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I want to believe that, but it is hard when you never have any woman who is interested in you.
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:20 PM
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Thanks for the kind words. The thing is though that she wasn't the first one to say that.
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:54 PM
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I would rather not go and approach 100 random strange women, thanks.
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:44 AM
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Im sure I could have said north korea and your response would be the same. I live in a big city in germany and never see this creepy stuff happening, so it can't be as good as the video is trying to show it.
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:42 AM
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About herself, yes I did listen and asked further questions, made some comments and related to it. I don't have many stories to tell anyway.
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:40 AM
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Germany
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:59 PM
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Like I said that doesn't happen here and I don't want to be the creepy guy who want to get anything from strangers who aren't even interested in that.
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:48 PM
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Because I don't jump for the opportunity to be the creepy guy who approaches strangers who have no interest in speaking to me? Yep, I guess so.
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:39 PM
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Will it give me anything if I talk to a random women on the street? No, they don't even want to talk to strangers there, let alone date one from the street. So I wouldn't get anything from that.
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:17 PM
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Yeah and I was asking for advice on online dating since I can't meet new women elsewhere. So you knew what I asked for and ignored it to tell me something I can't do and then give me shit for it.
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:04 PM
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So thats what I get when I ask for advice here?
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:43 PM
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Yeah, I know I am lost, thats why I resorted to online dating in the first place and I asked for advice on that and not on meeting women elsewhere. I did join an organisation, it didn't get me a girlfriend, but I didn't join for that purpose so thats okay. I don't want to joing anything else unless I am actually interested in the topic its about, so far there is nothing. Talking to random women doesn't get me anything either, so why should I even put up with it?
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:38 PM
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I don't know how it is where you live, but here Strangers don't really talk with each other on the street or when they are running their errands and they are not looking for a boyfriend then either. I thought you meant actual social situations.
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:23 PM
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And where exactly? I am never in a situation where it is appropriate to talk to a strange women and where I actually would get something out of it.
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:18 PM
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No I don't have them. There are almost no women in my classes, work or at my hobbies. The ones that are there are either bot interested or even completely out of my league. On top of that I am not a party or drinking person, so I don't have that opportunity either. There was only online dating left and even that didn't work for me. How do you expect your confidence to be when you never meet a women who wants to be with you? I on't have "game" I want a woman who likes me and not some act I play j…
/r/seduction15/11/16 08:58 PM
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a numbers game Thats the whole problem I described, I don't jave the numbers. Out of all those women only one seemed interested and ultimately, she wasn't interested either. That one ebcpunter was all I had, the next one will probably not happen in a long time or even ever. Online dating is the only thing that I have left though, since I don't have opportunities to meet women in the real world. How do I not take that personally? I mean we went on a date to see if we like each other. I liked her …
/r/seduction15/11/16 08:35 PM
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I really believe you are just guessing here. I wonder how do you look? Not guessing. I look good. There are women athletes and women gym rats. Maybe I am in luck and there is one that also keeps up with me. The few guys I trained with were only talking and holding me back, to a point were we spent over 2 hours at the gym for a 1,5 hour workout. I don't drink at all. I go to parties mostly as the designated driver. This actually is a great way to meet people and get out. It also can save you a lo…
/r/seduction17/10/16 01:43 PM
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Male centered simply means that there are way more males than females. Yeah very few and the ones that do know me aren't interested in me. Like I said, the introverted boring loner isn't a huge hit with women. You do not have to do all of your hobbies alone. If there was a women who is into weightlifting and would want to do it at the same frequency with the same routine as me then I really wouldn't have to do it alone, right. A lot of people have disabilities. I have known guys with epilepsy, d…
/r/seduction17/10/16 12:27 PM
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Like I said you miss a lot of opportunities. Really? With a study field and work that are both male centered, hobbies that are done alone and a disability to enjoy parties or drinking? Where exactly am I missing opportunities.. The one question I really would like to know is what do you think of what you think of women. Is this a typo? I don't understand what you mean. I would also like to know what you think of women? They are just usual people, just when it comes to dating they can have their …
/r/seduction17/10/16 11:07 AM
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How would you accomplish that if you only go to one party every few months? Like I said I don't get a lot of opportunities so I want to use this one.
/r/seduction17/10/16 10:12 AM
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Cool.
/r/seduction17/10/16 06:20 AM
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You want to take a girl home on the night that you meet her and you think you aren't a womanizer. Lmao. I doubt you have a plan where if she gets pregnant you will marry her and help raise the child. You have too many negative thoughts that don't add up. Right, I am not that and don't obviously don't want to get a woman pregnant. But this is one of the few chances I will get to meet one, so I want to make the best of it. I think you have some self esteem problems. You might want to work on self …
/r/seduction17/10/16 06:19 AM
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If you would like to live as you do now (games, reading etc) in 10 years, go on! Yeah I like those things, anything wrong with that? Well I got lucky before, despite not enjoying the party. So there is that. From previous parties I know that it is more than likely that I won't have fun at the next one either. Thinking different won't change my preferences.
/r/seduction16/10/16 11:41 PM
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Yeah the women there are strangers, but they go there to be social, to dance with others and to talk to others. A random woman on the street or in a store is just there to get a task done, not to talk to me. I have some skills woth them, of course I am no womanizer or PUA but I know how to behave at a party and got it to work previously. I might as well tell you to give up now. So should I just say Im sick and not go? Because the answers so far seem to suggest that.
/r/seduction16/10/16 10:05 PM
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I don't have reasons to talk to strangers. Why doesn't it have to be appropriate, I would prefer to not molest people.
/r/seduction16/10/16 09:23 PM
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Pregaming? I guess I could try it with some acquaintances when I see them. Don't know about strangers, I don't think I will be in a situation where it is acceptable to approach a woman, before the party happens.
/r/seduction16/10/16 07:05 PM
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Ugh, I don't want to bother random strangers. I thought you meant directly before the party starts.
/r/seduction16/10/16 06:43 PM
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Thanks but I don't think I will have "the time of my life" or even fun there.
/r/seduction16/10/16 06:42 PM
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I guess I have to hope to get extremely lucky then. Thanks though.
/r/seduction16/10/16 06:40 PM
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I am not outgoing or social.
/r/seduction16/10/16 05:09 PM
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I don't have a high social status, but it doesn't have to be often. I don't get many opportunities so a few times is enough.
/r/seduction16/10/16 04:57 PM
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I don't really care about becoming more social. Yes I like video games and books more than clubs. I would still rather not waste this "forced" opportunity, because we both know that guys like me don't get them often.
/r/seduction16/10/16 04:22 PM
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It is at a club and we will most lilely be there when its already full, so there is no opportunity before the party.
/r/seduction16/10/16 04:13 PM
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I tried changing the communication, but in the end uninteresting things remain uninteresting. I also said that I don't care about a new hobby and that there aren't really any more women I could ask out and that was met with resistane and was pretty much unacceptable for him.
/r/seduction16/09/16 12:20 AM
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You really think so? The majority was more like: "You are garbage for being that way."
/r/seduction16/09/16 12:05 AM
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Thank you but I already said in my OP that I am not willing to change those things about me.
/r/seduction15/09/16 10:47 PM
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I am working out 6 times a week, there is no adding up to it.
/r/seduction15/09/16 10:25 PM
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I am happy with weightlifting and don't want to switch to a different sport that doesn't interest me. I can still join a book club when I get attracted to women in their fifties and something about chatting up strangers without any context is very creepy. Yes there are women there and I just got rejections from the ones I asked out. There aren't any others there that I am interested in or that would be in my league anymore. I don't want everyone there to know how desperate I am so I won't ask an…
/r/seduction15/09/16 09:44 PM
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Weightlifting/Bodybuilding, reading, tv series and coffee brewing. It doesn't really count as a hobby but I am also passionate about junior enterprises, I lead one in my city.
/r/seduction15/09/16 05:54 PM
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I am going to have to rely on my luck then. I love my lifestyle and don't think any woman is worth quitting what I love.
/r/seduction15/09/16 12:04 PM
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They arent sausage fest hobbies, they are solo hobbies. No, I don't want to sacrifice who I am and what I like just to meet a woman who wouldn't like me for who I am. Why is that so bad?
/r/seduction15/09/16 11:50 AM
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Well, where have you looked for them? At work, in my university classes and my junior enterprise. The only places where I would meet them. Although due to my area of study, there are only very few in my classes. Also, the only place "out of your league" exists is in your head. Go talk to them. No, a woman who goes clubbing and patying every weekend, had previous boyfriends with the same lifestyle and a ton of friends is out of my league and wouldn't be attracted to someone like me. No I haven't …
/r/seduction15/09/16 11:33 AM
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I don't know where I would find different women, in fact right now I hove either been rejected by all the women I know, or I am not attracted to them, or they are just out of my league. I also don't want to do something I don't enjoy just to make a woman like me. I guess I have to ressort to not talking about myself and hoping that they don't ask about me.
/r/seduction15/09/16 11:16 AM
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The problem is that whenever I talked about my interests, they didn't care about any of that. Its not that they didn't share that interest, they were completely disinterested. What I do and what I like seems to be completely different than what a woman does and likes.
/r/seduction15/09/16 10:43 AM
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I dont know, I just saw how every response got downvoted.
/r/seduction15/09/16 09:15 AM
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Because I am a guy like that.
/r/seduction15/09/16 09:14 AM
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I said That I have hobbies and passions, they just don't involve women. They are also don't include gaming all day and earing shit, but thanks for the assumption. I do what I love, but those things aren't very interesting to women. I don't want to give up on that just to have someone like me for the act I put up.
/r/seduction15/09/16 09:14 AM
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Good, although someone doesn't seem to like my answers:D
/r/seduction14/09/16 11:43 PM
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I got myself together, I know who I am.
/r/seduction14/09/16 09:08 PM
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That would be nice. All I can do is wait, though and I don't want to get my hopes up to high.
/r/seduction14/09/16 09:04 PM
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I rarely talk about myself and I don't have any cool stories that I could tell. Of course your second verson of "I play games" sounds better than the first one, but just expanding on something thats not interesting won't suddenly make it interesting. I may be good enough to get a girlfriend, but sadly the women never saw it that way.
/r/seduction14/09/16 08:29 PM
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What if you really don't care about the minor things and you are just glad they invited you because it rarely happens?( I am not even talking about women here, that never happens)
/r/seduction18/08/16 07:01 PM
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wich is basically everyone.
/r/seduction31/07/16 08:44 PM
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I am part of a students organisation and it is basically like "Good to talk and work with you but otherwise please leave me alone."
/r/seduction31/07/16 01:09 PM
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learn what?
/r/seduction30/07/16 02:48 PM
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I really tried to go for the women who weren't party peaple either, but I still wasn't good enough for them.
/r/seduction30/07/16 05:48 AM
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I don't want to fake being someone else. I hate going out to bars/clubs, why should I fake enjoying it? Sounds like a good way to get very unhappy.
/r/seduction30/07/16 05:45 AM
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I don't think I am self limiting or that I am making assumptions, all of the things I listed were from my actual experiences with women. But i try to answer you. You should be asking out all of the women that you want to date, not just the ones you think you can date (whatever that means). I asked out all of the women I knew and wanted to date. Of course I didn't ask the ones who I would never have a chance with, for example the ones who have different believes, a totally different lifestyle tha…
/r/seduction29/07/16 08:37 PM
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I am from germany too, bit I cant say that I witnessed the same things you did. No one approaches people and I don't get approached either. People simply seem to keep to their own social circles especially when it comes to dating. I never saw anyone approach a stranger for something else than directions. So I doubt that I would get much out of that, especially when I cant even get the women I know interested in me.
/r/seduction21/07/16 10:19 AM
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Its more who I am that is unattractive to them than what I do.
/r/seduction21/07/16 07:38 AM
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No, I am saying that I asked all women who I know and could be interested in me. I am not a fan of random approaches, or throwing shot at the wall and see what sticks. Despite that, people here keep to themselfes and definetly aren't open to some random guy approaching them.
/r/seduction21/07/16 07:37 AM
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Okay exposure, but aside from that it won't bring me anything and this discussion has wandered pretty far from what I was originally asking. Goodbye.
/r/seduction18/07/16 06:49 AM
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What progress? There is none. The only progress I would get is a lesson in how to be the weird guy that hits on random strangers.
/r/seduction18/07/16 06:38 AM
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So it is here. Why would you expect someone me to get away with it when others who have way more success with women don't get it?
/r/seduction18/07/16 05:04 AM
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What does that have to do with anxiety or you being swedish? People here aren't necessary more introverted than in Sweden but they reduce their interactions with strangers to places where it is apptopriate. Approaching some rando in the street will only male me seem weird and if course get rejected, because they have better stuff to do than to chat with a stranger and so should I. Cold approaches may work in sweden but no one here does them and they would certainly not work for someone who doesn…
/r/seduction17/07/16 09:58 PM
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What would I get from a cold approach like that? Here people get together either through their social circle or through parties or clubs. They didn't meet in the grocery store or at the bus stop. We basically don't speak to strangers if we aren't in a setting where it is acceptable. So a cold approach like that would at best be weird. If there would be any chance of success, other people who have more going for them than me would do it to. But no one here does. I don't want to stand out in socie…
/r/seduction17/07/16 08:58 PM
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People here keep to themselfes. If someone starts talking to a senior at the bus stop it is at best weird. If that person goes to a random girl and tries something it won't be better. No one git his girlfriend from a cold approach.
/r/seduction17/07/16 07:20 PM
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