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| 1 | Shit test and what to do when there's past trauma? | rockstaa | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 05:43 PM |
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| 1 | Men who get one-night stands, how do you do it?You spend the day networking by exchanging Linkedin's and business cards. With a work number, you don't know if texts will go through so you use what you got! It's not uncommon to get a 'Pleasure to meet you today. I'm at YYYYY Hotel, let's grab a drink later if you're free' | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 08:26 PM |
| 0 | Men who get one-night stands, how do you do it?Business trips. It turns out people on business trips are horny af. Business conventions, consulting, etc. A lot of conventions have a social hour that is for ‘networking’ but also to find people to sleep with. You get a lot of sliding into DMs through LinkedIn lol. People get lonely on trips or long assignments away from home. Sometimes it’s harmless and they just want to eat and talk with someone, but the opportunities to escalate are there. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 04:17 PM |
| 4 | Game isn’t needed if she’s attracted to you.There are multiple components of the game. Yeah you may not need it for the approach, the number, the date, or even to f-close if she's into you. But I find myself subconsciously doing things to lower her interest as I get invested and it helps to know what behaviors to avoid, how to answer her questions and maneuver around shit tests, and how to identify different signals. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 02:48 AM |
| 13 | Turning things sexualThat's the problem. Stop waiting for the perfect moment. As soon as you come over or as soon as you get in tub, say "I should've done this earlier", grab her face and just go in. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Shit test and what to do when there's past trauma?Basically that I'm overthinking the whole thing? | /r/seduction | 21/05/19 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Shit test and what to do when there's past trauma?I see getting laid as a prerequisite to any longer-term romantic endeavor, but no my intention is not just sex. Thanks for the words of advice and caution, definitely gave me some more to think about. | /r/seduction | 20/05/19 01:48 AM |
| 2 | How to make my apartment a place that people want to come and hang out?Location. "Hey this club/bar/library/fundraiser is packed/dead, but my place is around the corner. Let's go party there." The longer it takes, the further you have to go, the more time they have to change their mind, lose their buzz, or simply get tired. Alcohol. Keep a few bottles on hand. Music. Have a party playlist on hand and ready to go at all times. Great way to use an old phone. Source: Lots of parties at my place. | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 07:12 AM |
| 1 | For the romantics out there - Advice from a 49 yr. oldI find that the more interesting I am - when I've been reading interesting books, traveled somewhere abroad, attended concerts, hiked a new trail, taken up a hobby - I naturally listen less and talk more without thinking about it. I become a fun person by doing fun things. Connecting over shared interests and offering the promise of fun future adventures always trumps a listener who remembers every detail she tells you. The listening skills come in when you remember a restaurant she wanted to tr… | /r/seduction | 28/07/16 06:02 AM |
| 116 | I asked out 100 women in real life and got 14 numbers and 4 dates. I asked out 100 women online and got 0 responses. Online dating is a fail.Instructions unclear. Swiped right. Threw girl into traffic. | /r/seduction | 02/03/16 08:45 AM |
| 10 | ~2 years in. 12 more things I wish I knew.Good write up. Lots of helpful insights. | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 06:23 AM |
| 1 | How do you remove neediness from your life?I'll take that one step further and say everything should be in the context of being more social. Why just learn a language from a computer? Look up a French Pop Dance Night, take a walk through Chinatown and jump into random stores, eat Ethiopian food. A lot of full-time English learning schools (google it) have activity nights and the students would love a native speaker to practice with. Local colleges have clubs for just about every ethnic groups. Go out, mingle, expand your mind, meet peopl… | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Girls avoid meYou also don't meet girls by sitting alone in your room. The underlying message is to get out. If you can be in a setting where you're doing something you're good at, then it only helps. | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 05:10 PM |
| 1 | What's the best first text after giving someone your number?It's not black and white, you have to read the situation. Age, location, personality, job... all factors in which route I take. Generally I prefer a text the night I meet someone "Nice to meet you, this is ______. [insert some reference to conversation]" then follow up with a phone call the next afternoon to arrange a first date. | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 07:56 AM |
| 3 | Don't text her, CALL her.It changes with the times, the girl, and the situation. I remember a period where there was an insistence on getting numbers with pen & paper instead of typing it into a phone to look "classy". Well classy becomes outdated and confusing. If you meet a girl at night, you don't want to call her late or wake her up in the morning. I find the best success happens when I text something short like "nice to meet you tonight" + some reference to our conversation right after a #-close, then call her the … | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 08:25 PM |
| 8 | Field Report: Challenge given by a Redditor to open with a ridiculous line. Challenge accepted.PROPS. Great FR. | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 08:13 AM |
| 3 | 45 YO (M) Give you my perspective on "the game" and seduction.Link to books | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 12:07 AM |
| 2 | So I don't want to approach girls anymore...I don't think those assumptions are bad things in a person's life. It's not they're asking you to have a six pack of abs or a six-figure income. Just the basics. You really shouldn't be trying to enter into a relationship which adds additional drains in time and finances unless you have your shit together. It ties back to confidence which for many guys, is tied to their self-worth. With that said, I don't see why an unemployed guy can't go to a house party, act like a boss, and f-close a girl ba… | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 10:05 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Doesn't it make me sound like a bitch who's on call anytime she wants? | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 08:32 AM |
| 2 | What are some good excuses to get a girl back to your place?Thanks man. I don't know what the down votes are about either. Unless she's super young, she probably knows what's up when you ask her to come back for a drink so I think it's a great way to cut through the bullshit. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 04:05 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)An HB9 I met a few weeks ago is a student and lives a busy student life. She'll shoot me down when I ask her on a date, but she'll counter "I can't tomorrow, how about tonight?". During exams last week, I don't get counters, but I got a text after midnight tonight asking to get brunch the next day. This makes it hard to be alpha when she's dictating our dates. Any advice? | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 10:11 AM |
| -1 | What are some good excuses to get a girl back to your place?Let's go back to my place for a drink/smoke. If you want to be more subtle, "I make great mojitos, let's go drink at my place." | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 10:02 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Any advice on girls who come from a conservative culture? I met a foreign exchange HB9, took her out on a date, kino'd, tried to k-close and got turned down. Apparently in her culture, there needs to be an official bf-gf relationship before there can be touching. I was also told that guys have taken it as a sign of disinterest and they shouldn't. Respect her culture and approach more slowly? Disregard her rules? Time to move on? | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 09:41 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I was a transfer student in college so there was a period where I knew a lot of girls who were a bit younger. The magic spot is the hotel lounge. They don't ID at the door and they're more laid back about checking ID as long as your girl doesn't look like she's in high school. I'm not talking about your avg Hilton, but a trendy boutique hotel. I live in a big city and there's a few downtown with a hip, club-like atmosphere. Some even bring in a DJ to spin, with lights and the whole deal. Another… | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Update- first date with gameboy/ FR from a girlWhen I get voicemail, I always hang up without leaving a message. I like having the ball in my court and a message puts the control in her hands to call back. Is there an advantage with leaving a message that I'm missing? | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Why solo travel can and will help you!But bedbugs. | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 11:50 PM |
| 5 | [FR] report from the other side- girl meeting a PUAWhat did he ask in the five lies game? | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 12:30 AM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Co-workers, classmates, neighbors... good idea or bad idea when you see or can see someone regularly? | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 09:07 PM |
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