TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

roaphaen Archive

View 5 posts and 55 comments by roaphaen on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

I guess its all fate then, nothing we can do - shut her down boys! No need for a reddit group.
/r/seduction26/10/22 05:10 PM
10

Getting friend zoned is un-sexier.
/r/seduction25/10/22 11:45 PM
1

I took a girl into the bathroom, clippered her myself, cleaned her up in the shower and then ate that pussy for a good long time. Sometimes if you want something done right DIY is best. She seemed to enjoy it too. Just make GODDAMN sure to have a guard on that clipper and are as careful and gentle as the area warrants.
/r/seduction21/08/22 03:41 PM
2

Why does your boss tell you to work hard, then spend most of their time golfing? Your question answers itself. People use ideology to manipulate others to their benefit. Welcome to adulthood.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:29 PM
6

Do not eat your bodyweight in protein. You will not succeed and will then feel like a loser. Also don't tan EVER unless you like aging prematurely. Go the spray tan route.
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:08 PM
1

People don't want what they can have. They want what they can't have.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:17 PM
4

You're just creating a different, better checklist. Checklists are fine.
/r/seduction09/08/22 09:11 PM
1

Get the vasectomy in your 20s so you can enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:59 PM
1

I am headed to the gym in 10. I think it helps, but cardio is better, at least for me. You could do burpees or something. Just try it ONCE, before a date or anything else that makes you nervous, but you need to do it for a decent amount of time - over 20 minutes I would say. Then, stop, search where you are in your headspace, which can be very subtle, but I bet you will find it takes the edge off. ​ Good luck my man.
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:22 PM
1

Try some 30 minute cardio before you go out to burn off that nervous energy. I tried this before dates and other far more nerve wracking things (getting on stage in a comedy theater - no script). I would also tell you to stay the FUCK away from caffeine. It's very subtle, but I always have FAR more anxiety (50-100%) and stage fright when hopped up on coffee or diet dew and that shit stays in your system for 4-6 HOURS. ​ I also think cardio pumps you full of endorphins and blood to your brain, ma…
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:14 PM
1

I think you are onto something here. I feel unless there are extenuating circumstances, the moment you get a response, a clock begins to tick, and my instinct is that clock runs for about 1-2 weeks. It's not always true - there is a girl who was visiting Asia, we've gone back and forth for months, and might meet up soon, but generally you are at peak excitement early on and it is decreasing, so use it. I try to get get some texting/ banter going back and forth. Then after a while I tell them som…
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:44 PM
1

Then the answer is no. You don't need to fly off the handle, your Hollywood lordship. Maybe if you were a little more chill she'd be fucking you. Relax champ.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:20 AM
0

Sounds like she's using you for validation. How much would she go out of her way for you if your car broke down for example? If you listen to all her bullshit and show up for her and it's not reciprocated you don't have a friend, you are an orbiter being used for validation.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:07 AM
11

Could be? I think it's official at this point. I'd say plan for the worst. Always be ready to smile condescendingly and say 'have a nice night, darlin'' and walk.
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:33 PM
3

Don't view it that way, as a negative. If you can bench 5 pounds you're ahead of SOMEONE. Think of it as getting reps in. When I practice anything, I get better than I was before. When I don't I get rusty. Stop going to the gym, get weak. Get your reps in if you want to reach your potential boys.
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:11 PM
2

Then maybe go for it, but my buddy knocked up a party girl, NOT great mother material. It's hard to know when to pull the trigger, though I'll give you that. At a certain point you're going to have to make a list of faith. She seems more into a convenient hookup with you though, not into YOU so much given what you've said.
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:28 PM
1

Get a vasectomy dude. You'll be back in business in no time and can blast in her all you want. Dont ever tell anyone. My good friend had the same situation and was elated after his divorce. I told him have fun but don't get her pregnant. Fast forward 10 years, he's trying to negotiate a daughter and a divorce. She's not that cute any more, just like Amber Heard.
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:07 PM
1

Generally terrible advice here. I would strongly suggest the book 'mating in captivity ' and some Esther Perel. Not saying you can salvage this, but her general thesis is it hard to want what you already have, and couples that merge to much have no separateness to bridge with sex. I observed with horror as this happened to me in the past with my girlfriend who I loved very much. Now I carefully guard my own hobbies, time and maintain different social groups from women I date. I guess my suggesti…
/r/seduction02/07/22 03:47 AM
13

It's ok to take a break. But also know some people use this false idea you will work out everything sequentially as an excuse to avoid a parts of their life. People that do this wake up at 50 having never interacted with people along the way making relationships hard. Take a break, just not too long and realize life is addressed as a scaffolding type problem, where you usually have challenges and success in multiple spheres simultaneously.
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:11 PM
2

Translation ' I prefer to maintain optionality ' I don't even know why you are discussing it. If she likes you she will commit. If she doesn't, it doesn't matter if she says she is looking for commitment or not, she will not commit. Asking people to know what they want before dating is borderline pointless. Most people have no understanding of themselves, and motivations and what they like and why. Most people know a good film or good food but have very little insight or vocabulary on WHY.
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:55 AM
1

Try ignoring her and letting her see you leaving be a great life with other girls. You win either way.
/r/seduction03/06/22 12:18 AM
11

Different guys like different things. I personally don't care about boob size, I like the smaller ones.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:40 AM
1

This is a low grade shit test.
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:55 PM
2

I guess I don't subscribe to "following it (advice) blindly is idiotic". The difference between wisdom, experience, mentorship is being able to customize advice. You tell the shy kid "hey, get out, you can do it", you tell the spastic extrovert "hey man, maybe dial it back a notch." The best advice is the stuff that is most GENERALLY true but even then, it can't be specifically true to all audiences, otherwise we could just have human operation manuals. Someone (probably with more experience and…
/r/seduction15/01/22 09:13 PM
1

This is a really dumb saying. Like you were just born in your soul knowing what is good. Was the first time you drank vodka a 'fuck yes'? How about anything that made you anxious, but turned out fun, like a rollercoaster or loud film as a child? I have news for you, dating is a MARKET, which almost always means like buying a house, there will be little things that need work or have a normal level of dissatisfaction. But so does your next date. This stupid concept makes you always chase the next …
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:49 AM
17

I second this. A small girl bought me magnums, which I thought was silly (I'm ok, but no pornstar) but I immediately noticed it didn't feel like someone put a zip tie around my dick. Lube (or spit) in the tip, play with different sizes. They will never be as good as without though and that's just a fact.
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:15 PM
0

This post while ridiculous did prompt me to think of they all want my height listed, they should list their weight.
/r/seduction10/12/21 04:36 PM
1

Calling sugar a 'nutrient' is a bit of a stretch. I'd call it an additive processed food companies use to sell metabolic trash to sheeple.
/r/seduction19/09/21 02:38 AM
1

This baffles me. Do women have that many randos offering to be their friends? I wish people came up to me constantly offering friendship. Wtf.
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:01 PM
1

I usually wait until the convo takes at least two swipes to get to the top. What does this mean?
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:06 PM
16

Right, so what this post really needs to be is 'how to construct a winning IG profile' ... Between trying to do snap, ig, Facebook, take winning high value selfies, I'm starting to want to become an incel.
/r/seduction23/08/21 04:56 PM
-1

This should be taught in sex ed for how many times women have asked me - like probably 60% of girls I've dated are "choke me daddy" types, which, no judging, but whenever I mention it to people in polite society you think I shit the bed or something. Meanwhile, 50 Shades sells like hotcakes, so much Target created a "tasteful" s&m kit. Anyway, I read a book a long time ago by a guy that was into S&M AND was a first responder in an ambulance, who basically said there is no perfectly safe way to c…
/r/seduction15/08/21 02:46 PM
2

That's because I'm commenting on something relevant to HIS situation. It's NOT only a male or female thing - men string women along too, and if she is pining for 2 years over a guy that views her as an option the kindest thing to do is to cut off contact as well. In general though, men beat people up, women use social manipulation. When's the last time a guy was nervous about being called a 'slut'? Can it happen, sure, but generalization are gonna generalize - doesn't mean they are all false and…
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:59 PM
5

Fuck that. Are there some humans that can 'just be friends' after? Yeah a few. Men do a lot of terrible violent shit to women, but women rake men's emotions over the fucking coals leaving the door open just enough to keep men pining for years just so they can get a little validation when they are bored. When you break up with someone have the decency to let them move on by leaving a cut, not a tear. That's true compassion. Less entertaining drama though. Glad you did what she wouldn't my brother…
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:15 PM
3

Well played, Big T-shirt
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:44 PM
20

One more thing, girls love to get validation by poaching a man. It's not necessarily about you, it's about them getting validation by using their attractiveness to pull you from someone else. Don't fall for that bullshit.
/r/seduction05/04/20 04:29 AM
3

Any contact means girl wants attention, validation. Words are meaningless. This is not a real relationship. Attempt to get her on the phone, chat for 5, tell her you are doing a cool thing, day she should come. Agreement or not, get off the phone, you are busy. If it's a no, try again in a week. Keep texts, phone talk to a minimum. Be willing to walk away. My prediction, you never meet this energy vampire.
/r/seduction28/02/20 02:03 AM
1

It's a shit test to see if you'd react
/r/seduction03/11/19 12:18 AM
1

Are you a girl or a guy?
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:03 AM
1

Look into Stoicism. Low expectations, basically.
/r/seduction16/09/19 04:59 AM
3

He doesn't use apps really, so it's hard to set up the date if you are a tinder match unless you do some banter and rapport.
/r/seduction03/09/19 03:52 AM
1

To you? A lot. To girls, not much. It gets a lot of press, but if you have the attitude, doesn't matter at all.
/r/seduction03/09/19 01:50 AM
2

Is this slowly becoming the incel group?
/r/seduction18/08/19 03:22 PM
1

Don't worry, that will take of itself, you'll probably never hear from her again
/r/seduction29/07/19 02:00 AM
1

Spell check
/r/seduction09/06/19 02:59 PM
13

The internet is not society, not even close.
/r/seduction09/06/19 01:36 AM
1

Well it's all about getting a higher conversion rate then, right? I want the highest conversion with least time spent, and pissing away 72 hours chit chatting about her cat is time not closing with a different lead. To your point, finally dated one last night. She was 20% fatter than her pic, not wearing make up like all her pics. She kept blocking all attempts to escalate. So, middling date to nowhere. After, I was out and thought maybe I should pop in a bar for a drink. Chatted up a cute black…
/r/seduction27/05/19 02:48 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/seduction27/05/19 06:10 AM
1

8 messages to what? A phone number? Date? How do you segue to this? My experience is NOT this - they will endlessly converse, though TIME TO RESPONSE and SHORT ANSWERS seem like signs of disinterest, I can't say the opposite ( fast response, long answers) is flake proof or not seeking validation/entertainment.
/r/seduction26/05/19 07:33 PM
1

Sawyer, Lost
/r/seduction31/03/19 04:48 AM
1

People say a lot of stuff to justify to others and themselves what they emotionally want to do. They aren't going to say 'i feel I want to break up with you, but don't have a concrete reason, which sounds nuts'. Instead, they go with whatever rationalizes well, sounds good or pops in their head at the time. Women CAN be insanely jealous, and I would not make a habit of telling a girl how hot her friends are, but she's just using it as a reason to do what she wanted to do anyway.
/r/seduction10/03/19 12:17 AM
1

Thanks - he was kind of monotone, but very good information and approach, and his Youtube resources are incredibly conprehensive.
/r/seduction25/04/18 05:16 PM
1

I think he specifically means in the bedroom. We’ve been to a club on the weekend that has a leather s/m night where people are on stage getting spanked and stuff at his suggestion. I also know he goes to a similar thing at a club on the first friday of each month. He’s actually doesn’t seem that way in social circles - he actually is pretty smooth socially. After just finishing Mode 1, where the thesis is basically be dominant open and honestly to get girls, I feel like...idk, it’s like he is t…
/r/seduction19/04/18 02:54 PM
1

This was kind of interesting I thought too on the level that I think every guy (person?) has some kinks - maybe not as extreme - but there seems to be an implication that if they were kind of dominant guy ones (not rapey, mind you) the seduction community would be cool with them, but like if some guy was into feet or something - when does he roll that out? I guess my gut reaction would be to get some run of the mill sex out of the way first, then roll this out so the girl is maybe more invested?…
/r/seduction17/04/18 08:09 PM
1

Read the book already, but thanks.
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:25 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter