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thanks for being the only one with a normal opinion in this thread.
/r/seduction26/01/25 10:19 PM
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Well, a "disruptor" could still make great money with it. If word gets out that your app will ACTUALLY get you a good match, hell, partner within a few tries, you could eventually get people to pay a few hundred bucks for that probably. Which is what they’re paying already anyway with 10-20 bucks a month premium subscriptions – just that this would be much less frustration for the users and a quicker return for the company (users pay immediately upfront for access because they know it’ll work). …
/r/seduction04/07/23 12:23 AM
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Yes, but we just disagree about the importance of efficiency in seduction. And yeah, it is very simple, I just felt like you weren’t getting that part so I tried explaining – but it doesn’t matter, in the end it’s all personal preference. Thanks for the talk!
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:26 AM
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Are you trying to misunderstand me on purpose? First of all I didn’t "admit" sex is the end goal. I wholeheartedly agree. No need to talk like I’m your enemy. I didn’t say you were wrong. You’re just approaching this from a weird angle. Yes, getting it on the 1st date is more efficient. But why would you even be concerned with efficiency when it comes to a fun free time activity like seduction? The most important metric should be "are you having fun" or maybe "are you having great sex". It’s not…
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:11 PM
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I just think efficiency is a wrong metric for this kinda thing, but whatever, let’s not go around in a circle.
/r/seduction20/09/22 09:42 PM
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I see what you’re saying and yes, it was a "who hurt you" question – but I’d say it’s warranted. It’s true that lots of women spend lots of time at their phone – but the way you phrased it sounds like you have a waaaay bigger issue with that than you should be having, as if you’re referring to some specific girl (that probably hurt you). Also, it’s just not true. Everyone has a phone these days but not every girl is a zombie like you’re making it seem. Also, we were talking about something compl…
/r/seduction15/09/22 04:47 PM
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Hm, not sure I agree with your point of view – he might also just have found out he prefers fewer but deeper connections with women. Anyway, thanks for clarifying, I see where you’re coming from.
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:29 PM
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I struggle to see how he develops a strong connection to a new girl every week. I guess it depends on what your definition of a connection is. If you stop talking to someone 5 days after you fucked them, that’s not "developing a connection". And if you actually did have a connection and genuinely liked that person, you’d probably not want to ditch them so soon. And since I doubt he’s still talking to every one of these 56 girls, I’d say he’s the personification of the term "pump and dump". Which…
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:01 PM
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Dude you sound unhappy, u ok?
/r/seduction09/09/22 03:04 PM
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It is though. In real life, women don’t care about the numbers, they can’t even distinguish them. They just know if you’re shorter or taller than them.
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:10 PM
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Stop using Bumble then.
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:45 PM
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Tbh I think your mind is fucked from dating apps. Not an insult – it happens to lot of us, these apps are toxic as shit. In real life, women don’t give a fuck about 5'8 vs 6' (unless maybe if they’re right between these values themselves). Research showed that couples are happiest if they’re within 10cm of each others height. It’s just on dating apps where everyone suddenly stresses about the actual value. Which is dumb because, did you know that you’re taller in the morning and shorter in the e…
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:42 PM
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Well, exactly because of things like /u/optimisticfob said – even though the difference isn’t actually noticeable, a lot of girls apparently think the number is important which causes lots of insecurity for guys. It’s dumb but it’s just the way it is. A few years ago many women were similarly insecure about having small boobs because big boobs were a clear beauty standard. I think that changed, you don’t see big-boobed women everywhere in ads or porn anymore. I guess we need a body-positivity mo…
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:36 PM
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I agree with you that it’s the same, but if you’re getting serious with someone it’s just ... not practical to keep doing that all the time. And I also agree with T-Shirt_Nerd that – in the real world – it’s his newly found confidence that helped him get the girls. The only thing where it might have made a difference is on dating apps where girls look at the actual value – but girls, humans in general, are very bad at estimating height values. Best to just not put it in if you’re unsure. Or stop…
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:26 PM
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source on that please, lol
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:17 PM
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Okay that one’s interesting, not sure I can help though. For me it was general social incompetence, and it was easier for me to first learn talking to guys or just in general "people" (that I’m not attracted to) and after that learn talking to girls who I was be much more nervous around because I put them on a pedestal and had some deep insecurities, thinking they’d find me weird and unattractive and all that jazz. I’d say the principles are the same though, right? Be confident, talk about inter…
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:53 PM
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Yes. Too many people’s view is totally skewed because of fucking online dating. Leave Tinder. Bankrupt the motherfuckers. It fucks with your brain.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:58 AM
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His point is not against people with actually diagnosed illnesses. His point is about people who are quick to diagnose themselves with something they read on the internet to just explain whatever they’re struggling with, simply so they don’t have the pressure of being responsible. These people will also never seek therapy because deep down they know their self-diagnosis isn’t true. Or, as someone else here said much simpler: Man this is sometimes true, but not always.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:54 AM
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You’re not wrong but you got the context wrong. The point was that EVEN IF you’re attractive, it won’t be much help if you can’t hold a conversation. This is mostly true for women as well, btw. Nothing is worse than when a good looking woman opens her mouth and whatever comes out just doesn’t make any sense. Or when she doesn’t open it in the first place.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:50 AM
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Yeah. Some years ago I wasn’t even able to have a normal 1-on-1 talk to another guy.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:47 AM
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Yeah, also not from an English speaking country. In my language it would sound cheesy as fuck and a girl would probably ask me what the hell is wrong with me lmao. Except maybe if both of us are drunk. Otherwise it sounds like a question an interviewer would ask you when you apply for a job.
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:17 AM
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yeah lol, everyone who will openly and constantly brag about shallow shit, men and women alike, are people I want nothing to do with. Not even if I just want to get laid, I can’t be horny enough to be listening to that kinda bullshit for hours, let alone think about "strategies" to deal with it.
/r/seduction26/06/22 09:49 PM
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You’re right and I hate to say it, but you also need to think about your attitude towards video games just as much as he needs to think about what he thinks about bald guys or whatever. It’s all normal and nobody is better or worse because of any of these things. "Quitting video games" isn’t gonna help this guy either – but yes, changing his attitude and getting his life in order is. But for the love of god, guys, don’t quit a thing you like because you wanna get pussy or some people online thin…
/r/seduction26/06/22 08:18 PM
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“what are you most passionate about?” & “what is your absolute favorite thing in the world?” Those cheesy ass questions work? They literally sound like you got them out of some kind of manual.
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:27 AM
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This. The amount of drama those people usually have in their lives is staggering.
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:27 PM
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I wasn’t being sarcastic at all. I’m sorry but it just doesn’t make any sense to say "people in Europe are like this or like that". Countries in Europe differ greatly in terms of culture, history and even stage of development. Eastern Europe is especially different from the West and North. You’ll find extremely different views on traditional family values or feminism in the Netherlands than in, say, Bulgaria or Poland. Literally day and night. So I’m sorry but as a European it’s just funny to se…
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:17 AM
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Yeah, that makes sense. In essence "know which things are worth caring about and which aren’t".
/r/seduction24/05/22 09:55 PM
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Great, thanks for clarifying that you’re talking about Eastern Europe, that’s much more helpful. Also what’s wrong with the word mate? That an insult to you? You seem like a pretty angry person dude (is dude okay?), I’m just a guy on the internet with a different opinion, not your enemy.
/r/seduction24/05/22 09:52 PM
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Who said anything about coercion or malicious manipulation tricks or something? Did you never meet someone – whether woman or not – who you didn’t like on your first impression but later you got to talk to them and they were actually really nice? Or maybe they even noticed you didn’t immediately like them and then tried a bit harder to get to know you and find common ground with you because they found you interesting? Happened to me many times, in and out of the dating context, and I’m glad some…
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:41 PM
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If she wants to leave me, whatever Okay but isn’t that kinda sad as well? Do you not see any value in having a close connection and feeling attached to a great person in your life? Because the only way to always feel indifferent about someone leaving you (even a friend) that I see is to not let a deep connection like that happen in the first place. Wouldn’t want to live like that tbh, experiencing pain from time to time is an important part of life as well sometimes. Maybe it’s just a wording is…
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:25 PM
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lmao you think there’s no feminism in Europe and family values are more important than in the US? Nah mate, culture in western Europe is quite similar to the US and in terms of feminism, women & society have been eating up every trend that came over from the US. Also, what’s "Europe" to you? There are more than 40 countries with entirely different cultures and very different levels tradition and family values in Europe. As a general statement what you say makes no sense at all.
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:19 PM
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Okay, what’s demisexuality by your definition then? The first definition I found on Google is Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which someone feels sexual attraction only to people with whom they have an emotional bond. That’s literally true for most of the population. Sure, some need a tighter emotional bond than others, but it still fits. And how is it even a sexual orientation? It’s not like being "demisexual" makes you not heterosexual or homosexual or bisexual anymore, depending on w…
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:47 PM
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Sorry, but the low T thing is just as annoying as immediately labeling the OP as <some label>sexual. What about "OP is just heterosexual but with a low sex drive"? Nothing needs to be wrong with him and he doesn’t need to part of some group and make it his new identity. It’s just sex drive. He mentions watching lesbian porn, which sounds like he does has a sex drive and thus is not And doesn’t demisexual just mean you only feel sexually attracted to people you’ve emotionally or intellectually bo…
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:58 PM
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Not the point. The point is misconstruing a platonic compliment as sexual interest. Which is bound to happen if the only compliments men get actually are out of sexual interest.
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:30 PM
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Getting turned down is one thing. Getting turned down as part of an obvious weird little mind game, that’s just about the other person wanting to feel in control a bit, is annoying and makes the other person just seem shitty and childish. Mind games and playing with control and power in a relationship can be fun and it can add spice to the sex life, definitely. But that’s when both know each other and are consenting to go and have fun with that element. In situations like OP described, and the t…
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:33 PM
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Yes, it is. OP is turning the tables and I can understand that it must feel good to do it, because you have to play along with these stupid mind games yourself so often. But it’s of course just as shitty and annoying, no matter who does it.
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:28 PM
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Honestly, this is a self-image issue. OP thinks he’s boring maybe, but you can make everything interesting. If you get asked what you do with the rest of your day, you can either say "uh nothing much, working out." and kill the conversation, or you can say "I’m gonna get a coffee at my favorite coffee place X (do you know that one? they do/have/serve this interesting XY...) and then I’m gonna go to the gym. I hope the X machine is free today, last time there was this guy on there and he wouldn’t…
/r/seduction08/09/21 08:04 PM
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Dude, you’ve been on a number of dates, the situation is crystal clear ... just sit her down and talk to her like an adult the next time she rejects you. Or simply text her about it. Don’t be whiny, don’t be angry or an ass, just tell her you’re confused and you’d like to know if she’s actually interested or not. (And if she still tries to play with you, that’s the point where you can be a bit more demanding and tell her it actually annoys you. And if she still doesn’t get it, cut her off. Take …
/r/seduction01/09/21 01:48 AM
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I mean, this is exactly what OPs girl is doing. Playing games. It’s childish behavior in both cases. Yes, people want what they can’t have, so it can work to make yourself a bit rare. But at a certain point the other party will just be annoyed and confused, like OP is, and that’s where they cut you off because they’re tired of your shit. Which, if you’re lucky, just means the whole spiel is reversed, and if you’re unlucky, means that you’ve botched your chance of being with them.
/r/seduction01/09/21 01:45 AM
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Could also be that he’s just inexperienced – or embarrassed. Actually, LOTS of people, men and women, think that sex is over once someone has cum. Which is extremely stupid, but there’s a reason there’s so many jokes about guys not lasting long or guys not getting it up or whatever. It’s because, unfortunately, lots of people think that’s the most important thing. They don’t get creative with sex.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:27 PM
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I don’t think you have to worry about that. Misogyny is believing that women are inferior in some way, believing they should have less rights in a society, believing they should be below men, or really just hating them and wishing them ill. Having had bad experiences with them and not wanting to be around them is totally not that. You can draw the same line with misandry too, btw. There’s women who are like "I’ve had bad experiences with men so I’m careful around them or I have a hard time trust…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/21 03:51 PM
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When women use violence in an intimate relationship, the circumstances of that violence tend to differ from when men use violence. [...] Women’s use of violence does not have the same kind of societal support. What the hell? I literally had a girlfriend who would hit and choke me when we fought but it’s fine because "society doesn’t support that"? Good to know, society, thank you! Also, how does society "support" men hitting women? Isn’t it literally the other way around? A woman hitting a man i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/21 03:35 PM
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It looks absolutely ironic lol
/r/seduction22/08/21 11:31 PM
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I've never witnessed this behaviour from a woman to a man You should pay /r/Nicegirls a visit then. Though of course you’re gonna see men doing it more often because in general, men are the ones who have to make the first move and start talking to women – since most women don’t. But I believe that the percentage of people who won’t take No for an answer are similar among both the women who ask guys out and the guys who ask women out. It’s just more guys asking out women in general.
/r/seduction22/08/21 11:27 PM
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Okay, but I really do not see any dismissive attitude or sarcasm in his comment. He seemed to be asking an honest question. That’s why I think your hostility is a bit uncalled for.
/r/seduction20/08/21 12:08 AM
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So far, we only made out. I'm also slightly confused why he never pushed to make the next move as I was definitely showing enough signalling to sleep with him. You already made out with him? He’s taking you to restaurants (and literally fly you somewhere??)? He obviously wants to bang you. If he doesn’t take the lead, why don’t you?
/r/seduction19/08/21 10:27 PM
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I’m sorry but ... *rapport
/r/seduction19/08/21 10:16 PM
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I’d never say "you look interesting". Very vague and can be understood as an insult even. Better to pick out something specific that you like about her, or something specific that you can call interesting.
/r/seduction19/08/21 10:13 PM
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Hahaha, I feel like you’re the one who’s butthurt here... What did he do to you? Why do you hate the word "dude" so much?
/r/seduction19/08/21 10:10 PM
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You people here really don’t know how to take a joke.
/r/seduction19/08/21 10:05 PM
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If you read through any of the comments on this post, you’ll see that women are all saying the same thing - we avoid eye contact because men don’t know how to have a genuine conversation Yeah? I see much more "I don’t want to talk to strangers at all, because what if they’re a creep or dangerous". Which is very different from what you’re saying. That’s what I was talking about in my comments. But I understand your point.
/r/seduction17/08/21 02:44 AM
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How does this relate to my post? I’m talking about women not making their own move on men they are attracted to. And if you’re replying to the guy above me or the whole thread: We’re talking about women actively avoiding even talking to or looking at men. How would you even get to a point of casual conversation when she obviously doesn’t want to talk to anyone in the first place? Better to just leave her alone then, wouldn’t you agree?
/r/seduction17/08/21 02:25 AM
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especially if they look down with a kinda "he's hideous" expression Ehh, that’s where you’re really taking it too personally. But yes, I see what you mean. I enjoy small friendly rituals and chats with pretty much any stranger, male or female, and I feel like that kinda thing is dying out.
/r/seduction17/08/21 02:05 AM
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If she's remotely interested, she'll make herself aware Here’s where you’re unfortunately wrong, though. (Most) women in general don’t approach or make themself noticed, even if they’re interested. Especially when it’s about a stranger. You can ask some single female friends about that. They’re either to shy or they don’t even think about the possibility that they, as women, could make the first move.
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:14 AM
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I wouldn’t call it "goofy" and it’s probably the reason you’re downvoted, but you’re right. It’s irrational. Most western countries are literally safer than ever before, with crime statistics lower than ever. Yet, people are also more afraid than ever. It sucks.
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:11 AM
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Jesus christ. Why? Because he’s asked a question? He didn’t say "women owe me eye contact" or anything... And he’s right, I noticed this too, it wasn’t that bad a few years ago. Same with men too, btw. People in general are more cautious and more closed up than, say, ten years ago. It’s much harder to wind up a friendly conversation with a stranger nowadays. And the thing is: It’s not rational. Yes, there are creeps and bad people, but if you look at crime statistics and just the general discour…
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:05 AM
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Are guys supposed to be into it? You know, that’s really the issue. Nobody should be "supposed" to be into anything. Yet it’s usually assumed that guys are into literally everything and anything rough because they’re guys and "every guy watches hardcore porn". Choking, slapping, anal, whatever. You’re a man? Surely you must be glad if your girlfriend offers it! I see so many guys like the OP who are like "shit, my GF wants to do kinky thing X and I have no idea wtf even is this please help??". A…
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:50 PM
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And don’t do it too long. Just a few seconds at a time. Also, @ OP: Don’t just ask some idiots on reddit, google this as well. Things can seriously go wrong. And btw, if you’re finding you’re not into it yourself, it’s totally fine to just tell her you won’t do it.
/r/seduction15/08/21 02:00 PM
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uhhhh what
/r/seduction17/07/21 04:19 PM
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Would it be "taking advantage" though if you deliberately went home with him and into his bed? The "going home with him" part might just be because you can’t get into your apartment, I get that, but she probably would’ve slept on the couch or something if she didn’t want to get intimate with him.
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:28 PM
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Eh, it could still be, you should definitely try it! I’ve had girls tell me about dates like that, sometimes even with guys they were already friends with and which they definitely were attracted to. Like "it was so weird, he didn’t even try anything!". It sucks but as a guy you need to remind yourself that most women don’t like to escalate and expect you to do it. And a significant number have never in their lives made "the first step" or escalated a date themselves, so they wouldn’t even know …
/r/seduction05/07/21 10:46 PM
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lol idk if I should believe this story but no matter if it’s true or not I wouldn’t want this to happen to me, sounds weird as fuck
/r/seduction05/07/21 12:21 AM
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The only issue I have with this video is that it basically says "introvert = quiet", which is not necessarily true.
/r/seduction30/01/20 09:52 PM
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Yes, I agree with that. I see many men starting to hate women, or getting into those incel mindsets where they feel like women "owe them". That’s bullshit and it’s toxic. There are great women out there who care about men’s issues and support them just as much as they would support women. Hating women won’t change anything and it will just make things worse – like radical feminists who hate men made it worse. I think we should pick up ideas that once were important in feminism too – normalizing …
/r/MensRights08/01/19 01:52 AM
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M.A.N.I.P.U.L.A.T.I.O.N.
/r/seduction28/06/18 01:44 PM
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Bio is fine, but photos aren't that good. On the first one you look kind of tired or not so happy to me, even though you're smiling. It has kind of a creepy vibe to it. :/ Also it's not exactly an interesting photo in general. The other ones are all pretty ... they kinda feel meaningless. Lots of friends and other people on there. On some it's even hard to see immediately who YOU are of all the people there. It feels like ... who are these people? Is he gonna bring them to the date too or why ar…
/r/seduction03/04/18 12:30 AM
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Exactly. Nobody uses tinder like that, men neither. It's all about the first impression you get from photos/face.
/r/seduction03/04/18 12:23 AM
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