rojapildora Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	Lessons Learned by Roja	rojapildora	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/10/15 05:15 PM
12	Stoics and Frame Control, OI, Manliness virtues (Courage, integrity, Wisdom and Self control)	rojapildora	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/09/15 03:12 PM
5	BJJ tryout, does it gets better?	rojapildora	/r/askMRP	26/04/16 05:41 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	One year progress report Sounds like a sunk cost fallacy. No kids 50/50 split, no alimony.... a settlement with a mediator, shake hands and enjoy the rest of your life. You had me at no kids. She can be your friend with benefits without holding you down. You are almost 50, are you going to wait to 65-70 to realize and cut your losses and experience interactions with passionate sexual woman with a burning desire to jump your bones? Put yourself a time limit and goals, if not responsive to your full satisfaction, sayonara…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/04/18 01:28 PM
1	"Convinced" into marriage at 23; now don't know what to do... (story & questions) You are completely right, edited now, thanks for the correction. Sentiment or not if she never gave it up before getting commitment and no even pity, starfish ever since what is the hope... no even the bluest of minds would call this a marriage but a business arrangement between roommates	/r/askMRP	22/04/18 03:34 PM
5	"Convinced" into marriage at 23; now don't know what to do... (story & questions) She is not your wife (marriage was never consummated ) this is the mother of all friendzones. As the upvoted comment said you got played for the Visa. There is not amount of lifting or reading that is going straight a ship that never sailed, avoid the sunken cost fallacy, cut your losses, lawyer up yesterday! before she sniffs that you would leave and her frigidity miraculously resolves just long enough to extract a child. Or remain celibate while basking in the warm glow of her annihilating sex…	/r/askMRP	22/04/18 12:02 PM
1	I'm a obese, shy male. Need some help. OP, combine Keto plus fitness pal or lose it app (for calories limit and macros)... It’s Losing weight with cheating codes on, 80lb weight loss and not regained for 5 year plus. First week is rough because keto flu and sugar withdrawals after that smooth sailing.	/r/askTRP	04/04/18 08:10 PM
2	LTR cold after ovulation You are knees deep in her frame. What do you want? Obviously you are not okay with it or would not be posting, right? It doesn’t get any better, she is not attracted to you, is your SMV higher?; hit the 12 levels of dread and evaluate response. If too much work and your investment hasn’t been that high, take the Loss and move on.	/r/askMRP	21/03/18 10:29 AM
2	BJJ tryout, does it gets better? Appreciate your answer, I went to second day, asked questions, relaxed and breathed just trying to go with the flow, learned a lot and looking forward to road ahead	/r/askMRP	29/04/16 11:13 AM
1	BJJ tryout, does it gets better? Nice, this indeed answers the questions. There was a method in the madness, what I gather from your post is that eventually months down the road I start to get it and making progress. Now to let go of the outcome and to enjoy the process and the suck.	/r/askMRP	27/04/16 10:55 AM
1	BJJ tryout, does it gets better? appreciate your extended answer, quite helpful indeed changes the frame of winning- losing to just absorb the fundamentals	/r/askMRP	27/04/16 10:37 AM
1	BJJ tryout, does it gets better? Nice, downloading as I type, thanks for the tip.	/r/askMRP	26/04/16 06:47 PM
1	BJJ tryout, does it gets better? Good Idea, next time I will ask the partners to give me some tips before in basics and then after finishing to give me tips in the post mortem of how I failed, thanks for response !	/r/askMRP	26/04/16 06:41 PM
2	BJJ tryout, does it gets better? That is the point, I do not know how BJJ practice is suppose to work. I realize I will have my ass kick for the longest and not hoping to submit anyone anytime soon. I can take the beating like Rocky if it means that I am getting better and learning; Just wondering if this is the M.O. and how classes usually are. Practice in my understanding is rehearsing a skill that has been demonstrated to you and proving the point that some one with a skill (BJJ high belt) can easily outskill some one withou…	/r/askMRP	26/04/16 06:40 PM
1	Any experience with ignoring valentine's day? Luckily for me wife is not into society mandated consumerism token gift, I give nothing and receive nothing, works pretty good if you ask me. V day is like big wedding, mostly for the girls ego and benefit, I can care less about it. If you have the habit of making a deal out that day then it will stand as a sore thumb because in her entitlement she deserve a valentine even if she has not been deserving.	/r/askMRP	12/02/16 10:09 PM
1	TRP nutrition guide, calories are not the same This is the eternal discussion of good calories vs bad calories is like the matrix, cannot be explained, you have to experience it to understand it; I understand the theory behind calories are calories but personally low carbohydrate regimen works for given easier to keep compliance longer, less restrictive, appetite is controlled, than calories restriction. as MD I apply Law 38; I recommend what the literature and accepted advice is: calorie restriction and low fat when in reality I practice lo…	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/12/15 08:28 PM
1	Stoicism Week 2015 Great! thanks for the link.	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/10/15 12:14 AM
1	Stoics and Frame Control, OI, Manliness virtues (Courage, integrity, Wisdom and Self control) That comes from Irvine's book "A guide to the good life" he expands Epictetus dichotomy of control to a trichotomy adding situations where we have some but not complete control. He puts the example of wife's love; An external goal is her to love you, instead my goal should be the best man to the best of my abilities (internal goal) therefore your emotional state is not affected by the outcome of your internal goal. I think Irvine has a point that there are multiple situations in which you have s…	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/09/15 10:14 PM