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2	Consequences of Losing Frame while alone Sure. I was in a similar situation as you, and lots of others here, have been in. Loneliness, depression, etc., which while many people spend their waking lives avoiding, I found impossible to shake. I "let go" so to speak and quit trying to fight what I was feeling or thinking. I found that once I removed myself from the feelings and thoughts and let them be, they weren't as overwhelming as I had previously thought. There was some space around them so to speak. I spent a few years watching my t…	/r/askTRP	28/10/17 08:25 PM
4	Consequences of Losing Frame while alone Your happiness is under the sole possession of yourself. This is something that comes as an understanding or realization, not something that is forced. I guess you could try and brainwash yourself into believing it, but that sounds tedious and pointless when you could use self reflection to reach an understanding naturally. Absolutely feel your emotions, like sadness, but observe them and where they are coming from. Trace them back to the patterns of thinking which caused them. Observe and watch…	/r/askTRP	28/10/17 04:19 PM
1	Did i push her to this, or was it her slutty fault? You made yourself look weak by throwing so many insults. If you've established a solid frame full of content, present moment, masculine energy, and you ride a wave of subtle joy in your day to day living, why would you allow the actions of some attention seeking girl to disturb that? By name calling you're sending messages that you aren't established in a solid frame, which will plague every relationship. AWALT, and next time when you're in a situation like this, demote, give less attention, and…	/r/askTRP	28/10/17 02:25 PM
1	Just did the most beta thing imaginable. How to recover and never do it again? You need to align your actions with your feelings. Your actions in and of themselves aren't the issue. There wouldn't be an issue with you helping him, if on the inside you had forgiven him and not given two shits about the past because everything's cool gravy for you now in the present. The reason you feel bad is because you hate this guy but your actions were not in alignment with your feelings. It's a matter of acting in alignment with your thoughts and feelings. All of it needs to line up an…	/r/askTRP	26/09/17 12:07 AM

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