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| 1 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?Critical thinking isn't your strong suit is it? Let me try again, before I have to break out the crayons: If women weren't giving it up so easily, there wouldn't be a hook-up culture. If someone is standing on the street giving out $100 bills, NSA; people are gonna be lined up to get it. Money locked up in a vault and protected, doesn't have a line outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?99.9% of men that are having sex, are only doing so because she's allowing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?So you're saying that men are forcing ALL these strong, independent women into bed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 11:42 PM |
| -1 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?Was there anything in my statement that stated all men were getting laid? Are you okay? Do you need someone to read and explain the words for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 11:22 PM |
| 0 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?I'm not bitching. I'm just stating a fact. Women are who keep this hook up culture alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?I'm not bitching. I'm just stating a fact. Women are who keep this hook up culture alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?We wouldn't have the hook up culture if it weren't for women. Who decides when sex is going to happen? Hint: It's not guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 11:20 PM |
| -2 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?If everything vaguely female-shaped with a pulse, wasn't spreading for every dude who bought them a beer, we wouldn't have this dreaded hook up culture. If I see everyone going in the same door to a building, I'm going to figure I'll be let in as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?I find the ease in which someone generalizes an entire gender, as a bad thing. The rest is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on women who are loyal, selective (eg: low body count) contribute to their relationships and make them worthwhile for their partners, but want to be child free?I'd say she's perfect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 12:18 PM |
| 11 | do you agree with chat gpt on bodycount?Wait...aren't women the ones actually allowing sex to happen? This hook-up culture lies at the feet of women. The same women who complain about men only wanting sex, and then offer it up on a silver platter, because they have nothing else to offer. Who exactly, are the hypocrites? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.Any of it. Just pull him up on YouTube. He's just real and blunt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.I think the whole Red, Blue, Black, Purple pill thing is played out and just plain stupid. Nobody fits into one category, and shouldn't try placing themselves or anyone else into a little slot, for no other reason than to pass judgement. It's along the same lines as politics. Simple tribalism where one ideology judges another because they don't think alike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 05:36 PM |
| 3 | I keep seeing " I want a traditional woman like the 1950s" when they were economic slaves. Women were dependent on the men financially, couldnt unilaterally divorce until Reagen no fault divorce,no birth control and average age women married was at 20.Very poor take, this "economic slave" trope. A large majority of those women married in the 30s, 40s, and 50s, stayed married long after divorce became en vogue, and we started seeing the rise in feminism, that eventually produced this "why aren't there any good men?" culture. Those women were taken care of. Every need met. There were of course outliers, and women who were abused, just as there are today. If anything, the abuse has become worse, and women have a lot harder time now, than they di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:24 AM |
| 32 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.I don't think it's about finding any one person to whom you should listen, and it definitely shouldn't be based on who feminists and women, in general, find acceptable. Kevin Samuels, Corey Wayne, and others have a lot of great talking points and wisdom to share, mixed in with plenty that some may not agree with. Even Tate, for all his fucked up rambling, has had his moments where you have to ask: "Where's the lie?" But you have to be wise enough yourself, to pick the gold out of the silt. It's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 09:50 AM |
| 4 | "Men are allowed to have preferences, just don't be rude about it" Is A LieYour choice to make idiotic comments knowing you couldn't back them up - is at the top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 10:27 PM |
| 3 | "Men are allowed to have preferences, just don't be rude about it" Is A LieThere's no legit reason to prefer a rich guy when you're not motivated to earn that money yourself. There's no reason to seek out intelligence when you barely finished high school There's no reason to want a tall guy when you're short as hell. There's no reason to want a handsome guy, when you wear wigs, eyelashes, makeup, fake nails, high heels, and push-up bras. There's no reason to want a fit guy, when you haven't seen a gym in 10 years, and you're 10 pounds or more overweight. Shall I go on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 10:20 PM |
| 0 | Men, does a woman's educational background or career success boost her attractiveness?Nope. Her money means nothing to me, and education doesn't equate to intelligence. It just means she studied for a place in her chosen industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Do you think there's anything wrong with men to filtering out promiscuous women for serious relationships? If so, why?Why would it be wrong? You don't like promiscuous women. Nothing wrong with that. I don't like overweight, ugly, or dumb women. Nothing wrong with that either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Can someone rationalise men wanting virgins but not being willing to wait for sexYou're over or under thinking. I'm not quite sure which. They were telling her that being a virgin will cut down her pool of interested men who will wait. You have a warped sense of who men are and what we want. Those fellas don't speak for all men, just as those club rats on there, aren't an accurate representation of all women. So it's not MEN wanting virgins, yet being unwilling to wait. It's SOME men simply unwilling to wait, and could care less about the body count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:14 PM |
| 15 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?I don't worry about those groups, because they're just female circle jerks. I date quite a bit, and I make no promises or commitments to anyone while casually dating. If someone wants to call me out for not putting all of my energy into them before they've shown themselves worthy of it - I'm fine with that. It's a clear indication that they're full of toxicity and drama, and have effectively taken out the trash for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?I wasn't trolling. Do not jump to conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 09:20 PM |
| -2 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?Because our bodies are utilitarian, like a Jeep. Women are Lamborghinis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else?Choosing? They're volunteering. Stop acting like they're victims. What false narrative? That women only want the 6/6/6 as a minimum, and don't want to bring anything to the table but busted up snatch and some other dudes kids? That's not false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 09:03 PM |
| 5 | What do you think of this advice for how to be in the top 5% of men?Considering that 75% of men in America couldn't pass a military PT test, I'd say you're right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:50 PM |
| 3 | The Open Secret: Passport ChixThe problem is that these white saviors think that every culture must think as they do, and that's just not the case. Not by a long shot. It's not uncommon in Thailand for a "farang" husband to a Thai wife, to take in a "nurse" that they BOTH agree on, because the wives are no longer interested in sex. Its not uncommon for a farang husband to have unsolicited permission to have a girlfriend outside of the marriage, either. Different cultures altogether. Source: I've been going back and forth to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:15 PM |
| 0 | The Open Secret: Passport ChixDo you have any receipts against them? No? Okay then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever met a man that you felt was "too nice"?Too nice, means "predictable and safe". There's no dopamine rush because they know exactly what to expect at any given moment. Those are 2nd or 3rd marriage guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 07:44 PM |
| 12 | Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else?You've got 10 women who are self-proclaimed strong, intelligent, and independent, against 3 dudes in this group. I don't think the guys were embarrassing them. They just gave them an open forum in which to embarrass themselves if they wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineNot spelling, little one. My thumb missed a letter. I didn't get simple words confused, like a 5 year old. You seriously believe a man wouldn’t leave a women if she lost her job, and sat about all day drinking and smoking while they both went into debt? Where did I say anything about day drinking and smoking? You really are delusional, aren't you? If a woman loses her job, but puts her efforts into keeping the home and children; the man isn't going to leave. If a man does the same - she will eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 02:09 PM |
| 0 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineRelationships are not transactional, that’s just red pill shite It's reality. I don't buy into the red pill "shite". If a man stops working, he’ll likely get dumped as everybody has to work including women, nobody bankrolls you, you’ve got to pay your way If a woman loses her job, or gets sick and can't work - the man isn't going to leave her. Most stand up to their responsibilities. A man could have a simple cut in pay that forces a reduction in luxuries, and she'll be gone. Too many studies an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineRelationships ARE transactional. That's where you're confused. If a man loses his ability to provide, the woman leaves 8 out of 10 times. Whether it's through illness, or loss of his job - she's the one who leaves. If you get with someone it should be because you enjoy their company and they generally make your life a bit nicer, not because they can do X and Y for you Men operate this way on an emotional level. We don't care what a woman does for work, or how much she makes. Women only operate t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 01:30 PM |
| 6 | Q4Men: How do you feel about taking male birth control?Jesus Christ, it was a simple yes or no question. WTF is this incessant rattling? You're trying your best to start an argument where none is needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: How do you feel about taking male birth control?I got snipped years ago, and I refuse to go without a condom. If there's still any question, I keep Plan B on hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineWho said I assumed anything? Who said anything about "need"? It wasn't me. Are you okay? The fact is that if/when a romantic relationship progresses for an extended, the future starts coming into play. Men have a natural instinct to feel an obligation to care for, provide for, and protect their partner(s). Women have a natural instinct to look for someone who can provide and protect. While that doesn't mean they NEED anyone, it still doesn't negate the fact that they'll expect a certain level of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineThat's not ego. Ego is your personal identity and the boosting of such. I don't place the importance my personal identity on who I date or spend time with. How I feel about myself isn't reliant on a partner. Children do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineJesus, where the hell did OP say any of that? Am I missing paragraphs? That being said, I'll reply. If I don't want a woman who's been run through, or I don't want to date a single mom, or I prefer to date someone with much fewer sexual partners than others; it has nothing to do with ego. It has to do with preference. I'm not draining .y ego by raising another man's child. I'm draining my bank account. If I want someone who hasn't had 50 sexual partners, it's not an ego thing; it's a pair bondin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fine"...they are dating decisions on they are ego,..." Does that look right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Q4a How sexually demanding are you in relationships?I wouldn't consider it demanding, but I do have expectations. If it gets to the point that I have to wonder if it's going to be a yes or no when I initiate - I'll leave the relationship. If it becomes an easier endeavor to go get it somewhere else - I'll leave the relationship. I won't be in a sexless relationship for any longer than it takes me to help them pack. I've done that, and it's a miserable existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 02:12 PM |
| 4 | Passport IreSo any man going to Thailand, the Philippines, or other SE Asian countries, is going to exploit children? Is this what you're claiming? I go every year for 2 or 3 weeks, to Pattaya, Thailand. Why? Because I fell in love with the place during my enlistment in the USMC, and my best friend is married to a Thai woman and lives there. Plus for an extra 16 hours of flying, I can go there for 3 weeks on less than it would cost in Hawaii for a 4-day weekend. Same climate, nicer people, and better cultur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Saying you 'shouldn't do X' to improve your dating life because 'chad doesn't have to do X', is like saying you shouldn't take a higher paying job because billionaires exist.Thing is gaining wealth is a more streamlined process than basically changing your whole personality What OP is describing is about more random just gaining wealth. You do have to change your personality and learn how to navigate a completely different dynamic and caliber of people. In that respect, the training never really stops. I have been a Sr. Commercial Construction Superintendent for 20+ years. It's the position I've always wanted, and I love what I do. I build high rises, mega-churches,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.So the answer is NO. That's all you had to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.Do you these statisticians get every case in every city, then, municipality, county, and state? Why does something so simple need to be explained to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Why do they say men are logical and women are emotional? What does it really mean?But logic is based on emotion You wrote that as if you actually believe it. That's worrisome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal implyAgain, how many CEOs do you know? I can't imagine they're a constant avenue of contact for a social worker. So, you're really just guessing, and not even an educated guess at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal implyI never said that they didn't. You just picked an industry that doesn't pay shit. That was easily verifiable before you chose your major. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 11:11 PM |
| -1 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.I bet you think every single one is reported, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal implyHave you been a corporate executive? I have, and its no picnic, and knowing other CEs, I can tell you that it's the same everywhere. I stepped down and got back into the field because although I've always been a workhorse - those 60-80 hr weeks at a desk, in meetings, negotiations, and everything else, completely burned me out. Add to that the stress of cutthroat underlings attempting at every turn, to cut you off at the knees in order to take your place; you reach a point of considering the un-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 09:14 PM |
| -1 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.I know of 3 personally that went to jail for just being late during covid. That's not a localized event. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 06:22 PM |
| 0 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.No, women get a unique choice because they are uniquely burdened and endangered by pregnancy. Cool, then men get a unique choice because it's their bank accounts and future earnings that are uniquely burdened and endangered by pregnancy and for the next 18 years. Equality. Edit: All of you arguing my point, aren't doing a very good job, if you're going to block before receiving a rebuttal. It's clear that you don't believe your own bullshit. Women are never held responsible for financial support… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.Both should have the same choice during the same time frame, on whether or not they want to be a parent. Period. Remember this equality everyone screams about? This is part of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 05:56 PM |
| -2 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.the child's mother is still liable to pay some money to the child Try putting that theory into action. Women rarely go to jail for defaulting on CS. Men will in a heartbeat. It's a huge double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: are you intrinsically grossed out by chronically single men?Has that not been established? Do you need someone to explain the big words? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:45 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: are you intrinsically grossed out by chronically single men?So, if someone was married in their 20s, but stayed single for 30 years; that's not chronic? Do the words hurt you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:20 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: are you intrinsically grossed out by chronically single men?Right? My wife was such an asshole for dying and forcing me to be single, wasting all that time raising our kids, finishing my education, concentrating on producing high-functioning adults, and finally just being able to look toward dating, just before turning 50. Major red flag! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?I think I said it pretty succinctly. I refuse to get drawn into an argument where you're clearly going to twist things to fit some weak narrative. Bottom line, a normal request for respect, affection, softness, being agreeable, and being feminine, shouldn't be met with hostility and called "controlling AF". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?It's controlling for a man to tell a woman what they need to be happy, but not controlling when a woman expresses her needs? Make that make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 11:32 AM |
| 2 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?This was me in my 30s. There were always 4-6 floating around, and I never made it a secret. "Does it matter? I'm with you right now" was all the answer I would give when asked how many other women I was seeing. If they decided to leave, I just said "well that's disappointing", and called another one. They want what everyone else wants. Purses, cars, shoes, clothes, and men. It's all about the dopamine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 11:39 PM |
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