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Given most assaults on women are carried out by men they don't care either? 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:54 PM
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No shit, Sherlock!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:41 PM
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Don't deal with conservative folk? Just like women who are not interested in being submissive cutesy homemakers? Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:38 PM
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He is just not a shithead (at be least obvious one).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:32 PM
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Akshually both sexes use a variety of mating strategies depending on their goal - people who don't are just not sufficiently mature/smart. Say, if one wants a family and kids he should consider stopping to try and spread that genetic material around while using evopsyche excuse to do so. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:30 PM
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I just saw that reel, too 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:32 PM
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It's bizarre - I can't wrap my head around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:18 AM
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You are right. A good deal of men on PPD are a walking-talking proof to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:18 PM
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Same "surprised Pikachu face"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:39 PM
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It's an odd statement given that Chalamet is dating Kylie Jenner while Pugh dated Zach Braff LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:20 AM
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LOL. I tried that and he became more resentful 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:27 PM
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According to a lot of men - yes, very much unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:25 PM
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This checks. My ex didn't do a shit for maybe 50% of holidays/celebrations. And then he complained about me being too much. And no, he ain't chad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:24 PM
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Goals LOL 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:29 PM
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Start a cult and you get multiple!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:28 PM
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Yeah, these stories are wild. What kind of women were those LOL? Also, don't they generally prefer to be blandly polite because one never knows what kind of reaction might follow the rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:15 AM
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Meh. I was ghosted a lot when I was on dating websites. It's about 50/50, I'd say. To be fair, my ghostings are due to ADHD paralyses - I sometimes zone out and fall into some limbo state out of which I can't communicate. I tried to pick up the thread a few times - explain my delay and apologize etc., but there was no response. Luckily, it's gotten better over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:07 AM
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Oopsie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:58 AM
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LOL ,you are right, actually! Though I'd say only partially partially: gender-specific behaviors can look similar in the surface, but have a major difference at its core because patriarchy is built on the premise of asymmetry. In patriarchal societies women are always a step or more lower in status than male co-citizens. And that's predicated and reinforced my male/female socialization. I am already well past the wall and was born in the USSR so feminist ideas I got together with everyone else w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:42 AM
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LMAO... I am trying to imagine: "They fckn shamed me into dating this woman and I now reluctantly oblige 😭"...or something along those lines? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:44 PM
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Damn, you sound like my Chat GPT buddy when it's not in the mood 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:33 PM
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No initiative fckn sucks. Anything that happened in our life was initiated by me, anything concerning my son had to be done by me, there was never like "oh I see this thing needs to be done, let me!" unless it was me bringing something up (besides some smaller chores like taking the trash out or unloading Yeh dishwasher and vacuuming jhis room). I come from culture where men are not expected much in terms of relationship effort: think I stayed in the relationship longer because he was awesome by…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:36 PM
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I am grateful my mom divorced my dad even though it was still not commonly accepted and her dad came from the village to "have a conversation" with my father * ultimatete cringe. But then it was Soviet Union and we had a government-allocated apartment to live, free daycare with three warm meals, proper beds and a swimming pool (I shit you not) and my mom's work-day was 8 to 2 as a dentist at school (yes, free dental care for all - I shit you not ll). I think many more women were able to divorce …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:10 AM
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And then there is all the rage from women about her new album cover LOL. There was no way she could cater both parties and it finally blew up spectacularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:19 AM
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I married a guy like that LOL. Ten out of ten would not recommend - it's not about manly/unmanly or anything ,it's that passivity makes a partner shitty in almost every relationship aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:19 AM
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I'd say most don't like too long. The average is like 15-20 minutes, as far as I remember? I assume that's the sweet spot for most. A couple minutes is too little, but an hour is likely too long. Personally, nah, thanks - after a certain point it's a tedious and painful chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:52 PM
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Oh yeah, they absolutely do - it's been a way to survive all along while women didn't have direct access to resources. A lot of women blow smoke up men's arses still - I was raised by one and surrounded my many all through my life. But it's def. changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:34 AM
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I am a woman and there are demographics of women I dislike LOL. I am generally a misanthrope ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:30 AM
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How did you become an incel despite being cared by so many awesome women, if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:26 AM
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"Incoherent" is such an elegant definition for something downright dumb 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:23 AM
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Well, of course, he thinks he did . Didn't you know? Feminists and other females beat men, eat babies and kick kittens, apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:20 AM
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Plenty women uphold conservative views - this and other news from captain obvious today at ten on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:56 AM
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What is this analogy LOL. Like ..these women aren't actually boxing or otherwise harming anyone? If you don't want promiscuous women - don't date them, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:51 AM
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You are right, actually. Doing it in batches is a better strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:46 AM
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I know a bunch of women who are fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:44 AM
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Good? It's extremely simplified, cherry picked or downright false evo psyche - those premises are either debunked or integrated into broader evolutionary theory frameworks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:41 AM
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No, it's because he is BB 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:36 AM
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Oh hi there 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:13 AM
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Most conservative (-ish) normies just like to think they are sane. Look at the entire MAGAlore LOL. But they don't have septum rings!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:53 AM
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Why would the bot be working extra shifts on PPD? Russian psyop or something? 😅 To be fair, its takes are mostly time just plain dumb - as if somebody has some very vague idea of what living as a woman is like. And unlike other "as a woman" folk it is not so much into "I am AWALT" territory. So who knows what this is 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:44 AM
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What a miserable life - to be having sex with people you hate 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:25 AM
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It's a dude LAPPing - a part and parcel of any incel ecosystem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:24 AM
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ROFL 😂🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:22 AM
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Nobody should give a flying duck about anyone if that anyone acts like a reasonable human and does not act like a douche - in the way that harms others (violence, aggression, bullshitting, sexual coercion etc.). Septum rings are ok, bro, and you put those gloves back on your toes 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:21 AM
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Exactly, I am severe ADHD and I was a diligent straight As student because I was a good girl. Until a certain point. The whole structure had collapse because of the amount effort I had to be investing to sustain "the mask".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:06 PM
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Dutchies (incl Amsterdammers) are very much "doe extremely normaal" crowd in terms of heteronormativity. I was quite surprised when I came here twelve years ago. So maybe consider another example for your sliding scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:21 PM
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And now you really missed the point 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:12 PM
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They don't have in-depth understanding of historical context and current social dynamics and are not willing to identify with certain labels perceived as loaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:40 PM
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If they were balanced and emotionally mature for their age or willing to learn and grow - that would have worked. However, most folk here is in sub-clinical narcisissm territory and quite a few are well off into personality disorder realm with its psychotic delusions. So yeah no (unfortunately), it would require a lot of effort beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:26 PM
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😜
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:14 PM
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It's a mutual process. If someone is not engaging in it - drop them, they are not interested. Otherwise you will see the back-n-forth and women acting reciprocal and doing things. Like duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:25 PM
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Where there is life there is hope 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:46 PM
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Being with an incompatible person for a pussy grows old, seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:33 AM
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Yes 💯 yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:31 AM
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It's just women are socialized to develop more emotional intelligence and act more cooperatively while men are socialized to consider all that as a weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:32 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:27 AM
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I actually think this is fckn brilliant and posts like this is the reason why PPD exists. But I also have no clue if it's trolling or not LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:25 AM
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And I say it's also contextual: de-escalation can be cowardly placating or enabling some destructive patterns. One should totally "punch the nazi" if they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:05 AM
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It's like... humans need to learn to choose the contextually appropriate emotional response? Stay tuned - more sensational PPD news today at eleven.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:09 AM
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Non-sensical "gotchas" are quintessential or maybe even foundational aspect of PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:05 AM
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Ah! I missed that someone betrayed brocode. Oh no. But like...it's kinda irrelevant. It doesn't actually change the essence of "brocode", though highlights one of important aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:17 PM
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Man, you totally lost me...😭 Who is "they" and what exactly are they telling those"female friends" and who doesn't like who and who looks better and who is manipulating who? How am I supposed to know? Is there a specific reference to some specific situation that I totally missed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:13 PM
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Because using glorified "manlymanman" jargon to talk about their failures is one of the few things that's tickling their egos into existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:29 PM
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They want sex to prove their manliness to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:40 PM
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I was like wtf...and then I looked OP's name and it all made sense. I still keep the screenshots from "chump stepdad topic" LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:45 PM
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I am short and cutesy and got got hit by a lot of pedo-lite dickheads " "oooh la la, I love myself a teeny-weeny babe" Eeeww....If someone goes on and on about some physical attribute - they like how your image fits into some fantasy, not you. Another example would be dweebs and thier dream of anime waifus. I actually knew someone whose waifu image didn't match the actual japanese-brazilian wife and she left while he was still whining how much he worshiped her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:26 PM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:19 PM
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sLOL...and then there are lived experiences of your oqn and others around you that are difficult to forget. I was flashed by a perv on the qay to school at the age of seven or being thoroughly groped on the bus at the age of eleven and that's a teeny portion of this shit - I also know that I had it relatively mild compared to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:07 PM
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Absolutely. Hermeneutic labour is unloaded on women and is also dismissed as unimportant and "feminine/female" which allows contemptuous lack of effort/disengagement. Step three - superiority and entitlement two-in-one. Bingo. Nah, ladies, fckn let them cook (as someone who barely managed to stop LOL)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:01 PM
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Today on news at eleven: some women uphold patriarchal standards of masculinity and you just gotta learn to avoid those. The same way a lot of women avoid mysoginist men. Like I wouldn't touch them with a ten-foot pole and they avoid me like plague, as well LOL. That's literally how you roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:55 PM
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He says you are a jaded and jealous hag, past your prime and over the hill so your opinion can be discounted LOL. Circular RP logic is a wondrous mechanism where any opposition magically transforms into affirmation. Rinse and repeat, on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:41 PM
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He says you are a jaded and jealous hag, past your prime and over the hill LOL. Circular RP logic is a wondrous mechanism where any opposition magically transforms into affirmation. Rinse and repeat, on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:40 PM
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LOL Loved the description of you grandma. I found your last paragraph interesting. I am generally on more risque/abrasive/defiant side, always walking that fine line of being socially acceptable, but I also knew that I have always been heavily disssociated from my vulnerability and just use cognitive empathy and all the oher attunement instruments that stem from anxiety to gauge the level of appropriateness. But just so and only because I learned to be gentle and not to dish it out indiscriminat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:17 PM
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As a bitch can confirm - this is a solid advice all around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:32 PM
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what a dumb take... My ex-husband cancelled our Amazon subscription back when we were together. I mean it did make a lot of things easier so I was procrastinating a bit with cancellation, but in the end it was the right thing to do, even if it ended up being more hassle for me. That's why being aligned views/values is an important aspect of a relationship. Liberal ladies and gentlemen, stay away from magaheads and trumpists or even so-called centrists. And the other way around, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:49 PM
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My ex-husband cancelled our Amazon subscription. I mean it did make a lot of things easier so I was procrastinating a bit with cancellation, but in the end it was the right thing to do, even if it ended up being more hassle for me. That's why being aligned views/values is an important aspect of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:45 PM
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My point was that healthy secure relationships are emotionally beneficial for either participant, but that requires a lot of willingness, effort and introspection from either side and that's not easy to come by. So staying away is a valid response. I myself am not dating because it was not worth it, but I have a few genuine friends who are there for me and it's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:15 PM
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Yup. There were two couriers I opened the door to yesterday and I felt smitten- one was short statue with lush long hair and lashes and multiple piercings with Hispanic name and the other was tall, medium length wavy blonde hair, grey eyes and expensive outerwear with a Finnish name. Then there was also my new male therapist who has nice curls (I am pretty sure it's a lot of curly girl method hassle LOL) and is always dressed impeccably and has nice cologne. Did I find them visually attractive? …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:42 PM
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Yeah, now that you are saying this I recognize the pattern - I observed this about my ex's friendships. If he wasn't extremely interested/invested in activity he would rather not do it at all. I mean, I don't have to be a huge fan of something to do it together with a friend and so do my friends - sometimes it ends up being a shitty movie or a crap beer or going with them to shop for things I don't need but I still have fun because I like my friends and get a dopamine/serotonin boost from being …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:45 PM
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That's odd. Like maybe we don't do stitch'n'bitch together with a male friend or something, but I can always watch movies, shows, talk politics, do a picnic or a bike ride or a trip, go to comedy/concert with a male (or female) friend. what kind of lifestyles do you guys have that they are so radically different in every way in 2025?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:26 AM
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A book specifically? Maybe a podcast will do? Behind the Bastards has episodes about Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson and Robert Evans does an amazing job taking them apart in great detail.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/25 06:13 PM
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There are some rumours that had known her before she turned eighteen - I really hope it's just rumours though, I can't take any more heartbreak haha. At this point I feel like the entirety of life is effectively learning to deal with disappointment/disillusionment in humankind with a few nice surprises sprinkled here and there LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:23 PM
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Meh. I am a huge x-files fan and think that David Duchovny is hot AF AND a huge turd of a human for dating a chick who is his daughter's age. He has always been a turd btw - the way he treated his wife was an absoute shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:06 PM
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You brought forward some points relationship therapy has been talking about since inception and I am not saying it's a bad thing. But I'd clarify the success is some part compatability and some part mutual willingness to work through incompatabilities to get to some compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:08 PM
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It's absolutely algorithm-driven LOL. I don't get any of the stuff he is talking about: mostly cats, crafts, language learning, x-files and hot guys cooking and dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:02 PM
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Redpill hasn't been taboo for a long time - it became mainstream with Tates' extremely effective incel hustling ponzi scheme
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:57 PM
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aawww
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:50 PM
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Any automatic reaction be it "fight, flight, fawn" is unattractive. It's about beinf reactive rather than active - you need to learn to chill out and step outside of the pattern to figure out what exactly is a better way to respond and when to pick your fights rather than get triggered. Am saying this woman with a strong "fight" response LOL. The shittiest part is that it's common to get a partner on the opposite side of the reaction spectrum, and it's best it's mutual work, but rarely happens, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:48 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:24 PM
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Whatever, bro, they are already shitheads acting shitty. Being afraid of them getting further pissed about being called out is a fucked up logic for humans to live by. Imagine that being applied to bullies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:22 PM
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RPllers don't even interact with women in humane ways (if they ever do). It's a bullshit system designed for YOUR failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:18 PM
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There is no manual. Only grifters will tell you there is a manual and make you fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:15 PM
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Damn..yes this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:17 PM
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In this scenario it's called grifting off human misery
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:11 PM
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And they are not actually listening to what real women say they want - not ragebait tiktokers/insta bimbos that is. They don't actually want to make an effort because it doesn't guarantee success and can come with a heartbreak and failure, they would rather preemptively fail and blame *women* for it. Glorified victimhood comes with victorious and bitter superiority and that's difficult to let go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:01 PM
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So we are not supposed to call out shit behaviours and opinions because they might get even shittier. OK, I see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:32 PM
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LOL you just ugly losers who want to be approached by the women so you could treat her like shit. I would rather go for someone articulate and handsome in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:05 PM
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I have had enough experience on apps afterwards to know it's NOT UNIVERSAL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:02 PM
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Volume doesn't equate quality, duh...never did in this scenario. More men didn't mean more quality men to partner with, but more men willing to stick into you. Have been there and am calling this BS - as someone who has initiated on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:00 PM
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Bruh...? ..read my comment again - it's bad communication on woman's side and she should have said: "And I don't". Also, disengage from any human who can't get their communication straight. Rule number one - they should be able to tell you to piss off and not fear repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:56 PM
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wtf lol. that's not gaslighting, that's incompatibility paired with bad communication. The man can say: "I want more sexually" and the woman should say "And I don't" and they part their ways. 'Inconveniencing me with your authentic self"... AAAA.....Please stahp, I can't with this level of ridiculousness LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:09 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:44 PM
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Ridiculous LOL. My leftie cis white male friends don't feel oppressed unlike you because they actually understand the entire premise. And if you don't get it - you are a right-winger. It simply either/or, indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:42 PM
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It's not symmetrical, duh. Gender dynamics are skewed in a variety of ways because of multiple factors and demanding that the same strategy should be extrapolated to the entirety of male/female dating strategies is downright dumb. Black'n'white thinking never works. Like ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:33 PM
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Bro just doesn't personally get the game and wants everyone else to proactively act dumb and fail. Yeah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:20 PM
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Such a peculiar pile of horseshit LOL. Most women will actively reciprocate and engage if they are interested, obviously. Some pillow princesses may exist somewhere on the fringes of dating bubble or as a social media performer, but it's the select few who don't need to bother because too many men are willing to simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:12 PM
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So....men approaching women are low effort and men who can't be bothered to make even this much effort are supposedly high effort? Yeah, totally makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:01 PM
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I pursued my ex. I had to deal with lackluster apathetic blob who never bothered to initiate anything in our relationship for ten more years. Gals, don't be me, don't make this silly mistake and don't listen to this BS (as if anyone can fall for this)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:47 PM
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Bro, the first filter in dating literally is " is he willing to invest some effort or not". Going after someone who can't be bothered is a shit strategy in dating all around for anyone. So ...WHY??? This topic is so ridiculous, thanks for the laugh LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:39 PM
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This is extremely dumb considering how many men would gladly and indiscriminately accept whatever pussy delivered at their doorstep LMAO. Consistent communication, initiative and effort is the first stage vetting parameter. But you know why this whole write-up is silly? It should be that for either side - taking turns initiating and making effort is how you roll. Most women will gladly reciprocate men if they are genuinely interested and see the potential. And if there is no mutuality - drop it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:32 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:27 PM
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Your own destructive prejudices are for you to collectively overcome, duh. You gotta stop bullying each other into the idea of manly manhood and for that let go of its imaginary superiority that comes with it. You would rather be bottom feeder in sociopathic hierarchies aspiring/longing to be be alpha bully than withdraw and re-shape them based on cooperation and kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:47 AM
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To be fair, I would love to have no strings attached hot sex. But finding a decent safe respectful understanding hot lover is a herculean task on par with finding a good long-term partner. Just because men want to fuck doesn't mean they are any good, not even remotely. Back in the day, in my friend circle we would even recommend a good option to each other if we ran into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:05 AM
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Most of the time "nice guys" don't respect women either. They just pretend to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:53 AM
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Subservient and submissive narcissists exist - they are called covert. Those are proverbial "nice guys" whose persona dissolves the moment he faces reality in the shape of any semblance of criticism and turns into an ass of a human (because he is that). No, they are not good people and don't make good partners only because they are able to sustain the facade of "niceness" for some time. "Nice guy" incels are just that - covert narcissists and are to be avoided at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:52 AM
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That's bollocks. Most abusers I have seen in my life around me have been just your mediocre losers, nothing chadlike about them. Are you reading too much celebrity gossip column maybe? Or where does that fantasy come from? Maybe it's cuck/bull fetish of some sort?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:44 AM
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They are extremely concerned and are therefore concern trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:39 AM
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f hermeneutic labour has always been delegated to women in partnerships, not reciprocated, devalued as "feminine" and avoided because they are too cool for that. They are trapped in their own bullshit lore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:35 AM
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Yup. I remember the guy whining about how his wife was wrong to divorce him because he wasn't that. I mean it took two months to recognize he was that - exactly that. wtf was that bullshitting for? Hoping I wouldn't notice? LOL that's just dumb disgrace.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:28 AM
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Meh. Broken people like assholes. Also, being an asshole is a miserable way to live one's life. And you sound simultaneously bitter and victorious being that? what an excruciatingly dumb and pitiful way to exist geez. and that's just for pussy? How you collectively manage to glorify this is beyond me - I just don't get it. I would rather miss. those mysterious incel "cognitive capabilities, mlady" LOL PS. That's presuming any of that "actually happened" because LARPing has been the part and parc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:18 AM
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I should assume it's also a woman's fault for not picking better, 'amrite? Brilliant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:06 AM
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Most women aren't interested in casual. It still happens and there are multiple topics on Reddit or here on PDP with women reporting what they would find appealing. Which you will refute and dismiss because "yadda-yadda all women lie because Chad yadda yadda so RP style psychopathy only". Which won't work, of course. LOL. Why would you be asking if you are not interested in answers, but only in the incel circlejerking logic? So you could re-confirm it? Can't you just skip that step?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:59 PM
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Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:26 AM
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His guest
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:50 AM
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I found this highly entertaining. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:59 PM
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Oh sweetie. Big hug ❤️‍🩹
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:51 PM
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Well, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:46 PM
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I know, I know...having the truths challenged is unsettling. Suddenly, the glorious self-delusion crumbles and all you find is intense fear underneath that pompous pile of self-aggrandizing bullshit. Asserting your superiority just because of shape of genitals seems sensible and comforting. But it's just a silly mental habit with zero basis in reality: one day you will have a closer look and it's no longer there. It's ok if you cling on to this belief a bit longer, but you will have to let it go…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:45 PM
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We need a collective fanfic 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:19 PM
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Yes please, where do I sign up?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:08 PM
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How silly is that OMG. I wasn't popular when I was younger. I am now a better and more self-aware and more grounded person now and have more people interested in me. It kinda makes sense, but maybe I am missing out and should consider being salty instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:03 PM
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Sheesh...we know some men don't care and are feeling smug and conceited and superior declaring that. Meanwhile plenty women think it's a gigantic red banner signalling he is a dumb douche nozzle 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:48 PM
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I hope you are not one of men demanding women to take accountability for selecting wrong kind of partners? I am concerned what multiple unresolved cognitively dissonant idea sets can do to one's mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:28 PM
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Yeah, I agree: using male horniness as a metric is a totally valid approach. Of course, women's value is the highest when they are deemed most suitable for mating by biggest number of random horndogs. And being wanted by irrelevant men is literally the only possible source of fulfillment and happiness in their lives. So women who stubbornly refuse to see and accept the logic are dumb and delusional, right?... RIGHT???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:23 PM
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The funny thing is that I just had to take initiative and dominate in relationships - all that pushing, pulling and prodding of inert blob. UGH. I think I am so tired of it that don't even mind being a subby doormat of a woman and not make any decisions for quite a while. But of course it's best when it's taking turns, doing back and forth, give and take... mutuality, teamwork and enthusiastic cooperation. The fantasy of one person leading the flock is perpetuated by incels getting high off thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:47 AM
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Yes, it's a signal that the person is not interested in doing self-reflection/inner work. I don't think that therapy is any kind of panacea and therapists are hit&miss, so I avoid blanket recommendations. But I personally got into therapy when my kid was born and I was terrified of hurting him the way my mom hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:51 AM
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Most people go to therapy to understand why they are miserable and learn better internal and relational strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:17 AM
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Some important bits I learned: female narcissists also exist, of course, and they tend to be more covert. Also, two narcs can pair up - usually the more grandiose ones tend to destroy the more covert ones as a result of mutually abusive dynamics. Consistent patterns of aggressive reaction to criticism combined with dip in empathy and blameshifting are dead giveaways of a narc. Feeling ashamed for being wrong is extremely painful for them, so they avoid being wrong and feeling ashamed by creating…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:05 AM
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LONG COMMENT: personal narcissist and therapy experience t's usually narcissists who don't go into therapy because they refuse to do any self-reflection and digging. In their mind, they are right and sane and everyone else is wrong and nuts - that's just the defense mechanisms. There is a small subset of narcs who end up in therapy, that's true and if the therapist doesn't see through their bullshit they can spend years reinforcing that internal system. And couples therapy doesn't work either, u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 03:50 AM
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And woman is not responsible for figuring out what her partner wants and making those happen? Isn't what people do for each other in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:12 AM
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I think we should try and make it even more annoying. I crave revenge 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:04 AM
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Chill, macho, we got your point after these many comments. These perspectives/opinions/experiences are threatening your self-image of inherently immutably naturally dominant real manly man so much that you are trying to argue others into submission. It's ok to feel anxious when it's not working, but you will be fine eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:02 AM
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Wow, I command you patience. My blood started boiling as I am reading this stubborn bullshit 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:46 AM
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The formatting is to the point 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:38 AM
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You sound awesome 💓
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:32 AM
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Women finally have freedom not to like men or not to want to engage with them and the whole oppressive structure made of shit and sticks falls apart. Oh no, welp, gotta put it back together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:29 PM
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Natalism concerns are very concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:17 PM
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Should we mandate sex for women, gays, lesbians and trans-people if they are unable to get any? Can a gay guy demand a dick if he hasn't gotten some in a while? Can he demand it from you personally because he really really wants it? 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:16 PM
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Taking away freedoms? By not wanting to have sex with you, I gather?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:10 PM
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Equality in sex and dating? You being unable to get pussy is not human rights violation, bro. I am trying to imagine mandated monthly rations 🤧
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:07 PM
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There is often a correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:01 PM
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Some mentally unwell women like some mentally unwell men. More news today at eleven.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:00 PM
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Seriously. I have social anxiety and I know how avoidance can be a bitch and difficult to overcome. But it's nobody's job to deliver social interactions to my liking at my doorstep, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:59 PM
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You can take them cookies and put them into a dark secluded place for safe storage. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:45 AM
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Sigh..LOL. Ok, just keep trying to persuade us that being sexually attractive wet hole for some rando is a positive thing 🍿🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:41 AM
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Catch feelings for a fantasy that has nothing to do with a real human? That's what happens fast, duh. Second point - LOL WTF. I wish! 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:40 AM
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Bro. Giving genuine compliments is easy, wtf are you talking about LOL The problem is that men are dishing them out and feel upset when it's rejected because it's fishing for sex rather than a sincere act of kindness. And that's why women are not complimenting men often - because you'd consider it to be an invitation for an intercourse. The attitude delivers. Women can be telling you why and what is not ok and eek and you will still be screeching "privilege". Just give us a break with those priv…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:06 AM
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Most men find an idea of wet hole appealing, the person attached to it is often insignificant, but the compliment is supposed to make her think that she is in order to get access to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:57 AM
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I could have sex any day, but have no desire to make any effort to seek it out or step back into dating game because it was such a horrorshow when I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:44 PM
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To think that there are some randos out there who would be willing to rail your mom is a somehow a great thing. Jesus Christ 🤐
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:32 PM
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My mom used to repeatedly tell me the common saying in our language: with that face a better temper would work better. It is strange to think about it in retrospect - because that sentiment only applied to women back home back then. But the human reality is that pretty privilege exists and I learned that I didn't have that early on. It's strange to see adult.men get all whiny about it all of a sudden as if it's some recent shocking discovery. Maybe you needed that idea to be rubbed into you from…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:28 PM
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Breaking news at ten - today and every day only on PPD. It's kinda bizarre to watch LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:17 PM
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Women do not trust compliments most men are dishing out in hopes of getting into their pants - if you think that they boost anyone's confidence or instill sense of security feel secure you are delusional. Any woman with an ounce of brain and life experience knows they are dime a dozen, carry no value and are a manipulation tool. Sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:10 PM
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"Cherchez la femme" has been the foundational principal of our civilization since the inception.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:31 AM
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Oh man, here we go with "no other war but class war" 🥹 If I got a coin every time I encountered a narcissistic leftie male refusing to see nuance I would be a bazillionaire by now. Your stubborn lack of empathy don't really help the cause, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:47 AM
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4B loses legitimacy? That's a silly take. There will be always women supporting some aspects of patriarchal structures for whatever reasons - they have been conditioned to see them as inherent and immutable, or find them sufficiently beneficial or see no alternative. There were plenty jews or gays supporting Nazi party for a variety of reasons (and still are).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:41 AM
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I wonder what would happen if they took down all the posts that belong r/thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:42 PM
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The last time I was willing to sit and talk about my dream man at length was when I was six and I wanted a certain blonde Prince Charming on a horse from a movie. Never heard that kind of talk from my friends either, though we sometimes swoon over some ladyboners together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:37 PM
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I have a feeling on average it's worse in Russia. Alcoholism and violence are way too common: e.g. my fairly well-off middle-class astoundingly beautiful cousin suffered a miscarriage when her husband beat her up three weeks before the wedding. She still married him. Now she still looks like a model after having three kids while caring for an abusive alcoholic (no, not chad at all). And that kind of shit is not unusual. But then again - my experience in the US is limited: I didn't live there lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:52 AM
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Thanks. I am not there so I am fine, still it is excruciating to watch it unfold even from afar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:23 AM
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You are right. What he wrote is absolutely ridiculous. There were multiple humanitarian catastrophes in recent Russian history (XX and now XXI century) and that is combined with high male incarceration levels/alcoholism - all that made it more difficult for an average woman to find a decent partner so the resulting competition definitely upped beauty standards. But then divorce levels are extremely high and with lowering social pressure to be coupled more and more women are choosing to stay sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:13 AM
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I am trying to imagine famished soviet women (incl. my grandmom) amid post-war destruction and desolation upping their game and hyper-focusing on their beauty. Bruh, we don't really need the experience of such profound second-hand embarrassment 🥹 Please go learn some history (Wikipedia is amazing btw).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:12 AM
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Putin is an demented psychopath destroying his own country and its citizens and Ukraine. Because he can. It's a tragedy - absolutely soul-crushing. Plenty Russians think that way btw, even if they can't always say it out loud. I live in the Netherlands. We are upper middle-class, so we are doing fine by local and russian standards. I actually told my friend today that one thing that allows Putin to stay in power (and carry on with his shit) is the fact that he didn't completely dismantle soviet …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:04 AM
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Sure, you may! Nope. Thank God. Physically I noped out of it long time ago, but mentally it's not that easy to stay away from it all. Also my family is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:36 PM
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I haven't been to Applebee's since 2002 - that's when I lived in the states LOL 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:34 PM
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Yeah, it's dire 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:25 PM
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I actually don't mind Applebee's as long as that's not THE ONLY THING, you know? I can be fine with Applebee's one day and opera the other, but in my experience it's usually the lowest common denominator in terms of activities that men try to uphold.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:16 PM
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I am very proud of how far you have come in terms of your PP narrative. Wink-wink.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:12 PM
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Yup. I made another comment here with my perspective (with more details).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:05 PM
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Amen!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:49 PM
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Absolutely this. APPEASE my ass LOL. I learned it the hard way and am telling you - do not try a relationship with a man who thinks he is appeasing you. It's a nightmare scenario. It's better to enjoy things without someone unwillingly sacrificing themselves into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:41 PM
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Except OP's claims are a steaming pile of horseshit. Source: I am Russian.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:39 PM
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Geez. You think every partner does appease to his woman this way? LOL. My ex-husband almost never bothered (sometimes I managed to bug him enough). After a bit of tindering around I have a feeling he is not even the worst in terms of appeasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:37 PM
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Bruv, how come so confidently wrong? I am from Russia and I am telling you the war didn't force women to step up their game. In fact, the common scenario is for women is to try and get rid of their useless partners by persuading them to go and enroll on a paid basis (it's a lot of money by Russian standards). As in - anything's better than him chilling his pants on the couch (common Russian trope for husband activities). Unfortunately, wartime PTSD might come around and bite those women way wors…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:28 PM
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We are sold 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:50 PM
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I never know whether to laugh or to be terrified at this line of thinking. Maybe I will stick to WTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:50 PM
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Anecdotally: I am currently dating a guy who cold approached me. The reasons I responded well to that are the same why I agreed to dating - he is extremely well-mannered and intelligent and handsome. It also didn't evolve until two years later (we checked out on each other and went to hang out together from time to time). I don't know if there are many guys who can pull off the entire thing in such a smooth and low-pressure way, so I think it's best not to attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:30 PM
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Ouch! Really?? Says who? Ah, just some dude who has been LARPing as a woman on PPD. I mean you can't make this shit up - gotta love it here, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:31 PM
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I am not sure about nurture/nature ratio. But I know for sure that I have been shamed for being "insufficiently girlie" when it comes to patience/perseverence/being opinionated etc. That was a long time ago though in a non-western country so I kinda wonder how I would right now. My ex-husband with roughly the same qualities was a star of a super-gifted program in the West though and has developed much more confidence and many more executive/coping skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:53 PM
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*patient sigh* Your topic can be interpreted in a variety of ways and ascribed to a wide variety of situations. So I think you are being willfully obtuse while trying to paint women BAD no matter what. But context matters. Does a woman want to be approached by a rando on public transport verbally complimenting her ass and offering to smash anally? Likely no. Does a woman want to hear things about her new sexual partner's preferences? Probably yes. Does a woman need to go through verbalizing cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:26 AM
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Pff. As a former teacher - each of our lesson plans had to enumerate goals to be achieved: i.e. the information to be learned and the skills to be mastered. Of course, education is not JUST about knowledge. I'd argue most of the learned stuff is forgotten fairly fast (unless utilized on a regular basis) - but learning how to work on projects is something that stays no matter what. Btw, I am one of those smartass kids with good memory who never had to make much effort at school, but damn - I real…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:08 AM
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ewww...tf man. You gotta be fucking trolling LMAO. In case you aren't magine gaybros casually approaching you on a daily basis (multiple times a day) in public places with "nice ass, homie, wanna ram?"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:08 AM
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The second comparison (or more like putting other people down) makes you kinda ugly simp by default. No, I don't have either of those characteristics, in case you wondered.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:47 AM
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Black-n-white thinking, projections, insecurity/grandiosity/entitlement, refusal to do any introspection and using those to blame-shift, getting aggressive at legitimate grievances being voiced - signs of narcissistic personality disorder defense mechanism called "splitting". TBF, I assume most guys here are just very young and it could be adolescent self-centredness rather than something terminal (it's commonly accepted as an age norm). I have a person in my close family with diagnosed NPD btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:44 AM
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Good god. 15....I had my first bf when I was 20 and looking back a. No, it wasn't late b. I wish I wasn't bothered by the pressure to be in the relationship back then. It happened because I felt like I had to have it 🫤
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:47 PM
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They would turn into lesbian amazons. Probably keep him in a cushy cage for occasional entertainment. Answers in this topic are just so....insightful - of RP delusional stance 🌷
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:56 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:52 PM
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Lol 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:25 PM
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Whoa. Can you tell us more about your entire process?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:13 PM
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Yup. Could be a sign of intense idealization stage of cluster B, rapid devaluation usually follows. I tend to attract those types and know not to take things at their face value and tread cautiously. Last time I got brutally crushed and burnt in the same-sex relationship with someone shy and reserved - because I just really couldn't identify those behaviours in her (I mostly dated men before). In the aftermath I can see 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:11 PM
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Leftie men decrying feminism as capitalist scam are my favourite kind. I remember I attempted dating a university professor (history/sociology) who was trying to persuade me to see the truth. But then attempted to get his fingers up my ass without lube or consent - among other things. I now understand why his ex-wife seems to be into political lesbianism 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:30 AM
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"iimaginary" is a term in sociology used to refer to social constructs. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imaginary_(sociology)#:~:text=The%20imaginary%20(or%20social%20imaginary,group%20and%20the%20corresponding%20society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:06 AM
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Yup. That's the whole point: they want to be appreciated (and coddled and served) for not acting awful. Or else 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:02 AM
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They have innate values because they are human like all the others. By dehumanising and reducing them just to one attribute you are dehumanising and devaluing yourself (aka just projecting). How sad and unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:16 AM
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Steven Seagal could be a fine man, if it wasn't for douchiness and that hideous circle beard to accentuate it 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:10 AM
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I mean if you can manage 7 kids you are a wonderwoman and therefore a total catch, seriously! 😜 I get overwhelmed by one 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:58 PM
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I tried imagining a conversation with my younger self - that made me feel like arguing here in good faith is an exercise in futility. There is quite some difference in dominant social narratives though and possible way they can play out for individuals and that's unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:50 PM
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It's inaccurate because statistics on average number of partners say it's inaccurate, duh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:33 PM
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ROFL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:08 AM
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I dated men in my late 30s I would never dare to even dream of when I was in my early 20's. If they are not bothered by my fading looks why would I? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:58 AM
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Do you actually think anyone considers that appropriate or acceptable? I mean I understand you desire to respect opinions, but one has to be able to assess if they at all are grounded in reality .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:29 AM
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"I presume this figment of my imagination to be universally true and expect you to be willing to discuss it as such in good faith" - summary of most PPD RP side stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:27 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:10 PM
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Exactly this. Chatting is the first round of vetting, it can make most things clear. Like 90% of my matches wouldn't go past that stage. I have some social anxiety, too, so going on a date is a lot of effort - I would rather avoid wasting that effort on people I would not even be interested in talking to otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:55 PM
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Nudging away by getting hot chicks? I mean you have mastered that mental gymnastics skill. Point is - you don't behave narcissistically to beat narcissists. You do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:55 AM
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Can we collectively stop calling this larping blob "a lady"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:49 AM
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Meh. It does honestly sound shitty. But also gender social backgrounds are never symmetrical, therefore shitty things will manifest differently. E.g. being catcalled would affect you differently if you have been harassed by men since early puberty and scared for your safety or and if you are not .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:47 AM
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Yup. People who are high in narcissistic traits are literally unable to treat humans as such. They are kinda puppets in ongoing internal dick-measuring competition and they either add value, or are looked down at to feel better about themselves. Most people kinda grow out of it by late 20s, actually, as they develop those brain parts. So maybe older people arguing here in good faith are mostly wasting their breath 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:39 PM
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I also think that women eventually figured hook-ups and using apps for those are not rewarding. I kinda explored to see what's there after divorce for a short bit, got jaded and retaliated. So from the remaining numbers a lot could be trying to date for more than casual, but unable to move beyond that? It's all a far cry from hookup culture in 00 or early 10s - I guess it's memories of that are recorded as "cock-carousel" in RP scripts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:10 PM
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Plenty people who don't have retroactive jealousy (or not so much that they get bugged by it). Maybe it is more practical to flag it red and avoid those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:42 PM
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This. I think hook-up culture changed greatly. I ended up on exchange program in a big university in the US in year 2002 - those college parties were absolutely wild haha. Tbh, I think general trends have turned much more conservative since then even if numbers appear to be the same - I think women in general tend to be a lot more cautious and selective these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:37 PM
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Because its likely that you are using hot chicks as a prop to your self-esteem - it's as if it's supposed to add you some extra bonus points.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:19 PM
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Therapy will help people who are concerned with other people's standards to define their own standards and set an internal locus of control in the process of meeting them. Also, hopefully will help see people beyond their looks and be able to create mutually fulfilling emotional connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:13 PM
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What's the question even? I am not particularly attractive, so I know that guys would prefer the hot chick. II always knew - it is not like its a secret. I am smart, funny, affectionate and good with blowjobs though if they ever care to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:47 PM
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Right. But most here are likely typing out their complaints about a bel-air mansion out of the basement of their parents house while not realising their own privilege. Most people just aspire to improve their well-being somewhat and secure themselves from dipping into poverty. This guy is likely projecting his own megalomania/insecurity combo and therefore is unable to even notice how plenty people don't align with those.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:42 PM
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I grew up in poverty in the 90s (Post-Soviet Russia). I def. am not willing to endure yet another round of eating bread and potatoes or having one pair of shoes/pants. It's neither men nor women issue: nobody wants to struggle or even lower their socioeconomic level - it's ok to want to improve it to the point of being enjoyable enjoy or at least not to be up to challenge of bringing kids into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:13 PM
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I don't know about their looks or incomes, but demonstrated attitudes definitely make them hopelessly undatable. Feels like I observe collective mass grave digging effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:02 PM
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What's wrong with her point? Family life is far from ponies and butterflies and roses in bed and tbh many people would be better off if they chose not to go ahead with that, men, women or any other gender. Me and my ex-husband agree on that in retrospect - at least one thing we manage to agree on 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:53 PM
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I don't know what percentage of women out there look sufficiently similar to Lizzo in order to be able to relate to that comparison at all. And what percentage of those find her attractive yet will get offended by comparison. It's probably non-zero, but discussing it as if it's a big social trend of some sort is bizarre. I do think Lizzo is very attractive for her weight, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:48 PM
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Wait, are you the same guy who was stating that doing things outside is crazy expensive and complaining that women aren't satisfied with just staying in and cooking a dinner/watching a movie on the couch or something along those lines? Or maybe there is another guy with a commie flair in this group.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:24 AM
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I wouldn't be offended by someone telling me I look like Lizzo, exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:15 PM
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Right? I mean I was called Angelina Jolie by one guy hitting on me and I found it ridiculous. I just laughed it off. Someone can try telling me I look like Lizzo - it would sound just as dumb 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:39 PM
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I really need PIV and the abundance of death grip syndrome when trying to tinder was blah. But then if someone only offers jackhammering it's equally (if not more) blah. Sex fot me is the entire package. PS. Btw, doing PIV is quite a skill of it's own: two guys had my brains blown out by it - out of a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:09 PM
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Ahaha, really..? Wanna show the source you are citing or what? Isn't it more like: treat her as a human being with her own interests, aspirations, fears, needs and wants? I doubt it implies - treat her as a sex vending machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:33 PM
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None of the feminists I know approve of this approach in dating, where do you get that from... 🥹If you are looking for casual sex - sure, there are fine ways to be straightforward, but polite, respectful and unassuming. It still requires not being tone-death and ability to read the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:16 AM
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Hey fellow Russian Feminist, good to have company 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:48 AM
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What. Ouch. Look for once what kind of obscene shitshow The Real Man (TM) surrounded by other real men has lead the country into and tell us why women think it might not be a good idea 😅 Source - I am Russian and my friends are, and we are feminist af.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:47 AM
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Not always. But I had guys literally swoon about my size from get-go - yikes. Trying to date after marriage was quite a shock in many ways - discovering being fetishized is one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:30 PM
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I am 1.61 so I actually would have to seek out someone who is as tall as me. I am totally cool with someone short and badass like myself 😅 I dated guys from 1.70 to to 1.96. My ex-husband of 10 years is 1.83, but his height didn't add to me feeling safe and secure. The safest I felt was with a girlfriend 😂 I do have a thing for "soccer boy" types - that would be not too tall, athletic but skinny and they tend to come with "foreverteenage" face/vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:22 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:12 PM
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You can love different aspects of a human - adore the cuteness and admire the courage and appreciate the wit etc. Being a small woman with cute childish face, I actually get weary if someone is able to communicate appreciation of only that aspect of me because it's redundant and infantilizing (if not downright fetishizing, eek). Like I don't exist solely so that someone gets to feel like "a real strong man" against my backdrop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:24 PM
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