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| 1 | Handling confrontationSocial circle is different, I was talking about strangers. If social circle is disrespecting you there will be an ongoing relationship in which it is important to enforce boundaries and demand respect as once you let the disrespect slide, they will continue to treat you that way. If a stranger is disrespecting you there is no ongoing relationship and no need to enforce boundaries necessarily or demand respect, also there is less chance of the stranger abiding by honor among those in a social cir… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Handling confrontationI'm non confrontational because I have nothing to prove. Why would you want to beat somebody's ass just to prove to them that you were right about an something? Why even care about their opinion in the first place? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Handling confrontationThis sounds good in theory until the other guy is crazy and has a weapon or you punch him and he dies or something. Leave your ego at the door when it comes to conflict on the street, think about the people who you have to go home to and just deescalate/walk away | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 02:54 AM |
| 31 | Handling confrontationYou avoid physical confrontation unless necessary. What do you think this is, Hollywood? Even if you have the fighting skills of Muhammad Ali, in real life, somebody can just shoot/stab you. If you punch him in the face he might get his 5 friends to jump you as you walk in the building and give you brain damage. This ain't UFC where there is rules. Just because you wouldn't take it that far doesn't mean he wouldn't. What is your goal? What are you trying to accomplish. First identify that.And is… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 02:32 AM |
| 3 | I feel like the whole world is against meI'm not calling him a bitch to insult him. I'm saying his thinking patterns are that of a bitch thinking "the whole world is against him". Do you think Muhammid Ali, Bruce Lee, or even your friend Jordan Peterson every thought something like "the whole world is against me." If I had a friend say something like that, even if I didn't call him a bitch I'd tell him to get out of thinking like that. Even if he is going through something hard, thinking negative like that isn't going to help. Cut off … | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 01:13 AM |
| 2 | I feel like the whole world is against meHe's a bitch. If this is a man and not a kid who's like 12 or 13 and he is saying things like "I feel like the world is against me", he's a bitch. If I had a friend say that to me right now, I would tell him he's a bitch. How am I the problem? For telling him to make an effort to improve his life? Sounds like hypocrisy saying I'm the problem for telling him to improve his life. Sounds like you guys just want to pat his head while he stays knocked down instead of lift him up and dust him off. Peo… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 09:55 PM |
| 2 | I feel like the whole world is against meHe is a bitch. The "world" is different to different people. Somebody who lives in a hut in Yemen, will have a different opinion on the world than somebody who lives in New York in a high rise. So currently he is in a situation that he needs to manage so that the external circumstances reflect more of what he wants. For example. Cut off parents. Start working out, get ripped, develop respect for himself through self development. Anybody who thinks the world is against him is a bitch and I wouldn… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 09:31 PM |
| -1 | I feel like the whole world is against meDude you sound like a bitch. Stop whining and create the life you want. >I recognize that men will never be loved by anybody. Bruh, shut up. Seriously, there are many genuine friends and people/women, you just have to make the effort to find them, do you think they are just going to knock on your door and ask to come in? Make money. Go to where people are not pricks, and try to find ways to associate yourself with the people you desire. Stop being a bitch and giving into a whiny pussy mentality … | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do people get bitter after finding the red pill?It's not okay that you're in denial. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 09:09 AM |
| 0 | Why do people get bitter after finding the red pill?Honestly though, if you are somebody who has gone through the bitterness. What are you doing? Like what are you accomplishing sitting in the emotion? What is the point of it? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 08:11 AM |
| 0 | Why do people get bitter after finding the red pill?"Respect other people's own timelines." I do respect that other people are emotionally weaker than others. I'm not saying you're the devil, just that you're retarded/emotional weak for doing something that is pointless. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Why do people get bitter after finding the red pill?I told him to look up theredpill on reddit, that's shoving it down his throat? The reason why he had a hard time digesting it because he realized how much of a pussy he was and he wants to blame somebody other than himself. He was the one acting like a pussy. Also, back the fuck off and don't tell me what is and is not my responsibility. I'm not responsible for him? What the fuck, you think he's my child or something? You're probably a bitter pussy too, so you're getting triggered. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:53 AM |
| 0 | Why do people get bitter after finding the red pill?Bullshit, nobody needs to be a bitter bitch in order to internalize knowledge. Rationalize it all you want though. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do people get bitter after finding the red pill?Lol, he asked me for advice with girls because they didn't seem to respect him. I didn't want to coach him so I just told him about theredpill. There was no forcing views upon him. My post was about the bitterness. What's the point of it? Sitting on your couch just being bitter make you look like a retard. What are you doing? Even if those girls in the past were complete bitches, what are you doing just sitting there being bitter? It just makes you look like a weak bitch. Just move past it and m… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 06:45 AM |
| 0 | Why do people get bitter after finding the red pill?It's a useless phase, anybody who dwells in negative energy is a fucking retard in my opinion. It's shows that you are emotionally weak. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 06:32 AM |
| 1 | When should i escalate into violence?Yup, people defending their egos at all cost always ends up badly. It's funny, if some random person insults you or calls you a bitch, or anything that can damage your ego, the fact that you even care about his opinion so much that you're willing to fight over it is a problem. It's almost like you are trying to force them to give you validation when you should just give it to yourself. Like, if you are a rich person and somebody walks up and calls you poor, you wouldn't beat the fuck out of him,… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 05:46 AM |
| 3 | When should i escalate into violence?Preferably never, whenever encountering violence with strangers, always ask yourself, am I willing to kill this man over this? Why? Because that's what it might escalate to, who's to say if you punch them and they knock you out that they won't just take out a knife and stab you to death. Do you expect some referee to make sure they don't go over the line? In a street fight with strangers, you don't know what people are capable of. Try to walk away and deescalate. "Hey I appreciate the compliment… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers who conceal carry, what gun do you recommend?I agree, the thing is. Though deescalation and removing yourself sometimes can work, I am worried about the situation where that guy is being to aggressive and is bent on attacking you and you have to use force to make him stop. It seems like things can go either way from a legal perspective, but ever since I've seen videos online of criminals executing people, even after maybe complying, I always thought I never want to feel so helpless in a situation like that. So, I'm pretty much weighing the… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers who conceal carry, what gun do you recommend?Yeah, I've heard Glock recommended a lot when I was researching other discussions about good concealed carry firearms online. So you keep in holstered in your back pocket as opposed to let's say side or appendix? Are there certain advantages to this? | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers who conceal carry, what gun do you recommend?Yeah, I'm definitely going to take classes with a professional instructor. I was wondering about the other legal issues you always have to keep in mind. For example, let's say somebody was escalating a physical fight with you and it seemed like he was about to punch you, could you display your firearms as a method of deescalation? I was wondering because if you can't and you just keep it physical, I was wondering what if the gun flies out and he maybe has a chance to pick it up and use it agains… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 03:04 AM |
| 7 | Need some manly advice.. do I fight?Also, dude, don't get out of your car when you are outnumbered. Seriously, just because you are 6'4 doesn't mean you are invincible, street fights are brutal. People use knives and guns when egos are involved. Although, it's always good to know how to fight IF it is unavoidable. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 06:38 AM |
| 8 | Need some manly advice.. do I fight?Yup, fighting is always the answer. What if he get's revenge on you by telling his 6'9 cousin to find you and kill you? You don't know how far people are willing to take things. Sure, it might not happen, but if it does, was it worth wasting the rest of your potential in life to escalate a situation due to a bruised ego? Be capable of violence, but avoid it at all costs unless absolutely necessary. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 06:09 AM |
| 2 | More DisrespectShe's not shit testing you, shit testing has to with with testing your frame in regards to attraction. She straight up just doesn't respect you for whatever reason. Probably lack of firm boundaries that you make clear to her and also reinforce by the fact that you will walk away from the relationship if your boundaries are crossed. EDIT: BTW, not reacting to disrespect isn't good, you should've have reacted months, years, or however long ago when she first disrespect you and tell her that if you… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 06:18 PM |
| 7 | How to make more money?coupled with selling cocaine. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 10:03 AM |
| 4 | Is there anybody here who use to be an obese virgin and changed? Please please give me adviceSure, look at David Goggins. He was 290 pounds and lost about 100 pounds in three months. It took a shit ton of work and discipline but he still did he. You need to not really focus on what to do, but completely transforming into a new state of being that is disciplined, has willpower and dedication to their goals. You can also right down where you want to be in one or two years and how amazing your life would be if you commit to these positive changed but also how terrible you will feel if you … | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 03:38 AM |
| 15 | Never let anyone steal your energyYou get what you tolerate with a lot of people, and if you don't check people then you are inviting people to treat you like a doormat. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 08:00 AM |
| 8 | What do I do now that i'm over my ex?Go to the wilderness and befriend a pack of wolves long enough to gain their trust and let you in the pack. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 11:06 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with depression from reaching your goals?No achievement of goals will make you permanently happy. The happiest people are the people who are steadily making progress in something related to their values. Our brains release dopamine when we see ourselves noticeably getting better and making progress in things like working out or getting good at an instrument (it takes longer than the dopamine you get from say social media/porn, this is why it's harder for most people to program their brain for this "good" dopamine release rather than th… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 02:44 AM |
| 7 | "You only want to talk about sex/only want me for sex" What do I sayWhy do you want to be seen as a man so badly? Because I used to be a woman before my surgery. Honestly, just seems like a clash of values. She wants a relationship and you don't. Simple as that, she may leave and look for it elsewhere unless you also want a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 06:20 AM |
| 11 | Can men and women be friends? Hooked up with a good friend..If you start ignoring her and hanging out with a hot new chick, guarantee it will flip her back into your frame. Though, that's not why you should do something like. It's important to have an abundance mentality no matter what, when you really think of it, you being attached is due to scarcity and possibly a combination of that and lack of a higher purpose. With a higher purpose, you always have something reliable to fall back on emotionally that doesn't involve women, and abundance mentality he… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Don't see an end game.Not just money though, something purposeful that relates to you. Yes, be financially free but having an abundance of money doesn't really mean much if you are unhappy in the present moment. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Books that changed your life and how?Mindset by Carol Dweck. Really goes into how much we can develop through discipline and hard work. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 05:35 AM |
| 2 | I am afraid to get laid and I want to conquer this hump. What can I read to work on my inner game for this?You're just being a bitch bro. The thing is, your first time at everything is going to be shitty. You think Mozart just sat at a piano at 3 and and concocted Don Giovanni? What are you genuinely afraid of? Do you think the girl is going to murder you if you aren't a sex god? In the very worst case scenario she may just ghost you. Oh well, life moves on. Although if you never get in the game and just sit in the sidelines you never reap any rewards. Like Nike says, "Just do it". Although, after do… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Feel like I’m wasting opportunities and potentialYou're the one CHOOSING to fuck college sluts. Take accountable for the choices you make and start building your willpower and discipline. Nobody will do it for you in life. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 05:52 AM |
| 2 | "Rejection isn't as bad as regret", or how can I forgive myself for my failureIt's a numbers game. I think a big part of your problem is you tried one time with one girl instead of trying many times with a decent amount of girls, while also learning and implementing what you find to work the best. It's really all in your head. Can you change what happened? No. It's not that guys strive for being rejected, it's that without putting yourself in the position to be rejected, absolutely nothing will happen. What if she would have said yes? It would have been worth it no? Well,… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 08:45 AM |
| 0 | Anybody else believe stress is a good thing?Ah, I see. Perhaps not the stress itself, but the overcoming of it. Chronic stress from things like worrying are definitely not good. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Anybody else believe stress is a good thing?cool | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else believe stress is a good thing?Also, the thing is, you will experience stress regardless, so being able to handle it by self inflicting it will make you stronger. Want to know what happens if you never overcome self inflicted adversity/stress? You kill yourself when your wife breaks up with you. Or at the very least, it emotionally cripples you. Something will happen eventually, i.e. Losing your job, getting into a car accident, getting some ailment or disease. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else believe stress is a good thing?There's usually a feeling of stress when overcoming adversity at some level. That's ultimately how you develop a strong frame, by overcoming stress. Think of the hardened 15 year marine over the rookie soldier. He's experienced more stress and has a stronger frame. Frame being able to maintain an emotional center in the face of adversity/stress. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 02:00 AM |
| 1 | The "are you a feminist?" Shit testLol, if a woman asked this, I wouldn't consider it a shit test, it would resemble behavior that I don't even want to put up with. Or I'd just act like a dick on purpose, "Nah, personally, I believe women are naturally better at making sandwiches on a biological level than men" | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Anger phaseDo you want fat chicks? Well then you're just as shallow as these women but your big ass ego thinks that the universe owes you pussy just for having a pulse. Nobody owes you shit. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 11:21 AM |
| 6 | Chicks dissolving tinder matches after not hitting them up on the same day normal?Do want to talk to them? Then message them, fuck all the mental games. If she doesn't reply because of some stupid ass ring around the rosie mental game we are supposed to play, then great, you weeded out somebody who plays those games. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 07:21 AM |
| 2 | How masculine and feminine energy natural interactIn a long term relationship? I'm not talking a fwb situation or casual sex. If so that's a god damn lie, I've never had a successful long term relationship with a girl that's fucked a lot of guys or have seen it happen. I'm not saying they are bad people or they shouldn't have casual sex, but it does effect their ability to pair bond and stay committed to one single relationship. | /r/seduction | 09/04/20 02:35 AM |
| 2 | How masculine and feminine energy natural interactOkay but like 10 people read the post and it's true though. Try to have a long term relationship with a girl that has fucked a lot of guys and see if it works out and get back to me. Then I'll change my opinion. | /r/seduction | 09/04/20 12:28 AM |
| 2 | How masculine and feminine energy natural interactStupid and dangerous? I could understand stupid, but dangerous. Like me typing that out almost murdered somebody. | /r/seduction | 08/04/20 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How masculine and feminine energy natural interactThe main idea with number six was not to not have sex with a lot of girls, it was for guys to not just fuck anything with a pulse. Pick girls worth your time, even if they are attractive, if you don't genuinely like them, then don't waste your time because you could be having sex with girls you find attractive that you also genuinely like | /r/seduction | 04/04/20 07:39 AM |
| 1 | How masculine and feminine energy natural interactThey don't lose their masculine energy, they lose energy in general. Let's say girl is a drug addict, has sex with a lot of guys, smokes cigarettes, and bitches around a lot but she's smoking hot. She's too low vibrational and not worth wasting your energy on, better to find a feminine, nice, compassionate girl to utilize the sexual energy. Everything is energy so if a guy who is confident and masculine has sex with a girl that's a drug addict that sleeps with a lot of guys, it will effect him o… | /r/seduction | 04/04/20 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Thank youCongrats! Always remember to have boundaries when it comes to respect when it comes to relationships. It's something a lot of guys lack nowadays and women can't truly be attracted to a guy they do not respect | /r/seduction | 04/04/20 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Fucked two sluts hard todaywear clothes As a nudist I feel very offended. EDIT: Also, just as an addition rather than adding nothing of value, this is an classic example of the golden rule of be attractive, don't be unattractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 03:39 AM |
| 1 | A Billy-Beta acquaintance has *zero* clue his fiancee is about to leave him. Guess the reasons.Wake up man. The subreddit is looking at relationships through a straw. You asking if all three of those events actually happened without questioning a post on here from an anonymous user that supports the bias of this subreddit is no different from somebody coming out of a cult and realizing the world doesn't operate how they thought it did. Then you have bitter people roaming the subreddit thinking they are alpha because they read /theredpill for 10 hours a day. Want to know irony? Hating wome… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 07:51 AM |
| 1 | A Billy-Beta acquaintance has *zero* clue his fiancee is about to leave him. Guess the reasons.No man, they didn't happen. I made it all up. You got me. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 10:11 PM |
| 0 | A Billy-Beta acquaintance has *zero* clue his fiancee is about to leave him. Guess the reasons.What if you cheat on her? What about Jay z cheating on Beyonce, Shaycarl (famous youtuber) cheating on his wife, Cardi B getting cheated on? Did any of this men think it was only their turn? Very easy to say that it has been proven again and again when theredpill ONLY posts things that support its preconceived bias. Confirmation bias at its finest. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Shit testI disagree, the "Take care though" part is to show that her disrespect still had no effect on you. Saying it in a passive aggressive way just shows that she rustled your feathers. Then later on she can hamster her disrespect by saying to herself "that guy was a passive aggressive asshole". In general, you want to make it as clear as possible that anything she says/does doesn't effect you. So don't reply at all if you are going to reply in a passive aggressive way. If anything, saying the take ca… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 02:58 AM |
| 2 | What happens if you break frame? Will you ever be seen as alpha again?Just act like it was no big deal. A lot of times, women look at the men they are with for how they should feel about a situation. That is why they love men with strong frames, if a man is calm, they also relax and feel calm. Her being uncomfortable was mainly just following your actions. So what you do from here? Act like it was no big deal. If she is seeing that you are acting like it wasn't a big deal and don't care, eventually she will come around and say to herself, "Oh it wasn't a big deal"… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 02:14 AM |
| 11 | Shit testI wouldn't, personally. That's not a shit test. That's just outright disrespectful. Or "It doesn't really matter, because now I'm not really interested anyways. Take care though." | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 01:42 AM |
| 4 | What happens if you break frame? Will you ever be seen as alpha again?Haha, are you implying that him acting nervous in front of a girl ONE time turned the relationship into a failure? The rule is mainly talking about MAJOR things that there's no coming back from like she loses respect or attraction for you. (these are also accumulative processes more often than not, not just one thing that triggers it) If a girl likes you enough, you can fuck up and she will help you out if you are an overall package. This black and white shit is stupid should be thrown around he… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Curing my niceness"Do you want to do me the biggest favor?!!" "Do you wanna go to the bank for me and get change for the store?" Psh, the way she is asking this would make me not want to do it. I have a very dry sense of humor, probably would have said something along the lines of "Yeah, it's at the top of my bucket list, right under climb Mt. Kilimanjaro" Seriously why the fuck would I want to go out of my way to do some menial task. She could at least ask with sincerity "Can I do her a favor" or if I can go to … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 09:00 AM |
| 2 | gf of 3 months wants a break, she felt like i didnt text her at allNo worries, man. Happens to everyone. Also wish the best for you and OP. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 04:07 AM |
| 1 | gf of 3 months wants a break, she felt like i didnt text her at allThere you go again, being a pompous ass. If one wants precision, one will go to the chick in question, and watch her house and record her movements and communications. Howfuckingever, nobody here that I'm aware of has the time, inclination, or the resources to do that. Perhaps you do?? This is a forum, not a psychic reading. Given that, you can bet that, in the cases of human beings, an .0000001 chance of it being something else, is the same thing as being NOT something else. It's not being lazy… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 03:06 AM |
| 1 | gf of 3 months wants a break, she felt like i didnt text her at allThat's usually the reason. Usually, meaning that the odds are that that is the case. Which means that any other reason is rare. It doesn't matter if that's usually the case. If there is a .0000001 chance of it being something else. You shouldn't look at any situation in absolutes. That's just being lazy or not actually trying to help. These things usually work out within a thread. You, yourself, called the relationship an LTR. Only 3 months in; you, yourself, could use some kind of refresher cou… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 02:05 AM |
| 6 | How to spike a girl's emotions when talking to her?Assholes who are attractive. A fat neckbeard being an asshole just makes him an asshole. Brad Pitt being an asshole makes him a bad boy. EDIT: Also telling her to shut up because she’s boring and should only speak when she has to offer something of value. Is a good way to crush her confidence. If that's your way to game women then go right ahead. I prefer to do it without destroying their self esteem. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 01:30 AM |
| 2 | gf of 3 months wants a break, she felt like i didnt text her at allI understand what you're saying. Even if there is another guy in the picture, he is probably able to cater more to Alpha/Beta mix that she is not getting with OP. If it was just a matter a getting dick, then I would assume that the issue would be OP being beta. Not to pump OP full of sunshine, but he's not coming across as Beta. He's being non needy, ignoring her texts, and even faced with the situation of a break/relationship being over, OP is clearly not too phased (holding frame like a champ)… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 12:21 PM |
| 8 | gf of 3 months wants a break, she felt like i didnt text her at allRelax Mr. Redpillwarrior. Everybody so quick to say she found a new dick. Please tell me, where in OP's text did he give any indication that his girlfriend was cheating? Simply by her saying she needs a break? I rarely go on this sub because posts like this manage to get so many upvotes because of the hivemind mentality to upvote whatever user's already have a bias towards. Let's look at this post without REDPILL colored glasses and with no bias for a second here. -GF makes an effort to text OP … | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Got the 'We should try not having sex' shit test. How'd I do?She's not attracted to you. Relationship over, sorry man. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Should I keep going on dates?You shouldn't care about appearing "too nice". If you like her and want to hang out with her other than just fucking, then just do it. Your over analyzing actually shows that you care way more than you should. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Had a working interview at a sales job left feeling devastatedthere was me the 5"5 guy who looked like a goatherder And you expect to get leads with this sort of mentality? Faking confidence is a lot like faking frame. It really can't be done. You either are confident or you're not. You have a strong frame or you don't. You my friend, are not confident. Simple as that. Which is okay, you're 18 and you have years to build up your confidence. Of course people are going to be uncomfortable when you approach them. You're uncomfortable with yourself. You are fa… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 05:52 AM |
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