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1

Ummm…just reply with a thumbs up emoji??
/r/seduction10/10/22 12:10 PM
1

Just tell her how amazing they feel. Or how about an enthusiastic “oh wow!!” When you first get to touch them?
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:25 AM
5

The whole story = YTA.
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:46 PM
4

Reiterate your boundaries and make sure you stick to them. If he insisted on keeping the relationship conversation alive, then you may have to move on (unless you actually change your mind). You seem quite clear about where you are in life. He wants what you don’t, so it would be ill advised to maintain something that could result in you being either the “bad person” or sucked into a relationship when you know you aren’t ready.
/r/seduction12/07/22 12:07 PM
13

3 weeks and you thinks she’s a hoe? Seriously? Also, rethink you use of the word hoe.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:21 AM
1

Nope. It’s refreshing and sexy AF!
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:23 PM
1

AllBoobsMatter
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:17 AM
1

All of the above
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:24 PM
3

Not in my experience
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:23 PM
2

At a quiz night with a group of mutual friends
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:23 PM
4

Nope
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:25 PM
32

I would definitely avoid medical students/doctors. They are very self involved and self centred (a long experience in this so heed my warning)
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:57 AM
18

I’ve been with two women I’d consider a 10/10 (both over an extended period of time). One was very average in bed, was a poser and expected to be entertained. The other 10? An absolute rocket. The best sex ever? Has been with two women who are above average in looks but absolute dynamite in the bedroom (and elsewhere). Not sure that helps, but that’s my experience.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:56 AM
2

Give her your number, don’t ask for hers. This will make her more comfortable as you know why she looks like, her first name and where she works. If she hasn’t messaged in a few days, next time on drive through just mention you were hoping to hear from her but it’s ok that you haven’t. Compliment her, maybe there will be a brief conversation, and move on.
/r/seduction21/05/22 08:49 PM
1

She’s not a minor.
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:14 AM
5

She’s 19. You are 28. You are both adults. Are you having fun? Is she? If yes, great. Is there any physical, emotional or financial coercion? If no, excellent. Don’t overthink it. Take it for what it is; two humans who have found each other for a time, have a connection and enjoy it.
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:05 AM
3

Mate, it’s not a high school movie scene. You want a romcom? Go watch the NoteBook.
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:07 PM
2

I was once involved with a woman who genuinely called me beautiful in our conversations. It is the only time in my life I’ve actually felt someone mean it.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:44 AM
37

Don’t marry a doctor. That pay check ain’t worth the pain of suffering their career, their work friends or the incessant dinners/BBQs talking endlessly about medicine/work. There is No. Other. Topic. Of. Conversation at these get togethers.
/r/seduction15/05/22 11:46 PM
53

Next time a woman does that to you, mid-meal excuse yourself to go to the toilet, walk out and don’t look back. Leave her to foot the bill. You’re better than that mate.
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:18 AM
-1

Don’t push it. Go max 22yo if you think you can get away with it. But yeah, see how far it goes and report back 💪🏽
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:49 AM
1

Jenga
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:05 AM
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If its legal where you are, go hire a prostitute. Your desperation and goal orientation here is going to repel 99.9% of girls.
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:29 AM
2

Have you googled “good opening tinder lines”?
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:30 PM
5

ALL OF THIS!! I’d also add 1) with your hair try to play with it (may come naturally anyway with the right guy) 2) make sure you have a nice perfume (not cheap) that’s easy to smell. Drives us insane!!
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:27 AM
2

Nope.I’m married!!!
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:47 PM
2

Completely normal for the start of this part of a fellas sexual life. Lasting longer and knowing how to use your body to pleasure another takes time, practice, alot of communication and respect for each other. Have fun and don’t over think it mate 💪🏽
/r/seduction23/04/22 08:10 AM
7

Being nice is only the first, most important step. Your issue isn’t being nice, it’s thy you don’t drop hints through your conversation or take her cues when she does (this is called flirting). You need to learn how to switch from “nice” conversation to flirty conversation so she knows you are looking for more than just a nice conversation. Google/YouTube how to flirt but avoid the whole “treat em mean” style approaches. It’s 2022 and Women are sick of that.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:58 PM
76

Last 12 months three men have been banned at my gym for constantly hitting on woman. It’s generally frowned upon. But if you have to, strike up a short casual convo ONLY. That’s it. If she wants to go further great, but DO NOT push the issue.
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:56 AM
3

If the condom was too tight or felt too tight then that will do it as it affects sensation and blood flow in the penis. Beginners mistake. Virtually every major study will show that condom use DOES NOT affect quality of orgasm for men. It didn’t for me when starting out. You need to go buy a few different brands and try them on for comfort. And don’t be afraid of buying the ultra thin ones. They are just as safe as regulars. Best of luck mate 💪🏽
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:50 AM
7

Maybe she just wanted some company and not sex?? Does every FWB interaction HAVE to involve sex? Sounds like a pretty relaxing and chilled day to me. No sex? Ok, but you both had each other’s company for a time.
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:14 PM
8

Mid-next morning. A check in, you had fun, hope they had fun, would be great to do it again.
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:49 AM
5

Consent is a BIG thing for men these days. No one wants to be labelled a predator/sexual assault perpetrator. So yeah, I can understand why he would want that. You need to clearly explain what your boundaries are, what you consent to in advance and under what circumstances and IMPORTANTLY also tell him if the boundaries of consent change for you. Be clear and honest in this so he knows when he can and cannot initiate any form of intimacy, even kissing. Even you post “how do I get him to just gra…
/r/seduction04/04/22 08:30 AM
6

This guy couldn’t do any worse in the fashion department. He needs external advice from a non-interested third party.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:57 AM
-14

If you honestly think they’re doing it on purpose, Make a witty and suggestive comment and see where it goes. She shows you more cleavage, have a look and when she catches you say “oops, sorry, your eyes are up here!” And then wink/smile at her.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:43 AM
5

Also, those who say you need to lose weight, that’s one opinion. I see plenty of moderately overweight men with girlfriends. Only lose weight if you need to/want to. If you don’t, you will limit your options, but you need to be happy in your body. Confidence is attractive and my other suggestions will be a good start.
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:58 AM
4

Trim the beard. A stylish cut. Go to a barber for this. Go to the best clothing store you can find and get a sales person to help you select the best quality wardrobe you can (top to bottom) minimum 3x outfits including good shoes Get a hair cut Buy nice mens cologne/perfume/deodorant/aftershave Trim your nails regularly and ensure your feet/shoes don’t smell Shoulders back Smile.
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:56 AM
2

He’s more interested in someone more regularly? He’s stressed with casual hook ups? GREAT!!! Let him know how last time was for You. Tell him what he did that you really liked and maybe what more you’d like to explore “with someone”. Let him know your up for something more regular as you also are looking for the same things as him, but also not a relationship. Communication is key. If he then keeps holding back, respect the boundary and do the friend thing and see what happens. But at least you’…
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:16 AM
1

Oh well. There’s plenty of advice out there then. But you seem like the sort of person who needs their hand held. If your priority is sex, with your attitude and personality you’ll get nowhere. Just try being a human being first and connect with woman as humans, not as someone to just have sex with.
/r/seduction26/03/22 10:13 PM
0

If sex and losing your V is the #1 priority, go see a prostitute (if legal in your area). When setting it up let them know it’s your first time and hopefully they’ll be a kind enough person to understand that dynamic.
/r/seduction26/03/22 10:03 PM
1

No they aren’t. They are looking for a connection, some fun. Yeah, attraction is also key, but mate, your attitude here is way off. You need to be you but with some humanity, and common decency. You are really overthinking the whole thing. Women want men who are respectful, and treat them as humans first. Everything else is just game play that modern women see through
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:42 AM
1

Sounds to me like you are going for the wrong women.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:28 AM
1

As someone who knows A LOT of doctors, It helps if you have a personality, GSOH, and respect. If you are just an outright AH and the woman has zero self-worth, you aren’t going to have much luck mate. Ps. I know A LOT of single make/female doctors who can’t meet people/form relationships because they lack in one or more of these areas. Money only goes so far for those with self respect.
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:41 AM
1

Mate, ask her about her routine. If she’s doing an exercise that you want to do, ask her what it is, what it’s targeting, how she finds it, would she recommend it for a bloke. That’s the one thing you have in common and go from there.
/r/seduction24/03/22 11:02 AM
83

By all accounts I’m a very good looking male. Confidence, attitude, respect, adaptability good grooming, humour and a brain all go a long way to being attractive. I’m not a very confident person and quite reserved/shy and generally tended to wait for very specific opportunities. Otherwise most of my dating success has relied on the women approaching ME. Fewer success stories, but hey, quality over quantity…
/r/seduction24/03/22 06:37 AM
7

You comment on how beautiful they are, and how sexy she is. You thank her for sending the picture. Take a handsome selfie with a MASSIVE grin on your face with a caption along the lines of “my reaction”. DO NOT send a dick pic. Do try to set up a drink/coffee/meet after some more flirting. Only send a risky photo if she asks for more than a confident selfie.
/r/seduction20/03/22 02:07 AM
5

Q: why do you have to have the same interests? You need to talk with people about their interests. Question why they like it, ask about it, get them to explain it. Why? Because YOU showing an interest in THIER interests will lead to a greater chance of connection.
/r/seduction19/03/22 10:05 PM
1

Hey there. I’ll let you in on a big secret: we (most men) are pretty simple on this issue. If you want to approach a guy and get his attention, walk up with your wing girl and introduce yourself. Simply start a conversation and let it roll from there. The fact YOU have introduced yourself is all the hint he needs to put 2:2 together (if he can’t, run). Start the conversation and work it from there (funny, flirty etc…) but don’t over think it. You don’t have to be the funny one, just show your in…
/r/seduction16/03/22 07:22 PM
1

That may be the case, but it’s how it made OP feel that’s important.
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:12 AM
324

Mate. I’m not sure if this was planned or not, but losing your virginity should be a great experience, not one filled with mockery. You told her you were a V and she mocked you. She’s a MASSIVE AH for doing this and has zero empathy or consideration for mens feelings, only her own selfishness. It sucks that she mocked you but what you need to do is Take some time to process the hell out of this experience and realise your own self worth, be a bit more discerning in who you choose as a sexual par…
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:39 PM
4

You said school, not college. You didn’t give ages just an age gap.
/r/seduction14/03/22 11:06 AM
-5

Do not have sex with your teacher. You’ll ruin her career, she will go to jail, she will never be able to teach again being on the paedo registry for life, and you’ll never escape the fact you were partly responsible for it.
/r/seduction14/03/22 10:57 AM
1

No.
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:30 PM
2

Can you hold a conversation with someone you are interested in? Quiet/alluring is one thing, but when trying to gauge interest/attraction conversation is important. So if you are approached, you are interested and the persons trying to engage in conversation to get to know you, try to open up just a bit. Otherwise yeah, too hard to read, to much “work” and they’ll go for “another drink/to the toilet/have to take a message” and will move on. That being said, do not settle for any AH that comes yo…
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:49 PM
1

Quit tinder. You’re on the wrong app. Try Bumble or E Harmony!
/r/seduction12/03/22 09:20 AM
2

Also, well done on making positive changes in life. It’s hard but worth it.
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:11 PM
1

Next time an old school “friend” says something, squint, look at them up and down and ask “do I know you? Did we go to school together?” They”ll then have to explain themselves in relation to your own life. Might make them fee irrelevant in the process too!
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:10 PM
1

Mate. I feel this thread big time. The best course of action is to let her know you are new to sex. Not in casual convo, but as things are getting heated, and she is letting you take things toward intimacy, you do need to stop and let her know. This single act of vulnerability is incredibly powerful for your first sexual partner, and it will go one of three ways. 1) she will completely understand, you’ll have a conversation about how to proceed, she will lead the way and you’ll have an awesome f…
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:06 AM
27

Have you considered that the questioning may in fact come across as an interrogation to someone women, and that she’s just not that into you?
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:08 PM
23

Yeah ONS or FWB can be a lot of fun. But the best sex is with a long term partner with whom you have great communication with regarding sex/intimacy. Sooo much better/satisfying than ONS.
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:19 AM
0

Mate have you tried Ebay? Because your attitude stinks so best to go purchase some lube and a doll because until you start acting like a human toward other humans, that’s all you are going to get.
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:57 PM
1

Not me. I have self respect, they don’t.
/r/seduction05/03/22 10:19 PM
3

Yep. Happened to me. Now married for 21 years in a sexless going nowhere marriage.
/r/seduction05/03/22 09:44 AM
-3

Call her on the phone. Her work number should be on her email. Otherwise make sure that email is as smooth AF or you’ll never work at that place…ever!!
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:19 AM
4

“I find you really attractive/beautiful”. Keeps it broad and not just limited to looks. If she asks you can then compliment 1-2 things about her appearance. One should be unique to her. Can also compliment her “energy”. “You have amazing energy” but be sure to know what to say regarding this as a follow up.
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:31 AM
1

“I got”….mate they aren’t pokemons. They are women, human beings. Start practicing conversations and relationships without the expectation of sex and go from there.
/r/seduction27/02/22 08:55 AM
1

DM her. “ hey this is xoxoxo from that party a while back. Had a great time getting to know you and wanted to know if you’d like to hang out/grab a coffee/dinner next week?”
/r/seduction27/02/22 08:51 AM
2

You have what is called “limerance”. Go read about it here. If you need to go see a therapist to help you. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence
/r/seduction27/02/22 01:45 AM
1

Mate, be happy for her. I know it sucks that you were “rejected”, but that’s just her saying she’s not interested in you and you should look elsewhere. Be kind you yourself and her. We are all just a bunch of humans floating around on a big rock. We all want happiness and a good life. If that’s not with you, be glad she found someone she can do that with, and work toward the day you can do the same.
/r/seduction27/02/22 01:43 AM
7

Mate, seems like you have some solid boundaries. Wish I did when I was your age.
/r/seduction24/02/22 07:17 AM
5

Dude, you need to respect her boundaries, real or made up and move on. She’s either not interested, has a boyfriend or just wants a night out with her friends and to be left in peace. Respect mate.
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:33 PM
3

Late to this. I really hope you wore something with a bit of cleavage and some nice perfume, Sat next to him and leaned in during the previews to whisper something to him. Id also react positively to some sneaky glances during the movie if I were him. Hope it works out 🤞🏼
/r/seduction23/02/22 12:59 AM
2

The second approach will work better from what you have written. Please let us know how it goes!!
/r/seduction22/02/22 08:51 PM
24

Yep Oder guys have more experience and confidence. It helps that he’s attractive AND a senior person in the company.
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:20 PM
5

If your goal is to get laid, my advice is to go see a prostitute (the same one) a few times to get some experience. They will be far more understanding of your situation than a random woman also looking to get laid, she can help you figure out some of the basics, and you’ll have the release of pressure from no longer being a virgin. If you are looking for a relationship, then you date until a suitable and understanding woman comes along who understands and wants to explore sex with you. Good luc…
/r/seduction21/02/22 08:51 PM
1

High quality men ALWAYS make an effort, in every way. That’s why we are high quality.
/r/seduction21/02/22 08:45 AM
6

Mate I used a seriously undercooked and in hind sight atrocious pickup line on my wife of 21 years. We still laugh about it. My point? If your just into it for a hook up, then walk away. If you are pursuing for a relationship, then recover by admitting it was bad and corny. “Wow thy was really bad hey? Sorry for blowing my first impression, can I try this again?” Honesty is the best policy in this case.
/r/seduction21/02/22 08:10 AM
2

It’s important for most of us as humans, not just as guys. Sex is amazing, but also has amazing health benefits, physically and mentally. It’s a core part of well-being for us all, not just men.
/r/seduction17/02/22 09:11 PM
4

NGL: that’s worse than 90% of those you are critical of. You could probably learn a thing or two in this thread.
/r/seduction17/02/22 09:07 PM
18

If she does this again, motion for her to take off the earbuds and ask her which settings she is using on her workout. Then if she’s interested she won’t put them back in and will want to talk a bit further. If shes not, she will want to put them back in and get back to her workout.
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:58 PM
1

So, buck up mate. What’s your smoothest line?
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:04 AM
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