thursday.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 07:32 PM
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I know that feeling you're talking about. I need to find that feeling again and search for my goal/s. Thanks for all of the help man. I believe that "big goal" is the puzzle piece I was missing.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 02:42 PM
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I will do my best to keep that in mind man. Thanks. Any habits you reccomend I start to pick up? rn, I bike everyday (weather permitting), cold shower, nofap, With monkmode I added on meditation for 10 min, making a stricter schedule, waking up earlier, reading more often and working out in my basement 3 times a week. any help would be fantastic man.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 02:58 AM
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I love all your posts! Keep it up man, I ALWAYS learn multiple new things out of them.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:39 PM
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Thanks for your positive feedback man, I appreciate it
/r/askTRP25/11/17 07:14 PM
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There’s a reason I asked the question. I simply just don’t know. If you could help me that would be fantastic. I’d love to hear your opinions
/r/askTRP25/11/17 04:10 PM
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My instinct is fuck that bitch hard
/r/askTRP25/11/17 03:39 PM
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I saw this on there, Before I got through the whole message I was thinking, “there can only be like 10 downvotes” It’s a true shame some men are unwilling to even look at MGTOW/Redpill ideals I used to think you guys were crazy, then I took a closer look. That’s all it took
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 03:37 PM
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It’s not as bad as at seems, interactions between male students usually never involve politics and all that other shit even if there are polar opposite views. But between women and teachers (the small majority). It’s bad. I really only got one or two RP style friends
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 03:37 AM
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High schooler right here about 8 laws in reading the “48 laws of power” how do you apply some of these laws in school? I find it quite challenging to apply 80% of them without facing consequences
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 03:46 AM
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Just read “The Crucible” in my English class taught by a super liberal teacher. Kind of Ironic now that I look at it with this new perspective
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 03:42 AM
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I was really interested in your comment about lifting. Since before I found all the great info on here, I’ve been seriously biking averaging an hour daily with a specific monthly workout routine. Along with that, I do challenging body weight exercises in my basement 3x a week. I shadow box and jumprope daily. The one thing I’ve never done is lift. What’s stopping me are two things 1. Time. With school taking up so much time a day along with work, I have to get up 2 hours before the bus leaves if…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 03:08 PM
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I appreciate it man, this means a lot to me
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 03:13 AM
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I appreciate all the help man, I’ve been on here just under a year. I’ve read the side bar 3 times. I pick more and more up every time, but I still have a lot to learn. I’ve just finished reading the Manson book “how to not give a fuck” I’m looking for more books that have the same purpose, how to be a man. I’m only 17 right now as a heads up. From reading the sidebar, I have a pretty good grasp on women, but since I’m in high school and with all the rape accusations flying around our school, I’…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 02:57 AM
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Could you give a recommendation of your top 5 RP books you’ve read? I’m starting on the 48 laws rn, and it’s very intriguing. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 02:47 AM
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Thanks for the advice, could you elaborate more on 2? I understand most of the RP stuff, I’m just having a hard time figuring out what RP concept you’re pointing out. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 07:09 PM
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This is my favorite one!
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:31 PM
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That’s a great point, there are definitely guys that legitimately aren’t gay purely for the social proof.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:51 AM
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Sounds like somebody’s in a crappy mood today. Hope it gets better :)
/r/askTRP05/11/17 01:36 AM
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You should have said “good thing I’m going out tonight to find a sexy young girl friend for myself.”
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:50 AM
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You have to remember, you can’t speak to women from a logical standpoint, women speaking to women is more persuasive than man speaking to woman. I’m glad this happened though, after this event, I realized how much a woman can fuck your life up. Better learn earlier than later. This really convinced me to never get married. And if I accuse her, it’s only going to create more drama, and the school will have to get involved and you know exactly who the school will be siding with. And quite honestly…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 09:57 PM
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Unfortunately, it’s just as bad for 2000 and after kids. Feminism is a real problem in schools and it creates unfair advantages for women and some feminist men. I’m 17 now, in my high school, men get accused of “rape” a lot. I have my self, it was a far out accusation. Keep in mind, I only kissed this bitch once. Once. Then lost interest. 2 month’s from that point after not talking to her, she sent me a message and asked me “why did you rape me”, I told her “wtf are you talking about” then she w…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 09:10 PM
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Bitch did that to me, then screenshot the message and put it on social media. She thinks she’s some hero standing up for women and against your stereotypical white male.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:24 AM
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Bro, believe me, I wear this gps watch that’s around 200$ that I use for biking and running. At least 1 conversation starts because of it a day. Not only is it worth the investment for the running speed and distance and elevation, but also the conversations
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 08:39 PM
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Bro, all girls are sluts, that is if you let them become sluts.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 06:47 PM
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Let me tell you bro, all girls are sluts
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 08:48 PM
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Totally! Especially that far out west. The closer to Cali the worst. I'm on the complete other side. About a half of the teachers here are hyper-liberal. It's probably 95% out there! Raise some good kids man! Too fucking many are raised by pussies of dads. You're the man!
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 09:55 PM
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The only thing I have ever gained out of school is social skills. Definitely find an alternative sport. A homeschooled neighbor of mine can't even look me in the eye, or finish a sentence without stumbling over his words due to insecurity. Best of luck to you man!
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 04:03 PM
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This would be pass for a great essay in the fucked school system of today... if it weren't for the "crazy" ideas of TRP. Nice work man! I loved it!
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 03:02 AM
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You had to work with trannies? Bless your soul brother! Don't let them cut your dick off!
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 02:35 AM
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Never knew that! Thanks for the knowledge!
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 01:07 AM
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She called you homie. Ouch.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 10:36 PM
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I can barely understand this man, if you were to edit this to make sense, I'm sure I could help your situation
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 07:14 PM
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The only people who have a remote clue of what depression is like are the people going through it and the people who have gone through it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 02:01 AM
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Dude if you want to stay hard try NoFap. It's helped tons of guys including me man. Porn really messed me up
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 01:48 AM
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What the guy before me says is risky and takes a lot of guts and will either make her go crazy for you, or will make her completely lose interest. Don't text her until she texts back. It's a test. Girls love indifference. One way to test if a man is indifferent is to not respond to a text. If he sends a second text later saying hello (this could be days after last text) it kind of turns her off. If you send her "where are you?" It's game over and she finds you too needy and puts you in the zone.…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 08:22 PM
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That's something Dwight would say too
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 01:59 AM
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What ever you do, don't surprise her with a rose. But catch her off guard and take her out she obviously still has interest for you. Ask her out next time SHE calls you up. What she said at the beginning of your post is absolute horse shit.
/r/seduction01/01/17 03:32 PM
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Somebody isn't having a good day today.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 09:18 PM
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Thanks for helping me out man!
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 08:34 PM
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I'm using the Reddit app to look at Reddit, but on my phone I have the Firefox browser installed.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 06:14 PM
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Thank you for helping me out, I appreciate it!
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 04:09 PM
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I'm in a good mood today and I don't need you bringing me down, I just simply don't understand how to access the side bar. I've tried looking up YouTube tutorials and even googled some things! I looked around for a good 10 minutes trying to figure it out on my own. I may sound like a girl, but you sound like a whiny little bitch. I hope you have a much better day tomorrow! I feel bad for people like you!
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:46 PM
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Thanks man this helped me out! This is where I always fucked up on those 3rd grade grammar tests and I never understood why. Now since you showed me the test you can use, I feel like a new man!
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:31 PM
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Thank you for taking time out of your day and explaining what a shit test is to me unlike some of the other people replying on this post! It means a lot!
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:27 PM
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Hey, I'm sorry you're in a bad mood today, I just never knew how to access it. I think a more productive way of solving this problem would be to inform me how to access the side bar. I hope your day brightens up!
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:18 PM
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I'm on mobile, can't access side bar
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 01:53 PM
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What's an example of a shit test?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:40 AM
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Approach man!
/r/seduction26/12/16 02:33 PM
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I'd probably just text her to sharpen your skills. 50km is a long way away. When you text her ask for hobbies or sports she does where she works. If you don't feel any attraction or connection between you two just let her go. There's no need having someone in your life that is of no interest to you
/r/seduction24/12/16 06:17 PM
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Text her within 3-7 days of gettin her number and ask her out!
/r/seduction24/12/16 02:15 PM
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