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| 1 | What should I do? No social life and feeling quite low now..."Only you can make your life exciting" - very true | /r/seduction | 25/05/14 04:38 PM |
| 2 | What should I do? No social life and feeling quite low now...alright, i recognize this...except i'm a little older ......... ....the good thing is, you have a job = disposable money = a lot of things you can do Your main problem/area of focus now should be confidence building. While doing this, also work on improving your personal style/physical fitness. ................because i am in the same situation, and, i understand where you are coming from, I would say immediately do things that will improve you : A: - 3-4 months Gym ( better make goals/timetable… | /r/seduction | 25/05/14 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How to shake the internal voice that says I have a weak, undesirable personality when I speak to girls?how long wouldd you say it took you to go from reading the books and then actually putting it into real life ? | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Making Friends with Popular People (Discussion)actually no, i haven't talked to a girl in months. After the usual 9 - 6 and then coming back home, i really don't know where to go to meet people, and i dont know anyone in the current town i am in. I usually get stuck doing some stuff with some relatives who live nearby, but thats about it I think the last time I had a real conversation with a girl (casual conversation, not flirting) was in early January of this year | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Making Friends with Popular People (Discussion)okay, that will still take some practice before going to an acceptable level i guess | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Making Friends with Popular People (Discussion)noob question, but i am a 30 year old noob. What's "vibing" before having sex ? | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Making Friends with Popular People (Discussion)this some pretty good advice, could also be used in an office setting i think | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Making Friends with Popular People (Discussion)i can verify this from experience. Throughout school, and then college and now after, most (Most, Not All) of my friends have been the intelligent and or/nerdy comic book reading/ hardcore gamer and into sci-fi/fantasy lore type etc. If you took them out of their social setting, they are, like me, awkward socially ...and they don't meet a lot of people. There was a sort of fierce pride in some of them for being able to be in an engineering degree and having to spend more time studying than some … | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 07:39 PM |
| 6 | Have two girls coming over, but Im freaking out because Im about to lose my virginitytake a deep breath and talk yourself into a good confidence. A girl wants to have sex with you, you have already done the hard ( pun ) part also, I want to be have the *problem you have so badly right now Edit : sp | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Tell Yourself How Awesome You Are. Because If You Don't Believe It, Why Should She?lol, i don't want to put my picture on the internet.....my friends already make enough fun of me as it is already | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Tell Yourself How Awesome You Are. Because If You Don't Believe It, Why Should She?yeah, i worded that wrong, i know i dont have to be physically attractive all the time ...but mentally/socially i have a lot of drawbacks, the physical ones i can fix with time | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Tell Yourself How Awesome You Are. Because If You Don't Believe It, Why Should She?lol, if i knew how to play, i would play with whatever i can get | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Depressed and confused...I honestly have no idea how people hook up, find girlfriends, get married etc.its okay to be confused man - to me girls and guys who can just go out and date, have sex and escalate and make relationships, sometimes they look to me like beings from another planet, like aliens with advanced brains lol - its pretty damn confusing on how many of this occurs if there isnt enough experience.....but you are in your early 20s , i think you will be able to fix all this pretty soon with the right choices | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Depressed and confused...I honestly have no idea how people hook up, find girlfriends, get married etc.saved .....that was deep | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Tell Yourself How Awesome You Are. Because If You Don't Believe It, Why Should She?i know i wont become physically attractive all of a sudden - but the things I want to work will help my personality and other related mental things Edit: here are some things I need to work on - social skills and a very introverted nature - i come from a very religious and conservative family, and most of my friends in school and college were the nerdy, software programmer type...and that along with my complete absence of self-awareness caused the bad social skills to linger, also, I have ED cau… | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 02:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] 25 finally had sexlove this ! edit : but one question, what do you mean by "get desperate and blow it" , like at what point do you know that ? I am asking because, I have bad social skills, and a few months ago really liked a girl ...and it seems i might have "gotten desperate and messed it up", but i cant figure out when and how | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Tell Yourself How Awesome You Are. Because If You Don't Believe It, Why Should She?what if I know that I have some shortcomings and drawbacks and that it will take me around 2 years to fix most of them, and before that time I will not be attractive enough for most of the type of girls I want to be with ? | /r/seduction | 16/04/14 11:29 PM |
| 1 | How can I find a party/social event to meet people at?you dont need alcohol, sometimes it just helps you loosen up a little , and sometimes it acts as a social lubricant, but you definitely dont need it........on the bright side it will make you game when you are sober, which is great for the long run | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 01:58 AM |
| 1 | How can I find a party/social event to meet people at?alright, this I can relate to, I wish I was as social on my freshman year as I had become by my final year. seek out groups in college, there should be an asian/japanese club or latin language club....you may think these clubs are for nerds, but there will be a lot of people ( and girls) over there, some pretty good looking ones too if that is what you are worried about.....a book reading club, a climbing club etc would have worked ......i have seen a classmate of mine hook up with a girl he met… | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 01:06 AM |
| 18 | Any older virgins successfully turned it around?almost - 30 year old virg, i cry myself to sleep almost every other night ...metaphorically speaking....anyway Don't worry, you are not in too bad a shape and still fairly young. Just think about what is holding you back and then work through it | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 06:09 PM |
| 1 | More infield audio. Me out of state gaming a kiosk girl in the mall.looked so effortless !!!!! | /r/seduction | 18/02/14 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Disappointed at my first try, failed miserably...right ! | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Disappointed at my first try, failed miserably...@ jkthe, don't be discouraged. I started out exactly like you, and, there has been some improvement. Moreover...if I had a dollar for the number of times girls said not to me recently, I would have close to $50 now...and to put it in perspective: I have been single for a very, very long time, also, i am starting to get old. Not OLD old, but still pretty old. --Hang in there, you will get much better at it and something tells me you are still pretty young. You have time. Happy seducing. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 02:01 AM |
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