rockybhaisince1951 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-21	AS LWMA's, how do we respond to posts like this one? it is true though, engineering is hella biased against women. i have done engineering and the level of respect i have for the women in the field is a lot, they're just better on average best thing we can do is learn from them and give them more opportunities	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/05/24 01:05 AM
-51	I wonder where the Skittles Analogy originates... oh I think that the fascist rhetoric where it subscribes this analogy to any race or particular subsection of people is wrong, but it is fair play for men. It's like punching up vs down. The normal public doesn't love ceo's because a lot of them are narcissistic, a lot of people fear men because of the threat they impose due to their physical and patriarchal presence. A lot of the statistics beyond that on which group of people are dangerous is mostly due to lack of privilege or income, which is wh…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/05/24 03:57 AM
-28	Man Bear Megathread i thought they are predisposed to be more violent and aggressive though? maybe we should just make men accept that and move to healthier avenues like how so many women accept that they might be outpowered by men, hence their anxiety	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/24 03:01 AM
-36	Man Bear Megathread i mean, right now these things might hurt men's feelings but they are a response to women who have been hurt a thousand times worse in much more harmful ways, and hence, their response might not be the textbook definition of effective. i just don't see how this at worst is something people cannot brush off when compared to actual issues	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/24 02:37 AM
-23	Man Bear Megathread men should also be scared of men, no denying that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/24 01:59 AM
-55	Man Bear Megathread the greater point is the fear women live with, and having to risk their lives because of men. instead of making this about men, this should be a learning moment to know about the kind of world women live in, which we will never understand as men, but the least we can do is empathize with their issues. Just go out and see the kind of men women encounter everyday by simply existing. No one is saying you are worse then a bear. it's just that the fact that we have to ask questions and dig deeper int…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/24 01:51 AM
7	Which societal preferences are evolving faster? the ideal male body literally went from looking mildly athletic to dehydrating yourself while you're on steroids within the span of a few decades I see more and more men getting into fitness everywhere, and the expectations of what is considered a 'good' body has changed a lot. Obviously, we don't face anywhere near the amount of scrutiny women do when it comes to our bodies, and it is not necessarily a negative thing, I'm just saying that the difference is huge on what is a smoking hot body. No…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 12:18 AM
2	Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month. idk my girlfriend goes out of her way to do kind things to me and I go outta the way to do kind things for her, even upfront just because you didnt snag someone by doing things upfront doesn't mean it doesn't work for different people	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 06:44 PM
–	It is no longer feasible for most men to "improve themselves" and "build the life they want" in order to attract to women. the dating market has become so ruthless it requires complete dedication/gamification to compete. Just touch grass mate I'm a loser and I still have a girl who loves me	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 01:56 AM
–	Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumption he just said that women can approach guys they potentially find cute if they want to	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 01:18 AM
3	Are men genuinely worse potential partners these days? If every man was successful, would these problems still persist due to hypergamy? great points, thanks a lot >A lot of people seek the combination of a lover, friend and partner and it can be hard to find in one person. More men than women are okay with compromising one or two things, but for women it makes less sense so fewer of them are willing to compromise. I feel like because men didn't have close enough partners to share their feelings with anyways (i am fortunate enough to have phenomenal best friends but I know this is the current census on men), the lack of it hits w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 03:40 AM
0	Can we all agree that positive moral attributes such as kindness, sweetness, patience, and selflessness are not sexually attractive attributes for men? yuh and when I started my ngo back at the beginning of college I was the talk of the town and many many women suddenly became very attracted to me so I cannot relate Idk man I think the people worth liking like me back when I'm good things	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 05:44 AM
4	Can we all agree that positive moral attributes such as kindness, sweetness, patience, and selflessness are not sexually attractive attributes for men? my girlfriend is a nice, sweet, patient and morally strong individual who loves me for being those things too. We have a happy relationship. I find her hot. I am happy. Why not just find people who are sorted in life and push you to become the best person possible? I would rather be single then deal with someone exhausting enough to find the worst in me appealing, life is too short to be a bad person	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 05:09 AM
16	Men who consider themselves ugly: Have you have luck with unattractive women? yea she independently reached out to all 5 of her fuck buddies at one point in time but all 5 of them rejected her or said they weren't into long term shit but then ironically dated the next attractive woman they fucked. Shit is just sad man. I have ugly guy friends too , and I was ugly at one point too, but tbh pity or desperate fucks from attractive people don't seem good to me either. I love my companionship. I get that men might have it harder but just because someone has access to sex doesn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 05:06 AM
23	Men who consider themselves ugly: Have you have luck with unattractive women? this is true, I know a woman who is 190 lbs at 5 feet and she has a good 5-10 guys with abs simping for her in her dms. She considered me below her league when I didn't have a buff body and friendzoned me back then by saying this (which I did not mind or care about because I have always seen her as a friend). but that said, she does get treated terribly by them which makes her angry at men in general. I think ultimately it is not much different from the treatment ugly guys get minus the sex. you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 04:54 AM
3	Why are women so blunt with rejecting shorter guys but with average guys there nicer about it? probably because they think shorter guys don't hold as much of a physical power imbalance? If a dude the size of dwayne johnson approaches me, I would feel saying I am not interested would give me way more anxiety then danny devito approaching me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/23 05:50 AM
17	Studies saying women are "happier single" than men are extremely misleading >Mental health issues can be solved by going to a therapist, which most men refuse to do because it's 'gay' or something. dude it is like 80 dollars a session with my healthcare plan stop acting like therapy is like ordering a drink from a vending machine also, the difference isn't that big, men attend 65% of the therapy sessions They also cannot be 'solved', they can be treated but they are still there. also no need to bring all the responsibility on men, the vast majority of therapists are wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 11:09 PM
5	Are women choosing to be single because it's easier? obviously, never denied that	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 04:03 AM
2	Are women choosing to be single because it's easier? I don't agree but thank you for your time and discussion	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 03:05 AM
1	Are women choosing to be single because it's easier? For sure! Thanks a lot for your time	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 02:55 AM
37	Are women choosing to be single because it's easier? women aren't a monolith, you might want something that simple but my girlfriend, my best woman friends and my sister all have rejected 100-200 guys for every single acceptance on dating apps and and rejected 10-20 of my high achieving friends because of extremely superficial reasons (wearing bracelet, having knuckle hair, no female sibling, giving the ick in some ways etc. ) I think you have to realize that not every guy is going to find a partner just because they tick basic factors like washin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 02:23 AM
2	Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standards Yes but tbh either gender isn't perfect and they deal with shit. People are flawed and that's fine in the grand scheme of things. For example my girlfriend hates wearing clothes again which had lead to a ridiculous amount of clothes because she thinks her female friend group is extremely judgmental about shit like that. This cycle will repeat Men get shit from men, men get shit from women, women get shit from men and women get shit from women. Such is life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 12:31 AM
2	cmv, people who don't sleep around and rack up ncounts are missing out. I can't change YOUR view because those things are important to YOU, I am completely fine with being a one woman man and love my life the way it is. Both are completely fine ways to live for everyone. There are so many ways to live life and utilize your youth. Some people think working hard and pulling all nighters is utilizing their youth, others thing getting drunk every other day when you have the capacity to is utilizing their youth, for some, freedom to travel is utilizing their youth. Some …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 06:56 AM
8	One of the best ways to test a man as a women is to get fat in a relationship dear God how can I have a conversation with men and women on here seriously knowing that some of them post and upvote this shit You suddenly gain weight because you have stuff going on in your life, a partner knows that it's ups and downs and many good men are fine with that but if your reason for gaining weight is so disingenuous and fake then anyone's going to think of it as a dirty tactic. Tests WILL happen on their own, life is harsh, job security, bills, insurance, death, isolation, stress …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 08:11 AM
21	Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girls imo it's not a gender thing but often when an average looking person gets in a relationship with an attractive person they suddenly think all attractive people are in their range. My guy friend somehow landed a smoking hot yoga instructor and he fucked it up by breaking up with her because he thought he could do better	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 08:05 AM
3	A recent experience with the gender empathy gap and its potential for unseen impact hey man thanks a lot will check it out	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/11/22 06:22 AM
58	A recent experience with the gender empathy gap and its potential for unseen impact Yeah it gets rough, I grew up with two sisters, one slightly older and another slightly younger. Each and every single time something happened my parents would always check up on my sisters for hours and bring them all sorts of sweets and toys to make sure they're ok. Then my mom would ask me if I did my best to protect them and if I was strong and I would earnestly say yes, my dad would hi-five me and that was pretty much it. Same thing in all aspects of life, I remember my sister used to get h…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/11/22 01:24 AM
2	Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ? I see, I'm very sorry, I am weaker at comprehension, thank you for your time	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 06:17 PM
2	Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ? Yeah I definitely don't deny that men don't support other men who do shady shit. I just do not have that company in my life right now, I did for a brief period when I was in a frat but I left it within 5 weeks, all of my closest friends have always stood up for the right thing which I admire but even they have the tendency to go full "work harder, get abs, hit the gym, be more successful than the guy she cheated on you with" and that just isn't healthy. I think millennials doing gentle parenting…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 06:12 PM
8	Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ? no worries mate, you do you	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 05:49 PM
5	Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ? a lot of that comes under emotional abuse, I'm not the person who commented it, but why cannot we see the larger point of the conversation instead of nitpicking 1-2 words and trying to have a comeback?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 05:40 PM
5	Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ? that's what I'm saying though, I think a lot of male friends do this rational thing where they see both sides when the dude is clearly down bad after a breakup or they are hellbent on giving their own advice. Women are so much better at having the learned skill to know how to pick up the vibes of their friends and act accordingly. Guy friends love to 'keep it real' and be an ass when it is not necessary and give tough love even when it is unasked. Not everyone needs to hit the gym	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 05:33 PM
1	Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men? even if a person believes that, seeing virgin/incel/neckbeard/ sexual shaming for lack of experience anytime you go online can't help. Imagine you love dancing and are comfortable with it but you see people making fun of dancers all the time, hard not to get bogged down for most men imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 05:19 PM
16	Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ? I mean, I am not a gender expert, but just from my day to day life, I have found 3 things. Women have a greater support network and we men are behind in this regard and can do better for our fellow brothers. I have seen that even when the woman is clearly in the wrong during the breakup, her friends support the shit out of her in public whereas even if a man is in the right some of my guy friends still tell him he shouldn't call her hateful terms etc. and are awfully rational. Sometimes that is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 05:16 PM
6	A man reaches the age of 30 without ever experiencing sex, intimacy, or a romantic relationship (30 year old virgin). What is your initial honest reaction / assumption, can his life be corrected, and what advice would you give? If he's happy, he does not need to be 'corrected' If he is not happy, then the majority of people who are decent and kind would want him to be 'corrected' (I think that's a harsh word) but understandably would not want to be the martyr who gets to correct him. That said, all is honestly well with being that way, and honestly, a lot of sex has to do so much with effort and compatibility, as long as he is giving, it should not be a problem. Men or women are not a monolith, there is definitely some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 06:43 PM