rockbliss Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	Can't believe I caught this on dashcam! 😣	rockbliss	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/23 06:59 PM
7	Need courage to actually file this time	rockbliss	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/23 10:43 AM
7	what expenses is CS supposed to cover?	rockbliss	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/23 10:44 PM
6	Male or Female attorney?	rockbliss	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/23 11:01 PM
4	she's being "nice" again, for now... Trying not to lose focus	rockbliss	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/23 01:57 PM
3	Did you go through a process of mentally treating your spouse like an acquaintance in order to keep your mind on track with following through your divorce decision?	rockbliss	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/23 11:10 PM
3	Is CS and alimony calculated based on last year's taxes or your current pay?	rockbliss	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/23 05:19 PM
1	Has being a reservist helped your mental stability following divorce?	rockbliss	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/23 12:44 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	she's being "nice" again, for now... Trying not to lose focus Is it best to break the divorce decision to her when she is is a mostly positive and stable mood so that you can attempt to stay calm and composed when relaying the information? Hopefully this helps gain more peaceful cooperation from her during divorce talks with lawyers and to try and keep peace in the house around me and the kids. Idk. I figure the bad part about this method is she will try and convince or guilt me into staying with her or to prevent breaking up the family. On the flip side i…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/23 05:06 PM
3	Can't believe I caught this on dashcam! 😣 Thank you, good points made.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/23 01:47 PM
2	Can't believe I caught this on dashcam! 😣 Through all of the physical and verbal abuse she has displayed in front of the kids towards me, I'm sure they're keeping a mental record of who the aggressor in this relationship is. That's one thing that I'm mostly quiet about and glad I don't have to seem like I have to convince or manipulate them into believing that their dad is the victim of most of her rage fests. I always try to regulate my responses because I know they are watching and it can disprove any alternate explanations she may tr…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/23 01:36 PM
5	Can't believe I caught this on dashcam! 😣 Yep, sure did	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/23 07:31 PM
1	It's Finally Done! Yea you got lucky	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/23 07:30 PM
1	It's Finally Done! So how did you handle her half of the equity in the house? Where was she able to to move to considering no recent employment history and needing space for the kids? Did she stay in the same house with you for some period of time until she found a job and place to stay? It would probably be cheaper for me to stay in place in our home rather than renting an apartment large enough for me and the kids. If I gave her the house she probably wouldn't make enough money to pay the new mortgage without me…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/23 11:00 AM
1	It's Finally Done! How did you go about finding the lawyer? Did you do it solo and presented this place to your wife before you filed the paperwork? What type of practice was it? As far as agreements, did you have a preconceived a plan on what you wanted her to negotiate with you and she was cool with it? My situation is my wife is a SAHM for 2 kids for over 10 years and has refused to go back to work to help bring in a few more funds for the family which would assist in all of the purchases she insists on making.…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/23 02:24 PM