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Firstly, I know your just giving some anecdotal experience and their is nothing wrong with that, it's just a fact of life that some women prefer one gym over another. But to people reading this, if you're driving 5miles (8km) further just to workout in a gym with more women, there is something seriously wrong with you. The gym is a time to focus on yourself instead of cooing and cawing over women. Your results will be much better if you put in the work of why you're at the gym instead of approac…
/r/seduction24/05/20 12:39 PM
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It's not a hindrance at all. Seriousness can be sexy especially if you know how to use it to your advantage. Think, when you're about to have sex for the first times are you laughing and giggling about random stuff with one another? No, you're both focused, serious and in the moment. No need to change who you are, however, if it's something you identify and want to work on, that's great. But don't change yourself to be someone your not if it's just not you. You may be better suited in meeting pe…
/r/seduction27/03/20 01:59 PM
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Actually, you've hit the nail on the head. I appreciate this comment a lot more than your first.
/r/seduction01/12/19 08:05 PM
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I never said I had a problem with getting laid. I am just struggling with mid-game on cold approaches. Social circle is limiting in that you can only meet the people who show up, and you're not guaranteed to meet solid 8's, 9's or 10+ regularly. So I am speaking from the frame of cold approach. Clearly Reddit is not the place to be asking these questions as a majority of people can't give constructive, precise feedback.
/r/seduction01/12/19 05:32 PM
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I have a huge social circle, I have people asking to hangout all the time with me. I am not specifying about social circle game here either, I don't like to mix relationships within my social circle. If I meet a new girl while out with the social circle or it's her first time joining one of my many groups, I definitely pursue. But I am mainly talking about cold approach here. Like I said, I am a part of many groups and have social circle friends calling me nearly every damn day. Cold approach is…
/r/seduction01/12/19 05:00 PM
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This statement doesn't agree with the above statement. -It's actually the root of my problem. I can communicate with anyone situationally and make it fun, however, I am not connecting with people. I'm good at making people laugh for a few minutes, then I am not progressing the conversation well enough at the moment to the next topic.
/r/seduction01/12/19 02:21 PM
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Good, I knew this was what I needed to hear
/r/seduction10/11/19 03:28 PM
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Yup, you're right
/r/seduction10/11/19 01:57 PM
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If she has some recent pics (or any for that matter) just say she is looking great. I'd keep it vague in the beginning, let her mind wander.
/r/seduction02/06/19 04:37 PM
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Just say hi, keep it low key. Tell her you haven't seen her for a long time. You'll get an idea on how she responds to you. ​ EDIT: somehow imply that you don't run your mouth a lot, you know what discretion is
/r/seduction02/06/19 04:25 PM
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You're speaking from a place of extreme neediness and the way you trash your friends is not cool. A "chode" group...wtf bro. You realize speaking of your friends like this is an extreme knock on yourself. Instead of calling them a "chode" group, realign your Friday night interests with another group of people whom enjoy going out socializing than more of the, I'm guessing, shy/awkward IT folk. Never introduce your friends as chodes, or hell, even think it. It's an awful thing. Congrats on approa…
/r/seduction02/06/19 04:18 PM
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Wow eye contact, pop the champagne lads! Let's get the party started! WOOOOOO ​ next time just say hi man, fuck it
/r/seduction26/05/19 09:25 PM
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The gym and being a pilot doesn't really mean anything. It's great, don't get me wrong. Those achievements are excellent but being strong in the gym and being a pilot doesn't do shit about your inner game or game at all. It's accessories. Of course they seem to be a part of you and who you are as a person but don't define you. You should work on your actual abundance of options of women; approach more, have more girls on the go texting, have more dates. That's the abundance, the rest is fluff
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:09 PM
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Just by her name, nothing else needs to be said.
/r/seduction20/03/19 07:53 PM
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Just say hello? Easy as that man
/r/seduction18/03/19 05:10 PM
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Actually I disagree, the snap is just as good in this context
/r/seduction23/02/19 10:38 AM
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Like others have mentioned, don't treat this as a cold approach as it is not a cold approach. This is much more social circle. Just invite her out to a party, escalate, isolate and close :) ​ Just have fun with her, do not come on and say will you come for dinner or something crazy like that when you are more or less considered social circle comrades (same studies makes you fall into that category.)
/r/seduction21/02/19 06:10 PM
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this x100. why the fuck leave if logisitics are already set up. It's called an insta-date. Don't overthinK
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:16 AM
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lol a number close means fuck all. Set your goal higher man
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:15 AM
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Go to events that are catered to your interests. Language exchanges, travel meet ups, dance classes, comedy nights. Loads of things to do than just go to the pub
/r/seduction12/02/19 07:46 PM
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This poster seems like a bit of a fucktard but his general meaning is correct. You're not showing enough intent. But there is much better ways to do that than saying "big booty hos skinny white hos." As women are not objects like this reject portrays, but the intent must be there for you to personally succeed.
/r/seduction12/02/19 07:43 PM
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Not in the daytime. In the evening you may flirt with the friend, but in the daytime/not a night venue, you must be direct in why you're talking to her. The friend may even vouch hard for you as you are direct in your approach in telling the girl you'd like to get to know her. ​ Just say hi," I really like "xyz" about you, you caught my attention.... where are you going now." ​ xyz might mean her style, her smile, her eyes, her energy. something. Don't flirt with the friend in a situation like t…
/r/seduction12/02/19 07:39 PM
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A lot of your facts are totally wrong though. You're a tourist in these countries without knowing jackshit and spewing bullshit about countries lol. At least make factual comments
/r/seduction08/02/19 10:55 PM
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Amateur hour. You guys are way to gamey. I'd never be spotted with you guys anywhere, a lot of your facts are actually wrong as well. Kiev is unaffected by the war, you're facts are so off it's not even funny and you guys are cringy ​
/r/seduction08/02/19 09:50 PM
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I agree with what the others have posted. We've all been there. It sucks. Just keep her as a dangling carrot, re-engage in a half year. Go meet some new girls then call her again later in the year, re-ignite the spark. But for now, forget her and go have some fun!
/r/seduction08/02/19 09:39 PM
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Stop going to bars or clubs if you're not excited about it. Meet women through active events in the day as you seem to have more fun/energy when in that setting than a night out.
/r/seduction07/02/19 08:08 PM
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People may be disinterested or you may just be completely boring or not with the right energy. To me, based on what you were writing it seemed like you were expecting other people to carry the conversations based on what you were talking about. You must must lead the interaction early on or why the fuck would anyone want to talk to you? To them you just seem like some random talking for the sake of talking.
/r/seduction07/02/19 02:58 PM
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It doesn't do anything, best to leave it in the past
/r/seduction06/02/19 07:29 PM
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Why? Keep her in the past, go find some new women
/r/seduction06/02/19 07:16 PM
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Yup, this guy is exactly right. Tinder/online game is a waste of time. Go be serendipitous in the streets or have some fun in the late evening, forget the bs tinder shit
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:58 PM
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It sounds way too gamey what you are talking about man. The cube and other weird shit like that should never have been popular, even back in the day it was extremely stupid to be using that kind of stuff. ​ I am more of a day-"gamer" myself, I don't like clubs at all. It's really just about opening and moving forward with an interaction, it doesn't have to be some perfect bookstore, not sure what kind of response you're looking for lol.
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:42 PM
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You know the game never changes, it's not just a flip you switch on. It's a part of you forever. ​ Online game is a joke, I never recommend it. As for real social situations, humans haven't evolved that much in 7 years. (slight sarcasm) but it's true, people are people
/r/seduction06/02/19 09:08 AM
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You were definitely not needy. +1 However, you were just the right dick at the right time in my opinion. lol. If you were able to go to a party instead of fucking some random horny girl off tinder, I'd improve the social skills ten fold before getting some horny lay off tinder. ​ And jesus fuck, cover her face.
/r/seduction05/02/19 05:56 PM
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You don't want to have games in an LTR. Of course you don't want to be straight lining, you need some confrontations and be able to speak your mind, but continually playing games is not healthy. You're thinking too much about game man
/r/seduction01/02/19 08:55 AM
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I was being majorly sarcastic. That would have been the worst thing to say
/r/seduction01/02/19 07:35 AM
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I'm scared to say something to offend you, my name's Jake. How about we go on a date to the movies. I really would love to spend time with you. ... ​ Keep the vibe fun, you know what to do :)
/r/seduction01/02/19 06:57 AM
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Dude, are you wanting to date the older sister or the younger one? Then why the fuck do you care about the older sister so much. You're seeking so much approval from her. You have too much invested, you're texting buddies. Cut the contact, try again in a few months when you're not just her texting buddy. You're not being yourself for constantly thinking about her older sister. Your head space is bad. ​ And secondly, " So here we go. In a European Country (My family originally from here but I'm b…
/r/seduction01/02/19 06:51 AM
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Dude.... wtf. Lots of weird stuff happening. You're not calibrated at all. Let's start with the good; you approaching, good job. You can only improve and understand boundaries until you've pushed them. You've clearly pushed them too far but you'll learn by approaching and approaching, repetition is key. It's completely acceptable to push boundaries and expected, in my day I had been slapped plenty of times, but learn the boundaries as fast as you can. Now to the negatives/things to work on; Firs…
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:11 PM
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Do not over text (by that, do not become her texting partner.) Just keep things light and casual, even don't text her for a day or 2, just keep it light and casual, tease her a bit. Do not become her texting partner. ​ I even recommend to just give her a call one of the evenings (tomorrow night or Wednesday) for 10-20 minutes to see how's she doing, it will show you are still into her and ensure you don't become her texting buddy.
/r/seduction28/01/19 09:22 AM
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Next her, too many gorgeous girls out there. Why bother with her, you seem to care too much about it by having posted this. Next her, on to the next girl.
/r/seduction28/01/19 09:19 AM
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If she says she needs more time, I would consciously assume that nothing will work out long term for you two. It's either she's a fuck-yes right now or not at all. I'd keep her in a rotation until you find your suitable partner. ​ Option 2 for sure.
/r/seduction21/01/19 10:46 AM
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Not sure of why all the downvotes, these are actually good if said in the right frame. They are pretty funny and strange and will make both of you laugh, frame provided
/r/seduction17/01/19 09:43 PM
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Just don't call it a date, call it a meetup. Calling something a date puts on exorbitant expectations.
/r/seduction16/01/19 03:17 PM
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100% never call a "date" a date. Just refer to it as a meetup. You're learning buddy, but that is a key fact, never call a get together a date, just call it a "meetup" or happy hour or what have you. Calling it a date puts waaay too much formality or unneeded pressure on her.
/r/seduction16/01/19 03:14 PM
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Who cares if you look like a creep. You have to start somewhere. When I first began approaching years ago I was totally un-calibrated. Nobody really cares, if the interaction goes poorly off the beginning, big deal. You learn something, be concious, think about it, and try again on the next girl. Being social with everyone is going to greatly improve this.
/r/seduction12/01/19 01:42 PM
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