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Field Reportroakmamba/r/seduction06/09/24 07:52 PM
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Logisticsroakmamba/r/seduction21/05/24 01:38 AM
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Fundamentals roakmamba/r/seduction03/03/24 01:27 AM
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Inner Game roakmamba/r/seduction23/07/24 06:54 AM
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4

Give it time and you're going to be friend zoned
/r/seduction15/06/25 08:52 AM
1

Fb dating has been good, bumble is fucken wack, tinder is the same and hinge was the best before some girl got salty and got me banned.
/r/seduction12/06/25 06:02 AM
1

No married women or women that were once married. I won't step on friends toes and try to hook up with their exs.
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:22 AM
1

Thats crazy, im looking for the same but in a women.
/r/seduction04/06/25 05:40 AM
2

Only when she's my girl
/r/seduction16/05/25 09:18 PM
5

What if you want to stop drinking alcohol and think going to the bars is a waste of time and would much rather be at the gym or playing a pick up game of basketball?
/r/seduction16/05/25 05:41 AM
1

Yes, i wouldn't take that girl seriously or bat an eye at her.
/r/seduction16/05/25 02:03 AM
2

I think both are just as easy
/r/seduction14/05/25 07:18 PM
3

Kissing on the neck and earlobe usually gets them riled up, but you have to do it right. Also, when we're getting down to the deed, some teasing gets them going before you go to work and then its a slip and slide raging waters park.
/r/seduction09/05/25 06:10 AM
2

So, trip out. I had a date similar to this. Went to a restaurant, hit a bar, got mixed signals, no kiss just a lame hug. 2nd date comes around and we go all the way at her house. After the first date i thought i blew it for not even getting a kiss,but it escalated by the next. Sometimes you gotta let them wonder about you and think about the date. I would have followed up with another date the next weekend and if shes down then you're in. If not, move on.
/r/seduction02/05/25 08:39 PM
4

My advice without reading your novel is make a move and state your intentions instead of pussy footing around. If she rejects you, fucket, you tried and move on.
/r/seduction01/05/25 06:50 AM
5

You know its rude to stare..
/r/seduction15/04/25 03:12 AM
30

This is the realest shit that's often overlooked. We bag the girl and then just let ourselves go and stop being the person that attracted the girl in the first place.
/r/seduction14/04/25 03:06 AM
1

Shit,i have to go buy a cool car and motorcycle and get my motorcycle license ,thanks for the tip
/r/seduction09/04/25 07:30 AM
3

You gotta let girls wonder and be curious about you,man. Looks like you overpursued and fell into the illusion of action, thinking that if you do something you'll fix it, and killed the attraction.
/r/seduction09/04/25 03:47 AM
5

Believe me, it happens You gotta escalate and run some foreplay. i remember a few air headed moments when i was younger but live and learn man. You had her grabbing your dick, escalate lmao
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:31 PM
8

I caught Alexandra ambrosia checking me out. Felt pretty good but i was working for her then fiance.
/r/seduction27/03/25 03:26 PM
2

If you do forget her name ask her " whats the weirdest way someone has spelled your name st Starbucks". Lol
/r/seduction23/03/25 11:56 PM
2

When they compliment you start talking to them and run game my boy. if you fuck up, learn from it and apply what you learned towards the next girl.
/r/seduction21/03/25 07:38 PM
2

No shit dawg wtf lmao come on now.
/r/seduction21/03/25 07:35 PM
1

Go play a sport and use those muscles for something. Get good at that sport and your confidence will go up
/r/seduction20/03/25 04:02 PM
2

Date her as you would any women, make her feel heard and understood and itll naturally happen. Women "give it up" when they feel safe around you.
/r/seduction17/03/25 01:16 AM
-1

This!
/r/seduction15/03/25 08:06 PM
1

Have him sit on your lap
/r/seduction13/03/25 02:57 AM
1

The first two look like a waste of money
/r/seduction07/03/25 04:47 PM
8

0
/r/seduction06/03/25 04:20 AM
1

Pretty fun, just the auto correct kept getting in the way of my responses. 80 70 70 on medium
/r/seduction12/02/25 06:50 AM
2

If it was going good, you should have moved to another date after the coffee date or asked to grab some dinner. Hit her up in 2 days and schedule a date
/r/seduction08/02/25 05:50 AM
1

Just do it. I got this girls number from jerseys Mike's that i would frequent and she was down
/r/seduction08/02/25 02:02 AM
3

He actually has kids
/r/seduction04/02/25 04:47 PM
2

True,i only have like 6 pics on mines and most are just random hang outs with friends.
/r/seduction25/01/25 04:33 AM
1

Don't do it, unless shes already your gf because this could lead to friendzone land and the friend will just cb.
/r/seduction12/01/25 05:16 AM
1

Clothes, fitness equipment to work out at home because the gym is a waiting game to use a machine, fix up my place, get a better car or improve the one i already have, get some dance classes/boxing, and see where that takes me.
/r/seduction11/01/25 11:33 PM
1

Why is this even a question?
/r/seduction08/01/25 08:26 PM
1

One real bad breakup that shattered my self-esteem and i wanted to overcome that.
/r/seduction06/01/25 04:17 AM
1

Nah, you can't show you're moved by this because then she wins her little mind game. Gotta stay cool calm and collective. Say Merry xmas and ghost. Women who play these bs games aren't worth the mental gymnastics and bullshit. She'll be someone else's problem.
/r/seduction05/01/25 11:06 PM
1

Thats a weird manipulative way of her trying to get you to get jealous. Imagine what she'll do in person to get a reaction out of you? Id say Merry xmas or happy new years, delete her number and never reach out or reply. Shes a nut
/r/seduction05/01/25 11:02 PM
9

Those guys are clowns.
/r/seduction23/12/24 07:50 AM
3

I wouldn't have blocked her because it shows she got underneath your skin and she could have been a potential fwb. There were a couple of things I would have done different but i get being turned off by her reply. Her loss.
/r/seduction17/12/24 02:23 AM
12

Sassy sounds feminine so id imagine it being a turn off.. masculine energy is composed, cool, calm, collective and confident.
/r/seduction30/11/24 08:22 AM
2

Sometimes i think its the energy you give out that girls can sense and read if youre desperate or not, in regards how you laid out your profile and also its a numbers game at the end of the day.
/r/seduction10/11/24 03:22 AM
3

Pull back some and let her chase you
/r/seduction02/11/24 07:01 AM
1

Im more in the moment freestyle guy,so whatever flows
/r/seduction02/11/24 06:38 AM
2

Dating apps and social media blew up their egos and out went their morals
/r/seduction14/10/24 06:35 AM
8

Not an excuse but being true to yourself and holding your own frame.
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:45 AM
2

Sounds like you're having second thots about marrying the man.
/r/seduction05/10/24 08:15 PM
1

Tell them," its nice to want things."
/r/seduction29/09/24 02:22 AM
2

Idk but i dont think that's why
/r/seduction26/09/24 06:44 AM
30

Before you try talking to a girl warm up by talking to strangers, cashiers, and have small talk. Ive done this and it's helped me feel more socially awake.
/r/seduction22/09/24 06:08 PM
1

Maybe love bombing? But it looks like shes just drooling over dude
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:42 AM
1

so you're telling me the cute barista that complimented on my shirt wasn't just being nice because it's her job?
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:06 AM
1

You sound like them lames from fresh n fit lmao
/r/seduction11/09/24 11:27 PM
2

I got banned from hinge and i was thinking the same, maybe even a vpn with the burner?
/r/seduction11/09/24 04:11 PM
1

Yeah, i got that vibe after a while. I surely felt out of place,but i liked the challenge of it.
/r/seduction08/09/24 11:38 PM
-4

Pie sounds good rn
/r/seduction07/09/24 08:40 AM
-13

Oh, ok. Glad you have it figured out
/r/seduction07/09/24 02:24 AM
-7

True, i sped through writing this,but i ended up pulling a group of girls and basically had them in the bag to go back to my hotel,but i kind of self sabotaged from a guilty conscious because im "seeing" someone right now, and just took it as an experience. The whole interaction started from me just noticing a blouse she was wearing and that reeled them in. I'm pretty sure i could have smashed one of them.
/r/seduction07/09/24 12:41 AM
-64

Fuck it, then go do better.
/r/seduction06/09/24 10:37 PM
-14

For sure, i appreciate your criticism.
/r/seduction06/09/24 09:11 PM
-34

Yeah, thats cool and all, but that's the way i talk. I dont really care if someone's offended by the word babe.
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:54 PM
9

Idk sounds off and like she's using her friend as a crutch to not escalate things with you and this could have you fall into the friend zone. I wouldn't have had her friend come at the bowling "date". This could have been "date" two and you could have already escalated things.
/r/seduction28/08/24 04:59 AM
8

This also happens when you go up to a girl and start talking to her and get her number, then out of nowhere, guys get the courage and start trying to get her number too.
/r/seduction24/08/24 05:20 PM
3

Dude is dense as a rock
/r/seduction24/08/24 06:51 AM
4

To add, a clean maintained haircut
/r/seduction17/08/24 11:14 PM
2

Yes, I had sex Tuesday and I'm supposed to smash tomorrow too
/r/seduction16/08/24 07:38 AM
3

"do you come here often? Or just at home" lmao jk don't say that.
/r/seduction16/08/24 06:43 AM
1

I haven't jerked off in months and just got a raise last week lmao
/r/seduction12/08/24 06:25 AM
25

I think you're fucking up by trying to get to know her via text and should have tried to closed for a date because now it's gone platonic on her eyes and she's barely texting you at all. Get at other chicks, so you won't feel needy and go work out, play some bball, go to work, wash your clothes,go out, and if she texts you then she does, and if she doesn't then, oh well, keep it going.
/r/seduction10/08/24 02:37 AM
5

Ohh, I've been there before. Next time you see her, get her number and set a date.
/r/seduction03/08/24 11:00 PM
1

Having the ability to talk to women with confidence and win the affection of the woman you desire.
/r/seduction31/07/24 07:59 PM
1

By "into you" , you mean attracted then yes,but that's just to have your foot in the door, you need game to come inside.
/r/seduction31/07/24 03:57 PM
1

I'm doing it rn and she makes double of what I make. It's all in your game
/r/seduction27/07/24 07:45 AM
52

I think girls all think they're 10s
/r/seduction25/07/24 09:17 PM
1

Solid advice, that's what I've been doing.
/r/seduction23/07/24 04:23 PM
1

I think that's a form of love bombing which is something you should be alarmed about.
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:06 AM
2

Make them do all the talking, tease them, flirt, that leads to them laughing, they lean in, and it builds to the point you start kissing and so on.
/r/seduction20/07/24 04:42 PM
3

Just tell her we'll get there eventually if you play your cards right. Because if you haven't then she hasn't done the work to get shit out of you and get to know you more.
/r/seduction10/07/24 07:24 AM
1

6'4", deep voice, I think I'm average, I'm an introvert.
/r/seduction01/07/24 01:32 AM
-1

Me, I got a girl Im dating she wants to be serious since the first month and I kinda don't want to.
/r/seduction30/06/24 04:11 AM
4

You can play video games and go out to the real world
/r/seduction29/06/24 06:46 AM
0

There's always something new to learn and one way is through hearing other people's experiences. I think my own issue is being a dad and juggling that with trying to date.
/r/seduction18/06/24 07:56 PM
1

Bro, what? That's why you have gum In the clutch.
/r/seduction30/05/24 01:07 AM
2

I think that's where you fucked up. By talking and entertaining her on the phone. I was always told the phone is for setting up dates. You don't get to know them through the phone, do that in person. If she hits you back up, set a date and move from there. She's young too so she's probably exercising a bunch of her options or has an ex on the sidelines too. I was 28 hooking up with a 21 year old and i was hooked,so I know how you feel man lol
/r/seduction29/05/24 12:49 AM
0

Bro,.just chill. Hit her up in like a week since your last message and see what's up. No need to be all needy and shit. Trust,.give her space and she'll come back and if not find another one and take it as an experience.
/r/seduction29/05/24 12:41 AM
2

I've just fell into this "realm" of dating older women and they're pretty straight up.
/r/seduction27/05/24 05:54 AM
5

Idk man, I think you have to change your mind set and stop caring about what others think.
/r/seduction27/05/24 05:48 AM
1

This girl I'm going out with is trying to push for a hike, but tbh that doesn't sound like something romantic or where I can escalate things. I was always told never do lunch dates or day dates. How would you approach this and them trying to alter plans?
/r/seduction24/05/24 06:51 PM
2

This probably goes on another post,but how do you guys handle dating multiple women?
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:37 AM
9

I was always told that the phone is for setting dates and not for getting to know someone, you do that in person. Because as a man you should be on your shit and not have time to be her male therapist over the phone.
/r/seduction22/05/24 06:56 PM
4

Well, to be fair I "met her through hinge" lol and I just want to get the rust out of the way, date, see where things go, and of course smash. You're right, I should be doing things and ask her to join, but with that said,I do want to see some stand up comedy, maybe down the line though.
/r/seduction21/05/24 05:02 AM
1

Nah, bro. I fucking fumbled, but I'm going for it next time around. Just started a few weeks ago. So, just another chill dinner then?
/r/seduction21/05/24 03:30 AM
1

Id say she does, but you do have a point on trying to outshine each date. Makes sense, thanks man
/r/seduction21/05/24 03:04 AM
1

When she texted back , you should have set up another date. I had a date with this one chick recently. she went mia for like 5 days and she out the blue texted me today and I just cut to the chase," nice to hear from you, you free this weekend,"? And I got another date already.
/r/seduction20/05/24 07:23 AM
1

Nothing you can do. keep it moving on. I wouldn't have texted them first right after the date. I usually let them hit me up or I'll open up after a few days later and I wouldn't say ," let's go out again sometime ", line. They can interpret it as you being too invested in them and they'll lose interest.
/r/seduction13/05/24 04:27 AM
0

Burnt out, maybe you're gay, or low T levels.
/r/seduction13/05/24 12:23 AM
1

Look up videos on how to escalate. There's many things you can do. Start by light touching and move up from there to a kiss. Like if you're sitting next to her grab her hand and be like ", let me see your ring," or whatever and even that can raise the sexual tension, you look into her eyes and go for a kiss.
/r/seduction08/04/24 06:35 AM
18

Bro, go play some hoops. Gets you in a social environment and helps you burn some steam.
/r/seduction18/03/24 06:36 AM
3

I had this happen to me on my last date and it was because I really didn't like the girl.
/r/seduction18/03/24 06:35 AM
2

Also, you avoid being cat fished. I went out with this chick last weekend and she looked wayyyyyyyyy older than she did on her profile pics and turned me off.
/r/seduction07/03/24 08:09 PM
1

Naturals bro
/r/seduction07/03/24 06:45 AM
1

Try being smooth about it. Like a reason as to why she would want to come over
/r/seduction27/02/24 07:47 AM
-4

Valid point man, we gotta stay persistent.
/r/seduction24/02/24 08:26 PM
12

This is not the response I was looking for.
/r/seduction24/02/24 08:22 PM
3

Try taking nootropics. I heard they're good for the brain and memory, along with salmon omega 3. If you drink alcohol, stop and don't smoke weed.
/r/seduction19/02/24 05:47 AM
2

Yes,it makes you not want to pursue girls, makes you socially awkward around them, and can cause ED or Premature ejaculation.
/r/seduction19/02/24 02:35 AM
8

So cool man. Idk how you were able to be friend everyone else. I always feel on the spot and awkward ASF. Like if they're thinking," who tf is this guy". Props to you.
/r/seduction18/02/24 06:49 PM
1

I think the whole point was that why waste valuable time trying to build attraction when you should be on your shit, instead of being a pen pal, and you can just do that in person.
/r/seduction07/02/24 08:55 PM
2

Id recommend the mikan drill .
/r/seduction06/02/24 07:59 PM
2

Try listening to some comedy podcast to take the edge off and maybe that'll have a subliminal effect.
/r/seduction25/10/22 08:14 PM
5

Next time she hits you up schedule a date and if she comes out with some bullshit then tell her to hyu once she's figured out her schedule and do not reach out until she does and when does assume she's down to hang because that's what you stated and if she flakes again disregard her because she's just bullshitting and probably wants attention or validation.
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:56 PM
1

"the long this goes on the more she'll lose interest". Bro, she already lost interest. Sorry to say it. Also, are you trying to be her co worker or the dude that dates her? I get it though, she wasn't giving you much to work with.
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:08 PM
0

Dating apps and just put it on your profile.
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:44 PM
1

I'm trying to spruce up my profile. I do a lot of welding and fabrication,but posting pics of my work would be attractive or polar opposite?
/r/seduction07/10/22 07:25 PM
0

Easy, just say you're not interested in being friends and to hyu if she wants to date and move on.
/r/seduction02/10/22 10:43 PM
0

Big L. She's supposed to be the one confessing her love for you, not the other way around.
/r/seduction29/09/22 05:29 PM
3

Coach Corey's waynes quote comes to mind," attraction is not a choice".
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:12 PM
1

I just ask myself do I want to date someone who can't even get into the bars or someone that can? Also, do I want to hear their new experiences that I already experienced or do I want someone closer to mine? I already have a dog and a son, so it's hard enough taking care of them, let alone someone who only cares about partying and what not.
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:24 AM
1

I'd say "all of them".
/r/seduction28/08/22 05:54 PM
1

When you phrase it that way then of course, but being called "hey Hun" doesn't imply you're stupid or gullible. I don't understand why your mentality goes towards that in the first place, so negative.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:12 PM
1

True, they'll say some bs in order not to hurt your feelings.
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:58 AM
-2

I think that's the lamest shit ever and never take advice from a chick because they never tell you the truth. They're trying to not hurt your feelings. Sometimes you need straight up advice with no bullshit.
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:17 PM
5

I'd approach and say 'hey, I see your new here" and introduce yourself.
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:32 AM
6

Wtf no, have things planned ahead of time. Last thing she wants is a guy that doesn't know what he's doing. Lead! Don't let her lead. "I saw a nice bar near here, let's grab a drink" or whatever. Come on dude. "Let her decide" gtfo. Nothing gets girls more turned on than a guy who has the date already figured out.
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:11 AM
2

Yup,Im always shit testing them to gauge their sense of humor. It she doesn't take offense or is also witty it's a turn on and is someone id want to be around with.
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:18 PM
1

By getting girls. Ha
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:09 AM
1

Just tell her to get back at you when she figures herself out and never ever text her back again and move on with your life. Keep fishing.
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:13 AM
2

Have you stopped dating her?
/r/seduction02/07/22 03:45 AM
2

Because they tend to get over you while they're still dating you and also have a person lined up as your replacement.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:00 PM
2

So you revert back to your old ways and ask why you're having no success? Makes sense.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:54 AM
0

Fwb at best and wait it out..
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:39 AM
15

Hows that a compliment?" I was thinking of you while another guy fucked me" that's hella disrespectful. It should be him smashing her walls and the other guy hearing this friend zone bs.
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:46 PM
3

She's psycho for telling you. Wouldn't take her serious.
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:44 PM
3

Women are like cats. They go mousy on around and come back to you when they want. Don't get discouraged and start being needy.
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:16 PM
22

This is how I handled a situation like this last month. I was talking to multiple chicks,dated one and had a date set up with another one the following day. The first girl I was really attracted to and the second one I wasnt to as much. I texted her I met someone else that I really hit things off with and I don't think it's fair to her and me if we continue on with our date, best of luck. She never replied but I feel better not leading her on.
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:47 AM
310

Her hand was just tired bro and she wanted to rest it near your crouch. Nothing to be seen here, carry on.
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:28 PM
10

There was literally herpes spreading like wild fire in Coachella 2019, but carry on with your rant because you're obviously right.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:29 PM
3

Walking L
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:20 PM
2

Here's some advice, don't fuck your cousin.
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:35 AM
1

I don't like it. Makes me feel slow,sluggish, and self conscious. Also, messes with my sex drive. I'd smoke and just space out or just be stuck when trying to talk to women. I've stopped for 4months now and I feel better than before. Don't get me wrong, theres women you can pull from smoking but tbh those aren't the type of women I want anymore.
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:46 AM
3

Whenever I want and can.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:15 PM
2

Lmao that's what I said haha
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:00 AM
1

She was 20 I was 30.
/r/seduction05/01/22 01:10 AM
2

I once waited in line at a TMobile store (I have attnt) just so I could talk to the associate there. She was drop dead gorgeous. Told her straight out and she gave me her number. Worked but the age gap turned her off,still got the number tho.
/r/seduction04/01/22 07:04 PM
3

Always thought sending emojis is immature and childish.
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:59 AM
1

Wish I had this problem rn ha best of luck.
/r/seduction12/12/21 06:31 AM
42

Did you just friend zoned yourself?
/r/seduction07/12/21 04:20 AM
24

Punch a wall to show off youre alpha and burp. She'll get wet and drop her panties. Or just sit next to her and say "you got something on your lip" and kiss her.
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:17 AM
1

Working as a salesman helped a lot. Also, just talking to cashiers and asking them questions. That usually gets me warmed up to try and cold approach.
/r/seduction04/12/21 10:53 PM
2

Wanna go out?
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:37 AM
1

Practice on cash register chicks. Was literally running game on two today at lunch and they were eye fucking me. I forget I even have the mask on. Plus, adds mystery to you,which girls love. Had them two giggling off some dumb shit I said and I knew I was in. Easy as pie. Trial and error. Im still trying to get the rust off too,so don't sweat it.
/r/seduction02/12/21 05:12 AM
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